I too have really struggled to find someone who is prepared to wait until marriage to have sex, but I will not compromise. In my experience that cuts out 99% of the people that I have spoken to but I know that God has someone for me who will wait and who will be happy to do things God’s way. I’ve done it completely wrong in the past but I’m determined to do it right this time 😁 Thank you for the conversation x

@be_salt

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for sharing. Hope you find him soon

@DD-pv2jl

Жыл бұрын

There are still some of us men that agree with you.

@abundleofmyrrh

Жыл бұрын

@@DD-pv2jl You are rare gems indeed! Thank you for your encouraging words.

Lauren Windle is an absolute gem. The way she dignifies guests on this channel and meets each person where they're at and in what the Lord is teaching them is really so kind and gracious. Praise God for loving and teaching us all in His own way and in his own timing

@lovefromcheyenne

2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree, Lauren is an absolute Gem!!🤩🥰

@be_salt

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed! Lauren is awesome!!

@Daniel-bb9mo

Жыл бұрын

Easy to listen to

so i recently had a similar conversation with the eldership and my church with regards to dating and how i can prepare (in my single season) for Godly marriage / Kingdom relationship. i few points they brought up: Wholeness - finding and seeking wholeness with God as a single, knowing and believing that His love is unmatched, and that His grace and mercy are sufficiant enough each day friendship - i feel this gets neglected alot, and i for one have sort of "bypassed" this step when it comes to persuing a partner. having a strong foundation in friendship can be such an important tool in potentially seeing this person as a life partner.

@lovefromcheyenne

2 жыл бұрын

This is gold💫

@be_salt

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for this

@Leivarx7

Жыл бұрын

If youre a guy,, you dont need to try to have a friendship with me first, thank you. I only want REAL friends with no secret agendas in my circle. It upsets me whenever I find out that a guy "friend" thinks he can weasel his way out the friend zone because i like him as a friend. Guys think theyre so slick. And I will lose my respect for you js. Don't try the friendship card with everyone bc some girls don't appreciate that stuff

I could listen to Lauren continually. Shes real and I love how she talks about her past issues, transparency is a must in Christian dating !!

@be_salt

2 жыл бұрын

Ah we think Lauren is great too!

@steveboone1498

Жыл бұрын

Here's a question for you, are you single by choice or are you single by force? I'm single because society has it in their minds that I ruin lives and no matter how far over the age of consent a woman is, someone makes it sound like the person is a small child and not a full grown adult. Add to that the metoo movement and agenda to get every man in existence arrested because they "don't feel comfortable!" If the metoo movement followers were to have their way, it wouldn't be too long before they literally try to make it a crime for any males to exist and expect the government to put every male in existence to death.

Lauren thank you for sharing your back story, I've had a similar experience. Would be great if you interview more people with a sinful past. God bless

@be_salt

2 жыл бұрын

Great idea!

@Daniel-bb9mo

Жыл бұрын

Same

I personally quite like to hear from married (older) people because they were once single and they know what it's like on both sides. As long as they are not making it seem like it's the be-all/end-all (but that's for both sides). I'm happy either way, single forever or married, so I don't appreciate being made to feel I lack something!

@lovefromcheyenne

2 жыл бұрын

I agree, I live hearing from married older people. Their wisdom is gold.

@be_salt

2 жыл бұрын

Good to hear - we'll bear it in mind for the channel

@emmaG390

2 жыл бұрын

@@be_salt my third sentence follows from the second

Have to admit , I'm 100 % with you on the ...when someone who is married gives advise/preaches/publishes books about being single as a Christian.

@be_salt

2 жыл бұрын

Interesting - I wonder if we should do a poll about this or something!

@marcio5583

2 жыл бұрын

@@be_salt Worth a shot. I'm like "yeah thanks for your advise to me as a Single Christian, as you go home to snuggle or have a candle light dinner with your spouse"..🤔

I’m surprised Christian guys are doing that! I make it clear from the get go that we ain’t going there.. even had a few Joseph moments (Gen. 39:10)… but to hear this is wow.. prayer points!

@be_salt

Жыл бұрын

Yess....

I really love this page 😊awesome

@be_salt

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much 😊

I fully enjoyed this conversation.

@be_salt

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear it!

@ItsGottoBdone

2 жыл бұрын

@@be_salt 💛💛💛

@juliusakindola6887

Жыл бұрын

I'do enjoy the conversely as a Christian.

I really enjoyed this page with their elaborated about bible

@be_salt

Жыл бұрын

Thanks

Tips taken 👌🙏

@be_salt

2 жыл бұрын

Super

I’ve always been a Christian but at a point in my youth lost my way and I had twins out of wedlock and I feel in dating and being rededicated to Christ and choosing to live out my Christian values of celibacy until marriage and living out how he intended for us that I will be judged because they will think she has a child already why should I have to wait so definitely I agree it is very dangerous to assume because they are a Christian they will have the same values as you and just because I’ve sinned before doesn’t mean I continue to do so I repent and turn away and work to be better

@be_salt

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately you probably will be judged, but you know how God feels about you and the right person will accept your past, present and future

I just downloaded the app and it perfect 😊

@be_salt

Жыл бұрын

We think so - hope you find someone amazing

@efyarita-kg7py

Жыл бұрын

Am single and looking for God fearing man here

@efyarita-kg7py

Жыл бұрын

@@be_salt I’m still hoping

@anne-ng3pm

Жыл бұрын

Gm i am Ann i am single and looking forward to have a husband who is single too

@efyarita-kg7py

Жыл бұрын

@@anne-ng3pm Hoping for the best here

By their fruits you will know them.

Someone that doesn’t want to wait till marriage is not a Christian.

awww Lauren. Who are rude men? Booooo!!!!!

@be_salt

Жыл бұрын

Yes booooo

Relationships can be so much better! Get and read THE UNSPOKEN SECRET: How to find and keep the right partner by GRAM, JOHN . It has personally given me an insight to having a batter relationship

@be_salt

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the suggestion