What’s the quickest way to improve your dating? Simple you need to discover a few things (1) what is it that you are doing that’s pushing women away (2) how do you self reject (3) how do women experience you? You’ll be surprised how such simple things make such a difference once you see that it’s not about attraction women, but rather what’s preventing your natural ability to attract the feminine? That’s exactly what we teach at Fearless live events - click below to learn more New York City - www.thefearlessman.com/live-nyc-yt Bucharest Romania - www.thefearlessman.com/live-buch-yt

@mrsmoove808

4 жыл бұрын

I love you bud!

Watching your videos made me realize women are a reflection of whatever is happening inside of the man.

@Blakestone

5 жыл бұрын

That's the frame

@michaelmarinko676

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, fascinating. I've heard that before - a woman is reflection of the man - from DeAnna Lorraine - if you know who she is, a dating & relationship coach in Los Angeles, California.

@JoeyDediashvili

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Masculine energy points the direction. The feminine magnifies it.

@theelderelk5582

3 жыл бұрын

Wow. That explains a lot. One weekend, my ex was literally picking up on my thoughts. I would think something and ten minutes later she was shouting that in my face. I didn't even need to say anything at times. It was mad. (Needless to say, I was a simp back then)

@jamesleon2770

3 жыл бұрын

Damnnnnmmmmm,word brother

This guy's the real deal. Glad I found this content!

@jamesleon2770

3 жыл бұрын

Legit hey

@loyalldsouza2986

2 жыл бұрын

On god

Are you two wearing the same top?

@universweet5593

5 жыл бұрын

hahaha good one

@utubecorporatetroll

5 жыл бұрын

His thoughts are as deep as his V necks

@stressfree9780

5 жыл бұрын

Yes it is so what

@Holypikemanz

4 жыл бұрын

most accurate/hilarious statement on this page.

@hasseaouled6032

4 жыл бұрын

He was wearing it first, but then the female picked up on the vibes and matched his shirt, too.

A lot of what Emily was doing was magnifying what Brian gave to her. And Emily mentioned a good point of the guy finding enjoyment in himself and girl reflecting that back.

Today first time watching these and i already felt what am lacking and doing wrong all these years. I love how you explain things and make me realize that i must get out of my comfort zone. Both of you do such a good job i can feel the tension behind the screen! Emily is so charming and wonderful

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

Glad it hits home! Hope to meet you at an event! www.thefearlessman.com/events

Aaah the cringe is forcing me to face my problems!!! I'm melting!!!!!

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

haha great way of putting it and owning it

@AzazelHash281

6 жыл бұрын

That’s the healthiest joke I’ve ever seen

@dannyjonze

6 жыл бұрын

Push through the cringe. Mirror neurons are doing their work.

@toastedavocado299

6 жыл бұрын

Lol same

@Exxon300

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, preach!!!

Thank you Brian, I could see it. It's one of the best demonstration of "stepping and relaxing into tension" that you've done ever.

She has no reflexion coming off the television. VAMPIRE

@jibwaddlehosafat6276

5 жыл бұрын

They're not all like that.

@Mturner450

4 жыл бұрын

@@jibwaddlehosafat6276 k

Interesting, I stopped watching your videos because I felt there was no excitement, realness or fun but after watching this video I loved it. Could feel the tension, excitement and playfulness, thank you for the video. It wasn't just you talking it was collaborative, realness, real emotions, this is what I love to see keep it up!

@hahanicebroskie

5 жыл бұрын

Good face haha

Quality content. Been watching 20 min before my beginner salsa class and I could connect a lot better with my partner and I could feel her relaxing as I got more grounded.

Very good connection between actual physical contact and emotional. Brings a depth of meaning to the importance of being grounded and confident in oneself. Such encounters reveal a lot about oneself too. Thanks for sharing. Interesting to see a inner strength in Emily who is very feminine and graceful too.

You're solving the cause, not the problem. I like that guy

@TheFearlessMan

5 жыл бұрын

Glad it resonates

pinpointed what my future looks like! This is exactly where Im headed!

@raymondguzman5083

5 жыл бұрын

Lmao fuck yeah

Today is the first day that I started to be a little bit fearless. I looked into a beautiful girls eyes and felt that I made a connection. It’s so strange to feel this way for the first time in my life.

@jefftX

3 жыл бұрын

Congrats bud. Now look her in the eyes, approach, and ask for her number, like I’ve done

I get what he's trying to teach but in this specific video I feel like what he is doing would not work well in a real world situation. Him and Emily already know each other and they have conformabilty. I would like to see him do this in a real scenario.

@vicm490

6 жыл бұрын

What? Real world situation is GROUNDING, RELAX IN TENSION, RELAX IN REJECTION, that´s all what´s the whole video about!

@amauri_dleon7726

6 жыл бұрын

I have notice that not every woman is available for this type of behavior.. so i do agreed with Nadie montes

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

The more grounded you are, the more women will relax, too

@nintendo9231889

6 жыл бұрын

those women are not good, real, feminine women

@Zavuno

6 жыл бұрын

This definitely works in a real world situation. I experience this with girls all the time where i don't say to much but the words I do say have a great impact but I didn't know how to explain it. This video breaks it down pretty well.

Thanks for a great video Brian, i haven't attempted Too much of stuff from the channel but it has changed my perspective Drastically and i think im on the right path now :) time will tell.

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that. Pick one small, very manageable practice and start

Really enjoyed the examples u guys display , helps me learn from my past mistakes and what to improve " amazing video keep them coming

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks! Glad the videos are inspiring you to comment on multiple ones

Man, this is good content and good advice. Just from watching the video, I can tell that actually the physical pushing/testing would trigger me more than the words. I haven't had a lot of rough and tumble play in my life so I'm not as used to it. Excited to explore this in my interactions.

Ton of value in this video, I am very grateful. Oh, and excited to try this out. Damn, it's such a powerfull reframe, that tension is actually good, that it's a dance. And also to feel your body in that moment instead of thinking. And also not be afraid of shutting down for a second but coming back in the moment and reconect again, what some women actually really like. Yeah, like I said, a ton of value. Can't wait to try it out

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

Glad it's helpful!

It's major cringe but I can't look away 🤣🤣😂. Somehow my brain thinks that by absorbing all this cringe I'll be able to handle awkward situations in real life. Lovely video guys. I commend the effort and there's definite progress in the interactions.

@dark-starchemistryfabricat2405

3 жыл бұрын

@Freakyooo I agree feeling “cringe” is a characteristic of an Agreeable/overly empathetic person watching this and feeling second hand embarrassment for the guy because he is in a tension filled situation. I will say that “cringe” is a characteristic of a weak minded male that has been tuned his whole life to not “rock the boat”.....But using tension as a weapon isn’t a mandatory action that is absolutely needed to get women. Im not trying to toot my own horn here.... but Ive been in Fulfilling sexual relationships with attractive females since I was 14 ...(im 28 now)...and Im just learning about this stuff. It definitely helps. But its not %100 do or die. It is VERY intriguing though, I wish I found it sooner. Because I think I have alot of pent up aggression that I think comes out in my flirtations with females Cheers.

I can really relate, and for the guys who says that they know each other... You are not open enough to feel and understand the nuances Thank you for the free valuable informations ITS GOLD.

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

Glad it connects! Thanks for the comment

These videos are pure gold! You should sell a program with just these kind of videos with models in them. I'd buy it in a heartbeat.

Very important to see te real thing about tention . Great one

Thanks for the lesson things are always the way they seem to be. Just stay connected through it all.

Okay so I’m going to start a conversation with the word “bagels” and see how my feet feel

Women's emotions are so cool. I felt that I was crazy emotionally but he makes me feel my emotions can be amazing.

Lol the way Brian was playing with her was so enjoyable to watch for me

As soon as he said that his line to start a conversation is “ girl , you look like trouble “ I realized that this might not be good advice lol😂

"I hope you guys are learning something" yeah man! that was awesome! 💪

That whole exchange of dialog felt as unsettling as a David Lynch directed scene.

Love the demo’s!!!!! Damn they are fun!

Man when you said that crossing arms isn't necessarily a closed behaviour I felt relieved... Like balls relieved 😂

@TheFearlessMan

5 жыл бұрын

Good. If it helps you increase feeling in touch with yourself, and even if it makes you feel a little safer...for the sake of being more open with people, it's fine

Man this was so good!

Quality content! Exceptionally great teachers!

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Glad it's connecting

Love your work, Brian and colleagues! Only recently discoverd Fearless and your work is already changing the way I see myself, the world, and therefore changing my life! Unfortunately parts 3 and 4 in this series are unavailable, for some reason.

@TheFearlessMan

Жыл бұрын

Scroll about halfway down our website and you should see the videos you are looking for. www.thefearlessman.com/ Regards, Landon, TFM

This is a great material to study

this is some cool stuff! love the vibe here! =)

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

Glad it connects!

Very interesting video. Almost reminds of tai chi practice.. stay rooted, relax, yield to incoming force....not bad.

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed! And yes, Tai Chi is very feeling based, too

Definitely practicing this with my friend, looks like fun!

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

Love to hear that. Let me know how it goes

@mufarowashemangwiro7831

4 жыл бұрын

Hope it's a girl mate 👀

@guyo1

3 жыл бұрын

@@mufarowashemangwiro7831 😂

The energy in the one-word-play almost knocked me off my chair😂😂😂😂😂 so fucking awesome

This vid made me subscribe what i rarely do. Dope info in depth. Grabbed some nuances.

Great video! Real content!!!

@TheFearlessMan

5 жыл бұрын

Glad it resonates! Hope to meet you at an event TheFearlessMan.com/events

Hi Brian, thanks for another brilliant video. There is so much information in your videos for self-improvement that I get lost from where to start (staying calm, creating tension, feeling lower body...etc.). Can you please write a sequence that we can follow like a staircase for self-improvement? By self-improvement here I mean becoming good with women which will eventually lead towards becoming good with rest of the world. Thanks and appreciated

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

I put the free content out here to help you guys as much as I and the team can. There are some playlists on the homepage, but if you want specific structure, that's where our products and live events come in. Also, the structure is different for everyone based on where they're at and strengths and weaknesses.You can check out events and products on TheFearlessMan.com

@jinhu4361

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks Brian. Just bought your product Fearless With Women eBook, will update the results here in coming weeks.

Brit has improved a ton. I can't wait to get out to an event.

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

Glad you can see that. Can't wait to meet you!

I do find myself getting very annoyed when I get tested sometimes

@Theo_iv

6 жыл бұрын

Especially when all she's offered is her test

@russellglasser15

6 жыл бұрын

You should be happy when she does it

@Theo_iv

6 жыл бұрын

gav bea I could say that I am but in reality I'm not. Sure this maybe a positive sign in some regards but I don't care enough about that to look pass the fact that I'm annoyed.

@AzazelHash281

6 жыл бұрын

Theo Wells IV like “hey I’m a decent man you shouldn’t be testing me” And I realized how that sounded

@Theo_iv

6 жыл бұрын

Rodney Hill more like ...."I'm an adult and grow up" women can play a lottttttt of games. How many of them are you attracted to?

love it! nice videos

This was reeeeaaaally practical. Cheers!

Good stuff man!

Wow i learned so much this is awesome.

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear it!

Hey, T.F.M when yu do a series can yu put the Previous Videos below so i can click on them. I want to watch this series in order but I'm not finding the Previous ones as eazy as i would like. Thanks and keep up the good wrk💪

The hitting part seems like when shooting the T-1000 (T2) he goes back and immediatetly he continue running👌🖒🖒

That last hit she got on him he didnt want any more😂😂😂

really interesting and unique cool stuff 😁

Tremendous content!

@TheFearlessMan

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

*I do that and we become best buddies, happened to me 100 times

Thanks for the video! I learned more from that demonstration than most videos with dating experts who just talk. I didn't even realize a woman slapping a guy across the shoulder could be a test. To me I always thought tests were when women would throw stuff at me verbally to see if she could throw my game off or if I'd take it personally. I see now there is more to it. I'm 42 years old and live in a small town of 800 people. So my selection of women here is not very good lol. What dates I do get from nearby cities, it rarely goes past the first date. I got so frustrated and resentful in my early 30's that I ended up settling with a women who I knew wasn't right for me. I didn't want to be starting a family in my 40's and the frustration got to me and I ignored numerous red flags. We were together for a total of 6 years. My ex wife and her father turned out to be narcissists. She was a lot more covert compared to her father. We've been divorced for 5 years and after getting into the dating scene again, it's been the same old story as before. I'm finding it's getting harder and harder to muster up the energy to keep going. The continued repetition of it all is becoming mind numbing.

@TheFearlessMan

2 жыл бұрын

You're facing some challenges there man. Consider taking solid action to get yourself on course to have more of what you want in your relationships and love life. That might mean working with us or taking another approach. If you want to consider working with us, you can email me at andrews@thefearlessman.com and we can talk about what you are looking for on a deeper level and the best way to proceed. - Andrew, TFM Team

Emily is soo charming

@karimsayed6292

5 жыл бұрын

Not that much

Brian, would you say grounding and relaxation during speaking is one of the root skills to embody during sales? possibly even more than the content itself being presented? What is your experience? Thank you

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

Very important. Other sales skills can be important too, but without grounding, it's going to be tough to be good

Thanks for sharing 🙋‍♂️

Good stuff man when I was sure of myself I never had any problems. Crazy how I never put it together. With my long term girlfriend I always blew it

I just now saw this video. I love this video. I'd like to see more videos like this one. The playful ones.

@TheFearlessMan

3 жыл бұрын

Hey Ripped Up, There are several videos in this series. Check the links in the description. Also, here is another similar series below. If you want to come get in front of one of our models yourself, reach out any time via Facebook or our website. - Andrew, TFM TheFearlessMan.com facebook.com/TheFearlessMan kzread.info/dash/bejne/k393yaOef9a7gZc.html

Works perfect!

ive watched a lot of these types of videos to figure out what i may be doing wrong, but this makes waaay more sense to me! pretty sure ive done this one accident several times, but now i am going to try and be more intentional about it

@TheFearlessMan

4 жыл бұрын

Love it. Glad the video helped. Welcome to the channel, and I hope to meet you at an event!

From about 16:45 she looks like she's about to cry she's feeling so much emotion.

@wandarimmer2128

3 жыл бұрын

True, I can see it across the screen too.

Good demonstration. To emulate his manner, however, is an uphill battle for someone afflicted with chronic social anxiety. But then, it is likely that this is a condition from which a significant number of his clients suffers.

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

I was socially anxious to the point of agoraphobia. It can be worked on

@Newgrist

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for responding. That's reassuring; sometimes I am tempted to give up hope. I've been benefiting from your videos. Keep up the good work.

I feel that you two relieved some tension after the video shoot

Question: I have two female co-workers at my job give me a compliment the other day that I've never receive before. They said I was "intense," but they claim it was a compliment, and when they said it they blushed. What does that exactly mean?

@chessSoup24

Жыл бұрын

LETS GOOOOOOOOOOO

The only thing I didn't agree with was introducing her as beautiful. She knows it and you two know each other. At the end of the day. Cool stuff you crushed it Fearless Man

Thank you Brian

Yall need to listen to Patrice O'Neal!

@11:36 emily does really feel that vibe, she unconciously reacted by showing her nape/neck 😁

the breathing exercise is so sauce

Thought I cracked my screen half way into this video

@theelderelk5582

3 жыл бұрын

@Speedstar and me

Actually big question: in this interactions there was this beautifully calm and established tension right from the get go, and to be honest I feel more at ease with this than when I'm say in a loud club with everybody dancing including the girl. So how can I establish the tension in the first place even though I feel a bit uneasy with the environment around us?

@TheFearlessMan

5 жыл бұрын

I wrote a blog post on this-it's about learning to create and manage a container: www.thefearlessman.com/the-8-qualities-of-a-confident-and-masculine-man-container/

wtf!! it's almost i can feel every subtext like in the movies.. god, i need to work on mine

Wow...i could feel that...damnmm..thats a trip

What if she calls me ugly and I'm completely offended

Brian, what is the significance of the way in which you hold your hands in a triangle??

I would advise everyone to at least try It....immediately!!!

This dude's a fuckin' rock! I'll probably give you money sometime in the near future!

Yall read my mind about body language lol

I don't really feel the tension when I watch this but I'm not sure why

@octane2344

6 жыл бұрын

Ronnie Thomas I could feel it, but I might be more in touch with my feelings. Being locked in your head prevents empathy. Try getting in touch with your feelings a little more each day. Don't be afraid of the negative feelings. Make sure you have a boundary against self judgment when the negative feelings come up. Validate your feelings. Identify what desires the negativity is attacking, and then that will help you identify your core desires. Knowing your core desires will help you realize what inhibitions are holding you back, and what you can do to playfully challenge those inhibitions.

I was grinning so hard when they were flirting. It was so natural and felt normal and not forced.

@TheFearlessMan

3 жыл бұрын

That could be you bro :):) - Andrew, TFM Team

@mmr0221

9 ай бұрын

@@TheFearlessManhow

The sad reality is, you literally need to be a pickup artist in order to stand half a chance. It's a real shame, quality of character doesn't shine in a place like LA.

Owsome ,,,she is great

this type of thing come natural to me in a relationship even to approach a new girl but single for too long i feel like its hard to stay connected like the current is too strong and you get pressed out

@TheFearlessMan

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Brightpulse, do you mean that when you have a sense of connection, it becomes intense and you want to break the connection? - Andrew, TFM Staff

@brightpulse384

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheFearlessMan exactly but it almost feels involuntary like instant sweaty palms, raised heart beat, smile. It's the same response as if I'm performing on stage but no amount of self coaching helps the stress level is a constant as long as there is a woman cute or ugly....dont let sex be an option it will 6 fold....where do I start fixing this?

@TheFearlessMan

3 жыл бұрын

OK sure, that is not uncommon, even at the intense levels you describe. The basis of everything we teach at Fearless is the revealing and releasing process. The reasons you are having these reactions are unconscious fears. The bodily reactions feel involuntary or uncontrollable because the emotions that trigger them are unconscious and need to be brought into consciousness. Once those fears are revealed - meaning you become consciously aware of them - they naturally release because they are irrational so your rational mind can kind of laugh at them or at least realize the are bs. Have you looked at any of the revealing/releasing videos on our channel? I'll put some links below. Bodily sensations are an important starting point. You become aware of them and they can start to show you the hidden emotions that are connected to them. If you'd like to talk directly and get more specific feedback, you can email me at andrews@thefearlessman.com. We can talk more in-depth and you can also hear more about our coaching programs if you would like. The kinds of challenges you are describing are exactly the kinds of things we've helped hundreds of guys get past and thrive. - Andrew, TFM Staff Revealing/Releasing Videos: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pWWjyLKugr2rZsY.html kzread.info/dash/bejne/f32TrdOLnajagcY.html kzread.info/dash/bejne/eZ6lyLemqarfqqw.html

@brightpulse384

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheFearlessMan thanks! ill give those a watch. you guys are doing great things out here honestly!!

Help me out I don't understand the difference between tension and creepy

11:28 she liked that, did you see she moved her hair to expose her neck?

@Lerossignol94

6 жыл бұрын

Good eye. She's feeling aroused and it's almost a reflex that she exposes her neck coz she's feeling real good at that point

@onedyslexicmf5613

6 жыл бұрын

What are you ? A Vampire? Lol

@bstores449

5 жыл бұрын

don't read too much into that stuff and get neurotic bro

@emmanueloshaddai3259

5 жыл бұрын

@Complex Ez 😂

@IPoopOnYouEveryLastOneOfYou

5 жыл бұрын

Bro, that's his wife. Of course she exposed her neck. She has the right to let her neck breathe bro

love it

It was really awkward but I was thinking so what. What worse can happen.

She's gorgeous!

Everytime he doesn't have the rest of his lines to complete his pick up he just ends it and asks the crowd if they feel the tension but i respect that he is trying to help out guys in need like myself

@TheFearlessMan

3 жыл бұрын

Hey man, thanks for your comment. Keep in mind that Brian is working from a completely different approach to pickup. He never has lines or any plans at all. The way we coach guys at Fearless is to be able to be present and feeling during interactions with women. There are no particular goals other than to be genuine and have a good time no matter what happens. - Andrew, TFM Staff

how can i react if my girlgriend says something to test me that is not tolerateable and crosses my boundaries?

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

Tell her that. Stay grounded and open to her emotionally but be firm.

I liked this but can you do more hostile times when a woman gets angry, tearful, agitated with you. How do you react during times of that?

@TheFearlessMan

6 жыл бұрын

Work on your fears of that and you're grounding: www.thefearlessman.com/use-this-simple-releasing-exercise-to-improve-your-dating-life/ www.thefearlessman.com/5-steps-to-develop-and-become-a-grounded-man/

Is there a greenscreen?

words are and mostly will always be superficial.. its all about body language, simple stuff really.

You visiting Melbourne in Australia ?

Really interesting. I went up to a woman the other day and got her talking about her business, great conversation, I made great eye contact, stayed in it, didnt get too nervous. I introduced myself shook her hand and told her she was fascinating. FLAKED immediately. I wonder what went wrong there. Maybe she could feel I was attracted to her and didn't want it

@TheFearlessMan

5 жыл бұрын

Sounds like you weren't direct enough with her but she could feel what you really wanted and wasn't feeling it. "Fascinating" doesn't have much tension in it. Create more tension

@ChilcoteForestryServices

5 жыл бұрын

@@TheFearlessMan well, I was in church so ..I don't know , more eye contact, and just let her talk and let her feel me really enjoying her presence?? Not sure what you mean by tension

I'm trying to reprogram my mind(I'm still in the early stages of it). How the h3ll is a woman hitting you, suppose to create good tension? The moment someone hits me I'm looking to defend myself from her or SJW coming to her defensive because they see me as as unwanted advances. How do you deal with this?