It's like your in the middle of a war, instead of a loving relationship - It's INSANITY!!!!

@TheendofBabylon

7 ай бұрын

Best description ❤

@user-uu4ug4lq1c

7 ай бұрын

It is a war.. sadly.. and its personal..

@tar2c690

7 ай бұрын

Yes especially if the narcissist is a passive aggressive type

@MegaRockstar48

6 ай бұрын

Exactly and they are trying to convince you that your the one with issues. It was the constant walking on egg shells and the sudden anger for no real reason that was the hardest for me

@tar2c690

6 ай бұрын

@@MegaRockstar48 bro as if you are talking about me. High five man 👋

Dealing with a narcissistic personality requires a deep well of patience and resilience. It's like trying to dance with a storm - an exercise in maintaining one's own balance amid chaos.

@chops4986

7 ай бұрын

Very true.

@ColinHutson

7 ай бұрын

So well put

7 times I left him, although deep in love with him. 7 seductive hooverings. 7 cycles. More abusive each time.

@emmathompson6470

7 ай бұрын

Don't make it 8

@stanfen1966

7 ай бұрын

Yes, They will Shed skin and return a bigger snake..

👍 truths. Three years ago a narcissist's smear was beaten by saying absolutely nothing to anyone regarding the smear.

I’ve found it unusually easy to stop caring for my narc husband. I’m pissed that I wasted years with him and he’ll get half my 401k to which he contributed NOTHING 🤬

Not all narcissists do that. I had two of them in my life and haven't heard from Them In months. Yay me!!

I survived, thrive, become super-resilance & moved on. Unfortunately, it did destroy my relationship with my adult kids. ..unrepairable. I accepted that faith.

The most difficult part of this is finding a closure that never would come anyway. Your “need” for closure is your enemy. It’s bad enough if they try to contact you but a total surrender if you look to find peace with them.

Politicians!

@flowersofthefield340

6 ай бұрын

Anyone in a power position in society or religious communities

Thank you for your help Anoushka … I’m letting go fully now .. I’ve had my share of poison and I am better now. I will agree to the divorce … and take the higher ground instead of destroying her in court. I will take my loss and turn it into positive energy. It’s already begun … and Karma isn’t a weapon. 🙏🏻

Triangulation to jealousy..me, " why are you Telling me about guys?" "I do not care, as a matter of fact, get out of my car, you are home"

I got none of this....nothing...he knew I was on to him, knew I was moving out of state near parents, knew my family despised him, guess he decided it wasn't worth the fight? I went no contact and as far as I know he has made no attempt to reach me...went right back to another old supply for less than a month, left her again and now onto a new fresh supply.....

@pattyh1039

7 ай бұрын

Why are you here then ?

@goforit321

7 ай бұрын

Dang that’s a blessing in disguise! Count that as a blessing ❤️

@chelseasmith9242

7 ай бұрын

When a narcissist or toxic person stops talking to you and you don't ever see or hear from them again, it's like the trash took itself out, as your ex actually did you favor by leaving and having no further contact. As strange and as messed up as that sounds, it's a blessing in disguise because out of my past relationships that were in fact very unhealthy and not safe, it took them months or years to take a hint and leave me alone for good.

@nicoloclemente6564

7 ай бұрын

They just choose the easiest supply that is available, they are lazy AF.😅😁

@Xenlacasa45

7 ай бұрын

So you got it good then they never reached out to you again like the typical obsessive narc does sounds like you just want attention

Totally off topic but the darker honey blonde suits you so much and gives extra dimension to your hair, love it ☺️

Thank you gone through hell taken me year's to come out the other side but stronger 💪 for it godbless❤

I want to thank you so much. I realised within six months that something was radically wrong. I have moved on reclaimed my life and am at peace. I saw your channel two days ago very insightful information as I do need to protect myself from any come backs etc. Maybe one day I will feel able to talk about this very painful experience.

I told my narc wife I was done and would be filing for divorce. She went straight to the court and filed a restraining order, accusing me of all kinds of lies I now have to prove as false.

@miamiflorida6965

7 ай бұрын

😢

@ericjackson-nq4hp

7 ай бұрын

brutal. I am not usually cynical and I mean no harm but it really sounds all too typical. My regards. Stay close, sounds as if you got the real deal, absolutely brutal. My heart goes out to you. Be well.

@MRLX54

7 ай бұрын

Never ever give a narc any heads up about what you plan to do. Never share any information would have been better if you had just played dumb and served those divorce papers without warning.

@Mountainhippiedude

7 ай бұрын

@@MRLX54 you are correct, and that was my plan. She was bullying me one morning and had me pinned against the kitchen counter with her face against mine screaming at me. I broke and let it slip. Paying the price for that mistake, and hope others read this and learn from it.

@MRLX54

7 ай бұрын

@@Mountainhippiedude I understand it happens to the best of us. It took me a few times before coming to that realisation that taking my emotions off the table when dealing with these narcs and serving them indifference works they hate it. Soon as I started doing that I got stronger had more clarity and things just got better. Just stay calm and keep emotions in check remember no reaction is the best reaction don’t give these demons any leverage in any form and document everything!. Wishing you all the best you deserve to have peace in your life ❤️

Oh yes, it was amazing. Amazing for you. Seriously, no response is best.

Love the hair color!!!

He's going to have a hard time trying to smear me. We are in the same social circle with over 100 mutual friends, I am well loved and highly respected. People would be very suspicious if he started saying negative things about me. I have my life together And a solid business as a public figure. Again, he would have an extremely hard time trying to mess with that in a way that wouldn't make him look terrible. Would he just give up and go away at this point? I've been in no contact with him for several months and have him blocked on all social media. He is a musician and has plenty of women who can give him supply. He's been passive aggressive with me through social media and called me some ugly names to a friend of mine, but that's been it so far. Hopefully he'll just get bored and move onto somebody else.

Enjoy the weekend, Anoushka. Thank you, affirmative as always. We'll hear from you next week. Cheers -- thank you.

@SweepDailyWin

7 ай бұрын

Have a great weekend Eric! Warm regards, Oxford

@ericjackson-nq4hp

7 ай бұрын

😁@@SweepDailyWin

For yrs, I can just tell when another lies...when that happens..it's a new n reality I'm next to..don't even, ever be around liers..this is before horrid crap happens..lying really does the " good riddance" exit, if needed block there cell #.."

My narcissist ex has lifetime control over me by not letting me see my own son. When I tried to do something to resolve this it cost me my reputation and now have a restraining order against me. I am at wits end and feel like just ditching him as my son, I don’t want anymore of my life polluted with her toxicity.

She told me she wanted me more vulnerable with her. No matter what i did ecerything became blown up, unless she decided to talk to me etc etc and in the end told me she was better without after days before told me was so greatful for me. Huge fast switch suddenly.

That was really true...❤

Yea, I got a notification that someone was trying to get into my Facebook 3 times with 3 types of iPhone brands that she has and her friends . I ask, and she got mad . If you didn't do it, then it's no need to get mad. You're the only one I knew that has an iPhone

. . .and big THANK YOU again . . . .

These people are like a plague.Did you ever WATCH Venom?ITS like that plague getting STUCK on you and you remove a little but It keeps COMING back

I did things I never thought I would to get even with my narc ex. I slept with another woman & made her listen to it That broke her & I finally felt that I won the war at the end I have always misunderstood her need for control as love

I'm going thru this and im so confused.

@kaoshi_kutie

7 ай бұрын

Please stay strong! And know you have a community here that cares. Block and go no contact , keep toxicity out of your life! ❤

My toxic ex told me she found herself in me, twin flame etc etc terms i never heard of including narcism etc etc. I thought something was deeply off because of her past, how fast she told me these things like im her person, mirror etc and after 4 years along with many frequent raging and crying fits etc i was left, shamed blamed and left with no logical reasons that were actual truths to what happened but made to be the one who caused it

@stevereid4092

7 ай бұрын

Believe me it could have been worse at least you understand now. Thank her for the education, you've moved on better prepared and stronger, however that creature is stuck on loop! while there are no winners here you certainly didn't loose xx

@deezgex

7 ай бұрын

@stevereid4092 im still struggling though almost 5 months later Still.

Real good friends and family didn’t believe the narcissist! 🙏

@rde4017

7 ай бұрын

Would that were so!

4:00 Defamation, Libel and slander.

Yeah, but the intimacy still interests me. What was it like when you got there? When I was the narcissist, when all my skills were abnormal, the intimacy is what flushed me out. I would be laying there saying, tell me your first experience, this will be fun. And then she’d get this far away look, and this voice that you hadn’t heard before ever, and bring back the memory of an encounter, that in my mind dwarfed anything I had just offered. What good is “fun”, when she has had that! My high school sweetheart was several years in the past, but I still couldn’t bear it. I turned my head and I looked away. And that was where the end started happening. I was the narcissist, I was the lover….up until then. I just wonder how you went from beginning to end (God, I am terrible), being clueless? Now that is a narcissist for the big leagues. Anyway, you don’t seem as sad as before, I’ve started having you on my mind. I usually have some KZreadr somewhere, somehow, that resonates for the moment. Why keep telling my story, when people have heard it? Yeah, I meant to touch you, I hope that I did.

The music is annoying 😢