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@rohitpattebahadur787

2 жыл бұрын

Hey lot of love form India...NICE WORK KEEP GROWWING 💗

@I_am_Raziel

2 жыл бұрын

Very good, reflective content. Especially the conclusions.

@coubyplayz

2 жыл бұрын

Really love this video idea

@Anurag-os3rs

2 жыл бұрын

Damn, You're so beautiful💖💖😍

@angea.valcimond8754

2 жыл бұрын

THANK you very much From HAÏTI 🇭🇹 for that video on UNFAIR Advantages Ruri! Let's keep the motivation and disciplin FEELINGS UP together on this chanel! THANK YOU again Ruri!

Life is unfair but if you are able to read this on a new phone, in a warm home, without being hungry or thirsty then you are already having a head start against at least 50% of the population.

@kazumakiryuu2668

2 жыл бұрын

Well still unfair to me. Look at Epstein. He live a dream life.

@theprophet2444

2 жыл бұрын

@@kazumakiryuu2668 well I don't know, I'd like not to die at the age of 66 by being hung or hanging myself, depending on which narrative you choose.

@cilginkizseni7376

2 жыл бұрын

yeah but thats what makes me sadder, i feel so sad for the other homeless, hungry, thirsty people out there even kids... well i live in turkey thats a whole unfair thing. i always thank my life to have some money, warm house and etc but we're getting worse about life (poor in money, justice etc yk) day by day as a country. our situation as a family is not that bad but we barely can reach stuff we want as teenagers. even education and health system are like crap. we all wanna run from the country but lol we need money for that too. whatever you might know how bad turkey is so...

@sura_jongs

2 жыл бұрын

@@cilginkizseni7376 lol it seems he have a similar thoughts. I'm from India and I do wanna flew away from my country...

@cilginkizseni7376

2 жыл бұрын

@@sura_jongs im sorry for us :( and i hope we'll make our dreams come true, please dont give up 🥺

Keeping comparing to others is very unhealthy. We all have ups and downs,

@sonyasever7625

2 жыл бұрын

so, why no one wants to live in Afghanistan? or Pakistan???

@MohaMed-pg9dq

2 жыл бұрын

m.kzread.info/dash/bejne/aZhlmKWph9OTn84.html

@water3408

2 жыл бұрын

What if someone's life have been continues downs? Not everyone's gets happy moments.

@doc3569

2 жыл бұрын

according to who? you?

@doc3569

2 жыл бұрын

you can appreciate what you have more and the good that is in your life instead of complaining

Your vlog about "feeling like a failure" and the speed at which your channel blew up made me motivated to continue vlogging despite sharing my opinions on certain topics and sometimes getting hate for it.

@Ruanna_me

2 жыл бұрын

Me 2 🔥💃🏼

2 жыл бұрын

I'm such a really good singer 🥰🙉 kzread.info/dash/bejne/fq5p2pivdtSsfpM.html

@janelmiller5935

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this comment I feel similar. Ruri is excellent, intelligent and very helpful ❤️

@sriku1000

2 жыл бұрын

A great watch on how humanity is defined kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWmal9yEo7GXdKg.html,

@Tristiam

2 жыл бұрын

You've got quite nice to watch videos on your channel, I like it - it's a good beginning with no doubts, you have cool voice etc. Don't worry and continue what you do, much love from Poland :D (didn't expect to meet some Poles here, lol)

Life is definitely unfair. You can work just as hard as another person, yet circumstances can still affect your results. Should we then continue to compare ourselves to others? No. I think that there is beauty in the story of overcoming financial and mental struggles just as much as taking longer.

@kazumakiryuu2668

2 жыл бұрын

Eventhough life is unfair you must find your passion

@sriku1000

2 жыл бұрын

A great watch on how humanity is defined kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWmal9yEo7GXdKg.html,

@Cyan_Nightingale

2 жыл бұрын

I know a guy who cheats on his life partner with many women yet he still have successful career & living a safe life. I know some of my friends bought / cheated their bachelor thesis and work at Shopee / have lucrative jobs, because they got it before the pandemic hit in 2020. I know corrupt politicians who went unpunished, like Ferdinand Marcos of Philippines.

@letechnicaljames

2 жыл бұрын

@@Cyan_Nightingale yeah man. I try to never cheat and be honest knowing I've worked hard yet being in a toxic environment can derail your career back for even a year or two. That's me.

@Cyan_Nightingale

2 жыл бұрын

@@letechnicaljames life is unfair but I don't want to be a part of that unfairness.

*Life is definitely not 100% fair. However I still think that you can build a life you are proud of if you put in the work.*

@darkrosie2111

2 жыл бұрын

Kesinlikle

2 жыл бұрын

I'm such a really good singer 🥰🙉 kzread.info/dash/bejne/fq5p2pivdtSsfpM.html

@howardlam6181

Жыл бұрын

by the time it's built. I feel like I am already pass the time of marriage lol

@Fullyautomagic

Жыл бұрын

Maybe

@Bridgetl-_-l

5 ай бұрын

I think hard work is a lie

So true, the only truths are that life is hard and we’ll all die. There are things we can’t change - but stacking the deck and using our unfair advantages means we can make the best of what we have! My unfair advantages include my education/being a doctor, empathy/communication skills, problem solving skills, video editing/graphic design/music for my own YT channel… There are things that I would change if I could (without going into detail) - but I am still so grateful for the advantages that I have been given, and will try my best to use them to help myself and others around me!

2 жыл бұрын

I'm such a really good singer 🥰🙉 kzread.info/dash/bejne/fq5p2pivdtSsfpM.html

Thanks ruri ❤ I'm 18 years old and I have an entrance exam this year and things are difficult for me and sometimes i really lost my motivation and feel so bad , because education system in Iran is a completely disaster, and we have big problems in this regard . I'm trying to learn English and new skills to improve myself to achieve my goals and live my own life . And all the time your videos really help me 😁❤

@avant-garde8602

2 жыл бұрын

Good luck, you can do it!

@zarandmarin8970

2 жыл бұрын

Why education system in Iran is disaster?

@matinnuri4564

2 жыл бұрын

@@zarandmarin8970 isn't it?

@sriku1000

2 жыл бұрын

A great watch on how humanity is defined kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWmal9yEo7GXdKg.html,

@thefrustratedneetaspirant7777

2 жыл бұрын

@@zarandmarin8970 at this point I've started to feel every country's students feel their education system is disastrous. I see Indian students complain about our ES all the time while preparing for entrance exams which are highly competitive.

It's refreshing to watch these kinda video. I mean most video usually just give you toxic positivity, but ruri always speaks the truth.

@kazumakiryuu2668

2 жыл бұрын

Truth is truth. Truth can be positive or negative

@fandubindo1891

2 жыл бұрын

@@kazumakiryuu2668 did you even know what toxic positivity means?

@november0411

2 жыл бұрын

Toxic positivity ... thats an accurate expression.

@ninjapurpura1

2 жыл бұрын

Yep, in these channels they say life is fair and keep with the good vibes and everything is gonna be fine bulshit...

"I know that I'm attractive!...I mean, people say it, so..." That had me in hysterics 😂.

Thx for being there when I need to hear this the most, cause it's filling the confidence that I'm lacking right now in life.

I was one of those book smart students in school. And you are absolutely right, now that I am a little older, I know for a long time that there are more types of intelligence which I am not good at. Creativity, social interaction, emotional intelligence. I am bad in all of that. I am doing ok now, but not as good as I could, I guess.

You know this video was nine different types of refreshing to watch. Never really considered much of my background to be an unfair advantage until now. It’s inspiring and empowering tbh. Thank you.

Also agree in regards to physical attraction. I think that should motivate us to want to look to the best of our ability.

YOUR CHANNEL IS REACHING A DEEPER and more mature level in 2022 and I LOVE IT!! really inspiring. amazing you are producing high quality content twice a week right now. can't wait to see the inspirational content you make this year!! thanks Ruri 🙏 頑張れ! 🙇‍♂️

@erenmertozen

2 жыл бұрын

@@ponderingspirit he is Dr. Justin in Japan

@Galactusz007

2 жыл бұрын

@@ponderingspirit You mean, like you?

@sriku1000

2 жыл бұрын

A great watch on how humanity is defined kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWmal9yEo7GXdKg.html,

Agreed, Life is really unfair making one individual so damn good looking and talented

@kazumakiryuu2668

2 жыл бұрын

Probably crony capitalism

@sriku1000

2 жыл бұрын

A great watch on how humanity is defined kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWmal9yEo7GXdKg.html,

Crystal Clear and crisp, tq for the valuable information Ruri

Thanks ruri I have anxiety and depression and I really needed to hear this

You always giving me passion to start and I’m very grateful for that,and always I found that thing that I’m looking for ❤

I like that you are not just describing the book, but your adding your commentary, from your perspective / experiences

I've watched a lot of productivity videos and I feel like it's for it to get to your head, but this is genuinely life changing advice!

@sriku1000

2 жыл бұрын

A great watch on how humanity is defined kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWmal9yEo7GXdKg.html,

Great video, pretty much different from "failure". You covered this perfectly, thanks, Ruri.

Hi Ruri, I am in love with your fluency of English language. Excellent.

she's just amazing! this is exactly what i would like to hear in this moment. Thx

Very well explained and appreciated the real world examples from your own experiences. Thank you!

Thanks Ruri, I just discovered your channel and it came like a bless right now in my life, I was really going through a bad mental breakdown with all of those subjects you know so well how to talk about it. It's like you're resolving all the issues I had in my mind since so many years.. and I can see it differently now.Thanks to this video and the failure video one. Thank you very much for these i'll subscribe to your content 😊

Yes;Your videos always inspire me Ruri. Your looks and confident is definately the most undauntable UNFAIR ADVANTAGES.Just keep it up .

@sriku1000

2 жыл бұрын

A great watch on how humanity is defined kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWmal9yEo7GXdKg.html,

Thank you Ruri for recommending The Unfair Advantage! 🤓

Amazing! Very interesting subject especially about being an outsider in a certain community. It feels the same for those who have parents from different cultures in the same country too.

I understand all the points you wanted to convey but I honestly believe that not everything can be circled around to become an advantage. if you were born in Eastern Europe for instance you could be as ambitious as much as you want but it would be 10times more difficult to achieve a normal life standard. Just like in the Middle East for instance. There are still some countries where it is better to be born than in others, and there is no way to spin it around. Other points make sense ofc.

@carlosfromearth

Жыл бұрын

That's the same feeling I had watching this video. There are some systems that actively work against a person, much like how the United States has systems set in place to disenfranchise black people, that can make overcoming them extremely difficult. That being said, I'm more in the mindset that communities and working together with others can and usually do help in overcoming and changing the systems at play to enfranchise one another. Also, of course, working towards yourself and empowering yourself, but understanding the systems at work and what changes need to be made to get to where you want to be. It's both realizing one's personal strengths and the strengths of communities.

@XOChristianaNicole

Жыл бұрын

Existence is designed to work against each individual, in some way. Believing that not everything can be turned into an unfair advantage is a fatalistic and limited view on existence. Allowing One’s life to be ultimately dictated by their circumstances is weakness. Period. There are PLENTY of people born in the Middle East/Eastern Europe who have used such to their advantage. Simply because you are not aware of any, does not imply they do not exist. If you believe there are some unfair advantages that cannot be such.. Well, you’re correct. If One believes everything has potential to be such, and it’s all a matter of perspective and how One chooses to use it.. Well, that person is, also, correct.

@braddivac3561

Жыл бұрын

@@XOChristianaNicole So basically, you are using the religious type of philosophy? If you can believe it, you can achieve it. Life is not a Disney song tho.

@Fleischgewordener_Sterbehelfer

Жыл бұрын

+1 Having a low IQ due to genetics is a disadvantage you can not turn into an advantage in the vast majority of cases.

@frog6054

6 ай бұрын

​@@Fleischgewordener_Sterbehelfer Pretty much. I don't know what my actual IQ is but I'm dumb and slow at everything, it would take me 10x longer to learn than average people. Although it does give you some kind of stoic mindset due to always being disappointed and failed lol. Now I never expected things to turn out well but I still do it anyway.

Thanks Ruri for making this video, your videos are very informative, helpful and inspiring.. I love watching your vlogs too, You are awesome.

Dear Ruri thank you so much for being so open about the struggles of life. I appreciate your thoughtful videos, you have such a beautiful voice and accent that makes watching your videos really just simple and fun. May God bless you to know His love and give you His eternal purpose in life and deliver you from depression and fill you with His joy and peace that surpasses all understanding in Jesus mighty name, amen! Blessings to you!

everytime after I watched Ruri's video, I feel like confidence and grab my future in my hand. I know what to do and she really helps me a lot !

The difference between your first video and your last video is seriously unbelievable

@leosleon1171

2 жыл бұрын

positive or negative? :)

@zehralanca

2 жыл бұрын

@@leosleon1171 of course positive

tysm ruri, you have no idea how your videos help me!

Yes, Ruru, you are attractive and you can monitize it. You're also smart and industrious. And you deliver value in a unique and esthetically pleasing way!! Thank you!

This was A Good Reminder for us Thank You

Hi Ruri, I realized that when I change my mode positively my life improves. Mostly I was getting what I believe that. Despite the fact, I am still fragile. Whenever I have little tiny problems, I can't prevent going back. I guess I need to prepare a more powerful routine for the rest of my life.

@MohaMed-pg9dq

2 жыл бұрын

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@sriku1000

2 жыл бұрын

A great watch on how humanity is defined kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWmal9yEo7GXdKg.html,

Like that! Thank Ruri and youtube algorithm for this video. I believe that every person have theire own way, so it's normally to have problems that other have not. Maybe we just need to learn to live with yourself and enjoy life.

I love this video so much, when I regret about my advantage I always come to watching this video. This video always handle my life.

Haven't seen the video as of yet, bit I still feel like this quote is important "saying you shouldn't be unhappy because others have it worse is like saying you shouldn't be happy because others have it better"

@donaldlyons17

Жыл бұрын

Yeah that never made any sense. But to be honest telling people to be ok with whatever they are and have would be in her worst interests so I don't think we can except her to ever say that!!!

My unfair advantage is, that I will never link „richness“ with money & that makes me so happy :)

Actually life is unfair That's the truth We just have to deal with it

My daily dose of motivation 👏🏽

@sriku1000

2 жыл бұрын

A great watch on how humanity is defined kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWmal9yEo7GXdKg.html,

Hi Ruri, this is the first of your videos I have watched. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. You sound extremely intelligent and it is an advantage to me that you are able to talk about these challenges we all face. I have unfair advantages in my life that sometimes can feel like a burden. I practice gratitude to remind myself of that things are always working out for me and to appreciate the contrast and lessons.

@sriku1000

2 жыл бұрын

A great watch on how humanity is defined kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWmal9yEo7GXdKg.html,

You inspire me to be better each day! I’m watching all of your videos! Thank you very much for sharing a lot of good informations, experiences. You’re the first person that mention one feeling that I was believing to be the only one person in this world feeling this… My grandparents were Japanese🇯🇵 but I was born in Brazil 🇧🇷 (my parents also). For Brazilians, I’m Japanese, but I’ve been in Japan, and definitely I’m not because I can’t speak properly, and my appearance is different. I’m living in UK now, so for them, I’m Chinese 🇨🇳 😂 (a lot of Chinese stay angry when I don’t answer them in Mandarin or Cantonese). I’ve been in Hong Kong 🇭🇰 and I realised that maybe, my ancestors can be from there, because I saw a lot of people like me😂. When my husband ask something, the people answer me in Cantonese and not him in English😅. Some people were so mad, because I told them my background. It’s so sad… Maybe just Asians can understand these differences… Thank you for create a “world” that we can be “accepted”! “Diversity” that’s the word! Less pre-conceptions, judgements! For a better world!Multicultural! 🌎❤️

your advices are priceless and the way you explain everything to make it looks simple and easy to get is amazing 😍😍🥰

Just discovered you... and... wow! You are really wise, it's pleasure listening to you :)

You're right! We should know first what we wanna do. I'm still figuring it out

This is one of your best video. Respect!

Eye opening stuff, well put altogether!

This girl is the sign I needed from god thank you gorgeous 💕💕

Thank you so much ruri you are a genuine being 💓💕💕♥️

Thank you! I always find excuses regarding the delays on my plan on life.. This helps a lot

Thanks ruri for the advice....i also like how you pronounce unfair advantages its so professional 😎

This was the best ad for Turkey I've ever seen

Young lady, you are a blessing.🌷

I've been feeling down lately and your videos have really helped me! Glad to be a new subscriber!

I won't get bored watching all your videos because you combine ( information and beauty and a very nice presentation ) together

Well said, you explore this topic really deep and practical as well. Mindset matters and like the idea to appreciate connecting to others in order to learn from others. Like the way u make this video🙏

The deepest pain I ever felt was denying my own feelings to make everyone else comfortable 🥺 ...............

@lindseycassella3015

Жыл бұрын

I can relate to this

thank you for the book recommendation & thank you for shifting my perspective :) i think that i have found my unfair advantages

You are beautiful, but your mindset is even more beautiful! Keep going!

Life is a great journey and the thing that I’ve learned is that you receive the most when you least expect it. Work hard, do great, and most importantly help others along the way!

Omg I was waiting for this video! Glad you made one :)

This is weird, I've been struggling with some mental battle and how I get discouraged when I'm not achieving anything but this is actually really helpful and its weird how this is pretty recent

This channel is the only thing that keeping my stress away thesedays, you wouldn't how much i appreciate every single one of these videos.

I think your personality is just beautiful and anyone who can become your friend, they are the fortunate one ;) take care and be safe always.

Thanks for the video! I find it really useful!

You clearly got lucky with the looks part... Your accent is also so cool

Your video was great. Very insightful and interesting. I love to learn and is natural to me. My unfair advantage on others is the ability to listen and hear my peers out. But the negative is always listening and never speaking. But that's okay too. For me I am not sure what philosopher it was, maybe marquis but his quote was " listen more and speak less. So when you do. The words you speak carry more weight and meaning."

I'm watching this while procrastinating and comparing me with others and of course overthinking... I can't believe I'm such a pro avoiding the things I must do to reach my goals.

Loved your video ♥️ Got yourself a new subscriber ✨

everyone is different. most people will not understand our journey. keep being you

You are so young to be so smart!!

my unfair advantage is a nearly insatiable desire to discover all the esoteric knowledge i can and be self suffie=cient in every domain possible. i also get to live rent free on my grandparents property. im now in college (a bit late to finally go, im 30) but i have a 4.0 and colllege grants pay me enough that i dont have to work. im going to get another online job soon though, possibly a call center job. i really enjoy your videos and hope im doing well enough one day to ravel the world, and maybe ill even get to meet you someday. i also want to start a youtube channel, and soon i will have the equipment to do that. youre a beautiful (and quite pretty) inspiration. thanks for the content and the insights. Robbie

"You've got to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad, love what you've got, and remember what you had. Always forgive, but never forget. Learn from mistakes, but never regret."

After watching your channel , you inpsired me to keep going to create a life i love making content on youtube to help and influence people as a content creator.

tq and this is seminar quality...amazing!

Life s so unfair literally my parents say no to almost everyth8ng life soufair I wanna move away and do stuff on my own

Glad you upload a new video, Ruri. ❤️

Thank you for your sharing and advice, I have been following you for a long time, and I have benefited a lot from your videos. (Haha I'm watching your videos to learn English right now. Thanks)

Thanks for sharing these valuable insights 😊

Hi Ruri! I would like to thank you for recommending this book. I have read it and it is amazing.

Ruri iyiki bu kanalı açmışsın gerçekten bana bazı konularda karar vermemde çok çok çok yardımcı oluyorsun çok teşekkürler

You are a Picasso! Strange but Familiar, Disjointed but Connected Cosmically to a Higher Level. A Traveler and our Guide in the void to Spiritual Harmony. You are a Mass of Parts that when Put Together and in Reference your Journey will Inspire Lives to Glow and Echo thru Eternity. Breath, Exhale, Win and Repeat one Victory at a Time. If you Lose, Learn, and Day by Day it Will Resemble and be Believed as Perfection. Why? Because You Feared but did it Anyway!!! U ROCK RURI...

Your channel is Amazing, in one of your video you mentioned "the unfair advantage" book i just started reading it!

Really! You're doing great ruri....!! 👍

Hi Ruri. I’m purely Japanese. But I’m a transplant surgeon trained in Japan, Australia and US, that your insights have lots I understand and agree. I’m really enjoying your video. 頑張って下さい。

@kazumakiryuu2668

2 жыл бұрын

Wow amazing. Recently there’s a guy who swap his heart for a pig heart.

Very good point of view, Ruri.

Jean-Paul Sartre said” Breathe! Everything happens for a reason!” Ruri explains why, in this video! Thanks Ruri for the inspration many more people one more time as usual!😊🙏

@ooscards7

2 жыл бұрын

Where is my "hi guys, im ruri-chan"

@sriku1000

2 жыл бұрын

A great watch on how humanity is defined kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWmal9yEo7GXdKg.html,

Motivated me 😊 thank you.

Thank you for this detailed video about undair advantages❤️❤️

Nice video ! Thanks and love you !

Thanks for your recommendation. This book is really amazing. I read it a week ago.

Thanks for the book recommendation, added to my reading list.

I love the topic! I was really thinking about this topic few months back like "luck vs hardwork". 14:17 favorite part! haha :D

Hi Ruribel, thank youuu 🤗, greetings from Mexico 🇲🇽🥰🌷😘

I love your all videos. They motivate me so much. Thank you 💛💜

Hey Ruri thanks for summarising the book. I find your points very poignant especially the part on intelligence. Emotional intelligence is often overshadowed by academic intelligence but those who do well in their careers are often those of high EQ. Great vid