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@RebeccaZungEsq

19 күн бұрын

I'll see you all there!

I believe that my ex kept making my life more miserable so that I would eventually leave, and he wouldn't be seen as the bad guy. I think he wanted a divorce, just like I did.

@NuSafari

19 күн бұрын

Lol. That's exactly what my ex said to me!!!

@denisedevoto5703

19 күн бұрын

@@NuSafari wow! Mine didn't come out and say it, but it was pretty obvious. Glad you got out too.

@denisedevoto5703

18 күн бұрын

@penijoni1316 sorry. I understand that too. I am disabled, and I stayed until my daughter graduated from college.

@pennytipp

18 күн бұрын

This is what my narc is doing right now but it didn’t start until last year immediately after I had 2 strokes. I’m no longer “perfect” in his eyes so I’m just a liability he wants to get rid of but it’s more difficult because he would definitely be seen as the bad guy he is. However the situation and lack of income won’t allow me to leave yet. It’s a living hell I wouldn’t wish on anyone.

@denisedevoto5703

18 күн бұрын

@@pennytipp I am so sorry. They really hate ill people. I was diagnosed with chronic fatigue in 2001, and he got so mad that I didn't have my status job anymore. I also gained weight and he was mad at that. Not having income makes it so much worse because you are stuck.

They have ZERO insight into the way they treat people.

@Yoruba_Goddess

18 күн бұрын

So true. I was trying to tell a Narc this yesterday. Sadly they dint get it nor eve. Care to. Ultimate reason we come to the realization because they don't

They "lose face" and they hate it... 😠

When the Magician realizes 1 person out in the studio audience knows the special-secret behind every trick he's got in his book and stands up in the middle of his show and shouts "The Dove is up his sleeve and the Rabbits already in the hat!!" Now how does that Magician feel?"

@TammBianc

19 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

My experience is first ghosting and pretending to move on 2) smear campaign 3) hoover 4) and then rinse and repeat. They can also just randomly turn up in places.

@rozalina531

19 күн бұрын

Not to mention stalking online, too, using multiple fake accounts, lol!

@popmonika

19 күн бұрын

​@@rozalina531 Funny thing is that it was their online life that ended up being their undoing.

To be fair: they give us PTSD and constant stress. Not too concerned that an abuser isn't happy.

@RebeccaZungEsq

18 күн бұрын

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I had a narc get “traumatized” when I went no contact. Total melt down. Too bad, so sad.

With Rebecca Zungs Slay my husband's ex actually LOST $12,000 a year and we finally got 50/50 custody. Unfortunately KAK is lashing back because she was granted final say over education and is holding the 11 yo back a grade "because she can". 11y/o self esteem is completely crushed and she doesn't care about the damage she is doing to him. It's pretty sad that custody evaluators and the courts aren't educated in these types of people.

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@DailamiPuang

18 күн бұрын

There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

@peterwilliams6361

18 күн бұрын

Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white

@DailamiPuang

18 күн бұрын

This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.

@peterwilliams6361

18 күн бұрын

You wont regret it

@user-yk1bz6xu3m

18 күн бұрын

naughty deed, it's your life, you are a codependent

it has been many years but I'm still angry about my ex's smear campaign from when I left and divorced him. I need to find a way past that

I never knew what it was, I was always confused, I had no real answers, I lived with him for 50 years not knowing what was going on I just tried to deal with it the best I could. Most of the time I spend my time in my room and trying not to interact with him. I am really messed up.

She can't look me in the eyes anymore. Funny thing is, she can't look many in the eyes either when she knows they know.

Stipulationship Manipulationship

Never going back! I like me again and the people around me now....Are so differt and nice!!! OMG...Unbelievable now! Cutting out one nasty person and her posey, Brought me so much happiness within one year!!!

"Too bad so sad"

A narc seeing his next doors neighbors house on fire he would not help put the fire out not call for help even if it means his own house burns to the ground. That’s how bad it is for him to inflict the utmost pain upon himself just to see his presumed adversary suffer

@RebeccaZungEsq

16 күн бұрын

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They can realize something?

Wanted to come on here and thank you for YOUR KNOWLEDGE!! I thought I was the problem!!! Today...I leave court a FREE MAN!!! The narc gets on the stand in court...and exclaims to the jury and court..and when asked what she wanted out of this....she asked for a 5 year order of protection... the judge had to tell the jury a crime has to committed before punishment is handed out!!! She lied so much ....The lies became more lies until the situation was senseless!!! It took the jury less than 5 minutes to come to a conclusion....

@RebeccaZungEsq

16 күн бұрын

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I am in your Facebook group for a long time now. This is the first time. I’ve actually watched a video of yours though. I think you are amazing. You are absolutely stunning and beautiful. And honestly, you are giving some great advice I am in the middle of breaking a trauma bond right now. It is absolutely horrible. Thank you for spreading your wisdom.

Too bad so sad

Slaying the dragon!

Too bad so sad thanks Rebecca. Thanks for all you do

It took me 6 years to get divorced from my narcissistic ex-husband. And she nailed it on everything

Handy man installed high frequency software in my ceiling, tortures me with the frequency when I am alone.. he knows where I am in my home at anytime he know when I leave my home and my return. He has done a lot of things to me as he has the keys to my home. Almost cause my death on three occasions. Nobody believes me as he denied everything. He has just turned the sound up as we speak. Help

I wish I found your channel 12mths ago!! After months of an incredibly messy divorce via a solicitor who needed to go on training to deal with a narcissist and your channel. I’ve finally managed to get my divorce over the line (subject to court sign off!!).

Too bad, so sad… Thank you, Rebecca, you’re so brilliant and beautiful. Thank you for all your strengthening hard work!🌹

Thanks!

"Too bad, so sad." For the most part we see each other three to five times a year which are "special" days to me. You don't include me in your life with your friends, even the ones who know me because I am your mom and they came to our house when you were a child. We live less than four miles apart. I'm glad you make good money and can go where ever you desire whenever your desire. I love you now and always will.

@RebeccaZungEsq

16 күн бұрын

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the one and only amazing Rebecca Zung; thanks so much as always to you and your team;

Thank you so much for this Rebecca, You really know your stuff and have immense understanding, You're absolutely beautiful Rebecca, Thank you so much for everything, This speaks volumes, All the gaslight, Trianulating, Manipulating, influencing, Gangstalking, Confusion, All the manipulative tactics they use, I see through the mask and facade, Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory to the most high God, Keep shining light and speaking truth and educating people, Love you Rebecca, You're an inspiration to me 😃🦁💙💗💛💚❤🌈🌌🕆⚽🌹☘🚀😘🍏🍎👽🍄♱🐎🦄✌⚖🕊💜

Too bad, so sad...:)

Mine is trying to have me killed. I’ve all ready been loosing this game including my son who’s adoptive nanny is now asking me for my mothers birth date, full name and place of birth even. I’m being hit by 11+ years of damage and there’s a group of them. What do I do? 🇺🇸♾️😎

It's the love boat.They know the propeller won't turn right ❤❤

The day after he tried to shove me from a moving car. The day after that, when the police came to take him away, he was genuinely shocked! He tried to kill me, and was SURPRISED! C R A Z Y, monster.

I don't think my ex is a narcissist but he definitely displayed those behaviors during the divorce. It was tantrum oriented, blaming, "everyone" thinks you're a b*tch, no one agrees with you ...blah, blah, blah.

@RebeccaZungEsq

18 күн бұрын

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Yes Rebecca 💕karma is real 🙏

@RebeccaZungEsq

18 күн бұрын

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Do they feel like this even when they have new supply?

@rhondabunkley5064

19 күн бұрын

They typically have many supply's and in the beginning, yes. They typically will try to come back around at some point because it's easier to recycle someone they know how to manipulate rather than start with someone new. (My 2 cents from what I've studied and experienced) I had to block my last boyfriend along with his family to get away for good.

@shaunskii

18 күн бұрын

@@rhondabunkley5064 same, blocking has been the best tactic for me so far. But now she is trying to drag me through the legal system due to her narcissistic injury because I said enough is enough, I’m done! Well, I guess she is not. She’s trying to project all her wrong doings and is trying to portray me as the bad guy. I have done so much for her, and gave so much of myself that it affected my health, sleep, and well being. I went financially in the hole trying to support her and I had to tear away or I’d lose everything. Then when I say I am done and how horrible of a person she is, she kicks me when I’m at my lowest point and is now dragging me through the court system. Also, don’t put them on your lease! They won’t leave and will take try to take your place from you. I ended up leaving a place I had been at 13 years and she had only been at 1 year. Also, don’t tell them you’re leaving; just one day move all your stuff out and be gone. Keeping her blocked forever.

@tinkerbell003

18 күн бұрын

@@rhondabunkley5064 that’s what I have done I changed my number and deleted his family off social media my ex of ten years abandoned me and my daughter for a woman he met on an escort booking website who he was paying for services now they are in a rebound relationship she has been sending me messages saying they are planning on starting a family it’s very painful and I feel like the 10 years I spent with him has been completely invalidated.

To bad so not sad

This person can't return because he married another person. It's legally impossible .. not to mention emotionally and spiritually impossible. Therefore, it's a massive what? BOUNTY TIME.

@RebeccaZungEsq

18 күн бұрын

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too bad .. so sad ..

@RebeccaZungEsq

18 күн бұрын

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@2:50 🤣

Money motivates me that's what I want to say

To bad, so sad, I'm glad.

@RebeccaZungEsq

18 күн бұрын

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To bad,so sad !

@RebeccaZungEsq

18 күн бұрын

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Too bad, so sad!!! Blocked another flying monkey :)))) Poor baby :)))))

Too bad too sad

@RebeccaZungEsq

18 күн бұрын

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🙏💜🌍💜🌍💜🌍💜🌍💜🌍💜🙏

@RebeccaZungEsq

16 күн бұрын

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And to bad so sad

@RebeccaZungEsq

18 күн бұрын

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Sorry NOT sorry

@RebeccaZungEsq

18 күн бұрын

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🥰

@RebeccaZungEsq

18 күн бұрын

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Narcissist, most overused word with out so much as a diagnosis or proof😂. Easy button , blame fir everything and no accountability or responsibility on the other party ( look long in that mirror)😮

@RebeccaZungEsq

16 күн бұрын

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Too bad so sad

@RebeccaZungEsq

18 күн бұрын

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Too bad so sad

Too bad so sad

@RebeccaZungEsq

18 күн бұрын

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