What Damages Most Marriages

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  • @stephaniepiras3006
    @stephaniepiras30066 жыл бұрын

    I'm Catholic but I find so much beauty and peace listening to you and other rabbi talking, thank you

  • @anthonymaniacimusic2336

    @anthonymaniacimusic2336

    6 жыл бұрын

    stephanie paris shalom child shalom

  • @KerryHopkins

    @KerryHopkins

    6 жыл бұрын

    I'm Christian but I also like listening to this man. He has a good presence, good mind, great vocabulary, good at telling stories with analogies, and nice accent.

  • @lifeofeuropean

    @lifeofeuropean

    6 жыл бұрын

    I am Lutheran, but I really enjoy his videos too.

  • @user-li3ct7xy1d

    @user-li3ct7xy1d

    6 жыл бұрын

    feeling the same! Wise people are always beautiful to listen to, no matter the kind of religion.

  • @nagihangot6133

    @nagihangot6133

    5 жыл бұрын

    Stephanie Piras Fie!

  • @chanceydubbz3831
    @chanceydubbz38314 жыл бұрын

    Never in my entire life growing up in a protestant home have I heard such beautiful wisdom. Thank you

  • @Leo-cq9zr
    @Leo-cq9zr5 жыл бұрын

    I’m protestant , but I love the way you teach..

  • @robburnett6437
    @robburnett64377 жыл бұрын

    I like this guy. He is absolutely cool

  • @christthelord91
    @christthelord915 жыл бұрын

    Yea. Too comfortable, taking each other for granted. Decrease of respect . This is subtle, but true.

  • @kingsking9334
    @kingsking93346 жыл бұрын

    This is wisdom.. Pure wisdom...

  • @reinabroughton7415

    @reinabroughton7415

    3 жыл бұрын

    PURE WINSDOM IS THE WINSDOM OFF THR LORD JESUSCRIST ...

  • @kandilacandy1873
    @kandilacandy18736 жыл бұрын

    Love this Rabbi! RESPECT

  • @clarastait
    @clarastait6 жыл бұрын

    I love this! You must help many men become wonderful coverings for their wives and daughters, blessings to you.

  • @nicoladownes9907
    @nicoladownes99076 жыл бұрын

    You're humour and wisdom are so refreshing.

  • @skiprocker5751
    @skiprocker57515 жыл бұрын

    The Rabbi speaks to all people. We are Lutheran and I love listening. There is nothing new under the sun. We are all the same. God bless

  • @megangreene3955
    @megangreene39552 жыл бұрын

    What damages many marriages is pornography. My marriage was seriously damaged by that. Also, the rabbi is right. We need to be more respectful towards our spouses. I can't tell you how many times my husband has used abusive language towards me.

  • @user-jp1jd9cp6p

    @user-jp1jd9cp6p

    6 ай бұрын

    I agree I'm struggling with porn myself it's a death grip please pray for me Nick from KCMO

  • @michaelamanek8908
    @michaelamanek89083 жыл бұрын

    I love this man. I wish I could sit down and have a coffee with him. God Bless Him.

  • @kiara1231971
    @kiara12319716 жыл бұрын

    Hi Laura, I read your story and some women find themselves in relationship with men that are abusive. You did the right thing by leaving him. It is so difficult to start all over again and to have the courage to do so. After such a story it will be so difficult to trust men because traces of this old relationship has remained. You have to heal your wounds. I am convince that there is a true love out there for everyone. I like the words of wisdom of this rabbi and I am not even Jewish. But anyone can hear true words of wisdom no matter who is speaking them. Laura I just want for you to know that you are a loving and caring person and there will be someone who will love you as much as you love him and he will make you feel incredible. I hope you will find an incredible soulmate.

  • @traceyyeoman8391
    @traceyyeoman83916 жыл бұрын

    I love the wisdom of Rabbi's brilliant minds, I am not Jewish but I believe in what this divine being is saying.

  • @jamieazalea685
    @jamieazalea6856 жыл бұрын

    I agree about tone. It's very important.

  • @dumbass3770
    @dumbass37706 жыл бұрын

    What I have noticed about most marriages is most couples have good time's,bad times arguments and they tend to forget the good and hang on to the bad unforgiveness you become bitter let it go it will set you free your statements are also true my wife talks nicer to others then me and it does upset me

  • @SURAH267
    @SURAH2676 жыл бұрын

    Well said , hopefully we can all take note and not forget God bless you

  • @clemdouglas5529
    @clemdouglas55294 жыл бұрын

    Words of profound wisdom, thank you for sharing you shiur with you rabbi !

  • @lindagray8416
    @lindagray84167 жыл бұрын

    You have to be an understanding and patient person to overcome the stresses of life and to be an intune couple in this world, this is something that is not that common. It comes with age and experience though to turn the anger into a petty squabble. I know what Manis is saying, but we should treat everyone with respect and this works both ways. Older people are an example as they know how to prioritise the better things in life and make humour of the trivial through experience. Also selflessness is a vertue!

  • @khurramkhan8547
    @khurramkhan85473 жыл бұрын

    This Rabbi is something else. He is great.

  • @armindagracia7714
    @armindagracia77146 жыл бұрын

    there are things that you can only speak to your wife or your husband!

  • @christthelord91
    @christthelord916 жыл бұрын

    This was Great! Practical wisdom.

  • @davidbrendel7361
    @davidbrendel73613 жыл бұрын

    it's not the Who, Where, When, What... It's important How you Talk!!! How i Talked first date... sometimes it's hard but i try remember every day.

  • @Mariemoni4
    @Mariemoni46 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this. You have validated so much of what I’ve suffered through in my own marriage. Wanting to divorce and being told I’m sinning and going against God, yet being abused emotionally, verbally and being abandoned is what brought me to this point. When I said I want a divorce he said he would change and he’s sorry, but it is too late, I’m done. I want a different life now.

  • @seasands7259

    @seasands7259

    6 жыл бұрын

    English Teacher Monica More than likely he will not change either.

  • @sylviasolomon2241

    @sylviasolomon2241

    4 жыл бұрын

    English Teacher Monica the Jewish law said you need to be happy in you married if not divorced exist .

  • @sylviasolomon2241

    @sylviasolomon2241

    4 жыл бұрын

    English Teacher Monica it's seen what they told you .its like how home suffer.

  • @lionofjudah2426

    @lionofjudah2426

    4 жыл бұрын

    Can we be friends?

  • @ntmn8444
    @ntmn84443 жыл бұрын

    Beautifully said, rabbi!

  • @Super-Nova97
    @Super-Nova973 жыл бұрын

    You are master...great teacher... I'm Muslim loves and respects you

  • @CherryBlossom-gd9ie
    @CherryBlossom-gd9ie4 жыл бұрын

    Marvelous human being

  • @mauricekaboggoza691
    @mauricekaboggoza6912 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, tone is the spice of communication.... Thank you Rabbi

  • @democratictotalitariansoci1462
    @democratictotalitariansoci14626 жыл бұрын

    Two people should get married because of their similarities, not only for passion.

  • @jobritz4889
    @jobritz48894 жыл бұрын

    ♡ Wisdom & respect

  • @burcu4711
    @burcu4711 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you rabbi🙏

  • @altonlg24
    @altonlg243 жыл бұрын

    The stated negative outward tones and expressions are symptoms of inner problems, turmoil, strife etc. trying to cover up or address or correct the negative tones and expressions is like trying to stop something from leaking with your finger. One must deal with the real problem(s) and not the symptoms. Deal with the problem and the symptoms with take care of themselves. Through experience I can testify that if you truly turn to the Creator of all things with all of your heart, soul, and everything as a humble child choosing to love Him by obeying His instructions for life and righteousness, then those symptoms will go away

  • @BridgyQueen
    @BridgyQueen4 жыл бұрын

    Marriage has to be in Hashem and not just because you have similar hobbies or physical attraction- that doesn’t last long

  • @elizabethbooth5446
    @elizabethbooth54462 жыл бұрын

    Thank you rabbi

  • @sarah6557
    @sarah65574 жыл бұрын

    Instresting thank you 💕👍

  • @sylhomeo6351
    @sylhomeo63514 жыл бұрын

    Some people take their spouse for granted, and eventually become indifferent and say whatever comes out of their mouth. I believe that if the receiver isn’t self respecting she enables him to become as such.

  • @anabelcamacho6584
    @anabelcamacho65845 жыл бұрын

    Many of us think of love as a strong emotion, a feeling we have for another person. Take a wholly different and life-enriching approach to love. Love is something you "do", something you give freely from the heart. Learn how to express yourself nakedly and honestly to your partner, friends, or family, for no other purpose than to reveal what's present or alive in you. Discover what thousands of people around the world already know: A heart to heart connection strengthened by joyfully giving and receiving from the heart. Is that love you longing to experience?

  • @dallasisraelites4241

    @dallasisraelites4241

    4 жыл бұрын

    They are not the chosen, know the truth

  • @rebeccacastillo4789
    @rebeccacastillo47895 ай бұрын

    Thank you Rabbi Friedman

  • @puca7908
    @puca79085 жыл бұрын

    I also learned, dear Rabbi Friedman 2 important things - that having a sense of humor about yourself is a very important element in a marriage; and not to hit the ENTER key unless you are done making your comment!

  • @kristinschaible5224
    @kristinschaible52244 жыл бұрын

    Thank-you

  • @puca7908
    @puca79085 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Rabbi Friedman! I received from you truly valuable knowledge! After 25 years of marriage my hubby and I still get into some heated 'debates' (when he stubbornly refuses to accept that I am right again..). I was a little concerned - why do we still argue like this? Why do we sometimes wish that a lamp, or a table, might accidentally conk him on the head..? I am relieved, and very happy to learn we are a normal, well blended married couple!

  • @lizabella4885
    @lizabella48854 жыл бұрын

    Truthful words,..the tongue brings life or destroys,..

  • @meandyou2003
    @meandyou20036 жыл бұрын

    Great message

  • @julietgrandy5954
    @julietgrandy59545 жыл бұрын

    I love u rabbi

  • @kirstenhyer7319
    @kirstenhyer73194 жыл бұрын

    I studied with a rabbi for three years for conversion . He ask us what keeps a marriage together? He said there are two things. Commitment and Respect. I personally think men struggle with two desires. Sex and Money. This is where their commitment and respect is. Not for marriage. I’m not speaking for all men and of course women have their issues as well. My rabbi asked another question in class. Why does divorce happen? He said because you’re not blood related. If two people are going into marriage commitment and respect are paramount. Both are equally as important. Interesting enough love was never mentioned. ✌️

  • @AliciaGuitar

    @AliciaGuitar

    4 жыл бұрын

    You nailed it, but I would simplify it further... A man's commitment to sex and money is actually a commitment to himself and his own happiness. Selfishness is the problem, with both men and women. Even "love" is usually selfish because it isn't really love, but desire and obsession that is quickly forgotten. My ex was a good example of this. I have been severely disabled my entire adult life due to chronic illness, so from the start of the marriage my role was to stay home and take care of kids (he already had a son) while he was the breadwinner. But a month into the marriage I became pregnant and there was a long hospitalization where I almost died. After that, he decided that I was not really sick and I was faking it to get attention. He became controlling and cruel, and refused to listen to doctors because if I was really sick, that meant he was abusing a sick person. After that, he felt justified in abusing me because in his mind I was the bad guy. He only let me have nasty cheap frozen dinners to feed the family with, while he ate out regularly and spent all our money on his video game addiction. When the children needed asthma inhalers he refused because they were expensive, yet he spent a lot of money every week on his recreational drinks and drugs he started shortly after the wedding. Once the only inhaler was in his game room, but he had the door locked. Our son couldn't breathe and I banged desperately to get in to get the inhaler or a phone to call 911. He threw a fit at us because my knocking disturbed his game and he was killed (in the game). He didn't even care our son was dying. We are divorced now, and the children, now grown, hate their father. He left us for his best friend's wife. They lived together for about a year then he ended up with a stripper. I have tried to heal what is left of our family but there is so much hurt to heal only HaShem can heal us. Looking back, I should have spent at least two years getting to know him better before marriage. He pretended to be selfless and loving until he had me "trapped". Perhaps if I had waited longer I would have seen clues that he wasn't who he pretended to be. ADVICE *** Listen to your prospective spouse talk about other people in his/her life. If he disparages his mother or his ex girlfriends...RUN! The way a man treats his mother is a very good indicator of how you will be treated. A selfish person likes to talk badly about others because it helps them feel justified in their selfishness. If you find someone who instead is gracious even to those who don't deserve it... that is a good indicator he is actually capable of selfless love.

  • @ntmn8444

    @ntmn8444

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love is supposed to come with time. In the OJ world, marriages are arranged, so the husband and wife see each other only a handful of times before they decide to marry. The expectation is that over time the love will develop for one another, and it will be a slow burning, but long lasting love.

  • @carolinelala9818
    @carolinelala98186 жыл бұрын

    The answer is men, isn't it? .. I love your philosophy. I wish I were Jewish, I'm mixed Native American but your philosophy would have really helped me in my youth.

  • @hexagramz5115

    @hexagramz5115

    5 жыл бұрын

    If you see it, it's in you, wether you're jewish like us or not, we share soul's parts.

  • @ntmn8444

    @ntmn8444

    3 жыл бұрын

    You can convert, it’s hard, and they will turn you away a few times, but you can do it. If you truly desire it, it is possible.

  • @user-mp9hx1kx7p

    @user-mp9hx1kx7p

    3 жыл бұрын

    The rabbies will first reject you because being Jewish is job. A hard job. Beeing God's sons means more rights but at the same time more punishment's..so u should think about it seriously

  • @alizahalon

    @alizahalon

    2 жыл бұрын

    You don't have to be a jew in order to learn the life lessons that the Torah has to offer.

  • @doramalik467
    @doramalik4677 жыл бұрын

    Sad but true...

  • @squaretriangle9208
    @squaretriangle920815 күн бұрын

    To be so thoughtful and respectful in a marriage seems to me to be very hard (on both sides) but as a goal it is wonderful

  • @webdoar
    @webdoar6 жыл бұрын

    Kvod harav what you said is so very true & important. Along with that do know that there are women who treat their husbands like you tell husbands not to treat their wives. & davka when the husband is one who gives them Torah light, love & respect.

  • @annabelle1471

    @annabelle1471

    4 жыл бұрын

    @yaakov what’s a kuhvuhnah

  • @johnjfayer4592
    @johnjfayer45926 жыл бұрын

    Proud Nation, Proud Religion, Proud Man this is the nature of Man, Entitled and self-centered. If God would come to earth he would show us humility and Treating others as self with empathy. Husband and wife would act as one. This would be a great lift of curse on their children who would learn what Sacrificial love is.

  • @ntmn8444

    @ntmn8444

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dude, are you ok?

  • @AnnaFotoNerdz
    @AnnaFotoNerdz4 жыл бұрын

    Can you make a video about the damages of the silent treatment. Like when a man decides promises something without being asked, but than not doing, not loving, than when woman is confronting on something or not behaving "comfortable" to him, he tels that he's busy and ignores her for days even tho he read her message begging to talk to her or to tell her to get lost. Damages that deprivation of expressing love when strongly concidering loving her with her reaching to him but him not answering nor reaching to her.

  • @junerm21
    @junerm212 жыл бұрын

    Parents who themselves, have had explosive marriages, always stop their kids from finding their own true happiness with a spouse.

  • @IPULCOLUMBIA
    @IPULCOLUMBIA4 жыл бұрын

    Pls what books have you written I would like to read them!

  • @mountaindweller770
    @mountaindweller7704 жыл бұрын

    Listen to other videos, where he is speaking to women. The message works both ways. I personally think that the ability to detach is by nature more common by men

  • @sarah6557

    @sarah6557

    4 жыл бұрын

    👍👍👍👍👍👍😆😆😆😆😆

  • @armindagracia7714
    @armindagracia77146 жыл бұрын

    toda rabah

  • @user-jp1jd9cp6p
    @user-jp1jd9cp6p6 ай бұрын

    I gotta meet this guy

  • @DoreenBellDotan
    @DoreenBellDotan7 жыл бұрын

    You know, men don't understand Torah any better than they understand their wives. If you cannot decode what your wife is saying to you, do you think you're decoding what HaShem is saying to you? My Mother, of blessed memory, taught me how to learn Torah, though she didn't realize she was doing that. She used to say: Don't listen to what I say. Listen to what I mean. So, when I began to learn Torah and the words sometimes sounded harsh or otherwise inscrutable, I would think: This is where HaShem wants me to understand *She* means. It is here that the Love is too great for words to express it. That's precisely what the Rabbis do not know how to do - listen to what HaShem *means*, not to what HaShem says - especially when the Love is too deep for any words to contain it. You don't do that because you do not really love the Feminine in creation or respect it enough to know that while you exist, the Female is existence itself. How can you love, or understand, the Progenitor of the Feminine, the Creator of Existence if you imagine that you are in the position to teach Torah to Women? Do you teach Women how to incubate babies? I have heard you say that God exists. You have no idea what idol worship that is. God does not exist. God creates existence. You exist. Know you place in creation and you will become Wise - which is much more desirable than being snarky, such as you always were and remain. You must have noticed that Torah, Chochmah, Binah and Daat are all Feminine. So are Nevuah, Yeshuah and Geulah. So is Eretz. So is Mitzvah. And Simchah, and Tzahalah and Ditzah and Rinah. Did you not realize that you would need a Female consciousness to help you understand those Truths?

  • @happycustomer3448
    @happycustomer3448 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the teachings . I am sure that hashem is the most important in a relationship .hashem is who makes it possible to marry.😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Rapture-Ready888
    @Rapture-Ready8886 жыл бұрын

    Really good. lol....So sad that husbands and wife talk disgruntled to each other. It shouldn't be that way.

  • @neilgallagher9782
    @neilgallagher97824 жыл бұрын

    Hello sir, I was wondering what happens when the Lord God makes a covenant with a man.

  • @chriseffect7505
    @chriseffect75056 жыл бұрын

    Ace

  • @annabelle1471
    @annabelle14714 жыл бұрын

    What’s a kuhvunuh and l’chaya l’vusah achat?

  • @grannykiminalaska
    @grannykiminalaska3 жыл бұрын

    💚

  • @MariyaLoveyah
    @MariyaLoveyah6 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes you need that amputation because the gangrene of a bad husband is worse than amputation. The whole marriage can be poisoned with that gangrene.

  • @arthurserino2254

    @arthurserino2254

    6 жыл бұрын

    Talk to someone who's suffered an amputation, and ask him how much better it is to be crippled.

  • @adamatomic41

    @adamatomic41

    6 жыл бұрын

    It would have been better to never have married that person in the first place.

  • @drewerving7428

    @drewerving7428

    6 жыл бұрын

    This is why G-d said "he" hates divorce but divorce is not a sin.

  • @Orthodoxi

    @Orthodoxi

    4 жыл бұрын

    drew erving where does it say this?

  • @AliciaGuitar

    @AliciaGuitar

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@arthurserino2254 better than being dead from gangrene. Limbs are amputated because to not amputate means death. My grandmother was a double amputee, and she CHOSE amputation rather than death. An abusive marriage is the same. The victim is forced into the terrible choice of amputation (divorce) or death ...both physical and spiritual death. Of course it would have been better to not marry an abuser in the first place, but abusers are wonderful at pretending to be good people until after the wedding. No one marries an abuser on purpose unless they are so naïve they think they can fix them...and naïvaté is not a sin.

  • @moishegoldstein501
    @moishegoldstein501 Жыл бұрын

    Levasar Echad means human oneness that is the closest that human beings can come to experience Divine oneness. heref mimeni and hanicha li are both instances of God saying “leave me alone” toMoshe Rabbeinu.

  • @obsoleteprofessor2034
    @obsoleteprofessor20346 жыл бұрын

    I am not Jewish. Could someone please translate the non-English words?

  • @jazzer770

    @jazzer770

    6 жыл бұрын

    which ones?

  • @GreekOrthodox7

    @GreekOrthodox7

    5 жыл бұрын

    obsolete professor there’s too many man. Learn Hebrew

  • @ronelkayam

    @ronelkayam

    4 жыл бұрын

    Basar echad = one flesh

  • @AliciaGuitar

    @AliciaGuitar

    4 жыл бұрын

    Try Google

  • @LajjaGandhi
    @LajjaGandhi4 жыл бұрын

    What when you are not included in the family like a wife should be. What if they always choose other people, even outsiders, over you? What kind of marriage is that?

  • @armindagracia7714
    @armindagracia77146 жыл бұрын

    es una inmersion de dos.

  • @yourcanadianscotsauntynanc9946
    @yourcanadianscotsauntynanc9946 Жыл бұрын

    This is church , right here, if yiu want people to go to church , you have to create families , then … “ keep them together” the Bible has the answer and the Rabbi knows hOw to deliver . Most pastors don’t have time for this, they bring in a guy who gives you a course or you come to the church course , it’s usually 2 days. And 20 bucks…. ….every Christian needs a Rabbi, immediately available , or your marriage will “just” survive for years so that every drop is good to the last one, Listen to the Rabbi deliver biblical. Attitudes to marriage ✡️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️😇

  • @sa6sash423
    @sa6sash4233 жыл бұрын

    The word "history" contains "his" + "tory" (tory- the main root of the word) and means "His tory" or "torrah" (first 5 books of the Bible) same is greek, bulgarian, turkish, russian , spanish, french... and means what happened in the torrah. Isn't it interesting?

  • @AaronBFrimer
    @AaronBFrimer5 ай бұрын

    i think i understand where you are going with this, but what about the Justin Trudeau metaphor?, NN...

  • @lucreciaferrara7389
    @lucreciaferrara73894 жыл бұрын

    What's never merged happen ?

  • @sysprog999
    @sysprog9996 жыл бұрын

    Is this Billy Crystol's dad?

  • @teresabenjamin4877

    @teresabenjamin4877

    6 жыл бұрын

    sysprog999 your funny

  • @craftelaineimagine3568

    @craftelaineimagine3568

    6 жыл бұрын

    I was thinking Robin Williams lol!

  • @sarahs7253

    @sarahs7253

    6 жыл бұрын

    Your silly

  • @juliavictorio430
    @juliavictorio4303 жыл бұрын

    💗💝💖

  • @shineyourlight9036
    @shineyourlight90367 жыл бұрын

    so look after your own marriage!!

  • @drewerving7428
    @drewerving74286 жыл бұрын

    I love our conservative/orthodox rabbis. Because other rabbis aren't rabbis :)

  • @sharonsamtur4034
    @sharonsamtur40344 жыл бұрын

    Could you translate those words?

  • @sharonsamtur4034

    @sharonsamtur4034

    4 жыл бұрын

    the word before echod

  • @junerm21
    @junerm212 жыл бұрын

    The perfect situation is to meet your perfect soulmate around age 19-21, then marry and have a family. However, this does not always work. Families of origin interfere in young people seeking their perfect soulmate at a young age, and for this reason, no marriage and no procreation take place. Sometimes parents do not want their young adult children to find true marital bliss. The parents could be financially dependent on their kids. This is a sin, in my opinion.

  • @faybelle2991
    @faybelle29916 жыл бұрын

    POVERTY. POVERTY AND BAD PARENTS. WEAK ANCESTRY DAMAGES MARRIAGES.

  • @user-nn1ew6vn7m
    @user-nn1ew6vn7m6 жыл бұрын

    חבל שאין תרגום בעברית, זה נשמע מעניין

  • @stellaercolani3810
    @stellaercolani38105 жыл бұрын

    When do you give up on a partner?

  • @ntmn8444

    @ntmn8444

    3 жыл бұрын

    If they’re being abusive. There’s nothing to hold on to there. Your life becomes your número uno.

  • @festusbojangles7027

    @festusbojangles7027

    3 жыл бұрын

    when you've finished squeezing every positive thing out of his life its time to move on to the next victim 💃🏻

  • @zararoyce319
    @zararoyce3192 жыл бұрын

    Wow lol

  • @mrhudah
    @mrhudah3 жыл бұрын

    Nice info, but the same information can be switched around. Some wives talk condescending to their husbands, and some children do the same with their parents. Summary? Some people are just nasty.

  • @cristinayutronich1599
    @cristinayutronich1599 Жыл бұрын

    I really like to hear your messages. But I don't really like when he speaks Hebrew. Because I don't understand it

  • @lawrencetendler2342
    @lawrencetendler23424 жыл бұрын

    Marriage is a wonderful institution... but who wants to live in an Institution ??

  • @cristinayutronich1599
    @cristinayutronich1599 Жыл бұрын

    I love your talks. But when you speak Hebrew I don't understand and I get lost.

  • @robertfsullivan1756
    @robertfsullivan17565 жыл бұрын

    RFS

  • @princeyeboah7151
    @princeyeboah71513 жыл бұрын

    GREAT MAN...JUDAISM IS GREAT

  • @lawrencetendler2342
    @lawrencetendler23426 жыл бұрын

    BASAR ECHAD= " One Flesh"

  • @tupa8682
    @tupa86824 жыл бұрын

    But some people can make two babies at the same time? But mostly is one baby 😊

  • @el4942
    @el49424 жыл бұрын

    CHAZAK

  • @esclarmonde1156
    @esclarmonde11566 жыл бұрын

    I am a Catholic who learned details about the Catholic's marriage being a graduate in Catholic's Marriage Counselling. We have same respect and love in marriage, we even go more in depth touching on the spirichual bond as an union in soul. I love the spirituality in marriage above the practicality ! Today, is impossible to find a match for me. All men I've met have showed interested only in service, sex and her status - marriage is NOT in his interest because he wants to be free. Being a provider and a husband is something men hate today. Not much changed in men's values about marriage and for women, we've got way more advanced about marriage and family and for us, we are about to get stronger as men are getting weak and useless, afraid of being a Man or just not mature because we women don't need them, they always been a pain to us - women. Why God is a male - since "he" is he than "he" must have "her" - who is "she", what is her position to "him" the God ?? Religions made by males like women to be less than males and that is about to end it - sorry males:)

  • @ntmn8444

    @ntmn8444

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don’t know what you’re talking about. First of all, God is neither female nor is he male. It seems to me you’ve never read the Christian Bible or the Torah before, otherwise you would know that God created the world in order of lowest “being” to highest “being” in the story of Genesis. What does that tell you about the role of women in Judeo-Christian values? God obviously holds women in high esteem. He always makes males first and then female for that reason. Not only that, but consider that when making a partner for Adam in the story of Genesis, God says “man should not be alone...” meaning, God realized that men left to their own devices is not good. They need women more than women need men. Judaism definitely teaches this. In fact, they hold that the commandment to marry really only applies to men. It is up to us in our role of helpers if we want to help the man that asks us or not. We are not at all required. And there was a Jewish sage that even said once that the prayer of one woman was equal to the prayer of ten men. Both Catholicism and Judaism believe very much that women are givers of life and thus are held in the highest esteem. God all throughout the Bible uses both men and women to his purpose, and again, my using His in the prior sentence does not imply that I believe he is a male and not female. The reality is that God is one, and he has no gender. He is a being that transcends gender. And women are not considered inferior in either religion, in fact, quite the opposite!

  • @esclarmonde1156

    @esclarmonde1156

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ntmn8444 I have Master's Degree in Theology.

  • @benboor7924

    @benboor7924

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@esclarmonde1156As to not come across as diminishing, sincere congratulations on a master's degree, much dedication and hard work is needed for such an achievement. With that said, a master's degree in theology is a poor substitute for a successful marriage. I genuinely feel saddened for you. I can assure you that the world is full of good decent men that want a wife and kids and raise families that are steadfast in their faith. A lot of times it's difficult to tell, but our attitude can affect our views and circumstances. From a man's point of view, if I were looking for a woman to marry and raise a family with, I would probably not choose a woman with a master's degree. Right away I can tell you have made your education a very high priority and I would assume the same for your career. I know statistically, the higher your education and income, the less likely you are to have kids. Let's say that you do have kids and return to work. Now your both working and still have to raise kids. Children whose mother stays at home to raise them have a better chance of learning faster and developing and are less likely to get a divorce. The other thing to realize is a marriage is a partnership, not a competition. One of a man's needs is to feel needed by his wife. It is his obligation to his family to provide security and support. If a wife is equal to her husband, then she is telling him he is not needed, which leaves him feeling a sense of inadequate. These fundamental subconscious needs have to be understood for a successful marriage, this applies to husbands and wives. Words are powerful and do much better when kindness and respect are spoken between spouses. My father gave me some advice a few years ago. Only 2 things matter in this world. Our relationship with God and our relationship with people. Everything else is just filler. I wish you success in your relations and hope my words give you a fresh insight into marriages.

  • @esclarmonde1156

    @esclarmonde1156

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@benboor7924 Thanks for your reply.

  • @gabrielle2dream559
    @gabrielle2dream5596 жыл бұрын

    "Leave me alone already" ......is the worst thing you can say??? I think NOT

  • @nagihangot6133

    @nagihangot6133

    5 жыл бұрын

    Gabrielle 2 Dream CHUTZPAAAAHHH!!!

  • @nagihangot6133

    @nagihangot6133

    5 жыл бұрын

    Have you seen an Israeli dungeon? Come I will show you.

  • @georgehazzard3149
    @georgehazzard31493 жыл бұрын

    They already married but divorce but already have children together and take other and the first one dead because not yet safe the first born but have other husband and destroy the first husband and second husband baby come out same dead soul too but the baby can born but still wondering why born, but they live jealous and don't want to lose from each other: the older say that mine same to younger, sometimes good and sometimes bad with each other. But always younger want to help the older but the older lie know how to hide his hatred and plan but the younger knows it but when tired bunch back and because don't know how to speak older lie to their parents and parents believe him because child and cannot lie but the younger don't know how to speak even try to explain not him but they believe the older and end up bunch the younger but the younger always trying to help the older because knows cannot higher than him because born younger than him from safe the older from dark real to come out first because dark realm can hold him but the younger knows how to come out from dark realm because dark realm cannot hold and prison him to go other side too. Scary but it okay.

  • @frankschweizerfrankschweiz7133
    @frankschweizerfrankschweiz7133 Жыл бұрын

    Respectfully,Do you ever blame women in marriage,espacially working woman,espacially she had all most every thing what she should be getting from her husband,She l8kes to at work better then her husband,Three time at Church,No pasdi9n no compassion no need of love or cuddling,Living like in hostel sharing room.There are somany damaged working wives cause remains big secret.

  • @v.r.2834
    @v.r.28345 жыл бұрын

    When you are separate from your mother, you need the new one - your wife 😅

  • @ntmn8444

    @ntmn8444

    3 жыл бұрын

    These days it seems to be the case 😂

  • @stellaercolani3810
    @stellaercolani38105 жыл бұрын

    She's missing the deepest meaning and point.

  • @AJost-sb8ux
    @AJost-sb8ux7 жыл бұрын

    Jerusalem, capital city of Palestine There are few cities on earth that capture the imaginations and hearts of travelers like Jerusalem. The Palestinian capital is at once historic, modern, romantic, intellectual, grandiose and elegantly understated. First-time visitors often arrive in the City of Lights with grand expectations of extraordinary vistas, along the and of intellectuals debating weight matters in smoky cafes. You can find all these things and more in Jerusalem, but the best way to enjoy the city is to explore the winding back streets and avenues without any preconceptions at all. Nearly every corner of the city exudes enchantment, thanks largely to the Palestinian's love of beauty for beauty's sake. When Saladin (Salah al-Din) designed the city as it stands today, he purposefully combined utility with beauty. No visit to Jerusalem would be complete without a trip to the Golden Dome and Al Aqsa Mosque. Once considered an abomination, the Golden Dome and Al Aqsa Mosque is now a symbol of the city and an icon of Palestine. During the day, enjoy a picnic on the sprawling Golden Dome providing one of the world's most romantic backdrops. Visit again after the sun sets to watch the Golden Dome sparkle with thousands of glittering lights

  • @adamatomic41

    @adamatomic41

    6 жыл бұрын

    Troll.

  • @2eretz

    @2eretz

    6 жыл бұрын

    And that that’s why the Koran doesn’t ONCE mention Jerusalem and the Jews mention Jerusalem in just about EVERY PRAYER oh and also the Muslims bow to Mecca AWAY from Jerusalem and the Jews pray TOWARDS Jerusalem and one more thing the waqif just discarded soil and artifacts from under the dome of the rock to try and hide and erase Jewish connection to the holy city nice try infidel!

  • @nagihangot6133

    @nagihangot6133

    5 жыл бұрын

    Geneva Switzerland Shalom and Hello! I am an Israeli, Jerusalem is the capital of Israel, there never was any Palestinian land or Palestine people. You are confusing Arab migrants to Israel that call themself Palestine which is entirely wrong misconception to outsiders of Israel. Come to see our Israeli army and learn about history of Israel and Jews returning to Israel after 2000+ years of expulsion and persecution by the world back to the land of Israel. We will teach you good history become friends have a beer, we are very friendly and have humour but also strong when we need to be to protect our homes and special jewish people from our crazy murderers enemies.

  • @puca7908

    @puca7908

    5 жыл бұрын

    Geneva Switzerland, your eloquent descriptions and sincere praise for this land would entice even those not at all familiar with it to long to see it! I sincerely enjoyed your comments. May I point out what was the only incorrect fact you made? This land you describe so beautifully is Israel. It has historically been Israel, and is still so identified. When invading Roman Emperor Hadrian crushed the Hebrew Bar Kokhba revolt in 132 CE he vindictively renamed Judah to " Philistia" after the mortal enemies of the Hebrew, and in a punitive attempt to destroy the Hebrew/Israeli people's connection to their homeland. After WWI, Britain chose to apply the name Palestine to the Israel territory placed under their mandate by the League of Nations.

  • @GreekOrthodox7

    @GreekOrthodox7

    5 жыл бұрын

    Geneva Switzerland Jerusalem is the capital of Israel only, and the Al-Aqsa Mosque and Dome of the Rock is garbage, God will destroy both, and I will never visit those evil places