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What "NOT" to discuss on a first date

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  • @BulldogMindsetArchive
    @BulldogMindsetArchive Жыл бұрын

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  • @andarupramudito9998
    @andarupramudito9998 Жыл бұрын

    Why would anyone talk about politics ever? 😂

  • @MayumeLada

    @MayumeLada

    Жыл бұрын

    dude i dated an activist 😂 i ghosted him on 2nd date

  • @muskansharma1336

    @muskansharma1336

    Жыл бұрын

    Some crackheads do man 💀

  • @BulldogMindsetArchive

    @BulldogMindsetArchive

    Жыл бұрын

    You'd be surprised haha.

  • @Kai-jt9ld

    @Kai-jt9ld

    Жыл бұрын

    Joe Biden

  • @The-Benjamin-786

    @The-Benjamin-786

    Жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @rememberthealamo9008
    @rememberthealamo9008 Жыл бұрын

    If she can't share a hatred for politics, taxes, and fed reserve she ain't wifey

  • @philippossnortis2035

    @philippossnortis2035

    Жыл бұрын

    Women don't care about that

  • @TheChubbaa

    @TheChubbaa

    Жыл бұрын

    Accurate 😁

  • @Mavis7oteltransylvania

    @Mavis7oteltransylvania

    Жыл бұрын

    ​​@@philippossnortis2035 i will study poli sci after my law this year

  • @whatiswhose7355

    @whatiswhose7355

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts. She also should like austrian painters

  • @EsotericKnowledge888

    @EsotericKnowledge888

    Жыл бұрын

    Fr.

  • @bumblybird
    @bumblybird Жыл бұрын

    This guy brought up his ex on a first date and honestly her and I would be friends

  • @ryanmoore8160
    @ryanmoore8160 Жыл бұрын

    My first date with this woman we talked about everything

  • @chefskiss6179
    @chefskiss6179 Жыл бұрын

    So, two and a half things I can't talk about. Got it :/

  • @MrRandomnese

    @MrRandomnese

    Жыл бұрын

    Bro said "half" 😭😭😭

  • @Vsjjsjk

    @Vsjjsjk

    8 ай бұрын

    😭

  • @mastermindrational1907
    @mastermindrational1907 Жыл бұрын

    I actually think the opposite: you should briefly discuss the hard topics up front if they are a dealbreaker for you. Then you don’t waste time with each other dating and getting emotionally invested in someone you would leave because of those things.

  • @BlackMasterJoe89
    @BlackMasterJoe89 Жыл бұрын

    Before you got to the last P, my immature mind thought, "penises!" 😂😂😂

  • @Autumn_Forest_
    @Autumn_Forest_ Жыл бұрын

    Oh, WAAAY before the first date, I need to establish that he’s not a liberal. Not playing that old “we’ll work it out somehow” game again.

  • @ryansilvernell915

    @ryansilvernell915

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly! There isnt working out politics. I need to know now if im wasting my time. I dont want to be stuck with a liberal karen in 20 years 😂

  • @Autumn_Forest_

    @Autumn_Forest_

    Жыл бұрын

    @You should be ?? I’m not sure what you’re saying. I’m not even going on a first date with a liberal.

  • @Klassyy

    @Klassyy

    Жыл бұрын

    My gf is pretty left and im more right but we get along really well. We just dont talk about politics 😭

  • @logicbomb8977

    @logicbomb8977

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s a lot easier when you don’t give a shit about politics

  • @Klassyy

    @Klassyy

    Жыл бұрын

    @@logicbomb8977 facts

  • @ATFofficial.
    @ATFofficial. Жыл бұрын

    If they don't hate the government I don't want them

  • @memetime1784

    @memetime1784

    3 ай бұрын

    How do those boots taste?

  • @dzllz
    @dzllz Жыл бұрын

    Looking buff my man!

  • @BulldogMindsetArchive

    @BulldogMindsetArchive

    Жыл бұрын

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  • @opnpc212

    @opnpc212

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@BulldogMindsetArchive stop roiding lol

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    @lancerudolflouiskamp-zo4ri Жыл бұрын

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  • @connorfrancis7056
    @connorfrancis7056 Жыл бұрын

    For me recently, I meet girls then talk real casual at wherever I see them/ meet them, then if I think it’s worth pursuing I’ll ask them to coffee or dinner and they usually say yes. Well then when time comes to actually meet up they cancel. What’s this all about? They say can we reschedule and never happens. Haven’t been on a date in like 7 or 8 months pretty depressing stuff, like a waste of time and discouraging bc it’s ain’t even worth trying it seems like

  • @skyeblue49
    @skyeblue49 Жыл бұрын

    😂 you made me laugh at the end. That had me completely caught off guard.

  • @ryansilvernell915
    @ryansilvernell915 Жыл бұрын

    I definitely do not agree with the first one. I need to know NOW if im wasting my time. I do not want to be stuck with a liberal Karen in 20 years!

  • @Autumn_Forest_

    @Autumn_Forest_

    Жыл бұрын

    AMEN!!!

  • @Backyardfootballboys-r4e
    @Backyardfootballboys-r4e Жыл бұрын

    Thanks! ❤️

  • @BulldogMindsetArchive

    @BulldogMindsetArchive

    Жыл бұрын

    Our pleasure.

  • @farisfaris353
    @farisfaris353 Жыл бұрын

    If I meet a girl for the 1st time, I will ask her if she likes Donald Trump and Joe Biden?😂😂😂

  • @freethinkman7678
    @freethinkman7678 Жыл бұрын

    Do exactly the opposite of this if your looking for a wife.

  • @Insomnia_tic

    @Insomnia_tic

    Жыл бұрын

    On a first date….?

  • @abelsson5061

    @abelsson5061

    8 ай бұрын

    Exactly lol, I’m not wasting my time and if she were to the same then I know she wants to be serious as well

  • @RayTheomo

    @RayTheomo

    7 ай бұрын

    Then you wonder why youre single😂

  • @cdurch1

    @cdurch1

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@RayTheomo right... because it's better to be married to (or dating) the wrong person than it is to be single? The are the exact things to discuss on a first date if your looking for a long term, compatible relationship. I think the authors should have said don't say these things on a first date if your just wanting to hook up for a fling"

  • @lumo5691
    @lumo5691 Жыл бұрын

    No way! I could NEVER date someone without my Christian CONSERVATIVE values and basic logic. It's important!

  • @norpfuseman1485
    @norpfuseman1485 Жыл бұрын

    Solid advice

  • @jdwilk5023
    @jdwilk5023 Жыл бұрын

    I always start off with politics and then follow up with my past and then at the end it’s always about the PeePee.

  • @JacobYuanHang
    @JacobYuanHang Жыл бұрын

    Those are good points honestly

  • @snmrz
    @snmrz Жыл бұрын

    I humbly disagree. Politics and history (body counts to be exact) are the first things I would want to cross off my check list so I don't waste time, energy and resources.

  • @BulldogMindsetArchive

    @BulldogMindsetArchive

    Жыл бұрын

    You don't sound like very fun to take on a first date.

  • @emmib1388

    @emmib1388

    Жыл бұрын

    @@BulldogMindsetArchive why waste your time if you are not compatible with the date? If you are not 'equally yoked' in your political beliefs or religion -- it is best to finish your date and wish them a happy life.

  • @snmrz

    @snmrz

    Жыл бұрын

    @@BulldogMindsetArchive my first date would include swimming. It's fun and I get to see that person without makeup.

  • @craigmckenzie4967

    @craigmckenzie4967

    Жыл бұрын

    @@snmrz or just sack up any tell them “hey don’t wear any makeup on our date” if that matters so much to you.

  • @camdenhawley5396

    @camdenhawley5396

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @mynamesurname7783
    @mynamesurname778310 ай бұрын

    We kinda talked about all 3 and it went great

  • @afriendorfoe
    @afriendorfoe9 ай бұрын

    I recently stopped seeing a guy bc he kept hating on his exfiance. I was not comfortable knowing that he would bad about someone he wanted to spend his life with at some point.

  • @user-sm4sf4ff2i
    @user-sm4sf4ff2iАй бұрын

    Cheer~~~talk about (something) with another person or group of people.😊

  • @Indigobo1
    @Indigobo1 Жыл бұрын

    Good to see the punisher turning his life around

  • @giyuutomioka6974
    @giyuutomioka6974 Жыл бұрын

    I gotta say, all three of these make sense. But who would talk about politics? That stuff is so boring and too slow for Me.

  • @BulldogMindsetArchive

    @BulldogMindsetArchive

    Жыл бұрын

    You'd be surprised.

  • @steveh5307

    @steveh5307

    Жыл бұрын

    It's not boring. It's intellectual and fascinating. And I won't get along with progressive women with their aggressive stance and undertones of anger and being a gentleman is some kind of oppression. So yes, politics absolutely matter.

  • @Tonyconstanza

    @Tonyconstanza

    Жыл бұрын

    @@steveh5307 it’s definitely boring and controversial

  • @thatguy8012

    @thatguy8012

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s quite important actually because when you don’t know jack shit about politics in a country thats mandatory to vote, you don’t vote probably you just end up picking whatever which is a really bad way to vote it’s important to know what party’s are wanting to do and policies etc

  • @elfascisto6549

    @elfascisto6549

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@thatguy8012 voting is just for show

  • @boblama3122
    @boblama3122 Жыл бұрын

    Mannnnnnnn looks like your girl got lots of experience

  • @Mason-vc5rl
    @Mason-vc5rl11 күн бұрын

    I thought he was the punisher 😅

  • @nirorit
    @nirorit Жыл бұрын

    I feel like a gen Z, being super impatient for you to actually get on with the next points. I wish you gave all 3 first, and then went on to explain each one.

  • @smit17xp
    @smit17xp2 ай бұрын

    Politics is way more important than ever

  • @roswellmiller8216
    @roswellmiller8216 Жыл бұрын

    But what if she brings it up I can't just shut it down

  • @draxlergotham5318
    @draxlergotham5318 Жыл бұрын

    And Religion too

  • @hannahyeary7406
    @hannahyeary74062 ай бұрын

    Personally as a 16 yo i disagree with the politics one majorly. I would rather not waste time, energy and become emotionally invested with a guy before I learn the core of who he is. Things like politics, religion, and morals are just a make or break. Why go forward with something when you will just have to end it? Ig this depends on whether u date to break up or date to marry tho

  • @ogolakay
    @ogolakay Жыл бұрын

    We have to talk about them

  • @farisfaris353
    @farisfaris353 Жыл бұрын

    Those two couples want to make everybody believe they know everything about birds and the bees 🐥🐝

  • @peternady7251
    @peternady7251 Жыл бұрын

    pp ,, what does it mean ?

  • @danielmarquis5258
    @danielmarquis5258 Жыл бұрын

    What if I hate Politics?

  • @iaf4454

    @iaf4454

    Жыл бұрын

    Or those people who dont care??

  • @pashaagoes
    @pashaagoes Жыл бұрын

    Is that Shane from the Walking Dead?

  • @greenmountainhistory7335
    @greenmountainhistory733515 күн бұрын

    My parents met at a college republicans meeting the no politics rule is bs

  • @germanserrato3221
    @germanserrato3221 Жыл бұрын

    Ohh yeah so tru

  • @farisfaris353
    @farisfaris353 Жыл бұрын

    Tell us something we want to hear, don't tell us about things we already knew🤭🤭🤭

  • @Autumn_Forest_

    @Autumn_Forest_

    Жыл бұрын

    Actually, it’s horrible advice to tell people to waste time dating a person who is potentially incompatible due to something as important as political affiliation.

  • @vladonutueu
    @vladonutueu2 ай бұрын

    So talking about pee pee was the reason why I never get past first dates.. got it

  • @danzena4059
    @danzena4059 Жыл бұрын

    Politics I'm 50-50 on. And it depends on how the person handles it. Past relationships though, DEFINITELY NOT. When chicks try to talk about or dig into my past relationships, I just let them know we're not going into thet right now.

  • @countchoculacometh01
    @countchoculacometh014 ай бұрын

    bro looks like Jon Bernthal

  • @iAMomnilotus
    @iAMomnilotusАй бұрын

    Stg I thought this was Jon Bernthal

  • @thehouse888
    @thehouse888 Жыл бұрын

    Dude looks like Jon Bernthal

  • @pattimorris3965
    @pattimorris3965 Жыл бұрын

    My parents Dad was a Republican whip and mom's Dad was a Democrat whip. That was in 1960! Married 33 years.

  • @ld2270
    @ld2270 Жыл бұрын

    looking like john

  • @ryanbizahaloni9839
    @ryanbizahaloni9839 Жыл бұрын

    I always bring up politics, religion, and exes.

  • @justTful
    @justTful Жыл бұрын

    You mean to tell me all this time I failed on dates because I didn’t stop talking about my 🍆?! Whole new life perspective. Thank you so much!!

  • @arturopalos2739
    @arturopalos2739 Жыл бұрын

    Gentlemen, never, never talk about you past relationships with your future wife or your actual wife. Men do not have memory. Period!

  • @Adamkilla9000
    @Adamkilla90008 ай бұрын

    Ummmm why you look like the Punisher bro??????

  • @sandeepjoshi8280
    @sandeepjoshi8280 Жыл бұрын

    Ouch! What was the third P? peepee??? He dropped a clanger there!😮

  • @mr.random8447
    @mr.random8447 Жыл бұрын

    Should things like these be brought up asap to not waste anyone’s time? I don’t date people that have pronouns in their bio

  • @ramonaneyrinck2292
    @ramonaneyrinck2292 Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @castontbeston
    @castontbeston Жыл бұрын

    ❤😊True

  • @michaelking4578
    @michaelking4578 Жыл бұрын

    Hi! What’s your name? Let me tell you about my crazy ex.

  • @robertputt7794
    @robertputt7794 Жыл бұрын

    Definitely ain't gonna talk about politics on a date, because we wouldn't be on a date if I thought she might be insane.

  • @anonplussedhuman2615
    @anonplussedhuman2615 Жыл бұрын

    Whoops

  • @fmfilipinoman5609
    @fmfilipinoman56097 ай бұрын

    Me who thought the 3rd P is problems 👁👄👁

  • @bigbankfrank
    @bigbankfrank Жыл бұрын

    wasn't he in the walking dead?!!! 🤯🤯🤯

  • @aarongarcia5667
    @aarongarcia5667 Жыл бұрын

    This dude over here looking like he ready for the zombie apocalypse

  • @johnnyzeee5215
    @johnnyzeee5215 Жыл бұрын

    Make sure she asks : " So, how much money do you plan to spend on me.....? "

  • @marufgazi9025
    @marufgazi90256 күн бұрын

    20:27 ... 06/08 tue

  • @RealistQuan
    @RealistQuan8 ай бұрын

    I would ask well who payin for this shit cause I’m not 😂😂😂

  • @ognjen18
    @ognjen18 Жыл бұрын

    why would you even talk about past relationships not on the first date but at all

  • @jwill9237

    @jwill9237

    Жыл бұрын

    You can uncover a lot more about a person

  • @samanthahussain4219
    @samanthahussain4219 Жыл бұрын

    Fucccccc I spoke about politics with himmmmm after he asked me out aaaghhhhh

  • @designbyamirul
    @designbyamirul11 ай бұрын

    Whoever talks politic on a date deserves to be alone forever.

  • @Chulaxcabra
    @Chulaxcabra Жыл бұрын

    I disagree with the politics one. Don’t waste each others times without being able to discuss politics, even if that means you guys don’t agree on some things. It’s makes discussion exciting. Plus you’ll know right away if you’re going to vibe with this person or not.

  • @johnradomski8042
    @johnradomski8042 Жыл бұрын

    So prenup is on the table? 💀

  • @loracarte
    @loracarte Жыл бұрын

    How do you NOT talk about politics on a first date? Do you wait for them to casually tell you they’re a nazi on the second date? I feel like politics is a really important and non-rushed topic to at least brush over to make sure you’re on the same page on a first date. I obviously don’t mean the two should get into a heated argument or discuss it down to their own votes for mayor, but like, the way people view politics usually reflect who they are and everything else they like or believe in. And it doesn’t feel too early to talk about like kids, marriage or religion relating to marriage.

  • @delvovic
    @delvovic Жыл бұрын

    3rd P should be Private Parts in general.

  • @ericawhite9430
    @ericawhite9430 Жыл бұрын

    Don't talk about you ex period, during the entire relationship, it's toxic and shows your still in love with your ex and they got your heart,leave men like this alone your wasting your time,no future in that because they stuck in the past, so you will never have a future period,

  • @adamzoubi96
    @adamzoubi96 Жыл бұрын

    4rth P is pusha P

  • @brianvalerio5466
    @brianvalerio5466 Жыл бұрын

    Never will ever talk about my peepee

  • @christiansimbarashe
    @christiansimbarashe Жыл бұрын

    You girl's kinda cute bro, I subbed cz of her haha

  • @Devik666
    @Devik666 Жыл бұрын

    What if they do the 3 pees 😂

  • @forozanmo7520
    @forozanmo75207 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @jonathanstephan1974
    @jonathanstephan1974 Жыл бұрын

    Wrong. I would ask a girl im interested if she is still a virgin. If not i dip

  • @johnharrison2511
    @johnharrison2511 Жыл бұрын

    The third one was dumb, and also sexist, but just dumb.

  • @kebman
    @kebman Жыл бұрын

    That's great! So, now I get a free pass to talk about RELIGION!!!!!111111

  • @AnthonyTrotter-ix2kv
    @AnthonyTrotter-ix2kv Жыл бұрын

    Only if you want, to not hear, from her agin..😊

  • @Greenwitch_Garden
    @Greenwitch_Garden4 ай бұрын

    I disagree, if you value your political views and wan a partner who shares those views, talk about it before the date

  • @XFS540
    @XFS540 Жыл бұрын

    I honestly thought the 3rd P was going to be your problems. Also, surprised they didn’t try to finagle religion into this list.

  • @omokok1877
    @omokok1877 Жыл бұрын

    She’s cute

  • @imhungry5663
    @imhungry566311 ай бұрын

    who would ever talk about pp on a first date 💀

  • @richa4425
    @richa4425 Жыл бұрын

    Women always talk about how much their last boyfriend loved their vj jj

  • @godzilla400

    @godzilla400

    Жыл бұрын

    If they talk about last boy friend, they are just using you as a way to get over him.

  • @kustponu
    @kustponu Жыл бұрын

    So I should ditch the MAGA hat?

  • @richiep2028
    @richiep20284 ай бұрын

    Lies You are finding out 2 asap

  • @bryanabreu2306
    @bryanabreu2306 Жыл бұрын

    What’s wrong with politics? 😢

  • @Jimbum34
    @Jimbum34 Жыл бұрын

    Ore hear me out.. only talk about those 3 things

  • @bluebellbeatnik4945
    @bluebellbeatnik49459 ай бұрын

    is that your daughter?

  • @BulldogMindsetArchive

    @BulldogMindsetArchive

    9 ай бұрын

    Thanks for the compliment

  • @christopherbrubaker2070
    @christopherbrubaker2070 Жыл бұрын

    And no principles! Woman hate having any kind of principles. Principles means accountability, so no principles. Are we clear!!!

  • @toni-2225
    @toni-2225 Жыл бұрын

    I agree on politics and baggage and no-nos. But wish he had talked about his peepee before the 1st date. It didn't work

  • @Autumn_Forest_

    @Autumn_Forest_

    Жыл бұрын

    For real. I have a aversion to foreskin.

  • @nobodysperfect06
    @nobodysperfect06 Жыл бұрын

    If a guy is having trouble in his dating life then it's normally because he is struggling to attract women or get a woman attracted to him in the first place, however if a woman is struggling in her dating life, it's normally something else, for women meeting a guy or getting a guy attracted to them is normally not the problem, it's normally something else. Some people say it's keeping a guy but getting the guy is never a problem

  • @dianaortiz9775
    @dianaortiz9775 Жыл бұрын

    I need to know his political affiliation. If he doesn’t believe in woman’s rights, gay rights, trans rights, (basically human rights) climate change, not taxing millionaires, healthcare for the poor….. need to know that immediately. Your not a good or decent person. Don’t want to waste my time or energy on someone with no compassion for marginalized people

  • @eroldemiral9513

    @eroldemiral9513

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s such a Strawman😂

  • @zomb7138

    @zomb7138

    Жыл бұрын

    Having different political views doesn't define if someone is a good or "decent person". That's a toxic and ironically hypocritical mentality. Based on the things you said, I'm assuming you care about inclusiveness and accepting all people of different backgrounds, perspectives, and views, right? For example, many religions and cultures have instilled beliefs that go against the values the lgbt community holds. So do you not accept people who follow their religion/culture and deem them as "not a good person"?

  • @dianaortiz9775

    @dianaortiz9775

    Жыл бұрын

    @@zomb7138 If that “religious” person judges the LGBTQ community or another marginalized group, yes I believe they are not good people. I am not from a marginalized group but I am all inclusive. I try to befriend and assist anyone in need.

  • @steveh5307

    @steveh5307

    Жыл бұрын

    Nope, can't stand angry progressives like you. Good luck finding an effeminate snowflake beta who doesn't even know how to change a tire or run away flapping his wrists in the face of danger. I see minimum 3 cats in your future. 🤦‍♂️

  • @Topgamer357

    @Topgamer357

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dianaortiz9775 If they judge = bad. If you judge = righteous. Your sentence isn’t even coherent. Judges what? This is why you don’t break rule #1. You could have the same values and this aggressive hostility could very likely be off-putting or come off as uncalibrated/weird. Most people don’t spend much time regarding government politics regardless of their values anyways. It’s why a republic was created in the first place.

  • @amanlamare698
    @amanlamare698 Жыл бұрын

    Who cares..

  • @GodsProphet23
    @GodsProphet237 ай бұрын

    Omega male advice eww!