I would say for me, I've had to learn the balance between doing things for me and getting others to do things for me. I got so used to being dependent and reliant on other people physically that my mentality started to adopt that too and I would get lazy doing things. It created some arguments when I was actually struggling because sometimes my parents feel like I'm not flexible and I let my anxiety run my life and get too in my head about my physical struggles, which is true, but they can say it in a way that's negative and hurts my feelings and makes me feel like I burden them. I try not to feel like that, but it really impacts my self esteem and how I feel about myself, even though they may not intend that.

ooh this is an interesting topic. get away from the devil and go to the new beginning. it fits in my life. getting away from this shit person and trying to just be do what i need to do to be as happy as i can. im doing everything the best i can and they have the nerve to try to make me feel like im stupid and irresponsible and use my past against me and try to emotionally manipulate me all for i guess getting a job and needing a ride to get there or whatever. im sure any person i told the story to would tell me to get away from someone like that. im doing okay tho. this is a good paying job that i really love and also im going to my first open mic tomorrow night and i have a great support system and everything is okay 👍

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