as the oldest, we need to realise we were just experiments man…

@hdihiiehei

2 жыл бұрын

u hit it nail on head.the you gest is where they learned from their mistakes

@TheGlory16

2 жыл бұрын

We really were..

@ruthilalthangpuihmar2149

2 жыл бұрын

Ohh this☕🗿

@anasian8894

2 жыл бұрын

this is so fuckn trueeeee man

@nottrinityrigdon4838

2 жыл бұрын

bruh i swear

"Mum, am I your fav child?" "Not really" "but I'm your only child"

@user-cu1yo7ty5j

Жыл бұрын

You sure?

@levi_no_fidget.spinner

Жыл бұрын

Lol i felt that

@strawberrydeathOK

Жыл бұрын

yeah…about that…

@sabananas9314

Жыл бұрын

Nah man your mom probably doing some weird stuff

@KasumiLin

Жыл бұрын

"well about 3 months you won't be" 💀

As an older sibling I’ve learned that I don’t have accomplishments, I have expectations.

@bethanyhuse5014

Жыл бұрын

Wow, that hit on a diff level...this is exactly it

@renyokye

Жыл бұрын

You are so not alone. It's okay. The Oldest where born with incredible power that the other child don't

@liamostert1452

Жыл бұрын

Were basically blueprints for our younger siblings.

@luiscastrejon9973

Жыл бұрын

Literally I’m an all a’s student and I don’t even get praised for it and my brother goes and gets 70 or lower and parents praise him like he’s some kind of god or something like I got a B once and my parents were livid got all electronics taken away and wasn’t allowed to watch tv like why

@BelleTheGemini

Жыл бұрын

For real tho I’ve only had a b once and it was the year that all the crazy distance learning stuff happened and i got an hour long lecture and my phone taken away.

Us oldest siblings are literally the embodyment of the quote "You can't please everyone, love yourself."

@allisonmatriano561

Жыл бұрын

yeah that is so true and right i started loving myself more when i learn that i cant depend on human but i have god ii can always depend on him but this doesn't mean that my family don't love me ofcourse they love me so much but i don't want to get my hopes up and be broken so i build a barrier and im aquarius so that is really just so aquarius aquarius biggest secret and weakness is they are really a emotional being they cry o. lot but don't like other people to see it and they don't like to tell it to other people and im just like those i pretend to be strong at the outside but i a total softy in the inside i can get hurt by the smallest thing and those little bad remark tou say about me it secretly broke my heart but pretend that i does not matter to me i only say this in this kind of platform bc i know that people don't know me and will never know how weak i am inside.

@luciferia.1313

Жыл бұрын

@@allisonmatriano561 True. Although the zodiac thing was too much. Zodiacs don't define personalities. I'm a Taurus, but I got a lot of traits which describe other zodiacs just perfectly. But I'm glad you aint depended on anyone anymore. ☺️

@user-if1fd9nm1e

4 ай бұрын

in my house im the youngest and my parents have the the " youre both amazing but youll never measure up to your older sibling " mentality lol

The middle child: still waiting for the mother to remember that she left 'em at the Walmart across town 😬

@natashabrooks3721

2 жыл бұрын

🤣😂🤣😂☠️

@smhqtyt4424

2 жыл бұрын

When there’s only two there’s no middle child 🤦🏾‍♂️

@twililexy69

2 жыл бұрын

@@smhqtyt4424 Bro that's the whole joke. 😒

@solus8685

2 жыл бұрын

@@smhqtyt4424 it's a general joke about siblings..

@smhqtyt4424

2 жыл бұрын

@@solus8685 obviously not

Mother's after the oldest moves out "Why my child isn't visiting me anymore"

@klefleee

Жыл бұрын

So true. I haven't heard more disrespectful things from anyone than my mum.

@twinkles5114

Жыл бұрын

They know it's value only when it is gone

@Flakey_sky

Жыл бұрын

@@twinkles5114 they even care when the oldest dies aswell

@dragonbane44

Жыл бұрын

boohoo big deal that you are not the favourite lmao

@YouLikeKrabbyPattiesDontYou

Жыл бұрын

@@dragonbane44 yeah, it's more than that, but i guess that went over your head. guessing you're used to hearing that though lmao

“We don’t have a favourite child….” -Biggest lie told by a parent💀😭

@GlowStickMega

Жыл бұрын

Correction: most obvious lie

@JW-452

Жыл бұрын

I mean it can be true. In my family i'm pretty sure neither of my parents like either of us. There is not a favorite cause they hate us both equally.

@w..882

Жыл бұрын

fr

@christophermetzger8183

Жыл бұрын

​@@JW-452 this can be true

@athla145

Жыл бұрын

Real 60% of dads and 70% of moms have a fav child

as the youngest sibling i felt the difference my mom made between me and my older sister and it was something i couldn't control and my sister also grew resentment towards me which i always felt sad about, i was young like 8 and sometimes she wouldn't even want to talk to me. parents should treat all their children the same way and not put more pressure on one than the other just because they are the oldest, it's not fair for literally none of them cause then you get a spoiled young child that can do nothing for themselves in the real world and an oldest child that thinks all they do is never going to be good enough

@msk-qp6fn

Жыл бұрын

I think it is important to take into consideration that children are different so they do need to be treated differently. HOWEVER, they still need to all be treated fairly with equity. If one child likes to draw, get them sketchbooks and pencils. If another likes reading get them their books. But don't give one child a brand new fabre castel professional colored pencils while the other worn hand me down books ALL. THE. TIME.

@robopie3

Жыл бұрын

I'm the youngest, and I had the same problem. It was also really frustrating because I literally never got non-hand-me-downs until I bought myself a shirt when I was 8. I also struggled with being left out of things with an age restriction and still being told that I had everything given to me

@Haru-nee

Жыл бұрын

I just talked to my elder sister about this. I was jealous cz she was pretty and she was jealous cz I got love and affection.

@aliciavelazquez7559

Жыл бұрын

Wow I resonate with your message a lot, I'm the youngest child in my house and I have always seen the unrealistic expectations my mom has always put on my sister to be perfect and experience every hard thing in life first all while having to do it well. She doesn't deserve to have to deal with that all her life and I've felt she rented me since I was a child for this, I always tried to do what I could to make things more fair and let my mom know when she's being unjust to my sister just because she's the oldest, but it still isn't fair to have to grow up this way. 😢

@anjaliadhikari8637

Жыл бұрын

Okay i need to show this comment to my younger sibling to make him realize smth😂😂

The truest part of this is that the middle child isn’t even in the picture

@booglebear6364

2 жыл бұрын

i mean accurate 😭😀

@ritaruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

2 жыл бұрын

Ahahahahhahaha love this comment xD

@selenagutierrez6142

2 жыл бұрын

True. 😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

@ally5279

2 жыл бұрын

Im the middle child, my mom once said that Im the favorite child on Christmas 😂 my older brother was fuming

@nurkhairah8172

2 жыл бұрын

No truer words were spoken

Oldest: here Youngest: definitely here Middle child: Non-existent

@lenahc620

2 жыл бұрын

Sucks to suck

@Starch1vee

2 жыл бұрын

Literally me

@hypermariobros7246

2 жыл бұрын

Damn bro. I’m a Middle Child My Self💀

@caff3inerequired694

2 жыл бұрын

Me:

@caff3inerequired694

2 жыл бұрын

I am talking about the middle child

As a middle child who's the bonafide maid in the house, I get a mild heart attack if my family even says thanks every once in a while.

@CansuBilal

Жыл бұрын

Omg same with me, except I'm the youngest.

@mushroom_hat9556

Жыл бұрын

True

It's because the youngest makes THEM feel their youngest and that they are most needed. That's their "baby." Then, now and always.

@Ohboycommentsection

Жыл бұрын

This needs waaaaaaay more likes

@brittanyanderson8195

Жыл бұрын

Soo... just forget about all the other kids they made that actually still need them 😅 greeeaaatt

@MarcosIsABaritone

Жыл бұрын

@@brittanyanderson8195 Though that parental mentality may be read as ipso facto in the aforementioned sentiment, it's not a given, and, certainly, not a conscious choice on behalf of our parents. It's never a concerted effort to neglect and dismiss the other children OVER their "baby." It's just an animalistic response to what they recognize is the "last" of their progeny. It's the idea that if they failed the prior "attempts" (hahaha), with the "final" one they, at least, can make it right. It's kind of ludicrously, stupidly human of them. Word of advice: For those intermittent and older siblings seeking the same connection the "baby" has with their parents... engage with your parents on an intellectual or emotional level exclusive to you. And, remind them that they are still needed by asking advice, however banal or unneeded. It's about making them feel needed :)

@brittanyanderson8195

Жыл бұрын

@Marcos as pretty as all that sounds, its still lead to massive amounts of trauma for so many people (as seen by the comments section of this video). And I would think that many have tried the "engage the parent" thing and it doesn't really change much of anything. Eh but who am I to tell yall how to parent .

@MarcosIsABaritone

Жыл бұрын

@@brittanyanderson8195 I'm so sorry for the dearth of affection and recognition received from your parent/s. I appreciate your sharing your experience. Your situation and others' similar would probably not benefit from my "olive branch" advice because the problem is much deeper than simply not being a parent's "favorite" or rather a parent's pet. In my advice, I was explicating the youngest sibling is given a leniency and freedom of expression and a more friend-like report from whichever parent because the parent has finally learned from their mistakes when they were overly strict and anxious and emotionally awkward with the older siblings. My example, unclear though I may have been, meant to imply the other siblings were still given attention, care and an affection (however not as effusive as given the baby!) But your experience is one of a neglect and dismissiveness, amounting to an emotional trauma that continues to inform a self-devaluation. Your condition and others with similar experiences would benefit from one on one therapy, and, eventually, if your parent has matured with a refined sense of emotionality, having a paired session.

As the middle child I can confirm they completely forgot about our existence

@Vintage_Aesthetic

Жыл бұрын

As always.

@liviatatarusanu4341

Жыл бұрын

Nah in my fam its different middle isnt forgotten

@nocontentyet8081

Жыл бұрын

An underrated comment.

@bituinl

Жыл бұрын

@@liviatatarusanu4341 I think its a joke?

@Rubynell255

Жыл бұрын

This is true

As the oldest child, I learned quickly that I was just a shorter parent without the right to call myself a parent

@hyekerm

Жыл бұрын

I felt for my entire life a parent for my parents. My brother instead lives in a bell jar

@renyokye

Жыл бұрын

I feel you. Eldest of 6 😂

@dia4786

Жыл бұрын

THIS The only time u realise is when ur younger siblings get mad and at ur parents and say they don't want them anymore and want me 2 be the replacement

@tea-px1bs

Жыл бұрын

Yeah pretty much the same

@Slava_Bash

Жыл бұрын

That's sadness

I'm happy my folks treat my sibling and me the same. It's a real blessing

@MarcosIsABaritone

Жыл бұрын

We had four of us growing up and we were all given equal concern and treatment. It's not hard. These folks complaining either had shit parents overall or are making their suffering up due to a internalized, self-inflicted inferiority complex.

@msk-qp6fn

Жыл бұрын

You are blessed ❤❤❤

@msk-qp6fn

Жыл бұрын

​@@MarcosIsABaritone actually in a looot of east asian societies it is fairly common for children to be treated differently....but unfarily so. Tis due to practically decades or even centuries of outdated or toxic practices where unfair discrimation continues as a cycle. It is getting better but generally tis still happening so apparently it IS hard

@MarcosIsABaritone

Жыл бұрын

@@msk-qp6fn Including being treated differently solely based on age? That's interesting.

Don’t worry older sibling. You’ll be the favorite when the younger sibling moves out and never calls. 😂

Oldest Child: ¨I already gave up.¨ Middle Child: ¨There is still hope.¨ Youngest Child: ¨I dont even have to try¨

@memaura9770

Жыл бұрын

There is always hope

@amudhaekambaram4126

Жыл бұрын

i’m the youngest but we don’t got a middle child

@bellangoh9830

Жыл бұрын

Ok im the youngest 🤣

@jellyfrog5907

Жыл бұрын

I’m the youngest and *that’s not true 95% of the time*

@TheDevil_Freak

Жыл бұрын

@@jellyfrog5907 same

The middle sibling in my family is my brother and I can confirm he never existed.

@francescacassano1984

Жыл бұрын

I can relate to him

@silferbuu86

Жыл бұрын

That turned dark real fast

@PhoenixRising444

Жыл бұрын

That would be me.

@setarehsh3749

Жыл бұрын

Faaaaaahhhhh k

@voidvoidvoidvoid

Жыл бұрын

Same except I’m the middle child

As the oldest, no matter how many good stuff we've done, everything wrong (even what your siblings did) is our fault 😂

@bestiesuniverse1216

11 ай бұрын

NAHH FR

@Cafeallday222

9 ай бұрын

I’m an only child and got blamed for EVERYTHING 😩

Everyone needs to learn the fact that the eldest child is labeled only as a backup adult to the youngest

as the oldest sibling, i can confirm that we are indeed lab rats for our parents mess with

@mariahrosales26

Жыл бұрын

we are the guinea pigs lol😂

@Alista.on.pawsx3

Жыл бұрын

I’m the only child

@Ice.muffin

Жыл бұрын

@@Alista.on.pawsx3 We're lucky, but only partially.

@ms.chocolate8714

Жыл бұрын

@@Alista.on.pawsx3 same but I’m suffering bc mom is forcing to do chores and get straight A’s

@talkintomydeath3063

Жыл бұрын

Me when I was the only chilb : I wish I had a little siblings Me. Now :I take that back

Most accurate when the older sibling is a girl and the youngest is a boy.

@sabrinapeterlini1255

2 жыл бұрын

Of course

@louisthunder10

2 жыл бұрын

Nah other way round

@golden_leader9227

2 жыл бұрын

100% true

@mainlineyura516

2 жыл бұрын

Of course..

@blupinkyellogreen

2 жыл бұрын

SUPER FACTS

I feel like as an older child we all expect too much from ourselves and can’t accept/love ourselves… but to be the person people or family want us to be, we hide it.

Middle child: I’m not even here I’m just a ✨hallucination✨

ah yes, I love the part when the middle child comes in.

@heyyo3746

2 жыл бұрын

Ikr, darn, I need the timestamp for me to keep looping

@armychan7565

2 жыл бұрын

@@heyyo3746 lol I'm I'm oldest and this is so true

@aik_ii_5753

2 жыл бұрын

Lol I’m a middle child but we have 8 siblings so I don’t blame my stepparents for sometimes getting pissed off by us lol

@m1licca_

2 жыл бұрын

Not everyone has 3 kids tho.

@harujasu7166

2 жыл бұрын

𝖤𝗑𝖺𝖼𝗅𝗒 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝖽𝖾𝖿𝗂𝗇𝖾𝗌 𝗆𝖾💀

I can literally do all the chores and my mum says like a bored “thanks”, my sister does like one helpful thing and she’s literally like “omg thankyou so much you’re such an angel” it’s like how tf u think I got it into my head that you prefer her to me?

@LeNoir2411

Жыл бұрын

💀for real.. I've never lived with both of my parents because they got divorced when i was 2 and my mom don't want us so our late dad became sole caregiver..so I've never actually experienced this sort of thing but i get it.. because i do have similar experience where they were mad at me for thinking my parents wanted a boy when they had me , but then I'd hear em talk about how my dad has always wanted a boy, how he was sooo happy when he finally had a boy after he married my step mom ,he even modified his motorbike so my younger half brother could sit comfortably.. and they're mad at me for thinking such thing 🤡 The reason why i even thought that way was because of that motorbike and so many other things around the house that has been modified after my lil bro was born 😬 And i was slowly becoming invisible in the family,but they hate it when i have such thoughts ,maybe it makes em feel like they're bad or something

@jinphany.

Жыл бұрын

@@LeNoir2411 bruh the fact they don’t want you to feel anything like that is bc they know it’s true and makes them bad ppl, they wanna look like the perfect family and trying to silence you even tho they in the wrong, I’m so sorry girl 😭😭

@LeNoir2411

Жыл бұрын

@@jinphany. yeah ikr, but I've learned to feel bad for thinking such thing and saying bad stuff about em so i can't help it

@lene3667

Жыл бұрын

Oh my god I’m so sorry you all .... this is horrifying

@imane5819

Жыл бұрын

@@jinphany. same opinion here. Sounds like she is an insightful teenager who is being gaslit.

Oldest here with one younger sibling: our parents switched their favoritism to whoever caused the least problems and lived up to their expectations. That started with me being favorite and my sib getting the "You're awful" treatment - changed when younger one managed to proceed with life while I was stuck dealing with a declining mental health from all the pressure - and then again when I got the pity treatment and my sib got none of that, unable to voice their own issues because my parents focused on mine. Favoritism sucks on both fronts.

@msk-qp6fn

Жыл бұрын

Thank you❤❤

@notmyname1883

Жыл бұрын

I felt this way too much, thank you for the representation.

@daniq8065

Жыл бұрын

Wtf happened the same to me (I’m the older)

@Cafeallday222

9 ай бұрын

That’s common and causes a lot of trauma (as you were rejected for being you). Sorry that happened ❤

this is why the internet was made. thank you.

As a middle child, I can confirm this We don't even get mentioned xD

@hedghogle

2 жыл бұрын

Same this is so accurate

@Anu-ily

2 жыл бұрын

Seriously- 🙂

@Anu-ily

2 жыл бұрын

@TigerEyes same LoL 🙂😂

@Sweet_Like_A_Jack_Rose

2 жыл бұрын

When the oldest & youngest fighting for the favourite child title, we middle just minding our own business 🤣

@Anu-ily

2 жыл бұрын

@@Sweet_Like_A_Jack_Rose like yeah, why to even bother at this point 🥱😂

Me being a middle child: Baby I'm not even here I'm hallucination 💀

@reka9056

2 жыл бұрын

I feel it

@niharikatolia1101

2 жыл бұрын

True, us middle ones are living w/o parents out here

@TheFantasticFour82

2 жыл бұрын

I’m also middle child then and click the like in my you know the 👍 if you have a great life

@Egg04125

2 жыл бұрын

True

@geminicattheinsomniac8408

2 жыл бұрын

@@niharikatolia1101 for real

As the 2nd out of five siblings, I get a mixture of both older and middle child dynamics with my parents: high expectations when I fuck up, cicadas when I succeed. It takes accomplishing a monumental achievement for my parents to appreciate me.

@MarcosIsABaritone

Жыл бұрын

Well, you shouldn't be rewarded for doing well at school unless you're going above and beyond. Are you outstanding in any real capacity? Outside of that, it's perfectly OK to ask your parents for some intimate time when you want it. Make sure they know you need it/them.

@msk-qp6fn

Жыл бұрын

​@@MarcosIsABaritone Here is the thing; when favoritism kicks in, the standards become start to apply differently, resulting in the same straight As giving one child a pat in the back while another gets an iphone. I always say to parent figures that children will be generally content if the parents truly treat their childrens fairly albeit differently. If the children are discontent and even distrust you, I say yup you guys are definitely doing something wrong and it is more common than you'd expect on a global scale.

@MarcosIsABaritone

Жыл бұрын

@@msk-qp6fn Pat on the back vs iPhone as reward? That's a rather exaggerative example, no? Look, the thing is, in a lot of these examples, there are too many other variables not discussed. Not to mention so much is about perception and psychological and emotional factors.

I'm literally invisible at my home... Yeah you guessed it right - I AM THE MIDDLE CHILD 😭😭

Middle child in the background going: “hey, hello…? Anyone see me?”

@lama7535

2 жыл бұрын

Im a middle and im the favorite lol

@idiot2495

2 жыл бұрын

@@lama7535 lol same

@evie4564

2 жыл бұрын

@@lama7535 lucky you 😩

@DerangedDireLife

2 жыл бұрын

@@lama7535 Tell me your ways, with tears rn

@melodynour7630

2 жыл бұрын

@@lama7535 THATS SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO LUCKY- I can confirm that as a Middle child

My mom: “I love all of my eight children equally” Also my mom: *has my name the youngest tattooed on her arm*

@thatoneerumpenthorn1512

Жыл бұрын

Is your mum, by chance, Molly Weasley?

@minteymouse8045

Жыл бұрын

Yoooo 💀

@vicki70

Жыл бұрын

My mom also has 8 kids and before she had me (I’m the youngest) she got a tattoo of all my siblings first letters inside a heart. Then I was born and there was no space left to put in a V (since she made it before I was even planned), so she always says that the pointy part of the heart is the V 🥹❤️ Edit: Accidentally wrote ‘had’ instead of ‘has’

@plutonium2

Жыл бұрын

Lol brutal

@pranjalgameryt419

Жыл бұрын

@@vicki70 aww 🥰

As an oldest child, this is so accurate, I want to sob 😭

As the oldest child. This hit. 😭

i texted this to my mom, she laughed then continued hugging my younger sibling and saying he’s amazing 💀

@mermaidqueen6294

2 жыл бұрын

*Sends video* Lol this is so funny, I bet mum isn’t like this! Mum: Yeah nah, your younger sibling is still better, love you!

@eshaalfarrukh6193

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@princegluttony9346

2 жыл бұрын

💀💀💀💀

@cara7799

2 жыл бұрын

@@mermaidqueen6294 bruh exactly

@tachiruu

2 жыл бұрын

I feel betrayed 💀

I showed this to my parents and they laughed and walked away. They know it’s true

@dretno

2 жыл бұрын

Rough isn't it!?

@enriconaves6501

2 жыл бұрын

now i want to know if you are the oldest or the youngest

@Scaramoucheswifeteehee

2 жыл бұрын

@@enriconaves6501 oldest

@mmmmmmmmm463

2 жыл бұрын

@@Scaramoucheswifeteehee oh no

@ssggamingr6719

2 жыл бұрын

Me too oldest

As the youngest child, i can confirm that this is the brutal truth 😂

I love how the youngest sibling is stereotyped as the most loved, my parents thinks I'm useless lmao

POV: The second child is the one recording this video.

@luvs4madyy

2 жыл бұрын

Lol 😆

@michellestehman2984

2 жыл бұрын

That's why the cameraman is invisible, the cameraman is the middle sibling

@LAila-qf4ww

2 жыл бұрын

Hahahahhaha loolllll

@tmalloy9

2 жыл бұрын

Precisely. We hold it all together with love, confusion and envy.

@creative_arts1532

2 жыл бұрын

I am thinking if they were bfb/bfdi characters the oldest one would be ✨snowball✨ and the youngest would be ✨grassy✨ and the middle child is ✨non-existy✨

the middle child crying in the corner:

@juls-obsessed

Жыл бұрын

You know what I’m the middle child and honestly my parents like all of me and my brothers the same

@Just_me1360

Жыл бұрын

That's not true ma brother ( middle child ) is my parents favourite while me ( youngest ) I'm not even in the talk's of favourite

@Shamsa-tz5ym

Жыл бұрын

Lol I’m the favourite child 👧

@alvaroperez4806

Жыл бұрын

I’m the oldest child but I have a friend who is the middle child

@oniongurl

Жыл бұрын

Not me actually crying in the corner as a middle child. They really forgot about the middle kid

The middle child is really accurate in this video

Man, I feel this, I started to think how unfair it is and then started rebelling. What do I do now? It still doesn't feel right. I'm not happy either.

@dbkooper

10 ай бұрын

Same here. I eventually had to accept it the way it is. Its fate bro

“Am I a piece of shit” My mom: “ *Yeeeahhhh* ”

@anumeetkaur1566

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@nightynightshade

2 жыл бұрын

LOL😂😭

@autumntea1931

Жыл бұрын

Love the Yanfei pfp

@victorrobinson7522

Жыл бұрын

no

@Jiminscookie

Жыл бұрын

💀💀💀

this is the most realistic representation of the middle child 💀

@eshalasim8662

Жыл бұрын

Me 😥😥😥

@ljtheone

Жыл бұрын

Oldest child*

@yaxb1729

Жыл бұрын

@@eshalasim8662 yeah me too man

@MisguidingWish

Жыл бұрын

Nah middle child gets away with every thing

@legitmusicgaming4749

Жыл бұрын

@@ljtheone r/woooosh

as the last born I feel like we're not giving enough credits, here in Africa we have it rough😭😂 we do all the chores

Being the oldest I agree. Our parents put all their burdens on us and when we ask young one middle child to do anything they never do it and when you complain mom tells us to do it ourselves. It's like if we were an experimental rat 😢😢😢😭😭

@Cafeallday222

9 ай бұрын

Try being an only child

"I love all my children equally, but some more equally than others."

@btsmagicshop5896

2 жыл бұрын

OMG army@Jungkook’s thighs X Beomgyu’s Thighs

@ck2benz

2 жыл бұрын

“All animals are equal, just some more than others” -George Orwell Btw good reference!

@nonbinarynb9014

2 жыл бұрын

Literally there is no need to be like "OmG aRmYyYyyYy" more than half of the world are armys, if those armys were fighting for Ukraine the world would've been 10x better

@tripleg2513

2 жыл бұрын

"I love all my children equally, just not at the same time"

@gloriakoo

2 жыл бұрын

So dang true, my mom always says that but she gave more food to my older bro when I was growing up…🙄

Meanwhile the middle child wondering when they'll realize they left em at the grocery store

@madihaansari08

2 жыл бұрын

Ikr 🥺

@crabbydabby789

2 жыл бұрын

No bc me and my sister (the middle child) and our uncle pranked my mom by saying we left her at the store. My mom believed us and laughed.

@rubyl39

2 жыл бұрын

My brother got left in the car and said he had a nightmare about being left on a bus lol

@DebbieAkano

2 жыл бұрын

I was left at one part of a theme park and they didn’t notice for 30mins. Of course, it was my fault for not paying attention 🙄

@rubyl39

2 жыл бұрын

@@DebbieAkano left at a theme park! That must’ve been so scary

As the youngest, I can confirm we do be living the life

I love how no one is even gonna talk about middle child cause they are forgotten ones or rebels of the house 💀

The oldest has straight A’s and does great has a good job and helps pay the bills , the youngest makes messes and smokes and the youngest is still the favorite like 💀

@ShubhamPatil-rl4jk

Жыл бұрын

That's the reel Amalia we watched it

@thilsiktonix

Жыл бұрын

man mf the youngest is wearing a Decepticon shirt tell me you WOULDN'T wanna be his friend

@wolfzmusic9706

Жыл бұрын

For us it's different. The oldest is like the youngest you mentioned, the middle is the smartest and I, the youngest, is just average and a good child

@waybisplayz7301

Жыл бұрын

Yeah no it’s usually the opposite.

@ChaosFang

Жыл бұрын

How dare you good sir I worked 3 jobs to take care of my mom after the oldest kicked me out and she left with me after we beat the shit out of each other when I was 15 and he was 28 and in the navy he threw me over a couch anyways I digress I do alot to help my mom out some of us youngests would literally take a fuckin bullet for our mom's no questions then get up and break the dudes neck that tried to shoot her.

All oldest siblings watching this: ¯⁠\⁠_⁠ಠ⁠_⁠ಠ⁠_⁠/⁠¯

@Whos_Suheila

Жыл бұрын

92 likes and no reply lemme fix dat real quick

@piscesanimefan3177

Жыл бұрын

I feel your pain😢❤

@Lego_beys.blades

Жыл бұрын

Yaaaasssss

@SightOfTrees

Жыл бұрын

And all the youngest siblings who had the opposite experience. 😐

@damn.itsyuqi

Жыл бұрын

Right dude

People need to realize not all families have middle childs-

Asian moms are like this Like they say the younger one was just a mistake we didn't plan And then treat the oldest one like they were unplanned 😂

A competent eldest child is the backup parent/free babysitter.

@shipperran8679

Жыл бұрын

And when it is family gathering, the eldest child will be the babysitter to their little cousin/nephew/niece

@bixburry

Жыл бұрын

Honestly, as an oldest child you’re just the free maid

@zeliyah_00

Жыл бұрын

Fr my mom literally said that I'm the "emergency parent" for my sister

The middle child knowing that they ain’t even in the talk to be favorites Don’t worried I can relate

@Buugzy

Жыл бұрын

Lmaoo

@felicitatumfortunae

Жыл бұрын

Born to lose

@sloppymeme

Жыл бұрын

As a middle child fellow i will agree with u

@kaciheartseevee5783

Жыл бұрын

I can relate

@mncat8096

Жыл бұрын

I am middle child but also the only girl in my family-

"Then, who's living their best life as if they aren't controlled?" ✨*THE MIDDLE CHILD*✨

Meanwhile middle child:*casually disappers*

I am youngest born, and my father’s favorite; I am a daughter after all. My older brother (middle child) is my mother’s favorite. Now that leaves my eldest brother 🥲 But in all honesty, my eldest brother is the most patient of all, is kind to a fault, with the softest heart and just an overall very genuine person. We all love you, eldest brother! 🥲❤️

@cc67-94

Жыл бұрын

im the youngest child, and i honestly just wish my parents would treat my older brother well.. i try to not be too spoiled and try to give a few things i get from my parents to my brother because he truly deserves it, hes an amazing brother but my parents dont care about him..

@Hale8R

Жыл бұрын

@@cc67-94 that’s tough and so unfair to both of you, especially your brother.

@beastly.warner

Жыл бұрын

Generally the oldest child isn't the favorite because they did everything right and they listened because they had undivided attention. They don't take it as a compliment when their parents just think that they should and that they are capable. But it is a huge compliment because that tells you that your parents don't have to worry about you cuz you're going to be all right the other ones they worry about LOL

@skye_playz6587

Жыл бұрын

Oh my same just Im middle child and my youngest sibling is my mom fav and my eldest uuh my grandmas fav

@minawina9494

Жыл бұрын

@@beastly.warner haha. agree

Pov: They left the middle child outside and locked all the doors

@AB_Evans

2 жыл бұрын

Been there.

@randomclips_1252

2 жыл бұрын

Lmaoo

@astra-nomia

2 жыл бұрын

@@AB_Evans HONESTLY

@spicy_Chiken

2 жыл бұрын

@Nuryn cholex burn I hell

@florenceamuzu182

2 жыл бұрын

🥲 literally me yesterday....

As the oldest, my efforts aren't even recognized. Like, I'm a student and maid 24/7

The middle child: 🧍

Parents with the oldest child: testing out different stuff on them like a lab experiment Parents with the young child: treats them like gold with the info they’ve gathered

@Deebnoff

Жыл бұрын

I honestly think it's because they decided they won't have any more, so they want to milk the enjoyment of the final baby 😆 Last baby smells, last unconditional sweetness, last cuddles and hand holding. It's annoying growing up, but looking back it was kind of sweet 🥰

@mayamartin7359

Жыл бұрын

I have one child. So she’s simultaneously my guinea pig and my spoil-em-rotten. Lol

@itz_ash4272

Жыл бұрын

Welp guess I’m ✨different✨ coz I’m the lab rat for my parents

@pearlneochampagneee

Жыл бұрын

And then when we grow up we become rusted gold

@abyssalheartice1810

Жыл бұрын

My younger sister was mostly raised by my sister and me because my parents didn't have the time to play with her. So they were less strict but only because they didn't have the time to care about it.

“ _they kept birthing until they were satisfied enough…_ “

@Kath-Erina

Жыл бұрын

True and not true. Yes you keep having kids until you are satisfied. But with how the family dynamics are and feel and until you can't handle any more kids lol. Not because the children you already got turned out bad 😅 and your tryin for a 'good one'

@Nightmarerror

Жыл бұрын

@@Kath-Erina you missed the joke-

@Cherbius

Жыл бұрын

They were only satisfied when the young one wore a Transformers shirt

@khizrahasan7293

Жыл бұрын

My parents want another one just so they can play with a cute baby

I love the oldest sibling busting the moves 😂😂🤣

This is the wrrooong song for this 😂

If you’re male and the oldest and smartest, then Asian moms loves you

@Mahi-1506

Жыл бұрын

Yeah but only if you are a male That's irony!

@MarcosIsABaritone

Жыл бұрын

If your Asian mother in 2023 is still abiding by that sexist son as a prize bullshit, she's duummmbb.

@msk-qp6fn

Жыл бұрын

Yup

@itz_ash4272

Жыл бұрын

Bro fr that’s how my mom is😭 I’m the experiment here

@kumalasari1368

Жыл бұрын

Exactly Eldest daughter card is useless, even if the daughter is smart, got good job and got no bad track record

I'm the oldest of 6 kids and literally the most calm, respectful, hardworking child in the house yet my parents prefer my little brother whose bedroom smells like takis and stale bread. I wish I was joking 💀

@ahall9839

Жыл бұрын

They probably hate that you don't know how to use the word literally like a functioning human.

@sucheermaddury7481

Жыл бұрын

Don’t live for parents expectations you will be the most successful 💪

@thoralexandermichelsen6592

Жыл бұрын

I thikn this happens because the first kid gets 10000x more care as a small kid then all the kids coming after. Like kid 1: Its glass, read all the books, know everything to be just alright etc etc. Kid 3 chewing on soap, meh hell probably be ok.

@irisefidia9139

Жыл бұрын

@@ahall9839 Huh?

@ahall9839

Жыл бұрын

@@irisefidia9139 Wha...??

The oldest keeps on asking *am i sexual* 😂😂💀

As a middle child, I can confirm that our existence is ignored by our parents just like in this video

Middle child: Can I come out of the basement now?

@veganoranimalabusenowyouha8742

Жыл бұрын

Lol she was the middle child the mom and the oldedr child

@wairdo-vw6tu

Жыл бұрын

that's... a really derk Joke

The youngest one: The spoiled one The middle child: The forgotten one The oldest child: The Jealous one

@Klaire430_

Жыл бұрын

there's 5 of us. 1st (The oldest) : college, med schooling. 2nd (Me) : Chores chores chores. taking care of our 5yo lil sis, always the one who does chores. 3rd (lil bro) : can't even take out the trash. A literal crybaby. always complains when he does ONE chore, he says this "BAKIT AKO PALAGI YUNG NA-UUTOSAN?!? [WHY IS IT ALWAYS ME THAT DOES SO MUCH CHORES?!?] -Translation 4th (5yo sis) : always want to be on her phone. even at night. even if it's 1am IN THE MORNING. SHE EVEN STAYED UP TILL 2AM?! LIKE BROOO I'M SO JEALOUS RN.. WISH I COULD STAY UP THAT LATE💀💀 5th (baby sis) : has a huge bump on her forehead (my fault.. did get a lil beating when that happened- uhm.. yeah- ) likes phones. she has her own phone.

@dinoknight1075

Жыл бұрын

@@Klaire430_ yeesh

@El1siA

Жыл бұрын

im not spoiled- im happy with everything i have-

@blackkittykat6036

Жыл бұрын

@@Klaire430_ WHOA BABY HAS HER OWN PHONE??

@blackkittykat6036

Жыл бұрын

Well, yeah some of us are not spooked ^^

LOL when I ask my kids to do stuff around the house I say "Will my favorite kid please..." before asking and then they both rush over to do it so they can be my favorite 😁😅

As an older sibling i relised i was only there so they can blame everything on me

I can relate. I do everything while my younger brother lazes around, and I still get scolded at

@k.bayraktar4488

Жыл бұрын

Mines even expect me to do some parenting to my younger brother.

@inkubator320

Жыл бұрын

That’s abuse and child neglect

@Kata_Rin

Жыл бұрын

dude that was literally me for so long

@lightandnightEQUINOX

Жыл бұрын

Im the older one but am the passive sib. My family got used to it 🤣

@nahbirdie4773

Жыл бұрын

Im 30 and its still the same so don't expect change

As a middle child I confirm it's accuracy. My elder sister is literally my second mom and my younger one is really the most most annoying thing in the world

@fedcab4360

2 жыл бұрын

That's just how kids are

@idk-0-0

2 жыл бұрын

i feel u

Always clowning Jennie Winnie your the funniest child for sure !!!!😂

Every oldest sibling being like: definitely not the favorite 😂😂😂

I laughed so hard when she asked again if she is the favorite child with that weird dance and song!!!! 😂😂😂😂

@anthaliyahdivini5920

Жыл бұрын

Me too 😂😂😂😂

*”All my children are my favorites for different reasons.”* -My mom Edit: mom im famous, wait no you are

@okuyanbocu6286

Жыл бұрын

Like a politician!

@benjaminmolokwu4173

Жыл бұрын

Your mum is a smart human

@Mr._Airplane

Жыл бұрын

“ youre my fav child cause your not my fav child”

@chclt_thndr

Жыл бұрын

W mom

@aaronaaronson2095

Жыл бұрын

Yoink

This is so true. This is how my Indian mom treats my siblings and I. My brother's the oldest, than my sister, than me.

Me being the middle child, drawing on everything, bouncing off the walls, and having to go to therapy multiple times but still managing to be the favorite

The increasingly aggressive body rolls are sending me 😂

@jademobley4513

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@ta3105

2 жыл бұрын

Sending you where?

@simenlofthus1721

2 жыл бұрын

ilyou're pfp

@LarryPasketti

2 жыл бұрын

@@simenlofthus1721 thank youuuuuu

@LarryPasketti

2 жыл бұрын

@@ta3105 aLaSkA

When you're the only child but not the favorite child: I'll go with you, oldest siblings.........

@gradientrose6573

2 жыл бұрын

I don't understand? If you are an only child how come your parents have a different favourite child??

@LOGic_InFuture2806

2 жыл бұрын

@@gradientrose6573 It's because sometimes when you're the only child, your parents don't have preferences anymore............ Edit: so technically, they don't have a favorite child since they see your face everyday then they don't have a preference, but for others................ their favorite child is the adopted younger one :l Edit 2: plus one of my cousins got her father the chicken as their own favorite child........ that's also me with my dad's dog................... we're both the only child

@VV-cj5wc

2 жыл бұрын

Their favorite child is a child from someone else 😂

@yellowenn

2 жыл бұрын

So relatable

@ojasvi2966

2 жыл бұрын

@@LOGic_InFuture2806 woah you wrote so much just to explain one person 😂😂💀💀

Being the oldest means we get the best or the worst, basically an experiment 😌 We get the best but then, our parent feel it not worth it so, we end up the only one experienced/get that best. The worst is when u are the only one who don't experienced/get what all the siblings after you experienced/get bcause you're ahead of time 😅

it’s okay guys at least we are our father’s favorite child

It’s not just the youngest it’s ✨the boy of the family✨

@vikashprakash4200

Жыл бұрын

True

@akimanArts

Жыл бұрын

We are both boys and as the eldest I can tell you it is all the same. Glad to know I am not the only one 😌

@NarYan2904

Жыл бұрын

even in K-Dramas, you see moms loving their loser young sons more than their accomplished elder daughters, so this seems to be legit in the culture. Hell, my mom and dad love my little brother more than me, and my dad expected me to be born a boy to the point he brought cars and toys meant for a boy before I was born. He even tipped the nurse to make sure they tell him I was a boy when everybody knew I was going to be a girl. His "conniption" when I came into this world will be my greatest victory because I love every moment of being a woman :D

@lula259.

Жыл бұрын

Oh yes💀

@littlebigeats7682

Жыл бұрын

thank you! can asian women stop pretending that our (their) cultures are not misogynistic. The worst are actually the mothers and guess who grows up to be a bigoted misogynistic woman that prefers her son over her daughter? Yup, the eldest daughter.

The eldest: "You betrayed me--------and I know that you'll never be sorry"

@sammanithakshila8720

Жыл бұрын

"For the way I hurt yea"😭

@bindugowda7291

Жыл бұрын

@@sammanithakshila8720 you talk to her,when we were together!

@muthakiutimi9969

Жыл бұрын

@@bindugowda7291 loved you at your worst but didn't matter

@alfonsomena9349

Жыл бұрын

I got a younger brother to carry on the name. I'm just a name but it better than an inheritance better than a bad name which ...

@musiclover-up9xo

Жыл бұрын

Nope I never will because I'm the favorite and if you dare to blackmail me I will tell our mom to get a fresh belt

The oldest child has the same headband that my mom has lol

Those suspicious body roles😂😂

then she hits you back with a "i love all of you equally"

@bakachels7376

Жыл бұрын

Fr like bruh, you don't have to sugar-coat your words. Just say the truth

@pumpupthejam28

Жыл бұрын

Mom of four here to let you know that I vibe differently with each of mine. I love them all and appreciate their differences. I love them the same but differently. Though they each think the other is my fave. TBH it kinda hurts.

The fact that this is so true it brings me so much pain rn i-

@priscillajimenez27

2 жыл бұрын

😫

@blinkpop16

2 жыл бұрын

I am the youngest 😂

@sakalaguddin9299

2 жыл бұрын

exactly

@phanisivaniphd7873

2 жыл бұрын

This video might be funny but in reality, it is hard to accept the mental and physical pain 😞😞

@sakalaguddin9299

2 жыл бұрын

@@phanisivaniphd7873 i totally get you....Indian parents expect so high from their firstborn that they forget that their kids have their own dreams too. they pin all hopes on them and expect the best. no one understands the pressure that undergoes on first borns and how bad their mental health actually is

The mum was just like..

Middle child gettin ignored like it's nothing

It’s not only Korean mom it’s all over the Asia 😭

@hervaskidom8282

Жыл бұрын

Really

@JacksonC62

Жыл бұрын

It's all moms

@hervaskidom8282

Жыл бұрын

@@JacksonC62 really

@wolflinggon5664

Жыл бұрын

It’s ALL Mom’s. I’m the oldest in a Southern family and I was never the favorite.

@terrarossa2187

Жыл бұрын

Yeah true.. but to be exact i think moms favourite child is son.. if you are girl.. and got brother either older or younger one.. she will definitely favour her son more

I feel like expectations are so high for you guys, they only care when you’re bad, with the youngest we have the opposite problem that expectations are so low they literally don’t care if we succeed or fail 💀

@Lil_Indyy

Жыл бұрын

Im the youngest but my parents equally love us, thats how great they are.

@Tuoace

Жыл бұрын

@@Lil_Indyy yeah they equally scold us

@iamgreyiamgreen

Жыл бұрын

My brother is in 5th Grade and still don't know multiplication. I know its hard for newcomers and but the bigger problem is that he doesn't put the effort to actually learn any of the schoolwork. So in quarantine, he speant 2 years of not learning anything and just copying the answersheets while I have to constantly fix my grades so I don't get scolded Often, My mom and me do his work for him so yes, with a shitload of school work, chores, and his schoolwork. It sucks being the eldest but im glad that I'll be the first one to be an adult and leave. I still love them but ehh

As the oldest, we are the trial period. We are the ones our parents practiced on. 😂❤

@Cafeallday222

9 ай бұрын

I guess my parents got it right the first time because they stopped at one 😅

When there's just me and my older brother, I did both chores and straight A's but my bro was the fav one. 14 years later my younger bro appeared and I'm still at the bottom of the hierarchy. Being the only girl and breadwinner now don't help either. 💀