At 54.00 the psychologist is right in a way by saying "I don't think you can imagine what you can then actually go ahead and feel". Ask anyone who has not yet experienced grief to imagine it. A lot of people are probably slightly blase about how it would feel. But once it strikes it's a very different story.

Yes but the opposite is often true: when u imagine the situation (of a grief by example) the image you've created of it gives you a base on which you'll experience the real situation. I'm sure you know what i'm talking about. By the way, thank you very much philoctetesctr for every uplaoded videos! (please excuse my english...)