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@user-of2pe1fg6j

2 жыл бұрын

allow me to save you 10 minutes YES! ofc Latinas in South America love tall, White men

@ahmedzakikhan7639

2 жыл бұрын

Ask them about Indian men because most crowd in KZread are from India.

@jerryoshea3116

Жыл бұрын

Those were good interviews..Normal, sensible,well considered responses👍 .And i'm speaking from the perspective of being a Londoner(born&raised into a large Irish☘️ family-8 kids&their should/could have been 11!) Who has lived in Las Vegas for 22yrs&that was down to the fact I had a Puerto Rican Gf,who spoke fluent English! .And as for the Cultural thing!it never was a issue !.But I must admit,I was raised by strict,pretty austere,Catholics,.so not a lot of Tactile behavior,hugging&kissing etc etc...And I don't mind admitting I had to learn to change my ways&be more openly affectionate,more demonstrative...So it was a learning process(fortunately for me she found it hilarious & interesting &she was Patient!)..But eventually we parted ways(minus the acrimony,she's a nice Person) So now I think I need a Brazilian Lady👍 The ones I've met are very open&friendly!

@brennendehexe7934

Жыл бұрын

So they like western men bc they are more emotionally mature? But when it comes to her own impulses she sees no responsibility to grow up? It's just bc she's a proud Latina? Haha this is the mindset of a drama queen guys. And as you know. Bad b*tch is just another word for single mom. Eventually that white guy will be as annoyed with her as she is annoyed with Latino guys.

"The only time a woman made a man a millionaire, is when that man was a billionaire."

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@paulpurves484

2 жыл бұрын

Ha-ha funny 😂😂😂😂

@jlj777

Жыл бұрын

There is nothing interesting about them they are Western Union international hookers.

@timothyvaher2421

Жыл бұрын

🙄🙏😇 🎭

@TheGodly

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Remember boys at the end of the day shes not yours its just your turn.

@John-hp2hg

2 жыл бұрын

@@thesaxon7763 He's right tho. The vast majority of Colombian girls date foreigners because of "security," which means money. No problem with that, other than the fact that the relationship is very shallow and not based on love.

@AbletonLiveTechs

2 жыл бұрын

@@John-hp2hg excactly. notice how they mentioned all their “boyfriends” from the past. wouldnt be surprised if they are getting their backs blown out while boyfriend is overseas

@John-hp2hg

2 жыл бұрын

@@thesaxon7763 These girls have had a ton of boyfriends. That in itself is a big reg flag. Bottom line, the vast majority of people want to marry someone of their own race and country, someone they can talk to in their mother tongue. Like attracts like. If you date outside your race, it's either for sex or money. I'm not calling them gold diggers, but I highly doubt they would date some poor black man from Nigeria.

@AbletonLiveTechs

2 жыл бұрын

@@John-hp2hg Well said 👏. Gotta awaken the sheeple living in the blue pill world

@biscuiteater6888

2 жыл бұрын

@@John-hp2hg idk abt Latinos, but there are tons of white women dating and marrying poor African Nigerian & south east asian men.

In Latin America (especially South America), class is everything… everything. A high class Colombian girl would not bother with a foreigner if they aren’t upper class in their own nation.

@Maremare680

2 жыл бұрын

💯

@byzantiumredpilled5490

2 жыл бұрын

100% this. It doesn’t matter if you’re a White Latino, White American, etc. it’s all about income and to a lesser degree social status.

@Thomson07

2 жыл бұрын

@@byzantiumredpilled5490 thats very sad, would much rather stay single than date if thats the case

@oscarquintero2209

Жыл бұрын

That is specially true of Colombia. Lots of classism and elitism down there. Less so in Venezuela. But this is ultimately true of any country I think.

@jakecharlessmith

Жыл бұрын

yeah but a low class person in the west is a extremely high class person there wage-wise lol

These were very valid and important questions for anyone considering to date a Colombiana. I'm not sure how many people think about these things before they decided they're going to date a different culture with a different language than their own. Good interview. Hope this helps give perspective to some people.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

thanks! Hopefully so

@thatcarguy6190

Жыл бұрын

The best women are your own women..

@mr_free_soul4

Жыл бұрын

I'm following love ❤️ colombia my old love passion latino we latina soon colombia que me espera...

@ajdavide2910

6 ай бұрын

Racist women

I lived in Colombia for three years in fact my daughter is Colombiana. Women that love gringos usually always speak English. Usually but not always. Great video.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

thanks!

@wassollderscheiss33

2 жыл бұрын

Haha my daughter is colombiana tambien

@geraldarnoult

2 жыл бұрын

realize these videos are selling a service

@randalljames730

2 жыл бұрын

What percentage of Columbian woman speak english?

@jimmybob7028

2 жыл бұрын

They only speak English if they've been around the block quite a bit. Avoid the English speakers.

Interesting conversation. I will say from my experiences dating and talking with Colombian women from different parts of Colombia, many of them would not admit, or are subconsciously unaware, that they have an extremely classist/elitist mentality. For example, many Colombian women from low estratas will not hesitate to take advantage of a naive gringo by dating and possibly marrying him, and go overseas to improve their quality of life. Colombian women from high estratas, particularly 6, will not go overseas to marry a gringo, let alone date a gringo, because their quality of life is already good/stable at home...there is nothing beneficial for the latter to live in the U.S.

@TruthSeeker30_

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the honesty

@daniloto9

2 жыл бұрын

You are right. Brazilian women too. They look gringos just for stepping stone. I have experienced it. T

@josephjones3525

2 жыл бұрын

@@daniloto9 Yeah but that's No different than any women anywhere in the world. Women marry up, not down. A woman making $100K is Nevery Marrying the foot locker Mgr, but a guy will. Men don't care about her $, career...the 1st thing any women ask on a date is..."so, what do you do for a living?". A natural, important part of their getting process. And you know this already. So it has Nothing to do with being a foreigner as much as...Women date, marry up..to make their lives better, easier, wanting a man that does well for himself, can afford her, her lifestyle, raise young. It's their nature. Simple, basic survival. Lastly..Your an idiot if you go to the trouble of going to a foreign country to get a wife, and bring her back to the States, England, Australia or wherever you are from. Absolutely stupid. They will get homesick, so you WILL be spending $$ for visits back home. You will be sp6$ to fly family out, and sending $ home to her family. Even if Not a lot, or often, you WILL be doing it. You will effectively Lose the woman you brought with you because the your country WILL change her. Your bringing her to the very place-environment where you hate the women that you got on plane, to get away from? That's stupid. U pluck a pristine thing and transport it back to a contaminated environment and expect it to stay clean? Guys, unless you plan to relocate? Don't bother. Your quality of life will be better there, your $$ WILL go a lot further...there

@supadave422

2 жыл бұрын

This is the same in ALL countries.

@jdoyle4811

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with your statement about the different stratas and the motivation for a Colombiana from lower strata to want to improve their lot in life with marrying a gringo. I did meet a woman from Barranquilla and after 5 visits to Colombia and almost a year of Skype communications she came to US on a Fiancee visa. We got married in Hawaii 12 years ago and things still going strong. My wife was from strata 5 and educated as an Accountant which is her career in US. She is 17 years younger than me and she was attracted to my being secure, a well traveled professional, and strong body with blue eyes. I was attracted to her beauty on the inside as well as outside and her love of working out. Her love of family and generosity to others also were big factors in her attraction for me. Thanks for your interesting video

I'm Colombian american and I really appreciate this women and the interviewer, thank you!

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Sí, their answers were very thorough!

@melamusicworld

2 жыл бұрын

@TOLD YA en que sentido?

@bryant475

2 жыл бұрын

Cool, there are a lot of Colombians here in NYC. Nice people! What state are you in?

@Drymarro

2 жыл бұрын

hola ;)

wow i just found this channel and it's an instant subscribe for me. this is the exact type of video that helps with my own spanish. it feels very real. please continue to post more content!!!!!!!!

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Awesome! I'm glad to hear it helps with your Spanish practice! Here's another interview in Spanish I just posted today. I have several more already recorded as well, just have to edit! kzread.info/dash/bejne/gmd52at6ibi9ZZc.html

Man....this video was very eye OPENING....!! Good interview with the ladies regarding their foreign boyfriends and some awesome drone shots mixed in. Nice!

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

thanks! Do you have have a drone?

@mrtennessee1o1

2 жыл бұрын

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL Yes Sir I sure do! Currently I'm using the DJI Mavic Air 2. It's totally awesome! I need to put some of my footage on my channel. I'm slacking. LoL

I was married for about 20 years to a Dominican (in US). You have to consider the extended family. For many years I was OK with them until the great recession in 2008 when I struggled in my career. Since I was a white male it should have been easy for me in their shallow minds. We grew apart as she got older anyway but the family certainly contributed to our divorce.

@LegendNinja41

2 жыл бұрын

sounds like a pain in the ass and totally understandable. Interesting last name though, i think i never saw one named with Darmstadt as last name (i assume), it's a city here in germany :D

@richarddarmstadt2871

2 жыл бұрын

@@LegendNinja41 yes racist Dominicans...the white guy has no excuse to struggle. Then when I got my hack license to drive a taxi in NYC her brother would not let me stay at the mothers apt in NYC so I couldn't work as a cabbie. Yes Darmstadt is a city in Germany. My moms side is German Aryan and my dads side is German Jew they fought in the wars. I had a relative who became General later who was a bomber pilot in WWII. He refused to do bombing missions over Darmstadt for fear of killing relatives.

@LegendNinja41

2 жыл бұрын

@@richarddarmstadt2871 it's a shame that stereotypes and racism has still such an grip on the minds of many /: that story with the relative becoming a bomber pilot in WW2.. damn that's interesting.

@ginvesto8370

2 жыл бұрын

@@LegendNinja41 biological races DO NOT exist and never have, history is based on a lie

@stefanhouston8616

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

I'm learning more Spanish by watching your videos w/ the subtitles. enjoying the interviews and your spanish. Keep up the awesome videos.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

I've gotten a few comments like this. I think it's a good way to learn Spanish. I'll keep making videos interviewing locals.

@ioda006

2 жыл бұрын

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL yes please!

I have a Colombian wife and have spent 3 years there, so feel qualified to add some comment. I agree with everything these chicas say about foreign boyfriends. If you want to date a Colombian, you need to learn some Spanish because it makes everything so much easier. Also, cultural differences will cause arguements at times. Remember - these women are Latinas, with fire in their bellies, and sometimes that errupts with spectacular results. Sure, fireworks are loud, noisy and dangerous, but don't we just love them!

@JohnDoe-vc7bw

2 жыл бұрын

Nah. Any woman that yells at me gets the boot.

@Bobbydigtail17

2 жыл бұрын

@@JohnDoe-vc7bw and that’s why you’re single

@JohnDoe-vc7bw

2 жыл бұрын

@@Bobbydigtail17 I'm a lucky guy, don't you worry.

@Gizziiusa

2 жыл бұрын

@@JohnDoe-vc7bw for me, it depends. if I rightly deserved it...then yell away. but if its over some trivial BS, then yeah...boot it out.

@itsDjjayy

2 жыл бұрын

No not if it gets violent

" Columbian men dont have enough money" come on ladies a little truth please

@lahsen5184

2 жыл бұрын

A Venezuelan woman said me the foreign mens have money i think there are interessted by the money and to have a stability a men who can help them in the bad moments

@airlebron7467

2 жыл бұрын

@@lahsen5184 even in the usa the girls wont even look at you if your broke. Its actually way harder here.

@thewolfrhymesshow641

2 жыл бұрын

the only sign given of the Lords return is the sign of johah the bitter angry envious racist prophet of God. and when the world flips it will be a lot of gringos in hell angry bitter wrathful envious and wanting to kill. our latin personality is envious and not cocky and boastful and we are more quiet humble and reserved and if bitches dont like that they can go to hell with satan where they will be made but ugly as they already are but satan has the filter over the eyes of the masses and they will gnash their teeth and wail because of the wrath of the Lord. AI is something people need to fear and they will flip this grid as soon as they get a chance Revelation 1:15 KJV And his feet like unto fine brass, as if they burned in a furnace; and his voice as the sound of many waters. Revelation 3:12 KJV Him that overcometh will I make a pillar in the temple of my God, and he shall go no more out: and I will write upon him the name of my God, and the name of the city of my God, which is new Jerusalem, which cometh down out of heaven from my God: and I will write upon him my new name. Matthew 11:29 KJV Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek(nice guy until you cross the line too many times) and lowly in heart(not flashy): and ye shall find rest unto your souls. Nahum 1:3 KJV The LORD is slow to anger, and great in power, and will not at all acquit the wicked: the LORD hath his way in the whirlwind and in the storm, and the clouds are the dust of his feet.

@renebarcenas9491

Жыл бұрын

@@lahsen5184 that's correct

@Vanessa-hr3yr

Жыл бұрын

For me what they have said is true because I also believe in the same thing. I haven't had a partner yet, but if I fell in love it would be with a foreigner. I don't like the flirtatious ones that some Colombian men are. Unfortunately, I see a foreigner as a more loyal or faithful person than those from my own land. I work, so I don't think about money (also, Im American). Although I have traditional Christian values, I do believe that the man should be the provider. The woman is the one who should serve, help or care for her husband and children. This is my case, I know that not all Colombian women think alike (You will not find the good woman in discos or places full of alcohol. So I understand you and be careful), and I also believe that not all foreigners will be faithful... but if there are many of you who are more faithful and secure...

I’m American and I WAS married to a French speaking woman that spoke English very well. The use of slang was always an issue. Sarcasm can also cause problems. There will always be a communication issue.

@nukumbafrazier2722

2 жыл бұрын

Stop it lol. There is communication issues between men and women period

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Slang, jokes, and sarcasm are always the most difficult to understand, I agree

@frederic6998

2 жыл бұрын

french speaking but from what country ? Dont tell me Haïti, i'm french and i dont understand them.

@PHlophe

2 жыл бұрын

@@frederic6998 slang is spoken in france and by everyone to a varying degree but you assuming Ayiti's French is slang is racist misery

@daniell5740

Жыл бұрын

You’re just a beta

This is the most honest interview I have seen from Colombian women on KZread. Thanks for taking the time to make this video!!

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

sure thing!

@jlj777

Жыл бұрын

There is nothing interesting about them they are Western Union international hookers.

The issue for Gringos (speaking as a Cuban man) is that they need to first and foremost assume that any Latina in a developing country is probably, with a high degree of certainty, looking for a way to "move up" financially and help herself and her loved ones. The majority of Latinas, even ones with below average looks, know they have much to offer a foreign man (in the way of good food, good home making, good sex, and the like which a woman from their own culture can't provide). As a result, they leverage these benefits. A woman who is already financially stable within her country has ZERO need for a foreign man (as some people have mentioned in the comments here). Another issue is that Gringos tend to stereotype all Latinas into the same box. They may think that all Latinas are submissive or all Latinas are dominant. This is a bad generalization to make since you'll find either woman within a given population. Not all Latinas "have a strong will" or "have a raging fire inside them". Should you, as a Gringo, go looking for love or marriage in a developing country? No. You're more likely to get burned than you are to find that person you're looking for. Though you may just get lucky and find a good woman who will cherish you and be your partner for life, you're more likely to find a Maneater looking for money and a Green Card. A lot of these women know US and UK Family Law better than an American or British lawyer. As soon as they get what they need from you, they'll find a man of their culture or a similar culture where you live or they'll move somewhere in the country where they can find such a person. Do not take my comment as a push for you not to travel to Latin America and have a little fun, maybe even engage in a casual relationship with a Latina. Just be cautious and know what might be happening. Don't spoil her using your money and see how she treats you. If her interest wanes the less money you spend on her, then she's gold digging. Though this strategy is known by Gold Diggers so they'll feign interest just long enough to see the stream of $$$ start flowing. Bendiciones.

@LegendNinja41

2 жыл бұрын

this comment is literally gold. very underrated comment, everyone who has little to no knowledge about the outside world and Latin America should read this.

@mourneris

2 жыл бұрын

@@LegendNinja41 Thank you for the kind words. Just trying to help my gringo brothers not get shafted.

@camels9654

2 жыл бұрын

I really think if you are looking for love in a developing country you have to be honest with yourself as to why are you doing this? A good looking guy can easily get women at home. Whereas, an unattractive guy will have trouble. So are they looking to exploit the economic advantage of being from a developed country? If that is the case, and the woman doesn't have genuine burning desire for him, just wants $$$, the relationship will fail. Perhaps I'm naive, but if the woman genuinely desires a good looking guy, the relationship will last. Money becomes the icing on the cake, not the cake itself. Am I wrong to assume that if a woman is genuinely attracted to a good looking guy it is still doomed to fail? I have several friends who moved to Mexico for work, and got married and had kids and stayed in Mexico, very happy. It just seems to me that western losers are the ones who will get screwed.

@ziadkhalaf198

2 жыл бұрын

in other words they're Gold diggers

@OzHunter

2 жыл бұрын

@@ziadkhalaf198 well tbf gringos who go to dev countries are looks diggers, so fair game as far as I see it.

Very informative Thank you for your work!!!

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

sure thing!

thanks for taking the time to make this video

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

No problem! Thanks for watching!

What's fun about you is that you are in lined to interact with anyone in the country. Your openness gets an equal response because we all love to be talked to and have fun trying to do extraordinary things....befriending anyone who is different from you externally and speaking a strange language. Trying provides moments of wonder and draws out the spontaneous best of us! Laughter is a blessing and easy in a simple atmosphere! Bless you and thank you heartfully.🎉😊🙏🏻🎶

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

10 ай бұрын

Hey Zonia! Thank you for watching! Yes, I think we should immerse ourselves in other cultures and interact with new people often! I think it helps change our perspectives in many ways

If the said "gringo" was good looking and "rich" EVERY one of them WOULD. Next question ?

@Norg1

2 жыл бұрын

yes the easy question is yes !!! even if he was semi good lookin and middle class

@LucaBrasi0

2 жыл бұрын

I think rich and good looking man get yes in every country.

@NJColombiano777

2 жыл бұрын

@@LucaBrasi0 Exactly! The women in the U. S./U.K./AUS or elsewhere would fit the same mold. Looks and money is the same everywhere!

@7860092

2 жыл бұрын

@@LucaBrasi0 yes but americans and europeans are automatically richer in columbia so its easier to be rich there as a white guy than it is to be rich in usa and europe.. and its the same with looks u automatically becomes more attractive in columbia than u are in usa/europe

@hey5150

2 жыл бұрын

Correcto

Very interesting. Well thought out and honest responses. 👍👍

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

I agree! I thought they gave great responses

bro....PLEASE tell us you smashed one of them i wont tell nobody! & speaking of "helping the algorithm", thats how i stumbled in here unexpectedly ...well...your thumbnail matched perfectly with the title so yea...great stuff! LIKED & SUBBED!!!

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the sub and like!

Great interview broke it down for us we’ll definitely going learn Spanish.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

Great Video! Something different and very informative. Thanks.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

I think intercultural relationships are hard to make work. You are so imprinted by the culture where you grew up. Even if you think it might be exciting to date someone from a different culture, in the end it usually results in a lot of friction. You often hear the local women complain about the shortcomings of men in Medellín. They are cheating dogs, they flirt too much, they don't take responsibility, etc. But the same women expect to be treated like princesses, they create drama around minor things, and they think it is natural to be possessive and jealous. So the local men and women are actually a good fit for each other. When they date an expat, they think they will get all the benefits without offering anything in return. Like they say in the video, they are glad to stop having to be jealous, but at the same time they miss the constant courting. Some local women say they are frustrated with the traditional gender roles, and welcome a "European" style relationship, where men and women see each other as equals. Until they experience it themselves, and realize they are more comfortable with man who is leading, assertive and dominating.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

That is true, the novelty and excitement for dating a foreigner does eventually wane and you're left with the inherent difficulties in the relationship.

@compytv8636

2 жыл бұрын

Based, feminism is a cancer

@kippsguitar6539

2 жыл бұрын

Right, it's just a question of social advancement or regression, most Latinas just want a gringo to raise her social/economic status or emigration

@felrobelv

2 жыл бұрын

Well that's why they like to date people from Spain, as they are more similar to them but still foreigners. I know, I am married to a Colombian woman.

@krzysztofprusakowski3386

2 жыл бұрын

Depends on the people. Some people do not like their own culture and are fascinated about others

That was a nice informative video which confirms everything I have learned from traveling in colombia for several years. Those two young ladies were very mature and they have a good idea what they like and don’t like. It was nice hearing their opinions.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

yep!

Wow! Awesome listening practice!! Thank you so much! I'm a cook in the USA tryna learn spanish. Muchas gracias perro

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

That's what I was thinking after reading a few similar comments. I'm making other videos like this to help subscribers with their Spanish.

@greyfreeman5537

2 жыл бұрын

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL one thing that helped me learn Japanese was reading official JP captions on videos. And if they had translations, it was perfect. Of course, I started out with translations though

Awesome little video. Great insight. And your Spanish is really good. Thanks

I've been married to my Colombian wife for 13 years now, living in Turbaco near Cartagena. My spanish is so so, her English is so so. We are as happy as a couple can be. We got lucky meeting each other on line with AFA. My only regret is not having met her earlier, but it wasn't possible then. It's a whole new world for meeting people anywhere in the world now, and Colombia has the best to offer.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad to hear you're happy together!

@amiwho3464

Жыл бұрын

Whats AFA? Thx

@5ivestring

Жыл бұрын

@@amiwho3464 AFA is short for "A foreign Affair", a online dating company that does what they say, they get people together.. They offer excellent advise and are top notch, professional. I don't know how Covid has affected their business, but if you're interested, send them an email, or a phone call. Check them out on line.

@amiwho3464

Жыл бұрын

@@5ivestring hey thx alot man. I will definitely check it out. Good luck to you!

@amiwho3464

Жыл бұрын

@@markymark6928 He answered that above

Great video 👍🏻

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

thanks!

My wife is from Bogotá and this was very helpful!

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

glad you thought so!

Great video. Looking forward to moving out there for good soon. Just trying to decide on my final destination!

La comunicación es lo más importante en una relación. Cuando no entendía español y era inglés, fue maravilloso. Cuando empecé a entender un poco de español empezaron los problemas.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

sii, es muy importante. Hablo espanol pero es mucho mas facil tener una relacion con alguin que habla ingles

@adana4670

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@Joe-pb3bm

2 жыл бұрын

Aka: T.M.I. (too much information). Often, the less said, the better. Actions speak louder than words.

@YoramAizenberg

2 жыл бұрын

@@Joe-pb3bm אנחנו מכירים?

@heidibedoya

2 жыл бұрын

Lol 😆 😂

Nice interview

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

thanks!

Superb interview, excellent content !! Beautiful lady's!!

Great interview!

I am a US citizen and my wife lives in Brasil with our daughter She speaks English enough to communicate The problem we have most is the internet and telecommunications problems that Brasil has But hopefully the money will come to allow us to be together

@santiagomurillo7551

Жыл бұрын

bro is getting cucked

@ivy8483

Жыл бұрын

@@SiiNTi bruh how

@SharkDaddy514

11 ай бұрын

@@ivy8483 lol

I had a Hispanic gf in college for 2 years. We lived together and my Spanish became very good. Her English improved a lot as well. She had lived in the US for 4 years before we got together. I also had a German and Turkish girlfriend as well. They both spoke English really well so there was no need to learn their language and we did not live together. I would say the biggest obstacles were the culture. The Turkish gal took full advantage of her new freedoms and the German was too reserved , not willing to try new things. I dont think she like living abroad. The Turk drank like a fish and didn't know how to drive but was down for anything that I liked to do. I met her in a bar and left her in a bar unfortunately. She had no off switch when drinking . She would drink until black out every time we went out. I was cool with it for a while but she got to be handful and I couldn't put up with it after a while. Her Turkish friends were not like that most of the time. They were way more reserved . I would probably have never met them if it wasn't for her. All is good now and I am still friends with all of them online.

@timurtheking

2 жыл бұрын

Absolute player

@frederic6998

2 жыл бұрын

germans are usually very boring people.

@marqc9829

2 жыл бұрын

Cool story bro!

@LegendNinja41

2 жыл бұрын

@@frederic6998 true, am german xd.

@elettramia6380

Жыл бұрын

Hispanics are Spaniards. Not indigenous Americans and mestizo Americans who were colonized by Spain. HISPANIC AND LATIN MEAN COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS, HENCE WHY THEY ARE TWO COMPLETELY DIFFERENT WORDS! AMERICANS MOSTLY NORTH AMERICANS NEED TO LEARN ACTUAL LATIN HISTORY AND NEED TO LEARN AND RESPECT THE PEOPLE WHO ARE ACTUALLY HISTORICALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CULTURA LATINA THE LATIN CULTURE. BEING LATIN IS ETHNICITY! AND US REAL ETHNICALLY LATIN PEOPLE ARE OF THE MEDITERRANEAN RACE! LATINS ARE THE MEDITERRANEAN DESCENDANTS OF ITALY! AND LATIN COUNTRIES ARE IN LATIN EUROPE! 🙄THE CULTURA LATINA, THE LATIN PEOPLE, THE LATIN TRIBES, THE LATIN ETHNICITY AND THE LATIN LANGUAGE ALL COME FROM ITALY! LATINO IS THE SOLE IDENTITY OF SOUTHERN EUROPEAN LATIN MEDITERRANEAN DIASPORA WHOS ETHNICITY AND CULTURE COMES FROM THE TRUE LATINO ANCESTORS OF ITALY. Latin europe was Latinized by ROME ITALY hence how Latina italy got the name Latina. & Hispanic (Hispania) is literally the Latin language MEANING SPAIN NOT the NATIVE AMERICANS they Colonized. Latin America got its name SOLELY and ONLY to mean the part of the Americas CONQUERED by LATIN EUROPE and that is all it will EVER MEAN. Latin ORIGIN, HISTORY& people are NON INTERCHANGEABLE. STOP THE CULTURAL THEFT OF MY PEOPLE& OUR ANCESTRY. BRAINWASHED AMERICAN/ MOSTLY NORTH AMERICAN CULTURAL APPROPRIATION & CULTURAL THEFT FOR "PROFIT AND GAIN" WILL NEVER BE LATINO. CULTURAL APPROPRIATION EXIST BECAUSE THOSE LIKE YOU BELIEVE YOU HAVE AND WILL CONTINUE TO BENEFIT FROM THE CULTURAL THEFT TOWARDS US TRUE LATIN PEOPLE AND OUR HISTORICAL ACCOMPLISHMENTS! AND US TRUE LATINS ARE & HAVE ALWAYS BEEN MULTI GENETICALLY MIXED ETHNIC PEOPLE DUE TO OUR GENETIC CONTRIBUTORS FROM OUR MIDDLE EASTERN (ASIAN), NORTHERN AFRICAN, AND BALKAN GYPSIE DNA. THERE ARE NO "WHITE" LATINS. JUST MORE ASSIMILATION . SOUTH CENTRAL AMERICANS AND MEXICANS ARE NATIVE AMERICANS, MESTIZOS, CASTIZOS, PARDOS, ZAMBOS, AND PURE SUB SAHARAN AFRICANS. NOT LATINS, NOT LATIN BLOOD, THEREFORE NOT LATINO. IN SOUTH CENTRAL AMERICA AND MÉXICO THE ONLY PEOPLE CALLED LATINO AND HISPANIC ARE US SOUTHERN EUROPEANS OF LATIN MEDITERRANEAN ORIGIN. OBVIOUSLY THE SAME IN LATIN EUROPE. PUSHING AND CONTRIBUTING TO BRAINWASHED NORTH AMERICAN MISAPPROPRIATION OF FOREIGN TERMS SUCH AS LATIN/LATINO AS TRENDING PROPAGANDA FOR SOCIAL STATUS TO APPEAR MORE DESIRABLE DOES NOT JUSTIFY THE CONTINUING CONTRIBUTIONS OF CULTURAL THEFT. THE TERM LATINO DERIVES FROM THE TERM LATINI, THE LATINI WHERE THE VERY FIRST LATIN TRIBE TO EXIST FROM ITALY! LATINI IS PLURAL MEANING MORE THAN ONE LATINO! AND LATINO IS SINGULAR FOR LATINI MEANING ONE LATINO. THE SAME WITH LATINA AND LATINE. ALL TERMS CREATED BY THE TRUE LATIN PEOPLE OF ITALY. PUSHING BRAINWASHED AMERICAN MOSTLY NORTH AMERICAN CULTURAL RAPE AS A FASHION TREND FOR “PROFIT & GAIN” NEEDS TO BE EXPOSED. YOU CAN NOT BE PART OF AN ORIGIN, HISTORY AND ETHNICITY WHICH YOUR ANCESTORS FACTUALLY ARE NOT HISTORICALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR

very interesting ! thanks ! soon i am flying to Medellin !

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Great city for a vacation!

Very interesting and informative. Thank you.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it!

I'm married to a Ecuadorian who had been living in Venezuela when we met 25 years ago. My closest friend is married to a Colombian for 23 years now. There are challenges but it has worked out well for both of us. The thing that sucks the most is that it has gotten too dangerous for us to visit the wives families and not everyone can make it here to visit on a regular basis. Both of us had planned on our kids getting to spend more time in Latin America when they were growing up but not a single one of them speaks Spanish as well as my friend and I do.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

It is a very unfortunate situation in Venezuela right now. Hopefully things begin to turn around for them.

@HeLIEl

2 жыл бұрын

@Guts She better be! You're her knight in shining armor. Keep her spoiled

@MyWifesSon69

2 жыл бұрын

Why don’t they speak Spanish? Does the mom not talk to them in Spanish? It seems like you didn’t allow her to. Your fault

@jungi001

2 жыл бұрын

Why didn't you raise your kids bilingual? What a missed chance!

@justadjimmi6613

2 жыл бұрын

@@MyWifesSon69 Where did you get the idea that I allow or don't allow my wife to do anything? Are you an angry leftist? I grew up only knowing words from my families native language and to this day cannot communicate in it except in basic ways. I would have learned my family language better but we only speak a dialect and it isn't really useful like Spanish is. My kids can speak Spanish but they live in an English speaking world and haven't dedicated themselves to Spanish like I did.

I think 2 people learning each others language out of love is one of the most romantic things in the world... 5:35 Like if she met a guy who spoke as little spanish as her, and they kept trying to improve learning out of pure love for each other would be insanely romantic. in my opinion.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

that would be

@rodriguezelfeliz4623

Жыл бұрын

I live in Colombia. My aunt traveled to Canada when she was young and she met a dutch man. They did not know each other's language, and they could barely communicate with a bit of english. They got married a couple of years later. In the wedding, my other aunt met the brother of the dutch guy, and they also got married later on. They live in Canada now.

@omgjustsignmeup

Жыл бұрын

I just started dating a girl who speaks no English and I speak no Spanish. We're teaching each other and it's been a lot of fun.

@mjb007bond

9 ай бұрын

That is what my girlfriend and I are doing. When is learning English for me and I am finally learning Spanish. I had always wanted to learn and then I met her here in the U.S. and I am planning to go there soon, and for a long time.

Am from England, currently in Paraguay, and will be arriving in Bogota this Saturday before going to Medellin. I can't wait.

I like listening to the interviews in Spanish. It confirms that I am making progress in the learning.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

Жыл бұрын

It’s a great way to learn! And all three of these girls speak well and weren’t using slang because they knew they were talking to a foreigner.

I'm from Australia & found it hard to communicate with couple girls from Colombia cause of the 16 hour time difference. Like when I'm about to sleep they are waking up & vice versa. The only time I did talk was for 30mins before I go work or sleep

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

yeah, the time difference is of course an issue

@johnwilbanks6665

2 жыл бұрын

Ummm.. you cant date a girl online. Go meet girls...

@user-sh2mk8ew4c

2 жыл бұрын

Good. The Asian countries should be your focus. Forget about South America.

@gu3sswh075

2 жыл бұрын

@@johnwilbanks6665 he lives in the other side of the world. He doesn’t have many options

wowwww muy interesante , sobre todo por el tema cultura, creo que es importante que ambos hagan el esfuerzo máximo de hablar el idioma del otro, con esto, las distancias se acortan y los mal entendidos disminuyen... super interesante parejas de distintas culturas .. estupendo !!

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

siiii

Great video bro! Coming out to Colombia soon!

This video is a hit! Which means you have to do a part 2 with more Columbian women.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Hahah.. I eventually did

@lamabryant9758

2 жыл бұрын

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL thank you

great video dude... you just opened up a whole new world.. I never considered visiting South America let alone living there.. its way more friendly than been lead to believe...

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

thanks man! South America has a lot to offer

@TonyAielloRTW

2 жыл бұрын

Who has led you to believe otherwise?

@markholland6657

2 жыл бұрын

@@TonyAielloRTW I guess news, media, movies over the yrs, here in UK anyway, has always kinda implied that South America isn't very safe... guess ya never know till ya go though.

@markoraimius4339

2 жыл бұрын

Its safer than it used to be but my friend in Medillin said two Americans were. Just killed. Be careful do your homework

I think it comes down to personality at the end of the day. Doesn't matter where the person is from. You can get past cultural differences if you've got basic respect for each other.

@mojorider8067

Жыл бұрын

you hit the nail on the head. if two people want a relationship to work, they will find a way to make it work.

Awesome interview!!!! Beautiful women also!!

Awesome interview

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

thanks!

Really great video production value! What cameras and equipment do you use?

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks! iphone 11 for the interviews, DJI Mavic Pro 2 Drone for those drone shots

Wow what lovely women. They came across really well. 🙏👍

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

I agree!

Xiomara's English is fantastic and she seems very confident in herself. My Spanish is pretty good.too

Great video. Awesome interview. You have gained a new subscriber. Keep up the good work

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Awesome! Thanks for the support!

Great video! I've always wanted to visit Colombia. Such a beautiful country and a lot of beautiful girls. Keep up the good work!

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

thanks! Hopefully you get the chance to visit!

@kippsguitar6539

2 жыл бұрын

Not when I went there

@BearInThePhillipines

Жыл бұрын

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL is there age gap relationship common in columbia like phillipines?

Been to Colombia and I absolutely loved the country and the people there...

I appreciate their insights.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

yep!

Marcela: tu sei la migliore.! U are the best !

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

She may see your message. I think she checks in on the video.

Colombian women are beautiful

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Sí!

@scottgeen3062

2 жыл бұрын

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL pretty girls from Scott nueva zealanda

@kippsguitar6539

2 жыл бұрын

Not when I was there

@christopherhouse7937

2 жыл бұрын

Even if they take half your lifetime earnings!? 🤷🏻‍♂️

Fantastic video 📹

Good vid , really good vid about different cultural relationships . Different languages , diff cultures , but if both go ok , it is ok

Awwwww, k bueno verte chicos! Mi respuesta, specificamente sobre el comentario de hablar fuerte y directo, es k en mis experiencias, las colombianas no aguantan críticas. Se provoca dramas y inseguridades. En realidad no las gustan escuchar la verdad en un tono directo. Y, px somos conversando en español, nuestros idioma segunda, es muy común k si usaría unas palabras imperfectas se puede provocar una reacción muy dramática. Damas, Te pido mis disculpas, jaja. Esta difícil comunicarme perfectamente bien como alguien nativo😉. Abrazote fuerte chicos.

@kippsguitar6539

2 жыл бұрын

Yes they are insecure and aggressive

@user-sh2mk8ew4c

2 жыл бұрын

Si. Exactamente!!!

@anamarcelaestradaberrio9984

2 жыл бұрын

Will… saludos, un abrazo 🤗

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

hola parce!

Todo es posible! Mi esposa es Dominica yo soy americano pero yo aprende sus idioma porque es necesario pero nuestro relación es bueno comunicación es importante! Yo no cambio mi esposa o mi vida por nadaaaaa mi encanta dos gente puedes construir un real relación con diferente culturas amor es amor 👸🏾🤴🏾

@tommyny2920

Жыл бұрын

What keeps you so sure though I mean girls be divorcing like crazy I mean you don’t think she gon leave you when see meets another rich Dominican cat like a rapper I mean you can’t even be sure it’s a risk just like every other marriage

Thanks for confirming what WE ALREADY know.

Good video, thanks

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

thanks for watching!

Enjoyed listening to the Colombian women’s opinion about dating foreigners . Currently I’m engaged to a Colombiana and am very happy

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear it! Several of my friends are in good relationships with Colombians.

@kippsguitar6539

2 жыл бұрын

If you"take care of them" they are always happy

@lidiagizaw3828

Жыл бұрын

look at what u look like smh

Not all Latinas or Colombianas are the same though... I prefer to have a boyfriend that speaks English because I can't express my feelings in Spanish easily, even though it is my first language. I prefer old rock music and movies in English. I just want real love and someone that likes similar things~🤓

Muy buen video. Ese acento tuyo :) es de otro mundo:)

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

jaja... gracias! Nadie le gusta mi acento

This is fun. Thanks

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

glad you liked it!

Love the interview

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

thanks!

5:06 "Would you have a foreign boyfriend?" "Yes." "What do you think would be the problems with having a foreign boyfriend?" "That many girls like them." 😳 "You don't think that it would be a cultural problem?" "No." "Do you speak English?" "No." "You don't think that it would be a problem that you don't speak English?" "No." "So would you have a boyfriend that doesn't speak Spanish?" "No, he would have to speak some Spanish." You see that, fellas? You learn Spanish and the _whole_ singles scene in Latin America opens up.

@delvine13

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately my brains no good with language🙄

@lazyperfectionist1

2 жыл бұрын

@@delvine13 I once had that attitude myself. It's very prevalent in the US. All too often, we tend to look at the act of learning a second language as an exercise in rote memorization which is a better way to teach oneself that the act of learning another language (whatever it is) is boring drudgery that we're _never_ going to get through. But the fact is, every language that has ever existed has been accepted on the basis of human beings as _tools_ users. Whatever the language, it's a big, intangible _tool_ kit. Whether we're talking about a principle of grammar or a term, it's a _tool._ The way you learn it is by spending time _using_ it, by which I mean building contexts around it with which _other_ terms and principles of grammar would not _work._ Also, consider, there are a _lot_ of things that count as _tools_ that we tend not to _think_ of that way. Pens are tools. Doorknobs are tools. Your hands are tools. These are each things that you can use quite well now, that you once struggled with. So what language do you most want to learn?

@vommir.

2 жыл бұрын

@@delvine13 I swear it's worth it.

@exnihilo415

2 жыл бұрын

This the single best sales pitch for learning a second language that I've ever heard.

@Keboomrang

2 жыл бұрын

There is a proverb in Quebec ... ''Qui prend femme, prend pays'' That's why you see Quebecers everywhere in the world mainly in South America and Caribbean . It's 99% because of the women. We move and learn everything about the country but the Quebec accent will always be there. The swear word is still in Quebecois but nobody knows it : )))) .

6:27 Wow. I like the little islands.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

Жыл бұрын

Guatape!

This was great. lol. TY.

I love the drone footage, did you have any problems flying drones over some of these places? I think Jardin, areas around guatape, looks like some other small towns as well!

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks! Yeah, I tried to fly the drone around the rock at Guatape, and they immediately stopped me because there is a helicopter landing pad nearby. You'll see old drone footage of the rock on youtube, but you can't do it anymore. For Jardin, I didn't take off or land near any people. I took off outside of town, kept the drone super high as I flew near the church, then brought it back to land quickly. The other colonial town is Santa Fe de Antioquia, and I did the same as I did in Jardin; I never take off or land near people. If it's high enough they'll never even notice it.

Most Latin American women are looking for long term meaningful relationships with people. They see foreigners as always looking for quick hook up. Most seem curious to the difference in culture. My opinion.

@JerseyDevil187

2 жыл бұрын

Of course she wants a green card

@orlandoalessandrini2505

2 жыл бұрын

They just want $ and a come up.

@bluegtturbo

2 жыл бұрын

They want financial support above all else. Not saying she'd necessarily be unfaithful but her priority is food on the table. Your social status is far more important than how you look. You could look like Quasimodo's uglier twin and you'd still get laid. I know... I spent 9 months there just constantly doing day game

@jimthomas856

2 жыл бұрын

@@bluegtturbo 100% true

@rdu239

2 жыл бұрын

@@bluegtturbo its very hard, if the girl is a bread winner of her family it will be very hard for the couples to have a degree of distance from her family needed for the couple's growth

Looks like our host sticks to the nicer parts of town. Interesting video. Thanks, Algorithm.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

I was living in Laureles. I'm glad you liked the video!

Going to learn spanish right now!

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

Жыл бұрын

😂

If you work on yourself, fitness, career, mind and health, become fluent in Spanish, they would never think twice about leaving you. If a guy can't speak the language, it's a huge barrier that prevents them from being comfortable to go out with you in first place, staying romantically connected. I'm from Canada, now in Costa... Started learning Spanish hardcore back in Canada... One of the best decisions I've ever made .. it's YOU who will start to do the choosing..

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

I agree; improving on all of these things are extremely important

If I could earn my money (in USD) online, I would hop around Latin America. Fell in love with the culture, the girls, the landscapes, nature, and food when i went to Ecuador 🇪🇨 when you grow up in America you think that you’re doing something wrong because you can’t find a girlfriend but it’s actually not your fault, it’s just your location. You will find you jibe A LOT better with a Latina. It’s incredible some of the girls I met in Ecuador & Guatemala.. hardest thing in my life was to leave them to return home.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Why did you return home?

@ajw_3153

2 жыл бұрын

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL because i dont have a remote job

Very interesting :D

Love Colombia. Fantastic people

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

I agree!

Good video sir, you got a subscriber. I love latin women, plan on moving to Medellin soon. And yes I speak Spanish fluently.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Nice! Thanks for the support! You'll love Medellin! Unfortunately my visa is about to expire, so I'll be leaving for a few months, but I've got more than enough footage to keep making videos on Colombia even while I'm gone. I plan on returning in January.

@bluegtturbo

2 жыл бұрын

Me too... Returning in January. I've got tons of contacts if you'd like to hang out and shoot the breeze

I was lucky with the girl I met years ago. We are getting married in January. Good family , down to earth people. Not everyone is like some of these gals

You ever get the “Hey you like Johnny Sins” lol fascinating video nonetheless.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

haha.. constantly

I lived in Panama for a year. The women were beautiful. I had alot of fun with the ladies.

@texasrebel7754

2 жыл бұрын

I'll be visiting Panama next November. Might even live there someday. Looking forward to it!

It is interesting that they describe their words as harsh from the perspective of their boyfriends. The majority of my partners have been Spanish. It is hard to explain, but personality wise, it has always been the best match for me. I have never seen Spanish women as harsh or angry. Quite the opposite. I greatly appreciate someone that expresses themselves openly and honestly. And the few times I dated women of the same race, it always went quite horribly.

They love gringos plain and simple . If you are in Colombia then you are the exotic one .

people from the Netherlands are also very direct and straight to the point I think that's a beautiful thing

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

are you Dutch?

’ve been married to a first generation Kurdish/Turkish woman for 16 years now. She’s an interesting mix because she’s American, but her family instilled a lot of their culture in her. She’s a great mother, a great housewife, trustworthy, loyal. We’re different people for sure, but we’re always on the same page about parental responsibilities and husband and wife “duties.”

I don't put much faith into what women say but I did like hearing them speak. I took Spanish in High School but I'm in my 30's now and have mostly forgotten what I learned lol. So trying to re-learn it now. The speed they're speaking doesn't scare me much. I think I can pick up okay.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

I learned a lot of Spanish from watching youtube videos

@heavymetalroadtrip6665

2 жыл бұрын

“I don’t put much faith into what women say”. You, sir, are enlightened.

It's often the case that the pros and cons of things are the same. That is that the thing you like about a specific country, is frequently the same thing you dislike about it. It can be similar with a person. You might like a country for the freedom and laid-back attitude, you may dislike it for the flaunting of rules and lack of prompt service. They're the same thing. You may like that a partner is not possessive, but you may at times dislike that same quality.

@malachi-

2 жыл бұрын

"Even the most beautiful scenery is no longer assured of our love after we have lived in it for three months, and some distant coast attracts our avarice: possessions are generally diminished by possession."

Liked and Subscribed.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

thanks for the support on the channel!

Thanks so much for this. In reality, all couples seem to have problems communicating, even if they speak the same language.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

haha.. great point!

colombia looks really pretty, one day i will make it to south america for travels. still got a bit to finish up in europe first.

@travelescapesOFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

It is beautiful!

@INDIGENOUS_Tiktok__yeha_noha

2 жыл бұрын

Im a native from colombia,and you are welcome to my beautiful country my friend. Do you see my picture thats me😉have a nice day,send you blessings🦅👋

In my class I have one girl from Colombia she is really cute.she don't need make up for look good.she is my Best friend

@17Watman

2 жыл бұрын

Lucky

@boxinchito

2 жыл бұрын

Oh! You're in the friend zone nigga! Lmfao!!!

@QuezSaySuiiii

2 жыл бұрын

@@boxinchito 😂🤣😂🤣

@Izakokomarixyz

2 жыл бұрын

best friend? ouch,

@prawnmikus

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe when she's 40 she'll come to you, as long as you have money.

From way up here in Washington State U.S. of A... ¡Estas mujeres de Columbia son hermosas!

I got lucky yesterday morning. My not understanding Spanish and her lack of sophistication in English definitely contributed in me getting lucky.

@Champwsox05

2 ай бұрын

Lucky! I haven't met too many Colombian chicks in the United States.