Story 1: Hunny, you’re only hearing your dads view.

@cubbybonez1133

19 күн бұрын

True

@lShadow426l

19 күн бұрын

A judging gagging the dad against the sons will is pretty damn suspicious, especially for Ohio, it wouldn't be surprising to learn the judge was a family friend of the wife ontop of being the same judge as back then.

"Do we have Tom sleep with Holly" had me fucking dying. I love when these stories have a hit of comedy outa left field.

@Arkryal

19 күн бұрын

There were quite a few missed comedic opportunities in that one. Example: "Help me find a sexy nun costume" "Don't you already have enough bad habits as it is?" And I love how she thinks her faith can restore her virginity, as if being Catholic means she can regrow a hymen like a lizard regrows a tail, lol. That is obviously NOT what Catholics believe, as it seriously undermines their savior's miraculous origin story. "Yeah, it was a virgin birth because his daddy was a two-pump-chump so it didn't count"... that kinda changes the whole context of everything in the faith, lol. And she's a mentally unstable "emoji girl"... yeah, those are exhausting. Let's see if I can narrate this in her native language. 👨= 🚫🐱 = 😇 + 👩 =🚫🐓 = 😇 _________________ 💑 But... (👨≠ 😇) & (👩≠ 😇) 👩 = 🦇+ 💩 +🤪 ☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎ ☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎☎ 👨 > 📞 > 👮‍♀ 👩= 😭

First story: I REMEMBER WHEN THAT HAPPENED! I was in high school in a school system in Cuyahoga County.

Poor Julian. That's gotta be hell on a kid. I hope he's doing well, and that his little sister is safe.

Story 1 is insane. What do you mean you have been kidnapped but you're totally cool with it? Did you at least asked WHY? Have you think about your mother who have been without news from you for more than a decade? Wtf.

@deusex4905

19 күн бұрын

Last story was really entertaining lol. OP knows how to tell stories.

@deusex4905

19 күн бұрын

Btw, did you know that Freud took cocaïne in his life to help him stay awake of focused? If it works like aderall it explains a lot (I hate Freud)

Being nonbinary doesn't make you unable to use birth control, it doesn't stop you from keeping a job, it doesn't cause you to refuse to take responsibility for an unwanted pregnancy for months past the physical abortion cut-off, and it doesn't make you decide of off-load a baby on her mom. There's several things they are not addressing and screaming about being enby isn't going to fix.

@Sknotty

18 күн бұрын

Im not nonbinary, I'm a trans man and you're 100% correct. I'm on birth control and have been for years now. I have a lot of issues, and I know I'm incapable of taking care of a child so I've done pretty much everything within my power to not get pregnant. I'm even getting a hysterectomy in September to make that possibility of pregnancy turn to 0. The person in the story needs to get their head out of their ass and realize that their actions have consequences and that they, and only they have control over the vast majority of aspects in their life. Being trans or nonbinary doesn't automatically make you the victim in every situation, especially those you yourself put yourself in. If anything, being not cis in general makes existing harder, thus you need to become more independent and more thick skinned if you want to survive in this dog eat dog world. I come from a culture where you depend on family much more than is considered "normal" in American culture. But even then... Off loading your baby to your mother because you don't want it is so incredibly disrespectful and irresponsible. I'm literally so flabbergasted at the audacity of this person.

@pup.piston

16 күн бұрын

as a non-binary intersex transmasculine person, I honestly think everyone is the assshole in the second story. had me cringing so much that it hurt. op was not being understanding about the identity stuff, op's kid was being a jackass about it and completely didn't understand how ANYTHING works, and I generally fear for the well-being of whatever new child comes from this situation. Jesus fucking Christ.

@moonbro5381

16 күн бұрын

​@@pup.piston I say OP did nothing wrong in the second story. You can respect people and their identity without catering to them. If you're non binary or genderfluid, make sure yourself to inform the others about your current feelings, don't make it their problem

@pup.piston

15 күн бұрын

@@moonbro5381 Oh that was part of what I meant by OP's kid being an asshat, like, OP was being a dick about the identity stuff because presentation has NOTHING to do with identity unless you make it such, but yeah no the onus of being gendered correctly when you have changing/situational pronouns falls completely on you and you have no right to make people guess and get mad if it's wrong. I just was too tired to really type as much lol

My feelings towards the final story remain intact... You'll see what I mean when you get to it.

@lauragigglez3018

19 күн бұрын

You're going to make Kendall jealous

@ABadPassword

19 күн бұрын

@@lauragigglez3018 Good, maybe she'll get the hint!

@animetalk8132

19 күн бұрын

I feel like the final story is for u Kevin also we should all become strippers also also yeah...

@animetalk8132

19 күн бұрын

So I commented but Ig I didn't hit post... Anyway last story is perfect for you also that line drugs and become strippers are cool also also idk....

@abhijayjaiprakash

19 күн бұрын

Thoughts on the first?

good afternoon to whoever is watching rn!

@WendyTryz

19 күн бұрын

Good afternoon!

@ABadPassword

19 күн бұрын

👋

@Buldogg345

19 күн бұрын

Greetings, young Jedi.

@Tutushiki

19 күн бұрын

Good Noon for me

@SewardWriter

19 күн бұрын

What's crackin', jackalackin?

I don't normally laugh at these stories, but that last had me in tears! I am 56 and way past college age shenanigans but into god I wills watch a movie or series based on this! If the OP does not go into screenwriting, she's missed her calling.

I'm from Ohio and I remember the Hernandez trial, I feel so bad for Julian, his dad gaslit the shit out of him.

The story with the girls and Tom is the funniest thing ive listen too. Man those are the stories are the best.

last story was a ride and that op sure knows how to paint a picture 😭

I’m so glad the hospital was behind OP with the shellfish story!! That nurse who went to the police station with her was above and beyond supportive and I’m so glad that OP had someone like that behind them!

Goddamn, last OP sounds like a very fun person to hang out with. The sheer amount of snark and witty comments in her posts pretty much made my day.

As a nonbinary individual who unfortunately has a uterus...story 2's daughter's attitude had me cringing...like yikes...

@rome.and.friends

13 күн бұрын

Same

Awww! Mr. Kevin found the love of his life! XD When’s the wedding? 👁️👁️ 💍

Story with the non-binary kid. There is absolutely no reason for that child to act. The way they are, I am non-binary and I've had 2 kids. It was my own choice to have sex. It was my own choice to carry to term. Nothing that child does is Their mom's fault. They need to learn grow up and be a parent

Story 2: I CAN’T WITH THE CLIFFHANGER! AAAAH!

Story 2- Dont let your Daughter anywhere near that Baby.

Can I please live in the house from the last story? It sounds like absolute chaos, which is my ideal environment.

S1-I hope Julien gets the therapy he needs to truly process everything that he went through...and i hope he realizes that what happened to him was not okay. S2- OP is describing genderfluid, not nonbinary, but that's irrelevant because her kid is the idiot that threw out the birth control. They're also being ridiculous for expecting OP to raise the kid.

S2: The daughter needs to learn about responsibility, non-binary or not People need to take accountability of what they do and learn. Hiding behind the non-binary and hormonal stuff is just too low. The daughter needs to learn, even tho she's non-binary, she is still a female that can get pregnant unless she does something about it. Any decent father will do everything to make sure their daughter to not get pregnant too early. And that spermdonor just enable her attitude toward you. Now she's adult, If only she's not pregnant I would just suggest cutting contact due to her gaslight you way too much and unfairly

@pezchef7577

19 күн бұрын

yeah... I hate to say it, but I think OP is incorrect. her daughter, is, unfortunately, an idiot. unfortunately idiots tend to learn on the worst and most painful way.

Julian was 5, mum was "early 20s", and Father of the Year was pushing 40 when he kidnapped him. In case we needed more "EW" factor. Also: we he has his heart ripped from his chest and he has to keep on living not knowing where his heart is, or if it's still beating or not, maybe he'll get an idea of what his mum went through.

My mom kidnapped me from my father, changed my social and changed my last name to her new husbands last name. She only knew her knew husband about 5 seconds before marrying him, because he promised to hide us from my father. For the record the only thing my father did wrong was cheat on my mom- terrible thing but had NOTHING to do with his parenting skills- he was a great dad and a foster parent too. The new husband agreed to hide us because it was the perfect situation for a chomo- raise and groom a baby girl with a mom who would not leave no matter how much he beat on me. Thankfully, she pulled her head out of her butt when the SA came to light. Would have never happened if she didn't make those horrible selfish choices when I was only 2.

@indigowulf

19 күн бұрын

yes, she changed my name, yes, she changed my social. I had to fight so hard to get my name/social fixed because I had no proof of my REAL name being connected to me. I also just found out that there's no statute of limitations on kidnapping- but my mom has changed a lot since then so I see no reason to make her a felon now lol. Ok, she IS a felon technically, but the cops don't know lol.

This video was a real roller coaster 💀

This content is really interesting, I like it a lot.

Oh shit the first story happened really close to me

a SIN?!?! THATS the sin?!?!

Really starting off with a zinger

The daughter's pregnancy story sounds eerily familiar to a situation I knew of. Unfortunately, gender can be a way for abusers to control a vulnerable person's entire identity and drive a wedge between someone and their support system/family. "Nobody else understands who you truly are but me/this group, so you can only trust us. Your family is toxic because they didn't immediately understand." This paves the way for some extremely culty behavior. Often an underlying issue like depression or dysmorphia becomes a lever that manipulators can use to wrench control.

This last story was Shakespeare 🎭 I loved it

first people saying gender is their decision now sally's gonna single-handedly start a "virginity is your own opinion/decision" movement

Im Non binary. I was at 14-15, then I was mtf at 16-21, and for the last 4 years back to nonbinary. My first time i used NB I was just like that OP's daughter, but less entitled and more passive aggressive. I went from androgynous, to girl then woman, and i still look exactly the same as my mtf identified self as I do now. NB is more of an ideology, a way of viewing gender thats more than just one and the other. It doesnt excuse that persons behavior though

1st is crazy but i heard the 2nd so many time its STUPID

Last story. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Cuyahoga is pronounced “ky-ah-ho-gah” and somehow that upset me more than the kidnapping.

@AgathaVile

19 күн бұрын

That last half was a joke.

The story with the overbearing MIL reminded me so much of my ex MIL. Her judgement crap started right off the bat in the hospital when I had just given birth. Literally berated me as to why my husband was changing the baby's nappy. Asked me was I expecting him to do this from now on? Like WTF, he is just as capable as I was! She couldn't breastfeed, and was trying to talk me out of doing so. Barely came to visit when I was home with the baby, when she did, she'd be critical of cleanliness of house, what we were having for dinner etc I was doing my best! Baby was born early summer, we had her round for NYE. She commented that 'I've never seen that baby in the same outfit twice! They don't need all these new clothes you know!' I said you've seen the baby three times in 7 months, babies do grow fast you know! I decided not to drink anymore alcohol to save me saying something I might regret 😂

Story 2 is amazing how they think that not wanting to abort is madness, but all the gender/ biology story is fine. They even said that a normal healthy LGTBQ community should be pro abortion… this is mad an offensive in so many levels

As a non binary person, the second story makes a mockery of our values. I’ve talked to my parents multiple times about contraception and every time they have been so good yes I was on an extra pill originally and I talked to my mum about this and they’re always happy to comply but this person made zero effort and expected people to immediately understand that I identity, I get that I was like that but you have to learn people don’t think the same way as people don’t immediately understand everything what’s going on in your head specially when it comes to the gender Mum is not blame at all because she doesn’t understand what the child is going through and vice versa

This is by far the funniest reddit story ever.😅 I hop e their all fine though.

Being a certain gender doesn't mean you cant engage in stereotypes of other genders. You can be a woman and dress "manly", vice versa, and everything in between. Gender identity is taking on expectations of a gender, then accepting or rejecting each one. Whether or not you accept or reject them on top of your gender is what creates the connotation. For brevitys sake and in a reductionist way, a man dressing femininely would be a femboy, and a woman dressing as a man is a tomboy, for example. You can be one gender and dress as the other but there is still the different connotation than if you were that other gender

@darth3911

19 күн бұрын

Um no and I can tell you why. With how the trans movement currently is going they are forcing the idea that dressing to the gender means you become of that gender. This is really dangerous for obvious reasons such as forcing a girl who views herself as a girl but likes manly things to become a man. Point is while it should be ok for people to like the things they like culture regardless of where it swings has a why to shit on it.

Story 1 holy shit I live down the road from there! I remember this man I remember seeing the missing poster in my local Walmart that I'm working at now! Bro wtf

I just want to say that being nonbinary doesn’t mean you can’t look or dress feminine etc. Nonbinary can be a wide spectrum: fembys exist for a reason. You can be more fem-leaning but still not identify as the gender. It really sounds like OP is *trying* though. The fact they are trying would mean the world to me and to most people. Their child was DEFINITELY manipulated heavily by the sperm donor. -Sincerely, a female leaning non-binary :)

with the first story, tbh, IIIIII feel like something fishy is going on with the court, rather than the dad

The Sally story pisses me off, I can’t stand people who are stupid and crazy like this and the friends are just letting her be that way instead of calling her out on her crap at every point and talking some sense into her. This is enabling and Sally’s behaviors and beliefs need to be nipped in the bud. She lives in THIS world, not the bubble of nonsense that everyone refuses to pop and she needs to act accordingly.

"very devout when u ask about her beliefs, but not in practice" average Christian

@ninahigh2027

18 күн бұрын

As a Christian I should be offended. But you are correct.

@appleonion5830

12 күн бұрын

Nah

@DumbAsh00

12 күн бұрын

@@appleonion5830 yea cuz Christians are great at not mixing fabrics, not eating shellfish, not shaving, etc... I can go on and on if youd like. Christians only seem to preach about sins that don't pertain to them and pertain to groups of people they don't like

OP 2 kinda sucks in the “not respecting their child’s pronouns” department- if your kid identifies with neopronouns or xenopronouns, stfu and respect that. Your kid wants to go by foxself or bunself? Let them, and it really pisses me off that OP’s kid had to settle and default with pronouns they didn’t ALWAYS identify with. It’s normal when non-binary or genderfluid for people to ask what you’re feeling like that day to figure out what pronouns you’re using. OP’s TAH in the terms of not sucking it up and respecting their child’s pronouns and identity.

@azulathesunmoonsimp8939

17 күн бұрын

ADDING ONTO THIS. JUST BECAUSE YOUR CHILD’S PARTNER WAS MASC IN THE PAST, DOES NOT MEAN YOU USE HE/HIM TO REFER TO THEM, EVEN IN A PAST TENSE. That’s like, rule number 1 of knowing someone pre-transition aside from not deadnaming them- So yeah no I stick with my point, OP’s the AH when it come to respecting peoples pronouns and identity.

S1 the kid was 5 when he was abducted... It's good to hear the dad was a good dad, what he did was still wrong... Terribly wrong... Very old story. I'm kind of doubting this was really on reddit considering this happened in 2015 and when I read the story I never heard he reached out to internet for an opinion.

In relation to the father their is no escaping to be honest. In the us if you avoid taxes they will land on you like a sumo wrestler, unless he is loaded you cant evade prosecution in relation to the father

Ok the second story is confusing and I'm nonbinary. I get the pronoun thing, having to find a good dynamic with shifting pronouns is tricky. I don't want to speak for them too much because obviously all our experiences are different...but OP basically saying giving birth and such goes against being nonbinary is just wrong. Just like how trans men can give birth without it invalidating their being trans, nonbinary people can as well. I'm trying to see if maybe OP had done something in the past to make their child feel like they couldn't be open about their wants and needs, hence not discussing puberty blockers, or if OP is either leaving out or forgetting instances when the subject came up. It's hard to tell from this story. Obviously something is going on as their mentality around their pregnancy is concerning regardless of gender identity.

Story 3: thought this was gonna be a manchild mommas boy story tbh

Sally sounds bipolar

Story 2: most teens will use the non-binary umbrella to date, even though the act that brought the child to life is a hetro action. They need help to have a better understanding of what nonbinary is.

Story 2: As a trans person, I'd say OP is NTA*, with the asterisk in a big 40-pt font. Specifically, NTA assuming OP is accurately describing anything. My main point of concern is the fairly dismissive way she talks about gender identity. She says she'll be supportive if her daughter brought up HRT or concerns about the birth control, but her very specific definition of nonbinary isn't what's applying here. It's genderfluid, which would be revealed with just a little bit of Googling. She also talks about the Livejournal days and talks as if this is a recurring fad. She might believe she's supportive, but... well, I have a mother that didn't believe me at first when I told her I'm trans, and dug her heels in on this. She did still take me to appointments and stuff with endocrinologists and psychologists and bloodwork and all that, but I've always had the distinct sense she still thinks it's a phase nearly a decade down the line. Resultingly I've never felt comfortable bringing these topics up, meaning when I do it's 'out of nowhere' for her, because I'm used to the subject being brushed off or diverted. I can perfectly see the daughter having tried to broach the subject only to back out when it's clear OP wasn't interested in talking about it. Asking the mom to ask her about her gender identity every day could be some sort of power play, or begging for support, as in 'please take an interest in this, let me know you care enough to ask', and she didn't. I'm not saying this is what happened. OP could be perfectly straightforward and the daughter is just being manipulated by the sperm donor and a bit touched (side note: autism and being some kind of transgender has a correlation noted in several studies, and I myself am also what used to be called Aspergers' Syndrome before it was rolled into the spectrum). I'm forced to take the story at face value, hence the NTA, but I worry OP's own opinions and biases are coloring the story too much subconsciously. We'll never really know, though.

@jessicagomez7714

19 күн бұрын

Even then, the sole fact that she got pregnant and still was blaming her mom speaks volumes. She doesn't know what she wants, she even was ok with being called she because it was tiring even for herself to keep up with that changing pronouns thing. Expecting the mom to understand everything and start googling everything is crazy, refusing birth control but still having sex can only have one consequence... if something, she clearly was not ok on her head.

@ihatemyname6

19 күн бұрын

I was gonna say depending on the date of posting this sounds like someone whos social development was entirely on the Internet. No limits what so ever. Also the amount of gender misinfo (puberty blockers don't stop pregnancy).

@darkluxgames2347

19 күн бұрын

Agreed. he other thing that's wild is claiming birth control to be force-feminising them/her. There's multiple types of BC, progesterone only stops bleeds and doesn't do anything oestrogen does as far as I'm aware. The only thing that really bothers me is "She dresses feminine, etc etc". AFAB non-binary people can still appear feminine because they choose to. Also, the mother says "she got off my case on her prounouns" but that's likely because she pushed against allowing her kid to express themselves, whether intentionally or not, and this has caused the kid to just give up. There have been too many cases of that happening where they just do that because their parents are pushing against it for whatever their reasons are, even if they aren't good enough reasons. The kid though is in a massive problem with the sperm donor. It really does sound like they're abusive af, and is manipulating the kid with spewing things that gross and acting that way. The kid desperately needs love. And proper love, not "I accept you but--" because to me, anything with a but in there that isn't followed by "I'm concerned for you" is not love.

@mmm1217

19 күн бұрын

@@jessicagomez7714 As I said, as written OP is NTA, the daughter is definitely in the wrong. I am... more familiar than I would like to be of stories of people twisting things, or never being able to see their own fault, or just having an inflexible view, especially when it comes to parents of people in the LGBTQ+ community. Some of them on this channel, even. Some of the phrasing OP puts me on guard, makes it sound like the story's been distorted to a degree, but I'm also completely aware that my own experiences and biases could be making me read too much into this. I will say that regardless of the objective view of it, we can probably take the general series of events as true. Very charitably, the daughter lost trust in the mother and started seeing shadows and conspiracy. The boyfriend definitely sounds incredibly toxic and controlling and I wouldn't be remotely surprised if he was intentionally turning the daughter against the mother. I had a friend (non-romantic) like that and thankfully she seemed to self-implode before I got too drawn in by her. Sorry for rambling, I'm just kind of putting the pieces together as I type this. Basically, minus the 'had a child and moved out' thing I've been in a less severe similar situation. I can easily see how the daughter, struggling to find herself and feeling previously betrayed by the mother, could have found this situation and legitimately blame the mother for it. The 'see the baby as a sibling and wants to raise the baby as such' thing is just bizarre, though. I've got no possible explanation for that one.

@Zynt0xik

19 күн бұрын

Personally never met a transperson who denies the reality of their biology though, quite the opposite. Even if the mother is twisting words I would be very concerned about a relationship where one party could get pregnant and the other party uses words like "poison" about birth control and "sin" about abortion, regardless of anyone's gender.

is this a repost?

@ABadPassword

19 күн бұрын

Nope! I read these just a few days ago. Maybe you're thinking of the recent 'My Father Stole My Identity' video?

The pronouns story is crazy and that partner sounded too unhinged male-coded tbh.

01:01:00 I think we all fell in love with OP 🤣

IDK man, I think OP purposely let it slip... but, that is just my opinion.

I stopped carrying for last story stupid virgin Mary drama I will say Tom Holland is doing great

30:00 You didn't raise her well

The county in Ohio is said Kai-ah-Hoe-ga

Was the step mother or the bio mother who he was kidnapped from? I am so confused why the step mothers family being shit why he was kidnapped from the bio mom? I dont get the facts

@MissLeigh232

19 күн бұрын

He was kidnapped from his biomom. He brought up his stepmom's family because he was worried about his half-sibling being raised around her family if his dad was in prison and/or if his stepmom left his dad.

@kurotsuki7427

19 күн бұрын

@MissLeigh232 ohhh ok. Thank you, i was struggling to follow.

Story 1- your dad is a jerk for doing this to you. So sad OP doesn’t want to meet his mother. That poor woman.

As a Trans man, I had the depo shot every 3 months. It ceased my menstrual cycle, cramps included.

Story 2 is amazing how they think that not wanting to abort is madness, but all the gender/ biology story is fine. They even said that a normal healthy LGTBQ community should be pro abortion… this is mad and offensive in so many levels. Mother thinks daughter is in a cult because she does not want to abort but the crazy pronouns and identity problems are perfectly fine and doesn’t sound like a cult…wow… hopefully baby will be given in adoption

@appleonion5830

12 күн бұрын

Finally, thank you for some sense

Alright I don’t like how anyone reacting to Story 1 including the narrator. All “emotional manipulation” this and “Stockholm Syndrome” that completely discounting the good parenting he provided OP, his son. HIS son. This isn’t a random baby that got kidnapped, this is a story with two sides but because one broke the law the other is being believed wholeheartedly. Oh and one last thing, F the paparazzi. He wants to be left alone, LEAVE HIM THE F ALONE! Reddit Stories where one involved party is getting it off their chest is one thing Sharks frenzied over blood in the water that somehow are immune to being sued into the ground for the disgusting harassment they subject these people to is a whole other

@Yoonji9212

19 күн бұрын

But what about mom? She suffered more than anyone just because dude didn't want to go to court and deal with it like an adult. I get that he was good father in some ways but kidnaping your child just because he didn't want to fight in court is low af.

@availanila

19 күн бұрын

@@Yoonji9212 don't forget he stole his sense of self from him (not knowing his name, age and heritage), then manipulated him into thinking he's god's gift to him, and was priming him into sabotaging his life to keep him kidnapped since he wouldn't get to uni. Then he's doing the same to his sibling who's yet a baby.

@Yoonji9212

19 күн бұрын

@@availanila yeah, that too.

@Dustin81

19 күн бұрын

@@Yoonji9212Yet women can just run off with the kids just for spite alone or never let the dad see them for no reason with no repercussions.

@availanila

19 күн бұрын

@@Dustin81 there are always repercussions for men and women; that's why there's the gender neutral term *_custodial interference_* for such a thing. Do you think there's a different constitution for women from the one used for men?? Do you think crimes are gender segregated??

It’s so sad that the courts took the Dad away from the kid. They don’t seem to be enacting justice for the child but for the mother and her family. The mother’s family did the same thing right back- depriving the kid of a parent. Listen to the victim. He’s asked for his best interests to be served and no one seems to care. The kids always lose.

sounds to me like dad did nothing wrong and that judge should be checked out

early gang lmao

Story no. 2. Absolutely the Ahole… lack of discipline and a firm hand. That kid needed therapy and discipline not a weak parent putting up with all the ridiculous things the daughter said. And the Bf… if someone disrespects me in my house like that… that person will be out of my house in a heartbeat. Why did she tolerate this crap? More concerned about the pronouns than parenting the daughter… if the children make the rules and not the parents… this is what happens.

The daughter from story 2 was losing her mind when she become all confused with her gender, not when she turned 18yo. So sad!

@birds_eye__view

19 күн бұрын

esh. her gender identity has nothing to do with her losing her mind

@ResidentWeevil2077

18 күн бұрын

The "sperm donor" isn't trans - he's a predator. I won't accept that he's trans since everything he's doing seems to indicate the exact behaviour of a predatory male.

Story 2: OP should have seen this lvl of reality rejection coming when the daughter said she was "non-binary" as if it even exists in the first place

Congratulations your female because you’re having a baby