Western dating culture is to be avoided by all who want a successful marriage. The pure Philippines dating culture is to be up held if you want a successful marriage.

@Xaviallin1

8 ай бұрын

Indeed

Most Filipinas do like the idea of courtship and chivalry - a man showing them he cares and has their heart at interest. However, the practice of going through the parents to take a woman on a date has mostly disappeared from Filipino culture especially for women living in big cities and are dating online. No need for a parent’s consent there. Provincial dating is different yet lenient today. When dating a westerner a Filipina is more likely to date around his expectations, dropping the cultural norms once he has passed her test. Netflix and chill only works in the West. A westerner who has boots in the PH knows he needs to take her on a date but if he’s meeting Filipinas online most times he would have already proposed the idea for her going back to his hotel (if he’s on vacation) or his house (if he’s living there). A westerner looking to settle down and find a wife will respect her boundaries but if he’s not, then he won’t even waste his time on a date. America has eroded the fabric of cultural norms around the world and the PH love for all things American is slowly getting out of hand. 😢

@garylagera7584

8 ай бұрын

It's true that chivalry and respecting omen all over the world is becoming a notion of the past. Dignity, honor, respect, mannerisms, seeing a women as special and to feel that the opposite sex finds you attractive and a worthy catch has almost been lost in this fasrmt paced world. As a foreigner that I modestly and humbly will state that I still honor old values from America or other civilized, modern countries. Most women find me attractive, fit ( for my age ) have a pleasant and realistic attitude about life and still have a optimistic outlook. I value a woman who is educated ( not necessarily book smart) in world news, is adventurous, respects others, who takes care of herself mentally, and is feminine. I won't overlook that I have a healthy libido and most certainly miss LOVE making and sex in general. It's true that there are a lot of natural beautiful women in the PI and I must say that you are very attractive. That's my take in short and I'll sign off for now.

Social media is a double-edged sword. It has fostered a new realm of how we communicate and get information, but it has also served as a platform for less desirable behaviors.....like narcissism.....and change the culture of dating in what is seen as a "relationship" now. My hope is people can see through these for what they are and not adopt it themselves. By continuing traditions in courtship and how we engage with people, we can keep society from completely going off the rails.

@CarigisX

8 ай бұрын

This....

Salamat Rubeauti for this video, it is refreshing to know that Filipinos are staying true to their culture while incorporating new things to it .

Even your music incorporates both traditional and modern music.

Very interesting topic, had not heard it discussed before. You have great content, I always look forward to your videos/topics.

Darlin', you look stunning in that white dress.

I definitely prefer traditional over modern but then again I am old school

If you want to get away from the problems with Western dating then maybe don’t try to import that style. They say insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results. I like the idea of try a traditional approach from the culture of the woman you want to date.

I hope you're having a wonderful day Ruby, take care and God bless you 🙏 😊

Rubeauti you're looking extra pretty there

Thanks. Nice dress. Stay classy.

Beautiful dress …really suites you

Each must be true to themselves.

Hi rubeauty. This was a great video. Comparing insights from two cultures. As an american that lives in southern leyte, married, we have a beautiful daughter named shealyn. My personal perspective on this topic first is be honest. Dont lie, fake, boast act superior because we are western. Many philipinas do get influenced about western culture due to social media, movies, blogs etc. Many westerners dont really know the culture here. So for me is always be honest, definately meet the family as I know thats important. Even in the usa I would do that. Be equal together. Make decisions together with no dominant person. Any culture can get along with honesty . Westerners can be domineering like they are in control. They have the money, the education etc. I treat my wife as an equal. My philippine friends as well. I'm no better than anyone else. For me I enjoy, respect the philippine culture and family. Each can learn from each other. You made good points in this video. Well done. Oh and your dress is beautiful on you.

@DMSProduktions

8 ай бұрын

BEST way is to stay OFF SM altogether!

First to tagaay !

Hi Ruby, good evening 🙏

I read the Book of Psalms 3X for my Filipina fiancé..🙏❤️🙏

WOW YOU LOOK SO GORGEOUS AND YOUR WHITE DRESS LOOKS AMAZING ON YOU TO. 😍💯

I haven't so much as been on a date since 2017. I doubt moving an entire continent away will increase that success for me, at all.

@panan7777

8 ай бұрын

I'm from a small country in EU. A friend is going back to Ph for another year. He wrote us some guidelines. Your chances in Ph are about 50times bigger than here. So....

We share one single planet... options are options for everyone. The difference is how you said it at the end, the way we evaluate them as good or bad. I still like the Filipino way!

You look beautiful in that dress…..

There needs to be a healthy mix, as you mention. I can’t say that a lot of western culture is a good thing, dating or otherwise.

Your video right stops at the moment where I expected You to explain in detail how and in which way You mix western und filipino ways of dating. Care to elaborate?

Well done.

Hi! I’m American, visiting the Philippines. Do you think girls in the Philippines like being cold approached by foreign men? I feel like yes- they do but curious about your opinion on this haha. Thx

well i think the philippina Way is best - flirt come together live together - that does not happended in Germany

😃Westerner dress

Serenade under the window, eh? I hope my Filipina thinks dogs howling is romantic...

If the Philipines ever accepts no fault divorce in law, then basically western men and marriage in the phillipines is bascially over as its no better then marriage in the western countries. Why would we want to marry you if oyu have a constant get out clause from marriage wheb in th eold days marriage used to mean to death to part etc

@Xaviallin1

8 ай бұрын

I still think it’s still in the early stages for that to happen in the Philippines. Imo, I think It’ll still be alright to marry there for at least the next couple of decades

One thing for sure is that more and more women from the Philippines are totally becoming modern western women! Any woman (with all due respect) that starts a KZread channel that discusses various topics is definitely a modern western woman.

I have been watching a lot of your videos. You have a very good head on your shoulders. You are also beautifully dressed today

I wonder who is the girl from the thumbnail

@Xaviallin1

8 ай бұрын

She’s a stunner ngl

As promised: greetings from 1898 hotel 😊

Dear Rubeauti. When you talk about dating and freedom, you must be talking about the couple goes on a date. After the date the guy gets his freedom and yet another girl / woman becomes a single mother. I’ve never known a country to have so many singlemothers. In the west, when a guy becomes a father the Government steps in and hounds him for the next 20 years to make sure he financially looks after his kids. Your leaders should look at adopting a similar policy.

@Endwankery

8 ай бұрын

That policy you’re suggesting is the reason half of American marriages are failures. The PH should change its policies on marriage but not by following the example of a dying republic

@Ray-dv3nz

8 ай бұрын

@@Endwankery Actually. You are absolutely right. A policy change should happen in the Philippines but you are correct. Not the one I suggested because this is what makes it so easy for western women to wipe their men out. Good onya for helping me see the light. Thank fu** I’m not a Filipino politician 🤣

Yow, looking pretty.....As to movies influencing dating, you would or is it should (????) really have to specify a time frame 30's, 40's etc. and with songs, Country and Western, R&B, Rap, Hip-hop etc. and then what years are you talking about? MMMMMM, a thought??? Rubeauti, are you just being, coy or Koi (the back drop...Ya that's the ticket) about the preferred style you want to be courted in? I will have to watch this video a few more times, 'TO SEE IF YOU, REVEAL.....THE TRUTH!'

🥰🌹

Key: show big wallet. They like money

I don't know enough about Philippines dating...but I do know ALOT about western ways of dating... you might be lead to believe men are toxic if you listen to a large group of western women, but the truth is it's women that are toxic, delusional in their wants and willing to give everything up on a first date to the right guy, then be surprised when he leaves forever the next day... trust me when I say your ways of purity and chastity and waiting is far more valuable then what is happening in the west.... 75% of why I am moving to the east is because of how degenerative it has become.. the truth is I am 6' 4" 220lbs reasonably good looking and first hand experience the dating scene as a Chad so I am not complaining but I do feel for my many brothers out there that are hard working good men family men that aren't getting picked because they're not over 6 feet tall. And furthermore the delusional feminism running rampant through the west is in fact what's killing the west... peace iut.

You can't have love without God and in the west love is just a feeling that you can get tired of. Just look at the divorce rate. God has to be in valved .

😎🇺🇲👍 😁

The Philippines has been influenced by western cultures ever since the conquest of the Spaniards and then the transition to the US after the Spanish-American war.

@Endwankery

8 ай бұрын

Well Spanish and American “dating” cultures were wholesome back then. Unfortunately it no longer is and America is now exporting toxicity. I can only hope Filipinos will ultimately reject Americas example

@jameshanlon5689

8 ай бұрын

@@Endwankery: You seem to forget the whole American influence during Vietnam war and until the withdrawal from Subic Bay US Naval base and Clark USAF base. There were a lot of drinkie bars back then. A lot of US servicemen found themselves getting married to local Filipino women during that time. One can almost say the same thing about US service men and Korean women from the late 60s to almost today. It’s been 20 years since I was in Korea. I’m sure that a lot has changed since then.

First, youve lost your wave In my opinion western style doesnt go ever well with a traditional pinay I'm actually more inclined to properly court a Filipina than Netflix & Chill

I don’t think this is relevant to majority of the Philippines I mean sure in Manila,makati,angles,in the city and it part of Cebu but everywhere else in the Philippines most definitely in Mindanao you will more then likely get more of a traditional setting

@The_Potato

8 ай бұрын

Proceeds to mention the areas that are most of the population.

God forbid you will adapt the American dating culture. You will become arrogant and entitled and the attractiveness will be gone with the wind.

Why do you hate me?

Thank you for keeping foreigners up to date on cultural changes or the merging of cultures. Just be advised that EVEN THOUGH you articulate a wishful bureaucratic approach - in REALITY Filipinos are more intrenched in their ways and only claim to being more flexible AND the reputation that too many Filipinas are scandalous and have alterior motives as in scamming the "rich" foreigners emotionally as well as financially. Even relatives that are nationals of the Philippines scam their own families there as well as new comers. I've been TOTALLY SCAMMED ( exploited as well as attempted extortion) by my wife's family. Unbeknownst to the relatives foreigners are smarter than given credit and or their primitive trickery is almost comical if not soo STUPID! With that being said, there are far too many foreign men who have the attitudes that just because most women of the Philippines are impoverished that they can take advantage of women in indecent ways. For instance Passport Bro's and the like. I can only speak for myself - I'm appalled by their behavior! They most certainly are rejected in the states! Anyway Rebeauti, keep up the good work.

Western style of dating isn't something I'd recommend for Filipinas. Nine out ten times the ladies will end up with trauma. Don't fall for the trick bag.

@CF.

7 ай бұрын

I agree and I’m a woman from the U.S. 1) Feminism is a lie. 2) Modern dating culture doesn’t benefit women.

A western guy has to respect a Filipinas wishes. Like if she wants to wait until marriage or something else along those lines. Even if it takes a year or more. I don't want to destroy Philippine culture. Just like the divorce Bill your senate passed. I hope they make it as difficult as possible. Maybe some counseling first, or whatever it takes to save the marriage. If the marriage still doesn't work, I believe there should be a way out of a marriage. That way you don't have to spend the rest of your life alone. Does that make sense to you Ruby?

@Meta-llicana

8 ай бұрын

You finish kissing a$$

Ligaw Is The Real Deal Netflixxx= Boom Boom Bye Bye B.S. KEEP GO Rubeauty - Speak True Salamat Teach me Ligaw💛Rubeauti