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@SoyJo2024

5 ай бұрын

Sadia when are the planners that you’re selling online going to arrive? There’s no way to contact you through email nor social media. There’s no way to know if the product we’ve purchased on your page is actually real.

@muzahirk

5 ай бұрын

@@SoyJo2024 I received mine on Saturday. You should receive a dispatch email with tracking information. I ordered mine when she allowed us to purchase them. It will definitely get to you, just give it time due to the holidays disrupting most services

@digital_intel

5 ай бұрын

With all due respect, the guy in this video has grown into a brat with big words.

@clarevela8181

5 ай бұрын

@sadiapsychology you are a QUEEN MAMAS!!! Keep being bold and spreading the Truth!! Love you so much ❤

@Olans_669william

5 ай бұрын

Lucky Guy! What ever who it is

There will always be someone with more money than you so that’s a game you’re never going to win. Lead with your intellect, humor, personality, game. That’s irreplaceable 💯

@lovesrebrenica

5 ай бұрын

Really, how if there are guys who are more intellect than you, more humor than you, still you are replacable.

@SabrinaDacosta

5 ай бұрын

Lmfaooo to win and I do not think you are replaceable!!

@NHatemN

4 ай бұрын

All the attributes you mentioned can be measured and valued either by quantity or quality just like money. And if you lost some of the value you can get replaced.

@mrshinrillaify

4 ай бұрын

Yes, lead with one's individuality. It's the best way, because it's authentic.. its natural. 💯

@LindaQueLeenda

4 ай бұрын

I had no idea so many women married men for money until i moved to LA and saw all these young girls with old rich men. I was shocked lol

I love the way Tom as an interviewer asks thoughtful questions and how Sadia breaks the answers down in a way that's so simple and easy for anyone to understand, take in, and be positively impacted.

I noticed that since I've gone within, meditate and and am more spiritual I want to associate with people of value that I respect within! I'm also no longer attracted to social media and believe in the old fashion way of meeting, in person and in faith. ❤

@sandychandra3222

4 ай бұрын

Totally agree I do the same meditation and yoga I’m in such a better place in my life

The social media has corrupted the definition of "High Value Man or woman". Thank you for trying to redefine it ❤ ( Not to mention the fact that you are crossing a lot of boundaries as a Muslim woman)

@celeste3100

5 ай бұрын

We should be going after people with good values. This is why I don’t have social media other than YT.

Respect Sadia for coming from urban family with retaining traditional values and religious principles. Fresh perspective on Dubai bubbles and prestige

"in a world where women become like a deity because of their beauty". Sadia, you're out of this world.

@ivankrizanac3513

4 ай бұрын

That's why she's popular she's just spilling nonsense for you poor souls

@Melinamiu007

3 ай бұрын

@@ivankrizanac3513don’t get mad bc she’s exposing your worship of the beauty

@ivankrizanac3513

3 ай бұрын

@@Melinamiu007 i worship Jesus Christ only

Sadia is one of the best spoken women on the Internet.

@byronryan4216

4 ай бұрын

🥹

Artificial, relationship and fake people. Total truth. It's too late for many.

I definitely agree with Sadie’s perspective and understanding why she says what she says; where as the American culture will not see it through the same lease as her. Asian cultures, values, and beliefs in love and marriage is very different perspective than westerners. It’s difficult for westerners to understand & accept Sadie’s point of view. My upbringing is very similar to Sadie’s & I completely understand her perspective & why she believes it’s best for her. I’m Asian raised in the US & my environment is mostly whites, but somehow gravitate towards more of traditional Asian side within the family structures & marriage.

I love Sadia! You are so brilliant and worth emulating. I love that your insights are based upon the Fear of the Lord. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. I see so much wisdom in your teachings. Keep going!

Arranged marriages have such a low divorce rate, NOT because they don't have problems, but because people cannot get divorced easily in these cultures. Every single arranged marriage in my Indian family has problems, yet they stay married due to social cultural, and family pressures. This is Terrible! About time someone spoke this truth.

Glue to a successful relationship is knowledge and understanding of one another, not Love.

@normanfl6592

4 ай бұрын

Absolutely!👍

He'd better put a ring on this committed thing fast.......such a gem!

This is so insightful, I think having some form of codes stemming from something (religion or something else) and weighing things up helps you stay level headed.

Sadia, this is your best interview ever! Thank you!!!!

I think what was trying to come across was not to look at it as “limiting your options”, but rather “choosing one option, and leaving the others”.

Great interview, Thank you, I loved the questions and answers!

yes. #1 video with sadia!!! great job you both, lovely questions & discussion.

Oh totally agree on learning to reject. It’s for your own protection!

I love your advice, Sadia. I totally agree ❤

great video, i wish there is more data, we men need more logical and data to make decisions but even without data, I can see how background is so important on relationship

This is every thing I needed to hear today.

Hi Sadia , wish you a merry Christmas and God may bless you in every way.. may all your work be fruitful and happiness be always with you.. thank you for being a really nice human being.. take care.. Jesus bless..

@sadiapsychology

5 ай бұрын

Happy holidays!

The purpose of a relationship is to give to the other person with no strings attached. Expecting things in return every time we give makes it transactional. Business is transactional: give money for certain goods, products, and/or services in return. Giving freely is vulnerable, but in essence love is freeing and hoping the best for the other person regardless of the outcome.

@ebbyc1817

4 ай бұрын

The problem is, how do we establish a non-transactional relationship on a transactional basis. How do you start with an app, that's essentially a supermarket, and turn that into something where you are giving for nothing, even dating in itself, showing up for dates, is largely transactional, if the person doesn't meet your expectations, you don't set up another date, you don't think to yourself, well I'll just keep seeing this person because they're nice, you assess them by how much they measured up to your expectations on each date, you're expecting something every single time you see them. How do we turn that into love, actual real love.

LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS!

Thanks guys for a very good interesting video!

I like that Sadia brings Eastern concepts like arrange marriage, no premarital sex, non-monogamy rich men with multiple wives etc to discussions on online platforms. I think it will help people from both sides, East and West, to be more open minded and understand each other cultures better which hopefully will lead to more thriving, not degrading, cultures.

Sadia, congratulation for 500k subscribers. Only within 1 year🎉.

@sadiapsychology

5 ай бұрын

In 6 months 🙏❤️thanks to you guys

@carolinbeier4950

5 ай бұрын

@@sadiapsychology well deserved with your mind and content!

Absolutely stunning, world class😊

Sadia is correct on many things, if I were to add anything, on the "bad women (gold diggers) are attracted to the wealth a man has, and the man is replaceable" until she hits "the wall", I'd make the distinguishment that good women are attracted to the man's ability to create wealth among other things and also contribute to him creating wealth. Also, you see cases of young hot women are attracted to the bad boy/starving artists type even tho they are poor because she sees that he's got swag and confidence/potential so she's attracted to the potential rockstar that he will become. That's something that evolutionary biologist Gad Saad had concluded. Since most women don't want to bet on the wrong guy when they are young and waste their best years, it's much safer for them to wait at the finish line so it is a guarantee. By then, those successful men tends to be older, like 40/50's nowadays because unless they are a young celeb/media influencer, it takes men a while to accomplish and establish themselves. Getting those successful confident 20 year old dudes to settle is near impossible.

Excellent interview. 🙏

Excellent conversation, Tom is super pro

I agree with most of her points yet We should be cautious of one size fits all.

Excellent points

I have always understood the logic behind why Arranged Marriages 💞💞💞 could be a Success but overtime i lost my interest cause i have noticed myself drifting from my societal norms that i can no longer stand it 😔😔😔but i still believe its good for those who still have a Traditional Family values 🥰🥰🥰

Very good convo

Great video

You inspire me ❤

If it takes money to get her, you are replaceable! So good 🙌🏻

I’d like to hear her thoughts on Anna Bey. She tells her followers that women should be dating different men. Not sleeping but dating to see who would be best in the end.

We are all replaceable, men and women. Nothing is guaranteed to last.

The glue is the duty to each others well being!!

Great Content

Osiyo much ❤❤❤❤ to Ms.sadia but I don't think this is a religion thing but a common sense thing because I agree with these things but I'm not religious person but remember in this society having sense isn't common ❤❤❤❤❤ Wydo. big hey to all Islam

There's different forms of arranged marriages. For example, sometimes the families will just introduce the guy and the girl, and they will only get married if they both get along and both agree. Maintaining both autonomy and values.

You are 80% right but I found the way (impossible for 95-99% of population). At the beginning- TURN OFF(!!!) social media and cut all contacts coming from tik-tok and another shit or "go away". End of negotiations; You dont like it? Ok- Ciao ;) Love is the glue but Its more complicated than you see ;)

Thank you, there is audio now

@joehernandez6260

5 ай бұрын

Voice be heard ❤

I feel like those elements haven't really cultured the people( of overexposure ), I think it is more so of revealing what already has developed. And the point and or purpose of a relationship to me is to bring out the things already inside you.

This woman is indeed a double edged sword yho!

❤ yes!

Whats not to like about this woman ? Being from a culture where you value other stuff than sex, and material things I totally understand her. And the thing Sadia said about how things have become I so agree, I've seen this with my own eyes. These so called phones did indeed close the gap between us and people that lived far far away from us, but what it also created a very huge gap between people near each other. I see the interviewer struggled to understand couple of points wich to me seems so easy, the dating several people part, why would I even date a person who has a lot of orbits around her ?

Sadia I want to be a psychiatrist but you are so powerfull I am starting to seriously reconsider changing to psychology ! ❤

@user-nd3fp5fl8n

3 ай бұрын

Psychiatrists can prescribe medications and understand people both through the lens of relationships and through the lens of neuroscience. Sadia couldn't provide comprehensive treatment for someone with common mental health issues. She would have to team up with a prescribing physician, which is fine but a different job description.

@controversialcommentswithmia

3 ай бұрын

@@user-nd3fp5fl8n so you are saying i better choose psychiatrie ? Thank u for the advice

True happiness is contentment…

Sadia and yours still stands whatz dj Suraman am still busy 😇

I love this girl

Love is modern world construct only loosely related to a successful relationship.

I love you, you are so different

Nevermind the gender, what if someone hasnt dated in 8 years from a past relationship that caused me to have PTSD that has gone unannounced, not diagnosed, not treated. What is the hope of someone recovering and able to date, if they havent in 8 years?

And here I am... where is my man, my half that will share my values, is honest and kind matches me on many levels and is watching content like this realizing how f* up this society is 😂 i am waiting for you 😂😂😂

Rebellious people now called starseeds. I have so many friends like that and all so me and I can tell that they are multidimensional.

The truth of the mstter is, it does not matter if you have many if the qualities women are looking for. If you are confident in yourself,. If you have many interests. If you can fix things at home. If you are not the type of man she dreamed of or envisioned being with. You will become an option for her.

Interesting

Sadia Khan is truly beautiful and sophisticated woman, Mashallah. We need more educated muslim women like her.

25:40 This is actually the real definition of love tho…..

I also feel like these days people divide values or worth between dating and marriage. Thats why of you see video ob what kind of man to marry; there’s always these things like these Atype of people is fun for dating but less for marriage, B type of people less fun for dating but is the best for marriage. Why that has to be separated? Dating and marriage should be continuous (of course if you’re not the kind who want to marry then whatevever). I feel like people also takong dating and fantasy and marriage as reality. When both is reality. The word love somehow becomes so different in meaning between dating and marriage. Only when you’re married love also means responsibility and loyalty that you have to work on,i do understand that it will differ when you’re dating and married;with kids, and in laws, but the gap that we have now is like so big that sometimes i feel like the love that was said while dating is too light lack of weight. Tho people usually think the other way around like the love has faded out in marriage. It an irony. Cause people think marriage is reality but think of the love in marriage as faded out, and doesn’t think the love while dating was not reality, it’s actually more like fantasy, clouded under rose tinted glass. That’s one of the reason there’s so much divorce, or not marrying because you do realize the heavy responsibilities that you have to take if you were to marry. Afraid of facing the realities of love. Just recently there was islamic scholar talking on how there was no word love being said between spouse/couple but only for God and us in the quran. For spouse/couple, God used mercy and affection. That’s kind of make sense for me so much. That idea of mercy and affection for spouse/couple(in other words not just love but loyalty and etc that we need ro work on)kind of has been wondering around it my head especially as i get older, but what that scholar said just makes it clear for me. (Mind you in not that good of muslim)

In the ecnomy,it's always about the price setter. In relationships between men and women,it's always about the standards setter. Standards are too materialistic,it's all about money and looks. The 10% of men are getting all the women they can handle,the rest of women are living in a state of delusion,thinking that they are the prize and that they really have a chance with the10% of men ,the rest of men get what they can get or they just choose to walk away.

What a smart woman. Sadia Khan is so smart. 👇 if you agree.

@BogalaSawundiris

5 ай бұрын

I disliked because I don't agree

SADIA 😍

Ms. Khan be giving us the keys.

My partner wants me to delete ig because in the past I talked to guys behind his back on there. Should I do it?

Sadia is still unsettled about her views of repressive religion versus uncontrolled mayhem

I met no one since the social media

The horoscope will show

He thinks marriage is about love. A child of Disney movies, no doubt. It's rare for the love you feel while dating to survive 5 years of marriage. The real love that sustains a marriage develops after the honeymoon period. It's just human nature for relationships to evolve as people either grow or backslide.

We’re is the rest of this interview

Wow

If she marry (arranged) after going through heart brokes with 3-4 men...is she can built happy relation with person whon she marry (arranged by parents)??

@Tippy257

5 ай бұрын

Yes, God is all forgiving and merciful.

Tom, you are so cute when you say "I need to be free to be a moron".

its not social media, its anti social media

I 🖤This woman::Next Life✔️

'Don't eat Pork' is actually a rule brought to the world by Judaism, then later copied by Islam.

@sadiapsychology

5 ай бұрын

Judaism is not a separate religion. We follow the laws because it’s Abrahamic go educate yourself

@yorair

5 ай бұрын

Judaism is not a separate religion? Where did you get this one from? Judaism existed thousands of years before the prophet Mohammad was born. If anything, Islam is not a separate religion (but it is, they are two separate religions). Both came from Abraham; that's true @@sadiapsychology

@yorair

5 ай бұрын

I don't know but it make sense, since Jesus was born a jew @@Child-Of-God20

@malin5468

5 ай бұрын

@@sadiapsychologyGosh, that is the first time I have to disagree with you. I was brought up as a Christian and have never read the Torah or the Quran, but my impression is that they are very different. Perhaps you could explain what you mean on one of your podcasts. Thanks.

@MR-fz4gw

5 ай бұрын

⁠@@malin5468Muslims believe in the same god as Jesus (peace be upon him) did. We believe Jesus pbuh was a prophet, not the son of God or God. We believe in the same god Jews believe in. We also believe in other prophets, Adam, Jesus, Noah (peace be upon them all) etc. We have been taught that through the Bible, Gospel and Torah, the message of God had been sent to us. But these holy books and the message of God had been altered (hence why so many versions of the bible exist now) and people were not obeying Gods message, which is there is only one God, he has no partners, no sons, not to idol worship, etc. So then Allah (God) sent his final messenger, Mohammed pbuh and the Quran which is the actual word of God (through the Quran, God is speaking to us directly as oppose to the other holy books which are narrations from others. The Quran is the last of the holy books and it has never been altered. There is only one version of it. Order an English translation and read it for yourself. Islam will give your heart peace, it is the religion of peace, ignore the western media narrative, go straight to the source “the Quran” and see for yourself.

For the arranged marriage, I like the way Indians do. The parents set up the dates for their grown children but the grown children have the right to choose among these individuals. I am in an interracial marriage, our differences in upbringing, eating habits, norms & values create a lot of frictions/problems in our marriage, children & life even our family background is similar. For examples, I like to try new food but he's a picky eater. I like new adventures & experience but he wants to stay home & do nothing. I expect our kids to excel but he is ok with mediocre. I love people but he hates human. I have growth mindset but he has fixed mindset.

I need to meet her one day. When can I?❤ I need help I A

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

It is too late for too many.

Nothing is random

I’m a Christian man and married a Muslim woman. And that did not work out well 😅

@itsjustbusinessbrokie

5 ай бұрын

Very different values dude

@byronryan4216

4 ай бұрын

Sounds like a marriage made in heaven , you both share an interest in having imaginary friends … 🙈

His take on religious is the most "'I want to enjoy the lust and all the shit of this world rather than recognising that there is a GOD''

Great conversation with lots of valid points but can we PLEASE not undermine it with using Wikipedia as a reliable source of science / statistical data 🤦🏻‍♀️

@malin5468

5 ай бұрын

I disagree. There are, of course, mistakes in Wikipedia, but a recent study discussed on NPR found that Wikipedia is generally reliable. It did not specifically discuss scientific data. The thing about Wikipedia is that it includes references (although they are not exhaustive). However, I am always willing to be corrected. Can you give me a few examples of factual errors on Wikipedia?

@bionats0757

5 ай бұрын

@@malin5468 - “Generally reliable” is not enough , specially to prove a point that has to take into account the sociology and belief system in every part of the world. NPR is not an authority is psychology studies. - Looking again they didn’t actually use Wikipedia they used a brides website 🤷🏻‍♀️ Citing journals/ studies / papers that actually took those factors such as Sadia pointed out would have given a more well rounded answer to the public than a quick seach in “ Wikipedia” or a brides website A quick search sometimes can be helpful for some things, but as a psychologist or any scientist discussions should not be derailed using “generally reliable “ data .

John Gray: "Estrogen makes women emotional, and during stress the female brain notices the problems 10 times more...she feels an urgency to alarm everybody about it. Testoserone makes men much more calm and focused on tasks, therefore hormone testosterone is about problem-solving." Women need probably doing a yoga or Qi-gong to feel grounded so she will not disturb the amn when focusing on his jobs. I was wondering "the alarm state" of mind" probably comes from ancient times when woman tried to keep her new born baby safe and alive, and the brain was probably in the scarecity reaction of subconscious mind program, so she would alarm everybody, please help, my child has a flu, or some bacteria etc so maybe the estrogen hormone craeted such a chaotic state of mind over the generations, I wonder if its genetic thing. Other wise why would the estrogen create such chaos in her mind,10 times more during the stress situation, if its purpose wouldn´t be the alarm system of the mind...please come save the baby from the flu or some virus etc? And men are technical geniuses usually so they realise immediatelly what the baby needs, she knows it too in other ways, but she isnt as technical as men are, when it comes to crisis. So these two hormones probably have its purpose, but we should learn to manage it.

Sadia... true INFJ... all the way... lol... "if I saw a p p officer and he annoyed me... I would say what I need to say"

Now you can be a Psy for the world and make other Psy disposable!! Lol

If there were 5 Billion women in the world, like Sadia.... how much better, it would be.

That man represents Euro civilization at it’s best Lol

If it's big enough, it's going to last.

Her last comment is interesting.

Such a simplified view of religion he had and he speaks of it like it’s so profound 🙄 try understanding what religion means to different people instead of assuming

What happened to her Instagram account. I hope it’s not more censorship.

@sadiapsychology

5 ай бұрын

I had A Client hack my account in order to get free sessions

Female Jordan Peterson 😊