This video is intended to educate, but may be upsetting for those who are sensitive to topics related to EDs. Anti-mlm creator shoutout Not the Good Girl Margaret Angel (a real life angel) Savannah Marie (a close friend of mine and very passionate creator) Deanna Mims Tiana Liss Savvy Leiser Munecat (extremely well detailed/ well produced deep dives) Kiki Chanel (we all love her ofc) The Recovering Hunbot Monica Siembieda The Antibot Emily Fine Amanda Mc. The Fox Hole Kyla James iilluminaughtii (good research, important topics) There's also some amazing Instagram accounts like @mlmombie @smallantimlmangel and @_haleyobryan maybe I'll shoutout insta accounts in the next video!

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

@@birtarb07 just did, you’re right she’s a very respected creator with quality content.

@livisome123

3 жыл бұрын

munecat is SO GOOD i love her videos and deanna mims is literally like my internet big sister that barely knows i exist lmao haha great list

@ladada-we6ct

3 жыл бұрын

@@cruelworldhappymind q

@Xanomenon

3 жыл бұрын

@@birtarb07 I

@KylaJames

3 жыл бұрын

I’m smaller and less relevant than any of these creators but I also make anti mlm videos🥺💗 love all the people you shouted out. There’s so many amazing anti mlm creators out there!

me, a Mentally Ill: why would i pay someone to "berate" me for not achieving my goals when i can do that myself for free?

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

😅😅 r u me?

@sweariefaerie9621

3 жыл бұрын

Right? Like some ass clown I've never met is gonna know what buttons to push? 😂

@elenapopovic2527

3 жыл бұрын

This is the most relatable comment I've ever seen on youtube

@ayjamay

3 жыл бұрын

Same. No one is meaner to myself than I am.

@meghansullivan6812

3 жыл бұрын

!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am the mother of a daughter with anorexia. 600cal a day is dangerous and the hour of cardio is ridiculous. That is what my daughter did and she nearly died three times in five years. ED treatment centres don't even weigh you every day because EVERYBODY fluctuates over 24 hours. The one my daughter was in, weighed her twice a week and gains/losses were looked at once a week. People in ED centres are forced to be on complete bed rest except to go to the bathroom or between rooms until you start gaining and then you can go for a five minute walk. I'm sorry. This makes me so angry. By being in such a calorie deficit malnourishes your brain as well as the rest of your body.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed, and I’m so sorry for what you’re going through with your daughter- I know for me when I was orthorexic having a support system was really important to me, so it’s great that you are there for her 💜

@BrigitteDiessl

3 жыл бұрын

@@cruelworldhappymind thanks Darl. She's doing really well now. I'm really proud of her but we had a hellish 6 years between 16 and 22 years old. Usually hearing about stuff like this just makes me really cross but this actually took me back there. I have copied your video to an ED support network I belong to. There are some powerful people in there. Hopefully they can shine a light on this crap in the States (I live in New Zealand.) I love your channel. Keep on doing what you're doing. It's so important that people know what is going on behind the scenes, especially at this time when people are losing jobs and they are more vulnerable than usual. Walk your dog for an hour and eat a balanced diet.

@crazyhb4

3 жыл бұрын

Correct. I was in treatment for an ED (that stemmed from my OCD). I was in patient 4 months and out patient 11. In inpatient they would weigh us once a week. Outpatient was a lot more laxed so once a month. It’s ridiculous to think that your weight will drastically change day to day.

@kittystenz6284

3 жыл бұрын

I have anorexia and I am going to stop watching this video not because of the content creator by any means but because the sick part of me wants to join this program I’m only leaving this comment because this disease I have wants me to lie about my eating habits and I’m being honest so if someone else with the same disorder reads this and holds themselves accountable

@artrenberry

3 жыл бұрын

@@kittystenz6284

You’re literally the first youtuber I’ve heard saying that if someone’s struggling financially, they shouldn’t feel the need to join their patreon. It’s so refreshing. Thank you.

@5trezip23

2 жыл бұрын

I know. That was definitely super cool.

@shadaniels4126

2 жыл бұрын

She's a lovely human 🤩

@rachelyea5915

2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love her.

@chelseapowless2339

2 жыл бұрын

That’s why I gravitate to her so much! She’s so thoughtful of her viewers, not solely focused on monetary gain. I have so much respect for her and the work she does

So anyone who 'doesn't follow the rules' is cut and no refund. Sounds like a great way to make money with zero work. The majority of people won't be able to follow a 600 calorie diet with masses of cardio. So $700 for no work and the customers can't complain because of an NDA. Evil genius really.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

👏👏 well said

@kt114

3 жыл бұрын

Unethical af really

@monkiram

3 жыл бұрын

@4Freedom4All I never really watched that show but I remember seeing one episode where they tried to create drama by making one of the contestants go through some kind of maze on a very hot day and putting some cold alcoholic drinks there to "tempt her" (no idea why? I thought the goal was to facilitate losing weight not make it harder??). She was saying how it was so hot and she was so thirsty so she gave in and had the drinks. And I just thought why not give her water if she's so thirsty, it just made no sense. I didn't realize that dehydration was an intentional part of their process. Such a strange concept. Like I feel like a weight loss boot camp sounds like it could be very effective, but not when they're dehydrating you. That's just asking for serious health issues.

@VadaVoo

2 жыл бұрын

I rarely lie...but I'd be lying my ass off on the daily, not to lose $700!!!!😇That's a lot of money for your own personal bully. 🙃

When the coaches have no certification whatsoever that´s a red flag right of the bat.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

AGREED!

@leahhart3585

3 жыл бұрын

Right.

@BrigitteDiessl

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed!!!!

400-500kcal a day is what I ate when I was LITERALY ANOREXIC

@rosiejl2798

3 жыл бұрын

Yup, even when I was in my anorexia I was eating more calories than that.

@anna-lisalysell5077

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, that is definitely in the low restrict range, too. On top of having to do a lot of cardio, no wonder these people were feeling sick. Especially if they weren't used to restricting at all, that is a huge jump.

@zinebabbad1774

3 жыл бұрын

same

@TheJungaloo

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@talktalk3

3 жыл бұрын

I ate more than that and exercised less when I was anorexic :/

I had a heart attack during the detox period. I was issued a refund once my doctor/attorney told them - refund my $$ b4 they are sued for attempted murder. With a warning that if I died from their program - it would be murder. Because no where did ask for any current medical concerns.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Holy crap! I am SO SORRY you experienced that! The detox period sounds so unsafe for a variety of reasons and I’m glad you were able to be refunded!

@katrina6955

3 жыл бұрын

@@cruelworldhappymind Yes, I got my refund plus some. My attorney told me they can NOT hold you the non disclosure agreement - because we have FREE SPEECH in the US... also if you had medical issues as a result of the program. You, just can not share any documentation that is COPYRIGHTED. Beyond that varies on state. my recommendation is DO NOT!!! participate in this program at all. If you have the $$ and want to - please review with your doctor. They

@Bananachan289

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my god that’s awful I’m so sorry 😢

@digitalharmony26

3 жыл бұрын

That sounds horrific. I hope you’re doing better now and they paid through their nose for you.

@katrina6955

3 жыл бұрын

After I was released from hospital - I started walking everyday. in 14 months I went from 618 lbs (size 32 women's) down to 128lbs (size 4) . Eating 3 meals a day and no snacking

The part about having a post partum program is what sent me over the edge. Now I'm mad. A starvation diet for a person who's body just made another human?! Are they trying to kill a person?! *deep breaths*

@shirin9452

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr I was like GET THIS THING BANNED as if it’s not bad enough to starve people we’re now starving moms who have just been through labour? Back up

@ruffridge02

2 жыл бұрын

Especially if they're breastfeeding. Like, no way!

@caknight

2 жыл бұрын

And on top of the clear unhealthy diet of it all, the thought of an “accountability coach” bullying new mamas for not working out for an hour daily has me LIVIIIIDDDD. I was lucky I got 15 minutes to shower when my son was a newborn…. 🥴

@anahiramirez9086

2 жыл бұрын

also your mental state is (usually) pretty fragile after giving birth

@ingridakerblom7577

Жыл бұрын

They are to in it & to sick themselves to see what is healty & not..

Jesus Christ these people are literally profiting off of old “anorexic accountability buddy system” forums.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Omg for real I wonder if low key that’s where the concept came from 👀

@emmyjulianne6850

3 жыл бұрын

I thought this too. I used to be deep in that stuff & my group chat would send in body checks every morning and we would look at everybody’s and then basically beat them down to hell and back to make us feel like shit about ourselves

@cassidylouwerens1768

3 жыл бұрын

@@emmyjulianne6850 our group did the same thing. I still blame myself for one girl’s ED. She was just starting to go downhill and I basically coached her. I don’t know who I was or what I was thinking. I wasn’t thinking. I guess I didn’t see it as a problem at that point. I was only 16 but I’ll still never forgive myself. I hope you’re doing well

@fancydeer

3 жыл бұрын

oh no. glad I came to the comments. I probably should skip this one. I was a BIG user of one of these forums at one point.

@lacrimosa2994

3 жыл бұрын

@@cassidylouwerens1768 don't blame yourself ❤ it's good to recognise your actions and grow from them, but beating yourself won't change anything. You must have been in a dark place yourself to project that onto another person, and you deserve your own compassion and forgiveness ❤ we grow learn all our lives. Wishing you all the best ❤❤❤

As my mom always said: "If there's an NDA, run away."

Oh my gosh, that they have a postpartum program is alarming. There is enough pressure on women as it is to get a "pre pregnancy body back" that to target them during such a vulnerable time is disgusting, Women have specific dietary needs during this period especially if they are breastfeeding and promoting a fad, restrictive diet and unguided exercise is seriously dangerous. Not to mention the huge risk with postpartum depression and other mental health problems, its so so awful.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

SO TRUE! 😕😡

@baleek4367

3 жыл бұрын

This is the part that shocked me the most. You need SO much nutrition during postpartum especially if breastfeeding. I’d be very curious to see the meal plans she has for young mothers. A restrictive diet during this vulnerable period of time could have disastrous effects on the mother’s mental health and general health and therefore on the baby. This is just plain dangerous. F that !

@lorabetht9206

3 жыл бұрын

I had postpartum psychosis after my 3rd child was born- I went 6 days of not sleeping even 1 minute before I was hospitalized. To say I was suicidal would be an understatement... I can’t imagine having someone try to sell me a “diet plan” at that time!!

@OnyaB

3 жыл бұрын

Oh dear. Initially my brain translated it as posthumous... but ironically it seems fitting. It’s scary

@frostythehoeman6969

3 жыл бұрын

It's gross how LA doctors prescribe phen phen after celebs have babies, soooo dangerous. I remember Nadia Rivera had it in her system and she had her kid years ago

imagine paying for a pro ana coach when public school is free

@amazingrainbowfruit

2 жыл бұрын

Like...tumblr exists and is free~

@aicc1728

2 жыл бұрын

Right?!

@greenfacere210

8 ай бұрын

🤣

As someone who has recovered from an ED, that whole "daily weigh-in accountability check" thing reminds me of some INSANELY toxic group chats I used to be in. We would all message each other our daily calorie counts, workouts, and weights, and if you didn't lose enough weight at the end of each week, month, etc. you'd get bullied and kicked out of the chat. This whole program is so, so dangerous.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry you went through that 😕 I experienced similar things with some modeling friends when I was with an agency and I just remember constantly, 24/7 worrying about my weight and size and it was extremely damaging to my mental health 😔

@kerryrose3359

3 жыл бұрын

@@cruelworldhappymind I'm sorry you went through such a similar experience too. This whole program is equal parts horrifying, heartbreaking, and infuriating. I just can't even imagine someone essentially monetizing disordered eating to this level. It's nothing short of disgusting.

@MadsStyle

3 жыл бұрын

True. It’s basically 2013 tumblr all over again.

@gabbyb9418

3 жыл бұрын

When I was in my worst headspace about being overweight I found those forums and was encouraged to start an ED. I even tried. Got "ana buddies" to keep me in check and everything. Couldn't do it though, thank God. I feel so lucky to have not gone through with starting an ED because so many people like me start their ED like that. My life didn't feel worth living & I genuinely didn't believe people loved me as much when I was fat, particularly my ex. When we had gone off again on again, during the break was when I tried to start an ED. I could have SO easily fallen into it. Im sorry you and so many other people did happen to fall in. Its not your fault. 🖤

@sabrina.natalie

3 жыл бұрын

@@gabbyb9418 - Wow. Thanks for being so vulnerable, because I actually went through a remarkably similar experience. Started following the “thinspo” and “ED positive” blogs and forums - mainly around 2010ish. I was 16 at the time. I was struggling with insecurity, I was overweight, and as a teenager, I think we all naturally struggle with image issues at some point in our lives. I’m an only child - I don’t have any full-siblings, or half-siblings, or step-siblings or anything. So naturally, I was looking for some sort of camaraderie, acceptance, companionship, and overall friendship. The ED positive blogs provided that for me in a way. Nowadays, it’s very acceptable to have the “instagram model/Kardashian” body, which were literally emulated off of Latina and Black women… but I digress. (Thick thighs, voluminous booty, curvy, etc.) But in 2010-2013ish, it was very beautiful and trendy to be extremely thin. Some people would even refer to it as “Heroin chic” - which is absolutely evil and horrific. (Collarbones showing, a thigh gap, bony hip bones, etc.) Anyway… I tried diligently at an ED. Had a coach, I was encouraged to wear a “red” bracelet as a way to spot other “ana girls” at my school. I was advised on how to suppress my appetite, which diet pills to use, etc. After about a month, I wasn’t having much success, so one of the girls in the group suggested I try BN. She coached me on what “safe foods” to eat, how to purge quietly, etc. I was consistent with the BN for about… 4 days. After those 4 days, I started experiencing HORRIBLE chest pain due to the purging. Pain in that hollow part in your chest, in-between your boobs. The chest pain alone immediately made me stop and it terrified me. Never fell down the horrible rabbit role, but I easily could have. Interestingly, ED’s are more about control and treating the underlying trauma and mental health issues that are unresolved. It’s never really about weight, food, or appearance at all. Obviously, you and I were going through a lot in our lives, but we were able to stop and recognize that this wasn’t okay, and that we will endure health issues for the rest of our lives if we don’t stop immediately. And we did. But honestly, we had the perfect recipe for a debilitating ED, but we somehow didn’t develop one long-term. I’m not sure if there’s specific brain chemistry that maybe makes girls (and boys) predisposed to an ED, but I do find it intriguing that we were able to stop, and others weren’t. I wonder why that is.

So she's basically promoting a starvation diet. I am a vegan, and I am appalled that she uses the vegetarian diet and manipulates it, thus it makes people starve and go back to eating crap. I don't understand how this is legal.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

IKR!! So many people stray away from vegetarian or vegan diets because they think they’ll be too hungry or won’t eat enough and this “diet” kind of perpetuates that 😕

@noothankyou

3 жыл бұрын

As a vegetarian the "vegetarian diet" really pissed me off. Where is the protein and how could anyone function on so little food? I'd literally be laying on the floor passed out if I ate like this.

@TheJungaloo

3 жыл бұрын

@4Freedom4All sounds like you didn’t have a good concept of how to eat nutritiously without meat. It’s not hard, but especially with veganism, you have to change your diet and add things, not just remove meat and dairy.

@anname2678

3 жыл бұрын

@4Freedom4All I'm a vegan and I do eat processed foods occasionally. But mostly my diet is pretty healthy I think. I started eating much more veggies and beans. It really depends on the individual and what they choose to eat. I am healthy on a vegan diet and ofc it's unnatural. What is even natural nowadays? Almost nothing... Just cuz something is unnatural doesn't mean it's bad

@anname2678

3 жыл бұрын

@4Freedom4All I meant that nothing in our world is natural anymore. What even is natural? Factory farming isn't. Most our vegetables are completely different from their wild forms. Plants are grown nowadays in greenhouses is that natural? I'm just saying natural doesn't equal good and unnatural doesn't equal bad and that the definition of natural is very flawed. I NEVER said a fast food diet is healthy? I also don't condemn fast food. You shouldn't eat it regularly but you can eat a burger once a week without getting unhealthy. Doesn't matter if that burger is vegan or not. I actually gained some weight and muscles on my vegan diet because I try to be healthier and eat better. I tracked my nutrients in the beginning to make sure I get all my protein and stuff. I get blood checks to make sure I'm fine and so far everything looks good. Ofc I supplement b12 and vitamin d(which everyone from a northern country should take) I think a vegan diet is just as healthy or unhealthy as a "normal" one. I do it for the animals and I think a positive side effect is that I eat healthier because I think more about what I eat.

I'm recovering from an eating disorder and if i had heard about this when my anorexia was at its worst i would have been on top of this so freaking fast. It validates such a horrible mindset and i dont think the weight loss results of joining this diet community out weigh the psychological effects

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

AGREED! I’m so sorry you went through that, I’ve struggled with orthorexia in the past and literally ate like this, so afraid of sugar and simple carbs and forced myself to work out way way too much. I was miserable, always “punishing” and “restricting” myself. It was such a horrible mindset to be in and I despise the fact that people are paying such a high price to be taught this really bad mentality 😕

@mlee_wood3778

3 жыл бұрын

@@cruelworldhappymind I'm glad that you are in a healthier mindset now🧡 EDs are such an all consuming mindset, literally i lost so much in my life because of the eating disorder. I hate that this program is promoting disordered eating/exercising 😪 this program reminds me of a for profit pro-anorexia community.

@sarahhunter1114

3 жыл бұрын

mlee_wood I think you would be a valuable voice for people recovering from ED. You should make a vid

@mlee_wood3778

3 жыл бұрын

@@sarahhunter1114 awh thanks but just the idea of making videos makes me nauseous lol. Definitely not confident enough for that!

The NDA part bothers me the most because for me, it's ultimate red flag. I mean, From a marketing perspective, people SHOULD talk about a program. Word of mouth! I'm not even a business major and I know word of mouth is important. The mere fact they want have an NDA indicates they are doing something unethical at best and illegal at worst.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

👏👏

@superstarem

Жыл бұрын

thats what i thought. surely you want your clients to tell people about the program when people ask about their weight loss.

@jenniferbond7073

Жыл бұрын

Agreed, the people that joined should have not joined once they saw an NDA was required. This Teddi woman is nuts, what a terrible “plan”. A pls. To give you anorexia since you are expected to keep calories at 500 or 600. Alarming and disgusting!

The nda be like The 1st rule about diet club is you don't talk about diet club

@HalloweenHappy

3 жыл бұрын

😳😳 yes!

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

😅😂 too true

@Turtletoots3

3 жыл бұрын

At least now we know where the lost fat goes

“You cannot drink alcohol” Alright I’m out.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@the_emmasculator

3 жыл бұрын

@@meganburgess138 Right the way this year has been set up 😂🤣😫 yeah its a must for me.

@Sleipnirseight

3 жыл бұрын

SAME🥂

@kjlandon9140

3 жыл бұрын

i’m working in a Hepatologist clinic and i genuinely can’t even look at alcohol the same way. it ruined it for me i’m just mad i took the job now lmao

@sabrina.natalie

3 жыл бұрын

Lol. I feel ya. I love my vodka cranberries.

As a law student, this definitely seems ilegal. In my country, at least, it would be. I don't know how it works on the USA though. But I really hope she gets sued.

@victoriadelaney1123

2 жыл бұрын

May I ask what country you're in?

I'm just watching the beginning of this video so idk if its mentioned or not, but Teddy has 3 children, without her nannies she wouldn't be able to have all that free time to work out as compared to the normal mom that has a 9-5 job or is a stay at home mom that doesn't have that help or resources. Im a stay at home mom and its not possible for me to have time to workout, I barely have time for a shower lol.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

I didn’t mention that in the video but that’s such a good point!!! I can’t imagine juggling self care with parenting as I can barely do it as it is (with no kids) 😅 but the harsh and judgmental tone of the coaches doesn’t give any room or leeway for busy parents who have to huddle EVERYTHING and do it all themselves!!

@maddiethabaddie9624

3 жыл бұрын

@@cruelworldhappymind Girl! I just got to the $400/ month! 🤣😱 They've lost their minds! I'm so glad you're taking about this! I watch teddy on real housewives and she runs every morning. Nope not me! I won't run unless I'm being chased 🤣

@DH-dl3ll

3 жыл бұрын

I don't have any kids and I still can't get everything done in a day 😭 when I do have some lil ones, I'm really hoping to be stay at home. Or work part time. There's just not enough time for it all!

@lollipopsfordays3610

3 жыл бұрын

It’s just not that hard to have kids and also shower and clean yourself ffs, and to pretend you don’t even have half an hour out of the day to workout if you really wanted to is silly.

@maddiethabaddie9624

3 жыл бұрын

@@lollipopsfordays3610 I'm glad its that way for you. As for myself, being a stay at home mom to a toddler and do not have anyone to watch my son while I can have 30+ mins of "me" time to shower or whatever for myself during the day, and I don't feel comfortable leaving my child by himself during that time BC he isn't old enough. Also with cooking, cleaning, and taking care of my house and yard on top of taking care of my child is a lot to juggle as is. And with my husband owning his own contracting company he works long hours, so when he comes home, he takes over so I can have some me time. What works for others, doesn't work for everyone so that's important to keep in mind.

Menu: - all your hopes and dreams -lettuce 😂😂😂

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

😂 glad you caught that 💜

@hafizhasarah

3 жыл бұрын

GAAAAH!!! I'm passing out! That's not make any sense

My biggest issue with the weight loss industry is that they don't seem to understand that overweight people are not nearly as miserable about their weight as they are about how people treat them. I have never seen them address the mental damage from the years of torment from being bullied and having their weight be targeted by everyone including medical professionals who have no idea what they are doing. When is society going to actually admit that we are not helping people who are overweight by being assholes.

@khanyimguli904

2 жыл бұрын

They will never unfortunately

Their messaging system is duo lingo owl but like actual bullying 🥴

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

FOR REAL!!

@lowwastehighmelanin

3 жыл бұрын

concerningly accurate comparison omg. I hate that owl so dang much...

@sersastark

3 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭 not the duo lingo owl

Why spend money on this when you can go to an ED groupchat for free! /sarcasm (I'm a relapsed anorexic bc this year was hell, please don't do this.)

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry you’re going through that 🙏 I was orthorexic for a few years, plz know you are incredible, your body is beautiful but also does not define you!

@miffyrox5558

3 жыл бұрын

Literally this! 🙌🏼 Even if you can move past the horrifically low calories etc., who the heck would be paying so much money when you can genuinely just get this awful advice for free online!

@rosadyke6349

3 жыл бұрын

Been to anorexia hell paid with hair loss and thin bones, now reside I also gave myself a horrendous bowel condition. Thanku for your honest comment. People who making money off this awful kind of thing are morally bankrupt at the very least . Please stay well xx

@frostythehoeman6969

3 жыл бұрын

Hey at least you're aware of what happened and not in denial. I hope you have a good therapist 🌼

@fairyberry444

3 жыл бұрын

as someone who escaped the clutches of pro-ana tumblr, I feel this on another level lmao

I had an accountability coach once for my weight loss journey and she got on me for being under 1000 calories. She was worried that I would hurt myself for being that low and that was for one day that I forgotten to eat due to being busy. She made me promise her that I would take time to myself to actually eat.

@DocBree13

3 жыл бұрын

And I bet she didn’t threaten to drop you if you did it again

@beverlytate2669

2 жыл бұрын

She sounds like a caring sweetheart who is great at her job. Bless you both!

I just found your video and honestly as I was watching it, I kind of had a little PTSD. I was a member of this program last year. It was my new year resolution commitment. After just 7 weeks of doing it I was put in the hospital because of the diet they put me on because I needed to loose so much weight in their eyes. I had to have emergency surgery. With that the doctor I had put me on a 5150 hold for 72 hours because I kept trying to update my "coach" as to my condition, trying to weigh myself and continue with the cardio workouts, after enduring a 5 hour surgery on my stomach and intestines. In the 7 weeks I did the program I lost just over 40 pounds, which I now know was very bad. I am in therapy and can now say that I have body dysmorphic disorder, and major anxiety (Panic Attacks) as a result of what was said to me by my "coach". I am getting better but it has been a long road to recovery for me. I thank that emergency room doctor for saving my life and helping me to understand that what was happening was not okay.

@inesxxx4835

3 жыл бұрын

I wish you good luck on your recovery ❤️ also it's important to spread awareness about this program, they deserve to pay for what they did to you and all those people.

@superstarem

Жыл бұрын

aww babe. im so glad you are getting the help you need

Honestly all these "diets" are extremely harmful in my opinion because their focal point is restriction. Dieting does not automatically mean restricting your food intake. Sure that can be a part of it but a good diet is one that suits your body. We metabolize things differently, some of us need more of certain vitamins or need less raw meat or whatever. That's why real dieticians can be incredibly helpful in finding a diet that will be good for you because they focus on *your* needs. On top of that if someone really wants to lose weight, excessive restriction is... Bad. Switching out certain types of foods or cutting back on some things is much more effective and much healthier!!! Food and working out should never be something you dread or something that makes you feel shitty. Both are meant to increase your health (both physical AND mental) and make you feel good. F*ck toxic weight loss culture

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

YES! Totally agree the focal point of restriction is the most toxic/ harmful ideology

@jalexoneschanel1356

3 жыл бұрын

Big agree!!!!! Lots of people actually go on specific diets to GAIN weight. I have several friends and loved ones who need to eat high-calorie diets and monitor their food intake very closely to ensure their health is alright. My girlfriend has gastroporesis and another friend of ours is chronically underweight. Both of them are on sort of similar diets to PREVENT them from losing weight. Tons of people ask them about their diets and how they got so skinny, as if it’s something to be desired. Both of these wonderful women are skinny because they’re sick. It’s not something they wanted or needed and the fact that they’re being pushed away from diets intended to make them healthier in favor of wasting away to become even skinnier.

@stardustlipstickhorror9561

3 жыл бұрын

I think you said it best here in your comment "toxic weight loss culture". It is so true.

@dariennedykes678

3 жыл бұрын

@@jalexoneschanel1356 I'm like this as well. I have severe hyperthyroidism and hypoglycemia along with a long list of other severe health problems. I have to eat high protein and high fat. I also have to carry snacks high in glucose incase my sugar gets low. If I had a dime for everyone screamed something rude at me in public along the lines of "you look anorexic! Eat a cheeseburger" or something similar then I'd be rich! I think unless we have something v nice to say that we shouldn't say anything at all. Especially about weight. I also don't like when people notice I've gained weight and are happy for me and say something because I also struggled with anorexia since before I was a teenager. I guess it's probably good to just not comment on anyone's weight at all unless you're v close and know they are on a weight loss journey and would enjoy a nice comment. I was happy to see your comment because some people forget that not just people who are overweight have weight struggles.

@adrianghandtchi1562

3 жыл бұрын

Temperance comes to mind too, Not extremely restricting just finding the balance the range that makes one feel the most themselves and most comfortable and healthy

I’m so happy you’re making a video about this!! I work in the ED field and it’s just gross how she’s making money by literally perpetuating eating disorders.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

I KNOW RIGHT!! So upsetting 😕

I feel like the coaches being prior users of the program makes it kind of like hazing for them. Like the coaches they had were so tough and restrictive on them so when they became coaches they think they should the same to the new users. Idk I feel like it’s kind of a “it’s my turn now” mentality for a lot of them!

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

That’s a good point of how it could have become this toxic/dangerous!

@DocBree13

3 жыл бұрын

I think that’s very likely true.

She’s an accountability coach but can’t even keep her coaching company accountable

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Omg 🙊

@DocBree13

3 жыл бұрын

Wow!!! You’re absolutely right! Damn...

Yikes! I’m only like 12 minutes in and already cringing. They are going to kill someone. Programs are not one size fits all, and someone needs to find what works for them and they want to do. I’m a retired personal trainer (was one for seven-ish years) because I absolutely hate traditional gyms and basic workouts. I ended up joining a Cirque troupe and became an aerialist/Lyra trainer. That works for me, but won’t work for others. The All In is essentially perpetuating starvation diets and eating disorders. It’s very dangerous, and reminiscent of Linda Laura Hazzard’s Starvation Heights. Also, never weight yourself daily. Weigh yourself once a week just after going to the bathroom first thing in the morning. This is going to be your most accurate weight. You’ll also be more motivated when you see positive results weekly instead of daily. I’ve taken client’s and even my BFF’s scale because they became to attached to it.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing!!

@Chloe-ik9cr

3 жыл бұрын

I had a personal trainer who told me to weigh myself three times a day and when I said I didnt want to do that he pressured me more

@As-jj2rc

3 жыл бұрын

@@Chloe-ik9cr That's not healthy and there is no point to weight yourself three times a day.

@Chloe-ik9cr

3 жыл бұрын

@@As-jj2rc I was told it was the best way to know my exact weight :(

it’s so confusing that stephanie buttermore popularized “all in” meaning no more diets or restrictions and then this very restrictive celebrity diet is also called “all in”.. these things are opposites

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed!!

@foongern1071

3 жыл бұрын

It's definitely not an accident. Remember Goop and... Poosh? Whatever it is? This is deliberately misconstruing an entire movement. Celebrities? Taking advantage of names to confuse people? Say it ain't so!

@Psychwriteify

3 жыл бұрын

I did a double take at first for that exact reason.

@shirin9452

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah that was so confusing, I associate all in with Steph’s no-restrictions videos so what on earth

@hellodarknesss.myoldfriend

2 жыл бұрын

when i saw this video, i didn't want to watch because i didnt want anyone to bash Stephanie... i definitely think she hijacked the term.

600 calories a day?! That's STARVING! It should be illegal to subject people to this!

@sallybrite1530

3 жыл бұрын

Not really. It depends on your size and your lifestyle. If you work from home, literally sitting at a desk (like a lot of people did during lockdown) and you don't move at all, 600 cal is not that bad if you want to lose weight.

@starcherry6814

3 жыл бұрын

​@@sallybrite1530 Sally just admit you have an ED and see a doctor. For anyone reading this do not listen to Sally. Listen to doctors.

@sallybrite1530

3 жыл бұрын

@@starcherry6814 If only my muffin top and cellulite knew about it... You can eat vegetables, and eggs, and lean meats and stay within a low calorie count for weight loss, while still providing nutrition for your body.

@sallybrite1530

3 жыл бұрын

@sʞuɐq We are talking about people who want to lose weight. You can safely lose weight while eating low-calorie, high-nutrition food.

@sallybrite1530

3 жыл бұрын

@sʞuɐq Do you know the calorie count of eggs? Or lean poultry meat? Or broccoli? Are you telling me an overweight person, eating these kinds of low-calorie high-nutrition foods would be somehow putting themselves in danger? Really now?

Here's some common basic sense and medically backed facts on weight loss - reduce sugar -cook your food - divide your plate look up idaho plate method - make sure you have all your nutrients : carbs, protein , fat, micronutrients - healthy weight loss is about 0.5 to 1kg per week. - workouts per week : 150 mins in total 20 to 3o mins per day of choice. You can skip but not more than 2 consecutive days - weigh in : same time , minimal clothing weekly. - hydrate! - mix resistance and cardio. - get a consult with dietician if you're with other diseases - make your goal about your health not your looks. It follows - find out what your bmi is. Then make it your goal to get into the normal range. - sleep 8 hours per day - and if you have heart disease, diabetes or breastfeeding, please consult a professional. - these are just stepping stones , from these your diet plan and weight loss can become unique to you ( hopefully in a healthy way)

There is absolutely no reason to weigh yourself everyday if you're trying a new diet, no "satisfying" (I say that because there's really never gonna be satisfaction with these obsessive behaviors/thought patterns) weight loss is going to happen in 24 hours, so you're just going to make yourself miserable. They should really change the program to "how to induce, reinforce, and deepen your body dysmorphia"

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

AGREED!! It’s so silly plus when you gain muscle, muscle weighs more than fat so you may see no progress on the scale but in reality your body is changing a lot! It feels like an easy way to develop body dysmorphia

@pinklotus2443

3 жыл бұрын

I always get so annoyed when I see ppl weighing themselves daily. If they don't see a loss on the scale they get depressed and binge half the time! It's such a damaging thing to do!

@maebandy

3 жыл бұрын

It's a medically ridiculous thing to do particularly in regards to women because of our bodies' natural water retention and release actions depending on where we are in our cycle. Even mood changes will cause us to gain or lose lbs of water. While it's meant to be a demonstration of cause and effect, see you didn't work out enough yesterday you're up 2 lbs, it can be entirely unrelated or only compound a downward spiral effect.

Sounds like a straight up scam to me, the price is so crazy expensive at first and the diet plan is almost impossible. It's like they expect you to fail but they still made 400$.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly how I felt 😕

No refunds: We want to keep YOU accountable but not ourselves.

Their diet of just soup broth for dinner sounds like my diet right now--because I just had my tonsils out. That's the only time you should ever be eating only fucking noodle water for dinner.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@kristalcampbell3650

3 жыл бұрын

They don't get noodles because of the carbs they get hot water and the insinuation of food

@ScreechTheMighty

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you're feeling better! I hear tonsil removal can be brutal.

I was part of the NXIVM Cult and did a Documentary about it on STARZ. Everything you shared in this video is what the cult leader did, even the number 600 calories is identical. It's crazy and scary. We also had to sign a NDA, photos of food, some of the "accountability" coaches also ignored any concerns and were emotionally abusive and SO MUCH MORE... All I can say we attended his trial and he sits in jail now. Thank you for doing this video.

@Vixyvix01

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad that you got out of it safely!

@DaGiannone

3 жыл бұрын

@@Vixyvix01 thank you!

If you’re teaching your body to be exhausted, punished and starved, working out and being all around healthy isn’t going to stick because your body will react and shut down due to depression. You can’t function under fear and mistreatment, it’s so counterproductive. But as always, great video. I always look forward to your uploads. Glad you’ve got your patreon up and running but unfortunately I can’t contribute at this stage but I hope to be able to support you eventually 😊💕

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Never worry about that love! And I totally agree with you 🙏💜

This is exactly like the old “pro-ana” forums but monetised... Horrible.

@ReelMusicFreak

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@cookie_monster783

2 жыл бұрын

They’re still there tho lol I mean the forums

Any celebrity: Here is my weight loss regiment! Pay an arm and a leg! Me, who knows the path to forming an ED and living with one: Interesting.

@lopezcarmencecilia

3 жыл бұрын

Well if you pay with an arm and a leg you'll definetly lose weight. I know it's an expression, but I couldn't help myself. I hope that you are able to overcome the things that make u feel like you're forming an ED.

@elvingearmasterirma7241

3 жыл бұрын

@@lopezcarmencecilia I was waiting for a spat of dark humour. Never fails to make me chuckle a bit. Oh I am past forming one. I have an ED sadly. However, I have some control over how I deal with it, so I make sure I eat healthily. Healthily in this case meaning I eat a varied diet and ensure I eat the amount of calories my body needs to not only survive but thrive.

Omg i'm early, hi!!! Now, as someone who was 130kgs and had lost weight down to 69kgs, and then shoot back a bit due to stress eating, this is so personally traumatising. i have been bullied my entire life for being fat and ugly. i have eating disorders and extremely bad mental headspace. If someone pushed this program to me, i freaking cut off all ties with her.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story, I’m so sorry you went through that all 😔💜

@nefwaenre

3 жыл бұрын

@@cruelworldhappymind Thank you for sharing this. It's an everyday struggle for me. Gaining even 1kg puts me on a terribly bad mental head space. i can't believe that there are people out there who are literally making cash off of body dysmorphia. Truly sickening.

the accountability coach at 16:16 sounds like they would run a meanspo account on tumblr.

Sounds like the nxivm diet

@YamiHoOu

3 жыл бұрын

Or any cult diet since it weakens you by starvation, thus making you more susceptible to their BS.

@kylie7435

3 жыл бұрын

was just going to say that! the texts and talk about "victim mentality" are eerily similar

@janicelgo4522

3 жыл бұрын

I just posted the same thing. After seeing the texts, I'm even more convinced it's similar.

@lucysmom3892

3 жыл бұрын

Lol true lol I was wondering why did that seem so familiar

@jessicasmith1766

3 жыл бұрын

Oh yep, I said the same thing. That “accountability” talk about texting someone constantly is exactly the same.

It's also worth noting that weight loss isn't inherently a good or bad thing-- there's a lot of pressure on people to lose weight and be "healthy" but people's bodies are naturally going to be different sizes regardless of what they eat and it's a LOT more important to eat enough every day than it is to lose weight. Like, you need food to fuel your body so you can continue to do everything you love to do. Stuff like this preys on women of all sizes who are taught to hate their bodies from a young age. We all, myself included, have a lot to unlearn, but no matter what size you are your body is beautiful because it is yours and because it keeps you alive.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

PREACH!! Totally agree 👏👏🙏

@scout4363

2 жыл бұрын

Oh what I would do to see this everyday instead of the thousands of "experts" in the comments of people talking about weight

Would you consider talking about NXIVM and "The Vow" documentary? Especially since KR just got a life sentence? I know there's a lot of triggering stuff about it, but it is related to anti-MLM content.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I would definitely consider covering it! A lot of great creators have been covering it for a while so I’ve been wondering if I should but I’ll look into it for sure!!

@janicelgo4522

3 жыл бұрын

@@cruelworldhappymind Seduced on STARZ is way more insightful and detailed about the cult part compared to The Vow. Also, the original CBC podcast is good. Since Sarah E is involved, it's similar to The Vow. Sarah E didn't get wrapped up w KR sexually like India O. The Albany news outlet have been following NXIVM for years - Times Union and Spectrum News Albany. Lastly Rick Ross is the cult expert for NXIVM, but Seduced has some incredible experts interviewed.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

@@janicelgo4522 thank you for this info/ resources!!

@DocBree13

3 жыл бұрын

@@cruelworldhappymind I always enjoy watching your take on things I’ve already seen covered elsewhere. You come up with different angles and new insights that I haven’t seen or thought of before, and they’re always on point.

Watching weight loss commercials as a kid in the 90s definitely helped with my ED in my teens and early adult hood. Now that I’m 30 I’m currently 6 months free from any episodes. Sadly it’s something that many will suffer in silence just to remain thin. Praying for all in 2022!!! Good luck this year 🙏🏽

600 calories a day? The average human needs between 1600 and 3000 calories per day, she is literally starving the people who sign up.

They basically are taking people’s money. If you spend your money on a certified nutrition coach, you probably would be spending way less.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed! Even a registered dietician would probably cost you less!

Or you could get a Apple Watch that will guilt you into moving and a dietitian for cheaper lol. And if it doesn’t work out at least you get a neat watch!

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!! Highly recommend seeing a dietician I took a nutrition class in college from a professor who was a dietician and she explained to me the process of becoming a dietician, they are so knowledgeable and educated in the subject!!

@MushroomReaper

3 жыл бұрын

@@cruelworldhappymind yeah! my dad saw one for years after his heart attack it really helped him. (My dads fine)

Is this created by the women of DOS in Nexivm? Because it sounds suspiciously familiar...

@amandaburchett3814

3 жыл бұрын

I came here to make the same comment

@maebandy

3 жыл бұрын

There is a suspiciously large amount of communal physical disfigurement going on in the RH franchises. I don't think you would call it branding per se, but I can certainly tell from 50 paces who belongs to the all mighty Cohen and who does not.

I was scared at the beginning that this may be the All-In that Stephanie Buttermore did 😮 but okay good it’s not and Stephanie is still wonderful!

I just realized I'm an Old. To me, she's the daughter of John (Cougar) Mellencamp. Keep up the good work, Madison!

Having to sign an NDA for a diet is a Huge Red Flag.

I personally am anorexic and It’s very hard to see people basically PROMOTING eating disorders and making money off it especially as someone who has gone threw it. Thank you so much for spreading awareness about this I love ur content.

Something you said that forever changed my perception of any weight lose plan is the plan doesn't work, you work the plan. Meaning cost effective and something that works for you is what matters because at the end of the day its on you regardless of who texts you lol

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed! I think a lot of it is just knowing yourself and what you can enjoy/sustain/ incorporate into your life!

Ok I know why it’s so expensive. It’s so that you can’t afford enough food anymore.

I'm loving these old school commercials! Too fun

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Was attempting to stylize my video a bit more and show how absolutely ancient of a mentality this diet program has!

"you owe me extra cardio and if it happens again, you're out." she said thru text- 2000km away. oookayy cool guess imma have to start lying then.

@JenniferBrigitteOpticalVortex

3 жыл бұрын

🤣😥😭

I'm a dietician and I was getting more and more worried with every minute of the video. This program is an easy way to eating disorders and illnesses. It's horrible how those 'coaches' treat their clients! First I would never call people coming to me for help because they're struggling with weight 'clients' - they're PATIENTS, they give me lab tests and medical history so that I can see what is best for them. IT'S NOT ONE SIZE FITS ALL. Ok you have to be more strict with some patients cause they need it but never rude! You can't say 'do this or you're out' cause guess what? They're gonna drop out , get discouraged or even scared and never see you or any dietician/personal trainer ever again. Those people should be stopped. Giving people diet advice without proper education needs to be stopped. I've seen people with destroyed hormonal system after a personal trainer/diet coach after a week long online course gave them 'personalized' diet with foods they can't consume. Like giving gluten to a woman with celiac disease who didn't know she had it but had almost every symptom that registered dietician caught right away. They put people lives in danger. Sorry for a long comment but this is something I'm passionate about. I really love your channel and I think it's awesome what you do ❤️

Her dad must be embarrassed that she’s scamming ppl out of money while they starve themselves to death.

I don’t need an accountability coach. My mother resides in my head and she weighs in regularly. 😂

Me watching this while eating a big bowl of pasta 👀

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Omg same 😂

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Also your username is literally me a few months ago 👀

@asfaltsflickan

3 жыл бұрын

I’m watching while eating chips. They’re delicious. 😄

@loraleepooley3669

3 жыл бұрын

Right on!🤣

@sabrina.natalie

3 жыл бұрын

I know you wrote this comment several months ago, but what kind of pasta were you eating? I love pasta! 🥳✨

I have been asking around and looking into Teddi's company as soon as I saw her mention it last season. The moment I went to the website, all the alarms were going off. So glad to see this video!

@Bananachan289

3 жыл бұрын

She’s such a mess of a person emotionally too I just thought, “why would anyone take advice from her?” Plus accountability coach is a stupid rich person job 😂

Hold on I gotta grab my giant frosting covered sugar cookie to watch this properly

@loraleepooley3669

3 жыл бұрын

Yum I love those!

I just found you a few days ago and I’m hooked! I really appreciate you and your research on these influencers and their scams. I feel horrible for so many people falling for them. I’m so glad you’re spreading the truth! Great job!

Yes, you need to find what works for you. Weight watchers is the only program I have ever had any success with. I liked the social aspect and the fact that with points I could eat the foods I liked. I'm a very picky eater so most diets don't work for me. Find what works for you.

... have these people never heard of friends? like, my friends and I communicate our goals to each other and check on each other. plus, they're nice to me and cost zero dollars.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Love those types of friends! 🥰

@meganjosterhout

3 жыл бұрын

Programs like this prey on people that are lonely or don't have a strong support system. Also, there's still a lot of shame surrounding weight in our culture, so it makes sense that some people don't feel comfortable talking with their friends, especially if their friends don't share the same body type. Let's have some compassion.

On top of everything, "all in" is already a reverse diet program meant to teach intuitive eating and correct past restrictive eating. So the opposite of this.

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

IKR!

@shirin9452

3 жыл бұрын

You’re talking about Stephanie Buttermore right? I loved her vids, they were so interesting especially because she is a scientist. I’m very irritated that they’ve co opted the term for their evil starvation program

"When you're looking for someone else to motivate you, you'll always have an excuse to why you can't do it..." I'm confused. 🤣🤣

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

IKR😅😂

When I heard the 400-500cal/day plus 1hr cardio it reminded me of how my uncle died. He was fasting sunrise to sunset for religious reasons, when to the gym and when into cardiac arrest. I honestly think that All In should be sued for possibly endangering their clients and also forcibly doing so by not issuing a refund. Or at the very least get into legal trouble for promoting this kind of very dangerous and life threatening behavior. I would also like to add (as someone who’s mom had worked a lot in the legal courts and whatnot) an NDA is only enforced/legally binding for a set amount of time. an NDA can also be voided in court if the language is too broad or if “catch all” terms are used in the document. Furthermore unreasonable behavior such as demanding that the time where confidentiality is binding is indefinite can also void a NDA contract.

Hunger tantrums: The early version of hangry.

I’ve been literally binge watching your channel and now I’ve gotten to this point of ur vids and I’m loving your old content just as much as your current 😭 its so refreshing that your content hasnt changed much in the essence of how much info you give, just how you edit your videos. ❤️ loves it bestie

As soon as you said "Have you done your cardio? How much do you weigh today?" for someone checking in daily I immediately felt stressed imagining it . Yikes!

Love this video! I’ve never even heard of this program but I couldn’t even imagine what the people in this program are going through. I went through a stage where I was doing high intensity workouts five days a week and no more than 1200 cal a day. It was pretty intense for me because it wasn’t anywhere near what my lifestyle was previously. But to cut that calorie goal in half? Those poor women are starving. It just really breaks my heart. Diet culture really has us fucked up

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

AGREED!

When I read “all in” in the beginning of the video before anything was explained my mind went to the whole anti-diet thing so needless to say I was very confused for a hot minute

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

SAME!

@astridquarry1248

3 жыл бұрын

Me too! They've bastardised what is normally a healing term for recovering from ED (I think).

@maryssal1373

3 жыл бұрын

@@astridquarry1248 I only know about the term from Stephanie Buttermore and I don’t think she had an ED, she just had an incredible restrictive diet from doing like fitness competitions. I could be used in other contexts though. So similar idea but broader 🤷

So they’re literally just paying for an eating disorder?? When I was very underweight and in the depths of my ED pro Ana forums and group chats were exactly like this, except they were free

Your new blue setup looks so cute!

Your vids are so nice to watch but i also admire your research and editing, greetings from Greece. P.S i ve watched ur last video,on point!

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you love 🙏💜

Im addicted to your videos I was so sad when I watched all your videos and I didn’t even realize it 😂🤣😅 im glad your back so I can stop stalking your page. Lots of love 💕 all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦 and keep up the good work love your content

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Wow that’s amazing!! I’m so flattered 🥰 that’s so cool you found my page and I’m so happy you enjoy my videos!

My daughter is currently battling an eating disorder...this is criminal and makes me utter furious. Who is checking these participants' heart rate and blood pressure? This is an anorexia factory!

I was blessed by the FBI Agents who put this on my suggestion page 😂 Really though I am so glad I found this channel and now imma go binge every video 👍🏽

Hey, guys. So, I’m not a nutritionist or anything but I’ve tried so many damn weight loss products and even did phentermine through my doctor. Yes, I lost a bit of weight here & there but I have endometriosis, Adenomyosis, fibromyalgia, AND PCOS. So, obviously the weight loss Gods see me as a mortal enemy or something. 😂 However, truly the healthiest thing you can do is hike up your water intake, control your portions, and try to be active even if it’s cleaning the house. As someone who’s horrible pain rears it’s ugly head with every bit of activity I do, I get how hard it is to get moving. I walk 3 times a week & my pain is always through the roof when I get home. However, it’s worth it to me because I don’t want to be at the biggest I’ve ever been. I never listened to people who told there was no “quick fix” but it’s true. Now, I personally have found that the Slimfast Keto “diet pills” DO help me with the energy I need seeing as how my fatigue gets the best of me all the time but that’s not for everyone. Seriously, just drink a lot of water, eat as healthy as you can, and CONTROL YOUR PORTIONS. If you can add activity by just cleaning the house, going on even slow walks, anything like that then you’re good. Please remember, YOUR WEIGHT DOES NOT DEFINE YOU. Also, just because the scale says you’re “overweight” doesn’t mean you are because it doesn’t always measure muscle, etc. Obviously talk to your doctor about everything but there really isn’t much else we can do, believe me- I’ve lost so much money trying everything. Best wishes! xx

@cats4992

3 жыл бұрын

This is the best advice!!

Wow just when I thought Teddi couldn’t get any worse.

@maebandy

3 жыл бұрын

I feel bad for Teddi, for all children raised with celebrity no matter how "normalized" they claim their childhoods were. I feel bad for anyone living in and amongst the societal prerequisites of Los Angeles. I feel bad for the people they hurt with their conscious or unconscious perpetuation of body and wealth standards as a bar to acceptance and self-worth. The school pickup in LA is brutal, not to mention Whole Foods, kids bday parties, yoga class, divorce court. Teddi probably feels she is really helping people that have the same amount of self-loathing she does. When/if she gains enough enlightenment to understand her impact it will be devastating.

@emiliethyboganzhorn5849

3 жыл бұрын

The fact that she profits from this, while the entire RHOBH cast talks of past and present EDs in their lives IS DISGUSTING

I got an add for Butterfingers while watching this. Even my ads know this is messed up 😂

@shirin9452

3 жыл бұрын

Ads like: ignore this bs and have some candy 💀

I’m so glad you are covering this!! It’s so dangerous what she’s doing and can cause many health problems as well as EDs 😩 it’s quite literally a starvation diet.

I just think the title of “accountability coach” is hilarious

You're the best, Madison! (Plus you have my name!) Your videos are so educational and always make me happy. Keep doing what you're doing. ^^

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you love 🥺💖

I didn't even eat close to this low of calories when prepping for my bikini competition! Not even the last few weeks! I think I was around 1200 just for the last 2 weeks. Majority of prep was at 1600+ cals a day, and four 30 min cardio sessions a week. And I lost 25lbs! So crazy they are literally promoting anorexia for no reason!

Love your videos- I’ve been binging them recently and they’re super informative and just nice to listen to or watch. My only criticism with this video is that, when using the BITE Model, you just went through the headers and didn’t go through the actual points under each one. It’s really easy to pick out things that match the headers for any environment: for example, at work they make you do certain tasks and only take breaks at certain times (behavior control). But the people I’ve listened to who genuinely analyze prominent cults and culty major religions go through the different points and analyze how much each one actually applies. It would have resulted in more interesting and thoughtful commentary, in my opinion. Other than that, great video!

This is crazy. I was a ballerina and would see girls starving themselves, but I wouldn't ever do that (I even tried once) but food is so good to not eat it 🤣

@darkdemonqueen

3 жыл бұрын

Food is damn good! Lol especially if you love to cook or bake and are good at it. So cruel that all the best foods are so fatty or sugary! 😭😂

@laysaferreirasilva2146

3 жыл бұрын

@@darkdemonqueen oohh some healthy meals are also very tasty! It's a matter of re-education tbh, I love some unhealthy things, but on a daily basis I eat a lot but healthy, even if full of carbs and "fatty". I guess eating healthy it's more holistic then anything else.

@darkdemonqueen

3 жыл бұрын

@@laysaferreirasilva2146 don’t get me wrong. Steamed veggies and rice, oatmeal, egg whites are some of my most favorite foods ever. It’s just some of my others is pizza, homemade vanilla bean cupcakes with homemade vanilla bean buttercream frosting, and French macaroons! Lol

Hei I really enjoy your videos & watching you talk about different subjects! They‘re so informative but also entertaining☺️ Thank you for making content and being so down to earth and uncomplicated💕 Best wishes from Switzerland🇨🇭😘

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

Much love bb 🥺💖💖

This program makes me think of when i was struggling with my E.D back in 2013 to about 2018 when i go help. Still struggle as of 2021 but its not like how it was in those 5 years. Since the start of high school (2013 when i was 12 to 13yo) i developed at toxic relationship with my weight and food in general. (weighing myself once a month turned to weekly turned to daily turned to hourly..it was horrible) It became so bad i was only eating one meal a day....dinner consisting of potato, pea, carrots and a portion of meat. I would pass out at least once a week. I ended up in therapy (2018 17 to 18yo) and even though i still have issues with eating breakfast in the morning i now work with a dietitian where i meal prep 21 meals a week, 3 meals a day for 7 days. They are quick simple, homemade meals that total to 1300 to 1500 calories a day. This helps me put on some weight as im only 60kg as a 21 year old woman. I've always been a skinny girl but always had issues of body positivity as it was always "you should be happy your so skinny" "you didn't even try to lose weight" these people didn't realise it works the other way too. I'm hoping to at least put a few more kg on me and hopeful bulk up my arms as they are twig and can barely even tie my hair up in the morning.. I'm proud of how far ive come but i know ive still got a way to go.

Ok, I just found YT had randomly unsubscribed me from your channel. I still got your videos recommended to me so I didn't give it too much thought, but given this became a serious issue with some creators, I checked and sure enough! Fixed it, subscribed again 💜✨

why does she not have more views? she’s so unbiased and does a great job of getting her points across. killin it girly!

When you start to talk about diets and accountability, you twist the mindset of "getting healthy" into a morality thing, which creates guilt and disordered eating. :(

@cruelworldhappymind

3 жыл бұрын

SUCH a good point!!!

@cupcakeluvbug

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

So glad you addressed this!!! I researched her program a bit, just because I used to watch the show. It was despicable. I cannot believe people are still peddling this sort of unhealthy behavior. So sad.

Every time she's mentions the Accountability person I full on hear "AccountabiliBuddy" from South Park so I can't help but chuckle... okay more like full on roflmfao! 🤣🤣