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“We destroyed our social circle when we were married!!!” So true!!

Rene.. so true when I met my wife, I don’t think she had any friends that were close to her most were out of town. So at the time I was working out the gym and something I started doing on my own and I was running with a few guys. I had met on the track. They invited me to run with them so I started running regularly. This was during my marriage. So I invited her to run with us because there was another lady who ran and I thought it would help her have a friend. she never really stuck with the running so being the blind kind of man that I was, I gave up my gym membership in order to take care of her and the kids once life became very busy. And you’re absolutely right. Her circle grew and my social Circle got smaller… eventually I had very few friends that I talk to other than at work because I was busy being the “family guy following my wife and kids in the grocery store”… nowadays when I see that I shake my head and say wake up guys as I am shopping for my own groceries. Well, back to the story everything you’re saying is absolutely right. We destroy our social circles trying to build our family and then whenever divorce comes, we have nothing around us for support. It’s interesting how many women shelter houses there are, but there are no men’s shelter where men can receive help and protection ! Isn’t that so interesting how the courts is so one-sided against the man, but favors a woman. Thankfully, I did some of the things that you mentioned in your previous video about self-care, getting out and dating and focusing on being relying on myself to pay the bills, pay the groceries and take care of the house . And you know why it works everything you’re saying on here works ! Working out, staying in shape, going out and dating changing your wardrobe, all those things were to give you a better self image, and boost is your confidence. Keep up the good work. For a long time I wanted to create a video like this for men because I saw the void in men’s support groups that did not exist when I went through my own divorce that was really no one there for me, but some family, which was few and one or two guy friends who really could understand . Luckily I had a good friend who saw me through a lot of the process. In fact, he went to court with me as a support in my corner. Lastly, another things I would like for you to address is how the church can turn against the man in favor of the woman always assuming that it’s the man who’s at fault and abusive. I think our culture is slowly changing this mentality. I did end up with custody of my two daughters for seven days a week every other week, which is becoming somewhat normal now with most marriage divorces. Thank you for reaching out to men, because your right divorce is very hard on us, and we are left with the void of we’ve gave our best years of our life to a woman who did not appreciate us .! Thank you for being a wonderful coach online to other men.! Thankfully everything I did to help myself. Please excuse any typographical errors as I’m going through a medical situation at this point.

I love your examples of what to say. Retorts. Comebacks. Setting limits. You manage to say “no” without being a jerk!

@Mensdivorcecoach

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Thanks brother. One clip that didn't make the cut because it came across rude was "No, absolutely not and multiply it by zero."

Hi Rene! Your knowledge is Super helpful. I can see you have a real passion in helping men getting through what could be one of the worst time of their lives. You are giving really important information for men going through this and have one of the best channels on this topic. Thank you for your videos and keep up the great work. 👍God Bless.

While i destroyed my social circle due to her not liking anyone of my friends and wanted me to be around her all the time i encouraged her to hang out with her girlfriends. Now after 15 years she filed for divorce i endup alone while she gets to get her coffie times every day with her friends... I made mistakes with her thinking those vowels ment anything to her...

Rene, you’re the Jordan Peterson of Men’s Divorce Coaches! Keepin it real!

@Mensdivorcecoach

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Yo!!!, No lie, I study his technique. when I get an idea, I write it in my "Notes" on my phone, just dictate it. My inner circle knows that when I watch a program or something and I pause it, they know what I'm doing. David, I'm going to challenge you, challenge you to say what you think in as little words as possible. Whatever you feel, know that others feel it also. We're not that different, some are just more afraid to say it than others. The that guy. Thank you for your response.

@davidwilliams3151

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Challenge accepted. You cut to the need and activity nicely. I need to be more direct.

@Mensdivorcecoach

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Terrific. Do you know the strict definition of what apologetics is? I try to use as little apologetics as possible when I speak. It's basically explaining yourself.

@davidwilliams3151

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Ahhhhh. I see it now. I’ve been explaining myself for 7 years! Got it! Explanation ‘s over!!

I know jumped ahead and watched this . But wow !! Solid Advice and a great starting point.

@Mensdivorcecoach

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Thanks Peter. Admittedly, I didn't understand the first part of this comment. BTW, thanks for being such a valuable member of the group.

Your point about self care is on point but also 100% subjective. Women by no means are better than men and vice versa concerning self care. Hitting the gym makes sense for guys based on how we're built. Sure, not the be all end all, but as you've said physical exercise does wonders for mental health. However the gym should be part of the solution, not THE solution. Mindfulness is part of the work and in a relationship both people need to do this. But if one or the other checks out you can't get pulled down by the mental/emotional undertow.

Great video man. How can I set up a meeting

@Mensdivorcecoach

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Brother. EZ. Aren't you part of the FB Group? Here's how to do it. www.mensdivorcecoaching.com Do it sooner than later brother. The longer you wait, the more work it is for both of us because my consulting is tailored to your needs.

This guy is greay