My son passed away May 3rd 2023. He was 3 weeks shy of turning 18. I love you Issac can’t wait to see you again my son.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

We are so very sorry to hear you have just lost your son 😞 sending you our deepest condolences to you and your family 🌹 please take good care of yourself ❤️❤️

@benwoliver7201

8 ай бұрын

So sorry

@barbaramacdonald3128

7 ай бұрын

So sorry your son passed away. God give you peace.

@royothebuzz

7 ай бұрын

"The hour is coming when all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice" Yes, you will see him again.

@connorbennett5711

7 ай бұрын

may i ask how? im 18. so sorry for you loss.

For those who lost their loved ones I pray you find healing and comfort whatever belief you are.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

10 ай бұрын

💚💚

@browncandy5017

9 ай бұрын

Thank you..I'm still struggling

@pamkay1756

8 ай бұрын

​@@browncandy5017my Grammy died 12/31/97. I'm still struggling. I just want my Grammy. 💔

@212poi5

8 ай бұрын

tysm i just lost one

@seas_andpalmtrees

5 ай бұрын

I lost my Grandfather in September. That guy gave me many of my “firsts” in life. I would always sleepover every weekend at my Grandparent’s. I felt like I was his child also. We always went out, always went on adventures. Everyday I wake up shocked that no matter what, he’s not coming back.

My mom was cremated. This made me cry. I miss and love you so much mom. 😢

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

So very sorry to hear you have lost your mom😔 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹 Our mom's are a huge loss. Look after yourself 💚💚

@joeapicelli8367

Жыл бұрын

@@Areyoudyingtoknow Thank you. The video was interesting actually. I call it the circle of life. You're born, you live your life and you die.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

So very true 💚

@NynkeFdejong

2 ай бұрын

me 3 days ago on 20 march 2024 i miss here so much and love her to

@careywurdinger5238

2 ай бұрын

Same here I know the feeling

I have watched the cremation process in videos before. My 20 year old daughter passed away in 2016. Direct cremation was all I could afford to do. I watched videos to research how it was done while waiting for her cremains to be ready for pick up. I don't know why, but this video made me cry. This video was very thoughtfully and respectfully made. I suppose it made me rehash those emotions from those years ago. I appreciate this channel, and the wealth of information.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

11 ай бұрын

So very sorry to hear 😞 how sad losing your daughter so very young. We both send you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹 Hope you are doing well 🙏 take good care 💚💚

@saralkumarshrestha

10 ай бұрын

This body is just like a car, and the driver has already switched vehicles to start another beautiful journey, full of new experiences and joy.This old, beat-up car needs to be recycled and mixed with other materials of this world. It does not matter how you go back to the elements. Please know that, Soul is neither born nor dies, neither is created or can be destroyed. Our soul is a part of the creator, and we hold a piece of the almighty within us, and when we switch the vehicles, we follow the natural order of things and go back to the creator. Grief is the immense love you were yet to give to your loved ones.

@benwoliver7201

8 ай бұрын

So sorry I couldn't imagine loosing my child

@bojaiden5175

8 ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss

@Spoiled_horsegirl

7 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry 😢

My mom went with God yesterday. A body is just a shell for the soul to walk on earth. My mom is in heaven in a huge garden populated by all flowers and mangos, peaches, and butterflies. I will order a necklace for some of her ashes in it wherever I go. My mom is home but will never be forgotten.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Oh no we are so very sorry to hear such sad news of the loss of your mom 😔 please accept our deepest condolences to you and your family 🙏 🌹🌹 that's so precious to be able to carry her forever in a necklace 💚 please be kind to yourself and take very good care 💚💚

@Miguelizk00l

Жыл бұрын

@@Areyoudyingtoknow It's been a rough few days but I'm getting to the "take care of yourself" part. I miss her so much. And thank you. 😊

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Yes it's is a tough road to travel 🥺 look after yourself 💚💚

@baddyrich502

Жыл бұрын

Prayers to u bro I’m going thru some tough things w/my moms health as we speak it’s heartbreaking 💔

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Oh no sorry to hear this 😞 we send you our best and hope your mum is doing ok 💚💚

My dad got cremated yesterday, may he rest in peace, love you dad, hope we all did you proud, hardest thing I've ever had to go through.♥️♥️x

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

We are so very sorry to hear such sad news 😞 please accept our deepest condolences to you and your family 🙏🌹 please look after yourself and seek help if you ever need it throughout you grieving journey 😞 sending you our best take very good care 💚💚

@christophermccarthy6192

7 ай бұрын

My paternal grandparents, my youngest paternal uncle, my stepfather and the love of my life were all cremated. My father will be when his time comes hopefully not for some time.

@kc10flteng1

7 ай бұрын

Godspeed to your pop! Just to say that here - as a Dad - I just know - he would be so proud of his family and you! Best wishes to ALL of you.❤

@mario5603

4 ай бұрын

It’s alright man my dad got cremated and that was the hardest thing I ever experienced

@Tracy-rf7ri

Ай бұрын

My husband is gone. All I have left are ashes.

My father passed earlier this week, he unfortunately took his own life. He gets cremated today, I'm going to keep some of his ashes while the rest is buried with my grandparents and uncle. Love you, old man. Thank you for all the great memories and laughs, I hope you're still so proud of me. Rest in peace.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Oh no we are so very sorry to hear 😔 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹 please take good care and look after yourself 🙏💚💚

@TheChaosDragoness

Жыл бұрын

@@Areyoudyingtoknow Thank you very much, that means a lot to me.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

💚💚

@Iheartcurlyheads

6 ай бұрын

Rip bozo LMAO

@Ghost_Girl682

6 ай бұрын

Rip Bozo LMAO

My mum passed 10 days ago it’s a pain which cannot be described it’s left a huge void in my life.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

5 ай бұрын

We both send you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹 so very sorry to hear 😞 always be kind to yourself and take good care 💚💚

@danadoozer9990

Ай бұрын

Oh honey, I lost my mom right around the same time as you lost yours. I'm so sorry for your loss and your pain. I know how it feels, it's been almost 4 months and I still cry every day and I miss her so much that it hurts. I know you're going through the same, so I'm sending my prayers for healing, and just know that you're not alone, even though it really feels like it sometimes.❤

@user-rs5jx4ps3x

Ай бұрын

I wish you strength, she is your angel. Be strong and make her proud

My dad passed away this August we had him cremated and just received his ashes back today. Thank you TCU and UT for All that you do. Miss daddy but he's home with US tonight love you 😘

@Areyoudyingtoknow

5 ай бұрын

So sorry to hear 😔 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹❤️❤️

My loving husband just pass away May 11th 2023 😭😭😭💔💔 And made me watch this 🥺. Home is never be a home with out you 😢 it so quiet. Me and girls miss you and love you so much, I know you always here with us. You will be forever in our hearts baby I love you ❤❤

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Ohh no we are so truly very sorry to hear you have just lost your husband 😞 please accept our deepest condolences to you and your family 🌹🌹 words are never enough 💔 Hope you have support around you and your girls 🙏 please take good care and be kind to yourself 💚💚

@cherylmortensen8133

18 күн бұрын

I'm so sorry. I've been married 47 years and only fighting the fight of my life for him. Other wise I'd just do palliative care.

Presenter with utmost respect. My sister, who passed some years ago, chose to be direct flame cremated way ahead of time. No fuss, no bother just simple and straight forward with no complications. I have decided to follow in her footsteps, all preplanned and prepaid.

@jacquelinedouglas5280

8 ай бұрын

What is direct flame never knew this excited! ?

@megano.6808

Ай бұрын

Such a gift to your family to preplan & prepay. They will be able to grieve your loss and not have as many decisions to make when you pass.

2 things I took away from this: 1) When raking out the remains, it looks like you're going to end up with a little dust from the person cremated before. 2) Speaking of dust, if I worked there I'd be inclined to wear a dust mask. Inhaling dust from human remains is not at the top of my list of must dos.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi Dave, thank you for your comments. Tim does wear full PPE when operating the cremator. While we were filming Tim was not working the machine another employee was doing the job, he was only stepping in during the filming and didn't wear a mask so he could talk to us during the filming and it was cut for editing. Thank you for your concern but Tim was very aware of his exposure and we spent limited time in that area. Take care 😊💚

@ov7960

9 ай бұрын

👍

@kelechionwukwe1563

6 ай бұрын

@@Areyoudyingtoknow k

@tenncutt

5 ай бұрын

There will be a curse on my bone dust...

@captainmanic1959

29 күн бұрын

There's going to be about nine pounds of cremated ash when it's over. My brother and younger sister are both in my closet in cremated form. My older sister said she wanted them buried with her, and I intend to honor her request.

My mom passed away June 30th 2023 it hurt a lot. I lost her at 15. I only have 15 years if memory with her and it was the best 15 years of my life and the only... she's in a better place now. Ima see her this Friday for the funeral and she's getting cremated. She was only 35. My mom was gon to soon. She sacrificed everything for me and my 2 siblings

@Areyoudyingtoknow

10 ай бұрын

Oh we are so very sorry to hear such sad news of your mom 😞 we both send you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹 Please take care of yourself and lean on your family and friends for support of needed on Friday 🙏 take good care 💚💚

@OrbitSloth

7 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m 20, lost my mum in August aged 57. I feel she passed too early as well. The best ones are taken too early.

@RestlessTrice_plays

7 ай бұрын

I lost my mom at 16

@user-by5ew8uk3i

4 ай бұрын

So so sorry yes to young to lose your mom.Im so sorry.hugs

@blaqvibecast4150

2 ай бұрын

Rest in paradise to your mother sweetheart. I pray that you and your siblings are safe and at peace.

My mother passed away in February 2, 2022 from COVID. She was cremated at one of the local funeral homes. What's even more heart-wrenching is that I will have to go through with this again when my father eventually leaves this world. May those above give me strength when that day comes.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

7 ай бұрын

So very sorry to hear you have lost your mother 😔 we both send you our deepest condolences 🌹 Be kind to yourself and seek help and support if you need it during your difficult times 🙏💚

Body is just a vessel The soul is eternal And it makes perfect sense that one cannot die and cease to exist but to transform into another life form just like energy we exist forever Don't be scared of death It's part of life Just like growing up We enjoy it Appreciate life and get ready for your next after life

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for that. I agree the body is a vessel carrying us through our journey of life 🙏 take care 😊💚💚

@AbidKhan-sg9gd

Ай бұрын

The body is a vessel but it important one u will be raised on the day of judgment with ur body that's why cremation wrong total disrespect to the body and deceased person

@raymondlin8728

12 күн бұрын

Sad,,my fath

My dog passed away a month ago, she was diagnosed with spleen cancer apparently she had it going on for a long time she kept rolling around and we thought it was her being fun but we should've known earlier. She got cremated I didn't want to see her get cremated but thank you for the video, it's so emotional to see it. Thank you again.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

10 ай бұрын

So very sorry to hear 😞 sending you our best wishes and big hugs, take good care 💚💚

@brendaallen5141

9 ай бұрын

My son passed away in 2019. He was48 yrs old. He was cremated. He didn’t have any life ins. The family including myself wasn’t present when the cremation to place. I wouldn’t want to be present anyway. Watching this video was sad. The pain never goes away, but The Lords strength helps through it. We decided to put his remains in the ocean.?We were present for that It was a beautiful day on the water. I mean it was breathtaking. We were able to see his remains put into the ocean with flowers. I always wondered how cremations was done. Now I know. May the Lord give everyone peace that have chosen this way to put their loved ones away.❤

@karenmillious3933

7 ай бұрын

​@@brendaallen51414:15 4:15

@rosiered3403

6 ай бұрын

I have the ashes of 3 beloved dogs. It never gets easier to lose a furbaby. Hugs.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

5 ай бұрын

So sorry 😔💚💚

I come from a family of carers. We all have different roles, Nursing, Disability care, Palliative care, and Foster Care. I also am a foster carer with a career in entertainment yet felt I needed more. There is something about the ability to bring dignity to the end-of-life process and help those in their time of grief that drew me to my next path in life. I applied for a position at a funeral home yesterday and was asked to join the team today. I started watching your videos yesterday (I have 2 years of catching up to do!) and I respect the way you normalize the end-of-life process, it really is beautiful. Dispelling fear with respect, dignity, and care is inspirational. I thank you both for your time and dedication to these insights, it’s not a position many people tend to gravitate to, what you are doing makes it comfortable.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi Jo, what an amazing job history you have and it's no wonder the funeral industry Snapped you up. You are the exact caring, dedicated person the this kind of work needs. You must keep us updated on how your journey goes in your new role. Any questions you may have don't hesitate to ask 😊 Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏 yes we have a few videos out now ☺️ Thanks for telling your story take good care & good luck 🌹💚💚

My dad died exactly 1 month and 1 day today... he was cremated and to be placed with his parents... still hurts like day 1...

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

We are both so very sorry to hear this very sad news of your dad 😔 sending you and your family our deepest condolences 🌹🌹 no words can ever help the pain you are feeling and will do for a long time. It's so sad when we lose any of our parents. Please be kind to yourself and seek help if you need it from professional counselor. Take good care 💚💚

@ronniebutler5715

5 ай бұрын

I know how you feel. My daddy passed away In August and he died of glioblastoma and Pancreatic cancer. I took care of him until the last breath. It was the most hardest thing I've ever had to do in my life. But glad I was there for Daddy. Just received his ashes today and I feel like he's come home from a long trip. Miss him so much 😢

i lost my nan back in 2018, we were so close, still remember when i used to visit her house and watch animal tv programs together, and just share so many laughs (she had the best laugh ever) unfortunately she wasnt very well, when it was found out it was too late, passed from sepsis :( then in 2019 my grandad passed away and we dont know the cause but my grandad was such a caring and funny gentleman :( both were cremated. still struggle with the loss of both till this day. i love you nan and grandad forever and always and one day we shall meet again ❤❤

@Areyoudyingtoknow

9 ай бұрын

We are so very sorry to hear of your losses 😞 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹 be kind to yourself too, it's a tough journey to travel. Take good care 💚💚

My grandfather passed away two years ago tomorrow (8/13/21) and was cremated, which i did not know was what he wanted until after, and i had no idea what the process was like, despite having my cat cremated in 2020. Thank you for the information. Oddly, it helped me get a bit of closure

@Areyoudyingtoknow

9 ай бұрын

So sorry to hear you have lost your grandfather 😔 sending you our best 🙏 take good care 💚💚

My mum passed away 3 weeks ago and I miss her so much, gone too soon but with her ashes I will keep them with me in a ring and necklace for the rest of my life, love you mum hope heaven is as nice as they say!

@Areyoudyingtoknow

2 ай бұрын

So very sorry to hear of your loss 😔 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹 Look after yourself ❤️❤️

My Mom is going to be cremated tomorrow morning. I wanted to be by her side one last time as she is cremated, but travel is complicated for me (she is across the country). I needed to understand the process so that as I take quiet time while she is being cremated I know what is happening. Why do I need to know? I'm heartbroken and it honestly wasn't comforting (not that I expected it to be). It was sensitive of you that you didn't show the box going into the incinerator, so thank you for that. My heart and mind are silently screaming their grief, knowing what my Mom was is going to be reduced to tomorrow. Thank you for the video, though. Having thought about it, I think I needed to see it to push one step further toward acceptance. And you're a part of that. ❤

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

We are both so very sorry 😔 to hear such sad news and send you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹 It's such a difficult process to go through, our own personal grieve journey and it's different for us all. We have no words to make it any easier but wish we did 😞 the pain is so unbelievable some days it's hard to focus. Believe me when we say the journey is unique to you but the pain will ease. We have both lost our mums and very suddenly for me (Tracy here) it's just shit and sorry for that word but it's true, it is hard but seek out help from friends and family if needed and always try and be kind to yourself 🙏 we will be thinking of you tomorrow sending you our best, please take good care 💚💚

My nan was cremated today. I’m so glad I got to spend the time I did with her. I’d give anything to be the kind of grandparent she was to me. Rest easy Nan ❤️

@Areyoudyingtoknow

4 ай бұрын

So very sorry to hear this 😞 we both send you our deepest condolences to you and your family 🌹🌹❤️

My dad left like a month ago and this song reminds me of him of all the memories❤😢

@Areyoudyingtoknow

4 ай бұрын

So very sorry to hear 😔 sending our very best to you ❤️

My Chihuahua Romeo died Sep 13 2023 he was 16 yrs, he had (kidney disease, full blind, dementia and arthritis) We had to put him to sleep, hes been cremated and we will get him back in about 7 weeks. I miss him so much. I know I'll see him again in heaven. Thanks for the video. ❤❤

@Areyoudyingtoknow

8 ай бұрын

Oh no we are so very sorry to hear such sad news 😔 he is so very young. We both send you our deepest condolences 🙏 Take good care and always be kind to yourself 💚💚

@Holy-BrideOfChrist

8 ай бұрын

@@Areyoudyingtoknow Thank you so much. I appreciate it 🙏🏼 ❤️

@Areyoudyingtoknow

8 ай бұрын

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Many years ago I was at our local crem laying some flowers and upon going back to the car saw someone coming out the back door, I asked if I could be shown around and it was no problem the days services had finished but I even got to see a cremation taking place, very interesting 👍

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi Paul, you were lucky to get to see that by just asking. It just shows you that they is nothing to hide behind the scenes of a funeral home and crematorium. Some of our crematoriums have open days so you can go behind the scenes but not usually to see a cremation taken place. Thank you for sharing, take care 💚💚

My dad took his life on April 19, 2019, and I miss him very much. He is with the Lord, watching over our family. He could’ve lived longer. I still feel the pain after 5 years. He was cremated and he will live in our hearts forever.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Күн бұрын

So very sorry to hear 😔 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹 take good care of yourself ❤️❤️

This is so sad but I believe it is better knowing the family can keep the loved one in the home. God bless all to whoever had to go through this! ❤

@Areyoudyingtoknow

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much ❤️❤️

as always yet another fascinating insight to what happens during a cremation also done with upmost sensitivity and respect of course ladies

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Natalie 💚💚

@joannafuentes8018

Жыл бұрын

I agree. My grandmother is getting cremated this Monday and I didn’t know what to expect. You see other videos which make the process so scary 😢

I want to be cremated when I pass on. I can’t bear the thought of my body gradually rotting six feet underground.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi, thank you for your comments take care 😊💚

@samanthaswan8445

4 ай бұрын

I don't know what's worse cremation or buried

I lost my dearest Mom 2 weeks ago. I know she’s in a better place with no more pain. I still don’t know how I feel and scared to confront my emotions. This video gave me some comfort, thank you.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Ай бұрын

We are so sorry for your loss and hope you are finding your way through the grief xx

This song has me crying because it reminded me of my gramma who passed away on October 11th 2021 and I miss her a lot

@Areyoudyingtoknow

3 ай бұрын

So sorry to hear that 😔 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹 ❤️❤️

My mom and my brother were both cremated. They are with me always in beautiful cremation wooden boxes. By mom's has her gardening gloves on it, my brother's has a motorcyle on it. Beautiful pieces of artwork. Much cheaper than a burial, no upkeep needed, and it was at their request. When it's my time to go, I have it specified in my will to also be cremated. We had memorial services for both. Feel really bad that my dad chose burial instead. It's simply gross to me to think about being buried.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

7 ай бұрын

Sounds like beautiful urns your family are in very personal 🤗💚💚

I miss my grandma very much who's been gone for four years now

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi Alisa, we are both so sorry for the loss of your grandmother 😔💔 sending you lots of love and hugs. Hope you have lots of support around from your family and friends 🙏💚💚

This is a great video to help people feel calm about the process. When I read the comments, I want to cry. Love to all!

@Areyoudyingtoknow

3 ай бұрын

You are so kind thank you ❤️❤️

R.I.P for everyone who's already go to heaven before us..

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

🙏💚💚

I'm very sorry for all of your losses and may God be with them always

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Such kind words 🙏💚💚

I lost my 35 year old son in a fatal car accident in 2020. Because of covid we were unable to have a viewing. I chose to have my son cremated. When I die my children can decide where they want to place mine and my sons ashes (together). My daughter wants to place us in an hour glass so that we may still be at the table on family game nights. I will never regret having my son cremated. To any parent who has lost a child.. I know your pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

9 ай бұрын

We are so very sorry to hear you losing your son in such away 😔 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹 We think that's such a beautiful thing to do together in an hourglass for all the family to see 💞🙏 Please take good care all the best 💚💚

I have seen the cardboard box called an air tray, the crematory unit a retort. This video was done in a very respectful way to the deceased.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

8 ай бұрын

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My grandmother passed away last monday and as it hurts i find comfort in watching this knowing her wishes were for my mom and her siblings to cremate her. Although i wasnt a fan i knew i had to watch a video to understand the process. So now that i do im at peace while my grandmother rests in peace.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

5 ай бұрын

So very sorry to hear 😔 we both send you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹 You take good care of yourself ❤️❤️

Thank you so much for educating us so that I will not scared. 😢

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind comments take care and glad we help a little 😘💚💚

my nan passed away on the 17th June 2023 and shes getting cremated so to watch this rlly breaks my heart 💔💔

@Areyoudyingtoknow

10 ай бұрын

So very sorry for your loss 😞 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹💚

Thank you girls that made life easier for my daughter summer from aberdeen scotland. Love you all.xx

@Areyoudyingtoknow

4 ай бұрын

Hi Richard, no problem we are happy we can help 🙏❤️❤️

i told my wife id like to be cremated and she said you'll have to wait until tomorrow cos they're closed til morning :)

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣 thank you made us laugh, take care 💚

This is just scary to think of, you’re just suddenly dead and suddenly within an hour or so, all of your body is gone except for your bones. In my opinion, cremations may be cheap and good for the environment but I’d rather do burials, like seriously I don’t want to be turned into ashes with my skin, hair,skull, and eyes all melted and vaporised and gone! Without a trace.

@mrtechlogiant828

Жыл бұрын

Also what’s even scarier is your body set on fire with the coffin when you can just rest in piece

@mrtechlogiant828

Жыл бұрын

Also I forgot to mention that there has been reports of lots of people even been cremated alive! While if buried alive, you ring the bell and you can get out.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Cremation is not for everyone. Thank you for your comments take good care 💚

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Think many many years ago. To many tall stories. Thank you for your comments.

@SamuelBlack84

8 ай бұрын

There's no way in hell that I am going in a hole in the ground! I don't exactly relish cremation either, but eventually, a decision must be made

imagine the mental strengh itd take to do this job i could never do it so props to the people that do yall are the reason my uncle got to rest in the place he love

@Areyoudyingtoknow

6 күн бұрын

It's not for everyone. ❤️

My friend was cremated yesterday. You have been my friend. That in itself is a tremendous thing. RIP Apol

@Areyoudyingtoknow

28 күн бұрын

Sorry for your loss 😔❤️❤️

My father's last journey.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

2 ай бұрын

So very sorry to hear 😔 take good care ❤️❤️

As always, very tastefully explained. I am still on board with cremation after watching. Thank you ladies for educating us. ❤

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Yes we are going to be cremated too. Not yet we hope 🤪😂💚💚

@fionacarvell2033

Жыл бұрын

@@Areyoudyingtoknow I don’t like the sound of being cremated

My dad is gone and this makes me cry watching this. 😭

@shutupkid3094

2 ай бұрын

I lost my guinea pig today.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

2 ай бұрын

So sorry for you loss 😞 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹❤️❤️

Other very interesting video. Thank you ladies. Am going to buy something from your shop to help keep your chancel live love from Scotland x

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi Nicola, thank you so much for you kind words and support 🥰💚💚

My mom died 5 years ago and was cremated and its really sad to imagine her body going through this

@Areyoudyingtoknow

5 ай бұрын

It's always so hard when we lose our parents 😔 sending you our best wishes take good care 💚💚

My husband and I discussed cremation prior to his death. My only regret is I don't know why he died and due to the money they wanted, I couldn't afford to know why and how my husband died! I will always love you 😢❤

@Areyoudyingtoknow

8 ай бұрын

We are so very sorry to hear 😔 Sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹 Please always be kind to yourself 🙏💚💚

I'll never forget the loud smack/thud my great-grandpa's cremains made as they hit the ground when we attempted to "spread" him in a place he'd already pre-chosen. None of us had ever dealt with cremains before and thought it was going to be ashy dust like what you see in the movies. Nope, it was not anything like you see in the movies but, despite being initially mortifying, we all started laughing because he would have laughed so hard at the way we'd all jumped back and gasped. It was definitely a learning experience, that's for sure. He really would have gotten a kick out of how freaked out we all were, though!

@Areyoudyingtoknow

2 ай бұрын

That would have been unsettling. 🤦🏻‍♀️- if you watch our vid on scattering the ashes, it doesnt always happen with a thud. 💚

Oh! Never knew about the cremulator. You see so often in movies that a box goes in and perfect dust comes out and I just accepted it without thinking, lol.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi Electricfishfan, yes it's interesting a lot more goes on then we release. Thank you for your comments take care 💚💚

Hey girlie I’m currently in school to become a mortician and I recently heard that many people working with formaldehyde end up with health issues and that the risks of getting cancer is quite high. Im very passionate about the funeral industry but hearing this made me slightly hesitant. I was curious to know if this is something Tracy thinks about in her career and if there are ways to safely navigate formaldehyde or if there will always be health risks involved? Love y’all xoxo

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi Isabella, I think this will be a great question to answer on video. There is a very very small risk but to keep that risk very low your need to follow OHS (occupational health and safety). Thank you for your question will answer over the coming weeks. Take good care 😊💚💚

@NaschYGO-Angel

Жыл бұрын

Hey I’m currently in school as well, love your profile pic and yea I enjoy the funeral home business helping families. Very fitting card choice by the way.

@vernondavis6095

Жыл бұрын

yes I worked with formaldehyde building cabinets had cancer twice and several coworkers got cancer and several died

Seriously, thank you for another great video. I’m learning new things all the time. Take care

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

You are very welcome Neil🙂

@deview123

Жыл бұрын

@@Areyoudyingtoknow you’re very welcome. Did you see my joke line?

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Always 😂💚💚

@deview123

Жыл бұрын

@@Areyoudyingtoknow 👍

My lovely brother passed away on 9 August 2023 from Troat Cancer. His funeral was on 4 Sept 2023. So it's very raw for me at the moment. I hope the pain I feel will get better, but I feel galf of me has gone. I'm am truly and utterly heartbroken. Until we meet again love you so much bro ❤

@Areyoudyingtoknow

8 ай бұрын

Hi Sharon, we are so very sorry to hear 😞 sending you our deepest condolences to you and your family 🌹🌹 Please take good care 💚💚

Fair play to that guy, can't be an easy job even after years. Thankful for his and everyone's assistance during our time of need.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for your kind words 🙏❤️❤️

Thank you so much ladies, very interesting. Hope you both are safe and healthy. Hugs!

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi Mary, we are thank you 😊 hope you are well too 💚💚

Alhamdulillah I am proud to be a muslim Allah make us happy here and hereafter

The back room sorting and tumbling was fun and industrial! Lol

@Areyoudyingtoknow

4 ай бұрын

Interesting 😯

I lost my Grandfather Sept 22nd 2019! I had my best memories with you!

@Areyoudyingtoknow

7 ай бұрын

So very sorry to hear 😔 💚💚

Their seems to be a lot left over in the ashes and burnt bone Can you get the ashes back without been broken down in the cremulater

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

That would depend on how your local crematorium operates. If you asked the question it might be possible.

Yep, my dad was cremated many years ago but the crematorium was more than 60 years old, and it took almost 5 hours to cremate his 125 pound body.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

11 ай бұрын

💚💚

Thank you for the video. This is what my husband wants so I just wanted to see the process of it.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

9 ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful! Take care 💚💚

I know this isnt as drastic as a parent or child dying, as some other comments have said, but my dog died 10 days ago. He was a beautiful all white alaskan husky with one blue eye and one brown and always a big ol goofy smile on his face. We got his ashes back today and its been a very emotional day for me. He was such a pain in the neck with how he was always jumping over the fence and running around the neighborhood or chilling in the neighbors yard, but i loved him to bits. May god rest your soul Fabian, i miss you so much and love your forever 🤍

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Ай бұрын

💜 Oh Brandon, losing a pet can be more traumatic than losing a relative - grief is grief. We hope you are doing ok and have some help and support xx

My dad died in 2018 we buried him about 18 feet close to the house the traditional way. May his soul RIP

@Areyoudyingtoknow

7 ай бұрын

🤗💚💚

I just received my mom's ashes back three days ago and accidentally opened the urn and saw her cremains [it has a photo frame and i could not figure out for the life of me how to insert the photo i had picked out for her, joke was on me because it was actually a slot you pull out on the bottom oops] and I was really glad that I'd already watched this video. I'm so glad [and sad] to have her home finally, I was getting more and more upset thinking about her sitting in a freezer for a month. I just watched this video again and I appreciate it a lot. Thank you, ladies.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi Elizabeth, sending you big hugs 🤗 we hope you are doing ok 🙏 special to have your mum back home 🌹 Oops glad you worked out the photo frame 😉 Take care 💚💚

@elizabethmojica8995

Жыл бұрын

@@Areyoudyingtoknow I'm doing okay! Just really sad and guilty still over how things progressed. I still feel like it's my fault because I gave her covid. But I'm so glad to have her home where she belongs. I hope you two are doing well too! Haha yeah, she's stuffed pretty tightly into that urn and she almost fell out [thank goodness for the bag] and I literally screamed 'SORRY MOM SORRY!' whilst pushing her back into the box LOL. Oops! Big hugs to you both as well

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Oh no don't ever feel guilty, mum would not want you to live like that. Please do worry about that lovely mum is with you always even if you did nearly drop her on the floor 😉 we are both well thanks you for asking You look after yourself sending hugs 💚💚

My grandma died a few days ago and I’m really sad because I’m not even 18 but for me she’s always with me ❤

@Areyoudyingtoknow

8 ай бұрын

So very sorry to hear 😔 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹💚💚

Hello ladies love your videos im watching from oklahoma im curious to know if embalming is done the same on an organ donor as one thats not a donor

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi Rhonda, yes embalming can still be done on a deceased that had donated organs. It will be what we call a 6 point embalming process. This means we will raise arteries in 6 different locations on the body for injection and a lot of hypodermic work will be done all so. Thank you for your question take care out in Oklahoma 😊💚💚

This was certainly hard to watch because I lost my dad in August and I’m about to lose my mom. I guess it’s just life. No one can live forever. And I would much rather have ashes than having them lay a box under ground.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Oh Laura we are so very sorry to hear this very sad news 😔 please accept our deepest condolences to you and your family 🌹 and we hope your mum is doing ok 🙏 take good care 💚

Very touching and informative, thank you.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching, Cat

If the decedent has braces on their teeth do the brackets, bands & wires survive the cremation? I've often wondered if the braces and ash is all that is left. (I was an orthodontic assistant for 20+ yrs)

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi navyskaterdude, no these thing will not survive the temperature in the cremation. Thing like large metal hip replacement and metal rods will survive but are usually charred. Take care 💚💚

@navyskaterdude

Жыл бұрын

@@Areyoudyingtoknow Thanks!!

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

👍😊

Very educational. God bless

@Areyoudyingtoknow

7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your kind words 🤗💚💚

My dad was put in cremation yesterday. Going through the grieving process and its getting harder to cope with my dad not being here. Barely eat or sleep. I don’t like this pain I feel.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

10 ай бұрын

So very sorry to hear you have just lost your dad 😞 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹 please be kind to yourself and seek help and support if needed 💚💚

Hello ladies. Over here in Northern Ireland, traditional coffin burial is by far the most popular method of 'corpse disposal', sadly though, I feel it's not for me. My late Dad and Mum, who's 83 years old have/will opt for burial in our local cemetery. I have plumped for cremation, with my remains to be interred in the family plot. I don't know WHY but burial just freaks my mind.....BURN ME! 🥰🥰🤗👍👍👍

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Gotta agree with you Gaggy! 👍🥰

@diddlebug7241

Жыл бұрын

With the prices of burials cremation is the cheapest form of burial.

@philipbooth7779

Жыл бұрын

Is Ireland still in the dark ages.

@jax3722

Жыл бұрын

@@philipbooth7779 no it’s just traditional, probably Roman Catholic, like me, I would say the majority of Catholics prefer a burial,

BGM super melody, please (which group is this music??????) Give the link or upload full episode

@Areyoudyingtoknow

4 ай бұрын

Not sure sorry 🤷‍♀️ x

My grandma was cremated today she passed away January 24th my heart hurts so bad she raised me I miss her so much

@Areyoudyingtoknow

3 ай бұрын

So very sorry to hear 😞 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹❤️❤️

So I assume a body is first embalmed, right?? To get rid of the body fluids. Amazing to see the worker show care and respect and to also see how little is left after the procedure. Thank you...

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi, no you don't need to embalm to be cremated. In fact here in Australia we don't embalm most of the deceased we care for. Embalming is done if family request, a person is going home for a few days, going into an above ground vaults, repatriated to another country or cultural reasons. Thank you for your comments take care 😊💚

I know, it’s the last time you’ll ever get burned up over anything

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

You are funny 😂 Neil 💚

I'm watching this to understand the process of the machinary and it they helps the process. (Bet you're asking why?) Because i have an interview tomorrow, with a company that supplies, services and repairs them. Seeing this shows me how cruicial these machines are, never apprichated this side of life before until now.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi, that's great. We hope your interview went well 🤞 all the best and hope all goes well. Let's us know take care 😊💚

Silly question, why doesn't the cremator wear a mask.? Any job I'm on which involves any kind of dust requires a mask for OHS reasons. Over the years he would have dust and debris building up in his lungs causing damage.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi BecSparky, The staff members do wear masks normally, Tim ( the guy in the video) is the owner of this crematorium, he was doing this as a demonstration for our video. Well spotted thanks 😊👍 take care 💚💚

@elderlypoodle9181

Жыл бұрын

Not a silly question at all. The first thing I thought of. My husband worked around solvent’s and often didn’t wear gloves or a mask. He did that for 45 years and I would nag him him for it.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hope you husband list to your good advice 😊💚💚

@elderlypoodle9181

Жыл бұрын

@@Areyoudyingtoknow Nope… 😉

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

ah well, can't win 'em all! Thanks for your comment xx

There was a piece left

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Very observant. We cut the video several times because the process of scraping took a while, I can assure you it was all captured 💜

@courtneys6220

Жыл бұрын

@@Areyoudyingtoknow I hope so my biggest fear is that I didn’t get all my grandmas ashes back

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi Courtney, sure she is all with you 💚💚🌹

@niknax5159

Жыл бұрын

@@Areyoudyingtoknowthanks for clarifying as I also saw the remainder left in the retort and raised an eyebrow (Soz, just being honest lol)

This is good information, for cremation,its not what i want, but these people are, doing something that has to be done,they definitely don't sever from anxiety!

@Areyoudyingtoknow

7 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching 🤗💚💚

This is neat. I grew up in India and then moved to the States. When I was around 10 years old, a family of four in our village died in an accident and were all cremated side by side. When the fire was lit, we left the scene, leaving only a few people to ensure everything burned properly. I was still able to watch from a distance through the thick smoke.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

14 күн бұрын

Oh wow how sad for that family ❤️

It’s beautiful and very respectful

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 🙏 take care 😊💚

I will never be cremated! I want my body to remain in one spot till the Lord comes back and reunites my spirit with my changed and renewed body like it says in Thessalonians 4:14-17

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi, cremation is not for everyone. Thanks for your comments 💚

I would never allow this to be done to a loved one. It’s disgusting to me.

@pacather

9 ай бұрын

Thank you for your sentiments. I'm nearly 70. When I was born most Americans were given casket funerals, even if they were poor. They were then buried in family plots in cemeteries, sometimes with several generations. If you were Catholic you went on All Saints Day to visit them and place flowers. It was nice for young people to be surrounded by their ancestors and appreciate the multi generational aspect of family and community. Material considerations like cost or the environment are poor arguments to make against what most of the world's people have been doing for millenia, usually within the context of religious belief. After all, even primitive people buried their dead. PS I know funerals are expensive; they always have been. That's why responsible people prepare for them. If you can put a 25k balance on your credit cards or spend that much on a car, you can find a way to finance a loved one's funeral. It's no "waste of money." It's someone's eternal resting place.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

9 ай бұрын

Yes it's very expensive in America. I am very lucky to be working for a small family business here in Australia and the costs are so much cheaper and we definitely follow family requests. And been a small business the owner is often so very generous to family struggling with cost. The big corporations have set fees. Take care.

@oblongfan1

8 ай бұрын

good for you. i find burials pointless and waste of money, id never do it

@fraser_mr2009

8 ай бұрын

Nothing you can do if your loved one wants to be cremated.

@kimsullivan5576

7 ай бұрын

@@pacather Exactly. 🙏

How much of a person's ashes are left behind or are the ovens cleaned after each use or is the previous person's ashes there A mixture of person's as it were

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi Catherine, you can see in our videos on cremation, the series, how it's done. The oven is scraped clean. The ashes are all taken. 😊Thanks for your questions xx

@catherinedavy1022

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your reply. Appreciate your assistance.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

☺️💚

My mom passed just last month Aug 31 2023 an I had her cremated I have her ashes an I can't let her go she will be with me till I pass an then both are ashes can be mixed an put in a beautiful place.....I love u momma rest easy ❤

@Areyoudyingtoknow

8 ай бұрын

We are sorry you lost your mum so recently. take care lovely xx

I saw a video on ticktock where the body had to be turned during the cremation. Is that rare, or does it happen often? Thank you!

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hi Lu H, never heard that happening before 🤔 must be rare. Thanks for sharing, take care 💚

@Jason-xq4nu

Жыл бұрын

@@Areyoudyingtoknow sounds like a rotisserie.... like you said "rare" tho medium to well done is more preferable.... lol ha ha ha.

My dad passed away yesterday and seeing this makes me tear up.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

3 ай бұрын

We are so very sorry to hear 😞 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹❤️❤️

We come into the world we leave the world our spirit lives on we are a shell when we pass ❤

What happens to internal degradable things like implants? Can they stay in the body? Or loop implant recorders? Must they be removed before hand?

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Hiya, anything with a battery needs to be removed before cremation but for burial, it all stays in situ. We have a Dr come and check the bodies with a metal detector before they go for cremation. Thanks for the question. We've done a few videos on this you might like to check out 🙂

Reading all these comments, I’m so deeply sorry for all of you beautiful people. Just lost my sweet granny2 week ago and our family have always went this route. Always remember, they are gone in the flesh. A soul, energy could never die.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

3 ай бұрын

A very sorry to hear you have just lost your granny 😔 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹 take good care ❤️❤️

I'll be getting it done shortly

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Жыл бұрын

Let's hope not, take care 💚

I am amazed to see that there is no concept of this thing in cristinaity but really shocked to see that😢

My sister passed away on her 35th birthday this year. We love you Mo rest in eternal paradise!!!! Until we meet again!!! ❤

@Areyoudyingtoknow

Ай бұрын

So very sorry to hear 😞 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹

My father died on 08/25/2001 aged 81 we knew he wanted a cremation, he was cremated at the père lachaise in Paris the 09/01/2001 few days before the world trade center, he was a brave soldier and a wonderful father, anytime I hear about the 11 it makes remind me all that period, the time goes by but he never be forgotten.

@Areyoudyingtoknow

6 ай бұрын

Sending you our best, thank you for sharing take good care 💚💚