We are too old to be forcing conversations where our energys are not reciprocated 🥺

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@chanya_ella254

Жыл бұрын

very true

@perism1586

Жыл бұрын

I felt this😢

@abigailopondo5044

Жыл бұрын

This hit home 🏡

I’m too old for pregnancy scares. I outgrew that

@magalienia6958

Жыл бұрын

🤣

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Yees😂😂😂

@juligamineofficial734

Жыл бұрын

Wueeehhhh I had my first in October after my trying this sex sh&t for the first time , wueehhh I ain't opening my legs for nobody till marriage.

@lorraine19

Жыл бұрын

Me & you both sis

@dorriswandia

Жыл бұрын

Lmao same

We are too old to entertain inauthentic relationships. Period!!!

@puritymburu79

Жыл бұрын

OMG yessss🥰

@J.G7088

Жыл бұрын

...and yet😅😅

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Word👊🏽

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Word👊🏽

I'm too old; 1. Last minute plans. Invite me early in advance, I need time to set my mind to it, help me add you in my schedule 2. Sliding into my d.m with " hey sexy". I'm too grown for that. At a certain age we are not looking for your validation at all, we've got our own very large mirrors. 3. Jealousy in friendships. Honey, I'm cheering you on the loudest and if you win I am here for INSPIRATION not for the Competition. 4. Falling in love with potential. No thanks

@b_e_t_t_a_than_you

Жыл бұрын

It's no 4 for me

@ruthleashy762

Жыл бұрын

❤❤

@bluetickcyber2636

Жыл бұрын

Weh...No to potential....?

@acool5614

7 ай бұрын

I am confused too😂 No to potential?

Kingbetweeners😎👑 in the building 🤝

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Hi Biscotti😊

I'm too old to argue in anger...if we can't Converse and share our differences politely... I'm done 👍

@lindagitau7886

Жыл бұрын

This such a good comment, so so good.

@clarenyakoa8239

Жыл бұрын

Too old😂😂😂😂😂

No amount of heartbreak will make me reject food. I would rather cry with food in my mouth,,,,,AM TOO OLD😏 I love you ladies ❤️💯

@michellemimi4626

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂 made my day

@steffimacharia4776

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@irenejohn7406

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@gracekiwunja3063

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Spitting facts😂

We're too old to not be living exactly how we want 😚TMI has taught me alot and changed my way of viewing things...much love lyd and Murugi 🥰

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!

To be honest i dumped two of my best friends on valentines day felt really let down, so what happened is they called me to make plans for galentines and i being the good intentional friend cancelled my plans with a potential boyfriend since im single to accomodate them only for both not to show up last minute and mind you i was already waiting for them in the venue still pissed off nkt!!

@MsMak03

Жыл бұрын

This happened to me recently, literally the same thing. When I tell you I had give it to God, hm! We’re moving passed it but it really hurt me. Being well intentioned can leave you vulnerable to the elements

@melissaomuom1968

Жыл бұрын

Bestfriends are overrated 😂😂😂😂😂😂 cut them off

@melissaomuom1968

Жыл бұрын

Be friends with everyone be an intentional friend don't make others feel more important than others and do you you'll be fine babe

On the point about therapy, I wanna add that if you cannot afford to visit a therapist's office, please do you research online. KZread is so helpful. You can start practicing mindfulness and meditation there and go as far as learning complicated techniques such as CBT and how to apply them in your day to day life to cope with anxiety, depression, eating disorders, drug abuse, etc.

@kobbimbimu9943

Жыл бұрын

Yeah true. You tube videos have helped me alot.

@cuttienyaboke2903

Жыл бұрын

KZread really has lots of motivational and informational content for free.

@ken4722

Жыл бұрын

@@cuttienyaboke2903 It's amazing how people are willing to help others out for free. Gives me hope about humanity.

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

True. There’s always something that you could be doing ❤

We are too old to have only one stream of income esp to my 30+ year olds. Even if it means having kibanda ya fruits hapo kwa esto do it. Financial liberated girlies hey

A priest at VPH once said inner wounds happen to us daily, so we all need inner healing .Could be the touts careless statement, a friends action, a mamas behaviour etc. So yes we all need therapy.

Murugi's point about parking is so relatable. One time I went to CBD, my errands were uptown so lifestyle parking was appropriate. I found it full, I circled the building 4 times with hopes that some space will be available. I just turned back to the highway and went back home!! 😂😂😂I could not fathom going to park downtown and walking all the way under the scorching sun

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Yes, true

I am too old to keep fighting for things I know I can't change. I choose my battles wisely

It’s definitely TMIiiiiiiiiii,please sing it Looking good ladies😍 I’m definitely too old to go out on a weekday,after work all i wonna do is shower,pj,netflix 😅 Too old to go out to events that start after 8 pm.. Too old to repeat myself or argue with anyone😫whatever you said,yeah that’s right. Too old to making last minute plans,if we can’t plan it advance,ain’t gonna happen..we are adults,schedules are important at our big age!!

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

100% agree with everything!😂

LOL, Murugi is the James, Lydia is seeing other friends and not making time for Joan outside of 'making money' lol😅🤣🤣🤣

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

The violence 😂😂😂

Ladies, can l please have both of you in my home for 6 months and then after that you can go back to the world🙈🤣🤣 I woke up feeling not the best even though my babies and l had the best Valentine’s Day yesterday. (I suppose it’s because l am in the middle of a divorce) but after this episode l am bouncing up and down so happy, everything you talked about aligned. My divorce decision is the best for me and my mental health in the long run. I love you both so much, know that your wins are coming direct from God because of so many of us out here prayers. TMI to the world🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@lilianqueenshow6297

Жыл бұрын

Aaaw hugs

@patricianjeri7330

Жыл бұрын

It shall be well. Going through a similar thing. Looking for a support group for women going through separation/divorce. Do you know of any?

@carolnjo8629

Жыл бұрын

@@patricianjeri7330, no, unfortunately. I am so sorry, it shall definitely be well. We just have to keep our heads above the water.

@carolnjo8629

Жыл бұрын

@@lilianqueenshow6297, thank you so much❤️

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

We’re happy that you had a great Valentines Day with your family even amidst this tough period you are in. You don’t need us to come over, you’ve got this🤗

I'm too old to be having visitors in my house 24/7 . I need my space and calmness

52:47 Absolutely favorite moment of my life so far🤣 Hearing Murugi mention my comment made me feel like a verified in-betweener‼️Been here since episode 1🥰 Much love from the 256

Best episode thus far this year(& the year has just started). Too old for tish...I refer to it as things I don't/nolonger subscribe to. -Too old to follow fashion trends...ding!never have/never will, thank u Murugi. -Too old to not say what I mean & mean what I say. -Too old to deal with passive aggressive pple esp family/friends... -Too old to explain maself on anything eg how I choose to do & live my life with the exception of some situations that might involve Authority. -Too old to feel guilty abt ma privilege(s)... cognizant,humble,grateful yes! but I won't hide/ apologize/for it. -Too old to subscribe to the Strong Black Woman movement...thanks but no thanks...no Nobel,pultizter, EGOT awards have ever been received for that martyrdom. -Too old to attend events that nolonger serve/nourish my mind (unfortunately that also includes some family events). -Too old to agree with something coz everybody else likes/agrees with it & I am the odd one out...Herd mentality is so early 2000s. -Too old to blame/hold onto habits just coz it's in ya generational DNA...ding!thank u Lydia. -Too old to not being open minded abt doing things differently than our parents/ancestors. Lydia,congrats on overcoming ya fear to swim! Thanks Lydia & Murugi!

I turned 17 exactly a month ago today but I'm too old for/to: 1. WASTE TIME. I'm just too old to be sitting hours and hours having small talk or staying in an environment where I don't want to be. Like at the end of the day, "Whose time am I wasting?" Mine. So I'm not doing that anymore. 2. I'm too old for friendship drama. I won't even explain that but I'm just too old for it. Those who get it, get it😉 3. I'm wayyyyyy too old to be guessing people's emotions. I can't with the passive aggression. Like even if I know you're hurting, your choice to stay silent and just act shitty gives me all the right to distance myself from you until you're old enough to have a normal human conversation about it. I can't keep mothering you, I'm too young to be a mother🖐🏽 I'm done‼️ 4. I'm too old not to take responsibility for my own behaviour. Need I say more?💁🏽‍♀️ 5. Be spending recklessly in the name of 'money comes, money goes' I'm too old to be financially irresponsible. 6. Not be able to defend myself. Like just looking on while I'm being disrespected... No please🙌🏽 7. I'm too old to "fix people". It's okay. I'll find the fixed ones. I know I'm not perfect but henceforth, I actually want to be around people that are mentally fulfilling and better than me in a lot of aspects. I've taught for too long. Now I only and only want people to learn from, the right way... Not through heartbreak and disappointment. 8. And just like Lydia, I'M TOO OLD TO LIE. 9. I'm too old to not actively live my life. As long as there's air in my lungs, I will get up, work hard, make choices, learn, love, lose, win, cry, hate,..... LIVE. I am too old to live a half-life. (I'll leave this here and keep editing just so I keep track).

i love it blank. no singing, you guys sound badass when you do it normal.

@irenerichards5399

Жыл бұрын

💯

@hattsdiary3312

Жыл бұрын

same Xavier same

@noellerume6633

Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@gracekiwunja3063

Жыл бұрын

Wow my thoughts too

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Yoy don’t like a little spice on it?😢

15th Feb here to give my feedback of how it went for me on Vals.I watched the episode of Valentines and communicated with manz what valentines means to me and what i would want for valentines. TURNS out he doesn't believe in Vals but said Okay. On 13th asked whether he had any plans in place and he said he had none i was like okay then am just gonna have a galentines 14th feb during the day he passed by my workplace no flowers no nothing i asked him again what plans he had he told me he had none and he asked what plans i had i told him a galentines we had planned with the girls to meet. Fast forward he texts me at 6 O'clock can we meet tonight we are gonna have a good time and you will not regret it am like what is this last minute plans you have am on my way to meet the girls what am i a back up plan or what so i tell him No we can do that whatever plans he has on 15th i already have plans in place so he texts me at around 10 where are you i told him with the girls he texts again " okay i had a gift for you and you would have loved it but you were not willing to sacrifice your time for me so you missed your gift just like that" 🤣🤣and then he goes ahead and adds "vals is all about sacrifice" today he called me like nothing happened yesterday i told him i want out we are not in high-school anymore abeeg.Its a new relationship we met last year Dec

@charityndegwa2057

Жыл бұрын

Feels like your telling my story,last min plans 🤷🤷 naaaah

@feinussayid2938

Жыл бұрын

Guuuurl. Mine was like he doesn’t believe in valentines eti he loves me every day 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@shammahnzaana214

Жыл бұрын

I'm proud of you babes. #You're too old for that shit🤣

@catherinemuchiri9046

Жыл бұрын

This one had nothing to give. Just blowing hot air and trying to guilt trip you.

@sharoncheptoo3919

Жыл бұрын

Its all clear now. Gurl you know what to do already.Dont be afraid of the consequences.

I am too old to give someone a pass just because they are family. If you are toxic you gotta go regardless of who you are.

@winniemutua5578

Жыл бұрын

True

@dianacheruto2697

Жыл бұрын

İ think i totally agree with these, as a matter of fact, most relatives are toxic.💔 (Something we are not ready to talk about)

One of my biggest encounters with God was he connected me to u guys,,when I was finding myself I came across u guys n from there only God knows❤❤

@africangirl189

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

We appreciate this❤

I relate on the friends topic.This year i decided to cut off pple who aren't impacting me in any way

Am too old to prioritize others before me..felt that

Ya'll be mentioning too many "Jane's" for babes, and "Njoroge's" for dudes... Shuwally, who have I hurt? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@Waruguru__

Жыл бұрын

My question as well, 😅😅😅 But clearly i guess we now know why😂😂😂

@janenjoroge4682

9 ай бұрын

😂

The more reason I should work harder.... wueeh shida zangu ni tofauti 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Murugi🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣anything below 10% is juice 🤣🤣🤣🤣 My absolute favourite girls ❤️looking gorgeous serving looks, uncomfortable truths and wisdom ❤️I'm such a proud in-betweener❤️

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Did she lie though 😂

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Did she lie though 😂

Therapy isn’t only about problems. You would not only service/maintain your car when the wheels are falling off, would you? Your mind, body & spirit need regular maintenance💪🏾

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. Well put!❤

@acool5614

7 ай бұрын

Say it❤

It's been a minute. I'm damn so busy ,nowadays.I'm enjoying this conversation today. I exhaled out all the BS people, places, activities etc in my life. I feel good&in a great place since August 2022.On skin care routine, I've been pathetic since my youth. I turned older & in another climate(hot&sunny), but I hydrate a lot& wear a hat always. I love cucumber. I moved to the Coast&the frequent visits to the beach/ocean has melted my phobia of big water bodies. I'm learning to swim, yeaaa. You guys read my mind, I'm too old for almost everything. Since the ice is broken, I'm happy that Lydia is energetic, vibrant&laughing her heart out, again. Blessings&love😍 gal.

Went for a first date with someone on valentines day

I’m ALWAYS in flare jeans 😂 I’ve never followed trends either. The fashion trends come and go and come back again and find me in my flare pants

You guys are my therapists

Aki dhenks for the consistency. Huku youtubers wako on hiatus mbaya. We are suffering. But then there's you guys. 👏👏👏😍

Simply Amazing😍😍

Hey Lydia & murugi guys you are just such a blessing to us what's left to say is that I'm too old to stop watching you ☺ 😍 despite of all that we go through we still need people like you and God. May God bless both of you coz people like me go though alot of shit but the moment I watch you I feel like I'm my self once again 😍 we love you.....

I love this!

We really love youuuu …keep it going❤

I'm too old to not be watching such podcasts!!

@bridgetnkatha

Жыл бұрын

This!!!!!!!

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Tell’em!

At this point in my life, this is the only podcast I am watching the full video of. Thank you Lydia and Murugi.

First one hereee❤️❤️it's definitely TMI

Nothing happens when someone has an opinion on your life ...... That's liberating AF....thanks lyd

Thank you. I’m so enlightened. Blessing ❤

i am too old to be seeking validation from others

Always excited when it's a Wednesday, got to sing to the intro today hahaaa Love this podcast so much!! As a girl in my 20s I got to learn not to accept the minimum and just prioritize my happiness Lots of love from Burundi ❤️

I am too old not to be journaling. It really helps download things from my mind and results in clarity. So therapeutic.

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Everyone should be journaling❤

😘😘😘😘😘😘😘loving the conversation

You matched hairstyle today My therapist ever...you deserve an award ladies....

Hey ladies, thanks for this video..I mean am 25 and I resonate with most points inhere...especially one of the last points where Lydia says 'am too old to not have boundaries' something I have really struggled with.

Amazing Episode ❤

You are twinning ❤️❤️❤️❤️ #YourHair😍

I'm too old to keep quite when I really can talk..speak up coz no one is able to read your mind

Love love this episode!!♥ And I am with Murugi on the flare pants🤣🤣

I'm that inbetweener that listen to your podcast and come back here to watch you. Wee the facial expressions and word robe etc slaps differently. Keep soaring high babez.

Love you girls 😍

Yes to singing the intro 🥳

I love this.. watched till the end...love you too gal's 😍😍

Today I am relating to Murugi on so many things. especially the animal phobia and delegating. Great episode!

It's definitely TMIIIIII ..💜💜

Very amazing session

I love TMI❣️❣️ who's is that babygirl who doesn't watch this amazing content?I love you big sisters ❣️❣️❣️

I am too old to care what people say or think about me. My niece and I relate alot with you guys, she's more of lydia and I'm more of Murugi😍😍. you guys are amazing.🥰

I agree with the clothes thing. Keeping up ain't my thing either

Hie Lydia and Murugi, I really love your content ❤. I’m too old to not be saving money.

great conversation, I'm new here and I'm loving this girls. I'm too old to beg for love, attention and affection.

Liking the video even before watching it >>

Definitely sing the intro!!So cute!!😍

I enjoyed this episode ❤️and can relate 😁I'm Too old to have one night stands or date casually... 😒

Very Interesting topic today and I definitely agree with most of it. There was this moment where I observed about Visa appointment and walking a distance...whewwww! it was a " tell me you are Rich and privileged without telling me " moments. GIRLS I LOVE YOUR Struggles 🏳️‍.

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

We worked hard to not have to walk around unless we want to😌

My all Tym Gorgeous Queens 👑👑 actually my big siz I learn alot from

Sing it,dance it,spell it, I love it all the way!!!! Great content as usual. I'm too old for fake and pretentious relationships...any type of relationship...I cut off people like ASAP

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

As you should 😌

The your body is too old to handle a hangover took me out!!! Loved this episode 😂

Gorgeous😊

I relate almost 100% with Murugi and I'm glad we are agemates. But I really appreciate this podcast, I haven't wasted any minute listening to it.

Murugi you can still get a prepaid bundle on your normal line. There are all in one bundles available including minutes.

You two are SO CUTE.🥰

I was being a "superwoman " till yesterday and I have school tomorrow, I am listening to you now to get my mind clear a bit then i"ll be able to go through my notes and do the cat. I LOVE listening to you you don't even know😁😻😻❤

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Put yourself first girl❤

Lydia I love your outfit ❤️

Nice content and wisdom too.I don't take it for granted that you take time to talk to us...I agree with you on too old to have relationships that are not authentic.

❤❤❤you sing

I AM TOO OLD FOR INAUTHENTIC FRIENDSHIPS

Murugi is James 😂 Yes Lyd she is 😅

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

This was soooooooooo wholesome🥰🥰🥰🥰

Georgie and Lydia would make the best couple in this world 😊😊 I just find them both intentional🎉😮😮

I really loved this episode aaaahhhhh !!!!! 😍😍

TMI🥂

Not the crying bit💀am wheezing

It's definitely TMI

We love the singing part i be singing along it's definitely TMI LOL !!

😂😂😂😂😂 Lyd! Chandelier swinging 😅

Think you should both considering the vibe of the episode

Wooooord! Wueh......I needed to hear this

My favourite babes 🥰🥰

It's definitely TMI...

I have never fallen for trends even as a teenager 😅

I love the previous intro, "it's definitely TMI!

I love this episode and thinking of it I'm way too old for a lot of things I had not realized😅

woow the episode was all I needed,I found the answer its responsibility not blame.I personally have realised am too old to be holding on to the past traumas and the painful things i went through as I grew up.Its hire time I stop clinging to them and align with the fact that I played no path in those happenings I am not at fault and I should let it all out and move on with the life ahead. It now makes sense I guess am now young enough to anticipate better things ahead and to love life. Thank you TMI indeed the inbetween is messy just discovered that.