What Do Indian Parents THINK?
Ойын-сауық
Spectrum is an unscripted web series where 5-6 people from a specific group share their beliefs by agreeing or disagreeing with various statements. Spectrum breaks down stereotypes by showcasing the complexities/varieties within a single group.
Spectrum is a series originally developed by Jubilee Media.
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Prompts in this video:
1. 00:26 : I was prepared for parenthood
2. 01:59 : I raise my kids the way my parents raised me
3. 03:56 : I had to curb my ambitions for my kids
4. 05:10 : I am vulnerable with my kids
5. 07:40 : I don't hit my child
6. 10:09 : Sex education should come from home
7. 12:26 : I trust in our education system
Bonus Prompts to think about:
8. I know what's best for my kids
9. I find it hard to say no to my kids
10. I have prepared my kids to deal with failure
11. I spend quality time with my kids
12. My children need to follow my religious and traditional customs
13. I am okay with my child choosing their partner by themselves
14. My children don't appreciate the sacrifices I make for them
15. I compare my kids with other kids
16. I will accept my child no matter their sexual orientation
Intros:
01:48 Shankar
03:46 Deepa
04:57 Diksha
07:34 Dr. Rudra
10:02 Pranav
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Share your experiences in the comments below, we would love to hear them!
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Shot on 3rd November 2019 in Pune, India.
This video was shot at a performing arts and cultural centre called 'Artsphere' at Kalyani Nagar, Pune
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Пікірлер: 103
Wtf? He's a gynaecologist and still hesitates to discuss sex education?
@Unknown-si8yx
3 жыл бұрын
He's still a single father
@goutamboppana961
3 жыл бұрын
yeah dude
@milindphadnis3990
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, he is a "pussy cat".
@damanpreetkaur635
3 жыл бұрын
Thats desi parents for you.
Not every indian parent is as cool as the person called shankar ... Wish everyone was this flexible... God bless him. His thought. seriously...
Some parents need to leave the 1960s
@pratiktembhekar1996
3 жыл бұрын
majority of shit people who are not suppose to be parents are becoming parents , become a good human first.
@irfankhatri6637
3 жыл бұрын
Lol I am 25 and my father was born in 1950, at his current age of 71 just imagine how difficult interaction is.
@madrauchiha40
2 жыл бұрын
True i hate my parents
@AnshuOP69
2 жыл бұрын
1960s was better than now but I agree
Indian parents really think the exact opposite of their kids.
@shriyakaushik6208
3 жыл бұрын
yeah truee...
To everyone saying this channel is “walmart jubilee” or “discount jubilee”, understand that Jubilee would never give Indian people this kind of platform, so channels like this NEED to exist.
@yeahaight8081
3 жыл бұрын
“Never give Indians a platform” they literally made a middle ground episode of Indians.
@storagebox3649
3 жыл бұрын
@@yeahaight8081 lmao yeah they did, but i wrote this comment 4 months ago and that video was released 3 weeks ago.
@yeahaight8081
3 жыл бұрын
@@storagebox3649 ohh my bad 🤦♂️
@plomerius8394
2 жыл бұрын
They do... most of the time they get rejected.
@climatechangeisreal5073
2 жыл бұрын
@@yeahaight8081 that was a “content” not “representation”
The bald uncle is my favourite. Love and respect 💙🙏
@myx7909
4 жыл бұрын
lol why did I laugh so hard when I read this
@ShankarMridha
4 жыл бұрын
I am glad you liked the bald uncle... It is Fabel who did a wonderful job of bringing our views to the world.
@myx7909
4 жыл бұрын
@@ShankarMridha ok
@Mohithkick
4 жыл бұрын
@@ShankarMridha aren't you the bald uncle? 😂
@idk_yet679
3 жыл бұрын
@@ShankarMridha OhmyGOD uncle ur the best parent in this whole country... I wish my parent's thoughts to be like your thoughts...༎ຶ‿༎ຶ
i can confirm that 95% of the indian parents aren't even half as open as these people lol. Legit any of them could adopt me now(plis?)
Im an avid follower of jubilee's spectrum series and I love that the content is trying to be brought in the perspective of Indian people. We NEED conversations and content as such to empathize with people of different minds and backgrounds and to educate ourselves. ONE suggestion I have is to try bringing in a MORE diverse group of ppl. The three videos out so far have been with people of more or less similar views. We are a country with many cultures, many states, many languages ... we're a world of our own. People who speak out aren't necessarily as open minded as the people in the videos. There are people who speak out and have stubborn "traditional" ways of thinking. Love the effort
@Fabelmedia
3 жыл бұрын
We completely agree with you! We have tried our best to bring in a diverse group of people for each episode and we will continue to do so. Our hope is to be able to show as many perspectives and lived experiences as possible and it will become possible with your continued support! Thank you so much
it was a good video but i feel important discussions like do you feel your chil should get his/her privacy! are you guys okay for them to go in relationships!? do you think that you being strict makes the chils better or just makes them learn to hide better!? are you willing to sit and understand the actual mindset of the childrens generation. do you think the systems of your age will perfectly work with your kids!? and i could go on!!! please make a series of these videos coz there are so many topics to be covered in this area!!
@Fabelmedia
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this constructive feedback! We would love to explore more deeply into the topic in our future videos
@irfankhatri6637
3 жыл бұрын
@@Fabelmedia It has been 10 months did you make video regarding any of those topic? I guess not, you changed the theme of your videos.
The stupid "marriage, then kid" process is so normalized, that marriage is considered to be the first step of having a baby even if you don't want to become a parent. What a shitty thing.
White shirt uncle, please adopt me😂
Excellent discussion! ❤️❤️❤️
It was nice hearing what the parents think about the education system, in particular. It was also good to hear few parents being open to change from the olden days. Great content as usual, Fabel! :)
All these parents are so understanding...I want my mother to go their as she doesn't talk to me much...
@goutamboppana961
3 жыл бұрын
my mother always downgrades me for the slightest imperfections i did and when i said to stop behaving like that she says NO I WILL BEHAVE LIKE THAT ONLY :( plz help me
@priyanjanamukherjee3525
3 жыл бұрын
@@goutamboppana961 I can relate to you ... Parents are not always right. They sometimes do things that make us feel less confident about ourselves but above all of these, they love you...Tell your mother that she is not doing any good to you by saying these things. Give her time to realize and I think she will understand
@goutamboppana961
3 жыл бұрын
@@priyanjanamukherjee3525 ok thx
@priyanjanamukherjee3525
3 жыл бұрын
@@goutamboppana961 No problem take care
@goutamboppana961
3 жыл бұрын
@Abhimanyu Rajesh wdym i am in control?
Amazing content! I am definitely going to make my parents watch it and also answer these prompts! 👍
@Fabelmedia
4 жыл бұрын
Wow that is amazing to hear! :D Thank you Lavanya! Do share your experience with us, we would love to hear about it!
@swastiknandy2388
3 жыл бұрын
You all are so lucky that you have parents
it's really sad how most parents think the only way to "tame" their kids is by using fear and force. grow up karen, the fact that your children live in constant fear of you isn't something to be proud of. In fact, when they finally become grown adults and become financially capable enough they'll most likely cut you out of their life.
I could the the Dr at the end getting annoyed
India on itself needs a separate Jubilee
Shankar sir and pranav sir are the best fathers i guess. Hope my family could understand me and my life would not have become hell.😔
Wonderful video. So sorry for the widow
Shankar saab, lub u... I'll really try my heart out to be a father like you
This was the best thing I have watched in a while. I honestly wish I had a dad like Shankar for his personality and thoughts. If only my dad was as thoughtful as him
Shankar sir rocked u did really a great job highly impressive thoughts and being a 16 years boy who can't share anything personal with his parents and got sex education frome outside but not from where it should come from i really admire may be if mine parents would be like you than I would never be harassed by mine family and mine near dears ❤ and I could be someone better
It's parents like that old man that ruin our mental health I hope your children find a way to move out of the hell that a parent like ypu created Also proud of you shankar sir.... We need more parents like you
Mr. Shankar is someone who we all want our dads to be like. Not completely like him..but have an alike mindset like him. Coz Mr Shankar and our dads are different personalities..they have different indentities so it's foolish to expect our dads to be like Mr. Shankar in all ways
This is something really all desi parents should watch, make more like this =)
Basic education is very much needed.
what up jubilee
5000 views. Really? This video deserves so much more.
In the end when they were talking about education system the lady was not right I am a choir student for 6 years and you don't memorize notes you get used to it
wow this deserves so much views, resembles common ground thingy
Ohh wow Hindi jubilee
White shirt is smart man.
Never let us follow the passion Never let u live independently Just getting marks makes his carrier And always compare with someone At the end you will be a LOOSER
What to say? I mean they didn't discussed deep topics like child privacy, career choice, forced/arranged marriage/dating, moving out etc. At least they did discuss Sex Ed. And I think the education system is not only issue of parents but public issue. Even then they didn't discussed it properly.
I like shankar, he is amazing
I will never marry being single is thousands times better than being married.
I'll be disappointed if @Netflix doesn't release a movie about this !!!
@goutamboppana961
3 жыл бұрын
IF NETFLIX SUPPORTED CHILD SEXUALIZATION THEY SHOULD SUPPORT CHILD IMPORTANCE OR ELSE WE MUST ASSASSINATE ITS CEO ok joking
@whoooshme8898
3 жыл бұрын
@@goutamboppana961 macha chill little😂😂
@goutamboppana961
3 жыл бұрын
@@whoooshme8898 lol
Shankar uncle op
im indian its hard but we just deal with it mist of us do :)
2nd like! Alan, please let me have the no.1 once
@alande
4 жыл бұрын
😂 Will do!
The older male was standing in the wrong spot. Unless you've never hit your child you shouldn't stand there. Nobody hits their grandchildren. You are not parenting your grandchildren but you did hit your children who you were parenting. So you are wrong and also biased towards new parents who work to support their child. Your mother was home all day to shower you with love, young mothers don't have that choice. Pathetic of you to even compare them with a stay at home parent.
@soggybread4083
3 жыл бұрын
'Nobody hits their grandchildren' that my good human being lacking a neck is a lie
Pls do it in hindi. You will get much better audience. Their English is so so
Oh wow our parents hate their parents 😂.... The unending cycle
Tobi tobi tobi
Are these strictly north or all over india?
@mrcool4585
2 жыл бұрын
They literally said they’re from Pune
And what about Parents having children of 18/20 age??
@sinistaofficial2529
3 жыл бұрын
Rajasthan vibes 💯
That bald guy is awesome
Anyone reliase they all not wearing shoes thats Indian culture and westerns be like what the heck do u mean
Watch Patrick teahan you tube on childhood trauma. And gabor mate you tube channel on trauma Also research on narcissistic parents on you tube. You can find lot of answers on how and why parents are emotionally absent or actually compare their childhood to your and are stuck or resentful.
Walmart Jubilee 😂
@l.l.l364
3 жыл бұрын
Fr😂😂😂
Shankar is the best of them and rudra is the worst
Talk in hindi, indian english accents are cringy af. Koi angrez in videos ko ni dekhne wala.
@d3v3n_51ngh
3 жыл бұрын
what's cringy about speaking in a language. In the end it's just a medium
This is just jubilee copy