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@sonyabladewins1881

5 ай бұрын

If I ever get the opportunity to meet you in person, I'll be honoured!

@shrilekha75

3 ай бұрын

Who is the interviewer?

How To Be more feminine : 1- Start accepting, recieving. 2- Comunicating our needs. Speaking Up. 3- Choising a partner who wants the same Life objectifs (starting a family or not …etc)

@isabellezionchipochaishe7103

10 ай бұрын

2. is Nurturing and 3 is Boundaries. Communicating our needs was an answer to what mistakes do you think most women make

@draftcomment2comment232

9 ай бұрын

difficult to receive when uve had to sleep with someone twice against your will because you were charged with being the house-sitter, without being asked, so thought it your duty to protect the family furniture, fittings etc, but then suffered awful social degradation, including from same ppl who volunteered you to be surrogate parent and 'sitter', and psychological pain, as a result.

@frusia123

9 ай бұрын

@@draftcomment2comment232 Sleeping with someone against your will has nothing to do with receiving. It's called rape, and it's a crime. It's absolutely normal to feel psychological pain after such an experience, I hope you can find help, and if possible, report the offender to the police.

@therealkoolaidandkale

9 ай бұрын

​@draftcomment2comment232 In the most kind way, I hope that you consider talking to the police and a therapist (if you're not already) vs the internet. Someone forcing you to sleep with them against your will is a crime, and there's not much that we here in the internet comments can do. All the best to you and your healing. 💛🙏🏾

@Jblah

8 ай бұрын

Thats not being feminine. Those things are common sense regardless of gender. Being feminine is the opposite of being masculine. But a woman that knows how to kick ass can still be very much feminine.

1. Start receiving 2. Be nurturing 3. Boundaries

@lwendobanda2986

8 ай бұрын

I have always thought nurturing is a masculine😮

@luciannypacherres357

7 ай бұрын

@@lwendobanda2986provide n nurtured are 2 different things

@pepepo4432

Ай бұрын

@@lwendobanda2986 You're right. Nurturing and boundaries are both masculine :)

@Himmiefan

18 күн бұрын

@@pepepo4432 Feminine too.

I love it how she is beautifull and intelligent, but doesn't act arrogant en still comes off as very humble giving great advice.

@AmyMohamed355

9 ай бұрын

It’s all a act and I see through it

@helenadiontv8525

8 ай бұрын

​@@AmyMohamed355Maybe,you can act better!!!

@bibinek9950

7 ай бұрын

​@@AmyMohamed355exactly

@mhuntprofessional

4 ай бұрын

In some other interviews she has actually openly admitted she has self-confidence issues and is frequently self-deprecating to sort of pre-emptively appease an expected aggression she has experienced most of her professional life. Which to me is quite heart-breaking because she is very intelligent and well spoken. But apparently in her field if you are those things but ALSO choose to express yourself in an attractive and ladylike way, everyone just automatically assumes you're a bimbo or a slut or whatever. And would frequently treat her very disrespectfully. So she developed mechanisms to work around that and make herself more likeable, but I think it came at the cost of some pretty deep internal self esteem. She's not faking being nice. She's faking NOT being insecure. And thats a sad thing for anyone to have to do. And worse when there's literally NOTHING for her to be insecure about but she still feels that way because of years of abusive treatment...

@user-yl1ko7sg6t

3 ай бұрын

She is pro sharia law and its beautiful . She is perfect marriage material . Longevity for sure

I understand on the surviving mode, and being tired. I was with a feminine man before, and he doesn’t like to make decisions and take the lead. I ended up leading on everything. In the end, I got exhausted, and we broke up. Being with a masculine partner now, and I let him lead (He is happy to lead), and I am so peaceful and happy. When I don’t have to think of our next step all the time, I have sometime to think about the next step for myself. ❤️

I like Sadia because she mentions that she has made the same mistakes too. She is relatable and not pretending she gets it right all the time herself ❤

@complexfellow4961

Ай бұрын

Sadia truly keeps it 100% real . 👏🏽

Yes, at my workplace, people say.. I am too good,too, carrying to kind,too nice.., I can hear people think I am weak because of this....I can't change, and I won't ......maybe I just have to have more boundaries...

Yeap, people have attacked my femininity too and so that's when I realized my femininity is a gift but being kind to others is free

@amyj.4992

9 ай бұрын

Party girl looking for "love"

I have both energy ,I am brutally feminine soft woman ,I can go from one extreme to another in a second! I know my power ! Depends on the situation and work I’m doing

@123smarties

7 ай бұрын

@Silvanasilva-oy1mj brutal and feminine don't even belong in the same sentence.

@shanamohanty2253

6 ай бұрын

Den u r a bi

@nanonano.beepbeep

5 ай бұрын

​@123smarties Have you ever seen a bear protecting her cub? Now, if the Bible warns you that there is no comparison between said bear and a woman scorned, why would feminine and brutal not belong in the same sentence? I can be feminine and still handle myself with grace and hands.

@Ivan_is_still_alive_trust_me

5 ай бұрын

​@@123smartiesI'm sorry, but in life, a woman's gotta be extreme at times. If she's just soft and feminine in specific situations, lifes gonna eat her up

Love your encouragment to hold true for what you need and your value. So many people sacrifice and drop their standards because they feel starved of love. Keep reinforcing your own self worth and your own self love and don't accept crumbs !! xx

I love Sadia! I’m a teacher too, but sadly even when I was in middle school I saw so many girls talk like men(curse) and physically fight with other females. Femininity is not weakness ❤

@TheQueenIsWithin

9 ай бұрын

Femininity is a social construct. Even in nature females fight each other. To say women shouldn't curse or fight just because of biology is foolish. Women have feelings and we're not perfect. I think it's unfair males get to make mistakes and we brand it as boys will be boys, but we act as if girls have to be perfect all the time. Then considering how hard men have made this society not showing assertiveness will place you at a disadvantage. In some cases what femininity has been packaged as has put women at a disadvantage and in some very dangerous situations too.

@denisesmith8657

9 ай бұрын

You’re right, “femininity is not a weakness”, but society thinks it is. Consider the phrase, “don’t be a p*ssy!” that a lot men use against each other-since that word is used to name a part of the female anatomy, I think that translates to don’t be a female/weak/woman.

@Bbytelle

7 ай бұрын

She condones domestic violence. Be careful who you take advice from

@caseylynn5976

7 ай бұрын

​@@Bbytellewhat do you mean? When/where did she condone DV?

@nosponge1

7 ай бұрын

She supports Hamas and won't condemn beheading babies and burning children alive.

Sadia you seem to be such a beautiful human being, inside and out. Thank you for making this content and for making an emphasis about the importance of bridging the gap between men and women. Much love

Thank you for adding such high value to what a woman/lady should be like.👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

If your man is a narcissist, telling him your needs he will us them against you. I always told my ex, but he would exploit it and cause me pain. This tip of communicating a need works with a normal man.

So glad to hear your voice in this world.

Wow u definitely good Sadia beta. I am a grandmother and our generation was definitely very different from todays. We were patient loving caring and very considerate and made life changing compromises!!! ❤

I once saw a quote on FB. It said "Women are not here to do what men can do, we are here to do what men can't do." I thought that was interesting. It seems the concepts of masculinity and femininity have both become very twisted and tied up into a Gordian knot in our culture. It has become very difficult to unravel. This could become a very long post but I will try and be concise. Somewhere along the line women were brainwashed into thinking that nurturing was analogous to being subservient or servile which was somehow seen as "less than." Of course there are many things that men and women can BOTH do, but I think the point of the quote was thought provoking. Men have really been painted into a corner too. Many of the inherently masculine characteristics are now being termed "toxic." Certainly the negative interpretations of this may be true, particularly for men themselves. If you haven't read it, I recommend The Hazards of Being Male. The positive manifestations of masculinity and femininity both should be embraced, encouraged and celebrated. I think the beginning of the problem started with the assumption of gender roles being the ONLY choice for men and women and that they had to be very rigid and were used to force people into molds that were not natural to them but were promoted as being the only acceptable societal choice. Many people are quite happy in embracing traditional gender roles as delineated in Western society. Not everyone is, and we all need to find (or make) our own place in the world. When certain psychological characteristics were determined to be masculine or feminine, it caused a divide. We all have both kinds of characteristics to a greater or lesser degree. I am pretty much a tomboy but loving and nurturing people and animals comes very naturally to me and I embrace it as the best part of myself. I became a caregiver, nursing assistant and mental health therapy tech. I love the part about anticipating needs - very important in both personal and business relationships. Customers like to feel nurtured and cared for too. One comment on the pleasure part mentioned in this video. Pleasure is not the same as happiness. Dr.Robert Lustig's Pleasure vs Happiness videos are wonderful and say it much better than I can- long versions and short versions both available on KZread.

@janelysantiago3201

5 ай бұрын

Excellent

@Himmiefan

18 күн бұрын

I think conservative religion, any conservative religion, has played a big part in making the roles very rigid with women on the losing end. As for masculine traits, those labeled toxic are the ones that insecure, emotionally troubled, or narcissistic men use such as being domineering and putting down women and wanting to control them.

Femininity has has been a topic of interest and discussion for the past 10 years or so.Many useful guidance out there.

Thank you Sadie! So enjoy your grounded sound wisdom!!!🙏💕✨🥰

Woww I like the last line"what comes quickly, goes quickly" very right....Good and genuine things takes time to build....✌

For me, receiving and speaking up have been transformative steps on my path to true femininity. It's like a sacred dance of self-discovery. 💖

Thank you fellow feminine goddess for the beautiful reminder ✨🤍✨🦋💫🤍✨

The advice to stay true to who you are and what you desire 🥰

Thank you so much for your contribution for all of us ❤

She is spot on. From start to finish. I could identify with so much of what she said. The real HVW❤

Thank you I real needed to hear this ❤

Fantastic! Thank you for sharing your wisdom. X

Receive, Nurture, Boundaries ❤❤❤

My wife is the wholesome type. I love her. I live far away from Dubai.

There is something unique about Sadia when she speaks. It feels like she is the peoples emotions. She is able to articulate exactly what our needs and emotions try to tell us.

@Bbytelle

7 ай бұрын

No she’s not. She told me I should be hit harder. She is not the peoples emotions. She has no credentials. She publicly condoned domestic violence in her very public comments

She is who a real high value woman is! Ladies learn from the best, Sadia….

@SaraCaspian

10 ай бұрын

Please stop telling women what to do.

@alinan4320

9 ай бұрын

@@SaraCaspianamen

@the8thchurch461

9 ай бұрын

As long as you know that like everyone else, you are entitled to your opinion.....

@frusia123

9 ай бұрын

What you really meant was this: "I would love to date a woman like her". And that's great. It's normal and healthy. What's not normal and not healthy is telling half of the population of the world that they should try and imitate a woman you fancy.

@msstar7415

9 ай бұрын

@sara Please stop telling other women what they can and cannot say.

She’s amazing. So eloquently spoken

What a pleasure for my mind to listen to Sadia! ❤❤❤

I needed this as a young girl becoming more feminine 🤍🤍 Thank you so much ☺️

thank you sadia❤ learnt a lot from ya

Thanks for sharing the truth, will pass this on, stay blessed and keep shining! Let's go! 👩‍👩‍👧‍👦👩‍👩‍👧‍👦👩‍👩‍👧‍👦👩‍👩‍👧‍👦👩‍👩‍👧‍👦👩‍👩‍👧‍👦

I’ve been listening to her since forever! She is amazing!

I aspire to keep my calm and cool like Sadia around difficult and controversial ppl! Love you mamas!!

Everyone needs to watch this. She has nailed.❤

You're in perfect alignment with Nature!❤❤❤

I love listening to her , so so wise and real and beautiful ❤

As I raised myself and become a strong woman, i forgot to be feminine. And it has a huge impact to my relationships. I didnt realized that until I listened to podcasts about how to be feminine. And it is for us ourselves as a woman, not actually for others/ partners.

@user-mj6qr2ky9d

7 ай бұрын

Uh so what are u doing about it?

@dwanjiku15

4 ай бұрын

Am in this too. Some men think am a strong woman. Circumstances have taught me to up my game coz am the captain of my own ship

ما شاء الله عليك ❤ بالصحة و الراحة

I needed to hear this❤

Not so much codependency as interdependence. Agree with this perspective. It took a lot of life to learn and relax into this.

I love being feminine 💐✨

@OmolemoKhara

9 ай бұрын

Saaaaaaaaaaammmme

I'm really glad I stumbled upon thus video.

And what about men who reject all of these traits- they dont want to give so you can’t receive , they dont want you to be helpless so you have to help yourself, and they dont even want you to cook or clean because they can do it themselves. A lot of men are setting up women to be more masculine because they are rejecting traditional responsibility over their partner and dont want the stress. We blame female empowerment but there’s a lot of disempowerment from men

@ankitasingh9603

10 ай бұрын

Leave those men and find the one who provides and protects !! Trust that men like this exist and you just need to level up while choosing !!

@uroojnafees3436

10 ай бұрын

Find a real men

@minervarose7664

9 ай бұрын

Why would you want to be with a man who wants you to be helpless?

@happilydivorced3235

9 ай бұрын

@@minervarose7664Good question. It’s sounds like she had a man who believes in equality and didn’t know what to do with him.

@minervarose7664

9 ай бұрын

@@happilydivorced3235 i know, such a weird thing for a man to want. And i can't believe that there are people who would actually NOT want an adult man who can fend for themselves, instead actively seek out a man-child 😂😂

That last part!!! It’s lonely, it’s hard, but I’m staying the course

I strive to be a traditional woman. I want to be confident and secure in myself enough to just receive like how you are saying. I always feel like a burden and am predominantly unable to receive from others. I'm terrified of hipotheticly, let's say someone I love feeling like I just want to use them. Guys, offer me help all the time, but I fight it. I think it has hurt their feelings. I'm going to try to be more open tword help. It's one of the most difficult things for me. I don't think it's hard because of my pride, I think it's difficult because I'm scared. It's so confusing.

This was helpful thanks

This was very helpful thank you ❤

Femininity, to me, is stepping into the fullest expression of yourself. That's subjective. ❤ I think there's some confusion among others as we embrace our natural self and identities because from the outside, it may seem more masculine for some. For me, I'm hyper feminine. For others, their truest self may not.

Communication is key for all relationships to last.. don't expect everyone or anybody to know whats on your mind. It builds you your needs boundaries your worth.

Not co-dependency, but inter-dependency.

@happilydivorced3235

9 ай бұрын

I got that too. Co-dependency is a toxic trait.

@sugarsnap1000

8 ай бұрын

@@happilydivorced3235codependency isn’t toxic, but is labeled as such in todays world and since the 60/s 70/s. This label is now assigned to people who are together but don’t want to be and who don’t understand their role in a relationship.

Lovely I really enjoyed your advice dayly I'm loving it ❤❤❤❤❤

Thank you for saying Inshallah at the end :)

Pay attention to your childhood time, since everything stems from that time. If you were made feel guilty if you can't do something or you are not willing since it doesn't make sense for you, you will have problems with setting boundaries later. If you were rejected or unheard you will have problems with asking for help. Boundaries and help is what I learn now

Thank you for sharing your knowledge ❤😊 may Allah bless you more and more

@HafsaBintuAishaRA

10 ай бұрын

Is she muslim?

Is it just me or does justpearlythings seem so masculine compared to Sadia?

@kenziecolby8848

8 ай бұрын

100%

@Kosiso-by1mc

6 ай бұрын

I think they're both feminine, maybe just in their unique ways :)

@meghnachakravarty1580

6 ай бұрын

@@Kosiso-by1mcpearl ain’t feminine

@barbaramontagner

6 ай бұрын

Pearl looks a bit like a man

@mariewestley4673

6 ай бұрын

I agree. Well I agree with some of the energy that comes from the likes of just pearly, it comes off as being rather misogynistic compared to this energy.

Amazing. I wish more women would listen to videos like this and learn

@Prodigychild1977

10 ай бұрын

Good luck with that one 😅

@dreday77764

10 ай бұрын

They’re all damaged. Too late

@natashadickson4819

10 ай бұрын

​@@dreday77764 Who damaged women? 😂

@dreday77764

10 ай бұрын

@natashadickson4819 they did themselves due to poor decision’s. Accountability 101

@thatsunfortunate2771

9 ай бұрын

I wish more men went off to war and never came back

Agree! Sadia is beautiful inside out❤

Instant subscriber 🙏🏽❤

🎉Thank Q for The Polishing and Comfort, The World Needs U🎉😊

So gorgeous and modest which makes her an even rarer jewel🌹

I needed this

Something I struggle with in my femininity is being assertive. I tend to try to keep it classy and not stoop to someones level but I find that after the fact I feel frustrated because it feels like in a way I've allowed someone to step on my character and demean my power. How do you manage to remain graceful but also enforce boundaries?

Sadia, I love your advice and videos. Who out there has similar videos for men?? I’m asking out of concern for a friend

This is the why people are stuck in illusions. Energy is energy and we are whom we are. Even when we are female to be balanced means we also have masculine energy for we came from male and female. In different experiences and times we draw more so on other energies than others and other times we become more of one than the other but we are both. We don’t need to be taught what is “feminine” by society’s ideals nor another person, for we are all unique. Be you, by whom you were meant to be, not whom others tell you or want to box you in as.

She is 100% correct in everything she says.

Sadia is beautiful, intelligent and a wonderful psychologist.

Finally.... someon spoke I totally agree with you

Initiating is creating for yourself . It's self.satisfying. Waiting for others to give to you is a position of vulnerability and disempowerment

FFS who needs advice on how to be feminine? For centuries women have been told what to do and how to be, mainly to fit the expectations of the more dominant part of society. I want to have the right to be me. Whether you like it or not, whether you find it sexually appealing or not. It's not my problem, because I don't exist to please you.

Masculine energy is giving and feminine energy is receiving. Unfortunately, a lot of women, myself included were/are stuck on the idea we need to learn how to do it all so we do not rely on a man. It is then taken to the extreme and makes you impenetrable when a man tries to give. We are human beings and human connection is crucial for us to thrive so let's stop pushing either other way and live in a better balance of masculine and feminine energy. :)

I've been in survival mode for the last fifteen years kmt. It's how I've guarded my heart. Love listening to Sadia.

We are all unique and what may work for one person may be destructive for another person. Balance is the key. And be aware of codependency.

Sadia you are so smart, beautiful and amazing

I love this .

I learned alot People are actually replacing peace with pleasure

Did she give an example of how to communicate needs without sounding needy or critical? Men tend to not like being criticized and do the opposite of what told.

@user-zi3vy3nq3r

9 ай бұрын

Instead of “You never get me flowers” say “Babe I love flowers, I would love to receive some soon” hope that helps (i always communicate my needs and desires using “I” sentences)

@wyleecoyotee4252

3 ай бұрын

​@@user-zi3vy3nq3r She should just get her own flowers

@MariahMinny

Күн бұрын

@@user-zi3vy3nq3r❤❤❤yesss I changed this phrase with my guy too and it’s more respectful

Fighting with this everyday I just want to love n be loved rightfully

Spoken like a true feminine!

I agree with her so much. I love being feminine. I have never agreed with society telling women so many things I don’t agree with. And I feel like I am very happy with that and see a lot of friends trying to fight against this belief that are not happy at all. So true love this woman. I hope a lot more listen to this. Happy Thursday everyone 🥰💃

so to be feminine i gotta accept but when i do that im a gold digger and the reading minds things…. she literally just said being nurturing is knowing what someone needs before they tell me, (ie. without someone communicating to me whatever they need), so of course as women we expect our partner to know what we need without us having to say it… if we have to figure it out for men why shouldn’t or can’t they figure it out for us?

Your narrative is intricate; akin to a book that was intricate and compelling. "Your Body Your Temple" by Various Authors

But why is she single if she has such great advice? Then it is very hard for her to find her soulmate just as she describes by the end? About not compromising?

The "prediction" thing (2:50) can also be a programm from childhood - People pleasing or also called fawning. If you do that to the wrong men (narcissists or emotionally crippled/unavailable men) it will make you feel lonely and sad. Not everyone deserves loving gestures and attention- thats where girls and women need healthy mentorship and maybe even trauma therapy.

Well said! 👏

Thank you ❤

Thank you!Your views are very insightful.

"unfortunately we are replacing peace with pleasure"

Spot on sadia on dating in Dubai. 😃❤🙏🌿

But men here in the west don't like to offer much and are more inclined to 50-50% in everything. Even my brothers are trying to transform me in a man(i have 3). When I asked the one that I'm closer to, to spend more often some time together, he told me that once a month if even that it's possible, it's enough, "as we are grown ups and not children anymore". When i had an abusive encounter with someone and i cried about to one of my brothers, he told me to tough in up and to not get so easily scared. and so many other examples. So i always struggled to ask for help, and anything related to a need of mine including the emotional ones, because that's making me feel needy and a burden. Confused about accepting the idea that men need our feminity or which parts of it??

@ST-yc7uj

8 ай бұрын

You need to find a husband to protect you.

That is really for me.

I grow up like her thinking that’s how all women were .

I totally understand some of these concepts. However in today's world whenever women live by these ways, it's seen as being needy, people judge you because you set boundaries and communication has become an issue.

This is true what’s she’s saying but it’s only the surface level understanding of feminine energy The much deeper aspects of feminine energy refers to ‘divine’ feminine energy which is ‘respect me or be destroyed’ She is both birth and death. This is often not spoken about, only with people like Teal Swan who really understands this, and it’s created a misconception that being feminine means to be softly spoken and nurturing regardless of whether a man is disrespectful, taking advantage etc. No. the true feminine woman is soft nurturing etc but she also doesn’t take any BS and takes a stand for herself.

@happilydivorced3235

9 ай бұрын

I love this. Most people don’t understand that feminine energy exists in all of us, men and women.

@wattcoaching6263

9 ай бұрын

I have studied a lot as I teach this :)@@happilydivorced3235

@AayraAgrawal

8 ай бұрын

Please elaborate more. I want to know more about this. What you are referring here .. looks like u r talking about me but slightly get a tiny doubt after watching lots if these kind of videos on social media where they say just be in receive mode, soft-spoken don't loud ur voice even if for standing for right and just depend on someone se. Being strong , independent, standing for herself when needed and for others, kind, soft spoken otherwise, setting boundaries only if someone cross thay boundary open up for him only and don't want to show ur vulnerable helplessness state to others no matter what just open up in front of closed one with whom I feel comfortable (only when needed)..Are these make me less feminine? Make me less attractive for my Men ? Would be great ful if u reply me. ❤️

I wish I had heard Sadia in my early 20s

Thank you!