What do you dislike about living abroad or something you're worried about? Comment below and I'll give any advice I can 🙂

@skapunkoialternativeliving6522

3 жыл бұрын

Keep On Rockin the Free World keep on making great videos my love..

@PrettyGoodLookin

3 жыл бұрын

You are representing the USA so keep it classy !

@BluePhotoMedia

3 жыл бұрын

I think the thing that got to me most about living abroad was that after a while, the language difference is exhausting. Even though I speak Italian, it took effort. Everything was in Italian. Movies in Italian. And then, I was always an American in another country - a foreigner. Even though I consider Italy my second home, I'm a foreigner. I understand how immigrants here must feel.

@LifeinGlow

3 жыл бұрын

I dislike in general that Russia and Canada are so far from each other and flights are very expensive, time zone difference make it hard to recover and do shorter trips, but it is not something easy to change, let alone when there are almost no flights available...

@33Jenesis

3 жыл бұрын

With 90-day tourist stay, it feels like being told by doctor I have 3 months to live. The town, people, scene, sentiment become heightened. I feel simultaneously elated and sad. Every passing day feels like saying good bye, knowing I’d have one less day to be there, perhaps never see it again. It is a weird sensation that doesn’t come with living in a permanent home place. We all have finite time and life but having to move after 90 days truly highlight the fact about limited time on earth.

I lived in Greece for 12 years, and it was , a wonderful experience. It had ups and downs, and I was advised by a psychologist friend to not think about whether I liked it there, or not for the first year. Well, I tried my best to follow that advice, and tried not to compare with the US, and the lifestyle I had here in NYC. The only time my heartstrings were tugged was when I spoke long distance to my best friend or a family member. Eventually, in 2014 I moved back to US-and have regretted that decision to do so. The family members who encouraged me to move back? Well now they totally ignore me, they don't think the way I do, are very closed minded and make no bones that they think I made a mistake by leaving the US. Just goes to show-always follow your gut, not family advice! At least in my case!

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed, follow your gut and where your heart leads you 😊 Sorry to hear about your experience, Catherine. Better days are yet to come! I wish you all the best. Thank you for sharing!

@JanMorristheadminmaven

10 ай бұрын

Why not go back to Greece Catherine?

@aljohnson3717

10 ай бұрын

I hope all is well in life now!

Gotta say you're one of the few travel channels that I take the time to watch past the first few minutes. I feel like your comments and reflections are interesting,well thought out without the fluff or BS of other channels. You're not out here trying to crack jokes every few seconds or get the perfect luxurious footage of you in each country. You talk like a real person with some self awareness.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you so much Normand. I really, really appreciate your feedback and this is motivating me to keep creating! Hopefully one day my videography skills will get a little bit better too ;)

@kriserts

3 жыл бұрын

I was going to say the same thing. I just found this channel today, and it doesn't feel schilly or overly scripted like others do. I like your honest reflections.

@urbanart7325

3 жыл бұрын

He is not trying to sell real estate

@lueeynaicker3885

Жыл бұрын

True

Number six is so true. After traveling and living abroad, I don't fit in abroad and I don't fit in at home either. It can feel very isolating.

@thesincitymama

3 жыл бұрын

This one really resonates with me as well... But I remember that I never really felt a sense of belonging in my home country, to begin with, so that’s probably why I left LOL how do you cope with this feeling? As for myself I think too often I’ve relocated, thinking that the next place might be a better fit. And only as I get older do I realize that my sense of belonging can’t be tied to geography

@able880

3 жыл бұрын

I went to a boarding school as a kid then worked in the offshore and mountain oilfields for decades state side - for 35 yrs I never slept in the same bed for a yr steright - i know that feeling all to well of not fitting in , I never leave home now, I love staying home and sleeping in my own bed every night - if Kristine decides to stay in the states it's going to take her a long time to get rooted to the point she is self confident in those areas - it can take 10 yrs

@gaildelima2755

3 жыл бұрын

I miss traveling and I love the caribbean, but the crime made me leave long ago. California is safer but I actually knew more interesting people in my home country and in Europe long ago. Getting old changes my choices. I wonder what will happen next. I’m in the group of people who don’t fit in anywhere,. I do own a house in a liberal state and that is really important to me.

@able880

3 жыл бұрын

@@gaildelima2755 I know that that feeling well - it's lile a best friend that never goes away I guess it's a thought in our own mind - for 15 yrs I be slept in the same bed at night and never leave the area I'm in so that has helped a lot

@kristycopp447

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, I also can relate. Traveling changes you so that's why the foreign feeling but yet I'm not a born/raised local....it's individual how people respond to me.

I am Black and feel safer anywhere but in the USA. I am an older man and saw racism in the US all my life and now. I now live in Costa Rice and I am happy and feel safer.

@wilshirewarrior2783

3 жыл бұрын

Don’t forget to write.

@kristycopp447

2 жыл бұрын

That's awesome, good for you... yeah, I'm white , the black people here are so racist...it's terrible ...I don't throw that shit on them... insecure is how I see it.

@jessicaely2521

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you, but it's easier being gay or a woman in the US. I know it seems like the US treat both badly, but they aren't stoned to death for being gay or doing something that a woman shouldn't do.

@zamvolka

2 жыл бұрын

@@jessicaely2521 As I have grown and understand more about thoughts and labels. I see anything that dose not fit the normal the control is labeled to make you feel less or a outcast. Any real intelligent would not make others feel less.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to know you are happy in CR now Zamvolka!

Another thing she doesn’t touch on (most likely because she’s young), I’ve heard from older nomads that living abroad they have zero retirement back up plans. They have not accumulated any social security or pension funds from working in one place for a long period of time. Some may think this is trivial until they are pushing late 50’s and realize they don’t have enough savings and will get zero assistance from any government or pension. Something to definitely plan for.

@elipotter369

3 жыл бұрын

It seems to be a very common thing that people do not bother to find out the rules or do any financial planning before they go somewhere or buy something major. I read an article recently about ( I think it was Australians) complaining France didn't have a reciprocal pension agreement with their country when other countries did and suddenly finding out. The information was readily available for years prior. I can see why this KZreadr may not touch on it - financial planning for retirement is a huge topic. And as for giving advice - I find most people don't want to spend any time at all thinking about it!

@Kar1ocha

3 жыл бұрын

Interesting video but missing some points, including the fact that she's pushing 40 but living as a 20something is not close to reality for most of us who would be parent at this age and having child/children and/or a career to prioritize

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

I understand you Wonka, appreciate your insights. However, you can still save money while traveling. You might want to check out the video I made about that here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/kaSN2M6ufpO4eco.html 😊

@kubasniak

2 жыл бұрын

I'm an immigrant for last 9 years working in Canada but my retirement plan is probably fentanyl.

@strangerdanger8462

Жыл бұрын

​@@kubasniak taking it? Or dealing it?

It can be an extremely lonely lifestyle, regardless of the great sights you get to see and the cool people you meet so briefly. The outsider feeling never goes away either, but just gets stronger. It is a hard balance of trying to understand how lucky you are for experiencing so much, and how sad it can be to float through it all mostly alone and relatively disconnected. I can't imagine the most simple things like buying a sofa of my own or having dinner with people who have known me for more than a couple of months. These are odd things to miss out on, but it is a weird part of being human. Some things about being human do not disappear while living an extraordinary life.

@springfauna1465

3 жыл бұрын

Agree!!

@moreapropos

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, so true. Personally, I believe that being alone is the essence of the human condition and we only temporarily lose that feeling at points in our life. We want to lose our sense of self and be connected, but honestly, you are right and the main challenge in life is to be at peace with yourself. Have friends, live, love, and all that, but just know that being alone is our true essence. And any feeling of not being alone is transitory. It is a strange life lesson no matter where you are or travel to.

@davidlynch9049

3 жыл бұрын

Bring a partner. Problem solved. I and my significant other travel, live and work in other countries. I really couldn't imagine it alone.

@dpavlovsky

3 жыл бұрын

@@moreapropos In Buddhism ☸ this is referred to as the Truth of Solitude.

@stephthedinosaur2420

3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful comment about a very hard to face truth but also freeing.

when you think about life is a process of saying good-bye and letting go, the trick is realizing our life is short and you must be fully in the moment

@heathergittens3223

3 жыл бұрын

Well said.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing Michael!

She may not have been able to express the feeling at the time, but I am certain that your grandmother was thrilled that you were by her side. Those moments are priceless.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much; I really appreciate that. She worked for PanAm during the “golden years” of flight and was so pleased that I loved to travel so much!

@elenawachong9241

3 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin Congratulations on your ability to community your thoughts in a personal, positive and balanced view that many of us nomads have experienced in our foreign community stays.

I lived in West Germany for 7 years. Not a day went by when I wasn't asked "When are you leaving?" Finally, after 7 years, when I announced that I was, thankfully, leaving, then everyone said, "Why are you leaving?" The anamolies of living abroad.

@abigaligentry7873

3 жыл бұрын

Shh Katie and Sarah are Sleeping

@dwsharkie

3 жыл бұрын

Must have been quite some time ago. There hasn't been a West Germany since 1990. I lived there for a few years and no one asked when I was leaving, just what brought me there.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

The irony. Thanks for sharing!

@lisaclausen8304

2 жыл бұрын

How true is that! For sure, this is a metaphor for life in general!

@glennis-dankuwel6020

2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha 😝

I really appreciate the thoughtfulness and high quality of your work.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Richard! I appreciate the kind words

@steveameling2718

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed.

@laurarosa3924

3 жыл бұрын

Can we talk about HOW to live abroad? I'm 58...

@blackjackreward4456

3 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin Indeed, extremely high quality, and thank you for that.

Love this. I've been abroad enough to empathize with all of it. As for coming back, I never was the same--in good ways, but definitely causes a disconnect with family. However, a friend was in Asia for about 12 years and returned, and something I never thought about when you return to your home culture after so long, the culture itself has changed, so you can never truly return home since both it and you are so different.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Well said, Haden! So true

@abw48

2 жыл бұрын

Haden Wesley: The culture changes slightly, if at all, you on the other hand have changed dramatically, this is why its said, you can never go home again.

@PeterJames143

Жыл бұрын

wow that is such a correct observation

@AlwaysHereAndNow

Жыл бұрын

So true!

I want to personally thank you for your sidebar about discrimination at 12:12. As a person of color who travels abroad and married to someone from a foreign nation, it is great to appreciate the care and consideration you put into your vidlogs. You are awesome!! All the best.

@abw48

2 жыл бұрын

chris clermont: FYI mate, MOST of the World is populated by what people like you call, people of color.. WTF!!!! Ge over yourself.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Chris! You are welcome 😊

@pdoll96

2 жыл бұрын

@@abw48 walk a mile in his shoes. Until you know the pain of being treated as a 2nd class citizen or with utter inhumanity because of your color or culture, and especially to see it happen to your children,you have no right to judge. Amazing how you compound the injustice and hurt by actually criticizing someone for mentioning it. That’s gaslighting if you didn’t know. Someone points out something that’s wrong and they’re rebuked for it or made to think it’s not that bad. It is that bad and so is your comment. Get over YOURself and your lack of empathetic literacy and inability to understand there are different experiences and perspectives besides your own. If you want to believe discrimination isn’t a problem and that it doesn’t hurt people, by all means, continue to walk around in the bubble of your convenience and manufactured reality, but don’t discredit and undermine the reality of someone else’s experience.

@abw48

2 жыл бұрын

@@pdoll96 : Im British and have lived in foreign countries around the entire World since was 17 years old, Im now 73, Ive been in 50 countries, lived in 10 of them, I have been discriminated against because of my culture many times, Ive lived in North America, Central America, Europe, Middle East, Africa, Asia and now reside in SE Asia....Neither my ex wife, or current female friends, are British, nor Caucasian... Tell me about it...Ive forgotten more than YOURself will ever learn.. Gaslighting is the new buzz word for snowflakes like YOURself. Grow up already...

@dvhughesdesign

2 жыл бұрын

@@abw48 Spoken like a true entitled, trembling whiteboy.

I went through most of what you described. Culture shock and reverse culture shock. Language and culture barriers. Not knowing where I belonged or where I would end up. Fast forward 34 years: I settled in Europe, got citizenship, married with 2 kids, bought a house, now finishing up my career and will retire here. Did a lot of travelling (albeit during vacations or unpaid leave). The 2-week vacation limit is the main reason I didn't want to return to the US. Now I have 6 weeks per year. Looking forward to retirement with plenty of time and money to travel all over Europe, and the occasional trip back to the states.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds awesome Carl! Wish you the best! Thanks for watching! 😊

I was a nomad for 23 years living in a country called “U.S. Army”. Dreams of Jungle and desert landscapes quickly become reality. Free airfare, plague vaccinations, and buddies that travel with you. Sometimes you don’t land with the aircraft but rather by parachute. Definitely miss home & family.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your service, Richard! Where is home now?

@richarddrozd1201

3 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin Retirement community in San Antonio,TX. My wife and I love to travel. Recent trips prior to pandemic: Russia, Panama. Your channel fascinates me and I have admiration for your knowledge and talent. Stay safe and don’t weaken!

@shaed3759

3 жыл бұрын

You are really good

@Guitaroverkill

3 жыл бұрын

😁 good one. 🎖

@ghuff31

3 жыл бұрын

Haha, well put! Started my career parachuting into Panama, living in Germany and SKorea for over a decade...it definitely changes your perspective.

This video really resonated with me. I spent almost four years traveling in my 20’s. I loved investigating every nook and cranny in caves or cenotes in Mexico and Guatemala or observing stoic people in Sweden and looking for stains or imperfections in spotless Denmark. The experiences I had through Central and South America, Europe, and the Middle East were so rich and exciting, and I loved meeting people from all over the world and just investing time with them. I will always treasure my spontaneous journey, I said yes to everything. But at 29, I grew tired of moving around in cheap hostels and short term rentals, or the complications of simple tasks due to language, and the other travelers kept getting younger and could drink and stay up longer or had more energy, and every time I fell in love it was fleeting, plus my resources were depleted. The world started to look and feel ugly to me, and my attitude changed. I was no longer easy going and eager to learn about people and cultures. Instead, I was offended that they expected me to change for them, and I was stubborn. That’s when I knew it was time to come home. I got a job back in my hometown. Then the pandemic happened. I bought a house and I’ve been hunkering down. It’s taken me years to adjust to being back, but my attitude is getting better and my bright-eyed youthful elation and curiosity for the world is coming back, slowly but surely. I’m taking a trip soon, to Austin, TX for a weekend and getting out of my comfort zone again, this time I’m eager to see more of the USA. Thank you, Kristin.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Sean. Thank you so much for sharing your experience---I appreciate it. Hopefully you enjoy traveling again. Stay safe and have fun! 😊

I have to admit that I was reluctant to watch your videos initially, but I appreciate your philosophy, depth of knowledge, humility, and perspectives. I especially enjoyed the extended segment about discrimination. Most travel videos ignore the fact that there are BIPOC travelers who actually might be treated better abroad. (Or much worse than white travelers.) I loved everything you said and how you said it! :)

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, M. I'm glad the videos have resonated with you. Can you expand a bit on why you were reluctant to watch initially? I'm always looking for constructive feedback especially on thumbnails :)

@acivilright

3 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin for me it's that you even mentioned it at all really. BIPOC expats and nomads generally do because it's part of day to day life. So I generally seek out BIPOC expats and nomads for their perspectives. It's less common for white expats or nomads to even acknowledge there could be/are challenges for people who aren't white or white presenting. So high five from me for being respectful and just even going there.

@LyrixNChill

2 жыл бұрын

Agree with the others. As a POC living in and around Miami, I had to roll my eyes a little in your other video where you said everyone was so friendly to you and are quick to chat you up down here. IMO, that’s a very unique experience for you because you fit the correct profile. However, strangers around Miami aren’t as quick to strike up random conversations with me or my friends on the street, unless it is “What are you doing here.” Or “How can I help you?” If I am in a store. Often very rude for no good reason. This video produced a pleasant sigh of relief when you actually acknowledged that it can be a very different experience for melanated and “other” type travelers both domestic and abroad.

After being born and raised in the US - mostly by my German grandma - I have to say.....the very first time I set foot in Germany, I felt right at home. My German improved massively over time, I made many friends in Germany and Austria, and in the end - I never feel out of place anywhere in the Alps. Actually, I feel more at home there than here in the states. I can only guess its because I understand the mentality and humor of the people there. So....I would say it depends how strong someone's familial connection is with a specific culture.

@adamdressler5391

3 жыл бұрын

Good to know. I'd like that experience.

@Helluvabutl3r

3 жыл бұрын

May I ask why you decided to come back to the US? I’m just curious, because she also said in one of her videos that she came back as well. I wonder why people come back if they are truly happy elsewhere?

@kerrkreissig6077

3 жыл бұрын

@@Helluvabutl3r I have a job here with a retirement, but you can be sure....I'll be going back when things open up.

@Helluvabutl3r

3 жыл бұрын

@@kerrkreissig6077 congratulations on your success, and I hope for many years of happiness to come in your life! That’s inspirational. Thank you for the reply

@kristycopp447

2 жыл бұрын

Wow that's amazing you felt at home in your country...your grandmother really instilled that culture into you.

From my well over 40 years of worldwide travels and still continuing to do so heavily, these are very real and valid points. Traveling is an opportunity cost of missed events, yet amazing and gained life experiences and mindsets. There are many mental and physical tips and processes that can help people quickly adapt to unknown and semi permissive environments. Excellent video and thoughts.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Nathan - glad you can relate with so many years of experience traveling the globe. How do you cope with these challenges?

@nathangoode3126

3 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin I have so many thoughts and perspectives on this, but some of the best methods are to stay grounded with a base and self identity and to keep an open mind when traveling. With saying this however, as amazing as travels are, there are always risks. So, thinking outside of the box, staying adaptive, having a contingency plan, and situational awareness make travels in an uncertain world so much more rewarding. I have also missed a lot while away, but we must come to terms with great experiences, good, bad and the frustrating ones too. And, know we became better people because of a deeper appreciation of life, the world, cultures and understanding others.

@stanspb763

3 жыл бұрын

There is a big difference between traveling and living in another country. None of the listed problems really impact those who move to other countries.

I was born into a nomadic family so I can relate and agree with you. I don’t feel connected to any country in general but I do like the country I am a citizen of. I think rent prices, home prices, job market, even covid has pushed younger people to re-think how to do life.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Irma, nice to meet you! Where’s home right now?

@IrmaRoma68

3 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin Canada I was born in France and grew up in Montreal and now I live in Toronto Ontario but I have relatives in Madrid both my parents have siblings there but my father was born in Madagascar and his birth certificate is in Paris France. My sister was born in Germany and I lived in New York City, I have seen many states and I drove across Canada five times and worked in every province and spent time near the Arctic circle. I am fluent in French Spanish and English

If you ever wonder what's the biggest incentive to traveling abroad, she does an amazing job of representing it... expanding your perspective, wisdom, and heart.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Lynne! 😊

Your videos really made me think and brought me back in time. I have been living back in the US since 2011. Before that I lived in the UK for 11 years; it was suppose to be for a year or 2. While I was there I bought a house, got married to an incredible Belgian girl and we had a kid. Life has pulled me back to back to Virginia where I grew up, along with my Belgian wife. She is having her own "shadow walk" by moving to the US, she had assimilated to the UK and is now trying to figure out where she belongs again. Coming back to the US was hard, it is still hard after 11 years. Living abroad changes you. I always explain it like; imagine you can hover invisible above yourself watching exactly what "YOU" say and do while at a party. That is what it is like to be an American living abroad and seeing your country through a foreign media or the thoughts and comments of locals that you know. Being at a party and having fun and all of a sudden being pulled into a conversation to be asked to explain what your country is doing or what it has done. You find yourself defending things you don't want to defend because you are an American; or conversely if I felt I could not support something my country was doing I would feel like I was a bad American (Not a traitor but not a true American, but most certainly not a local. I was "teamless"). Living abroad and travel in general is a giant lesson in self reflection and learning about ones Id. Your commentary does this expertly while exploring the world of travel. Fabulous videos; please keep them coming.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and experiences, @Matthew. I really appreciate it. I completely understand how you feel, and many others, especially expats, share your sentiments too. I'm so delighted you liked my video and resonated with it. I'll be posting new videos soon! Feel free to subscribe 😊

This was a fantastic video Kristin. You are so well spoken and informative. My husband and I sold everything in northern Canada, when our youngest went off to university, and went looking for a new home abroad. We tried Mexico, Ecuador, Panama and the Dominican Republic over the course of 3 years and chose the interior of Mexico. We experienced most of what you listed as reasons for disliking living abroad, but the ones we can add to your list are : increase in violence which threatened our safety, sharp increases in medical insurance, changes in airlines servicing the area, and the 180 degree policy changes regarding expats almost every time the government changed. We were permanent residents, but had to live under a different set of rules and laws. It wore us down as we got older and when my husband was getting ready to retire, we made the heart wrenching decision to sell everything once again and we go back to Canada. That was 8 years ago, and we still miss what we had, but know it will never be that way again if we went back. You are doing such a vital and honest service to the people on your channel…keep up the good work.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

@Wende, thank you for sharing your experience, and I'm sorry to hear you had to leave. Factors like the ones you've mentioned can have a significant impact on your life and decisions. Thank you very much for your nice words, and I hope you and your family are doing well. Sending warm hugs to Canada!

Kristin, this is so honest and accurate. I found that for me, being an explorer and world traveler was/is part of my identity, and I had to reconcile my growing need to have a home base. Making a place my own even if only a rental has been a slow process. I found that my inability to settle down had (also) to do with unhealed trauma and never having felt that my home growing up was a safe space because of all the drama that was going on. So having my home didn't feel safe to my subconscious mind, if that makes sense. I know everyone's journey is unique and each life is complex, but I have noticed that pattern in other serial travelers and expats. For each one to find their own balance of travels and staying in place, but when the nomadism becomes escapism (which it had for me, or linked to relationships pulling me here or there), it is time to face deeper fears and be willing to try something else.

@wolfthequarrelsome504

Жыл бұрын

Navel gazing at its funniest.

I admire your honesty and wisdom as much as I do your bravery, Kristiin.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Brandon!

After 17 years in another EUR country, I would hate to go back to my birth country, as there's nothing for me there. It's here where I am my life is. If first you've tried to live internationally, you evidently would see people from the old country as being VERY provincial. My center is inside my person , so my home is where I am & live :-)

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Very relatable! I always tell people, “my home is in my head.” 😊

@heathergittens3223

3 жыл бұрын

Just remember that a house is not a home. It's how you make it to be. We could be living in a palace or a castle or mansion, or even in a 2 by 4 apartment. If it's not a home, then it's just a roof over your head. It's a heart move.

@acidali01

2 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin My friend, come to Dubai, I wanna show you around.

You did a frank and candid analysis of discrimination in certain foreign countries. It is generally a deal breaker for most people, whether or not they want to stay in that country.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful, Max :)

@ursulasmith6402

Жыл бұрын

Discrimination is everywhere.

@visittavee7773

3 ай бұрын

I am Asian property happens more than mores than normal.I travel a lot rent my house for 1 years and around the when ever i want .

I'm glad you touched on the subject of discrimination at @12:20. I've been living in Germany for more than 30 years now, and as a person of color, I've experienced very little discrimination personally. I have known other people of color who have experienced terrible things, but it wasn't anywhere near as what had been going on in the USA for the past years. Naturally, Europe is not a "racism-free zone", but one can encounter more open-minded people (especially the younger generations), and live "normally".

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

You’re so welcome, Evan; thank you for sharing. I’m glad you have had a positive experience overall in your travels :)

@lisaclausen8304

2 жыл бұрын

Have never seen Germany as a place of discrimination. But was last there many years ago. . . I don't know if they regressed as we did here in the U.S. I think given the exposing of our underlying "fault lines," the U.S. has always been this way, but it is more obvious and less concealed now. Maybe our grandparents did not know better, but we know better. . or least some of us. Seems like going to different countries and learning about other cultures is similar to getting a bigger picture, and hopefully a vaccination against bigotry and discrimination.

@charleswinterfeld5107

Жыл бұрын

You are all wrong and cannot see the truth. The US has the least discrimination of any country for colored people. Colored below are in high places in Government, education and industry everywhere here....not so in Europe. There are more colored millionaires than anywhere else. I live in Germany and I don't see blacks holding any high positions in the Government, industry, or elsewhere. Most colored people are on welfare here and jobless. Open you eyes man.

1. i DO have family in the USA....two children and grandchildren. I learned from my first child who was still single at 45 and had moved all the way to Hawaii that he was not going to stay where he grew up. MY younger daughter joined the military and moved cross country to different billets every four yrs so her children were born in different places. Unless I was going to be a camp follower I was never going to be able to,have close relationships with them so that eliminated family expectations as a reason to stay in the USA. 2. I bought a property abroad and my husband and I had it renovated....at 63,it was the very first home I ever actually OWNED no mortgage. 3. Relationships and Friendships...my husband and I are are closer and happier than we ever have been these last two decades of our 40 yr relationship. We have close family like relationships with a ccoupl of local families and expats here too, then we have less intimate social friends again locals and expats so all our emotional needs are well met. 3. Yes you are not considered a local until someone knows you well . Culture shock when you go home to visit...the longer you are away, the more profoundly you feel the changes at home....I dont feel American anymore I feel half Latina inside and half American . 4. I dont feel discrimination here. I do know people here who dont know me assume I am rich, just looking at me. Blonde people are assumed to be upper class here, Americans are universally assumed to be rich except by sophisticated local professionals who know better...I take measures when I am around poorer people here, I dress and act humbly to try to downplay that reaction. 5. It took us two years to get over the honeymoon period...since we were renovating a house our third through eigthyear the first two years of that second phase we hit the wall of adjustment in terms of getting things done in a timely manner. That is the stage when most Americams give up and go home. Eventually you understand the ropes and adjust to them. 6. Not getting ripped,off...you learn how to cope. You know the measures to take and you know the local prices of things more and more. If it is inconsequential to,you to,pay more and you want it you do...mostly I will not pay more than market price for things so others dont so easily get ripped off. 7. I am fluent in everyday interactions...I lack philosophical, legal, medical and emotional terminology in Spanish...practical stuff I am good. 8. I dont like to be a spokesperson for the USA esp since I disagree with much USA policy as it affects this country. And yes it is a big part of why I no longer live in the USA...the USA I knew, loved and felt proud of is long gone.....9. I also dont like paying US taxes....my tax domcile should be this country. 10. The end game....I plan to die here but I am WAAAY older than you....73. I love this country so much, this life. I feel privileged to have found this gorgeous life I have...I worked long and hard for it in the US saved, invested and watched my expenditures living under my means my entire life so I COULD do this and it paid off for me in my current quality of life. I wouldnt change a single thing.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

So helpful! Thank you for sharing your experience with everyone who is reading who is considering making a similar life change. In case you missed it, you might also like this video on the positives of living abroad kzread.info/dash/bejne/fKF5lbSuf5bdf6w.html

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Right?! Agree, Harsh

@kristycopp447

2 жыл бұрын

Good job 👍👍👍 sounds like you made great decision s .

Traveling or living alone is difficult. A partner in your life would make life and travel more enjoyable

@PremiumFuelOnly

3 жыл бұрын

Its a tradeoff. Having ultimate freedom moving around vs being in a stationary location in a relationship.

@carpelinguae9097

2 жыл бұрын

There is God ...

@SenorJuan2023

2 жыл бұрын

I've lived alone almost my whole life. Doesn't bother me in the least.

@novadhd

2 жыл бұрын

that was one of her points of the video. How difficult it was to maintain relationship always on the go

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Everyone will have their preference. Some do enjoy traveling alone too and some would enjoy it more with someone.

Great video! Honest direct and impartial. After more than 20 years outside my home country, your words ring true to me. Having a home base is essential for stability. Besos y abrazos.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching Jorge!

@Natureboypkr2

2 жыл бұрын

This was a wonderful and well thought out video. I determined that dating exclusively was pointless during my travels for the very reasons you mentioned. Just making friends was more practical for me.

You are so spot on with the not fitting in - I am 50 and have lived in the US for 42 of those years, but for the other 8 years, I was living in Greece (I was born in the US, btw) through most of my teenage years. The feeling of belonging I felt during those 8 years in the country my family is from was never replicated since. Now, when I visit Greece, I don’t feel that anymore and it’s, like you said, like I don’t fit in anywhere. Not sure I ever will at this point in my life. Thank you for this video - I have never seen what I experience every day put into words so eloquently!

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Nik! So happy to hear that. Welcome to the community

You are so well-spoken! I love watching your videos.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Thomas!

I'm so happy to have come across your video. I've been away from the US for the last 5-6 years, and remade a new life first in France, and now working in Africa. The feeling of being an outsider and being in between cultures has grown in me more and more. Living in France for the last 5 years, I've felt more and more European and less American, but i'm not 100% French; revisiting family in the very rare moments I can have made me feel like a stranger at times while with family and within the very culture that i've grown up in. I'm not sure where I fit in anymore. But like you said, you make your home wherever you are... But it's an odd feeling being a traveler, pursuing your passions, yet the downsides are often feelings of loneliness, a lack of intimacy or long term connection compared to others that have been settled and rooted in one place longer with longer-term social circles. That's something I've struggled with, especially when seeing my family and friends and feeling so different and less like the American me that I could have been had I never left.

@TravelingwithKristin

Жыл бұрын

I understand, Samantha. Thank you so much for sharing your experience as well. I am glad you resonated with me. 😊🙌

Funny to hear this after having dinner with a nomad friend last night who has just decided to hang up her nomading shoes for now. She's really craving having a place of her own and not always feeling unsettled. Most of those downsides don't really apply to me. That might be because we've only been doing this for years and it also definitely has to do with being in our fifties. With only parent still alive between us there isn't that much that we're missing out on. As for the other minuses which you so thoughtfully discuss, we've definitely felt some of them. But the pros of getting to live in a mountain town like Bansko for three months, then on a beach in Thailand for another three and then southern Italy simply overwhelm the cons. And not to get political, but being outside of the US is just such a huge plus that it also makes the minuses seem miniscule. ~M

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Wise words, Brent! I probably should have underlined this a few more times in the video, but I definitely think that the pros outweigh the cons 😊 Do I know the nomadic friend you’re referring to? I can definitely empathize!

@michaeljensen1988

3 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin Hi Kristin, That comment is actually from me -- I think our co-owning our KZread channel causes some login problems. I'm pretty sure you don't know her though we met her through a Bansko friend.

@capassoluigi7387

3 жыл бұрын

Can you travel now??????thailand is closed Italy completely livkdiwn again and bulgarije to!

@kristycopp447

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, a major difference is you're. Older, you're married and you didn't miss life events of anyone that mattered at the time..

What you said about not 100% fitting in anywhere, even back home, after living abroad is one of the strangest things I experienced and another expat once told me it's like opening Pandora's box, once opened you can never go back to how you were, how you felt, or even who you were as a person before. It can be a confusing feeling. It's one of the few negatives though, mostly living abroad has been positive for me.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

I completely agree! Thanks for sharing, Matt :)

@kayingthao5072

2 жыл бұрын

This is how I felt most of my childhood life as an immigrant in America. What you are feeling is normal feelings of immigrants and refugees.

@kubasniak

2 жыл бұрын

it sucks...

@mattkinsella9856

2 жыл бұрын

@@kubasniak It really does sometimes. My Dad's family were immigrants to the UK where I grew up, so I kind of had a taste but now I really feel like I don't belong anywhere. In some ways it's liberating and it's odd to watch tribal nationalism from an outside perspective but other times it can feel isolating and everyone else belongs except you, whether that's where you are or where you came from either. Ye it sucks.

My partner and I have been in 27 countries in 17 years, often repeatedly and extensively, and I was an almost constant traveler for twenty years before. I only initially felt I wasn’t fitting in. By staying in a place for months rather than weeks and days, and coming back often, people accepted me and invited me in, and some thought I lived there. It’s nice to walk up to a counter or get out of a cab or into a show and have the operator give you a small discount because, “You’re local now.” About the only thing I dislike about my travel life is that when I’m in one place, I miss my friends in other places and the fact they can’t get to know each other along with me. I’ve often imagined heaven as being where all my friends, living and gone, can be together in one happy place. When I come back to a place after a lengthy absence there is a bit of distance, but after a week or ten days everything is as before. I’m a white American and have little problem with discrimination, but my non-white travel friends constantly do and it’s threatening. When I come across a racist person it’s useless to argue with them and an announcement to me that I don’t need to know them. I’m not good at languages and hate this problem more than any other. The learning curve can mainly be viewed as a kind of fun challenge, but language is capable of killing anything and everything. But I’ve loved my travel life and now have “homes” in several countries with a circle of friends and reasonable skill in navigating the differences. The Pandemic has sabotaged that, but we’ll be able to pick it all up again.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, Robert. You make some very good points. Did you see the video on the positive sides of living abroad? kzread.info/dash/bejne/lKObo8p_c5rYcps.html I agree I'm looking forward to traveling again soon :)

@SJ23982398

3 жыл бұрын

What about the colliding worlds theory though

Kristin, thank you for being forthright with your thoughts and experiences. :) enjoy you week!

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Taki! You too!

Excellent video! As someone that travelled and lived around the world as a consultant I can relate with all the points you so well made, including why I married so late in life and have a young son. Said that, I wouldn't change the experience I had for anything and videos like yours just send me back to those days. Keep up the great work!

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful, Dori! Thank you for sharing your journey - I love hearing about other people's experiences and how much we have in common despite traveling at different times and places

Being your country's representative is an absolutely huge one - SO many people make their entire judgement of a nation based on interactions with a single person. We're British, and when visiting Poland a few years back several people grilled us about Brexit, asking for various info, whether we supported it or not, etc. We found that we had to lie and say "oh we didn't vote, we don't really follow politics" in order to get people off our back.

Thank you , Kristin, for your honesty. I really appreciate it regardinging discrimination. It is a very real thing and the more we are open and talk about it the better off we are.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome, Taraz. I'm glad we can discuss it here with other like-minded people

Thank you so much for this particular video, as an aspiring expat I needed the reality check to pinch me as I have only experienced the “Honeymoon stage“ of living in another country for a very short time and was basing my plans on that experience alone. You basically answered questions that I didn’t even know that I had. I now feel a better informed on the future choices that I will make. Well done. Thanks again.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful John! It's my pleasure to share these with you. Hope you still enjoy traveling.

Very thoughtful and forthright video, Kristin. Thank you.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

You are welcome! Thank you for watching Janys, glad you enjoyed the video. 😊

I just love your videos. Transparency in your videos is a fresh of breath air especially with discrimination! Been abroad for four years and it’s so true

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Usavadee! Appreciate you!

Your videos have helped me so much through the years. Finally taking the plunge to go abroad. I hit up your relocation service, look forward to it. Thnx so much Kristin.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

So great to hear that, Paul. It feels good to start sharing these experiences. Happy to help with your move abroad! Talk soon

Another great video! Thank you for sharing and doing so good job:) For me the worst was being away from my family. Many times I needed a hug but they were far away.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it!

18 year living in the US and becoming Dual Citizen 2 years ago, we are still not fully accepted and we still feel like foreigners here! It is indeed a constant struggle! We live in between 2 worlds! When we go home to Germany once a year we feel meanwhile foreign as well in certain places and at certain times! You are absolutely right on the ‘feeling home’ part! Your video is on point!

@elkeyvonnelindemann8284

3 жыл бұрын

@Frances so true!

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Elke! Glad you resonated with my content!

I absolutely, love your videos they are just phenomenal. You’re videos are extremely well planned, and thought out and well spoken thank you for the clarity and the advice.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

So glad to know you loved my videos Gavin! Thank you so much for the kind words 💛

Love your videos, Kristin. So authentic, thoughtful, complete, etc.!!! GREAT information and style of presenting.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

I was able to relate to all the points you made including the fact that after living almost thirty years in the US, I still feel like an outsider. That is also true not only here in the US , but also now in my country of origin.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear it resonated, Marianne! Strength in numbers :)

@gaildelima2755

2 жыл бұрын

Me too. My closest friends have died or moved to other countries in Europe. I love the Caribbean and I have close relatives in Florida, but it’s hard to pack up to leave California. I’m bored though. I will wait for now.

Defaulting to your other foreign tongues is so relatable!! I was literally speaking Spanish and Portuguese to people in Vietnam. *face palm*

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

hahaha #relatable!

GREAT video! Thanks so much for sharing your wonderful experiences and insights.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks JM!

Kristin, This is just the second of your videos that I have watched. Your topics are great but what makes viewing you captivating is your wisdom and humanity. Thank you!

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you David! I am glad you found my topics great and that you resonated with my wisdom and humanity too. You are welcome! Enjoy watching!

This is the best channel of KZread. Kristin, you are very thoughtful, great content, great presence and insight. I instantly became a fan! Thanks for all that you do :-)

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

You are welcome Eric!

I'm so impressed with how articulate you are about all these different things. In my travels abroad I have experienced many of the things you've described here at different times, in different places, and I always came home to the States more open minded and accepting of people in general. I know one major thing I've personally experienced everytime I traveled was that I was happy to come home and have a home where people knew me as a local. I get homesick, what can I say?! 😂❤️

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Oh wow! Thanks for sharing Dee!

Excellent video, good info, very helpful and thought provoking…thanks.

First off, I am so sorry for your loss. 🙏🏾 I agree its tough being away from family & friends. I can truly say, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

The more we get older the more the mindset changes and the more we want to go back to the basics.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

So true

I’ve never known someone living abroad like me that has the same understanding about a lot of things you speak about in this video. It’s a kind of “I’m not crazy, I’m not the only one” and that’s so important! Love your videos!!

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

So glad we could connect! Thanks Marianne

@renateconnolly3969

2 жыл бұрын

How true!

very perceptive video - reflects much of what I've experienced when traveling. Thanks for sharing!

Thank You...another thought provoking video. You help me to recognise more important questions before I actually face them. Learning.

@TravelingwithKristin

Жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it, Michael! All the best to you 😊

Cool little animations ;) I spent 7 years between Italy and England. I miss how friendly neighbors were over there though compared to here. Our neighbors had us over all the time, whereas here, it almost never happened. Feeling of having a home is a big one though, I can definitely relate to that too. This video brought back a lot of memories of living overseas. Thanks for sharing!

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks! 😃 Where do you live now?

@BluePhotoMedia

3 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin Missouri. I'm working on a digital agency business, and photography and video, and hope to be freed from living here in 6-9 months. I always joked if I was ever single again, I was going to go back and find a woman in Prague lol. Didn't expect that to come up though. I've never been overseas single, I can see how dating could be tough though. Listening through the rest of this video, wow, yeah, can really relate to more of it. We could share stories, for sure :)

in my teens thru age 49 I traveled alot. Now at 70 I have hard time wanting to travel. But I love to watch your show.

@michaelsix9684

3 жыл бұрын

with age you lose the desire to travel, a Navy man told me this years ago

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Tess, glad that you enjoy watching my videos. Hope that you'll travel again soon. 😊

Thank you for sharing your valuable candidly truthful information of your worldly experiences & perspective. Aloha, Myra

@TravelingwithKristin

Жыл бұрын

You are welcome, Myra! Glad you liked the video. Thank you for watching 🙌😊

Hi Kristin, I've just come across your channel and this is an amazing video. I'm Canadian and I've been living abroad for 12 years now. While I feel blessed that I've been able to travel and I wouldn't trade my experience for the world, I totally agree with everything you said in this video. I've struggled with dating, missing important life events and discrimination... to name a few. It's nice to hear, and be able to relate to the experiences that other expats face. It's comforting and reminds us we are not alone. Thanks so much for sharing!💙

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome to my Julie! Glad you resonated with me and thank you for sharing your own experiences too. A lot can resonate to how you feel and you are never alone. :D

your life experience has given you some wisdom about humanity and the world, and I'm glad you are sharing that gift of wisdom. Many people say that their lives were impacted by someone else's hard-earned experience, and you may not get direct feedback about it since it takes years to realize these things, but please share your gift as many ways as you can. :)

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, VHP. It means a lot to me to read your comment. I really appreciate it.

I appreciate your emotional intelligence Kristen and touching on the emotional issues you’ve experienced while traveling.

@TravelingwithKristin

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the kind words, Valerie! 💛🙏

This reminded me of how just after moving to another state, I was invited to a cousin's wedding but unable to go, because at the time I had no job (had fled abuse), so no money for a ticket, and my health was poor. I told her I couldn't afford to go and apologized, but then a few years later, a different cousin got married. This time, I was able to attend. And the previous cousin whose wedding I missed kept her back to me the whole time. It's like she didn't comprehend that I was actually physically too poor to attend hers, even though I explained it to her. I think she still holds it against me to this day... 🤔 Guessing a fair amount of people who move away experience stuff like this.

REALLY good infomation. Thx for taking the time and care.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Any time! Thank you for tuning in!

Thank you for sharing the video I love your channel love your traveling experience awesome Keep On Rockin the Free World..

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Will do!

The way I rationalize paying taxes to the US even though I live in Europe is twofold. Firstly, I am a sommelier and wine buyer and I work with several US importers. Second, until I went to a private university and graduate school, I attended public schools and utilized some of the public services made available. Now it is my turn to contribute to these social programs so others have the same opportunities as did I. Just an afterthought, since I served in the Marine Corps, there are many VA services that I was able to utilize. Semper Fi 🇺🇲

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Solid thinking there, Greg. Thank you for sharing. PS, want to be friends? 😄🍷 I'm a fan of wine haha (and that Somm documentary). Just did a podcast with my friend about Bordeaux and St Emilion: (first 5 min or so) www.badassdigitalnomads.com/how-to-make-any-business-location-independent/

@gregalonzo747

3 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin, it would be great to connect. My forte is Italian wines. My heritage is Spanish wines, and my passion is Georgian wines. By the way, how did you like Bulgarian wines? I will send you a video I did on wine. 🍷 Gaumarjos! ( cheers in the Georgian language)

Excellent content, thank for the detail work and information you provide!

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure! Thanks for being here :)

Great video!! I've been learning so much from your videos!

You have great insight. I am an American who lived in Japan for 2 years and loved it. I have traveled to Asia, Europe and Mexico. I think the main thing to keep in mind is that there is no paradise no matter where you live. Japan was great, but you basically have no privacy at all in the large cities. Europe is great, but the salary does not compare to the USA for the same job. The USA is great, but it has a lot of problems including wealth disparity, racism, polarizing political views, extreme regulations and taxes and many issues related to the cost of education and health care.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

So true, Thomas! There are pros and cons to every location and lifestyle. But I still think that we chose the best one ;)

@mnob1122

3 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin The USA is not a good place to live if you’re a retiree on a fixed income. Housing and healthcare costs are ridiculous. The USA is a culture of selfishness and greed, with the primary focus on money and materialism. My friends, also retirees, moved to Portugal in 2018 and say the will never return to America for the reasons mentioned above. Thomas Morrison hit on some great points. However, I wish I could afford to join my friends in Portugal.

@linjicakonikon7666

3 жыл бұрын

Thomas, you need to sit down and read about"racism" "wealth disparity" etc....with Thomas Sowell. Seriously. Get you head straight.

@zeroninjacrickit11

3 жыл бұрын

Folks can discriminate towards outsiders in any location! Even when they believe they are open and ‘liberal’ - get real! And if countries continued to stir the historical pot there would be no peace!

@mnob1122

3 жыл бұрын

@@linjicakonikon7666 Yeah, if you’re a libertarian conservative like Sowell.

Great video, Kristin, thank you again. Before living abroad on my own, I moved 17 times while in the Army, but also owned two homes, so I've even been on the OTHER side of that having your own home equation. Having done it, yes, it has its perks--and I think, no matter what I do, I WILL own something once I hit my late 50s/60s, even if it's a moveable tiny home. But trust me, you are right to believe there is also something liberating in NOT owning a home and having a zillion possessions. Age and years of experience may lead you to evolve on which side of that is more important to you. I concur with everything you say--every single point (the dwindling family invites and country rep comments were particularly spot-on. Uber drivers are my favorite "What's with Trump?" inquisitors). Somewhat sadly, after 30 years of moving, I simply no longer make friends in any place that I won't be staying at least 6 months or more (I used to be super-involved, like my mom, in church groups and other social clubs, and it became harder and more gut-wrenching each time I left). I've learned to say good-bye more easily, but still, my soul just isn't willing to make that investment too easily now. I had a similar experience to your Santorini one when I lived in Stari Grad one winter--it was bittersweet.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Hi @mctaguer! Glad you liked the video and you are welcome! It's always my pleasure to share this video with you. Thanks for sharing your experiences and insights on the topic as well. I appreciate it!

Very well explained. Excellent b-roll footage. Thanks!

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

Thank you ,a great video, many insightful thoughts and advices.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful, Harith!

One of best discussions of the difficult issues facing people who decide to live abroad. I think those who are older, married and retiring abroad are focused on particular issues such as long term Heath while younger single types that have to work abroad.may be focused more on dating and recreational activities. But you nailed all the big issues that could apply to all persons! Congrats on a well done discussion.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Joseph! Appreciate the sentiment and so glad it prompted a helpful conversation 😊

I love the things that you pointed out, they are all very important to think about and understand when considering living abroad, regardless of how long you plan to do so. Your experiences as a digital nomad will in some cases be very different than for those who plan to make a permanent or long-term move to somewhere, but every one of those things will most probably happen to even those relocating for good abroad. At least for those who settle down in one country, many of those things will ease or disappear, but will still be experienced to a degree. Thank you for this video.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your insights and watching Jim! Glad you resonated with my content!

The authenticity is tangible, thank you for sharing.

@TravelingwithKristin

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome Olwethu! 😊

This video was outstanding. There was a lot of good information in it, but the best part was your grace and how you carried yourself being completely honest about things that bother you and things you dislike. I absolutely love that we can see you emotions and purity through out. Thank you. #Travelingwithkristin

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Eric! Very motivating to hear that so I will keep going with the videos 😊

@savage22nd63

3 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin awesome thank you.😁

@savage22nd63

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for writing me back. You just made my day and probably my whole week! I've had others write me back and I appreciate them, but you are celebrity status to me. I can't stop smiling.😁❤️thank you again you're amazing!!! #Travelingwithkristin

the ultimate question, what to do after traveling for twenty years, when the world becomes a small place, when you've seen it all...most people live their whole life working so that one day they can travel, when that day comes they are too old to travel, they don't have the physical strength or desire to wander around endlessly, those who forgo working, travel at an early age, have nothing to look forward too, after twenty years, they too old to start a family, they have seen and experienced it all...

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

This is a profound question that I don't know the "right" answer to...

@carlmoot6315

3 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin if you like the work you are doing (10 ways you make money online) and still enjoy living in different countries, keep doing it for another twenty years, BUT buy a place of your own in a place you like (a condo with an ocean view, if you like the ocean, or a condo in the city, if you like city life, or a small house with some acreage, in the country, if you like the country), in the mediterranean, the caribbean, europe, asia, latin america, usa, and DON'T airbnb or rent it out, that way when you travel you will always have a HOME to come back to, that is YOURS, set up the way you want it, even if you don't rent it out, which i don't recommend, it's still an investment...have you already done this? if not there's your answer...

Nicely put together. Well done and thank you.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you kindly!😊

Hi, Kristin, I’ve really enjoyed your insightful videos. I have traveled a bit and generally for 6 months at a time. I often have that feeling of wanting so desperately to feel like a local and get to know the undercurrent of the place. I have also come to the conclusion that no matter how long I am somewhere, I am never truly a local. I lived in New England for 7 years and always felt like an outsider. I have also met people who are experts at settling in right away and make dozens of friends, join clubs etc. and seem to become part of the fabric of a community instantaneously. One thing I have noticed is that expats glom onto other expats because we are a defacto community craving connection and it’s just easier with others who “get it”. Thanks so much for this video!

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked the video Jennifer and thanks for sharing you experience and insights. I think this one is the most common feeling we all feel but there will always be better days. Hope you are safe.

I am an expat since 2004. Lived in 4 countries and planning on going to Portugal or Spain next year. There is a lot of trade-offs living this lifestyle but you will also see and understand things that most people never will. Many are jealous of your freedom yet many people do not understand how much you've got to give up. Loneliness is one thing you've got to deal with. But meeting other expats and dating them is also a great experience even if you never see them again. There will come a time everyone will settle down.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

I some video on Portugal & Spain that might help: kzread.info/dash/bejne/g2aqwaNmmautpsY.html & kzread.info/dash/bejne/iHxt1qStm5jfoZc.html Thanks for sharing your insights! Indeed there will be trade-offs.

Although I haven't lived abroad personally, the idea of missing out on events in your family or with close friends at home would definitely be the biggest downside to it. It would be hard to not be around family a lot of the time or only see them once a year possibly. For me missing family would be tough, but fortunately most of my friends are all over the place which would make things a little easier. Fortunately, all the downsides you have listed I feel would not outweigh all the benefits of living abroad even if it is only part-time. I really enjoyed this one as well as the other one you did!

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Scott! Yes for sure - I love having friends all around the world and don't regret meeting anyone, but it can be a trade-off sometimes being far away from family and other friends. I definitely agree that the pros outweigh the cons, though!

@lisaclausen8304

2 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin Yes, I can see that. . Sometimes I think had I stayed behind with my friends and family. . . . But, there is a kind of insular sense when you stay in the same place. Anyone who has left often understands, but would not return, because seeing the diversity and experiencing it just opens the mind. Wish there was a nomadic home to float around in--wait. . there is!!!

interesting video Kristin! you mentioned exactly some of what was holding me on from a nomadic lifestyle, I just don't think I could do that, however at the same time it is fun to watch how people do it and part of me would like to try it at least for 1-2 years.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it! Living a nomadic lifestyle for 1-2 years would be amazing on its own! Give it a try ;)

Your kindness & consideration of others is self-evident and refreshing.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Dawn! 💓

Just found your videos and I think they are very insightful and informative. As a Puerto Rican-New Yorker, I can relate to your time in Costa Rica. I retired from the Marines Corps in 2000. I have been to 12 countries and lived in 6 countries anywhere from 6 months to 3 years. My favorite place was the Philippines. I rented a house, dated local girls, and traveled the many Islands. You struck a never when you described living in Japan. I have been to Japan 6 times throughout the 1980s and their "habit" of getting up from a set on a bus when I or my buddies sat down was so obvious back then (I can't believe they're still doing that crap). Or seeing signs on local bars' (drinking holes) windows "Japanese Only" or "Private Club (harking back to the Southern US)." Marines tend to ignore signs like this and it got to a point where I got tired of walking around and I just walked in and order a Saki. There were about 10 people in the bar, mostly older timers. The guy at the bar served me but never talked to me or ask me to leave. I banged back the shot, I got up and left. I did it just to do it and I never returned. Back then we wrote it off as their response to WWII and/or our massive military presence in Japan. The local base workers, on the other hand, were more welcoming. They took you to their house, feed you, sung songs on their karaoke machine, and got wasted on our JD. The younger generation was more open to us as well and loved to party because we had the Jack Daniels and Johnny Walker Black. For what it's worth, I think you did a great job on the discrimination issue. As a Puerto Rican-New Yorker, the local Puerto Ricans on the island tends to snub their noses at PRs born in the continental US and are told we're not "real" Puerto Ricans. I guess the more things change, the more they remain the same. I wish you the best of luck as you leave Costa Rica.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience Henry. Glad you also enjoyed traveling and living abroad. The Philippines is indeed a beautiful tropical country with friendly folks. Your experience in Japan was spot on too. Thank you for watching Henry and appreciate you leaving a comment. 😊

Great share Kristin. This video is very much needed as many people's perspectives are that we are living the perfect lifestyle. I am only 20 months into my own journey ( I will be 57 this month ) so my situation, my character, my background is very different to yours, I may at some point experience these things. The advantages I have at the moment, are no family left to speak of, just one 43 year old nephew and my 29 year old son. I am an introvert, I don't socialise that often. I try not to stay more than 1 month in any one place, for the fear of getting too attached and never leaving. Plus I know there are many more wonderful people i still have to meet, ( got to share the love ) I still love owning so little. less than 100 itemised items. Dating, I have dated two local ladies, 1 Italian and 1 Spanish, they both knew my lifestyle and they both knew I would leave at some point, so we went into it with our eyes open, so there was no awkwardness at the end and we are still in touch. I know what you mean about not feeling quite like a local, to join in with the banter, camaraderie that they have, yes I miss that part from England, but not enough to stay longer ( yet ) I have never fitted in anywhere with the exception of Italy, so that's ok. Only discrimination so far was my age back in the UK, then again I am white and male. My two uncertainties, are if I get badly injured, I have no home to return to heal, and what my next source of income will be ( I am ok for 3-5 years )

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Great to hear from you, Dan; quite the journey awaits you! I’m glad you have had many positive experiences; will be interesting to see if your travel itinerary changes over the years. Keep us posted!

@danjsilve

3 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin Cheers Kristin. Is this the best place to keep you posted? I have a flight to Brazil on the 20th pending a PCR test. I was trying to get to Argentina. If I manage to make it to the America's. I don't plan to fly for a long time. My plan is to stay at least 2 years, ideally 5, as my goal is to live in every Spanish speaking country for at least 1-3 months, even though 1 of them is in Africa.lol. I have told myself I am not allowed to leave until I am fluent in Spanish, so I could be there for the rest of my life, yo studio espanol todos los dias, agora for tres meses. Bless you :-)

Excellent, thought-provoking, and serious video. As an architect who has traveled extensively, I completely agree with your observations and that emotionally it could be tough not to have roots, emotionally and physically.

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the kind words, Nicolas! I am happy you like and resonated with the video.

This was super thorough and so honest. Appreciate your videos.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Tami!

Thank you for sharing this. It sounds like you’ve also been on a journey of self discovery. 🙏

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! Life-long journey :)

"Language Barriers" - I had a good chuckle about Spanish being your default to "foreign language". That happened to me when I moved to Germany and the only language I took in HS and college was Spanish. I automatically responded with horrible Spanish when Germans would speak to me. Language barriers also were the cause for a number of relationship breakdowns. You may think that your subtleties come across as understood, but they don't and vice versa for the other person.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Glad I'm not the only one!

You have a wonderful channel! You've brought up so many points I agree with and then SOME, I had never considered. Language is a biggie, money conversion I found out about Haaa! And traveling within your area, although I just found out about getting the International Driver Permit, it only covers so many countries. I've definitely been pushing this idea around on my plate about traveling abroad. I like this series you're doing. Pros and cons, even traveling coast to coast in the US, you run into some of these situations. I did that after graduating school, cross country 6 times. I had a blast, but it's not without it's drawbacks at times as well. Thank you for your channel! Very helpful. 🌸

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Whitewolf! Thanks for watching. I am glad you resonated to some of my points and you found my channel helpful. Please feel free to subscribe. I share more topics in my podcast as well: www.badassdigitalnomads.com/ Thanks for sharing your own insights as well.

@WhiteWolfBlackStar

2 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingwithKristin Oh cool! Thank you, I'll check it out 🌼

Thank you for providing straightforward information. We are planning on moving abroad in less than a year and this video helped inform my mindset and the reality of the decision we are making.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

Great to hear that, Kenneth! Make sure to also watch the video on the positives of living abroad, too :) kzread.info/dash/bejne/fKF5lbSuf5bdf6w.html

I love having excuses to miss weddings.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

hahaha

@kristycopp447

2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha

@neiltitmus9744

2 жыл бұрын

I haven't been to many weddings and even fewer of my friends

@dollimelaine

2 жыл бұрын

lol...

@em7067

7 күн бұрын

🤣

Thank you for doing the due diligence in highlighting the need for research in deciding where to travel. We all will face discrimination in some form eventually, however, some places are more volatile and overall dangerous depending on where you're from and what you look like.

@TravelingwithKristin

3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome, Dwight. Thank you for commenting and sharing your perspective!

@barryyoung

3 жыл бұрын

What on earth are you talking about - you consider this KZread prostitution research - are you serious?

I just found your channel, and I loved it. Thank you so much for sharing

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome! Thank you for watching as well, feel free to subscribe for more 😊

An honest and transparent commentary. Much appreciated. I have lived in Scandinavia, the US and settled in Canada, and understand your points. Thank you very much for sharing your experiences. 👍

@TravelingwithKristin

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the kind words Heikki. I am glad you liked and resonated with my video. You are always welcome! 😊💛