My in-laws tried to bar me from having any relationship with my son, except being a monthly check. Even went so far as to tell people that my now wife "just had a bit of a weight problem for a while", and the baby was biologically theirs. Took the judge all of 2 seconds to kill the co-guardianship order the in-laws made us sign under duress, and gave us our son back. Had to go through changing his name to mine and everything. The kicker? They gave my wife an hour to give him back to them permanently or move out. Been out and married for almost 26 years. Our son will be 27 in June 2023.

@sheyennemerritt3215

Жыл бұрын

My brother and his acts are in the same situation with my family how did you do it I really need to know because we gotta get this baby out hes in a bad situation

@GreggeSB

Жыл бұрын

@sheyennemerritt3215 first and most importantly, I hired an attorney and kept records of all notes, harassment, and any conversations. The biggest issue was the judge, he saw we wanted to be our son's only parents, so he gave us custody without any fuss. Also, document any issues the child is having, any possible abuse, everything. It'll help.

@TehKazlehoff

Жыл бұрын

That's fucked

My husband would have some stories. We don’t talk to her anymore for lots of reasons but one inappropriate thing that comes to mind was when she gave me a new wedding dress -supposedly from a shop going out of business. I thanked her. Went on about how it’ll be perfect for our winter vow renewal for our 10 yr anniversary, and that I would put it up safe with my original dress. She rolled her eyes saying it was a childish thing to say since realistically I would wear it when I get remarried… No Karen most ppl don’t have 6 failed marriages under their belt. For context we are happily married. It was not like we were separated or anything that should suggest we would be get divorced. Just her creepy view that men are disposable.

Love my in-laws but almost every visit something gets broken and they don’t say anything about it I just find out whenever I open a door, close a blind, turn on a facet etc. lol 0 accountability

Stories like these make me so grateful for my suegritos. Even 8 years after the divorce was final, they're still my in-laws and I have visited them in El Salvador more than _he_ has.

Well, I don't like my SIL. Does that count? I've got too many stories to count. She keeps the house so cold even her husband complains, but she still won't compromise. My poor very elderly dad got sick when he stayed overnight one year, just woke up uncontrollably shivering. Thanks, SIL, no Christmas with my parents that year.

@beastmaster0934

Жыл бұрын

My grandpa has the opposite problem, he keeps their house too damn hot. It’s like he’s cold-blooded or some shit.

Now I’m not a woman so obviously never been pregnant, but if I was and anyone, doesn’t matter who, kept kissing and touching the baby bump against my wishes…well, their head is right there, so down comes the elbow.

@sheyennemerritt3215

Жыл бұрын

So you would be the kind of parent that lets their kid have no immune system as an adult nice have fun being a b****** parent It's getting the germs when they're young that literally helps them not be as sick when they're older why do people not understand that get their vaccines and let people cuddle them they're only little ones they can only be cuddled like that once don't be selfish And also don't be a d*** when it comes 2 people interested tell them no and walk away don't hurt them because then they have every right to call the cops on you for assault

@Samantha-yy9db

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I’m a girl and I feel the same way

I'm gonna start saying "The energies need a burrito" at every opportunity.

Sounds like a lot of ignored mental illness here. It's unfortunate but it's common for families to tolerate the crazy BS from Mom or Dad, then an outsider comes in and can't believe it's "just Mom". My wife knows all about it

@felicitybywater8012

Жыл бұрын

Both my parents were off their heads & vicious & violentnw it. I left home early & never looked back. On the few occasions I was forced into their company after that, they wanted me to know they forgave me (VERY obvious bullship) & my father complained that I had never 9nce brought friends home to visit when I was at school. Why the duck would I bring anyone home to watch my parents like the utter loons they were?

@iononcantomascrivo

Жыл бұрын

It's possible, but I'm really tired of having toxic behavior referred to as mental illness. Being an overgrown man or woman child who doesn't respect boundaries, has no comprehension of the word no, doesn't have a shred of empathy nor any expectation of consequences or apprisals for their horrific behavior is not a mental illness. It's called being an unrepentant butthole.

@shadowfoot2486

Жыл бұрын

@@iononcantomascrivo could also be aspd or npd

10:43 "The Energies need a burrito" is my type of vibe. I don't know that I would be nuts enough to put logic entirely aside though, but I know I am that person who occasionally likes a midnight snack.

I am mixed race nor do I come from money,once they found out we slowly became the black sheep. One of many reasons at least from my hubby's paternal side. Never mind my shit show of my sperm donor. But everyone has their hill to die on I guess. But we're still together and happy after almost 20 years. Good luck everyone!

Why are in-laws so crazy

Some of these people are evil

You can rearrange all of the letters in “Mother in law” and spell out Woman Hitler. There are no extra letters remaining

“The Energies Need A Burrito” needs to be on a shirt

10:43 “The energies need a burrito” That’s hilarious.

The energies need a burrito.

I remember just before having my first girlfriend and meeting her mom. I shook her hand and said I was friends with her. She then said “Oh I know ALL about you”. Not technically an in law, but you get the idea.

Chain locks everywhere for when your home. Alarm for when you're not!

MIL is a hoarder, FIL is borderline Narcissistic. I had to ask their permission to date their daughter. I had to go back to a church of their approving. I had to spend the first six months of dating my wife, with a chaperone (one of her four siblings or my sister). We had to spend the first year or two 'being friends' because that's what they did being 'good christians.' (Except after we got married, that story changed, they didn't spend 6 years together before being married, only 2 or 3.) When two of her siblings started dating, everyone at their church knew. Five years and a wedding later, no one at church even knew I existed. When we got married, her mother demanded she returned the house key. After we moved, she got rid of half of the stuff that she said she would send to us (we moved to another continent.) When her grandmother died (my wife was basically the primary caretaker of her grandmother since she was a preteen, her mother is useless at it), instead of giving her any amount of money as recompense or inheritance for atrocious homeschooling and at least 10+ years of end of life care during her most formative years, she was told that that money would only be given to her if it went towards schooling, and only for a degree or specialization that the MIL and FIL approve of (my amazing wife just wants to be a stay at home mom, and presented several possibilities for at-home work to bring in extra income without being a 'working woman', all of which were not good enough.) But you know what, buying a Second house over in the part of the world us and her brother in law's family are is a sensible idea. There is a plethora of other things they did, but that's just what I can remember from before. Just recently, my wife got a text from her dad saying that he sent a check for $50 for infant daughter, that it was only to be for our daughter, and that it explicitly was not for me to spend. Not only have I never misappropriated funds, but I've been working some of the most god awful jobs to rebuild (successfully) and increase our savings, for a house. And this text was sent only a day or two after I set up a savings account for our daughter, using money we had gotten for the holidays and what I earned from overtime to open it. I love this woman more than life itself. I hate her family with an anger I can scarcely describe.

In-laws berated us on when we’re having kids which is already an awkward a subject because all eyes were on us for the first time the whole visit 🙄otherwise we were invisible. Then they threw a whole turkey and ham (among other foods they spent the whole day cooking) away 🤦‍♀️ into the trash because they get help with food all while ranting if we want to help the environment we can baby sit their kids and help humanity. I really hate this time of year sometimes

i got on really well with my in-laws. it was their son who was a complete wanker. much to their horror.

Was sad to say bye to my ex fiancé when he was leaving for college that was 5 hours from me and his parents said right in front of me “you’ll really enjoy college it’s nothing but a fuck fest “ …

The energies need a burrito 😂

11:01 *I was eating a burrito!*

6:34 "Yeah, Mom, you're not invited. We're giving your spot to 'Wanda.'" 11:10 Mom has borderline personality disorder and refuses to get help. Alas, there's precious little help available. Some therapists even refuse to deal with borderlines. Borderlines are always right, never wrong, and can either like or hate (and switch this up in an instant, sometimes in the same sentence). In their world, there are no shades of gray. Also, you're always wrong.

Okay, the wording of 14:18 had me laughing my head off; funniest thing I’ve heard of in a while. For some reason it isn’t as funny on rewatch.

18:25 Why is the MIL trying to kill the Father in law?

The very first sentence of the first post, let me know what kind of video this was gonna be

What is a parent loan ?????

I think if an old woman, family or not, were to try and get under my coat to kiss my stomach I would have kicked them no questions asked

Good evening

If I ever get married, I know for a fact I'm having my friends in my wedding party ( I'm his best lady and I'm very close with his fiancé) and I'm having at least one Sabaton song at the reception, if the in-laws don't like it then they can stuff it

Cheetos

I'm glad I never got married to my ex bf his dad was a real psychopath and sociopath and alot of these in-laws sound like escapee's from insane asylums and the energies need a burrito thing sounds like something Dwight Schrute from the office would say while drunk 😂 lol

16:39 OP has a very poor grasp of anatomy.

14:06 at those ages with how peoples maturity levels and lives are at, that age difference is still a little…. Hm.

5:43 Narcissist or Emotionally Immature parents, my family is like this so I tend to avoid going to their places not just for holidays but all the time. I feel sorry for my boyfriends, but at least their families are decent.. the one MIL however is heavily religious, I'm trans and also have a lot things/ideals/self-help structures that are very anti-christian as a result of years of trauma, and she never asked a single question of me, just got really pushy when I was too uncomfortable to attend church on Christmas eve because I felt too uncomfortable and started to have panic attacks. I was starting to wonder why she never asked anything about me when my daemon reminded me that it's common in emotionally immature people, so I didn't take it personally.

My opinion, if the mother in law got you the venue for free and saved you thousands of dollars… let her do whatever the f she wants outside of pick dresses tuxes bridesmaids etc. seriously have some respect

@arianebolt1575

Жыл бұрын

If they knew at the start that would be the rule, they probably would have refused. When they accepted it, they had no idea she would attach that many strings.

@jasperjazzie

Жыл бұрын

maybe so, but you should still be considerate, you can make suggestions but remember that it's not your day, it's the bride and groom's

@GreenKnight1982

Жыл бұрын

If it was the mother-in-law's wedding that would be fine but she's not getting married. She offered it with apparently at first no strings attached, but if she wanted to plan everything she should have been up front about it. The only two people that should have any say whatsoever on what happens at the wedding is the bride and groom no matter how much money you're putting towards it or what kind of favors you do them.

@arianebolt1575

Жыл бұрын

@@GreenKnight1982 Also, I'm willing to bet the mother would have screamed at them for being ungrateful, if they'd tried to refuse.

@GreenKnight1982

Жыл бұрын

@@arianebolt1575 yep, absolutely dealing with a narcissist