I could listen to Reuben talk for hours. So much truth and heart.

That 17 minutes went so fast. I was spellbound. I have to admit I didn't get half the jokes... one thing I will take away from this talk is that fathers matter. Beautiful sentiment and so true. A father's love and acceptance is needed. No need for explanation, no need for qualification. Thanks, Reuben, for sharing with us.

@raz6630

Жыл бұрын

This is what happens when the moral fabric of society is neglected and replaced with pseudo-satanic diabolical narcissism and self-worship we have obvious paedophiles and the mentally unwell pandered to and encouraged to the demise of society and themselves.

@mattyd3079

Жыл бұрын

@@raz6630 You sure you replied to the right comment? You have opinions and i respect them. And I don’t necessarily disagree with them either - in the right context. I do understand where you are coming from. In my comment I simply tried to see the positive in what was being said.

@EthanKristopherHartley

Жыл бұрын

​@@mattyd3079 I can't see what Raz said, but maybe I can offer another couple of things to consider. "Matter" is a little imprecise for this sort of conversation. It could mean "have an impact" or "is important/vital" (which is the impression I get from your answer). "A Father's love and acceptance is needed". Is a beautiful sentiment. But in my experience queer folk who have the love and acceptance of blood family remain (sadly) in the minority. My advice to anyone when listening to a coming out story - especially when presented by a talented orator or storyteller - is to listen to the facts. The emotional side is usually one sided or speculation. But it's almost definitely been pruned and shaped to "fit" the story. Listen to the facts. Empathise with the emotion. And thank the person for sharing. But I don't think any queer person would be able to agree that any blood family member matters simply because they share a few chromosomes! 😁 LGBTQIA+ folk have had to fudge the Family definition a little, but it's given us hugely welcoming round of "chosen family" and each & everyone a family for Christmas. ❤️

My Dad did not understand or like that I was Trans. I came out at 19 (1982). Our relationship was never easy. He eventually paid for my SRS because he knew it was the right thing for me even if he could not understand it. Not bad for a WW II Vet who adopted a kid. Coming out stories are always so personal and amazing...and there are far more of them than we realize. Thank you for that.

@raz6630

Жыл бұрын

This is what happens when the moral fabric of society is neglected and replaced with pseudo-satanic diabolical narcissism and self-worship we have obvious paedophiles and the mentally unwell pandered to and encouraged to the demise of society and themselves.

@Ninang363

Жыл бұрын

Actually, for me, this is what happened when I received love and understanding. I show up for work every day and save American lives. Do not lecture me about morals. I got my morals and my ethics in check. Maybe you should learn what compassion and empathy are. From your response though I suspect you are a MAGAt. Cruelty for MAGAts IS the point.

Now there’s an orator. He’s just amazing. ❤

What a fabulous speaker. Such a colourful storyteller who has a lot to say. I love you, Reuben!

I love you Reuben - thank you for sharing your experiences and vision with the world! You’re wonderful! ❤️

Wonderful speaker,very articulate. Words of wisdom.

@orcamentometallima1345

8 ай бұрын

no way.

You made me laugh, you made me cry but most of all you made me understand. I appreciate your very existence. Thank you and can’t wait till you tour the states.

Oh wow. Listening to this man, I’m sobbing. I’m spellbound by his voice, truth, honestly, and humanity. Thank you Ruben. Stay strong and safe. Xx

Stunning. Thank you for such a powerful lesson. Glad you exist in the world, Reuben.

You’re such an eloquent speaker. Thank you for all the LGBTQ children you’ve helped by speaking your truth! 🤟🏻

@raz6630

Жыл бұрын

This is what happens when the moral fabric of society is neglected and replaced with pseudo-satanic diabolical narcissism and self-worship we have obvious paedophiles and the mentally unwell pandered to and encouraged to the demise of society and themselves.

@SRTyler392

6 күн бұрын

Ah yes, talking about Italians being inside of you is such an inspiration to young children everywhere 🤦🏻‍♂️ you people are sick weirdos

This is a beautiful explanation for coming out. Yes we all know where we were when we did it, who we were with, what the reaction was. Very powerful presentation !

I adore this man. I think it’s a courageous thing to do, to share your deeply personal experiences to better inform others. Reuben is inspirational, and I know that you hear that word thrown around a lot these days, but I don’t use it very often. I’m waiting for a book next!

What an utterly amazing speech, straight from the heart with flawless delivery, charm and intellect. Inspiring and enlightening, thank you so much for your beautiful insight and humanity. Bravo Reuben you are incredible.

I am sorry for the sadness, pain and shame you felt! Happy to know you made it through all those years and are now a happy and proud member of our community ❤❤❤

Hail to the king / queen I nearly started crying because you could feel the pain and you just want to make you stop hurting x Sending my love to everyone who ever had to experience anything like this. You are loved trust me !

Wow 😊 Thank You for this. I’ve recently discovered you Reuben and I’m glad to be able to see and hear you on KZread. This was so on the money. I hope more people see and hear what you have to say. Many blessing to you. Thank You

Oh it does. I remember that day forever

Thank you for the riveting speech by an intelligent and resilient mind. ❤🏳‍🌈🙏🎉

My coming out Story is I showed up in upstate NY with my lover at time we were doing very well financially.. I was 6 ft 180 former military policeman now I was working in hotels and restaurants and was a chef.. no one ever said a crossword to me we had a great time they accepted Steven what they said behind our backs I do not know & don't care ..that was in 99 .. Steven is gone now And so is my parents... The last 4 years of my mother's life was great our relationship was great we talked on the phone and said I love you after each call or mistakes were forgiven 🙏♥️

This is so incredibly powerful ❤️ thank you Reuben xx

THIS PERSON IS BRILLIANT. I could write a novel, but I am beyond moved. Thank you Reuben Kaye

Everyone needs to watch this.

I became a fan a few years ago but I’ve never written that hey, I think you have a wonderful aura and it’s very obvious you were born to be an entertainer. Keep being you!

What an outstanding motivation speaker. The very best.

RK you rock! Love your perseverance and confidence.

Beautiful, emotional and compelling.

Thank you. I'm glad I watched!

Thank you for sharing your story 💚💚

Thank you ❤️

You are amazing. Im a 42 year old woman and I want to be you when I grow up!!!!

Brilliant, brave, hilarious, and an extraordinary human being.Thank you Reuben.

thank you

And after all that, what a beautiful person. Thank you.

Thank you for sharing your message! Keep being amazing and wonderful YOU!

BRAVO! Well said, well said.

That was very moving x

🥰🥰🥰 captivating humorous and so so real

Brilliant ❤

Apparently he was a huge inspiration for Neil Newborn's interpretation of Astarion in Baldur's gate 3. I can see it.

Wow. Thank you. ❤

My eyes won't stop leaking. Absolute legend nailed it!

Beautiful👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Thank you Reuben Muchas gracias Felicidades por tu historia Yo te amor ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

I love him even more after this 🥰😍💖

The best Ted X I’ve heard. Atleast for me. Amazing and thoughtful I don’t need anymore

This is wonderful. Thank you.

I was definitely called a f***ot before I knew what it was and what I was

I love you Reuben ❤brilliant and brave!!!

Brave. Wish you luck in life.

I am 41 and still haven’t come out to my family and a lot of my friends!

@janettegloury3834

Жыл бұрын

And the idea that your friends & family very first reaction can be so powerful, whatever happens next must be terrible. But (easy for me I don't have to do it) think of the relief & strength you may feel when it's done. All good wishes to you

Excellent ❤️ beautifully said ⭐️🤩💙

He is so meta!

Crying crying real hard now

he's a genuinely beautiful human.

Reuben you are so very courageous. Love you to bits. I wish my Mom accepted my queerness

If 1980's Berlin was a human with perfect bone structure...

My beloved came out to me about being trans. Well hello!?!! I responded by calling all support I could. 1994 surgery. I gained a sister. We have celebrated 36 Valentines together. Love love love ❤️

Reuben should've been Desire in The Sandman

Every parent needs to hear this!

Wow ❤

I remember my father's hands too. 😢

8:13 MATE, NO that feral man, god

❤

wow

HEAR HEAR!!!

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

It’s interesting how he acknowledges the horrors of Communism but criticizes “this” federal government, the USA’s last defense against it.

We need batman

What pronouns does Reuban go by? I googled it but couldn't find the info

Dang you’re looking good

You are human and god loves you. I know these words can't bring peace to your soul but trust me god will bring peace to your life and soul❤

I f-ing love you Reuben Kaye

Divine

he smort

this is so funny

💔

Tough room. Nobody laughs 😬🙄

This guy is a predator if you’ve seen his other work

What a freak 🤣

❤️🏳️‍🌈🇦🇺

This is not God's doing.

Reuben, stop saying you look like Cruella DeVille, you look like a groomed up version of the Joker

Doesn't look.intimidating just looks tragically sad looking desperately for recognition.

PERHAPS SOMEDAY SOMEONE WILL IDENTIFY AZ G O D,,,, MAKE UP THEIR OWN DED AZ CREATOR OV HEAVEN AND EARTH,,, SHOW DED OV OWNERSHIP.. AND TAKE OVER THIS INSANE WORLD ! JUST A THOUGHT

if your child comes out you have failed as a parent

@InfernoPhoenix123

4 ай бұрын

If ur child can't come out to you then you've failed as a parent

@SB-iy9vn

4 ай бұрын

@@InfernoPhoenix123 nope it means you have one They will know and follow the truth

Joker

They give Ted talks to any weirdo, these days!!!!!!!!!!

Nothing about him is respectable.

Did you know that Tedx hosted an event by a woman named Mirjam Heine that stated that the P word is an actual orientation? Did you also know that many of us know, firsthand, that most of the lauded and praised manifestations of modern-day "orientation" are the actual product of the P word? Is it right to say that the damage is done, it is what it is...the ship has sailed....and "I am what I am--deal with it"? Is it right to think that way when P was the original cause for so many of these situations? Maybe that's why a certain community that is partially epitomized in this video just so happens to be more accepting of P than everyone else, since, they were the victims of it....usually. People say Tedx is for the intelligent and scholarly. Is that really the case?

@marcz8625

2 жыл бұрын

You felt the need to comment? But edited your comment and still doesn’t really make sense. What do you really want to say? Just say it and be authentic. Oh and if you have nothing good to say, say nothing. Like your mum would have explained at some stage.

@stevenwren2784

2 жыл бұрын

I'm struggling to think what the P-word is

@_brain_junkie

2 жыл бұрын

@@stevenwren2784 me too 🧐 I’m struggling with all of it to be honest, but I’m not that bothered about having broken down.

@SB-xs8js

Жыл бұрын

I thought the same

Ew. What is that thing

@thegoddess1976

Жыл бұрын

You should post a picture of yourself .... so we can also judge

@HaTer-xs8sh

Жыл бұрын

@@thegoddess1976 at least I’m not a freak

Jesus is lord, Jesus is the most wonderful being that is, Jesus is excellent, wonderful and beautiful. I love Jesus, Jesus loves us too.

Your finished

Cringe

@animalsome

Жыл бұрын

@@dazednelectro Thank you for pointing out the obvious

Thank you ❤

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