What other topics in dating in medicine would you like to see me discuss? 🤔

@Luellavonstein

Жыл бұрын

This whole video put into words what I have been thinking in my head. Basically us ladies are out of luck 😅

@George_Kargas

Жыл бұрын

Dating between medical students!

@ren96706

Жыл бұрын

Dating nurses

@jpdelete

10 ай бұрын

Dating professional creative e.g. musician

As a female doctor, I would like to add a couple of things: - a lot of guys think you are not interested in them because they feel inferior to you or think a doctor would not be interested in talking to them (I went out with a man who said that would he have known I was a doctor he would never have come to talk to me since doctors are usually full of themselves); - some guys see dating you as a good way to alleviate their financial problems; - there are men who feel bad if their woman earns more than them or is more educated. However I can say that now I am a doctor, an average man I have communicated with has been a hard working, intelligent and great person who has already achieved something in life. Also, people treat me more respectfully than before. I am thankful for both.

@stevo6891

Жыл бұрын

I have feelings for my doctor but afraid to ask her out.. They say doctors and patients shouldn’t date but love is love you choose who you love..

@dddd2319

Жыл бұрын

Though ur reasons r valid, that’s not the main reason why many guys dont date females doctors. It’s really because 1. Doctors have a busy schedule and will likely neglect their partners when dating 2. Some people have preconceived notions that doctors are arrogant, and no one wants to be around someone like that 3. They are simply not interested.

@ren96706

Жыл бұрын

Question: who pays the bills in the relationship

@OffTheCover

7 ай бұрын

Just curious, are you still single?

@Bill_Dippertly

4 ай бұрын

I am in the beginning stages dating a great woman doctor and I really like her but she does intimidate me. I have no issue with a woman making more than me or being a stay at home dad. I just hope she doesn’t look less or me for my lack of accomplishments due to my wild days as a youngster. But besides that I have a lot to offer imo.

I think this conversation is similar to the idea that men's dating pools increase with age and women's dating pools shrink with age since we as a society value youth in women and experience in men. I guess in this case age=education level and society undervalues education in women.

@amrmohamed1387

Жыл бұрын

It's not about society, It's about biological nature😅

@askeladd6115

Жыл бұрын

@@amrmohamed1387 it actually is mostly due to society.

I grew up with doctors in the family and with a doctor parent. I work in a major hospital system on the path towards hospital administration. I have a good understanding of the unique demands on a doctor's schedule, the importance of their work, and the life-saving choices that they make. Patients are first and this especially includes doctors with on-call schedules requiring great flexibility. The challenges described in this video are so relatable to me. I have been working with matchmakers. I let them know that I have the heart and the strength to support a doctor due to my history and personality, but they don't listen at all. I can't even describe how difficult of a journey this has been reaching towards compatibility and trying to succeed without any help from these matchmakers. I hope with all of my heart that any doctor watching this video finds their matches and the loves of their lives that can truly support them.

Wow this was a quality video. Much learned

Your video s are always the best!

Dating in med school is ROUGH. No one has time and if you find someone the odds of matching together are slim

@aerialdoctor9959

Жыл бұрын

Or you could be long distance for upwards of 7-10 years 🤷‍♀️

@KhallelaB.

Жыл бұрын

@@aerialdoctor9959couple goals 😍!

@aerialdoctor9959

Жыл бұрын

@@KhallelaB. It's working for me so far

Chris Williamson needs to get you on his podcast!

Really fascinating video, hoping I can one day learn from some of these pros and cons xD

thanks for the insights.

Med School Insiders is dipping its toe in the red 💊 lol

@Low_pH

Жыл бұрын

Based

@MrNamenamenamename

Жыл бұрын

I was surprised af lol

@DoremonUCR

Жыл бұрын

About time he did. We need this.

@eleanormarshall455

Жыл бұрын

This guy is also promoting Anti-Baldness Helmets. In my country a 'helmet' is a word we use to describe people like this.

I'm a fourth year med student from Africa, Sudan and I could relate to every single piece of information u just said especially hypergamy of women. Learned that the hard way lol. To know that's same thing for u in USA, we human are all the same deep down 😂. ENJOYED WATCHING.

Can you expand this dating playlist to talk about dating on a budget, finding time to meet people, how to maximize your network while in med school etc., please?

@kevinjubbalmd

Жыл бұрын

There will be another dating video coming out on the Med School Insiders channel very soon! It will focus on residency but many of the ideas and strategies can apply to med students as well.

Never been here so early so first

Advantages: 35 seconds Disadvantages: 4 minutes Uh oh

@kevinjubbalmd

5 ай бұрын

😂

Bro just loves the NUANCE

I don't know how date look like.always working

Hear Dr Jubbal speak about online dating as if he’s doing some biostatistics project 😅

@kevinjubbalmd

Жыл бұрын

Maybe I am

@Scrubsandtales

Жыл бұрын

Fab 🎉

@MT16987

2 ай бұрын

He is not doctor , he chose to be KZreadr

You conveniently fail to mention the other side of this “hypergamy” claim. Males refuse to marry women who are of higher status than them. So, even if women were willing to “marry down”, males would still refuse to “marry up”. Males refuse to marry a woman of higher status or performance than them, often because they will not have power or control over her. Even if women were willing to “marry down”….. males would refuse that arrangement….since they will never marry a woman who outperforms them….

@askeladd6115

Жыл бұрын

He conveniently failed to mention a lot of things. Lol

@Swanson-hs5df

10 ай бұрын

Why are you consistently calling men "males" and women "women"? I thought it was feminists propagating the idea that people shouldn't be dehumanised to only their biological sex?

@hellodia8038

7 ай бұрын

In this day and age I hate watching male content . This is sone subtle red pill nonsense. Taking about “consequences” . Males make this system up including hypergamy then complain or bash women . He not slick

@Swanson-hs5df

3 ай бұрын

imagine calling men "males" but women "women" and doing this consistently throughout your comment. Your hatred for men is palpable through the screen lmfao. Help yourself please. Also a lot of misconceptions and generalizations in your comment. Very ironic you claim to correct him but do so very poorly. I hope you're not a physician and you're just a random person who stumbled across this channel. I genuinely feel for your male patients. Hope you're in OBGYN!

I’m a female engineer.. and I’ve never dated an engineer or a doctor. I’ve dated a guy that was in IT/student, a banker, a mechanic all who made less than me.. and I didn’t mind. The banker guy was intimidated by me for making more than him, he just couldn’t accept it. And the mechanic guy took advantage of me and still owes me over 2k. I wouldn’t mind marrying up but for some reason I find that guys across or up aren’t interested in me. I don’t know. But would love tips on where to find a doctor to meet because I’ve secretly been hoping to run into a doctor in the dating apps and there’s never one. I would love to see if we’d be compatible.

Add the fact that most male doctors I dated thought I was inferior to their colleges or sometimes even their RNs. I have a masters too but I chose to follow my passion instead of money what they seem to be prioritizing like crazy. They date based on ego and material things what is sad.

How much of hypergamy is socialization? I don’t think it’s inherent of women to search for personality and I don’t think it’s inherent for men to search for attractiveness. We live in a system that makes us value these things through advertising. Look up the power theory of economics, powerful people decide what’s right and wrong and what’s valuable. It explains why diamonds are more valuable than water.

@DFOlover1

Жыл бұрын

Men have been attracted to beauty since the beginning of time and women haven’t always had the option to work so therefore wanted a man of means. It’s that simple

@CraneBad

Жыл бұрын

@@DFOlover1 We are products of our environments, beauty standards are different in every society. What you view as beautiful is governed by your exposure to media, pornography, etc. If you grew up on an island of people who looked like turtles you would find turtle people attractive. This observation has been made countless you can ignore the reality you occupy and let these problems continue to fester or you can accept it and work to change the world to be a wonderful place for all. You have more power than you think my friend.

@tal8871

Жыл бұрын

.... it's baked into our biology. The reason why it seems societal is because people exploit our basic biological instincts to make money, sell products, etc

@CraneBad

Жыл бұрын

@@tal8871 Why does a feral dog not trust humans? Why does one who grew up around a loving human family love humans? We are shaped by our friends, family, society, etc. I know our lives may lead us to believe there is nothing better but I promise you a little reading and self reflection will reveal a world of possibilities. Like Dr. Jabal said in the video, don’t give your mind over to ideology don’t let others think for you.

@DFOlover1

Жыл бұрын

@@CraneBad Dude what are you talking about? It's obvious that you've made a recent, "aha moment" into enlightenment but come on. You don't know what I consider beautiful, and in that island of people who look like turtles, the most beautiful turtle would be more sought after. And the male turtle with better qualities will get the best options. It's childish and ignorant to assume that these standards are modern. Pick up a book bro

Oh boy no hope 4 me😭

School of pak-tor lor-gee, pathology = Slang for dating = Love-murder dating-dated

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For female physicians, not only is there the hypergamy angle, but if she’s a GP, she’s also gonna be fondling a lot of men. Whoever’s gonna be her life partner has got to be pretty confident in himself her feelings won’t run astray on one or two of her patients. Most guys aren’t going to be that secure even if they themselves are doctors.

@kevinjubbalmd

10 ай бұрын

I think that’s a minor concern for most. Other factors likely take more weight

@CaIypsoJ

9 ай бұрын

This thinking is way off base. These duties during check-ups are a doctor's job. It is not a place where any professional doctor gets their jollies.

Red pill

@user-kc3ip6mb6x

Жыл бұрын

Hello