Vulnerable Narcissism vs Grandiose or Malignant | DIANA DIAMOND
Pathological narcissism has multiple faces and presentations, but according to Diana Diamond they all share an inability to regulate normal narcissistic needs, and this causes distortions in personality.
Three variants of narcissistic pathology are high-functioning (grandiose), vulnerable & malignant. Diamond explains the difference between them in terms of level of personality organization.
We interviewed Diana Diamond about narcissism and its prevalence in our society today, all the way from healthy traits to Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).
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Diana Diamond is an expert clinician who makes use of Transference-Focused Psychotherapy in her practice treating NPD and BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder).
Check out our interviews of Otto Kernberg and Frank Yeomans for lots more related material: Kernberg: • Otto Kernberg
Yeomans: • Frank Yeomans
For more information about BORDERLINE, the feature-length documentary we made about BPD, please visit: borderlinethefilm.com
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We should measure our politicians on such findings BEFORE they get into power....don't you think? That would be the most significant improvement to democracy.
“A person is, among all else, a material thing, easily torn and not easily mended.” “It wasn't only wickedness and scheming that made people unhappy, it was confusion and misunderstanding; above all, it was the failure to grasp the simple truth that other people are as real as you.”
@gnatdagnat
Ай бұрын
What's this from?
@edan3635
19 күн бұрын
@@gnatdagnatFrom the novel Atonement by Ian McEwan
@gnatdagnat
19 күн бұрын
@@edan3635 legend
I believe I can heal for 2022. I will.
'...ethical lapses.." lol. So polite!
I wish we had access to full Diana Diamond lectures. She is amazing. A true gemstone!
What would regulating normal narcissistic supply look like. What is normal narcissism.
Really enjoying these! Thank you for breaking it down into small chunks. Kudos.
@BorderlinerNotes
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the lovely feedback!
@janec.kowalczyk5824
3 жыл бұрын
@@BorderlinerNotes I agree! I'm loving the short but, sweet videos. I'm a ACON (Adult Child of a Narcissist) with ADHD. It's harder for me to grasp all the information when it's too long. Thank you! P.S. I just discovered your channel. I liked 👍 and subscribed and I hit the notification 🔔 too!
I am in love with this channel, wow. As somebody that is diagnosed with BPD, I cannot thank you all enough. ❤
Can you imagine being a therapist to B list movie stars in Hollywood? Good God. You would have to manage so much narcissistic wounding, grandiosity, damaged vulnerability.
@hectorperez1380
Ай бұрын
Do you Imagine JLO in therapy whit Diana Diamond ? How would that be ?
@bluest1524
Ай бұрын
@@hectorperez1380 lol! That was a very thought provoking question. JLO strikes me as a classic,shallow, pitiful narcissist. Just blatant. So, I guess the answer is... Dr. Diamond would be uniquely capable with her. It's interesting the mix of compassion and toughness these doctors must have, dealing with jerks like that. I think of it as a kind of secular, slow burn exorcism. It's more than I could do.
I'm a very unstable vulnerable narcissist.
@criminalscum_514
2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations. You're in a comment section full of narcissists. You should know that no one cares.
@aboetarikske
2 жыл бұрын
@@criminalscum_514 that's uncalled for, lol.
This is very helpful. Thank you.
Beautifully clear and concise !
I am really enjoying this interview. Fantastic work. It would be nice to have a full length version available.
Excellent video 👍🏼👍🏼
Shes just described most people
Good good channel
my narc had all three attributes
"malignant narcissists... can be world leaders. Unfortunately." ok quick poll, who did everyone think of at that moment?
@erin9243
2 жыл бұрын
TRUMP🤮🤮🤢
@danielpincus221
Жыл бұрын
46-1
@henryhandel
Жыл бұрын
Which one, lol. I can think of a handful of them, unfortunately.
@Tomzupp
11 ай бұрын
Our president in Slovenia
@user-bn4nc9fc8r
8 ай бұрын
experts
helpful more videos i like your content also i can understand to some extent
Dr Diamond - How does therapy connect with the client’s spiritual nature for healing and wholeness? Do you believe it’s necessary? What is your approach?
i think i'm a vulnerable narcissistic. how do they get treated?
1.kelihatan charming dan sukses 2.sukses dalam dunia kerja 3.menyembunyikan kerentantannya dg cukup baik 4.selalu gak puad
What advice do you have for someone who loves a vulnerable narcissist?
@neomaredi5922
10 ай бұрын
Unless they actively seek treatment.....RUN!!!
@user-bn4nc9fc8r
8 ай бұрын
these 'pros' get it too ya know
Can you have a mix of different kinds?
@luisaritosa9700
Жыл бұрын
yes
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Vulnerable narcissism
Does anyone know, how "compensatory narcississtic personality disorder" fits into this? Is it just a diffrent name for one of this, or npd in general? I've tried to look fot it on my own, but can't find clear answer, oe at least one that I understand, Because of english being my second language, I do not always get it.
@rfwoolf
3 жыл бұрын
I believe pathalogical narcissism is considered a compensatory disorder; the patient compensates by developing a grandeur / impervious / invulnerable false self. During times of extreme failure or embarrassment, they are said to 'decompensate', the false self is temporarily dissolved and you'll see extreme rage or extreme collapse. After some time (usually a few days) the narcissist figures out a way to resolve the mortification (it was someone else's fault, or it was their fault and they made it happen and therefore they are still in control) and he rebuilds the false self / re-compensates .
@0skodaoctavia0
3 жыл бұрын
@@rfwoolf Thanks, finally I can understand :)
@The-Finisher
Жыл бұрын
@@rfwoolf thank you that explanation is incredibly helpful.
Open your Bible read Psalms chapter 10. Entire chapter.
"Co-occurring" means they really don't know what they've got.
@user-in1ev1sp1k
3 жыл бұрын
Co-occurring means the patient has more than one symptom or disorder. For example, substance abuse and mental disorders tend to be co-occuring because substance abuse damages the brain and can cause mental disorders such as anxiety disorder, mood disorder etc. Inversely, people with mental disorders also tend to have issues with substance abuse because they might have low impulse control or they self medicate in order to deal with their pain. Borderline and narcissistic personality disorders co-occur because of the common factor in the cause of these disorders, abuse, neglect, etc.
@havadatequila
3 жыл бұрын
@@user-in1ev1sp1k I know what "co-occurring" means clinically. The definitions of personality disorders are at about the same level as Aristotelian astronomy, where elaborate explanations are needed to explain processes that aren't understood. "The glass spheres move thusly" is the same as "BPD and NPD share many co-occurring symptoms." Psychologists don't know what they have on their hands, thus, the constantly changing definitions.
@marissasantillan-guzman3201
3 жыл бұрын
@@havadatequila as I understand it, these labels don’t serve to define a person because the function of that is null. Rather these diagnostic labels better serve to prescribe an effective treatment. Of course, there’s the rub, I believe in one of the other videos (Dr. New’s I think) they explain that these definitions are changing. Diagnoses are a construct in the end.
@rw7975
2 жыл бұрын
Lol thanks for clearing that up... Hey forensic psychiatrists - just listen to this guy. Stick to Quora noob.
@havadatequila
2 жыл бұрын
@@rw7975 If you have a degree in forensic psychiatry, you should ask for a refund.
Not ONCE HAVE I HEARD ANYTHING! ABOUT CHILD ABUSE AND NEGLECT ?!?! NOT ONCE. YOU’RE LOOKING AT SOMETHING ON THE SURFACE - which I believe the outcome is from the LACK of developmental discipline - ie. Love and nurture and everything that comes w it. Maslow first BEFORE adaptive - maladaptive psychology. YOU DONT TALK ABOUT THE ‘ BEHAVIOR , and or the ‘environments which breed these ‘personalities’.
An inability to regulate normal narcissism - so someone who's crap at being a narcissist? Haha 😄 amusing thought :)
ahhh she means trump lol
These people know all about narcissism, as they are all narcissists themselves.
@great4ever845
2 ай бұрын
Yeap
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