What Sorority Recruitment Is Really Like + Bid Day | University of Michigan

Hi everyone! I know it has been a while since I have posted... this semester I have just been around the clock busy and some of that is because of my involvement in Greek life at the University of Michigan. I wanted to share with you guys what my recruitment process was like because I watched a billion of these videos before I got to experience the real thing. I really tried showing the reality of it all, but just like I needed to keep reminding myself in the video, everything does work out the way it is supposed to. Looking back I was definitely a tad dramatic about certain aspects, but I think that was mostly because it went very differently than I thought it would. So it took some adjustment and then it was smooth sailing. Overall, I am beyond happy with where I am at and know that where I ended up was meant for me.
If anyone reading this is going through recruitment, I want to remind you that whatever happens is not reflective of you as a person. There are so many factors that go into getting asked back and so don't let it change your perception of yourself. You are perfect the way you are and any sorority would be lucky to have you.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:44 - Orientation
1:12 - Open House Round
4:49 - Philanthropy Round
7:39 - Sisterhood Round
11:30 - Preference Round
14:05 - Bid Day
17:35 - Outro
Fun Facts About Me:
Grade: Freshman
College: University of Michigan - Ann Arbor
Where I live: Florida/Michigan
Sub Count: 530

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  • @thekirksiffs5285
    @thekirksiffs52852 ай бұрын

    Nothing quite so humbling as rush week! Everyone gets dropped by houses they like, and every house will get dropped by a PNM that they really liked too. In the end you can only be in one house, and maybe it is good that some of the hard decisions are made for us along the way. I'm so glad you ended up where you felt you best belonged. I was a Sigma Kappa at my university. I felt a deep bond there almost from the very first visit, (and the fact that the house was absolutely the prettiest building on campus didn't hurt.)

  • @HaydenWeber

    @HaydenWeber

    2 ай бұрын

    Everyone ends up where they are supposed to be!

  • @davidc-f2788
    @davidc-f27882 жыл бұрын

    Congrats on house! But more importantly thanks for you video vlogs this freshman year. Me being person who grew up in the A2 school system and around University of Michigan while taking field trips there, makes it clear to see what could've been (probably not). I'm currently freshman in welding school/trade school So it helps me see what life is like at a place that I and many others dreampt about, but never came. Thanks for all you videos this year and best luck to you and the future.

  • @HaydenWeber

    @HaydenWeber

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! This comment made my day, I am glad that you have liked my videos!

  • @marvelavagers

    @marvelavagers

    Жыл бұрын

    @@HaydenWeber Hi Hayden weber😁

  • @Mr.Sance-
    @Mr.Sance-2 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations Hayden on getting into the house you wanted! I am so proud of you and happy for you for all the things you have gained in your college journey! Continue to improve in every aspect. Continue to drop more college content and your channel is going to blow!!

  • @HaydenWeber

    @HaydenWeber

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! Will do!

  • @Mr.Sance-

    @Mr.Sance-

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@HaydenWeber You're Welcome :)

  • @evieshadoff6147
    @evieshadoff61472 жыл бұрын

    Thanks! I'm rushing at MSU this coming semester and this is the first video I've seen from our state!

  • @HaydenWeber

    @HaydenWeber

    Жыл бұрын

    Best of luck!

  • @evieshadoff6147

    @evieshadoff6147

    Жыл бұрын

    @@HaydenWeber thank you, it went terribly, but live and learn

  • @megandefrancesco5396
    @megandefrancesco53962 жыл бұрын

    My favorite vlogger

  • @HaydenWeber

    @HaydenWeber

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are too kind:)

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa2 жыл бұрын

    Good morning happy Friday morning and I just wanted to say that your vlogs is sooo beautiful I loved your channel and you are sweetheart because you are amazing Supporter

  • @HaydenWeber

    @HaydenWeber

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!!

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa

    @edwardleecaliforniausa

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@HaydenWeber of course

  • @autumnlaynecraig5452
    @autumnlaynecraig5452 Жыл бұрын

    Today is my bid day & I was left with 1 house at pref & I was never called so I already know which house it's going to be in my envelope!! I'm binge watching other people's bid days to get excited!!

  • @HaydenWeber

    @HaydenWeber

    Жыл бұрын

    AWWW THATS SO EXCITING!! Congrats:)

  • @Mj00527z
    @Mj00527z2 жыл бұрын

    Oh yeah that's cool. And hey sorry for random question, may I know your favorite destination place?

  • @audreyhudson2687
    @audreyhudson2687 Жыл бұрын

    Here a year later prepping for umich rush! Thank you so much for all of your insight :) where did you get the stick on lights above the mirrors? My Markley dorm could use those haha

  • @HaydenWeber

    @HaydenWeber

    Жыл бұрын

    The lights above the mirrors actually came with the room, but I am sure you can find something similar on Amazon:)

  • @audreyhudson2687

    @audreyhudson2687

    Жыл бұрын

    @@HaydenWeber omg they’re so cute I wish I had them. Thank you!!

  • @twilightsun8109
    @twilightsun8109 Жыл бұрын

    Congrats on ADPI! I’m a phi sig❤

  • @HaydenWeber

    @HaydenWeber

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @martysawchuk8240
    @martysawchuk8240 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being honest .it seems as if every girl wants the same 'top ' houses. In honesty, the 'top ' is what you make it. Adpi is a great place to be....and better even since now you are a sister...have fun fun fun !!!!! Adpi is a winner....all the others are losers since they don't have you ! Congrats, kiddo....boom boom baby !!!

  • @HaydenWeber

    @HaydenWeber

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I am beyond happy with Adpi! Everything works out the way it is supposed to:)

  • @martysawchuk8240

    @martysawchuk8240

    Жыл бұрын

    I love watching this.....I'm too embarrassed to say how much....I cannot tell you how many people I have encouraged to view this. You are so real ....my bff was dropped from all but 2 houses....grades were her problem....it really took a toll on her.we encouraged her to keep an open heart. She did...,become pres of her chapter !you and people like you have made it possible for young women to realize that there is life after getting dropped . Thank you , Hayden.....you are a true star 😉

  • @alisonkitchin7581
    @alisonkitchin7581 Жыл бұрын

    Congrats! I’m alumna of Phi Sigma Sigma!

  • @aoii_sqkim
    @aoii_sqkim3 ай бұрын

    Truly seems like you found a great home at ADPi!

  • @HaydenWeber

    @HaydenWeber

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @aianascott-goodner3450
    @aianascott-goodner34502 жыл бұрын

    Congrats I’m member of Sigma Lambda Gamma

  • @chelseaveith736
    @chelseaveith736 Жыл бұрын

    boom boom sista

  • @HaydenWeber

    @HaydenWeber

    Жыл бұрын

    Boom boom!

  • @kathykelley3444

    @kathykelley3444

    Жыл бұрын

    Mommy was an ADPi , so was sister , so am I! ADPi Zeta Theta !

  • @rickyandrews8409
    @rickyandrews84092 жыл бұрын

    I want to like to say that you are very sweet girl