What you need to know if you suspect they may be cheating and yet they deny having an affair.
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@brightpage1020 Жыл бұрын
When you find evidence and they still deny deny deny... It is maddening. When your eyes have shown you the truth and their words make you feel insane.
@R.Ablack
11 ай бұрын
So tru
@NavyDave219
11 ай бұрын
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!
@coffee_uk
9 ай бұрын
It's called gaslighting it's mental abuse simple as that. They need to be and adult and stop trying to protect there ego. Walk away there immature selfish narcissistic people. It's nkt worth your energy.
@Gotoworkkk
Ай бұрын
Why don’t you leave him already? You’ve been on here complaining for years now!!
@brightpage1020
Ай бұрын
@@Gotoworkkk I wasn't talking about me. I was talking about you.
@Kskokan030510 ай бұрын
When you know, you know. There’s the gut feeling that can’t lie to you
@robertryan952
7 ай бұрын
So true. I've never regretted trusting my gut, even when something doesn't quite work out the way I want it to. But I've ALWAYS regretted when I haven't trusted my gut. It's there for a reason.
@NavyDave219
6 ай бұрын
@@robertryan952same
@kengarvin53413 ай бұрын
I had a gut feeling. Then I questioned her, she denied it, then I caught them together. The denial continued for ten months. Always go with your gut instinct. Totally devastating,wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy
@isiahwashington29992 жыл бұрын
When you know you know.
@tcoffey6
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@pattitorres4343
Жыл бұрын
That's my line 😊
@martinprice3487
Жыл бұрын
Beat me to it aswell 😂
@djchewmacca
Жыл бұрын
Me too
@Thomas-cc9yv
11 ай бұрын
Yup.
@dougie68868 ай бұрын
Women will never admit an affair
@lajuanalongoria5048
7 ай бұрын
Not true!
@Alphacentauri819
5 ай бұрын
I hope you get help for your cognitive distortions. Saying “women” when there are billions of women on the planet, and they can’t all be lumped together…your experience is but a small iota of what exists on earth. To make it a projection of all women is wholly warped, sad, and an attempt to feel certain/in control. The word “never” is due to a cognitive distortion as well. Always/never, black/white, is dichotomous thinking and shows an inability to see the many shades of grey in life, and is very limiting. Most people experience this way of thinking from time to time, but often can zoom out and realize they aren’t thinking clearly. However, those with mental health issues (especially personality disorders) use cognitive distortions regularly and don’t realize it. They have warped lenses, altered reality, and unreliable narratives as a result. There are some women who will absolutely admit an affair, some who won’t. I’ve heard many stories of the whole gamut. Maybe your painful experience is informing your tunnel vision…but it isn’t helping you. It is very unhealthy.
@blakeloyd1
4 ай бұрын
@JaredTAlleythey have them that measure the pupils. The pupils are 80% accurate in dedecting a lie.
@CedroneTravels
3 ай бұрын
I agree.
@saynotohookupsАй бұрын
I don't buy that they hate lying, have remorse and take responsibility for their actions. That's such bs!
@aychmorgan21 Жыл бұрын
Happened with my spouse, 4 years. Still struggle with dealing with resentment. Not sure if they’re still doing it, but the damage is extensive. 😢
@lisaarends8742
Жыл бұрын
It sure is.
@MoeAdrajas711 ай бұрын
I have finally got to the bottom of my ex partners cheating. I’m a heartbroken mess and my family is in ruins, I have young children and it kills me to know they won’t have the stability my parents provided for me. At least I know the only way is up from here.
@user-rc2xs5ti2w2 ай бұрын
If you don’t have that emotional intimacy in your marriage and have either someone else’s, it’s not robbing your marriage of anything.
@grantlapointe91523 жыл бұрын
Good-day Lisa. My name is Maggie ( Grants wife) or soon to be ex. Thank you for this video. I really can relate to everything you've said. I am sorry for what you went through. I am thankful though that God gave you the strength to overcome and help others.🙏💖🇨🇦🤗
@jensbornagain2 жыл бұрын
I remember my husband was treating me so badly wouldn’t talk me I suspected cheating so I asked and he lied. I did however find out he had a2 year affair. The messages was 🤮 but yet he swears he never touched her. Such lies
@greenmountainpokemon2112 Жыл бұрын
I'm almost 100% sure my wife is having an affair
@coffee_uk
9 ай бұрын
What is yoyr gut telling you. She could be gaslighting you.
@user-rc2xs5ti2w
2 ай бұрын
I admire this position of an observer, while you don't know it for sure.
@pammigill80982 ай бұрын
I salute u ur such a intelligent lady to make people understand
@6548ww8 ай бұрын
My wife got this new job a few years back? Within 2 months of employment she changed? Personality, her appearance including sexy lingerie she only wore to work, she started accusing me of going astray, always talking about her male coworkers like they were super heroes, obsessive texting and when I ask about this? It was the worst argument we ever had in 15 years of marriage and she moved into a spare bedroom and cut me off from sex and will no longer answer questions regarding this situation, she no longer works there she was fired she said for a parking lot violation?? Several speeding warnings?? Her other coworkers on that shift were fired around the same time for?? Wait for it??? Having sexual relations on company property during company hours even her Supervisor and Shift Lead were also fired for having sex with shift employees while at work when I ask her what she knew about it and if she had anything to do with it? TOTAL SILENCE ☹️
@blakeloyd1
4 ай бұрын
That is a horrible after 15 years. What a monster.
@truthwisdom1824 Жыл бұрын
I am in this situation and it’s like you are speaking to me. Thank you 😢
@user-dm1xh6bz3i3 ай бұрын
It's because they know the marriage will end for them once they get caught
@Gotoworkkk
Ай бұрын
Not true if you’re a woman though. They normally put themselves in a position where they have no money saved to leave. & they love him sooooo much!!! 🤔
@eccomiqua79603 ай бұрын
A cheater has already given themselves permission to deceive and lie to their official partner and they have chosen and renewed many times the same choice, so you need to anticipate this. f you have the guts feeling there is an inappropriate relationship, it is very likely you are right. They will deny it and, knowing you are suspicious, they will delete any evidence. So you have to play the game unfortunately and FIRST you look for and collect the evidence and only THEN you ask the question. If they are honest, you talk, if they are not and they will lie and gaslight you, shove the evidence in their face. It is THEIR FAULT if you had to play a dirty game you really would have never chosen.
@NavyDave2196 ай бұрын
Trust your gut
@eileenmolina9152 Жыл бұрын
My husband till, now he is lying if I ask him he will deny all of his cheating even if it's all obvious and I knew it all.. I just need to hear the words from him but he can't take responsibility of what he does and continually doing what they've started... He is cheating
@carldobbs335
3 ай бұрын
I'm in this same boat with my wife of 26 years right now, I think for me, what hurts the worse is for 22 years I never even so much as had a butterfly effect in my gut of the thought of her ever doing anything remotely close to an affair, then it was like one day she started acting strange and suddenly my gut go so twisted I literally almost threw up but still couldn't convince myself that it was because my gut ,heart and mind suddenly realized she's having an affair and I didn't question her for the longest time until with so much proof outside of catching her actually with someone, I finally broke down and asked her and of course I'm crazy, she wouldn't ever, but hell no I can't see her phone, no I can't have her screen code to her phone, no I can't have her password to her email accounts or even to her computer (though she has all my passwords to everything of mine), though never catching her in any lies in the prior 22 years, suddenly she lies about things that doesn't even make since to be lying about ect... what sucks the worse for me is, though I think she's taken a break from actually sleeping with anyone else, she's still talking to other men and I'm still so in love with my wife, I can't leave her
@lorrainem18703 жыл бұрын
Great video, I really needed to hear this, my husband had an affair for 6 years, he called it friends with benefits, now he’s very remorseful, ashamed, and empathic towards me, can you do a video about authentic remorse? What should I be looking for, thank you
@djuanaberuk9908
3 жыл бұрын
Lorraine M, is he willing to give full and complete disclosure for the 6 years he was in that affair and the others? Are you prepared to hear the truth and let the old marriage and old husband die? Consider why you will or should remain married to this person and the benefits to you? But also explore what divorce can bring. This is not an overnight process but I pray you have the courage and strength you need to face it.
@lorrainem1870
3 жыл бұрын
Yes he has told me everything over and over, and there were no other women, he is fighting for me to stay, our counselor said that not to many men fight for over a year to stay in the marriage and that he’s been a roll model, and wishes other men would do the same, it will be a year this April 25, and I’ve seen a huge difference in my husband especially with him being transparent with me, and only blames himself for his choice, I do have a long road ahead of me, I am not taking this lightly, thank you so much for your advice, it means a lot to me bless you
@markh4926
11 ай бұрын
Be careful, bet he does it again. Two wives, two cheaters. Not good to live through especially when we were raising two sons.
@Gotoworkkk
Ай бұрын
6 years ???? he won’t let the other woman go. Guaranteed…..
@jajajaja26248 ай бұрын
Nope they are one step from going all the way . They always say ( I dont have the time ) they are seeing someone else .
@spindrifter751910 күн бұрын
When someone cheats the relationship is over. Anything else is different and not real
@rjc72893 жыл бұрын
Hey Lisa, did you do something different with your hair? Looks nice!
@jimstone8966 Жыл бұрын
Thank you..I feel like you really understood and answered. Great insight. I feel less "crazy" during this. Ty
@sandblackbondchickcruz462
Жыл бұрын
If a man will have sex with his best friends girl trust he will cheat with any woman that offers it to him. He’s trash from the start!
@lisaarends8742
Жыл бұрын
It is definitely crazy-making
@rdr627610 ай бұрын
Thank you so much.
@jakeyjervis Жыл бұрын
Boy do I need a woman to talk to about my current predicament. You sure did nail the emotions in your into though. I've had 8 long term relationships in my life and 7 of them I physically caught cheating.
@pallasathena1369
2 ай бұрын
I had 3 long-term relationships, and all of them cheated. The last being the worst as he tried to buy an engagement ring to fix the situation but had no intention of stopping seeing his "friend". These people just have no empathy.
@vampire99999 Жыл бұрын
is your gut feeling normaly right a sicky feeling love your vids
@this-abledtheextravertedhe5299 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@lukek9598 Жыл бұрын
Nonjoke trust your gut so what you have to do to find out. And if you find out before they tell you leave. I know first hand after 18 years of it time makes it harder.
@user-rc2xs5ti2w2 ай бұрын
When they deny is double worse in terms of what their character means. But sometimes it can mean just a realism because there is no point to confess it.
@loualbino5536Ай бұрын
I hate 304s with a passion. Why can't people stay single and do whatever they want without hurting anyone?
@mikejohnson5157
22 күн бұрын
What is a 304?
@realisticoptimism680 Жыл бұрын
she kept saying “i’m not looking for a relationship with you or anyone else, I just want to work on myself” then I ask the dude I got suspicions about he gone tell me they kissed…. but she says they’re just friends now she doesn’t want to talk to me at all she says she feels unsafe which is fair but now idk if i’m being gaslit or not haven’t been talking to her but she know i’m still attached idc about the cheating I just want to talk about it and put it behind me for good
@hannahmitchell9162
11 күн бұрын
She's probably a narcissist they ghost you when caught out lying or cheating anything that brings them shame makes them run away and hide
@user-rc2xs5ti2w2 ай бұрын
This kind of thing is not shareable with a partner.
@aaacars12977 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the update load . Question for everyone. What if your gut keeps saying that there might be something there . Due to the pattern of your partner. But they are denying the allegations.. But your guts is still saying no there is something there . Do you think that they were in route of doing something? But since I mentioned it they stopped or do you think there is something there?
@ericcando2903
6 ай бұрын
Trust your guts. If they are purposely being vague about where they are going, or whom they are hanging out with, especially if they were transparent before. If they get defensive when you ask them where they are going, those are all possible signs.
@angiehannan4677
2 ай бұрын
In my case my husband denied everything and I asked him to stop whoever he was texting. I got to the point that I contacted our mobile phone provider and they emailed his text and phone logs to me (I paid the phone bill) I found 113 phone calls and over 1100 texts to his 20 year old co worker. My husband is 60. We’re no longer together and our adult children refuse contact with him. He has lost everything and destroyed our family. The man I loved and trusted with my life is nothing but a predator
@aaacars1297
2 ай бұрын
@@angiehannan4677 wow sorry to here that . I am still trying to figure things out . One thing I found out is that the person o believe that something is going on with they recently transferred to a different location. All of a sudden now she wants to leave the place ! That’s odd would you say !
@angiehannan4677
2 ай бұрын
If you are able to,dig deeper. I was able to match his phone calls to dates and times and cross referenced them with credit card statements. I saw that he would call her 2 or 3 times then drive 25 kilometres away and buy petrol from a petrol station close to her home. Good luck.
@aaacars1297
2 ай бұрын
@@angiehannan4677 thank you 🙏 appreciate it !
@benjamingranger4794 Жыл бұрын
You are amazing
@hannahmitchell916211 күн бұрын
You lost me at they have remorse most of them do not have remorse im afraid
@stevenbeadell8468Ай бұрын
Google their names their friends names family names and you will see google numbers it's how cheaters communicate
@eileenalley763028 күн бұрын
I’m living a horrible nightmare because I didn’t cheat! My life has become unbearable! Suicidal at moments! No where to run! I’m so tired of defending myself over something that never happened! Drive down the road and think of a 100 ways to end all of this! No way to prove my innocence! These videos cause more damage than good! So I wonder how many of your spouses are innocent and are living a nightmare as well ?!? How many of you have become so abusive they rather commit suicide than live another day ?!?
@sandblackbondchickcruz46210 ай бұрын
I think he is dating a colleague. He is definitely in love with her! He takes care of her children but downed me for having one. She gave him a pajamas and bought him a Nike suit for Christmas! He thinks I’m stupid! That is why he does not have any money. He is paying her bills and having her grass cut! Facts! The man thinks I’m stupid!
@moocrazytn
5 ай бұрын
You are stupid if you stay with him. I say that with compassion, not ridicule.
@Gotoworkkk
Ай бұрын
Are you like 60 years old?
@sandblackbondchickcruz462
Ай бұрын
No! Are you?? What does age have to do with a man cheating and using a woman? You must be a cheater yourself!
@sandblackbondchickcruz462
Ай бұрын
@@Gotoworkkk No are you? You probably are and shaped like an old person an egg and box hips! Go back to work and fix one of those cars so they will work For your customers!
@kongerkaritololoxx20085 ай бұрын
ANOTHER QUESTION IF I KNEW THAT I WAS A NOT THE ONLY GUY IN HERE LIFE BUT HAD NO PROBLEM WITH HER HAVING FRIENDS
@kongerkaritololoxx20085 ай бұрын
Should I feel guilty if I got caught by one of my girlfriends and the other one never found out that I had another girlfriend what should I do next time that I try to have a different relationship at the same time is it wrong if you never got caught or told her About it.
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When you find evidence and they still deny deny deny... It is maddening. When your eyes have shown you the truth and their words make you feel insane.
@R.Ablack
11 ай бұрын
So tru
@NavyDave219
11 ай бұрын
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!
@coffee_uk
9 ай бұрын
It's called gaslighting it's mental abuse simple as that. They need to be and adult and stop trying to protect there ego. Walk away there immature selfish narcissistic people. It's nkt worth your energy.
@Gotoworkkk
Ай бұрын
Why don’t you leave him already? You’ve been on here complaining for years now!!
@brightpage1020
Ай бұрын
@@Gotoworkkk I wasn't talking about me. I was talking about you.
When you know, you know. There’s the gut feeling that can’t lie to you
@robertryan952
7 ай бұрын
So true. I've never regretted trusting my gut, even when something doesn't quite work out the way I want it to. But I've ALWAYS regretted when I haven't trusted my gut. It's there for a reason.
@NavyDave219
6 ай бұрын
@@robertryan952same
I had a gut feeling. Then I questioned her, she denied it, then I caught them together. The denial continued for ten months. Always go with your gut instinct. Totally devastating,wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy
When you know you know.
@tcoffey6
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@pattitorres4343
Жыл бұрын
That's my line 😊
@martinprice3487
Жыл бұрын
Beat me to it aswell 😂
@djchewmacca
Жыл бұрын
Me too
@Thomas-cc9yv
11 ай бұрын
Yup.
Women will never admit an affair
@lajuanalongoria5048
7 ай бұрын
Not true!
@Alphacentauri819
5 ай бұрын
I hope you get help for your cognitive distortions. Saying “women” when there are billions of women on the planet, and they can’t all be lumped together…your experience is but a small iota of what exists on earth. To make it a projection of all women is wholly warped, sad, and an attempt to feel certain/in control. The word “never” is due to a cognitive distortion as well. Always/never, black/white, is dichotomous thinking and shows an inability to see the many shades of grey in life, and is very limiting. Most people experience this way of thinking from time to time, but often can zoom out and realize they aren’t thinking clearly. However, those with mental health issues (especially personality disorders) use cognitive distortions regularly and don’t realize it. They have warped lenses, altered reality, and unreliable narratives as a result. There are some women who will absolutely admit an affair, some who won’t. I’ve heard many stories of the whole gamut. Maybe your painful experience is informing your tunnel vision…but it isn’t helping you. It is very unhealthy.
@blakeloyd1
4 ай бұрын
@JaredTAlleythey have them that measure the pupils. The pupils are 80% accurate in dedecting a lie.
@CedroneTravels
3 ай бұрын
I agree.
I don't buy that they hate lying, have remorse and take responsibility for their actions. That's such bs!
Happened with my spouse, 4 years. Still struggle with dealing with resentment. Not sure if they’re still doing it, but the damage is extensive. 😢
@lisaarends8742
Жыл бұрын
It sure is.
I have finally got to the bottom of my ex partners cheating. I’m a heartbroken mess and my family is in ruins, I have young children and it kills me to know they won’t have the stability my parents provided for me. At least I know the only way is up from here.
If you don’t have that emotional intimacy in your marriage and have either someone else’s, it’s not robbing your marriage of anything.
Good-day Lisa. My name is Maggie ( Grants wife) or soon to be ex. Thank you for this video. I really can relate to everything you've said. I am sorry for what you went through. I am thankful though that God gave you the strength to overcome and help others.🙏💖🇨🇦🤗
I remember my husband was treating me so badly wouldn’t talk me I suspected cheating so I asked and he lied. I did however find out he had a2 year affair. The messages was 🤮 but yet he swears he never touched her. Such lies
I'm almost 100% sure my wife is having an affair
@coffee_uk
9 ай бұрын
What is yoyr gut telling you. She could be gaslighting you.
@user-rc2xs5ti2w
2 ай бұрын
I admire this position of an observer, while you don't know it for sure.
I salute u ur such a intelligent lady to make people understand
My wife got this new job a few years back? Within 2 months of employment she changed? Personality, her appearance including sexy lingerie she only wore to work, she started accusing me of going astray, always talking about her male coworkers like they were super heroes, obsessive texting and when I ask about this? It was the worst argument we ever had in 15 years of marriage and she moved into a spare bedroom and cut me off from sex and will no longer answer questions regarding this situation, she no longer works there she was fired she said for a parking lot violation?? Several speeding warnings?? Her other coworkers on that shift were fired around the same time for?? Wait for it??? Having sexual relations on company property during company hours even her Supervisor and Shift Lead were also fired for having sex with shift employees while at work when I ask her what she knew about it and if she had anything to do with it? TOTAL SILENCE ☹️
@blakeloyd1
4 ай бұрын
That is a horrible after 15 years. What a monster.
I am in this situation and it’s like you are speaking to me. Thank you 😢
It's because they know the marriage will end for them once they get caught
@Gotoworkkk
Ай бұрын
Not true if you’re a woman though. They normally put themselves in a position where they have no money saved to leave. & they love him sooooo much!!! 🤔
A cheater has already given themselves permission to deceive and lie to their official partner and they have chosen and renewed many times the same choice, so you need to anticipate this. f you have the guts feeling there is an inappropriate relationship, it is very likely you are right. They will deny it and, knowing you are suspicious, they will delete any evidence. So you have to play the game unfortunately and FIRST you look for and collect the evidence and only THEN you ask the question. If they are honest, you talk, if they are not and they will lie and gaslight you, shove the evidence in their face. It is THEIR FAULT if you had to play a dirty game you really would have never chosen.
Trust your gut
My husband till, now he is lying if I ask him he will deny all of his cheating even if it's all obvious and I knew it all.. I just need to hear the words from him but he can't take responsibility of what he does and continually doing what they've started... He is cheating
@carldobbs335
3 ай бұрын
I'm in this same boat with my wife of 26 years right now, I think for me, what hurts the worse is for 22 years I never even so much as had a butterfly effect in my gut of the thought of her ever doing anything remotely close to an affair, then it was like one day she started acting strange and suddenly my gut go so twisted I literally almost threw up but still couldn't convince myself that it was because my gut ,heart and mind suddenly realized she's having an affair and I didn't question her for the longest time until with so much proof outside of catching her actually with someone, I finally broke down and asked her and of course I'm crazy, she wouldn't ever, but hell no I can't see her phone, no I can't have her screen code to her phone, no I can't have her password to her email accounts or even to her computer (though she has all my passwords to everything of mine), though never catching her in any lies in the prior 22 years, suddenly she lies about things that doesn't even make since to be lying about ect... what sucks the worse for me is, though I think she's taken a break from actually sleeping with anyone else, she's still talking to other men and I'm still so in love with my wife, I can't leave her
Great video, I really needed to hear this, my husband had an affair for 6 years, he called it friends with benefits, now he’s very remorseful, ashamed, and empathic towards me, can you do a video about authentic remorse? What should I be looking for, thank you
@djuanaberuk9908
3 жыл бұрын
Lorraine M, is he willing to give full and complete disclosure for the 6 years he was in that affair and the others? Are you prepared to hear the truth and let the old marriage and old husband die? Consider why you will or should remain married to this person and the benefits to you? But also explore what divorce can bring. This is not an overnight process but I pray you have the courage and strength you need to face it.
@lorrainem1870
3 жыл бұрын
Yes he has told me everything over and over, and there were no other women, he is fighting for me to stay, our counselor said that not to many men fight for over a year to stay in the marriage and that he’s been a roll model, and wishes other men would do the same, it will be a year this April 25, and I’ve seen a huge difference in my husband especially with him being transparent with me, and only blames himself for his choice, I do have a long road ahead of me, I am not taking this lightly, thank you so much for your advice, it means a lot to me bless you
@markh4926
11 ай бұрын
Be careful, bet he does it again. Two wives, two cheaters. Not good to live through especially when we were raising two sons.
@Gotoworkkk
Ай бұрын
6 years ???? he won’t let the other woman go. Guaranteed…..
Nope they are one step from going all the way . They always say ( I dont have the time ) they are seeing someone else .
When someone cheats the relationship is over. Anything else is different and not real
Hey Lisa, did you do something different with your hair? Looks nice!
Thank you..I feel like you really understood and answered. Great insight. I feel less "crazy" during this. Ty
@sandblackbondchickcruz462
Жыл бұрын
If a man will have sex with his best friends girl trust he will cheat with any woman that offers it to him. He’s trash from the start!
@lisaarends8742
Жыл бұрын
It is definitely crazy-making
Thank you so much.
Boy do I need a woman to talk to about my current predicament. You sure did nail the emotions in your into though. I've had 8 long term relationships in my life and 7 of them I physically caught cheating.
@pallasathena1369
2 ай бұрын
I had 3 long-term relationships, and all of them cheated. The last being the worst as he tried to buy an engagement ring to fix the situation but had no intention of stopping seeing his "friend". These people just have no empathy.
is your gut feeling normaly right a sicky feeling love your vids
Thank you ❤
Nonjoke trust your gut so what you have to do to find out. And if you find out before they tell you leave. I know first hand after 18 years of it time makes it harder.
When they deny is double worse in terms of what their character means. But sometimes it can mean just a realism because there is no point to confess it.
I hate 304s with a passion. Why can't people stay single and do whatever they want without hurting anyone?
@mikejohnson5157
22 күн бұрын
What is a 304?
she kept saying “i’m not looking for a relationship with you or anyone else, I just want to work on myself” then I ask the dude I got suspicions about he gone tell me they kissed…. but she says they’re just friends now she doesn’t want to talk to me at all she says she feels unsafe which is fair but now idk if i’m being gaslit or not haven’t been talking to her but she know i’m still attached idc about the cheating I just want to talk about it and put it behind me for good
@hannahmitchell9162
11 күн бұрын
She's probably a narcissist they ghost you when caught out lying or cheating anything that brings them shame makes them run away and hide
This kind of thing is not shareable with a partner.
Thank you so much for the update load . Question for everyone. What if your gut keeps saying that there might be something there . Due to the pattern of your partner. But they are denying the allegations.. But your guts is still saying no there is something there . Do you think that they were in route of doing something? But since I mentioned it they stopped or do you think there is something there?
@ericcando2903
6 ай бұрын
Trust your guts. If they are purposely being vague about where they are going, or whom they are hanging out with, especially if they were transparent before. If they get defensive when you ask them where they are going, those are all possible signs.
@angiehannan4677
2 ай бұрын
In my case my husband denied everything and I asked him to stop whoever he was texting. I got to the point that I contacted our mobile phone provider and they emailed his text and phone logs to me (I paid the phone bill) I found 113 phone calls and over 1100 texts to his 20 year old co worker. My husband is 60. We’re no longer together and our adult children refuse contact with him. He has lost everything and destroyed our family. The man I loved and trusted with my life is nothing but a predator
@aaacars1297
2 ай бұрын
@@angiehannan4677 wow sorry to here that . I am still trying to figure things out . One thing I found out is that the person o believe that something is going on with they recently transferred to a different location. All of a sudden now she wants to leave the place ! That’s odd would you say !
@angiehannan4677
2 ай бұрын
If you are able to,dig deeper. I was able to match his phone calls to dates and times and cross referenced them with credit card statements. I saw that he would call her 2 or 3 times then drive 25 kilometres away and buy petrol from a petrol station close to her home. Good luck.
@aaacars1297
2 ай бұрын
@@angiehannan4677 thank you 🙏 appreciate it !
You are amazing
You lost me at they have remorse most of them do not have remorse im afraid
Google their names their friends names family names and you will see google numbers it's how cheaters communicate
I’m living a horrible nightmare because I didn’t cheat! My life has become unbearable! Suicidal at moments! No where to run! I’m so tired of defending myself over something that never happened! Drive down the road and think of a 100 ways to end all of this! No way to prove my innocence! These videos cause more damage than good! So I wonder how many of your spouses are innocent and are living a nightmare as well ?!? How many of you have become so abusive they rather commit suicide than live another day ?!?
I think he is dating a colleague. He is definitely in love with her! He takes care of her children but downed me for having one. She gave him a pajamas and bought him a Nike suit for Christmas! He thinks I’m stupid! That is why he does not have any money. He is paying her bills and having her grass cut! Facts! The man thinks I’m stupid!
@moocrazytn
5 ай бұрын
You are stupid if you stay with him. I say that with compassion, not ridicule.
@Gotoworkkk
Ай бұрын
Are you like 60 years old?
@sandblackbondchickcruz462
Ай бұрын
No! Are you?? What does age have to do with a man cheating and using a woman? You must be a cheater yourself!
@sandblackbondchickcruz462
Ай бұрын
@@Gotoworkkk No are you? You probably are and shaped like an old person an egg and box hips! Go back to work and fix one of those cars so they will work For your customers!
ANOTHER QUESTION IF I KNEW THAT I WAS A NOT THE ONLY GUY IN HERE LIFE BUT HAD NO PROBLEM WITH HER HAVING FRIENDS
Should I feel guilty if I got caught by one of my girlfriends and the other one never found out that I had another girlfriend what should I do next time that I try to have a different relationship at the same time is it wrong if you never got caught or told her About it.
@moocrazytn
5 ай бұрын
Are you serious?!?