Because all that other shit he's talking about is irrelevant!
@drucella5581
10 ай бұрын
@pennstead6711 You ain't said nothing but WORD. A Man HAS TO want to commit and a woman must be ready to commit as well.
@MercLife100
10 ай бұрын
That part!
@tarao4382
10 ай бұрын
That's it! That's all!
@starbright268310 ай бұрын
My dad says men come to a point of decision when they are "ready" to get married and begin to "look" for a wife. Before that, it doesn't matter who you are!
@guacgirl
10 ай бұрын
Period. The End!
@Tmarie961
9 ай бұрын
I agree 1000000 % lol
@AubreyJuliet
4 ай бұрын
💯
@LarennPBel10 ай бұрын
He commits when he wants to
@ButterCookie1984
10 ай бұрын
Bingo
@lilpinkbubbles6592
10 ай бұрын
That’s it!
@sherrybarnhart5435
10 ай бұрын
That's what I thought
@graciakinyanjui6937
10 ай бұрын
True
@drinabooboo
10 ай бұрын
Crazy. And how long is a woman supposed to wait? I've been waiting 11 years already because we have a child.
@mrsjade3010 ай бұрын
I realize now being married for 16 years, being committed is a spiritual thing. It’s not enough to cook, clean, etc etc etc, look good, 3 meals a day, that’s all superficial-to make a man committed, it goes beyond that. 💯 it’s really about the person and choosing to stay committed and them wanting to grow with God so they can make that vow to want to be a better man for their woman and kids. As a woman, I feel like we can only do so much and we don’t have that kind of power to “make a man committed” they really truly have to want to on their own. Without pressure. After 4 months of meeting my husband-we were already engaged and married within that year. He was all the way ready 😂 and I never brought up marriage, once. He just knew. It’s proof when a man really wants to be with one woman, he will lock it down, and it won’t take him forever to figure it out either. 💍🤞🏽🔐 no doubts, no confusion whatsoever. Most importantly, he will not waste your time!
@BlackPlightPeople
6 ай бұрын
I definitely agree
@keonamorgan1898
3 ай бұрын
Amen sister♥️
@user-cs7ix9sr2x
Ай бұрын
🙏 🙏
@kokoalaska988810 ай бұрын
Now in my mid thirties , I realize in my youth i undervalued my looks and let myself stay obese for my twenties while focusing on my career. Then turned around wondering why i couldn’t find a good dude. 🤦🏾♀️ I finally get it. Currently training for my first half marathon and finally taking my health seriously.🥑🍒🍌🍎🌱🍓🥗🥦🥒🥕🌽🍏🍅
@mmxw2294
10 ай бұрын
👏🏾❤️
@4_Ever_Gr8teful_22
10 ай бұрын
It's great you're making your health a priority but please don't let Tony and his shallow mindset make you think ALL men look for perfect 10s in this world. A woman could look like Halle Berry and be a complete piece of shit compared to you. It's more than looks that attracts a good guy. Don't be hard on yourself.
@briann5001
10 ай бұрын
This is very wise, think about the upside, even if it did not make a man find you (which I believe it will because I’m a man , thus know how most men think) it will make you get in the best shape and health of your life which only benefits you. But I’ll tell you a secret, whenever you become your best it always attracts men, remember men are attracted to beauty and what women don’t realize is it’s not that deep with us, men like beauty therefore as long as your doing your best, there will be a man that you will attract, may not happen to day or next week, but do not be fooled, it will happen, as long as your getting out there, grocery stores, church, school, work, sports games, they will find you.
@kokoalaska9888
10 ай бұрын
@@briann5001 Well said! 😊
@briann5001
10 ай бұрын
@@kokoalaska9888 It's all luv queen.. .some of us actually still exist Jesus said "Narrow is the way that leads to life and few find it but wide is the gate that leads to destruction and many are on. ...........that is. Anything good takes work, there may be few of us Good men because laZy doesnt like to work but just like Chriatians exist in a Fallen World, we good men exist in a fallen America, you might need a magnifying glass one day, but we here, and we are seeking to find good women
@manoniemoments10 ай бұрын
“He’ll have an unction from The Lord. He doesn’t want to be in fornication. He wants to be in right standing with God. He wants to be married. He wants to start a family. He wants to build his life, his legacy, [and] sow his seed into his wife.” - Tony Gaskin. These are the things that cause a man to commit. The woman he chooses must be in process and not complacent in any area of her life. Thank you, Tony. Be encouraged, ladies!👑 Know that he will show up at the right time.🙌🏾🥰
@tru3g3mini4410 ай бұрын
A man can have the perfect woman and not be ready… and possibly lose out on something beautiful. But will marry the woman he’s with when he’s ready!!! IF YOU KNOW, THEN YOU KNOW!! Ladies don’t wait for a man because you’re worth the wait yourself!!🥰❤️
@ambernecho10 ай бұрын
Yes, Tony. Women need to be themselves. 👏🏽 Only God can cause a man to commit.
@noneofyourbuizness
10 ай бұрын
And their level of faith and relationship with God is important !
@Girl-vn8qj10 ай бұрын
Make him respect you is what my dad told us growing up … I Miss him 😢
@datingdiaries1681
10 ай бұрын
Same ! Shout out to the active Dad teaching us the game !
@pb984110 ай бұрын
My EX boyfriend expected "HUSBAND benefits" as the boyfriend.
@TrishC5280
10 ай бұрын
Gottahgo (in Tony Gaskins voice) 🙂
@dii-N-sd
10 ай бұрын
Nowadays, most guys expect the full package while they only put forth half-a$$ed effort and walk around built like SpongeBob. It's ridiculous & comical!
@zero118810 ай бұрын
Truth is it depends on timing not really the girl. He could meet the right girl but timing could be wrong.
@jess_is
10 ай бұрын
Right
@tarahbruno3793
10 ай бұрын
So true! Women who seem to have a man who has it all is because they met him in the right season. Ladies it really has nothing to do with us. It’s all about his convictions and timing
@naciartt
10 ай бұрын
I was scrolling down and i thought your profile photo was a hair on my screen. I FELT SO STUPID WHEN I TOUCHED IT TO GET RID OF IT HAHAH
@love7loyalty-MHA10 ай бұрын
"No! You have to be yourself" Got it, uncle Tony
@odiliagaspar433910 ай бұрын
I got married 7 months after I met my husband. Going on 2 years marriage and three years together. I honestly don’t know how it happened lol went so fast, however at the time I was really focused on myself: working, studying, had my own life to myself. I definitely not sleeping around I practiced celibacy, I didn’t tell anybody that tho. We are both in process him living alone doing his own, i the same, we spent lots time together at that time. He did propose to me. Two years now he wants to talk about having a baby which is nice. Pray that get straightened from gods. These videos help me a lot when I was single and now married thank you always.
@LadyMargaretSteppin10 ай бұрын
I worked on my gift I worked on my body and I knew something was missing! I started building a real relationship with God. First by picking up the Bible and reading it every day from the beginning. I’m now in Deuteronomy and I see my life changing! Also the best advice! Everything you said it so very true! Thanks for the video
@Sekhere10 ай бұрын
That’s so true, and though I am not married yet I can testify that what Mr. Tony is saying is true because growing up my Daddy will always tell me these things. He’ll be like; “respect yourself and a man will respect you, don’t ever enter another man’s house/room and your destiny (my decisions) is in your hands”. Three things I’ll hear from him over and over again. Not ONCE he told me to learn domestic things to secure a man but rather for myself when I live on my own. Then one day my mom and I were talking and she said when she first got married to my Dad since he’ll wake up like 5am to go to work so she started waking up early to cook but my Dad told her that she don’t have to do that and let’s just say my mom was ecstatic 😂 because she doesn’t like cooking like that anyway. So it sum it up for me that a man Will love you for who you are first and everything else you do is your appreciation of him without you having to break yourself up.
@HealThyLivingQueen10 ай бұрын
You shall know a tree by its fruit! God has prepared me to be a wife, and a great wife at that. My husband is just as great and God-fearing! Praise God.
@Dezdamoonbear10 ай бұрын
Great advice. Women need to stop making men the center of attention...
@theresaevans451710 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with being single, it is so freeing!
@carolynlanette3310 ай бұрын
This video came right on time! I love how Tony makes it clear that in order to know if that person is the one, we must first go to God.
@cinamonnecharles295
10 ай бұрын
Amen.
@reallee210 ай бұрын
“Be yourself” golden👌🏽
@taramay817410 ай бұрын
Basically a man expects perfection . 😂😂😂😂😂. Im over this b.s
@catcat9582
10 ай бұрын
They also will start saying you're too good for them or start becoming afraid of other men checking for you. You really can't win just do your absolute best for your own legacy and hopefully you get lucky and get married
@royalblue_2210 ай бұрын
A man commits once He is a Man of a God. That’s just the way it should be.
@paulap36510 ай бұрын
"Focusing on their strengths instead of strengthen their weaknesses!! Valid point bruh!
@debrarobbins788110 ай бұрын
A woman can be everything that a man desire, smart, degrees, spiritual on fire for GOD, a great mom, a virtuous woman, a master chef in the kitchen cooking breakfast, lunch, dinner and dessert 🍰 great attitude and personality, a woman can have all the letters in the alphabet and a man still don't do right by her. What make a grown man commit is a man who want to commit, these days these men play possum sleep on great relationships and when it's too late the woman checked out. R Kelly when a woman's fed up. Commitment in relationships these days is suspect. Wait on God. Have a great day everyone.
@talenalewis182310 ай бұрын
He MIGHT be ready to commit after he finish sewing his wild oats and who knows how long that will be. I think he has to get it all out his system first.
@nicolerogers1310
2 ай бұрын
But who's gonna wait around 4 all that...then we might wait jus 2 turn around n get played!
@Stilettoexec10 ай бұрын
Why are men prioritizing a woman’s body over who is good for his soul? If she gains weight during the marriage, will he value her less?
@sagba9473
10 ай бұрын
Working in family court I have heard men say that “yeah she got big as a house and let herself go” but women will claim it’s happy weight
@Simplythetruthfulone10 ай бұрын
Proverbs 18:22 "Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD" The wonan is the prize not the man. The Lord blesses a man with a wife not a woman with a husband. To add to that, there are lots of educated beautiful women with good jobs, etc etc whom choose to remain single until they meet the right man. It becomes a sigh of relief to be single knowing that the wrong mam could mean utter destruction.
@Lone_Wolf_LT10 ай бұрын
Ladies, do you and stay single. Do not worry about what makes a man commit because, who cares what does. You are perfect as you are, do you all the way.
@rosetulip123110 ай бұрын
I’m surprised you didn’t say a man will commit if he feels at peace around the woman. They have more fun than arguing.
@Shay.bae9210 ай бұрын
You kept this 1000 .. coming from a god fearing woman who grew up on a healthy 2 parent household that’s married for 30+ years. Thank you for sharing ❤
@melybellyful10 ай бұрын
Everytime i get negative thoughts from the enemy or get insecure a new video of yours comes out to keep on going. GOD BLESS
@tmayo112610 ай бұрын
"Be Yourself!!!" .....best dating/relationship advice ever. extra points if/when you got those 3 B's down! 💯
@keivalenti226310 ай бұрын
Tony is absolutely right & I love it when he humbly throws shade😂😂😂
@justinray810710 ай бұрын
Does these 3 Bs work for men too? As a man I truly resonate with your advice and wisdom Uncs. But whenever you mention the 3 Bs you always preface it with "women" even though i"m smart enough to understand it applies both ways ..OFCOURSE IT DOES! lol would still like to hear you say it with your words "and ya"ll men can follow this too" I"m sure other men feel the same way. We do know but we wanna hear it too. We wanna be on our purpose too and we wanna be acknowledged too💯we want life spoken into us too💯🙏
@phizzy123
10 ай бұрын
love this comment 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@qschronicles4985
10 ай бұрын
💯
@valenciachambers1982
10 ай бұрын
@justinray8107 well said
@moonbaby599610 ай бұрын
Hey Tony i appreciate your videos! Could you do a “What marriage is and what it *isn’t*” type video sometime? I love your angle & the way you come at the message!
@MsChristianr
10 ай бұрын
Yesss this is a great video idea. I desire marriage but I think it's the fantasy marriage I desire
@sisteroflovea721510 ай бұрын
Hi Tony, I’m sooooo glad you told the single men to SHUT UP, I’m tired of them giving advice never being married!! I’ve been married for 10 years, when a man wants to marry he will commit, we love you Tony God Bless 🙏🏿💗!!!
@PRINCESS252710 ай бұрын
I think it’s a lot of good women still single because some of them are not the beauty standard of today…. And most if not all men are shallow ….🤷🏽♀️ so often she’s overlooked
@melsutubeification10 ай бұрын
When he wants to commit. Not a moment before. Simple as that he makes a choice.
@sarasingh346210 ай бұрын
Much blessings to you and your family .. Mr Tony.
@Sunlova10 ай бұрын
Beautifully said from the heart!🙏🏽
@mnrdmb795310 ай бұрын
Thank you for this message💖 Blessings
@azizabydesign10 ай бұрын
Great message!💯
@daionpurpose10 ай бұрын
Thank you, Tony! You have helped my life so much ❤
@mangoesnbreadfruit0110 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video, Tony ✨🤌🏽 Greatly appreciated.
@CarmenCruz-ib5yu10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ Thank You for your word of WISDOM 🙏
@temekiawilliams846710 ай бұрын
Thank you Mr. Gaskins for all your wisdom and insight. We appreciate it ❤️
@ashleyrender173210 ай бұрын
Tony, May God Bless You and Your Family More Abundantly🙏🏽. Lord, I Give YOU ALL the Glory 🙌🏽. Tony, Thank You for answering "The Call" and sharing with us. I really appreciate your delivery and transparency. 💞🙏🏽
@kimberlyhayestaylor178510 ай бұрын
Thank you for your wise words, Tony. Your advice is important and impactful for all ages. ❤
@beckiruther121310 ай бұрын
Great message! Ty.❤
@4_Ever_Gr8teful_2210 ай бұрын
What makes a man commit? Nothing. Nothing at all! He chooses who he wants to commit to and that could be based on nothing at all. 🤷🏾♀️ Has nothing to do with looks, or having money or any of that other shallow BS he's talking about.
@TAJA330
10 ай бұрын
SAY IT AGAIN for the women in the back.
@la6136
10 ай бұрын
A lot of men will commit to the woman that just happens to be around them when they are finally ready to settle down.
@carolynmeadows422
10 ай бұрын
I agree with Tony Gaskins. He is telling the truth.
@carolynmeadows422
10 ай бұрын
Amen!
@TAJA330
10 ай бұрын
@@carolynmeadows422 he definitely has points but I wouldn’t tailor myself so much to “try” to make a man commit- either he wants to or he doesn’t
@k-doll561010 ай бұрын
Thank you Tony for the word! Looking forward to the video on the 3 B’s! God bless! 🙌🏼
@allpraisestoallah958210 ай бұрын
Absolutely!!!! God bless you 🎉🎉🎉
@lornabrown9508 ай бұрын
God bless you Tony! Thank you! 🙏🏽 for all of your teachings!
@teresafreemanparker696710 ай бұрын
You’re so right! Be yourself! God Bless you Tony and your beautiful wife🙏🏽
@ashleycaldwell485110 ай бұрын
Thank you, Tony for the wise advice! I’ve been watching your videos for years and I appreciate your insight!
@bridgetmusoki209210 ай бұрын
Thanks! I apprecicate your honesty. Thanks
@sssparkle9 ай бұрын
I find your posts to be so valuable. Thank you ❤
@norapeace652610 ай бұрын
Tony, you are amazing! I send your videos to a lot of my good girlfriends because all of us don’t have this advice in the home or from anybody that we know. You just kind of let me know that I’m on the right path and little things I can fix which I really appreciate. The 3 B’s are very important and I’m glad I’m doing them. Thank you again 🙏🏽🩵
@ThriftTea10 ай бұрын
phenomenal video, THANK YOU & God bless you!!
@Daughteroftheking0710 ай бұрын
Thank you. Wow, love herself and be the best she can be 🦋
@jr994110 ай бұрын
Thank you Tony, for ALWAYS teaching and enlightening us! I totally agree with the marriage stance. I feel it's said and used too often. Yes, it can be desired but the key is are we "marriage ready". And, I'm so glad, I desire marriage but not in a rush! I definitely have my 3 B's and will continue to implement them daily throughout my life's journey. God bless and thank you again for this video!
@curvesandshit357110 ай бұрын
I love this thank you 🙏🏾
@kimberlybassett716910 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so real and honest! But you are so funny
@NadiaRamirez888
10 ай бұрын
Yes the spaghetti and crab salad took me out!!! Much respect to Mama Gaskins!!!
@nanslove91p10 ай бұрын
I’m so thankful for Tony Gaskins. I’ve been watching his video for 3 years. He gives great advice.
@Sherose44410 ай бұрын
Big respect brother
@starr44909 ай бұрын
I feel like I'm talking to my older brother who's giving me a serious talk about commitment. Thank you so much, Tony for your wisdom. Definitely I'm taking notes of your words in your videos. I finally understood a lot of them. Time to srart with myself first. God bless you! 🤗
@valenciawalker64985 ай бұрын
Thank you, for sharing your wisom. God Bless🙏🏽🕊
@alexo179210 ай бұрын
Just here to see if i qualify as a walking red flag 😂
@valendajohnson782610 ай бұрын
A good woman sent by God...if he is looking for her!
@myluvforfall198110 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. The stories of what your mother would cook reminds me of how my mother was🥹🕊️🥰good memories
@LeahHannahSpeaks10 ай бұрын
You are absolutely correct Tony! I’m 50 and single and I am in utterly shocked about this. 😆😆😆 I had people tell me that I was too nice on several occasions and the other thing is I will admit this, but there was a time that I really did believe in myself and I was very insecure and if you don’t feel good about yourself, he’s not going to feel like you’re a great choice either There was a lot that I learned because of my insecurity and I thank God that I bust out of those feelings about myself. Also, I will say this about myself as well. I have ADHD, and sometimes because of that he can feel like I don’t listen to a him and that’s very important to give a man you ear. The other negative was I was not saying anything about my ADHD or dysgraphia! I was embarrassed and this was going on for and now I tell them about my disability. That’s a big deal. I just recently really started picking up a lot of weight in the past two years so now I am doing something about it because I just don’t want to be a person to just got a pretty face and a personality, I want the body to match too.
@jcqwater871310 ай бұрын
Praise to God! God bless Tony, its in God's hands
@gigisessentials10 ай бұрын
That was perfectly spoken. Thank you.
@sweets897310 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this advice I was just wondering about this. You definitely covered a lot of what I needed to hear. I feel like I have confirmation ☺️
@alfredawillie817110 ай бұрын
I love this massage, thx to the almighty for coming across this channel 🎉
@lindabarton419 ай бұрын
Thank You 💙💜!
@anasanabria319210 ай бұрын
Thank you for this message there’s so much some men expect and then when u do it they still aren’t pleased or commit or reciprocate back to woman it’s basically like Slave love…being authentic is number 1
@m.g.179210 ай бұрын
Great video! Thanks for being transparent
@_queenofpink19579 ай бұрын
This video came right on time. I needed this
@annettebell116810 ай бұрын
Thank you Mr Gasket for being real with your advice and sharing your life with years of experience as a husband and having the knowledge of God to help that's the key
@charli228510 ай бұрын
Wow Tony you are intelligent and have great wisdom. Your mindset is powerful and continual to be a blessing and share your testimony God be the Glory!
@jennib995310 ай бұрын
Yes thank you. I am share this video with my friends because I said this before with my friends don't be cooking and cleaning just to show a man you this perfect lady.
@carmenrivera758710 ай бұрын
Thank you. I am glad I came across this podcast. I have two sons, and they tell me that it's hard to find a woman now a days that they love the Lord but want to live with things of the world
@latarareed73218 ай бұрын
I HEAR YA TONY ON HUSBANDS NEED TO BE MORE COUNSELORS OUT HERE SHARING BUT THEY DONT WANNA SPEAK 🙊 UP LIKE U ARE ...THANK GOD FOR U AND YOUR WORK HERE AND TREMENDOUS 💖 THX 2! MANY BLESSINGS ON YOUR AND YOUR QUEEN. .I LOVE 💕🥳🥳 U BOTH😍😍
@STORYOFITIANNA10 ай бұрын
So I met this guy yesterday and I enjoy his conversation. We are going on a date once I get back home ( I’m a flight attendant ) and I’ve been watching all your videos and I’m so glad I’ve come across them because now I know how to respond this go round! I wish my father was around to give me all these pointers! But I thank God for you! Thank you! Even if it doesn’t work out with this guy. I’ll know for next time!
@arnelabih184510 ай бұрын
Ameen thank you been doing this my daddy told me the same thing been doing this typing up my novel and started my KZread and fallen in love with manafiesting returned back to modeling professionally working out praying also saving myself for marriage all over again made it going on 5 years. I don't even want any man to kiss me unless his my husband
@Liz-id7hd10 ай бұрын
This is very helpful. Thank you!
@PaolaPB10 ай бұрын
As always, a pleasure to listen to because it gives me back hope when I start losing it again. On a side note, what I appreciate the most is the consistency of your message. It never sways, tries to convince or persuade. It just is. Consistent.
@ericahenderson242510 ай бұрын
Thankyou! Great!
@melzbeautycollections10 ай бұрын
Glad I’m learning this now❤
@tinyking1110 ай бұрын
Thanks Tony ❤️🔥 Enjoyed this video. It was right on time. You have a new subscriber.
@nenaugwuomo180210 ай бұрын
You’re the best Tony. Thank you for all the wisdom you share with us. It is a blessing and Kingdom work, forreal! Grace and peace in abundance to you, your wife and beautiful family.
@aprilmoorman64099 ай бұрын
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
@CarmenCruz-ib5yu10 ай бұрын
If only all men can think like you, with MORALITY and respect for themselves. GOD will surely Bless men like you with Good women. MAY GOD continue. Blessing you with Wisdom, Strength, Courage, peace, and Love.
@ms.forever928210 ай бұрын
@ms.forever9282 1 second ago I personally look up to you, MR. KING- CONSCIOUSLY AWARE UPSTANDING GENTLEMAN, Tony Gaskins! You're truly a PROVEN and ORDAINED PERFECTLY IMPERFECT LIVING LEGEND in its best form! You're a needle in the haystack! There are only a few good faithful better/best-changed -working progress men like you in this crazy world. God blesses you and your family more outpouring good things -infinite fold! Thank you for your godly wisdom, genuine transparent concern, presence, and commitment to serve the Lord as His super amazing, very dynamic, functional effective tool in the hands of His Holy Spirit to reshape the eternal destiny of others by warning and therefore waring and saving "us" from calamities by touching our lives with your impactful agreeable and acceptable influence and life-changing energy. Long live, Mr. Tony Gaskins!
@MysticButterfly2210 ай бұрын
Thank You for those 3 B's Tony. 😊❤
@pamelabillingsley24910 ай бұрын
Mr. Gaskins I had to replay the very kindly way you told single people to ShutTtt UPppp lmbo🤣
@Dezdamoonbear10 ай бұрын
Talk about Fresh & Fit getting demonitized
@emen608010 ай бұрын
Honest and genuine! I’d love to talk to you with spiritual trouble I have.
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First he has to wanna be committed
@kiaracouch9315
10 ай бұрын
This is it! Nothing else to be said!!!
@4_Ever_Gr8teful_22
10 ай бұрын
Because all that other shit he's talking about is irrelevant!
@drucella5581
10 ай бұрын
@pennstead6711 You ain't said nothing but WORD. A Man HAS TO want to commit and a woman must be ready to commit as well.
@MercLife100
10 ай бұрын
That part!
@tarao4382
10 ай бұрын
That's it! That's all!
My dad says men come to a point of decision when they are "ready" to get married and begin to "look" for a wife. Before that, it doesn't matter who you are!
@guacgirl
10 ай бұрын
Period. The End!
@Tmarie961
9 ай бұрын
I agree 1000000 % lol
@AubreyJuliet
4 ай бұрын
💯
He commits when he wants to
@ButterCookie1984
10 ай бұрын
Bingo
@lilpinkbubbles6592
10 ай бұрын
That’s it!
@sherrybarnhart5435
10 ай бұрын
That's what I thought
@graciakinyanjui6937
10 ай бұрын
True
@drinabooboo
10 ай бұрын
Crazy. And how long is a woman supposed to wait? I've been waiting 11 years already because we have a child.
I realize now being married for 16 years, being committed is a spiritual thing. It’s not enough to cook, clean, etc etc etc, look good, 3 meals a day, that’s all superficial-to make a man committed, it goes beyond that. 💯 it’s really about the person and choosing to stay committed and them wanting to grow with God so they can make that vow to want to be a better man for their woman and kids. As a woman, I feel like we can only do so much and we don’t have that kind of power to “make a man committed” they really truly have to want to on their own. Without pressure. After 4 months of meeting my husband-we were already engaged and married within that year. He was all the way ready 😂 and I never brought up marriage, once. He just knew. It’s proof when a man really wants to be with one woman, he will lock it down, and it won’t take him forever to figure it out either. 💍🤞🏽🔐 no doubts, no confusion whatsoever. Most importantly, he will not waste your time!
@BlackPlightPeople
6 ай бұрын
I definitely agree
@keonamorgan1898
3 ай бұрын
Amen sister♥️
@user-cs7ix9sr2x
Ай бұрын
🙏 🙏
Now in my mid thirties , I realize in my youth i undervalued my looks and let myself stay obese for my twenties while focusing on my career. Then turned around wondering why i couldn’t find a good dude. 🤦🏾♀️ I finally get it. Currently training for my first half marathon and finally taking my health seriously.🥑🍒🍌🍎🌱🍓🥗🥦🥒🥕🌽🍏🍅
@mmxw2294
10 ай бұрын
👏🏾❤️
@4_Ever_Gr8teful_22
10 ай бұрын
It's great you're making your health a priority but please don't let Tony and his shallow mindset make you think ALL men look for perfect 10s in this world. A woman could look like Halle Berry and be a complete piece of shit compared to you. It's more than looks that attracts a good guy. Don't be hard on yourself.
@briann5001
10 ай бұрын
This is very wise, think about the upside, even if it did not make a man find you (which I believe it will because I’m a man , thus know how most men think) it will make you get in the best shape and health of your life which only benefits you. But I’ll tell you a secret, whenever you become your best it always attracts men, remember men are attracted to beauty and what women don’t realize is it’s not that deep with us, men like beauty therefore as long as your doing your best, there will be a man that you will attract, may not happen to day or next week, but do not be fooled, it will happen, as long as your getting out there, grocery stores, church, school, work, sports games, they will find you.
@kokoalaska9888
10 ай бұрын
@@briann5001 Well said! 😊
@briann5001
10 ай бұрын
@@kokoalaska9888 It's all luv queen.. .some of us actually still exist Jesus said "Narrow is the way that leads to life and few find it but wide is the gate that leads to destruction and many are on. ...........that is. Anything good takes work, there may be few of us Good men because laZy doesnt like to work but just like Chriatians exist in a Fallen World, we good men exist in a fallen America, you might need a magnifying glass one day, but we here, and we are seeking to find good women
“He’ll have an unction from The Lord. He doesn’t want to be in fornication. He wants to be in right standing with God. He wants to be married. He wants to start a family. He wants to build his life, his legacy, [and] sow his seed into his wife.” - Tony Gaskin. These are the things that cause a man to commit. The woman he chooses must be in process and not complacent in any area of her life. Thank you, Tony. Be encouraged, ladies!👑 Know that he will show up at the right time.🙌🏾🥰
A man can have the perfect woman and not be ready… and possibly lose out on something beautiful. But will marry the woman he’s with when he’s ready!!! IF YOU KNOW, THEN YOU KNOW!! Ladies don’t wait for a man because you’re worth the wait yourself!!🥰❤️
Yes, Tony. Women need to be themselves. 👏🏽 Only God can cause a man to commit.
@noneofyourbuizness
10 ай бұрын
And their level of faith and relationship with God is important !
Make him respect you is what my dad told us growing up … I Miss him 😢
@datingdiaries1681
10 ай бұрын
Same ! Shout out to the active Dad teaching us the game !
My EX boyfriend expected "HUSBAND benefits" as the boyfriend.
@TrishC5280
10 ай бұрын
Gottahgo (in Tony Gaskins voice) 🙂
@dii-N-sd
10 ай бұрын
Nowadays, most guys expect the full package while they only put forth half-a$$ed effort and walk around built like SpongeBob. It's ridiculous & comical!
Truth is it depends on timing not really the girl. He could meet the right girl but timing could be wrong.
@jess_is
10 ай бұрын
Right
@tarahbruno3793
10 ай бұрын
So true! Women who seem to have a man who has it all is because they met him in the right season. Ladies it really has nothing to do with us. It’s all about his convictions and timing
@naciartt
10 ай бұрын
I was scrolling down and i thought your profile photo was a hair on my screen. I FELT SO STUPID WHEN I TOUCHED IT TO GET RID OF IT HAHAH
"No! You have to be yourself" Got it, uncle Tony
I got married 7 months after I met my husband. Going on 2 years marriage and three years together. I honestly don’t know how it happened lol went so fast, however at the time I was really focused on myself: working, studying, had my own life to myself. I definitely not sleeping around I practiced celibacy, I didn’t tell anybody that tho. We are both in process him living alone doing his own, i the same, we spent lots time together at that time. He did propose to me. Two years now he wants to talk about having a baby which is nice. Pray that get straightened from gods. These videos help me a lot when I was single and now married thank you always.
I worked on my gift I worked on my body and I knew something was missing! I started building a real relationship with God. First by picking up the Bible and reading it every day from the beginning. I’m now in Deuteronomy and I see my life changing! Also the best advice! Everything you said it so very true! Thanks for the video
That’s so true, and though I am not married yet I can testify that what Mr. Tony is saying is true because growing up my Daddy will always tell me these things. He’ll be like; “respect yourself and a man will respect you, don’t ever enter another man’s house/room and your destiny (my decisions) is in your hands”. Three things I’ll hear from him over and over again. Not ONCE he told me to learn domestic things to secure a man but rather for myself when I live on my own. Then one day my mom and I were talking and she said when she first got married to my Dad since he’ll wake up like 5am to go to work so she started waking up early to cook but my Dad told her that she don’t have to do that and let’s just say my mom was ecstatic 😂 because she doesn’t like cooking like that anyway. So it sum it up for me that a man Will love you for who you are first and everything else you do is your appreciation of him without you having to break yourself up.
You shall know a tree by its fruit! God has prepared me to be a wife, and a great wife at that. My husband is just as great and God-fearing! Praise God.
Great advice. Women need to stop making men the center of attention...
Nothing wrong with being single, it is so freeing!
This video came right on time! I love how Tony makes it clear that in order to know if that person is the one, we must first go to God.
@cinamonnecharles295
10 ай бұрын
Amen.
“Be yourself” golden👌🏽
Basically a man expects perfection . 😂😂😂😂😂. Im over this b.s
@catcat9582
10 ай бұрын
They also will start saying you're too good for them or start becoming afraid of other men checking for you. You really can't win just do your absolute best for your own legacy and hopefully you get lucky and get married
A man commits once He is a Man of a God. That’s just the way it should be.
"Focusing on their strengths instead of strengthen their weaknesses!! Valid point bruh!
A woman can be everything that a man desire, smart, degrees, spiritual on fire for GOD, a great mom, a virtuous woman, a master chef in the kitchen cooking breakfast, lunch, dinner and dessert 🍰 great attitude and personality, a woman can have all the letters in the alphabet and a man still don't do right by her. What make a grown man commit is a man who want to commit, these days these men play possum sleep on great relationships and when it's too late the woman checked out. R Kelly when a woman's fed up. Commitment in relationships these days is suspect. Wait on God. Have a great day everyone.
He MIGHT be ready to commit after he finish sewing his wild oats and who knows how long that will be. I think he has to get it all out his system first.
@nicolerogers1310
2 ай бұрын
But who's gonna wait around 4 all that...then we might wait jus 2 turn around n get played!
Why are men prioritizing a woman’s body over who is good for his soul? If she gains weight during the marriage, will he value her less?
@sagba9473
10 ай бұрын
Working in family court I have heard men say that “yeah she got big as a house and let herself go” but women will claim it’s happy weight
Proverbs 18:22 "Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD" The wonan is the prize not the man. The Lord blesses a man with a wife not a woman with a husband. To add to that, there are lots of educated beautiful women with good jobs, etc etc whom choose to remain single until they meet the right man. It becomes a sigh of relief to be single knowing that the wrong mam could mean utter destruction.
Ladies, do you and stay single. Do not worry about what makes a man commit because, who cares what does. You are perfect as you are, do you all the way.
I’m surprised you didn’t say a man will commit if he feels at peace around the woman. They have more fun than arguing.
You kept this 1000 .. coming from a god fearing woman who grew up on a healthy 2 parent household that’s married for 30+ years. Thank you for sharing ❤
Everytime i get negative thoughts from the enemy or get insecure a new video of yours comes out to keep on going. GOD BLESS
"Be Yourself!!!" .....best dating/relationship advice ever. extra points if/when you got those 3 B's down! 💯
Tony is absolutely right & I love it when he humbly throws shade😂😂😂
Does these 3 Bs work for men too? As a man I truly resonate with your advice and wisdom Uncs. But whenever you mention the 3 Bs you always preface it with "women" even though i"m smart enough to understand it applies both ways ..OFCOURSE IT DOES! lol would still like to hear you say it with your words "and ya"ll men can follow this too" I"m sure other men feel the same way. We do know but we wanna hear it too. We wanna be on our purpose too and we wanna be acknowledged too💯we want life spoken into us too💯🙏
@phizzy123
10 ай бұрын
love this comment 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@qschronicles4985
10 ай бұрын
💯
@valenciachambers1982
10 ай бұрын
@justinray8107 well said
Hey Tony i appreciate your videos! Could you do a “What marriage is and what it *isn’t*” type video sometime? I love your angle & the way you come at the message!
@MsChristianr
10 ай бұрын
Yesss this is a great video idea. I desire marriage but I think it's the fantasy marriage I desire
Hi Tony, I’m sooooo glad you told the single men to SHUT UP, I’m tired of them giving advice never being married!! I’ve been married for 10 years, when a man wants to marry he will commit, we love you Tony God Bless 🙏🏿💗!!!
I think it’s a lot of good women still single because some of them are not the beauty standard of today…. And most if not all men are shallow ….🤷🏽♀️ so often she’s overlooked
When he wants to commit. Not a moment before. Simple as that he makes a choice.
Much blessings to you and your family .. Mr Tony.
Beautifully said from the heart!🙏🏽
Thank you for this message💖 Blessings
Great message!💯
Thank you, Tony! You have helped my life so much ❤
Thanks for this video, Tony ✨🤌🏽 Greatly appreciated.
❤❤❤ Thank You for your word of WISDOM 🙏
Thank you Mr. Gaskins for all your wisdom and insight. We appreciate it ❤️
Tony, May God Bless You and Your Family More Abundantly🙏🏽. Lord, I Give YOU ALL the Glory 🙌🏽. Tony, Thank You for answering "The Call" and sharing with us. I really appreciate your delivery and transparency. 💞🙏🏽
Thank you for your wise words, Tony. Your advice is important and impactful for all ages. ❤
Great message! Ty.❤
What makes a man commit? Nothing. Nothing at all! He chooses who he wants to commit to and that could be based on nothing at all. 🤷🏾♀️ Has nothing to do with looks, or having money or any of that other shallow BS he's talking about.
@TAJA330
10 ай бұрын
SAY IT AGAIN for the women in the back.
@la6136
10 ай бұрын
A lot of men will commit to the woman that just happens to be around them when they are finally ready to settle down.
@carolynmeadows422
10 ай бұрын
I agree with Tony Gaskins. He is telling the truth.
@carolynmeadows422
10 ай бұрын
Amen!
@TAJA330
10 ай бұрын
@@carolynmeadows422 he definitely has points but I wouldn’t tailor myself so much to “try” to make a man commit- either he wants to or he doesn’t
Thank you Tony for the word! Looking forward to the video on the 3 B’s! God bless! 🙌🏼
Absolutely!!!! God bless you 🎉🎉🎉
God bless you Tony! Thank you! 🙏🏽 for all of your teachings!
You’re so right! Be yourself! God Bless you Tony and your beautiful wife🙏🏽
Thank you, Tony for the wise advice! I’ve been watching your videos for years and I appreciate your insight!
Thanks! I apprecicate your honesty. Thanks
I find your posts to be so valuable. Thank you ❤
Tony, you are amazing! I send your videos to a lot of my good girlfriends because all of us don’t have this advice in the home or from anybody that we know. You just kind of let me know that I’m on the right path and little things I can fix which I really appreciate. The 3 B’s are very important and I’m glad I’m doing them. Thank you again 🙏🏽🩵
phenomenal video, THANK YOU & God bless you!!
Thank you. Wow, love herself and be the best she can be 🦋
Thank you Tony, for ALWAYS teaching and enlightening us! I totally agree with the marriage stance. I feel it's said and used too often. Yes, it can be desired but the key is are we "marriage ready". And, I'm so glad, I desire marriage but not in a rush! I definitely have my 3 B's and will continue to implement them daily throughout my life's journey. God bless and thank you again for this video!
I love this thank you 🙏🏾
Thank you for being so real and honest! But you are so funny
@NadiaRamirez888
10 ай бұрын
Yes the spaghetti and crab salad took me out!!! Much respect to Mama Gaskins!!!
I’m so thankful for Tony Gaskins. I’ve been watching his video for 3 years. He gives great advice.
Big respect brother
I feel like I'm talking to my older brother who's giving me a serious talk about commitment. Thank you so much, Tony for your wisdom. Definitely I'm taking notes of your words in your videos. I finally understood a lot of them. Time to srart with myself first. God bless you! 🤗
Thank you, for sharing your wisom. God Bless🙏🏽🕊
Just here to see if i qualify as a walking red flag 😂
A good woman sent by God...if he is looking for her!
Thank you for sharing. The stories of what your mother would cook reminds me of how my mother was🥹🕊️🥰good memories
You are absolutely correct Tony! I’m 50 and single and I am in utterly shocked about this. 😆😆😆 I had people tell me that I was too nice on several occasions and the other thing is I will admit this, but there was a time that I really did believe in myself and I was very insecure and if you don’t feel good about yourself, he’s not going to feel like you’re a great choice either There was a lot that I learned because of my insecurity and I thank God that I bust out of those feelings about myself. Also, I will say this about myself as well. I have ADHD, and sometimes because of that he can feel like I don’t listen to a him and that’s very important to give a man you ear. The other negative was I was not saying anything about my ADHD or dysgraphia! I was embarrassed and this was going on for and now I tell them about my disability. That’s a big deal. I just recently really started picking up a lot of weight in the past two years so now I am doing something about it because I just don’t want to be a person to just got a pretty face and a personality, I want the body to match too.
Praise to God! God bless Tony, its in God's hands
That was perfectly spoken. Thank you.
Thank you so much for this advice I was just wondering about this. You definitely covered a lot of what I needed to hear. I feel like I have confirmation ☺️
I love this massage, thx to the almighty for coming across this channel 🎉
Thank You 💙💜!
Thank you for this message there’s so much some men expect and then when u do it they still aren’t pleased or commit or reciprocate back to woman it’s basically like Slave love…being authentic is number 1
Great video! Thanks for being transparent
This video came right on time. I needed this
Thank you Mr Gasket for being real with your advice and sharing your life with years of experience as a husband and having the knowledge of God to help that's the key
Wow Tony you are intelligent and have great wisdom. Your mindset is powerful and continual to be a blessing and share your testimony God be the Glory!
Yes thank you. I am share this video with my friends because I said this before with my friends don't be cooking and cleaning just to show a man you this perfect lady.
Thank you. I am glad I came across this podcast. I have two sons, and they tell me that it's hard to find a woman now a days that they love the Lord but want to live with things of the world
I HEAR YA TONY ON HUSBANDS NEED TO BE MORE COUNSELORS OUT HERE SHARING BUT THEY DONT WANNA SPEAK 🙊 UP LIKE U ARE ...THANK GOD FOR U AND YOUR WORK HERE AND TREMENDOUS 💖 THX 2! MANY BLESSINGS ON YOUR AND YOUR QUEEN. .I LOVE 💕🥳🥳 U BOTH😍😍
So I met this guy yesterday and I enjoy his conversation. We are going on a date once I get back home ( I’m a flight attendant ) and I’ve been watching all your videos and I’m so glad I’ve come across them because now I know how to respond this go round! I wish my father was around to give me all these pointers! But I thank God for you! Thank you! Even if it doesn’t work out with this guy. I’ll know for next time!
Ameen thank you been doing this my daddy told me the same thing been doing this typing up my novel and started my KZread and fallen in love with manafiesting returned back to modeling professionally working out praying also saving myself for marriage all over again made it going on 5 years. I don't even want any man to kiss me unless his my husband
This is very helpful. Thank you!
As always, a pleasure to listen to because it gives me back hope when I start losing it again. On a side note, what I appreciate the most is the consistency of your message. It never sways, tries to convince or persuade. It just is. Consistent.
Thankyou! Great!
Glad I’m learning this now❤
Thanks Tony ❤️🔥 Enjoyed this video. It was right on time. You have a new subscriber.
You’re the best Tony. Thank you for all the wisdom you share with us. It is a blessing and Kingdom work, forreal! Grace and peace in abundance to you, your wife and beautiful family.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
If only all men can think like you, with MORALITY and respect for themselves. GOD will surely Bless men like you with Good women. MAY GOD continue. Blessing you with Wisdom, Strength, Courage, peace, and Love.
@ms.forever9282 1 second ago I personally look up to you, MR. KING- CONSCIOUSLY AWARE UPSTANDING GENTLEMAN, Tony Gaskins! You're truly a PROVEN and ORDAINED PERFECTLY IMPERFECT LIVING LEGEND in its best form! You're a needle in the haystack! There are only a few good faithful better/best-changed -working progress men like you in this crazy world. God blesses you and your family more outpouring good things -infinite fold! Thank you for your godly wisdom, genuine transparent concern, presence, and commitment to serve the Lord as His super amazing, very dynamic, functional effective tool in the hands of His Holy Spirit to reshape the eternal destiny of others by warning and therefore waring and saving "us" from calamities by touching our lives with your impactful agreeable and acceptable influence and life-changing energy. Long live, Mr. Tony Gaskins!
Thank You for those 3 B's Tony. 😊❤
Mr. Gaskins I had to replay the very kindly way you told single people to ShutTtt UPppp lmbo🤣
Talk about Fresh & Fit getting demonitized
Honest and genuine! I’d love to talk to you with spiritual trouble I have.
Thank you Sir