I think a Narc’s worst nightmare is exposure of their true self for all the world to see, which can damage their carefully curated reputation.🤷🏽‍♀️

@user-em3wn9qv8v

Ай бұрын

Totally Correct

@cwsutton719

8 күн бұрын

💯💯

When a former victim glows up and goes on to have a better life.

@nicharr7796

Ай бұрын

This!!!!!

@user-em3wn9qv8v

Ай бұрын

AGREED 👍🏾💯 that's ME 🫸🏾❤🫷🏾

@sarahw7196

Ай бұрын

They miss out and feel left behind

@enlightenedjade

Ай бұрын

Yes!

@northernstarseedtarot

17 күн бұрын

Yes

Being alone is their worst nightmare.

@vickeyrose8231

Ай бұрын

🎯 🎯 🎯

@santatra6663

29 күн бұрын

true

@almostagoodman

27 күн бұрын

Right? Who will they gaslight and feel superior over? And worse, they have to only deal with themselves.

His biggest nightmare is waking up, and realizing that the gig is up and everybody knows their tendencies

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

🙏

@grantaugustyniak6667

Ай бұрын

So true !

@Shut-up-Shelly

Ай бұрын

@@grantaugustyniak6667hell yeahhhhhh!!!!

@user-em3wn9qv8v

Ай бұрын

😂 STRAIGHT UP 👆🏽

@amanda4realsosoa

21 күн бұрын

Bingo!!!

When you’ve figured the narcissist out, stayed quiet, left in the middle of the night, or during the day, blocked them, deleted your social media, changed your cell/mobile number, address and gone completely No Contact and escaped. Never to be seen or heard from again!! That in my opinion is a narcissist’s worse nightmare. Living well and living free!! 🕊

@the-oldest-3-year-old

Ай бұрын

YAAASSS!!!

@tanyaprendeville9425

Ай бұрын

That's what I did!

@eringobragh7

Ай бұрын

@@tanyaprendeville9425 Me too!

@the-oldest-3-year-old

Ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💪🏻👏🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@McStealy

Ай бұрын

Exactly this.. But daytime.. That first night free was the most restful night I'd had in 4 years.

Losing their minds because they can no longer control you. Stay strong survivors. Real love comes😊

I think one of their biggest nightmare is realizing you don't need them

@TheAcheron333

28 күн бұрын

Yes, and that your Life IS much better without them

They will lie, deny and smear the other person.

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

🎯

@Butterfly72890

Ай бұрын

Ya smear campaign was ridiculous

Being all alone & having no one to call. No supply.

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

😩

Their biggest nightmare is being strong and not needing anything from them

Narcissist worst nightmare - Being abandoned/ no contact - Doesn't matter who " discarded " who. Just heard your answer being exposure. No contact exposes them as the crazy ones considering they painted you as the crazy ex but their plan fails when you block them permanently and never contact them again which they don't think you are strong enough to do that.

Being exposed for who they really are

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

💯

Biggest nightmare is being found out as a fraud

Their worse nightmare is being found out they constantly LIE. !!!

Everyone knowing what he’s done behind their backs and for how long. No place to hide and no one to blame.

@InkdNXS

Ай бұрын

Bingo

Their biggest nightmare is facing their childhood trauma

@Blessed591

Ай бұрын

Which trauma is this ?? I don't understand. Many of us were traumatized in childhood but we turned out to be empaths . . . I just don't get it . . .

@bed_betch_frangelica9880

Ай бұрын

@@Blessed591 everyone’s trauma impacts them differently some of us learn to deal with it and some people hold onto it to protect their feelings so they never have to feel that way again.

@irisward4925

21 күн бұрын

Yes!! My now ex, just wont open up, just wont go talk to someone, instead he takes pills (is an addict) and just goes from bad to worse

@bed_betch_frangelica9880

20 күн бұрын

@@irisward4925 I’m glad he’s your ex. Choosing peace over chaos is the best thing that ever happened to me 🫶🏽

Now I understand why he hates me. I exposed him for who he is and now his facade of an image is ruined forever. I can live with that though 😅

They are the worst nightmare

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

That’s true

@straightfacts5043

Ай бұрын

Lol😂so true! Nothing but stress and headaches.

Being fully exposed.

From recent experience, it is having the mask pulled off, exposing the real person underneath. His attempts to isolate me , smear me etc, have failed. Playing the victim has also failed. He is losing his mind right now.

Facing the void within and being left with themselves

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

😩

God can read their hearts. He knows their motives.

Enforcing boundaries. That’s a narcs worst nightmare. The word no as well.

Scary and sad to know that their are people that want you sitting at home all day doing nothing and serving them.

A narcissist's worst nightmare is being the hunted instead of the hunter.

The word: NO.

They don’t want to be exposed to the fact that they have a malignancy, which is worse than cancer to me because it’s like down to the soul of them like they’re black hearted if they have a heart and that’s kind of sad and they have no idea

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

💯

Their worst nightmare? Being ignored

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

💯

@annerison

19 күн бұрын

Being blocked

Channels like this is narcissists' nightmare because we are here talking about them.

I think Their worst nightmare is when all of his secrets are exposed and he is finally seen as the man without the mask. Yuk Yuk Yuk

They are they own worst nightmare

Lee Your video's are such a guiding light! I got friendly with a married guy, he neglected to tell me about his wife. He has some weird ass fetishes and so I told him we would never be an item, and he ghosted me. I found out he was married after he vanished, and I texted him I was putting his/our conversations on social media after he admitted to cheating from day one on his wife, having women in his marital bed, hooking up with women across the country - I was horrified! He even straight up came out and told me he thought he was a demon lol I screenshot the whole lot lol He's on vacation with his wife at the moment, but instead of relaxing, he is worrying about what I am going to post on social media 😀😀😀I'm not going to actually do it but the power is in the threat!

@foxiefair123

Ай бұрын

Just be careful of this guy.

@deec1601

Ай бұрын

@@foxiefair123 He's probably sat on a sunbed pretending to be having a good time, and behind the mask plotting my demise lol Some of the things he said before he realised I was going to screen shot the convo are nothing short of disgusting .. he won't have the balls, he's screwed himself! As Lee would say 'Gotcha Gotcha Gotcha' 🤣

Being called out on their bullshit and being vulnerable

Educated empath as in figuring out their game and what their about, knowing and understanding their manipulation and no longer putting up with them.😮

Biggest nightmare:( possibly) not being able to control the narrative and control you..plus abandonment issues..?

They are absolutely afraid of losing a very good supply and doesn't want the supply to be with anyone else 😉 🙄 because ain't no body gonna supply them just like the other supply did 😉

Accountability and apologising for it.

Being exposed and left " alone"

❤ No Contact!!!❤

The narc says, “I wish you really knew me”, 🤦🏽‍♀️

Being alone. I don't think exposed is a problem because they just move on to a new supply , a new location . Starting over each time the mask slips

Losing supply!

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

Def 1

@vickeyrose8231

Ай бұрын

True but they move on quickly anyone is a new supply for them

@deborahmotley7224

Ай бұрын

I'm sorry but what is supply?

10:21 "meeting their equal." Thank you for the clarity on this specific point.

Wait don’t say it …. Abandonment ! Let’s see if I was right , dang what time do you go live or is it Out the blue! Lee you are my favorite self aware narcissist I’m so proud of you for going to therpahy and helping us empaths out😂 youve answered so many of my questions ! It’s like you read my mind lol😂 but foreal your funny and you give facts you don’t make me feel bad I was truly dealing with someone who has an issue I pray for him and hope the best for him ❤

Rejection 😊

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

😅

Hey, it's so nice to see how exposure for you has been so freeing and healing, and your helping all of us out here on the Internet and beyond. I love to think of everything being exposed under the bright light of the sun. Ain't no where to hide. Peace 🕊️🌄

Their worse nightmare is someone with the ability to see them beyond the mask

I love this guy!!! I hope he never reverts back or stops doing this helpful information..

I know now what my narcissist ex is and who he is. And now I have some peace.

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

‼️💯

Bring ignored

I’ll say Abandonment is their worst nightmare

@sk8taway

Ай бұрын

Oh yeah being exposed was my first thought actually

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

Def one of

Another nightmare is being being found out what an True AH they really are

My biggest fear is passing away without a purpose 🤷‍♀️

Exposure is Closure... or at least as close to it as you'll get with a narcissist.

Never getting access to you in the future. The best way to get them to leave you alone, as messed up as it is, is to tell them you will be friends one day. Then block them.

ME‼️... A #SELFAWARE #SELFLOVING #SELFMOTIVATED, STRONG, #GODLOVING EMPATH.

They discard you right when they know you are on to them and could possibly expose them. That fear causes them to drop you when they think you have collected enough evidence about them to cripple them. I've been there with my ex narc. Once I started figuring 💩 out that could've been mental going on with them things went from bad to worse in how they treated me. #EducatedEmpath 🙋‍♂️

Waking up, and realizing he’s been an asshole up until now

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

Stay strong

Exposed of actions to others and being alone…. I told my ex I had seen a lawyer and went over the proposed draft for divorce/custody of daughter. Fake tears came to her eyes and she asked two questions…. 1) Would she have to change her last name? 2) Would she get served papers at work? I wanted to sarcastically say “You wasn’t worrying about those consequences when I didn’t know you was fooling around behind my back again?” I had to keep my peace for myself

These people are unbelievable

Being found out to be not perfect

Lee - you have been so helpful in my healing process from my narc ex-boyfriend and mom. Thank you so much!

In Gods timing HE reveals ALL . 💯🔥 #PRAISETHELORD

Yup my mum , , its almost like shes a celebrity outdoors , but so horrible to her closest family .

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

😢

Being discovered. Figured out.

Exactly Right, He wanted to fight me before I exposed him publicly. He started it, and I was literally trying to end him lying to the community about me.

Thank you for your openness and education, Lee.

HI LEE!! I am seeing your post several hours later but I am laughing my ass off you really pulled out some good comedy tonight. Yeah my ex narc would really not want anyone to know who he is right away as I look back after 9 and a half years of his behavior toward me and others and I mentioned yesterday he called me three days ago today and I'm not answering ...I'm going no contact... I have no desire to pick up with a relationship with this man that is not honest and has nowhere to go in a positive future.... and we're both in our early seventies. I'm too young to be in my 70s but what the f*** I kick butt anyway LOL.... and he's lonely..... and it needs to have somebody with him and he just kicked his new Supply out of his life because he's too abusive in his own way.. you rock LEE THSNK YOU FOR YOUR VIDEOS...THEY HELP TO KEEP ME STRONG!!! LEO WOMAN HERE!!

I agree, being exposed IS their biggest nightmare. My narcissistic husband's 3 kids dont even know he's a narcissist. He portrays himself as dad of the year.

@MentalHealness

14 күн бұрын

😩😧

The mold reference is a GEM 💎

Being exsposed

I appreciate the laughs!! You’re Hilarious 😂

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

Appreciate it 😂

My soon to be ex-wife is living being exposed to the whole city, her family, and the world. She thinks im going to let her have 50/50 with my son. This woman is abusive on so many levels and i will not allow her to do to my son what she did to me

Thank you Lee I needed this message today.

True! "Their biggest nightmare is exposure." 100% agree. The reason I haven't signed a settlement is there's no pressure, threat of accountability, or warning of exposure for the abuse and damages the narc. has inflicted on me and mine.

Being exposed

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

💯

Wait don’t say it …. Abandonment ! Let’s see if I was right , dang what time do you go live or is it Out the blue! Lee you are my favorite self aware narcissist I’m so proud of you for going to therpahy and helping us empaths out😂 youve answered so many of my questions ! It’s like you read my mind lol😂 but foreal your funny and you give facts you don’t make me feel bad I was truly dealing with someone who has an issue I pray for him and hope the best for him ❤ AND YOU TOO I feel like a proud sister or an Auntie God Bless you! Exposure YES!!!! Because he told me daily lol “I’ll expose you” and I’m like expose me of what they project so tough!!!! It’s bananas!!! You know my Child’s father I know you do lol😂 he scares me one day we was watching a movie yall this man was routing for the bad guy!!! I should’ve ran then!!!! I was so gas lit I was smoking okay!!!!😂

Man you have described my ex to a T

Boundaries

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

🤭

They can also be very disconnected from their reputation and not care at all. Another posible nightmare is encouraging an even worse narcissist or psychopath. Being played at your own game, not being able to control the other narc, beinge used and abandoned.

That’s crazy, narcissist know what they do they are Evil Lee!! They are so strategic !!! It’s Crazy and Now that’s all I do is sit in the house because I can smell a narcissist close by, I don’t have any friends yet, cut all my co dependent friends and family off I ve learned so much about my self , no one can tell me anything now I’m relearning life ❤

Accountability

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

💯

When they see you falling for someone else

Exposure

My narcs work and church family thinks they are PERFECT and wonder why I don’t. Their perfectness should have saved me by now, so I must be an awful person. Now they have a whole web of sympathy support for them and I’m the wicked one.

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

😢😢

All the above, you being a better version of you,, letting pple know who they TRULY ARE ,

Have to part with you here, kind sir... it is an educated empath!💜

Yes, exposure was a big deal also. It's an ego trip.

DOT TO DOT……. Bravo Lee! 😂👏🏻❤️

Understanding the signs of a discard & doing it first before they secured a new supply. All of a sudden I became the most desirable woman on earth to him. Weirdly enough, only the week before he was telling me how much I disgust him. I agree, also being strong enough to walk away with all that knowedge of them and the strength to use it, if they make it that you have too. The fear of exposure made my ex head fall off lol

Well said!! Thank you!!!!!😊

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

You are so welcome

"Clapping the cheeks"😂

@annstar2793

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

Nobody respecting them and not controlling or playing with people

Exposure. The truth.

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

💯‼️

Being exposed to

My goodness I wish I could say an educated empath could be their worst nightmare. I'm educated that's for sure, I hold a degree in business management as well as psychology. And still I am enduring the wrath of my husband a 5 years. So just goes to show being aware and educated does not make you immune.😢

@brooklyniron1999

Ай бұрын

I think the term is meant “educated” to the ‘situation’ rather than educated in any academic sense. This is my take on it.

An unfortunate encounter leads super empaths onto the road of sigma empath. That's their kryptonite. The exposure card I keep up my sleeve. Any hint at smearing me and he's wise enough to know his jigs up 😉

My narcissist told me that he was jealous of the way I walk 😂

😂Always get a good laugh from your vids. Thanks

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

Glad you like them!

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

You’re welcome

I was going to say themselves? 😂

@MentalHealness

Ай бұрын

😅😂