What to do when you learn that everything is a lie: Colin Stokes at TEDxBeaconStreet

From "Pay no attention to that man behind the curtain" to "I am your father," discovering that your heroes are liars is one of the great mythic moments. Colin Stokes says that the way characters react to disillusionment sheds light on contemporary culture in surprising and touching ways.
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  • @Pickitout
    @Pickitout Жыл бұрын

    I had a mental breakdown when my bubble popped that lasted years and still sucks to this day. I can totally understand why people don’t really want to know the truth.

  • @braveknight2000
    @braveknight20006 жыл бұрын

    As a parent of a 17-year-old, a teacher, and as a 55-year-old individual, I have observed the many key moments in life where disillusionment plays a part. There are many for a young child: Your first day of school, the time your "friend" does something mean and betrays you, perhaps the moment your parent(s) betrays you (that one really sucks), and, if your parents are really incompetent, the realization that you are mostly alone in the world. But, as a child, you have your future to look forward to. And then comes adolescence. You realize your teachers are a bunch of idiots, your parents are not grownups, and indeed, there really is no such thing as a grownup. The work you do in school seems meaningless and pointless, etc. But at least you still have your future to look forward to. You go to college. You learn stuff. Then you get a job and a group of friends and you spend nearly every night drinking and having a good time. This goes on for a while and then you get married and have children. That consumes your time for a while and then comes middle age. Your body starts going downhill so that's not much of a source of hope. You're not particularly attractive to anyone anymore so that part of life kind of goes by the wayside. And your choice of career turns out not to be as fulfilling as you once imagined. Your children are getting older and don't need you so much so your role as a parent subsides. But you still have retirement to look forward to. "I'm going to travel. I'll have all this time off. I'm going to do all these fun things I've always wanted to do." But then your energy declines. And a lot of that lack of energy has a psychological cause. Things just aren't that much fun anymore. You're running out of things to enjoy. This is life. This is what nobody wants to talk about. I dare not tell my 17-year-old this is what the world offers. He's too young. It's too much. Let him find out for himself. (Like the lecturer relates, "You try to create a little safety, a little comfort, but you know deep down inside it's not real.") But hope is not lost. All of this disillusionment, if you're open and willing, will lead you to turn within and find out what really matters. Don't believe the lies of the world. Idols will make you cry every single time. Turn within.

  • @andrxto9020

    @andrxto9020

    5 жыл бұрын

    it took me 19 years (my actual age) to start realising and most difficult accepting exactly what you are telling...

  • @trudzz88

    @trudzz88

    5 жыл бұрын

    ​@@andrxto9020 I started realizing it when I was 17-18 years old. I've now just turned 22 and still haven't fully accepted it.

  • @sneeringimperialist6667

    @sneeringimperialist6667

    5 жыл бұрын

    This is better than the video.

  • @terrisharp46

    @terrisharp46

    5 жыл бұрын

    Shannon Phillips Very well said. blessings, terri from Texas

  • @Bogolyubovos

    @Bogolyubovos

    5 жыл бұрын

    Shannon Phillips Breaking up your 'hopeless narrative ' into paragraphs, would help brighten up my world.

  • @miguelferreiramoutajunior7932
    @miguelferreiramoutajunior79323 жыл бұрын

    One of the first things you should do immediately after realizing everything is a lie is to definitely stop watching TED on KZread.

  • @familyisgoldenministriesin4968
    @familyisgoldenministriesin49682 жыл бұрын

    I see pain and fear in his eyes..I feel the pain daily as I lie in my bed running out of money trying to figure out what ,who or where to go or do next

  • @hallvarddalen1502
    @hallvarddalen15026 жыл бұрын

    We have been lied about almost every important issue in life! The 3 biggest lies is the place we live on, history and the political system.

  • @annikacruz7012
    @annikacruz70122 жыл бұрын

    This is wild. Filmed 7 years ago and he brought up fact checking and then a virus and how we're not afraid of them. "It's a virus?! Okay, so what?!" Response. And he addresses the corruption and cognitive dissidents and why people will continue believing something that they probably know is wrong.

  • @getsmartquick

    @getsmartquick

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's ironic he's spreading lies whilst exposing eg sexism racism white males etc double speak at it's best.

  • @mundymorningreport3137

    @mundymorningreport3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is the fatal flaw of social sound bytes. Cold weather stresses the body, setting off stress reactions. In a healthy body, these make them stronger, so cold weather is good for them. In an inflamed, or metabolically challenged body, it opens them up to viral attacks ( compromised immunity) but, the “cold” is a result of virus, just not the whole story as with all his other examples…

  • @Deelitee

    @Deelitee

    Жыл бұрын

    @@getsmartquick can we STOP with attacking people of other races??? And blaming other people for everything under the sun gone bad???? Damn.

  • @Drewgonsalvesacro

    @Drewgonsalvesacro

    Жыл бұрын

    *dissonance And the virus isn’t what he said were not afraid of it was the cold weather. But the cold helps facilitate viral infections so it was really not a well made point

  • @DeneF

    @DeneF

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Drewgonsalvesacro Gotta love those dissidents. Lol.

  • @mikeg.5233
    @mikeg.52336 жыл бұрын

    The wizard of Oz was an eye opener for me. We are all running down the yellow brick road. When you get to the Wizards palace you find that all that is is a little man pulling wires and blowing puffs of fire. All an illusion.

  • @azuresea7276

    @azuresea7276

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes, love and the creative power is the only redemption.

  • @SenderBudYerGood

    @SenderBudYerGood

    4 жыл бұрын

    You forgot to mention how the little man wears a little hat which is arguably very important information

  • @Delphius-

    @Delphius-

    2 жыл бұрын

    But all you have to do is wake up. The metaphor of clicking the heals and she’s back at home is waking up. It’s all a dream.

  • @CatZummy
    @CatZummy6 жыл бұрын

    I thought for CERTAIN that this video was just made this month, April 2018. It's timeless. I love the way he tells a story. It's a really difficult story to tell, but he does it beautifully. Why is this video not viral? It needs to spread!

  • @UL25202
    @UL252027 ай бұрын

    No lies were told. Thank you very much, sir.

  • @gordondyer1
    @gordondyer14 жыл бұрын

    More please, you have struck at the heart of social conditioning.

  • @monimoni8141

    @monimoni8141

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very well put!

  • @mundymorningreport3137

    @mundymorningreport3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Seems to me this is tilting at windmills. Like the organs in our bodies, our societies depend on specialists to accomplish cooperative ventures. Our organs demand on specialized support and specialist functions that stand up in conditions of adversity or inadequacy. And yes, this often puts an unfair burden on other specialists, but the total collective advances. Similarly, our bodies have a simbiotic support system that is operating outside the organ-structured protocols, and nature pulls back the curtain with chronic illnesses or super powers when those distinctions are activated. Life will hold us accountable to the duality and responsibility for it. Party on Dudes, be good to each other.

  • @alannothnagle
    @alannothnagle6 жыл бұрын

    A fascinating presentation, calling for numerous repeated viewings. I've always been fascinated by "the big reveal," and was deeply impressed by "The Wizard of Oz" as a child. There's another such moment that has never left me, namely the bit in "A Wrinkle in Time" where Meg, who has believed all along that as soon as she rescued her father all would be well, discovers that her dad isn't really all she thought he was, and that she would have to start making decisions for herself. That always packs a punch, because it's absolutely authentic and part of every person's experience.

  • @jimmieoakland3843
    @jimmieoakland38436 жыл бұрын

    Anyone above the age of consent who has to be told at a lecture that "not all that glitters is gold" is beyond help. This is a hard life, but it is harder when you are stupid.

  • @suaptoest

    @suaptoest

    6 жыл бұрын

    It's far more painful to be aware.

  • @braveknight2000

    @braveknight2000

    6 жыл бұрын

    But in the long run, it's more painful to be unaware.

  • @seekeroftruth1200

    @seekeroftruth1200

    6 жыл бұрын

    "Ignorance is bliss"

  • @mundymorningreport3137

    @mundymorningreport3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Harsh words. We all start off uninformed and using senses that are shunned and criticized in public. We are taught formulas to compensate that work with our specific tutors but will fail in life’s social settings where mentors may not be available. And the social landscape is huge, almost no one can master it smoothly without pitfalls, but some are trained to be safe and avoid those learning experiences, which makes it harder to recognize them and master them. Be kind, give constructive criticism, if you see a better path. Party on Dude, be good to each other.

  • @jimmieoakland3843

    @jimmieoakland3843

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mundymorningreport3137 Perhaps I was intemperate in my remarks. Thank you for pointing it out.

  • @lorrainejacobson6737
    @lorrainejacobson67376 жыл бұрын

    I'm not going to be all intellectual and say bad things about this man. He was trying to deal with the fact that almost everything we have been told is a LIE. I remember when I realized that everything was an untruth . But after the shock subsided I was free to think new thoughts and make my life better.

  • @austinthornton3407
    @austinthornton34076 жыл бұрын

    It’s a good title but just ends up saying that everything is a lie except identity politics orthodoxy. “I was a sinner and now I am saved, follow me and you can be saved too.” Yeah right.

  • @Lizards_Lounge

    @Lizards_Lounge

    2 жыл бұрын

    So he's a supporter of identity politics? Thanks...bye

  • @wubwub89
    @wubwub899 жыл бұрын

    Good vid, but audio mixing like this makes me want to barf.

  • @tbmac1976
    @tbmac19765 ай бұрын

    This video has never been more needed than right now

  • @Skyyliex
    @Skyyliex3 ай бұрын

    The laughter coming from the audience, is more disturbing than the process of becoming disillusioned itself. Yiiiiiiikes.

  • @braveknight2000
    @braveknight20006 жыл бұрын

    Dorothy: "I miss Kansas, Toto." Toto: (I miss the rains down in Africa.)

  • @brendanpelly213

    @brendanpelly213

    5 жыл бұрын

    AW WOW!!!

  • @saskoilersfan

    @saskoilersfan

    3 жыл бұрын

    I miss my life._. I Don't like this world of desception._.

  • @henrydragonsbane4260

    @henrydragonsbane4260

    3 жыл бұрын

    Carry on my wayward dog ... wrong band

  • @saskoilersfan

    @saskoilersfan

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@henrydragonsbane4260 so Liars world ..what's up ..

  • @GrimRepair

    @GrimRepair

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's I bless the rains down in Africa.

  • @lifepresent3183
    @lifepresent31834 жыл бұрын

    Pretty good. He has a powerful manner in how he tells his story. Good presentation. In the end, it shows a great and strong point!

  • @islamiln6408
    @islamiln64084 жыл бұрын

    Nicely put! Life as we know is actually a complete lie.... but most people don’t want to acknowledge it! Yes- we have shelter our children from the absolute truth- but i think a good parent at this time should gently awaken them- and yes, movies are the perfect way!

  • @Lotuslaful
    @Lotuslaful6 жыл бұрын

    Excellent!

  • @JusLivinAXA
    @JusLivinAXA6 жыл бұрын

    This is a beautiful effort!

  • @kindgurly1
    @kindgurly12 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed this speech. The speaker is very enlightened. I am totally on the same page as him.

  • @firecloud77

    @firecloud77

    4 ай бұрын

    You hate white people?

  • @jeromystewart
    @jeromystewart6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for saying this. This idea is my truth and my mantra and the individuals that I encounter seem to be in denial of this universal characteristic of humanity.

  • @justinjordan3033
    @justinjordan30336 жыл бұрын

    This is at its core one of the best Ted Talks ever. What would this world be without disillusionment? A much better place for sure👍

  • @01ProFfs

    @01ProFfs

    Жыл бұрын

    This world has illusionment and it is not a good place! So how do you think it would be better without disillusionment?

  • @justinjordan3033

    @justinjordan3033

    Жыл бұрын

    @@01ProFfs I'm pretty sure you just answered your own question there Yandi... If having something that doesn't = good, then perhaps not having it has a chance of improving things. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that there should be a ban on any and all illusion of any kind. I'm just saying that if we were to begin treating everything with rational logic and an abundance of realism and truth it would make- making the right choices for a better future for all, easier and thus theoretically more likely. Disillusionment leads to cognitive dissonance and for some if not many that can lead to years if not a life time of mental illness of some sort.... I guess the real question here would be what good is disillusionment doing for this world? Idk food for thought I guess, or not... Make whatever you want out of it I suppose.

  • @AJ-kn5cx

    @AJ-kn5cx

    8 ай бұрын

    It would be very beneficial if you consider reading and studying the Holy Quran.

  • @In2MeUcU
    @In2MeUcU5 жыл бұрын

    Divine Wisdom... BeYOUtiful Truth... Denial is the greatest dis-ease of them all!

  • @brendanpelly213

    @brendanpelly213

    5 жыл бұрын

    Not denial..."Cognitive Dissonance"!!!!!!

  • @angelarenacompany7260
    @angelarenacompany72603 жыл бұрын

    Excelllent Ted Talk... Relevant yesterday, today, and tomorrow. Powerful ending. No more facades.

  • @bohogoddess
    @bohogoddess3 жыл бұрын

    REALLY GOOD TALK!

  • @johnwilson994
    @johnwilson9945 жыл бұрын

    POWERFUL!!!

  • @Keren-TeEl
    @Keren-TeEl4 жыл бұрын

    This is AMAZING!!!

  • @ZX81v2
    @ZX81v25 жыл бұрын

    Great video, well written

  • @dusandragovic09srb
    @dusandragovic09srb4 жыл бұрын

    Great talk! Glad I clicked it =D

  • @anthonyxyy9663
    @anthonyxyy96636 жыл бұрын

    Bottom line its every man for himself. How you perceive.

  • @christopher.m.dickinson0315
    @christopher.m.dickinson03153 жыл бұрын

    Yeah hitting that moral crossroad in my life I just can't sell myself out for money and material. People that have passed by that I should have helped the deep spiritual connections that I gave up. for what lie. Material makes you give up that one true feeling wanting to love and to give love. We use need of wanting to feel connected and belonging we manipulate it for our own selfish need. Put our faith and material to fill that void and lost our humanity on the way. We live an idea of ourselves not for ourselves. well I would rather love and be good and just and die alone on the street. Been in a mention surrounded by things. At least I was straight to myself how many people can say that

  • @dreamreal756
    @dreamreal7564 жыл бұрын

    What's with the volume? Can you re-upload?

  • @Glace1221

    @Glace1221

    4 жыл бұрын

    My right ear is not happy. It's like a three-way and my right ear is just watching.

  • @jerryhewes
    @jerryhewes4 жыл бұрын

    It requires a change in perspective. It means that our current material perspective is incorrect and is the very reason some of us can perceive the lie we live and must live as long as we assume everything to be made of matter. As we already can see materialism offers no principle to guide us because it has no relevant focus. The result is, we must fake civility, all of it. This faking is the reason we have never properly defined civility or the principles of existence which would naturally support and enforce a civil culture. It is to say that currently, all aspects of governmentally enforced civility is faked civility and requires the application of force, a contradiction to the internal growth of understanding natural civility requires. Contradictions are the violation of our first principle of all existence, non-contradiction.

  • @rachcliffe3182
    @rachcliffe31824 жыл бұрын

    Good Wizard, Colin!

  • @Demetrenos
    @Demetrenos4 жыл бұрын

    If your salary depends on playing along... Follow the motive which is 99% of the time money and power. Society is structured like a onion. The higher you go, the fewer but but more powerful and usually richer people.

  • @DeanRendar

    @DeanRendar

    3 жыл бұрын

    YOU HAVE TO BEEN 1 OF EVERYTHING TO GET IT AND RECOGNIZE THE "ACT"

  • @imingzee
    @imingzee9 жыл бұрын

    This guy mentions the Wizard of Oz in just about all his speeches, but I'm willing to bet he hasn't got a clue what the Wizard of Oz story was actually about. Every one of his speeches is about the classical idea of feminism and racism, treating the issue like it's one of the most prevalent issues of the Western, civilized world. The funny thing is, it is mainstream television, music and movies which indoctrinate these ideas of racial, gender specific thinking into us. Yet, he focuses the blame on how WE think as opposed to how we are MADE to think. Rather than chastising modern, corporate media culture, he chooses to chastise YOU, as though it's YOUR fault you are made to think racist and sexist thoughts, not the corporate entities who plant those ideas in you. Why not focus on the problem, Mr. Stokes, rather than focusing on the symptom... perhaps maybe then we'll get somewhere!!

  • @teddyunsteady3974

    @teddyunsteady3974

    9 жыл бұрын

    I don't know bruh, he seemed to be challenging his audience rather than wagging his finger at them, but maybe that's just me. I do agree that media corporations are pretty standard in terms of corrupt economic giants (aka really freaking corrupt). However, these corporations are also giving people what they will watch. The media we get is the media that will generate the most revenue.

  • @imingzee

    @imingzee

    9 жыл бұрын

    Teddy Unsteady I think he was making his audience uncomfortable. The crap he's talking about is absurd. "White supremacy is intact?" I think this that is a huge exaggeration. "What would we have to give up to drop our facade of our power over others??" He is actually calling the audience racist. How went from talking about corporate and institutional interests promoting discrimination, which is a good start, to "you are racist." He should stick to the topic, as he was on the right track. Blaming your audience for the crimes of the minority is not going to change anything. This guy really has no idea how to talk to people.

  • @teddyunsteady3974

    @teddyunsteady3974

    9 жыл бұрын

    imingzee Alright, I listened to his spiel again, and I still don't feel insulted. He uses language like "we" and "us" when addressing the audience, so he's not implying that he's above anyone in that regard. He doesn't include himself when he mentions "the great and powerful people," but these statements are not directed at the audience either. So what I get out of this video, is that Mr. Stokes here believes that the world is not a perfect place, and that discrimination is still a problem even if it has improved recently. He talks about how revelations like this are hard for people to swallow in general, and that this is taken advantage of by other people. I guess the part that can be interpreted as insult is that Mr. Stokes says that people in general do not change very much when confronted with news of discrimination or unfairness. But it shouldn't be any surprise that people are kind of dumb when it comes to learning how to change. For example, guerrilla warfare is practically brand spanking new: before that military leaders were sending droves of soldiers out of trenches to combat enemy machine gun fire (spoiler alert: the machine guns generally won). But as I said, that's just how I see it. One man's interpretation of an insult is another man's interpretation of a statement, I guess.

  • @imingzee

    @imingzee

    9 жыл бұрын

    Teddy Unsteady I suppose. I'm just tired of hearing the same old rhetoric about sexism and racism ad nauseam. We have a world controlled by corporate interests and an international banking cabal and all people can talk about is sexism and racism in places where sexism has become reverse-sexism (women having more rights than men now) and where multiculturalism is thriving like crazy with no distinguishable signs of racism. Personally, I think this guy is mentally trapped in the 50's.

  • @teddyunsteady3974

    @teddyunsteady3974

    9 жыл бұрын

    imingzee

  • @lynnetg
    @lynnetg6 жыл бұрын

    Wow. Amazing...it's my manifestation .

  • @user-bc5jk8rr3z
    @user-bc5jk8rr3z5 жыл бұрын

    great talk but sound is so low even with speakers all the way up. how can u fix that?

  • @lehcyfer

    @lehcyfer

    4 жыл бұрын

    Turn the subtitles on ;)

  • @user-xf8sv8uv6j

    @user-xf8sv8uv6j

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@lehcyfer Try wearing head phone.

  • @lehcyfer

    @lehcyfer

    4 жыл бұрын

    Waste of hearing. Subtitles work just fine

  • @TeethKnifeKwikAttack
    @TeethKnifeKwikAttack9 жыл бұрын

    WAAAAA! "I'm a Straight, White Male and I HATE MYSELFFFF!" MERRRRR!

  • @andreit3601

    @andreit3601

    6 жыл бұрын

    That's seriously all that you got out of this? Did you fail to grasp the deeper existential message... or is it more convenient to throw dirt in people's faces to make yourself feel better? Who's the whinny one now?

  • @danpt2000

    @danpt2000

    6 жыл бұрын

    TeethKnifeKwikAttack You should be ashamed for being born

  • @ArnoldvanKampen
    @ArnoldvanKampen6 жыл бұрын

    What people mostly do is create order within a sea of chaos. The structures that stem from these efforts are never perfect. It is a constant struggle to keep that order afloat. So, others are not really lying to you, it is just that for too long you failed to see that omnipresent imperfection. To add, it is indeed almost biblical. When Adam and Eve first cover their nakedness, it is to protect themselves as they are now fully aware of their weakness and vulnerability. Even that choice of the cover as a way of looking for protection is sort of a pathetic solution, showing even more so mankind's weakness in the face of dire straits. It is paradise lost. It is the human condition. So be it. Amen.

  • @Bogolyubovos

    @Bogolyubovos

    5 жыл бұрын

    Arnold Van Kampen You don't have any idea how much your brainwashed !

  • @duggydugg3937
    @duggydugg39376 жыл бұрын

    Here is one of the most significant things that is not true... The 'fed' is part of gvt and has our best interests in mind

  • @toddlavigne6441

    @toddlavigne6441

    4 жыл бұрын

    private company...not government

  • @pjhudson5344

    @pjhudson5344

    3 жыл бұрын

    central banks= global peace through monetary policy.

  • @duggydugg3937

    @duggydugg3937

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pjhudson5344 leftist gibberish cbd ..central bank dynasty does not have your best interests in mind case in point.. national debt... TRILLIONS...the central bank that issues USD only lends dollars to the usg.. the loans have to be paid back ! with income tax revenue ! the debt is skyrocketing... we are bankrupt... if not stopped we will crash profoundly

  • @pjhudson5344

    @pjhudson5344

    3 жыл бұрын

    ​@@duggydugg3937 leftist, i dont have an agenda and love more on the topic. Best interests being very broad. I am using common sense explanation of their purpose secondary to making money naturally. Also, perhaps they have to play god in order to facilitate change, wealth exchange, bank installs. I hope the people of America direct to the bank and cut out the middle man, our bloated federal arm.

  • @duggydugg3937

    @duggydugg3937

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pjhudson5344 gibberish , CD best interest : government prints $$$ ... no debt to taxpayers not best interest: government lets NGO 'fed' Print $$$.. BORROW S spendy from 'fed'.... TRILLIONS of debt land on the taxpayers

  • @phixiate
    @phixiate6 жыл бұрын

    Nobody knows. The ones that do just want followers to validate their perception. Humanity is "glorious".

  • @indigameriseminalindian
    @indigameriseminalindian4 жыл бұрын

    He did a great job of drawing out the picture in this story. I absolutely agree with what he said.

  • @Grogster2007
    @Grogster20076 жыл бұрын

    We are all flawed as human beings............ it doesn't mean that all of our heroes are just the product of lies

  • @tehKap0w

    @tehKap0w

    6 жыл бұрын

    even discovering a hero has a flaw can be just as bad when your mental construct of that person falls apart.

  • @finnmccool684
    @finnmccool6846 жыл бұрын

    Well, on the other hand, he did cure my insomnia.

  • @getmesomefries

    @getmesomefries

    2 жыл бұрын

    I came here from googling the idea that everything we thought was so...isn't. I'm glad you're not there. It's unsettling. Stay in ignorance. It's better.

  • @finnmccool684

    @finnmccool684

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@getmesomefries I have no idea what you're talking about. He didn't say anything I didn't already know.

  • @michaelkhobbs3815
    @michaelkhobbs38153 жыл бұрын

    This is making more sense to me but is it to everyone of every color, religion or job position and how much a person is paid? How do we solve this matter? For once in my life I am going to have to stand up to my own self from imposing on to my own kids of the authority figure in which I never had a role model except for the 1st 10 years of my life except for Mom who raised 2 set's of kids mine. What do we do about (Sybil). Keep that in mind. So much to learn. We get on as best as we can and start peeling off the layers of ego that we put on ourselves till that painful most terrifying nerve is exposed. Own it. Because our whole life is packed with lessons. Thank you. I don't know where that came from but thank you. Michael ✌️

  • @CuPi44
    @CuPi449 жыл бұрын

    Some nice points, really not bad thoughts overall. At the end, though, the idea is presented that powerful people gain freedom by dropping their façades. I think that only applies if they weren't achieving more freedom and power from their positions (and likely corruption or lies) and/or regret being in deceptive, powerful positions. If a person has power, wealth, and freedom to do almost anything desired (even ruining people's lives or sentencing them to death), that person has reason to keep up the illusion... first to keep their benefits and to prevent revenge for their actions (which include keeping up the illusion).

  • @dragonsforbreakfast3572
    @dragonsforbreakfast35726 жыл бұрын

    Having power over people because they believe you have power over them is not flase power. Also, you wouldn't have to disillusion your children to your standards if you didn't set up the illusion for them in the first place, which you would anyway if you tried not to because everyone has different opinions about things. To say it another way, if you were completely honest with your children, one day they'll think about how you lied to them. Everything works this way. The only golden standard of disillusionment is to refuse to be offended by dissonance.

  • @MrBuzzzzz
    @MrBuzzzzz4 жыл бұрын

    One of the most brilliant Ted Talks I have ever watched.

  • @wayne-kj4iw
    @wayne-kj4iw5 жыл бұрын

    we finally have more atheist in this world than ever before ...so we are moving in the right direction

  • @RUTHLESSMENTALIST369
    @RUTHLESSMENTALIST3696 жыл бұрын

    if one gives up their power - someone else will grab that power - as there are only leaders and followers.

  • @jacobr4558

    @jacobr4558

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yet if everyone gives up their power you have love and unity 😆

  • @nzmpa1
    @nzmpa16 жыл бұрын

    100% Truth.

  • @toddlavigne6441
    @toddlavigne64414 жыл бұрын

    who ever posted this....great information is greater when you can hear it

  • @keniacorniel-dipiglia2620
    @keniacorniel-dipiglia26204 жыл бұрын

    Wao you are a world savior. Thank you. Now who is is willing ?

  • @avasangel5559
    @avasangel55594 жыл бұрын

    So real, so well said that everyone can understand .. Needed this, completely simply brilliant ....

  • @tyronemosley6810
    @tyronemosley6810 Жыл бұрын

    Deep on many different levels...

  • @jasonmccredden1050
    @jasonmccredden10505 жыл бұрын

    The problem with the lie is everyone is compelled to find it somewhere else

  • @catharsis21
    @catharsis214 жыл бұрын

    Yep, the audio on this is poor to non-existent.

  • @barbthornell4786
    @barbthornell47866 жыл бұрын

    "Sponsored Content" - I love that phrase. But advertisers, and even politicians, are not the worst purveyors of it...look to scientists. The history of science (including recent and current history) is horrifying in terms of slanted, biased, and manipulated data designed to glorify and even legalize ego based beliefs. Every which way.

  • @miischaqi2676

    @miischaqi2676

    5 жыл бұрын

    Not nearly as bad as the "sponsored content" of religion

  • @rudeboyses
    @rudeboyses5 жыл бұрын

    this talk is profound. as a non-White man, i understand.

  • @ariyahyisrael1232

    @ariyahyisrael1232

    4 жыл бұрын

    This probably has different meanings for different people but as a sister I understand what you understand brother - nuff said.

  • @patrickegan8866
    @patrickegan88665 жыл бұрын

    I think I missed the final point, but it's pretty sad that religion got a free-pass in this speech.

  • @thestopper5165

    @thestopper5165

    4 жыл бұрын

    For me, that stuck out like a bulldog's bollocks. When he was talking about 'sponsored content'... no mention of religion or politics. When he was talking about 'phony wizards'... no mention of religion or politics. And yet those two things are the biggest grifts in human history.

  • @twsartadventures3660

    @twsartadventures3660

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@thestopper5165 Except The Bible is 100% true and Jesus is God. Your OPINION is irrelevant. You saying "NUH UH" is nothing. Jesus doesn't stop being God because you decided not to believe in Him. Reality isn't subjected to your opinion. You not doing your homework, just assuming its all bad, is YOUR FAULT. Nobody else's. The Truth is ready to be learned, you just need to not be so arrogant and close minded to the TRUTH. Seek it and the Truth shall set you free.

  • @richardkaz2336
    @richardkaz23366 жыл бұрын

    Religious and political power thrives, manipulates and perpetuates this concept through time and location. The sooner people realise and reject both the better.

  • @kathleensmith3536
    @kathleensmith35366 жыл бұрын

    This guy starts out good -- but then begins to get so much wrong - he just replaces what he says he is against and he becomes that new thing to be against. Guess what -- BOY and GIRLS are different, I don't mean about the color of the teething ring, (but your little inferene, great nudging propaganda) Also -- today's white males are not responsible for what a bunch of white males did in the past. STOP blaming the young white guys of today for what they things that happened when they were not even born or for things that they do not have the priviledges to do. NOT ALL WHITE MALES ARE CREATED EQUAL -- it was the 1% of the whitel males that have owned the earth, the other 99% of the white males where living in the dirt like most everyone else. Let us start with the present and treat people as they want to be treated, we are all different and I take each person as they come. FYI The Wizard of OZ is a story about the gold standard - the guy behind the current represents the CENTRAL BANK printing money out of nothing. I must say I really did not like this guys talk, so much contradiction.

  • @packhorseadventures7758
    @packhorseadventures77584 жыл бұрын

    Wow 🤯

  • @vonshango6311
    @vonshango63116 жыл бұрын

    dude, repost with volume 10x louder, maybe 20x

  • @Jwet1100
    @Jwet1100 Жыл бұрын

    Every pastor preacher and priest is just another Wizard of Oz.

  • @Chelseacoastmaine

    @Chelseacoastmaine

    Жыл бұрын

    There are so many “spiritual gurus” that have been exposed recently for abusing women and being greedy with money 😢

  • @rox4884
    @rox48846 жыл бұрын

    I'm reading Wicked, the Life and Times of the Wicked Witch and the connection between the wizard and racism is especially poignant in light of his behavior in the book, labeling Animals and animals and silencing their dissent. The wizard gets Dorothy to kill the "witch" and he gets off scott free and gets to go home with no consequences. Hopefully Glenda is a better leader in the end and isn't being controlled by someone else in the background. It's not a coincidence that Dorothy's house just happened to land on the witch of the East. It's not a coincidence that there was a bucket of water for Dorothy to use. It's not a coincidence that Toto exposes the wizard. Who does that leave? Glinda. Is Glinda controlling everything or is the lady in the literal bubble , being gently guided to follow a certain path? Sounds a lot like the way our society works.

  • @mundymorningreport3137

    @mundymorningreport3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow! You raise all kinds of conflicting features in the OZ chronicles that parallel real life. Not surprisingly, life we live is often lived in the moment with actions that take advantage of things at hand or the last thought in our head, leaving control to the ones who have a broader, more potent perspective or socially endorsed action plan. (Often at odds with individual motives or reputation) But the characters in Star Wars were more human (perhaps more relatable) and with better special effects making levitating rocks more believable than flying monkeys. So, the story teller’s choice to keep the OZ portion limited. Adding all the OZ details would also have distracted from his point (TMI). Clearly from the other comments, it is a topic with multiple dissonant points.

  • @martinzitter4551
    @martinzitter45516 жыл бұрын

    Religion is the most heavily sponsored content of all.

  • @suaptoest

    @suaptoest

    6 жыл бұрын

    Science is the most sponsored religion ever.

  • @brooksbutler5068

    @brooksbutler5068

    6 жыл бұрын

    ile vaan Scientology?

  • @iamirnman

    @iamirnman

    6 жыл бұрын

    Love, compassion, and forgiveness brought to you by Jesus! :) how dare he...

  • @loucrateseveryman5006

    @loucrateseveryman5006

    6 жыл бұрын

    No, that would be the globe.

  • @iamirnman

    @iamirnman

    6 жыл бұрын

    Also the globe, brought to you by Jesus. How dare he! :)

  • @charlesabramson9492
    @charlesabramson94922 жыл бұрын

    Baby boys and girls are different.

  • @jasonmccredden1050
    @jasonmccredden10505 жыл бұрын

    Very shallow rabbit hole. The lie is ever pervading for the truth is always available for tomorrow.

  • @ablanccanvas
    @ablanccanvas6 жыл бұрын

    Ideas worth spreading. What do you do? Me... I’m making a cup of tea and I’m going to ponder 🤔.

  • @effervescentrelief
    @effervescentrelief6 жыл бұрын

    Happy to be male and white, thank you. And no, I’m not causing your problems.

  • @queuesnake704
    @queuesnake70410 жыл бұрын

    The real lie is the world we've built, and it's a terrible one at that. Don't lecture me about truth.

  • @Slupel

    @Slupel

    9 жыл бұрын

    You can't handle the truth :)

  • @BRAND0N...

    @BRAND0N...

    6 жыл бұрын

    i think thats what hs saying. dont be so defensive and confrontational to authority

  • @suaptoest

    @suaptoest

    6 жыл бұрын

    Queue Snake You made an announcement hard to ignore.

  • @BRAND0N...

    @BRAND0N...

    6 жыл бұрын

    what?

  • @silverlaptop2022
    @silverlaptop20226 ай бұрын

    The Holy Bible is NOT a lie! 😇

  • @ulathomas37
    @ulathomas376 жыл бұрын

    Power over others? I don’t think so! What power? Not me! I have no power over others! I am equal with the others and part of that one consciousness on earth!

  • @ricktalks7420
    @ricktalks74204 жыл бұрын

    Sound messed up .....

  • @robertosvrahimis3304
    @robertosvrahimis33045 жыл бұрын

    Who told Americans that a blue shirt can be worn with beige trousers and brown shoes? And why do all of them love this combination?

  • @jaydee2012
    @jaydee20125 жыл бұрын

    This is the establishment approved pseudo red pilling version for phony the wake up of those in the box to remain in the box.

  • @philindeblanc

    @philindeblanc

    5 жыл бұрын

    EXACTLY!!!LOL..this is the red pill so he doesnt get suicided by TedX top heads.

  • @neocount6397
    @neocount63976 жыл бұрын

    No, our ancestors were the wizards of the human race. However, that doesn't mean that we are wizards now or that others can't be. You're not born great, you have to earn it.

  • @lightlove3373
    @lightlove33736 жыл бұрын

    Did I miss something? what does this talk have to do with the title of this vid?

  • @acefreholy9719
    @acefreholy97196 жыл бұрын

    Aw, people either hate you, are scared of what you say or dismiss you. Nice concept though. Again it takes a lot of people doing it together

  • @rodneyparker5313
    @rodneyparker53132 жыл бұрын

    Most people, I think, can't comprehend the magnitude of cognitive dissonance and cognitive bias. The failure to understand and accept how the brain fails to function cognitively, will be our undoing. Good video, but most can't extrapolate the extent of this.

  • @user-bc5jk8rr3z
    @user-bc5jk8rr3z4 жыл бұрын

    audio is horrible... can it be fixed?

  • @thomasdamico3120
    @thomasdamico31206 жыл бұрын

    Charles Murray and The Bell Curve would strongly take issue with your perspectives. Nature can care less about political correctness and whose feelings are hurt.

  • @DeanRendar
    @DeanRendar3 жыл бұрын

  • @bkbland1626
    @bkbland16266 жыл бұрын

    Volume issues, eh?

  • @vintasgeport
    @vintasgeport6 жыл бұрын

    Another drugstore radical. Refried 1960's style revisionism. Very tiresome stuff. "Our glorious Constitution left slavery intact," he sniffs. So what? The intention of the Founders was to form a new country, not abolish slavery. They did the best they could, given the givens of the time and their own imperfections. And a damn fine job too, for which I for one am grateful to this day.

  • @lovesilk1

    @lovesilk1

    6 жыл бұрын

    What would you expect? It's a TED talk. Just another Zionists propaganda platform.

  • @jamesholder86
    @jamesholder866 жыл бұрын

    The volume is too low to hear. Come on. Fix it.

  • @queuesnake704
    @queuesnake70410 жыл бұрын

    The only "lie" is denying that you have ambitions and being unable to trust anyone. What a joke.

  • @camil914

    @camil914

    6 жыл бұрын

    Queue Snake NOOOOOOOOOO!

  • @Gladiatorschool99
    @Gladiatorschool994 жыл бұрын

    Century of self

  • @kenkarish826
    @kenkarish8266 жыл бұрын

    What a poor analogy, Luke was told that his father was dead and that Darth Vadar killed him. Which is essentially true. Only in the end was Anikin reborn and Vadar killed. Just because they were in the same body their ideology's differed greatly. It was like flipping a light switch.

  • @Lorlornyo
    @Lorlornyo2 жыл бұрын

    Before I waste 11 minutes of my life, does he answer the title of the video? I really want to know how people live with all these lies…

  • @darleneatkinson6730

    @darleneatkinson6730

    2 жыл бұрын

    erakah, I realize it year 2021, I clear my mind and enjoy who I am. Lies will always be around forever so, Love you, live you're life how you feel the best. Hope this help. Every human has his or her opinion but in your life your opinion is all that matters.

  • @Lorlornyo

    @Lorlornyo

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@darleneatkinson6730 gratitude

  • @queuesnake704
    @queuesnake70410 жыл бұрын

    (eye roll) Sure.

  • @CAMacKenzie
    @CAMacKenzie6 жыл бұрын

    Darth Vader's revelation didn't strike me as all that remarkable or Earth shattering. I liked the Star Wars series, at least the first 3, but it was not THAT big a thing. Maybe because I was 29 years old at the time, or maybe because I never believed in superheroes, anyway. The Wizard of Oz, and the drawing back of the curtain never seemed all that deep, even though I was a little kid the first time I saw it. I liked the Beatles and Frank Zappa, but I never viewed them as God. For that matter, I never believed in God as God. Was I born defective, that I was unsurprised that everything was, well, maybe not a lie, but a whole lot less than it seemed? Was I born obtunded that I didn't feel these things?

  • @alannothnagle

    @alannothnagle

    6 жыл бұрын

    Just wondering - are you moved or even just impressed by anything, or do you take it all in stride? (Genuinely curious.)

  • @CAMacKenzie

    @CAMacKenzie

    6 жыл бұрын

    I've been following it for over 20 years, but still, Kilauea really impresses me. Yellowstone, if you can get away from the crowds, is pretty impressive. People sometimes make me smile, or get angry, but they rarely do anything really impressive, and fantasy like superhero stories leaves me cold.

  • @braveknight2000
    @braveknight20006 жыл бұрын

    The problem with the biological explanation is it denies our ability to choose. If these thoughts or behaviors have a biological cause, what can we do to change that? Can you, for instance, change the chemistry in your brain? How? You might say, "Well, I'll ingest a drug that will change my brain chemistry." But the obvious question is, which literally nobody every asks is, where does the impetus come from in the first place which allows you to make the choice to ingest that drug? In other words, what is doing the choosing? Is it brain states themselves which choose? If that's the case, is choice even real or is it an illusion? When you ask most people if choice is possible, most will say it's axiomatic, of course it's real. But the ones who have thought about it and perhaps come from a viewpoint that matter is the cause of thought, usually have no choice (forgive the pun) but to decide (again, forgive the pun) that choice is an illusion. But those individuals don't behave as if choice were an illusion. Lectures like this one, for instance, would be pointless if choice were an illusion. If you learn everything is a lie, there's not much you can do about it if it all has a biological cause. Perhaps we need to question the foundational beliefs about reality. Is matter really the source of human consciousness? Aren't we really just coming to that conclusion because it seems to be true? Is "seems to be" really a good enough reason to make a conclusion about reality? I don't think so. If anything, we should at least question it. Maybe that's what's wrong with the world. Maybe that's why everything seems to be a lie. It's all based on the biggest lie of all.

  • @go2mark1313
    @go2mark13136 жыл бұрын

    EARTH IS FLAT

  • @taylorlogan3

    @taylorlogan3

    4 жыл бұрын

    Shut up pawn , go pay taxes.

  • @teresasvk2443
    @teresasvk24436 жыл бұрын

    Very good question on the title...but i didnt get the answer

  • @waltercarter6163

    @waltercarter6163

    6 жыл бұрын

    Agreed. If that's all he thinks is sold as a lie, he's utterly clueless.

  • @suaptoest

    @suaptoest

    6 жыл бұрын

    You were not the only one.

  • @suaptoest

    @suaptoest

    6 жыл бұрын

    Vaccines can be used as a Trojan Horse. Everything can be used for good and bad. Information given doesn't be an exception.

  • @tehKap0w

    @tehKap0w

    6 жыл бұрын

    Don't let cognitive dissonance reign. If you discover the lie, work on accepting the truth and you will be happier and more powerful without needing to hide behind the lie.

  • @Nimuel

    @Nimuel

    6 жыл бұрын

    With the little caveat that at the end he tacks on that you should believe a certain perspective that he provides, the hubris of his own cognitive dissonance is staggering.