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  • @RoseKent-uu7rw
    @RoseKent-uu7rwАй бұрын

    I know some women would like to know that the Narc cared and is hovering cause they miss you…even if it’s just for your egos sake….but trust me when they leave and won’t contact you…it is a blessing. I pray every night that the vicious moron will stop stalking…16 months thus far. When that mask drops for real and they stop begging and crying for forgiveness….the demonic monster arrives. When you get rid of them…stay far away and never break no contact, ever!

  • @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm

    @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm

    Ай бұрын

    @RoseKent-uu7rw Amen 🙏

  • @bradhayescamoman9348
    @bradhayescamoman9348Ай бұрын

    Be the one who got away & live your best life @ a distance & silence!

  • @marilynwanzer1201
    @marilynwanzer1201Ай бұрын

    No Hoovers in almost two years! It’s a blessing! I’m finally healing and on my way to being whole! Thank you so much for your teachings! NO CONTACT FOREVER!

  • @Denzelswife-rb7qz

    @Denzelswife-rb7qz

    Ай бұрын

    stay alert...its coming...after 20 yrs I still get fake friend requests, unknown caller id

  • @Peacealways247
    @Peacealways247Ай бұрын

    These clowns miss everyone. 😂

  • @georgina1921

    @georgina1921

    29 күн бұрын

    So true. 😂

  • @ashleykathryn9038

    @ashleykathryn9038

    11 күн бұрын

    Attachment disorder for sure! Love you when you're gone, hate you when you're there. Totally backwards.

  • @Dean-zn8du
    @Dean-zn8duАй бұрын

    No hoovers in nearly 4 months. Nice and quiet loving the life. Repair and aim to my goals.

  • @nopereradicator
    @nopereradicatorАй бұрын

    They’re so out of touch with their feelings and their feelings are so repressed any expression of their feelings translates as creepy when they express it.

  • @iamterrashiacrume
    @iamterrashiacrumeАй бұрын

    I left that narc with the worst injury he’s EVER had! He had the NERVE to do the ugly cry in front of me and all I could do was stand there with a straight face 😐 with absolutely no emotion at all. #CheckMate!

  • @Vanessa-le7so

    @Vanessa-le7so

    29 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @TheCurlyBeauty
    @TheCurlyBeautyАй бұрын

    I lucked up when my ex-narc abandoned and discarded me, and he moved to a different state. He popped up in my email, called my job, and had his parents call me. He's completely unhinged. No contact is the flex.

  • @NicoleLoves

    @NicoleLoves

    Ай бұрын

    How long did it take for them to contact u after leaving out of state?

  • @TheCurlyBeauty

    @TheCurlyBeauty

    Ай бұрын

    @NicoleLoves He left the state, asked for separation three weeks later, and started blowing me up THE next day. It's been 7 months now, and he has reached out at least once or 2x a month since February.

  • @NicoleLoves

    @NicoleLoves

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@TheCurlyBeautyOh wow yeah my ex left 2 weeks ago and he told me he is done with the relationship and never coming back , I'm just like okay because I did nothing but try to love him and he was toxic

  • @TheCurlyBeauty

    @TheCurlyBeauty

    Ай бұрын

    @NicoleLoves As hard as it may be, let him go. Educate yourself on NPD and other personality disorders and so much will be revealed to you. His discard was a blessing in disguise. I had no clue what I was dealing with until I was outside of it. You'll get your power back.

  • @Denzelswife-rb7qz

    @Denzelswife-rb7qz

    Ай бұрын

    wow...my ex found me on FB, tried to track me on my cell .. they crazy !!!

  • @chrismanning1171
    @chrismanning1171Ай бұрын

    When my narc ex wife got divorced by the NS she left me for, she reached out. She contacted a friend of mine she has not spoken to in almost 20 years just to let him know she is getting a divorce. I didn't care one bit because she was using him to get to me.

  • @reneemassey-2827
    @reneemassey-2827Ай бұрын

    He's still talking about me with my fam a year later! I WILL NOT break no contact for any reason...

  • @viewerwatching5712
    @viewerwatching5712Ай бұрын

    Block them go no contact and remain unbothered. I have her blocked and she continued calling from different numbers or had flying monkeys calling so i had to go blackout and change my number. Beat it demon, no narc zone here! The crazy part is that she adamantly pushed for a divorce after 20 years!

  • @michaeltaylor9096
    @michaeltaylor9096Ай бұрын

    Narc is blocked. So far no HOOVER'S

  • @aprilcobianchi2815
    @aprilcobianchi2815Ай бұрын

    Yes I shamed him he will never come back be gone nac thank you sister❤️🙏

  • @njerikiarie8928
    @njerikiarie8928Ай бұрын

    The narc just reached out via email coz they're 🚫 everywhere else offering to pay me back the money they "borrowed" from me 2 years ago. This is a full 20 months later than they said they would pay me. Then the fool sent me 20 dollars on PayPal. The fool owes me $1000. By the way, in the 2 years the fool had my money, the fool has been on more than 4 international vacations. I've given up hope on ever getting my money back

  • @donnasoares9141
    @donnasoares9141Ай бұрын

    Your right he’s been talking about me for 20 years

  • @Denzelswife-rb7qz

    @Denzelswife-rb7qz

    Ай бұрын

    yup

  • @belinokidz9716
    @belinokidz9716Ай бұрын

    They are busy using vodoo over yo especially if you dealt with a covert narx.He will notjust easily let you go.

  • @Spiritualemperor28
    @Spiritualemperor28Ай бұрын

    Today it’s 1 and a half year since i went no contact with my ex. It has been a journey of selfhealing, selfcare. In periods it has been rough and somedays it still is, but the things i have experienced Since i went no contact is totally worth the pain. I have lived and enjoyed life so much more the last year, than i had for a LONG TIME! For the first time i experience What freedom, peace and happines is all about! I bless no contact ❤️

  • @jenty2713
    @jenty2713Ай бұрын

    That hair is popping...absolutely love it BEAUTIFUL!!!!!

  • @Amazinglady60
    @Amazinglady60Ай бұрын

    Yes it’s terrible the hovering is bad but I alone can’t take that back

  • @dannybrown1628
    @dannybrown16285 күн бұрын

    I'm glad you said something about the kids and it's exactly what you said she's coming hard using the kid's and everything I never knew somebody can be this demonic

  • @kaviabean8535
    @kaviabean8535Ай бұрын

    I shamed the clown real bad in front of his family and new supply and he still want me🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @WomanofGod-jc4cj
    @WomanofGod-jc4cjАй бұрын

    GOOD EVENING QUEEN AND FAMILY. HAVE A BLESSED WEEKEND ❤❤

  • @annettet7941
    @annettet7941Ай бұрын

    Wow, the timing of this message is crazy. Happened today

  • @monicap328able

    @monicap328able

    Ай бұрын

    @annette7941 me to

  • @rosiebrooks7685

    @rosiebrooks7685

    Ай бұрын

    He keeps calling and messaging he love me. He blocked.

  • @erikas9945
    @erikas9945Ай бұрын

    This is 100% true on this awesome Friday❤❤

  • @gumbikim5454
    @gumbikim5454Ай бұрын

    don't trust the narc one bit

  • @harriettubman6641
    @harriettubman6641Ай бұрын

    Your videos for me are healing and therapeutic. Thank you❤

  • @TwilaB0721
    @TwilaB072116 күн бұрын

    Relationships is a give and take, not always taking and not giving anything back or even helping a person.

  • @Patricia_Stewart337

    @Patricia_Stewart337

    6 күн бұрын

    We give, they take. We can wait forever for the balance to come.

  • @user-by4sd2jy2c
    @user-by4sd2jy2cАй бұрын

    The narc ran a smear campaign on his exes. Now i realize the game that they played. TGBTG he's enjoying the block 🎉party. 😂

  • @leetheconnoisseur8982
    @leetheconnoisseur8982Ай бұрын

    Amazing... I love it when you say "supply" 😆... It makes me laugh but i know it's real talk.. Wonderfully taught..

  • @Patricia_Stewart337
    @Patricia_Stewart3376 күн бұрын

    I THOUGHT my ex-narc boyfriend was still interested in me. My mistake! He couldn’t care less or it was a GREAT act. Ice cold.

  • @tyreewilliams7954
    @tyreewilliams7954Ай бұрын

    Amen, Ms.Telsha, never going back 💯🔥

  • @leandraherring1824
    @leandraherring1824Ай бұрын

    THESE BIRDS ARE UNHINGED.. I DON'T HAVE TO SMEAR YOUR NAME NOR ETC I JUST SIMPLY NOTHING YOU. MEAN I WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.. IN THIS LIFE 💯💯 LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA 💞💞

  • @marikkasinsky7900
    @marikkasinsky790027 күн бұрын

    Hi, i don't know how i survived? Only God saved me, never lose faith. ❤🎉

  • @nikkigirl4072

    @nikkigirl4072

    23 күн бұрын

    Amen!🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

  • @beedido439
    @beedido439Ай бұрын

    Telsha! Thank you so much for last night’s live video. I am w you 💯in all points. Wish I could have live chatted to show support. I agree w you regarding the sexuality, keeping to yourself and living a life close the father. He is coming soon and our treasure needs to be heaven. Love you my sister in Christ. God bless you.

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783Ай бұрын

    Hi Ms. Telsha. Good day to you🌞There was this one narc that would never hoover me directly only miscellaneously emails and I believe she was subscribing me to different things, so I wouldn't know who was doing the hoovering and whoever it was didn't want me to know. Those are the worst! Smh

  • @rexil4585

    @rexil4585

    Ай бұрын

    This is exactly what my ex narc doing to me now.

  • @lagoldie9783

    @lagoldie9783

    Ай бұрын

    @@rexil4585 I'd rather them just show themselves forth, that's much easier 😂

  • @angelinaelder5474
    @angelinaelder547414 күн бұрын

    Thank you / Truth 2 Power Hour

  • @elainaward1782
    @elainaward1782Ай бұрын

    To want the rattle snake to bother you is funny to me I'm glad mines got a new supply he loading up with babies thinking he making me mad for ugly snakes they having but she will get him for everything I don't cause he doesn't have any rights to my kid I didn't let him signed the birth certificate so I don't have to co parent or anything since during pregnancy he said it wasn't his kid I kept the same energy and I refused to test her to get in energy and long as he don't have results we good

  • @BobbyBillingsley-ei9ie
    @BobbyBillingsley-ei9ieАй бұрын

    I hate this women went thru what she did but now she is a relationship specialist..... Thanks for the information...

  • @marikkasinsky7900
    @marikkasinsky790027 күн бұрын

    Thanks for you're videos it is helpful , in my life it still is, it been 1.5 years since discard, she still hovers me in my dreams, the only advice i gave my self and it helps, is a old testament, that's the only spirituality a need to come out, she always comes to me in clubs, or in dreams , it is a spiritual war, want to sher this with you.

  • @exoticbloomingflowergirl
    @exoticbloomingflowergirlАй бұрын

    Love your hair like this! 😊

  • @TuerlingsTim
    @TuerlingsTimАй бұрын

    The reason is that you where a copy in their head and when you left the copy is still there.

  • @alethea-rhema819
    @alethea-rhema819Ай бұрын

    You are beautiful, dear sister. Thank you for the Tea! I appreciate you! ❤

  • @Pinky2424
    @Pinky2424Ай бұрын

    You’re so on point. And you are always looking so beautiful as always!!

  • @shirleysimon2548
    @shirleysimon2548Ай бұрын

    YOUR RIGHT ❤. HE CALLED. GOT TO TELL ME. SOMETHING N THAT'S. A. LIE.

  • @All-Around-Bro
    @All-Around-BroАй бұрын

    I absolutely love your content. It is extremely refreshing and a refreshing take on a deep dive into narcissist. My only concern and maybe this will be invalidated is, I feel like your videos may be biased towards the female victim, and the male is the only narcissist in your description. While I agree, narcissism tends to be more male dominated, there’s certainly no shortage of female narcissists, and I feel like your content could be so much better if you take a deep dive into both - universally.

  • @mickkesee1758
    @mickkesee1758Ай бұрын

    The narcissist that I am with put me out then back to her X now she back acting like she has changed talking about she didn't know what she had until she was a way from me now she wants to hold me hostage 24 hours a day

  • @rochellemack642
    @rochellemack642Ай бұрын

    Jazmine says it best ""come & pick up yo feelings!!!

  • @jaslyn5501

    @jaslyn5501

    Ай бұрын

    Don’t leave no pieces!

  • @geraldpleasant7733
    @geraldpleasant7733Ай бұрын

    The answer is no completely I know her agenda completely and Satan Dominic spirts controlling her and if God didn't design me too be that way period door close permanently because of trust and she knows that I m out peace I love myself enough to say no and that too any woman that God has made period and my decision will stand period....

  • @krisluvsutube2684
    @krisluvsutube2684Ай бұрын

    I'm trying to understand what is the narcissist thinking when they hoover with other people? I have gotten knocks on the door from the narcissist (my mother) and they are with other relatives. (twice) Are they doing that to see if I will blow my stack? Threaten to call the law? I haven't answered the door and not sure how to deal with this because I'm not the only owner of the property and if I get a restraining order then I'd have to break no contact cause I'd have to appear in court. But why after like over a year? Cause my dad died and she's hoping that I'd feel sorry for her?! My theory is that she can't get negative supply anymore because the landfill is closed permanently over here and there's nobody to throw the bs on and they must be desperate for that negative fix!!! Do you think this is what it is?

  • @Terri302

    @Terri302

    Ай бұрын

    The number #1 rule of narcissism is control. Challenge fuel ,Sounds like she's trying to triangulate ,and gaslight you ,to me . Yup Don't give in ,if I were you I would leave the state without a sound she's isolating you, That's dangerous, talk to Telsha about this , they some dangerous people. ✌️🩷

  • @marikkasinsky7900
    @marikkasinsky790027 күн бұрын

    Hi, want to sher : you see I gave the narcissist a spiritual wall by old testament, as long as I'm staying on golden middle and doing god's will no one can harm me , yes some times the horse runs of the road ; so I got back on track, it was from god a trial, I lend my leson and want to sher with everybody, maybe it can help .All the best love you❤🎉 ‏‪11:30‬‏

  • @janebraun4482
    @janebraun44824 күн бұрын

    So if there appears indirect messaging or game playing to trigger me, then likely he is not really over me, but why do this? Why not just reach me directly, I think control and power.

  • @lischrisjrzaire4923
    @lischrisjrzaire4923Ай бұрын

    Thanks

  • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships

    @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships

    Ай бұрын

    You’re welcome. God bless you!

  • @raffitavityan9583
    @raffitavityan9583Ай бұрын

    All the time the time i was studying the narcissist with the help of LORD OF HOST, SON OF GOD, HOLY SPIRIT AND MY ANGELS. THAT FREE SPIRIT WHITE GIRL HAD NO IDEA ( Succubus, Lilith and the witch one i can't remember her name ) GLORY TO THE LORD OF HOST.

  • @Ms_SexxyDiva504
    @Ms_SexxyDiva504Ай бұрын

    💫Good evening. Have a great weekend. Nolalower9Ward ⚜️⚜️

  • @scorpiomama
    @scorpiomamaАй бұрын

    Replay✋🏾

  • @carolinadixon8945
    @carolinadixon8945Ай бұрын

    Child please I didn't tell my ex nothing I just left I felt like should not tell nothing they know why leave them were they at child

  • @Bunny-tu5nb
    @Bunny-tu5nbАй бұрын

    mines was sure he was over me till he found out i was out the program and lost it and swore i was at my other dudes house when i wasnt then as soon as i asked him to come over he was all for it now we rekindled and like the first week or so he was nice but eventually he started acted the same and i told him im not putting up with none of the bs i dealt with in the past ima let go and move im happy i went to the recovery program because now im putting love back in to myself and not so focused on him

  • @rosiebrooks7685
    @rosiebrooks7685Ай бұрын

    Father's day is coming up and i feel guilty.

  • @MaxPotential32
    @MaxPotential32Ай бұрын

    Lol😂 the narc gave me a fake Marc Jacobs handbag . Soooo , I’m FAKE . Alright then BET 😎 Lol😂 I would never wear REAL designer around him or the females he has . They are ALL JEALOUS 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @marcusxsara8896
    @marcusxsara8896Ай бұрын

    L🤎🪷E🙏🏾

  • @stevenkovler5133
    @stevenkovler5133Ай бұрын

    Yeah, but how do you know if they are not just trying to use you for money? I mean , what if she has a new man , and is using us both. I think her new supply may be fairly well-off and she wants to use my money to make it look like 10:15 she has her own. He maybe paying for her vacation and flights, but the relationshio is only about a month old , so she has to look like she has her own money. The teuth is I wish I never divorced her … I was pushed by my family etc… There have been times when she threatens that if I don’t do her a favor she will never talk to me again. Her exact text was loose my number if you don’t get me these documents at the house. Then when I got to the house , it turned out there were no documents!! She just wanted me to feed the cat!

  • @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm

    @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm

    Ай бұрын

    @stevenkovler5133 Go No Contact or ride the roller coaster direct to hell. She is trying to destroy you, but she needs your permission

  • @viewerwatching5712
    @viewerwatching5712Ай бұрын

    How can you get over someone when you destroy the relationship and run to another person without healing. They are damaged demon possessed demons, she has legions of demons!

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