First place, don't ever discuss your $ex life with others. It's no one else's business and it's very degrading to your spouse.

@elle8388

Ай бұрын

You'd think that's common sense but no

@jclyntoledo

Ай бұрын

Depends on the couple, some ppl are fine with it but sometimes others are more private and don't appreciate that.

I am a Latina from Miami. It is hard for us to leave that city. It is the city where a Latino like Bryan , who is Colombian-American and I, Cuban-Ecuadorian-American can speak Spanish all day . Be close to our roots. I married a German and I moved to Texas, California, Switzerland. I placed his career first. Now, he is supporting my career. I took time off to raise a child. Marriage is a give and take. My husband learned Spanish. I learned German. I understand why Bryan would be tired. I was really rooting for this couple. Beautiful, well educated, charismatic, but you can’t just leave your husband without his needs while he has made such a change in his life. Sad though.

@sandraatkins2539

7 күн бұрын

We love Rachel and Bryan, but we must consider her background. Rachel comes from an upper class background. She appears to be spoiled and selfish. I saw her make that comment, and I thought "wow." Even how she behaves while they live in the same house going through a divorce shows she is rather selfish. Bryan seemingly came from a working class background. He probably has a different attitude about interacting with others. The fact that he closed his business twice to move with Rachel for her career speaks volumes about him having a desirable character, to the point that he was willing to sacrifice his livelihood for the sake of showing her how much he loved and trusted her. I would like to see them get back together too. At least they would not have to live with a lifetime of pain dye to their publicly bashing each other during their rough patch. Kudos to both of them.

@Indigostarfly

5 күн бұрын

@@sandraatkins2539 She should get a dog.

Rachel Lindsay has always had a attitude that she comes first no matter what.

@keepcreationprocess

2 ай бұрын

NNNOOOO- AMERICA is killing everything -- it is a terrible country....DO YOU KNOW THE COSTS OF LIVING AND UNCERTAINTIES

@theduke6174

2 ай бұрын

Isn’t that the average black woman?

@tagon70

Ай бұрын

.. That’s an American woman thing regardless of color, sir. Dudes like you are quick to vilify a black woman. Meanwhile, you fall head over heels for some other brand of chick and she dogs you too. all women could be a headache, sir..

@RachaelNelson-df3qc

Ай бұрын

Narcs says that

@keepcreationprocess

Ай бұрын

I understand her- but work , no it is NOT about narcissistic-- it is something else, I understand her- I understand you, I understand the world, 🌎 , I understand Europe, I understand different parts of the world, I understand him. So, I know , see ........

I saw that interview as well, and suspected that they were having a rough time navigating everything. I too was hopeful about the marriage between Rachel and Brian. He seemed to be the one making the sacrifices in the marriage. Maybe she had another life lesson to learn about herself, and about how to make compromises in a marriage. I’m aware that everyone is coming for Brian seeking spousal support. We are not privy to the inner workings of that marriage. He may need it, until he can re establish his practice elsewhere back in Miami. I’m sure his finances took a big hit, when he relocated to California so they could be together. Let’s just wait and see. Wish them both the best moving forward.

@annetnabuyondo7607

4 ай бұрын

I Don't think I hate Rachel but I Don't like infact I detested thr selfishness in her,she is too self centered and self righteous

@rsingh9900

4 ай бұрын

You are spot on he made the sacrifice. California is very expensive to rent a space . My sister is an optimist it too her a long time to get establish .

@annetnabuyondo7607

4 ай бұрын

@rsingh9900 yeah,the thing is, it's got to be a two way street, when Bryan made sacrifices,Rachel kept on requiring more sacrifices,can you begin to imagine the fact that last year,she still resigned from the job that made Bryan uproot his entire life 😳 at extra,she quit extra!!makes you wonder why they left miami in the first place, like when does she stop requiring him to sacrifice, its on and on

@valeriejohnson8771

4 ай бұрын

@@annetnabuyondo7607 You see, I suspect that she quit the job at Extra because she was doing too much, and that may have been part of the reason that she couldn’t conceive, and it also involved too much travel. She may have quit that job under duress. He uprooted his practice to join her in California. Something went so sideways in their lives, that it seems to have soured him especially on the relationship. I did not expect him to be requesting spousal support etc. I think Rachel is a very intelligent woman, however she may have looked a gift horse in the mouth. We don’t really know anything, but from their social media posts, we can read a bit between the lines.

@annetnabuyondo7607

4 ай бұрын

@valeriejohnson8771 oh so she needed to make babies now,I see but before this,she had changed her mind to not wanting kids at all,I guess it was just too late for this marriage, I just wish she didn't quit her job then, so sad

Man Rachael got married mid 30s. You don't think she knew she need to focus on her man and marriage at damn near 39?!

@TheTameraNealyShow

4 ай бұрын

Obviously not.

@user-fu4xk6yn4q

4 ай бұрын

She is a Narcissist and thing she is cute and can bully everyone.@@TheTameraNealyShow

@KtotheG

4 ай бұрын

That's a B-dub... c'mon now.

@marksmith-jp5gy

3 ай бұрын

Agreed Tommy . And how she treated Chris Harrison is really gross. Show was never the same again. Casting every production value . It was must see TV until Peter's season.

@Misspermiscuousgirll

3 ай бұрын

@@TheTameraNealyShowI agree with you

Rachel recently had quit her job at Extra, likely to correct course. She probably really was too exhausted, when it became a problem with intimacy- she eventually made changes to focus on starting a family by quitting. Whether it was too little too late or not, there’s likely various causes of their relationship breakdown.

@skylarkblue4853

4 ай бұрын

I thought she was let go.

@wakanda6754

4 ай бұрын

She told her husband to watch some porn, cause she was too tired to be intimate.

@wakanda6754

4 ай бұрын

​@@skylarkblue4853according to her she quit bcs she just didn't fit in with the new management....but others say she was let go, her contract wasn't renewed.

@user-fu4xk6yn4q

4 ай бұрын

Rachel had no intention in having a baby for Bryan.She would not take out that IUD, when she have to lay on her back to get those jobs.She start laying on her back, when she got her job with ESPN.No one get on with ESPN, that easy , without any ,experience ,as a reporter.I have heard about what those ladies, and male sports casters, have to do to get on that show.Do you see how fast they kick her butt out, as soon as the audience responded of her being on the show.was Someone probably shake Bryan up and whisper in his ears, about her sleeping on her back.She was always a loose candidate, from when she were in college.She was trying to Claim Kevin Durant.When Kevin mom was interviewed They asked her about her, and Kevin Mom roll her eyes.I know Bryan mom had to shake him up. Bryan said he froze his sperm.Lol! Spanish culture fees, that you are not a man, if you can not get a woman pregnant ,and have kids.Kids was not the main factor in this relationship. She was trying to play this BS, and think anyone will have pity for her.I know people are going to think that I am showing hatred for her. I am not it is the truth.What I am saying comes directly from her mouth.

@Liz-ic6jb

3 ай бұрын

​@@skylarkblue4853 Too little too late. On the Bachelorette she was desperate to get married and have 4 children. That's what she claimed she wanted...to be a wife and mother.

Finally another black woman saying this! I loved Rachel but she has become insufferable over the years. She got married and all she does is focus on her career. He uprooted his life only for to start travelling for work smh .

@user-fu4xk6yn4q

3 ай бұрын

Rachel focus on sleeping on her back, to get those positions.No way Rachel got those jobs, without giving up her you know what.That is what it takes to get high profile media jobs.When she started with ESPN, it was said she laid on her back.ESPN is one of the most hard place to get a job.People never liked her on the show she had no experience.They spoke badly everyday about how she was destroying the show ,until they got rid of her.I think the same thing, happen with her and Extra.She talk a lot, and does not Remember what not to say.I am happy this mess is over with both of them.Now KZread needs to take all of their videos down.What goes around comes back around.Many have created a monster, with Rachel Lindsay. Bryan, get her really good.

@SandySandy-fr8vn

17 күн бұрын

You are not a good person for defaming another​@@user-fu4xk6yn4q

You are spot on. I saw that episode and also thought there was trouble. Listen, Rachel is very charismatic but if you listen to her for long enough it becomes obvious that she is very self centered. It sounded like she wanted her relationship to take a backseat to her career. You rarely hear her talk about the sacrifices she makes for her relationship.

@user-fu4xk6yn4q

4 ай бұрын

Listen! Rachel is a Narcissist and crazy. He should have gotten out of this mess with her a long time ago. Peter could have seen straight through her. She is a troublemaker and a liar. I am so happy this idiot wake up out of his dream and put this woman out of his life. She has no respect for him, and he can not handle her with all of her craziness. i love the way how he caught her off God with the divorce. He need to take her to the cleaners for all the time he spent with her and her foolishness.

@monicamatthews2960

4 ай бұрын

I always thought that they didn’t have much chemistry but after seeing her on Shans podcast I’m like why is she revealing their business, I felt like she didn’t care how he would feel by her exposing their bedroom life 😢

@linnethtyson

Ай бұрын

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@linnethtyson

Ай бұрын

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@Joie2U

13 күн бұрын

​@@monicamatthews2960 I'm just now seeing this and feel embarrassed for Bryan. How humiliating -- it was a cut to even say this to him at all, but to publicize this on social media too? I thought Rachel was mature and intelligent enough to know better. smh

You are correct. Perhaps she was just using him to build her Career . She admitted that she was too tired to be intimate with Her husband . He sold his house and left his practice to move to California. He did love her and he was serious. He seems like a good Person. She may be sorry to let him go . Just so sad for their situation

Brian is a good guy. He deserves better. He adored Rachel too bad the feeling wasn't mutual. Best Wishes to Brian

It was a combination of things. She prioritized her career over her relationship. Long distance. She lived in LA and he lived in Miami. Fertility issues. Sexless marriage. She wouldn't have sex with him

@abc78920

Ай бұрын

Thats still a dumb reason to divorce. People just dont honor their marriage vows! All of those things were fixable. Bryon is a deuche bag. He never loved her deeply anyway. That show is 🗑🗑

@jclyntoledo

Ай бұрын

​@@abc78920Didn't take marriage seriously?! Ppl usually stay together longer bc of marriage and not wanting to get divorced. Also weren't they married for like 7yrs?

@smilechynwa

7 күн бұрын

@@jclyntoledo nah more like 3 or 4.

When you take more interested in your career, your marriage is going to suffer.I’m sorry for her husband,who wanted a wife,and she wanted to be seen 5:02

Gurl you are the only one that has listening skills, and comprehension skills. All of her followers on comprehend with their mouth, they forgot all about listening. Thank God this man woke up. Rachel is not sorry on bit. She worried about the spousal support she has to pay. He will get his spousal support whether she like it or not. They are a lot of evidence on how she used and abuse this marriage. He gave up three offices to ran behind of her, and she never tried to help him build his businesses. She running all over Hollywood with all of her losers circle. Little that she know. Several of her circle friends tried to make a pass at her husband. She is an unfit wife. She can not clean her home, cook, get pregnant, etc. Why waste his life with this loser. Who is he coming home to, nothing, but the dogs, because she never home. Anyone who wants to continue to praise, and defend her is an idiot. ALL GOOD THINGS MUST COME TO AN END. THIS IS A YEAR OF TIME AND CHANGE.

@sharleenmagetto5051

4 ай бұрын

Harsh but totally agreed 💯💯💯. She was an absentee wife and was rarely present for him

@sharleenmagetto5051

4 ай бұрын

I think Bryan slowly by slowly detached. By the time she was ready to give some attention to her marriage, he was already checked out

@user-fu4xk6yn4q

4 ай бұрын

Bryan should have checked out from the time she started to dissect him.He was holding on for the money.He never tried to correct her for all of her bad behaviors.No other man would have put up her sh****t for so long.Bryan, wanted to be accepted by her family, so badly that he make a fool out of himself.What tip him off when went on Nick Vail show, and said they were living a separate life.I am sure everyone get on him then. She had said so man things about her relationship with that was ugly as a married woman.Now she need to pay all the people that purchase her book “Real Love”. I really thing she likes woman.She trying to use that baby pity party.Rachel does not want a child.If she wanted one badly, she would have done like Astrid and all of her other friends with iVF.Bryan, said he have his sperm frozen.Good for both of them.All good thing must one to an end!@@sharleenmagetto5051

@sharleenmagetto5051

4 ай бұрын

@@user-fu4xk6yn4q agreed!!! Bryan at the same time didn't lead his marriage. Even in interviews alone he rarely talked and always appeared timid. A man should be able to lead his marriage and he couldn't. Sometimes I thought Rachael was too "strong " for him

@rsingh9900

4 ай бұрын

I commended him to know when to walk away . He really love her and was proud of her . She is selfish. Hollywood career is what she desire.

Rachel messed up. She went on TV to get a spouse and start a life to get married and have kids. But then ended up being dragged by the spot light, Hollywood life while Bryan kept his job at Chiro instead of becoming the next big superstar... It's never too late for them to get back together before or even after divorce

@KtotheG

4 ай бұрын

That's called the bait and switch. Men aren't going for that these days.

I do not think it's ok for a woman to air out her husband's intimacy. It's better to do things God's way and bless your spouse, even if your having a challenging time.

@tsimbistaijerry1381

8 күн бұрын

Well said, especially the part where you emphasize letting GOD be our Guide! ❤️

@normabarros3124

7 күн бұрын

@@tsimbistaijerry1381 amen..all glory to God

Thank you for sharing! Great video 🎉🎉🎉💞 I love The Tamera Nealy Show 👑

Great video and great message to women...they need this message when they are YOUNG and not run through. Mothers used to show and TELL their daughters how to take care of a man (and fathers taught their sons to respect and care for women and the kids)...just not happening anymore...and our society is suffering

At some point, she did wanted the kids and the babies. I guess the glitch and glamour got the better of her. It is so sad because I was rooting for them. 😢 Wonderful insight, Tamera!

@user-fu4xk6yn4q

4 ай бұрын

Rachel never wanted any babies for Bryan. She never made any effort to try. Bryan said he had his sperm frozen. Her friends went through IVF. She just wanted to be in everyone's business, and cause problems. The street is where she belongs, and that is where he needs to send her back. You can not want to make babies, when she said on KZread, that she do not want to have sex with him, so she told him to go and look at porn. O Nick Vail show she said they were living different lives. She talks a lot and does not realize what she is saying. She went away for 2 weeks with a friend, and left her husband.

@user-fu4xk6yn4q

4 ай бұрын

She never wanted any kids. His sperm is frozen.

@user-fu4xk6yn4q

3 ай бұрын

That was just an excuse.She wanted people to think that was the issue ,when it was not.

New subscriber Tamera. It's great to see someone around my age who is like-minded. I'm looking forward to your future videos!

@TheTameraNealyShow

3 ай бұрын

Welcome! I just uploaded a new video.

Omg my sympathy for Rachel went out the door.

@rsingh9900

4 ай бұрын

She lost herself in the pursuit of fame.. sad

I felt concern for her relationship too after listening to her interview last year. It sounded like the marriage was not her priority.

She never wanted him in the first place. She wanted the guy from her season, I forgot his name. The one she cried over, that didn’t want anything serious.

The Romance was over before it started !

@luv2467

16 күн бұрын

She wanted Peter anyway

You don't have to do all those things if it is true love. True love is long suffering. It is kind and patient. It is Christ like. However , sadly those qualities were not there.

Im being honest none of us know all the reasons why there marriage failed. I still think the biggest reason being she never loved Bryan!!!!!! She made the wrong choice on her bachelorette season! If she had married Peter perhaps things could have been different. If you really love someone you will make the time, she apparently did feel Bryan was worth her time. And found more comfort in her career than in her marriage. This is no hate to either party just facts.

@kamohelomichelle1758

17 күн бұрын

Peter didn't want to get married, remember😅

@luv2467

16 күн бұрын

@@kamohelomichelle1758yep and she knew Bryan would propose… I’ll never forget that gut check when she said “give it to me” regarding the ring at the proposal!!! Who says that!? Yuck

@charityjohnson6202

15 күн бұрын

@@kamohelomichelle1758 no he said he wanted to wait. He didn't sat never lol

@kamohelomichelle1758

15 күн бұрын

@@charityjohnson6202 Ok, but still Rachel wanted someone who's ready to go as per the purpose of the bachelorette (engagement).

Great video! Thank you!

You are right on point

Plus they never established a Stable residence of their own, neither in his hometown or hers? Men need attention..it's not that your chasing them? They are yours already, but it take constant work and showing interest to keep them! I always kept in mind in all my serious relationship, that your partner could leave any day...In that aspect, you get to really appreciate them, and every moment you have with them too👌

I saw that interview and my exact sentiments regarding the divorce. She allowed Hollywood to suck her in. She’ll regret it when they’re done with her.

Great Video!

What’s the name of the book. I am a wife in waiting as well. Thanks in advance.

You kind of look like her too.. So pretty💗 I'm sorry for their seperation.

Correction, it's 2 of the men.

I can't stand Rachel. Brian will be better off without her.

Gotta say the minute she said “give it to me” regarding the ring at the proposal I knew she was just about material things and leaving engaged very disingenuous

I don't know why you even care, none of us know these people and their personal problems.

Well, I’m sure that book can be summarized in one sentence to be honest. Men want and need sex regularly. It’s the part that you have to deliver whether or not you and he are emotionally connected which goes in and out. Men don’t typically equate sex with emotion like women do so therefore they don’t always know how to keep the woman happy emotionally while they expect to be kept happy physically. With that said, you figure it out and work on it and you definitely don’t vocalize it publicly so that he and others can see that. I’m thinking she will regret this down the road because it is something that women can never change. And this part will be the same in her next relationship, regardless of anything. I watched Rachel's season but my favorite two are Trista and Charity. Trista's season is the best of everything Bachelor or Bachelorette and I could watch it another 10 times easily but it's hard to find😢

The relationship was likely already over well before that interview even happened. We simply don’t know what’s happening in a marriage. Omg, the channels showing up in my feed are mind blowing. Wooooh child. 🤦🏽‍♀️

What rachel attractive to husband. It sound like she wasn't from the interview

Where are your facts to back this up no video or audio to support your claim?

😅

Get that money that's all he wanted is the money

@rsingh9900

4 ай бұрын

Rachel is probably sorry that she is losing him .

@user-fu4xk6yn4q

3 ай бұрын

Why not? She use him all the way to make they money.

@RachaelNelson-df3qc

Ай бұрын

How she's a lawyer

This was the fastest break up in Bachelorette history btw, great way to show the country that black bachelorette are a great investment

Rachel is a highly educated but pampered lady. She is insufferable imo

Another divestor L

@MsDesiree39

4 ай бұрын

Fyi, several all black marriages ended last yr too; anthony anderson, damian lillard, iman shumpert, etc. race has nothing to do with it

@pacmiller7564

4 ай бұрын

@@MsDesiree39 Looks like I found the divestor, also race has a lot to do with it you 🛌wenches always claim the grass is greener on the other side.

@pacmiller7564

4 ай бұрын

@@MsDesiree39 Looks like I found the divestor, FYI race has a lot to do with it you deluded females make it seem like the grass is greener on the other side

Lady why is it her fault. Why do you shake so much. You know nothing about people relationships.

@Liz-ic6jb

4 ай бұрын

Listen to the full interview with Rachel and it makes. She implied she changed her mind about having children, and that her work is a priority in her life. But on the Bachelorette she said she wanted to be a wife and mother. So from Rachel's mouth us where this KZreadr got her opinion.

@rsingh9900

4 ай бұрын

You be quiet. Rachel admitted that she was not a wife to her husband . As black women we can be very self absorbed. It is a good thing to put yourself first but then stay single.

@wakanda6754

4 ай бұрын

She said she was too tired to be intimate with her husband, and go watch some porn...why would he stay?

@user-fu4xk6yn4q

3 ай бұрын

Everyone knows about their relationship, because Rachel tell the public with her own mouth.The last thing she said was they were living separately lives, and she went to Europe with her friends for two weeks without him.Never once help her husband build his business, when he gave up three business for her.Fair is fair.Now she is free to continue run the street, where she belongs.She will never be wife material.Now she is going to use the race card, as part of her divorce.We know better, because she wrote a book about true love.lol!

@marksmith-jp5gy

3 ай бұрын

@@wakanda6754 Half the guys on that show arnt even straight lol

That was a very bad video, Rachel have been open about so many things but that was bad. Not wanting sex with your man is the worst thing that will end your marriage. She exposes too much. She told before that she slept with the 3 last men on her show as bechelotte. All the details are not necessary. now people will call her a slet.

@vernellstlouis7440

4 ай бұрын

She actually confessed in an interview on a golfcart(which is still on KZread) shortly before she married Bryan back in 2019 that it was actually two people that she slept with, both Bryan and Peter. So if it was actually three then she's a pathological liar. She was so giddy to admit something like that around the time she was suppose to marry Bryan, which should've been kept private. It just goes on to show that she had no class or decency. She was basically being happy about being a "promiscuous whore"😭😭. Plus that's who Bryan wanted to marry? That was absolutely pathetic. Now look that sham marriage has basically dissolved and they are both back to square one. I was predicting back in 2017(after she cried her eyelashes out over Peter) that things were not going to work out for the both of them and my words came to pass. Like who didn't see that coming😂.

@user-fu4xk6yn4q

3 ай бұрын

She was giving it up to other people, so he was not satisfying any more to her.Then maybe she gay!

@RachaelNelson-df3qc

Ай бұрын

​@@user-fu4xk6yn4q Why u saying that