My friend married a very toxic human yesterday. I mentioned pre- marital counseling & even offered to pay for them for 3 sessions but she did not take me up on the offer. They did not even do the counseling at her church. Why are ppl so averse to therapy? Engaged couples do not even sit with each other to communicate what their expectations & standards for a wife or husband is. Then they are surprised when they are disappointed that the person they married are nowhere near their expectations. I wish more churches will not marry you until you have counseling. Maybe then we will have less divorces & more christ centre marriages.

@coolzcoolzy1826

Жыл бұрын

Because churches are bias and will always blame BW when the marriage breaks down!

Good to have you back Cassie! 🌻 Thank you for sharing with us. So, In Nigeria where I'm from and currently reside, whenever anyone travells by road to a new state, there is usually a welcome signboard saying "Welcome to Abuja" but of all 36 states, Lagos is the only state that has a welcome sign that says "This is Lagos" and that is because if you can make it here, go through the stress and all, you can make it in anywhere in the world. and I think your story is similar to Lagos. I would like to suggest a new name for your chanel - "This Is Cassie" because it embodies everything you currently overcame and willing to share Cheers!

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww love this!!!! Thank you for being a part of my journey ❤️

What about 'Cass unlocked'

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Oooo I loveee this ❤️

@chikondin

Жыл бұрын

Love iiiiittt

@juliamyron7347

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@ChiChi-vl9ww

Жыл бұрын

Yesss🙌🏾

@golden.queennn

Жыл бұрын

🎉

So excited you’re back. I’ve always loved how real and transparent you are. Looking forward to going on this journey with you, and learning and growing myself along the way ❤❤

Glad to have you back Cassie! I love your honesty and transparency. So few people share the ‘real deal’ of what happens in life so that when you go through it, you feel alone. Thank you for sharing. I can identify on so many levels: separation, grief, depression, reinventing oneself, changing as an adult. Anyway I look forward to journeying with you!

I just subscribed. So sorry to hear about all that you went through, God's got you, continue to trust Him and he will be your guide and guard. I found your channel this morning and just before I found you, I was pondering on whether to get therapy for childhood trauma as I was orphaned really young, early marriage, maltreatment, separation etc. Now I know what to do. Thank you for sharing.

This was so honest and raw and vulnerable. Thank you so much for sharing and providing honesty regarding your marriage. May God bless you x

I like to remember that healing isn't linear, and I appreciate the honesty and bravery you put into making this video. sending all the blessings your way 🙏🏽

Thank you so much for being honest, vulnerable and transparent you did not need to share all of this with us. As someone who has ADHD and dyspraxia and got my official ADHD diagnosis in the last year at 30 years old I totally relate to everything you are saying. RSD (rejection sensitive dysphoria) as part of ADHD is often not talked about enough, we as people with ADHD are often more sensitive to criticism or feelings of rejections cause through our lives with our ADHD we are more likely to experienced criticism I think I read something like 12 times as much then people without ADHD. We tend to be people pleaser more and because of that fear of rejection and our sensitivities it can become a self fulfilling prophecy. I can imagine then being with someone who is neurodivergent but who had many different characteristics and I am sure also trying to learn about himself it must of been hard balancing different personalities and emotions. Think it’s so important in any relationship to continue to learn about ourselves like you were saying I know I am constantly growing and evolving. I am so grateful for my recent ADHD a diagnosis cause it’s helped me learnt so much about my brain and myself. I would recommend in any relationship/marriage not only doing counselling together but also separately taking the time to learn yourself and why you do the things you do and where they come from. Look forward to more of your videos.

When `I grow up I wanna be like Cass, Strong, Brave and Resilient. You are so amazing, thank you for sharing your story. Listening to you gives me hope and courage to keep pushing and fighting through my toughest fight thus far ❣

I don’t know how I found your video, it showed up on my feed and checked it out. I’m sorry for what you went through. But your so strong for overcoming so much. I wish you all the best ❤️

You were so so missed!! Thanks for the transparency!

I needed to hear this. God bless you. Life has its ups and down and you’re living proof that you can come out the other side and look/be/feel amazing! ❤

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww thank you ❤️❤️

Not sure why you ended up in my algorithm but appreciate your transparency. Marriage certainly isn’t easy and complicated but with mental health struggles and traumas. Blessings to you.

Saw this on Insta and had to run here! Love you Cass. Such an inspiration. 😘🥰😍

Lovely to see you again. Thank you for sharing and being humble, open and transparent. 👑❤️

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww thank you hopefully my openness can help others appreciate you following me on my new journey ❤️🙏🏾

Lovely to see you back on here! Sending you love & light 🙏🏾 God bless you.

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️

I watched that interview and was so strengthened. Was going through the same. Just got divorced and grateful yt suggested this vid to me. New subbie here 🙋🏽‍♀️.

Aww welcome back Cas, we’ve always got an ear for you.. life will do what it does but it’s our responsibility to keep fighting another day. Proud of you and I’m here for LifeOfCas!

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Aww thank you I appreciate you and it really is our responsibility to keep fighting ❤️ thank you 🙏🏾

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾So brave, love the reminder to yourself to remember the positive language re you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Well done!!!

omg cass!! i love you so much and im so so proud of ya!!!

I can't even tell you how happy I am to see you back on KZread. As always thank you for your vulnerability, it's something I have always loved and appreciated about you. I can only begin to imagine what you've been feeling, I too feel like God has had me in a space of having to look at myself, take accountability aswell get to no me. When you experience traumatic times it becomes easy to identify as them, but Sis that is not who God called you to be. None of us are perfect, we will fail and fall several times over, all that matters is you get back up. Always praying for you Cass. Love and blessings 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww appreciate this message so much we are not what we have been through and we will fall but is always ready to pick us back up sending so much love your way!

sooo encouraged by your come back! we have been supporting you from the very start and we will continue to do so. So many people have gone through and are still going through similar battles and your content can really really help support many people!

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww thank you this makes me very happy, I really appreciate the support and so glad you will be supporting me even on this new journey! I hope some things I’ve learnt along the way can help others

Cassandra it is sooo8 good to see you, May God continue to Strengthen you and hope you have a healthy, healing from the situation, I watched you both all the time back in the day and loved your wedding video,and your daily vlog, good luck on this new adventure. 💜❤🖤👍🙏 peace and blessings

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 😊 hopefully you can follow me on this new journey sending love always ❤️

😮 so sorry to hear this and you’re right when trauma is not dealt with the right way.. I was following your channel wish you both total healing as yous move forward.

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much and yes trauma can really do a lot of damage but I’m so grateful for this time to heal and grow ❤️

OMG!!! My fellow Cass! You’ve been missed!😊 Thank you for returning to share your journey with us so far. Thank you for also committing to still have us with you throughout your growth journey! You’re a force to be reckoned with and God is on your side! 🙌🏾🙏🏾 So far, I like “Cass’ Castle” and “Cass’ Capsule” P.S. You look stunning! 😍 and I cut my hair like yours 4 years ago 😂🙈 Guess it’s a Cass thing 💇🏾‍♀️💁🏾‍♀️

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Hey Cass ❤️ Aww I appreciate you defo twinning thank you for following me on this journey ❤️💕

Thank you for having the strength and courage to speak. I pray you gain strength to minister again because your singing videos always kept me going. You are so strong & pray things continue to work out despite all the hurdles you have endured.

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you I appreciate you so much ❤️🙏🏾 l definitely will sing again that is such an outlet for me! I’m trusting God in this next season x

OMG Beautiful 🤎🤎 So happy to see and hear from you !!!

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww thank you so happy to be back finally…. 😩❤️

Sending you lots of love and light… you’ve have got this… God’s got you 💓

Welcome back, darling! We missed you 🤎 I'm glad you're in a better space now. Love to your fam!

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Appreciate you thank you and thank you for being apart of my new journey! ❤️

Cassie you look glowing and beautiful now I'm gonna get my tea and watch.... missed you guuurl!!!

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww missed you all so much grateful to be back. !

Greetings Maame… I’m seeing you first time on my fyp so happy to see you Precious💎 God bless you and family stay strong🥰🙏🏽 Love from London🇬🇧

Thanks for sharing this and showing your truth. God bless and help with full and complete healing. Praying for you.

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much I appreciate you ❤️

Sorry for all you went through. Thank you for sharing. This one really hit home with me so thank you.

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Sending love ❤️

So glad your back!! ❤

Love to see you back on KZread. Please feel free to post anything that you want. One thing I would always rate about this channel was the fact that the videos were always unique and genuine. So Yere post whatever you want. If you could talk about questions to ask during the dating phase that would be great. I think the point about trying to be perfect that you made is something I’m trying to consciously not do but I can’t lie it’s hard not to want everything to be perfect when you are a perfectionist. However, I’m learning to just do what I can, be genuine and just be free Because I know God sees my heart and my intentions even if the result doesn’t pan out how I want

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you I definitely will talk about some things I think you should ask during dating. I think with being a perfectionist God always needs something to work with and constant trying to be perfect takes away from allowing God to be God we can strive for it but in life we won’t always get it right and that’s ok!

I really like her, so down to earth and relatable . I cannot wait to see you flourish in your new chapter babez:)

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Aww thank you babe sending you love ❤️

This was a beautiful video Cassie, honestly and ADHD is severely under diagnosed in black women/girls. A lot spend years “managing” until it hits a point and it’s overwhelming.

So glad you’re back Cas❤ can’t wait for your content

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww thank you I missed you guys this is so encouraging I can’t wait to create ❤️😊

Cassie Cassie Cassieeeeee....... what a beautiful soul u r. Thank you so much for ur transperancy and trusting us with ur story. It can only get better from here girl. God's got you. 😘😘😘😘😘

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

It can only get better from here!

Your honestly such a light 🙏🏾

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

I appreciate you thank you ❤️

You were good for each other, keep fighting and get back together

Love your hair btw! Thanks for sharing your story . Your so brave , glad to see you Back

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you it’s definitely growing on me fresh start! So glad to be back missed you all ❤️

Thank you for this sis, May God make this easier for you. New subscriber 🙋‍♀️

Cass you were on my mind the other day...so glad I see you today...

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww that’s lovely ❤️ so happy to be back sending love

A Queen and more 😍 The hair suits you.May God keep giving you strength Sis🤗🤗

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Appreciate you fellow Queen sending love ❤️

You seem so kind and sincere, wishing you guidance!

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww I appreciate you I really hope my truth can help others thank you so much for being a part of my journey ❤️

So nice to see you back. I'm sorry you had to experience all of this stress and heartache. Don't watch my picture my son thinks it's funny to keep changing it (he's an aries) I've given up. But back to the point so happy to see you back. Love your hair you look beautiful and I wish you nothing but the best ❤️💕

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Haha 😂 this is so funny sending your son love kids are the best 💕 I appreciate you and so glad to have you on this new journey with me ❤️

May God continue to heal you and hold your hand daily 🙏🏾 Thank you for your transparency 💗

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏾

This was so beautiful Cass, i’m so happy to have bumped into you today & very excited for this new KZread chapter 🙏🏾🤍👏🏾

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww your such a sweet heart with such a beautiful vibe sending you so much love ❤️ I’m excited too ❤️ can’t wait to watch the video you did ❤️

I missed you...welcome back. You look so beautiful. Am proud of your growth and will be supporting uon ur new journey. You spoke facts with the mental health...thank u for speaking ur truth. ❤️❤️❤️

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww appreciate you thank you for following me on this new journey ❤️

@sweetangeleunice4262

Жыл бұрын

@@Cassieamelier always welcome sis ❤️

We missed you Kassandra I was asking myself because I saw your wedding when it went viral then you all went disappeared, it’s good to see you again I pray you and your family are well Sorry about what you have been going through, may the good lord continue to bless and protect you and your family 🙏🙏🙏🙏from your old subscriber 🥰🥰🥰

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww thank you Grace thank you for being apart of my new journey sending love always ❤️🙏🏾

This was such a lovely video such a postive vibe and I look forward to watching more of your videos

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww appreciate it thank you for following my journey sending love ❤️

Awww I’m so glad to see you back on KZread. I’ve always loved you and Karl’s pursuit to be your best self. Thank you for sharing your truth and your vulnerability. You encourage me to look at myself beneath the surface. P.s you just showing your everyday life/struggles and how to navigate that is so invaluable. Well done for being so brave ❤

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much I appreciate you !

I love you 😍 and please just be strong 💪 you got this

So happy to see you back on here. Must've been so hard to click on the upload button. I salute your courage and honesty. Love you loads sis 😍

Love and appreciate you sis!

Welcome back Cass ❤

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️❤️

Hey!! - Loved this video so much. The updates, the new hair, just everything 🎉 An idea for a name of the segment, something like..”Cass’sCapsule” - where you share parts of your world that you feel comfortable sharing. Motivational Monday could be intertwined somewhere….just suggestions. Thanks again. I defo missed your presence on here but I’m glad you’re back & better. Have a lovely weekend ❤

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww love Cass’sCapsule ❤️ and thanks so much for watching definitely will intertwine Monday motivations sending love ❤️ what day or days for post do you reckon ?

@missjodixxo

Жыл бұрын

@@CassieamelierYou’re most welcome ! Hmmm, maybe a Friday or a Sunday…in preparation for the new week ahead? ❤️

@LanAndMila

Жыл бұрын

Ooohh such a great idea!

I missed you, Thank you for sharing your story

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Aww missed you guys so much happy to be back hope you can be on this new journey with me ❤️

Missed you all. Very good talk.

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you I’m glad to back and hopefully you can be on this new journey with me x

You are to be very proud of yourself for having the strength to make the decision to end a marriage that was not going to meet your long term needs. You are going to be fine, grow and be successful in whatever you choose to do. You are a positive role model for other young black women to know marriage is good but it must be with the right partner not just for being married sake 🙏🏽

Missed you. Praise God!!!!

Wow I’m really sad you broke up with Karl I really loved your wedding video it looked like such good vibes and even your relationship looked like good vibes too. I love your honesty and thanks for being real and showing the reality of life which is ups as well as downs. May God, the ancestors and your mum always guide you and give you strength in life ❤

Just a reminder we love you ! You are so brave and don't ever feel like your judged for any choice you've made or been through ! Even more importantly Jesus loves you and thank you for sharing your life back with us! Certainly missed you ❤

Thank you for sharing your story! very inspiring

First time coming across your video, I just want to say you are beautiful. #KeepYourHeadUP!!!

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Appreciate you thank you, ❤️❤️

Awwwww... we missed you Cass, welcome back. The Lord will be your guide and shield in Jesus name.

Thank you so much for sharing ❤….would love more detail on the Cassandra syndrome/being in a relationship with someone on the spectrum please? Feel like a may have just ended with someone on the spectrum, so many things didn’t add up 😢

Your hair looks fiyah 🔥 you look good girllllll

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much it’s definitely growing on me now! 😊❤️

I am glad that you are back. Sending a hug and all positive vibes. Wishing you the best.

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for all the positive vibes sending them right back! I’m so happy to be back and to get back to doing what I love ❤️ scary but exciting ❤️

Oh dear 🤔 I just came across your channel. We parents in the diaspora really need to start doing more to support our adult children.

Loved this video glad your back🙏🏽❤️ name ideas : ‘Cassie’s Thoughts’, ‘Cassie’s castle’, ‘Cassie’s talks’

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww love these Cassie’s castle I feel like a princess lol love it thank you 😊

@ayamempress1579

Жыл бұрын

I like Cassies Castle... got a nice ring to it for sure

So sorry to hear about your separation. Keep ya head up!

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you appreciate it 😊

Aaawww Cass I'm so sorry 😞 I've been thinking of you both, but just couldn't find you guys on KZread. I'm happy you are healing and some of what you have said I can relate to. I'm proud of you...everyday is a battle for me too but got to do it for the kids. Hang in there sis God will never leave or forsake his own.

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

I’m glad you could relate to some and so true I trust God ❤️

@seasonedsofisticate1901

Жыл бұрын

Me too. I’ve wondered from time to time where they were. So sorry to hear about the separation but I kind of felt that was the case. Cass IHope all is well with both of you and that things will work out however they are supposed to. All the best🙏🏽…

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

@@seasonedsofisticate1901 thank you we are both well and great friends the marriage didn’t work but we continue to love on our son hopefully you can follow me on my new journey 😊

Beautiful lady. GOD'S GOT YOU

This can't have been easy for you cassandra. Can tell you're nervous but you've done amazing. Going through separation is hard but going through it with the whole world looking at you can't have been easy. Either way you look soo amazing and have done amazing. We are all so proud of you. You're also a brilliant mum and all I can say is don't feel the pressures of keeping up face or impressing. Take your time, heal and do what makes you happy. We are so proud of you and you have been gracious through it all. Well done mama x

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you appreciate you! ❤️

Missed u so much..hop everything is good ❤️❤️

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Awww missed you all so much yes I’m in a much better space and hope you can follow me on my new journey x

Wow 🤯 this makes me sad. I found you guys though your wedding video. Watched your journey to motherhood. Then i never heard from you again. Until now ☹️. Praying that Peace and healing be will with you as you enter this new chapter Cassandra. If i may ask, how come all the videos ( before you went your separate ways ) are still up? 🤔

❤❤ love you. You are amazing.

Can’t Lie You Guys Were My Favourite Couple! But God Knows Best… Blessings To You, Karl And Zion. But Separately Keep Your Head Up💯

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you we are still co parenting and Lyan is doing very well thank you 😊

@danieljboateng9338

Жыл бұрын

@@Cassieamelier #Lyan Sorry Ma My Bad. Talk About A Howler 😓🤦🏿‍♂️😄

I relate so much, it gets better!

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

I believe this sending love ❤️

I wish you all the best in this new process. New follower

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for following my journey sending love ❤️

Really enjoyed this, podcast will be a great idea I am a mental health nurse and would def love to be part of it x

We in the Black Community needs to start accessing and promoting the right interventions such as Therapy in a timely manner. Especially we parents of adult children. Our prayers should be backed with works. Even the Bible says so.

LokkedIn LokkedIn LokkedIn ! ! ! I love you because of your shyness and simplicity, I love your innocent smile and the tenderness of your eyes .. I'm not good at English, but I could understand some of what you're saying, because your voice is so beautiful, I like your hairstyle very much, I hope you keep itAlways I wish you health and success, and that you live very happily with the man who deserves, appreciates and protects you. I love you, I love you as a person, a female, a friend and a sister. I apologize for this long comment, and I am honored to subscribe to your channel,

You’re in my prayers🤗

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Appreciate it ❤️

Thank you for sharing such amazing advice God bless you ❤

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Sending love ❤️

Church can be very very erm!! What’s the word! Well just interesting… not relatable!! Some people are not relatable! Life is happening! Lack of empathy and compassion! Do you Sis! Keep growing ❤

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Appreciate you ❤️

Welcome back 🎉 a vid once a week maybe?

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Yes I’m thinking once or twice a week I think that’s possible 😊

Welcome back! God bless you for your vulnerability and transparency. My church, Kingdom Full Tabernacle, is about to start a Marriage & Destiny Fast on Monday and I highly recommend you join. The focus of the fast is not on marriage but on returning to your first love-God-and bringing your life into alignment with His will. The prayer points are truly therapeutic and deliverance from rejection, fear, and many other things occur. Healing and growth take place. I participated in the fast for the first time in 2020, and my life hasn’t been the same. I felt led to share this with you, and I truly pray that you join the fast. God bless you, and may God strengthen you during this new journey.

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Il definitely check it out ❤️🙏🏾

@natashadelille6506

Жыл бұрын

@@Cassieamelier I sent you some posts on IG to make it easier to find

@nyaniels79

Жыл бұрын

Please which city is your church based. Looking for a church to worship at.

@julzm4312

Жыл бұрын

Thank you sis Natasha. God bless you

@SexyBaby887

Жыл бұрын

@@nyaniels79 the church is in Conneticut

Def missed you

Missed you 🌻🇯🇲

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Missed you guys so much ❤️

Love your content Girl, the Lord is your shield 🛡🙏🏿! For a name, what about… Cassandra’s Safe Space?

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Aww love the name and so happy your on this new journey with me ❤️

Hey I’m new! Guess I’ll have to catch up with your previous videos!!! You’ve just popped up on my page !!!! Subscribed ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Aww thanks for following me on my journey sending love and welcome ❤️

Really sorry to hear

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️

So good to see you, you are gorgeous. God's got you every step of the way. Job 23:10

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Amen he truly does sending love ❤️

I followed you because of the other video and this is the first video I'm seeing on your channel. 🤷🏾 We have a similar story except I'm still married (suspected ASD/ADHD). Actually literally about to go to start ADHD screening right now, so I'll be back and watch the rest of this video later. Love & Light 💛✨

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Aww having a diagnosis makes it so much easier to process sending you so much love ❤️

Cassie well done! You've had to walk through A LOT and you're still standing - ideas for YT names ' Cassandra 2.0 , Cassie's World

@Cassieamelier

Жыл бұрын

Ooo Cassie 2.0 let’s go love it 😊 and thank you 🙏🏾 by his grace, thank you for following me on this new Journey!

Woow,well done girl