What if I Just Want to Live a Simple Life?

We live in a world where aspirational living is presented to us everyday. Do you ever wonder if it's okay to just want a simple life, free from the desires to chase the luxurious lifestyles presented to us by algorithms and media? Is it okay to not be ambitious? Let's talk about that today.
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  • @farmgirl1560
    @farmgirl156015 күн бұрын

    This is exactly how I live now. No debt, no fancy labels. Gave up Facebook and limiting the internet overall. Days feel slower, calmer, happier. Suddenly have all this extra time for reading etc. I’ve never really been materialistic. If something is functional that’s what matters, not how much it cost or what it looks like.

  • @kscott7657

    @kscott7657

    15 күн бұрын

    Dreamy! Love this

  • @kjohnsonshelton0923

    @kjohnsonshelton0923

    15 күн бұрын

    Same! The peace is priceless.

  • @retha6504

    @retha6504

    15 күн бұрын

    100%

  • @kathycooper9577

    @kathycooper9577

    15 күн бұрын

    My sons won't have to spend days cleaning out my house if and when. That certainly give me piece of mind.

  • @Sheryl777

    @Sheryl777

    15 күн бұрын

    @@kathycooper9577 👍

  • @kd2533
    @kd253315 күн бұрын

    It happened to me at 40. No social media. Work 4 days not 5. I started feeling repelled by consumer burnout and wanted less material. Cleared out my home. I appreciate a hot bath, warm tea and time with family. Now at 42 soon, I'm happiest with less

  • @kimdavis5403

    @kimdavis5403

    15 күн бұрын

    Same!! Eighteen years of no debt, peace, contentment but also adventure and gratitude.

  • @julies3490
    @julies349013 күн бұрын

    "I have no interest in competing with other people..." Thank you

  • @mozar5175
    @mozar517515 күн бұрын

    You are so right! I am now 60 years old and I always wanted to live a simple, debt free life. I was able to reach that goal in my mid-fifties. My wife and I are fortunate to live just a few mile from city center but in a condo adjacent to a beautiful river and parks. I have a morning routine of having a coffee, interesting discussions with my wife, reading the newspaper. The rest of the day is pretty much free for doing what I like. I limit my interactions with people who are talking only about themselves and their possessions. That includes limiting interactions with family members when I’m able to avoid a family reunion. I own an iPhone 7, it works perfectly fine! I take long walk in the woods and long bike rides in the country side. This lifestyle allows me to take my 86 year old mother for lunch every second week and spend quality time with her, i fully realize that her time left on this planet is now limited. I refuse to compare myself or to compete with others about money, possessions, etc.

  • @Glorybee446

    @Glorybee446

    15 күн бұрын

    Your life is ideal. I hope you enjoy any more years of happiness. Bless you for honoring your mother.

  • @little_light7555

    @little_light7555

    15 күн бұрын

    You sound like a lovely person with great values. You struck a chord with me when you mentioned limiting interactions with people who only talk of themselves and possessions.

  • @jablot5054

    @jablot5054

    14 күн бұрын

    Same. I avoid people as much as possible,so many have become brainwashed. That includes family.

  • @patriciam.909

    @patriciam.909

    12 күн бұрын

    Your life sounds lovely.

  • @Nan-59

    @Nan-59

    11 күн бұрын

    You’re supposed to still have your mom❤❤❤❤ My mom died in 1994 when I was 35 But my dad lived until 2005

  • @jsully7426
    @jsully742615 күн бұрын

    I love watching the birds eat the feed I provided, reading a book, and seeing others happy.

  • @daughterofmyabba

    @daughterofmyabba

    15 күн бұрын

    I love feeding and watching the birds too. 🐦 ❤

  • @amymartin5753

    @amymartin5753

    15 күн бұрын

    Joyful simplicity ❤️❤️

  • @mariahsmom9457

    @mariahsmom9457

    15 күн бұрын

    I really love the birds too! any animals really.

  • @jablot5054

    @jablot5054

    14 күн бұрын

    ​@@Angela-qc1exyou need to get rid of religion too. That is limiting you.

  • @heartsandmindsathome

    @heartsandmindsathome

    5 күн бұрын

    Beautiful!!

  • @txspacemom765
    @txspacemom76513 күн бұрын

    I got divorced, bought a small condo, painted it with fun colors and have just what I need. I have a cat, good coffee, books and my art supplies. I won't die a millionaire but I will die having squeezed every minute out of every day. If someone wants to poo poo me because I don't have whatever material thing they think I should, I tell them to have a nice day and I keep moving along.

  • @noble604
    @noble60415 күн бұрын

    Went on a 2.5 hr drive yesterday to visit family and drove the speed limit. Every single semi, truck and car passed by me, and some passed me by a 15 -20mph margin. I simply wasn’t up to barreling and racing to keep up with the world rather choosing to stay in my lane and enjoy the little trip. Must we fly everywhere, all the time, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week in a fit of rage and “productivity?” I just want quiet and settled peace and I aim to live my life this way.

  • @gregflores8959

    @gregflores8959

    15 күн бұрын

    I drive professionally ( CDL), 99 % of drivers exceed the posted speed, had a school bus driver rip past me recently, must have been donin 80 mph, I too stay in the slow lane puttin along at 65.

  • @cjhoward409

    @cjhoward409

    13 күн бұрын

    I’m fine with people doing the exact speed limit but I find people out sauntering on a single lane road going 20 under. Please, pull over if you see 20 cars behind you. Let’s all be safe on the road and be aware of other drivers. Thank you. 😊

  • @noble604

    @noble604

    13 күн бұрын

    cjhoward - Driving 20mph beneath the posted speed limit on a single lane road, blocking cars behind us from their progression and not caring about others would be obnoxious and it wasn’t what this comment was about. Racing 85mph everywhere necessary and it isn’t a simple life. A simple life is what I hope to live. 🌱

  • @randallhill7979

    @randallhill7979

    12 күн бұрын

    I’m trying to get to that level

  • @noble604

    @noble604

    12 күн бұрын

    randallhill - I understand. I am not there myself. In order for me to be there for the majority of the time driving, I have to also work on other areas of my life and simplify those areas. I must be extremely organized and allow plenty of time to drive everywhere ahead of time at the speed limit. And, I must be mentally prepared, because to drive at that speed on most roads is almost certainly going to result in lots of anger aimed towards me, horns blowing, rage filled, very dangerous psssing of me.... so it’s almost causing much more stress to go at the limit than if you sped like everyone else. 😩 I just didn’t feel like flying that day. I’ve had a lot going on with my family, Ive had to make many personal adjustments in the past few years with family events and I simply wanted to make the visit and not be full of anxiety after being pushed along for 2.5hours. The way we drive today is simply unnecessary. It’s anxiery inducing and cuts off years from our lives. We can do better and we will do better as we do it more each day. 🌱

  • @giennefarcais6834
    @giennefarcais683415 күн бұрын

    Beautifully said. Society seems to be going to hell in a hand basket. I don't even own a hand basket anymore; I donated it to my local thrift shop.

  • @jasminealixandranorth

    @jasminealixandranorth

    15 күн бұрын

    Bravo!! :)

  • @gregflores8959

    @gregflores8959

    15 күн бұрын

    Thrift shops rock, 👍🏽.

  • @evalindell2757

    @evalindell2757

    15 күн бұрын

    What is a hand basket?

  • @cjhoward409

    @cjhoward409

    13 күн бұрын

    @@evalindell2757 A basket with a handle 😅

  • @user-ic1tc7yg2q
    @user-ic1tc7yg2q15 күн бұрын

    Thankyou Joshua. I am working on owning less. I already live a fairly quiet life as a widow of 80 but my things are a burden i am slowly letting go. 🙏🏽💙

  • @Glorybee446

    @Glorybee446

    15 күн бұрын

    I'm a widow of 79 and find all my stuff a burden now. I hope we both find peace with less.

  • @lynnoorman2144

    @lynnoorman2144

    15 күн бұрын

    I'm only 65, but I am in agreement with you both, ladies. I am decluttering and have been for 9 years! Why did I buy all this stuff,in the first place? Mostly in an attempt to fit in, I think.

  • @anitavirginillo
    @anitavirginillo15 күн бұрын

    I love the simple, minimalist lifestyle

  • @stscc2009
    @stscc200914 күн бұрын

    I say this exact thing all the time. I just want a simple life. I want peaceful days and restful nights.

  • @micheleohmer4117
    @micheleohmer411715 күн бұрын

    It was eye opening to have 1500 facebook "friends" including family and after a few weeks when I went off FB, only 2 people contacted me to see how I was. I don't have friends but I have my immediate family and the Lord.

  • @sheloveswhimsy

    @sheloveswhimsy

    15 күн бұрын

    I know! I know, you’re so right on!

  • @tammyr...9209

    @tammyr...9209

    15 күн бұрын

    I did that for one yr only 2 people on my list contacted my daughter to see if I was okay. Big eye opener .

  • @JK-vc7ie

    @JK-vc7ie

    5 күн бұрын

    Apparently you are not a friend to other people. It cuts both ways.

  • @micheleohmer4117

    @micheleohmer4117

    3 күн бұрын

    @JK-vc7ie I realized I am the one who almost always reached out and when I stopped, they didn't step up. I am happier not spending so much time on social media.

  • @APW-ry2ok

    @APW-ry2ok

    Күн бұрын

    Sad as it seems most people don’t care ,we are all on the same train and just getting off at different stations……Best things in life are the simple things ,personally I love to walk along the beach first thing as soon as I wake up (live by the beach and love it) this guy is spot on….

  • @kaceykelly7222
    @kaceykelly722215 күн бұрын

    HALLELUJAH! This is the best so far and it is the solution to the majority of problems the world has today.

  • @Coddiwompling
    @Coddiwompling15 күн бұрын

    "Let's not lose sight of the beauty of contentment. " 🎉 3:41

  • @daughterofmyabba
    @daughterofmyabba15 күн бұрын

    Well said, we (my husband and I) have a small simple homestead and it brings us much joy, we dont grow enough of anything to "live independently" and are fine with the realization that we need others, God designed us to be part of a community. Its a joy to find something you are good at and enjoy doing and doing it in a simple way. We dont have to go over the top with things or seek to be "self sufficient" just enjoy the gifts God has given you, use them to bring him glory, share with others and its truly a joyful way to live. The promises given by attaining more are empty and will never satisfy. Jesus brings joy and He says with food and ramient be content. He knows just what we need. Overabundance, unless we give it away, becomes a burden.

  • @sheloveswhimsy

    @sheloveswhimsy

    15 күн бұрын

    Amen!!! Thank you for sharing this.

  • @jablot5054

    @jablot5054

    14 күн бұрын

    If you ditch the religion you will be happy. Live you own live not one according to some random made up book.

  • @deborahpellerito6117

    @deborahpellerito6117

    14 күн бұрын

    ​@@jablot5054Please get a clue before it's too late you don't know when you are going to Diego to Jesus

  • @Angela-qc1ex

    @Angela-qc1ex

    12 күн бұрын

    Keep taking care of yourself and loving nature and God because He calms down the chatter of negativity and He can guide you through the beautiful things that are just for you both ❤️... enjoy the beautiful Spring season weather 🙏

  • @grooviechickie
    @grooviechickie15 күн бұрын

    Love this. Gave up social media 18 months ago and it's been bliss! Only watch the news from time to time because I feel it gives nothing to society and only makes me miserable. We rent our house because we simply cannot afford to buy (Australia is obscenely expensive), and so it is what it is. I have accepted that I will be renting for the rest of my life. I limit how much I work (at my low-paying but very low-stress job) because I have caring responsibilities, and I refuse to sacrifice my mental and physical wellbeing on the altar of consumerism. It gives me time to read, cook, garden, write, create, spend time with friends and family, and to enjoy my life. This is worth more than money. ❤

  • @jenniferblack3274

    @jenniferblack3274

    7 күн бұрын

    We also rent here in our area of the USA. Housing has become very expensive and in our late 50’s the last thing we want is a huge mortgage with huge payments. We are happy renting though as the stress of upkeep of a home is less. When something breaks I just call the landlord. We too will probably never own again and I also am okay with that.

  • @SusanL-ds6lc
    @SusanL-ds6lc15 күн бұрын

    I choose to not own a "smart" phone. I have just a basic flip phone for calls & texts. No apps or social media on it. My husband has no cell phone @ all. I also don't use Facebook, Tic-Toc, Instagram, etc. It's possible to live this way & it allows for a simpler life. I wouldn't want it any other way. I'm not ambitious career wise, but I am ambitious in my relationship with God. xo

  • @amymartin5753

    @amymartin5753

    15 күн бұрын

    How do you do KZread? Through the computer?

  • @SusanL-ds6lc

    @SusanL-ds6lc

    15 күн бұрын

    @@amymartin5753 Yes :)

  • @SusanL-ds6lc

    @SusanL-ds6lc

    15 күн бұрын

    @@Angela-qc1ex Thank you. xo

  • @dawnwasshoward

    @dawnwasshoward

    14 күн бұрын

    @@amymartin5753 I watch on television.

  • @Angela-qc1ex

    @Angela-qc1ex

    12 күн бұрын

    @@SusanL-ds6lc I've got a lot of confused looks when I tell someone randomly that I only have 2 phone number contacts and I guess they don't understand I love God More and my phone is not important... / Sorry for the late response but I'm actually going sit down outside and just rest myself and then take a nap / but I definitely won't be paying my (replenish payment ) next month either I have better things to donate my money to do to save for St Jude Children's hospital in Texas 🙏🫤💜 take care and thank you for sharing and respecting to respond 💜

  • @fwebster6226
    @fwebster622615 күн бұрын

    I’m with you Joshua - hustle culture is toxic

  • @jayathome2898
    @jayathome289815 күн бұрын

    Yes I’ve always said I want a small, simple life. Just full of love, joy, gratitude and giving.

  • @Glorybee446
    @Glorybee44615 күн бұрын

    My son just had open heart surgery and I hope he would agree with you. I know it has made him appreciate the simple joys of life.

  • @Debbiesdilemmas

    @Debbiesdilemmas

    15 күн бұрын

    Wishing your son all the best in his recovery.❤️🙏 I truly believe that when your health has been compromised you see life in a different way.

  • @Glorybee446

    @Glorybee446

    15 күн бұрын

    @@Debbiesdilemmas Thank you for your kind words and prayers. I'm grateful he will get to see his baby grow up now.

  • @dawnwasshoward

    @dawnwasshoward

    14 күн бұрын

    Also wishing your son a full recovery and a long life. My son was diagnosed with cancer at the age of 31 (he's now 36). It's so hard to see your child so ill. Lots of love and prayers for all your family, may you have many happy years and memories ahead of you. 😋🥰😍

  • @Glorybee446

    @Glorybee446

    13 күн бұрын

    @@dawnwasshowardThank you. I pray your son does well.

  • @dawnwasshoward

    @dawnwasshoward

    13 күн бұрын

    @@Glorybee446 He's getting better, lots of love and prayers to you, wishing your family many happy years.

  • @BeautifulSunShine777
    @BeautifulSunShine77715 күн бұрын

    So true! I felt the way you described since I was young but didn't know how to express it. Always felt like the odd one out. But now as an adult I love purposely creating a simple, uncluttered, unhurried lifestyle for me and my family while the rest of the world rushes from one thing to another. I don't envy them or all their stuff.

  • @thebarky1988
    @thebarky198815 күн бұрын

    We had numerous family deaths and health issues the last few years. I also have no desire in competing with people. I am also selective with who I spend time with. Peace is very important to me.

  • @YevetteGooden
    @YevetteGooden15 күн бұрын

    I recently closed an Etsy shop for this very reason. It quickly evolved into a stressful hustle and that’s not what I wanted. BTW thank you for speaking at a normal pace and not from that side hustle mentality.

  • @dawnwasshoward

    @dawnwasshoward

    14 күн бұрын

    I make a lot of things (mostly knitting) I give them as gifts or donate then to charity. I make things at my own speed (slow) very relaxing.

  • @YevetteGooden

    @YevetteGooden

    14 күн бұрын

    @@dawnwasshoward That’s exactly what I’ve decided to do with my Bible Printable’s. Give them away as freebies from my website and to prisons. Thanks for sharing. 💐

  • @claudiakotouc6748
    @claudiakotouc674815 күн бұрын

    There is great freedom in not wanting or needing anything. It is wonderful to just enjoy what I have and be profoundly grateful for it. God´s love is my greatest gift; what more could I possibly wish for.

  • @kakylong2
    @kakylong215 күн бұрын

    Joshua, Amen! I've had my phone for several yrs & it has a crack on it & I refuse to buy a new one. We were able to pay our mortgage off 11 yrs early.. It's been awesome! 😊

  • @natalieeubank4533

    @natalieeubank4533

    15 күн бұрын

    There are many places where you could take your phone to get the screen replaced on your phone and get a new battery replacement for it as well

  • @kakylong2

    @kakylong2

    15 күн бұрын

    My Hubby took it to our provider & it was going to cost $250. The phone isn't worth that much now. We haven't taken it anywhere else to ck.

  • @jablot5054

    @jablot5054

    14 күн бұрын

    Just get rid of the phone.

  • @kakylong2

    @kakylong2

    14 күн бұрын

    I'm currently still using it. 🤪

  • @natalieeubank4533

    @natalieeubank4533

    14 күн бұрын

    @@kakylong2 yep, no need if it’s still working does it have a screen cover on it? If not it might be a good idea so that it doesn’t keep splintering and getting worse

  • @amymartin5753
    @amymartin575315 күн бұрын

    I don’t have FB: My view about Facebook: if you’re going on vacation, if you don’t tell me directly, then I wasn’t meant to know about it. Simple as that. I’m good not knowing the business of 100s of people and only relegated to the business of a few. I don’t even like stories told me 3rd person. (A friend telling me about the happenings of another friend). I want to hear it from the source…. Very simple approach to life and my mind is not overflowing g with what “everyone else” is up to.

  • @KellyBoettcher-qo9tx

    @KellyBoettcher-qo9tx

    15 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @micheleohmer4117

    @micheleohmer4117

    15 күн бұрын

    It's sad when family shares their lives, even important news, but doesn't share with you. It seems social media has taken priority over personal relationships.

  • @sheloveswhimsy

    @sheloveswhimsy

    15 күн бұрын

    I’m in full agreement and have a similar experience. No heart issues. It’s the choices they’re making.

  • @farmgirl1560

    @farmgirl1560

    15 күн бұрын

    This is so true. I didn't realise how much Facebook was affecting my brain/mood until I got rid of it. That sense of calm and only dealing with what's immediately around you and not being bombarded with all this extra information and drama etc. It's nice now when you bump into someone and have a chat without already knowing all their business 😄

  • @cb9825

    @cb9825

    15 күн бұрын

    ​@@micheleohmer4117 my relatives have a group chat where we share the news with family. I don't know if they share these news on social media too. We are all pretty private people. But a group chat is good, as the family is not small and everyone is being informed about the important things at the same time.

  • @lauriedixon9661
    @lauriedixon966113 күн бұрын

    Since finding minimalism and a yearning for a simple life, I have been able to work part-time as a self-employed person. My clients are always amazed and slightly frustrated when I turn down work because I made plans to do something for myself. If only they could find the calm that I have, they would understand.

  • @magdalenaisabel9683
    @magdalenaisabel968315 күн бұрын

    As a single mum of four boys. I often struggled trying to balance what the world perceives as successful with what I so desired for my boys. "Time" is by far the most precious possession we have to offer. As it is the one thing that we cannot get back. Thank you for sharing of your insightful life realizations.

  • @cbcb102

    @cbcb102

    15 күн бұрын

    When my 3 children were young we were not able to finance the 'branded' clothes, latest computer games etc their friends all had. We had time to take them on walks and foster family values. Two memorable outcomes came from this. My son at 13 years old told me his friend who had all the materialistic trappings of a stressed out family said to him 'I wouldn't be seen dead in that brand of trainers (Sneakers?)' My sons reply.....'I may not have branded stuff but I have a dad that can spend time with me, you never see your dad because he works too hard to get you those things'. He said his friends face was an expression of sadness and had no come back. The other thing is as adults they often come to me and talk about a the special times we had with them that cost us not a penny...remember when you took us down the lake and collected those colourful stones and we learned to skim. They say they have great memories and a good sense f value, I can't ask for more, I did my job. You are doing a great job by giving them time and security. They will feel that in their bones. keep going on that path it is worth it.

  • @kimberlydeprey
    @kimberlydeprey15 күн бұрын

    Growing up poor has taught me so much and has kept me humble. I’m so thankful for those years! Less truly is more.

  • @j.t.1215
    @j.t.121515 күн бұрын

    ❤You're right! I stay off social media. Not only can it make me insecure and jealous, it wastes time and causes unhappiness when I doubt myself.

  • @mariec6813
    @mariec68138 күн бұрын

    I 100% agree with this. I used to be everywhere, doing everything. Now, I find I prefer to stay at home with my pets. I work from home and achieved President's Club at my job this year but instead of going on the fancy trip I chose to stay home because my pets were more important to me than that trip. Many might not understand but it doesn't matter to me anymore. I want to live a simple life with the ones that make me happy. ❤

  • @smokypoo
    @smokypoo15 күн бұрын

    That's exactly what I am always telling people around me. It's really exhausting as you say. What I'm more saddened about is that the younger generations are so obsessed with a fake and virtual life. Obviously they take examples from their own parents.... it seems the world is conspiring to keep us in this endless loop of consumerism. I truly hope more and more people will start to realise that simplicity is best. Take care all.❤❤❤

  • @Debbiesdilemmas
    @Debbiesdilemmas15 күн бұрын

    Although I never was chasing the dream of more is better, I still wish I had appreciated how much more the simpler life has to offer…..the whole LESS IS MORE theory. I just think I was living my life without intention. Now as I near retirement age (although I’ve been blessed to be a stay at home mom) I appreciate how much less anxiety I would have owning less. I just have very little want for most things. I will continue on my minimalism journey as best I can as the only person in my home who feels this way.

  • @stevebubar6129
    @stevebubar612915 күн бұрын

    Loving spouse Animals Simple home Great hair like Josh All u need

  • @andrewellis7656
    @andrewellis765614 күн бұрын

    Yea - Joshua - a declaration of choosing the joy in the Lord. Thanks for confirming a thankful simple life.

  • @bradtrades
    @bradtrades3 күн бұрын

    The two most important words relating to finance, IMO, are Freedom and Enough. It took me a long time to learn that.

  • @LoveThemWell
    @LoveThemWell15 күн бұрын

    My husband and I just had this conversation this morning concerning all the activities our kids could be involved in…we don’t have to be busy all Saturday to give our kids a good childhood. Today we have nothing to do except just be together. And for us, that matters more than that “mindless hustle.” Thank you for these words of encouragement!

  • @dawnwasshoward

    @dawnwasshoward

    14 күн бұрын

    Apart from football/soccer on a Saturday I just didn't have the money for so many activities. My son doesn't think about what we couldn't do but about what we did do. Playing in the park,watching a movie together, reading books, baking, board games. Precious memories.😍

  • @dawnwasshoward
    @dawnwasshoward15 күн бұрын

    I really enjoyed this video. We do live in an age where people know the word more but don't seem to know the word enough. My husband and I live simply, my phone I bought secondhand, most of our furniture is secondhand. Books are from the library or charity (goodwill) shops. Our first date we went to a garden centre for a coffee and then had a walk in a park. We live in a small property to keep household bills low. We are fortunate to have a garden with lots of birds visiting, and have a green space close by. As for big houses, whatis the point of having a big house if you have to work 7 days a week to pay the mortgage and bills?

  • @tuercacaso
    @tuercacaso15 күн бұрын

    Beautiful message, Joshua, one that speaks with the same words and heart-space as my own. I am 100% with you on this. The main problem from where I stand is that our culture and society make it very very difficult to live simply, and not merely because of the outward trappings that you mention. This is what I mean: Forgoing material things is the easy part, but having healthy community and social connections is VITAL. Thus, it's extremely difficult to meet and connect with like-minded people in search of (or already enjoying) the simple life without being dictated to. Everywhere we look, drive, walk, talk, communicate, we are inundated with the cultural messages. We do not exist as isolated cells with resistant packaging. Humanity has been likened to the old adage "monkey see, monkey do" because we are a social species. We require each other to witness and mirror one another in order to find that meaning that makes life unfold in a healthy way. Our masters in the corporate worlds, which bring us so much higher a standard of living also suffocate our social "connective tissue" so that we pay attention almost exclusively to their matrix. Nature is one answer, to be sure... but choosing a simple life and working toward that goal is Noble; however, once one is on that ladder and ascends to the top, be sure to know that unless one's entire family or social circle is on the same path, it may be very very isolating and lonely. Just the same, AWESOME video and message! Blessings and much gratitude to you today and always.

  • @gmvalentine626
    @gmvalentine62615 күн бұрын

    Your message resonated very strongly with me. Thank you, Joshua.

  • @avehanahcasino2139
    @avehanahcasino213915 күн бұрын

    Love it when I meet people who share the same perspective in life. God bless you more Josh.

  • @annettemartin26
    @annettemartin2615 күн бұрын

    Amen! Wonderful reminder of the beauty of The Simple Life! Thank you

  • @lizzieb6311
    @lizzieb631111 күн бұрын

    Along with shedding the unimportant things (unimportant to me) I also shed those “friends” who either mocked my lifestyle or “pitied me” for not relying on expensive things to bring me joy. I’m settled…peaceful…and incredibly happy. I’ve met new friends with similar mindsets and am happier now than I ever have been. Another meaningful video. Thank you ♥

  • @inforestsweheal
    @inforestsweheal15 күн бұрын

    How does one find others to deeply connect with? I find it increasingly hard to find people interested in engaging in such a relationship.

  • @Angela-qc1ex

    @Angela-qc1ex

    15 күн бұрын

    Just let it happen spiritually and don't worry about it / I strike up conversations with people who I'm drawn to by the calmness in their eyes and spirit otherwise I don't say anything 🤫🙏

  • @vikieierdam5516
    @vikieierdam551615 күн бұрын

    Joshua, I love your heart. Thank you for your perspective.

  • @louisetilbury3443
    @louisetilbury344315 күн бұрын

    That’s exactly what I want as I scale back.

  • @lynnhendley8910
    @lynnhendley891015 күн бұрын

    I am starting to live a more simple life. Thank you for all your wisdom and inspiration. Please write another book on how to obtain this lifestyle.

  • @abbaschild2499
    @abbaschild249915 күн бұрын

    So beautifully said! Thank you, Joshua.

  • @juliem.3936
    @juliem.393613 күн бұрын

    "I discovered a wealth that transcends financial prosperity". LOVE this!

  • @JLR4244
    @JLR424413 күн бұрын

    Well said Joshua! I agree 110%! I'm glad you are here making a positive influence on people! 😊

  • @heathercohoe4788
    @heathercohoe478815 күн бұрын

    I need to chose the simple life, and myself, daily. Thank you for the perspective.

  • @Angela-qc1ex

    @Angela-qc1ex

    15 күн бұрын

    It's awesome and I really hope you get a chance to experience it very soon it's truly so great... / I'm living it now

  • @tdwalleye6282
    @tdwalleye628215 күн бұрын

    Amen. Working towards that lifestyle now.

  • @dianafoley6926
    @dianafoley692615 күн бұрын

    This is my favorite video you have ever made. I listened to it three times in a row and then shared it with several friends and family.

  • @rommycaballero6636
    @rommycaballero663613 күн бұрын

    Thanks Joshua, this video represents what my life goal is, you inspire us to change that “idea”of the perfect world that people have tried to make us believe, where every day we feel more stress and anxiety instead.

  • @whatfun99
    @whatfun9915 күн бұрын

    One of your best, Joshua. This gets at the very root of the malaise in our society.

  • @jessjenkins5474
    @jessjenkins547414 күн бұрын

    Great video. I live in Australia and yesterday my husband and I had a conversation about the days when Sunday trading was not a thing, no shops open and Sundays were slower, roads were quiet and people relaxed. Things seemed slower back then.

  • @susannadolny2540
    @susannadolny254013 күн бұрын

    Joshua's hair looks especially on point.

  • @BaseballCFG
    @BaseballCFG15 күн бұрын

    New smart phone? I have no idea what phones have come out since I bought my phone. In fact, I didn't know what was available when I bought my phone, I just bought the cheapest one available.

  • @HeatherCampbell-kc7fx

    @HeatherCampbell-kc7fx

    15 күн бұрын

    I use a flip phone. Drives people crazy. Always telling me to upgrade! Nope!! Simple is better

  • @KD-uh8zw

    @KD-uh8zw

    15 күн бұрын

    Yes cheap phone and now a cheap plan. I don't need all the bells and whistles and umpteen Apps

  • @nicoc7024
    @nicoc702445 секунд бұрын

    I feel the same way, and it’s sad how many people who are afraid to agree with this because of their ego. I am trying to simplify my life the best I can. Great message!

  • @maria-lena5919
    @maria-lena59198 сағат бұрын

    Simplicity is the key - hallelujah 🙌 ✨️ 😊

  • @theresapalmer7892
    @theresapalmer789213 күн бұрын

    I'm retired from Healthcare career 3 years now. This was a lesson I learned far to late in life. I don't dwell on any regrets about it and have been so at peace in this stage of my life. I am sharing what I've learned by example to my adult children in their 40s so they can see the wisdom of living less much sooner than I did.

  • @naomiward7893
    @naomiward789315 күн бұрын

    Well said. I am so happy with my debt free simple life

  • @aubreyboxx7260
    @aubreyboxx726014 күн бұрын

    Hey Mr Joshua thank you so much for advocating for a selfless and purpose filled existence!!!! That is what i want, and listening to what you have to say about it encourages me to cultivate a simply beautiful life.

  • @valeried2941
    @valeried294123 сағат бұрын

    This is beautiful.... I want some peace...some quiet...a few really great friends... I like reading, a good chat...a good cup of coffee...truly this has made me happiest..thank you for sharing!

  • @Sabiha-30
    @Sabiha-3015 күн бұрын

    Hi Joshua, although I am still subscribed to you, I haven’t watched your latest videos in a while now.. but I have seen a lot of them. What I am trying to say is, you have definitely impacted my life because I always remember you when I am decluttering and continue to do so, or before I think about my next purchase! I am so happy that I discovered your channel ☺️

  • @JoeLopez
    @JoeLopez4 күн бұрын

    You control your social feeds. Ignore accounts posting things you have no internet in. One person’s idea of happiness does not need to align with your idea of happiness. Live your life without worrying how others do.

  • @mandyadams918
    @mandyadams91815 күн бұрын

    Such true words Joshua. I find the juggling of slowing down and living simply is hard with working as it is so fast and both mentally and physically draining.

  • @cb9825

    @cb9825

    15 күн бұрын

    When work is so intense, you kind of need simple and "slow" home life.

  • @feathers-fur
    @feathers-fur12 күн бұрын

    Every day i strive for an easy life but i made the mistake of watching minimalists thinking they figured it out until i noticed in every video they had more new things...furniture, clothes, new matching totes because the ones they had didn't match, dishes or a new organizing system because the three prior ones just weren't working. It was exhausting to see and very confusing. They got rid of everything but just bought more.

  • @alanbirkner1958
    @alanbirkner195812 күн бұрын

    Hi, we went to Mexico to see the eclipse. Friends have fancy cars, bigger homes, and unbelievable jewelry. We planned and saved for a special treat. Tina, Al's wife

  • @Khatoon170
    @Khatoon17013 күн бұрын

    How are you doing mr Joshua. Iam Arabic lady subscriber subscriber to several British and American KZread channels since Christmas 2019. We are as foreigners subscribers as overseas students want to increase our cultural level and improve our English as well . Thank you for your wonderful cultural channel . First of all looked up of meaning minimalist persons who are their interest in keeping things very simple . About my self as Arabic lady I considered myself as real university student , KZread community as open universities and google is library. I hope all people understand importance of internet as great educational tool not for amusement only . I read about your biography you are an American author, philanthropist. Known for simplify more of less minimalism . Your notable book minimalism and intentional living main theme about emphasizes benefits of minimalism, including less stress , increased focus and freedom from consumerism, with inspiring stories , relatable examples, demonstrats how

  • @h3arty
    @h3arty14 күн бұрын

    this was so soothing, relieving, and self-connecting. thank you so much, joshua becker!

  • @anadomangue2732
    @anadomangue273215 күн бұрын

    Amen 😊

  • @user-mw2cf3jf3c
    @user-mw2cf3jf3c8 күн бұрын

    Very very very grateful for Kate Kaden for sending me to your channel. Thank you so much J.🙏👍💕

  • @captainplanet8945
    @captainplanet894515 күн бұрын

    Exactly ☺️

  • @heatherjensen3751
    @heatherjensen375113 күн бұрын

    You never said truer words. You’re speaking directly to a longing in my soul. Thank you for expressing what I haven’t been able to say.

  • @choosetoshine2610
    @choosetoshine261014 күн бұрын

    Amen! Say it louder for the people in the back. ❤🎉❤

  • @livn4JC
    @livn4JC15 күн бұрын

    Amen!

  • @debbiedean3165
    @debbiedean316514 күн бұрын

    Amen Joshua, I agree wholeheartedly, ❤️✝️🙏, sweetest simplicity,

  • @mikehess4494
    @mikehess449414 күн бұрын

    Agreed, Thank you Joshua.

  • @cynthiapittard4086
    @cynthiapittard408615 күн бұрын

    Such wise advice

  • @lizspurgeon9933
    @lizspurgeon993311 күн бұрын

    Joshua it is easy to live a simple life when you have your wealth. I listen to your words, but know in the background you are an extremely wealthy man.

  • @lisalovelylpa
    @lisalovelylpa15 күн бұрын

    That was really good.

  • @katiedolan14
    @katiedolan1410 күн бұрын

    Love this so much. When I consider what kind of jobs I want to do my values of slower living override most of the opportunities that are available. I wish that there were more options available for a lower-stress lifestyle.

  • @Star2ice
    @Star2ice15 күн бұрын

    Such profound and needed words to hear today. I struggle to get rid of things because I work too much every week. Thank you Joshua❤

  • @shirleyrankin-zf6nv

    @shirleyrankin-zf6nv

    14 күн бұрын

    Set a timer for 5 min and just get started you will be amazed at what you can do in 5 minutes 😊

  • @Narda1968
    @Narda196815 күн бұрын

    I love how you express yourself . What a great effective powerful communicator you are 🙂

  • @AbidaS0301
    @AbidaS030114 күн бұрын

    Yes good advice 👍. Great simple clean enjoyable simple calm enjoyable peaceful life ❤❤❤❤

  • @sylmanyeki9323
    @sylmanyeki93239 күн бұрын

    Well said Joshua!! This is how I feel!

  • @codyawz
    @codyawz23 сағат бұрын

    Currently do the things Becker recommends. Totally agree, it’s all overblown.

  • @ana-maria448
    @ana-maria44813 күн бұрын

    Waw. Amazing. I have listened like I was listening to a poetry. So beautifully said and explained. Well done! 👏👏

  • @nancygfrancism7072
    @nancygfrancism707212 күн бұрын

    Nice to hear other folks think the same ⭐️👍

  • @RUFFFHOUSE
    @RUFFFHOUSEКүн бұрын

    Amen amen amen! Draw your satisfaction by walking in Gods ways . I have spoiled myself rotten with a very good income and l can tell you it was all a meaningless waist of time. Our wicked culture has normalized madness in its material pursuits. We were created to bring glory to God. I can tell you that is the happiest most fulfilling life possible! Thanks Josh for what you do!

  • @cjhoward409
    @cjhoward40913 күн бұрын

    I gave up FB over 10 years ago. Drama and flaunting life was way too much. I have my close friends and we call each other and text. And get together with them. I enjoy that. Done with keeping up with the Jones’. Was done with that over 10 years ago also. Ahhhhhhh

  • @natashyas4149
    @natashyas414913 күн бұрын

    Amen, brother. Thank you for your message

  • @81aherna
    @81aherna15 күн бұрын

    I mean, it’s all about balance, but the agree completely!!!

  • @gailhamilton1568
    @gailhamilton156815 күн бұрын

    Thank you Joshua.😊❤

  • @amykomiya9350
    @amykomiya935015 күн бұрын

    Wow! Slow life, savoring the now and living a simple , meaningful life are all that matter. Thank You for this vid, so inspiring 🫶🏼

  • @feetforward75
    @feetforward754 күн бұрын

    my life code: minimalism, integrity, no vice, no logos on clothing, goal oriented, focus, autonomy, individual thinking, reject religion, reject dogma, reject group think. effective, optimizer, value based actions.

  • @valerierogers9609
    @valerierogers960914 күн бұрын

    Society downplays simplicity deliberately while exaggerating dynamic consumption.

  • @meeravenkatesh1943
    @meeravenkatesh194312 күн бұрын

    Thank you Joshua...

  • @Doris86pl
    @Doris86pl15 күн бұрын

    Genuine joy, that's it.