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VISA DENIED... Now What?

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After 8 months of waiting... our visa was denied to Italy. Now after spending the last 9 months of building our house, what is our plan?
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We are Heather, Bradey, Alexa and Chloe. We purchased an abandoned stone barn in the foothills of the Italian Alps and we are working together as a family to renovate and restore this old stone barn into our dream home.

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  • @clauslohmar3379
    @clauslohmar3379 Жыл бұрын

    I'm a German, so settling in any country of the EU is easy for me. However, my wife is Brazilian, and so I have my share of experience with Visa. My advice: Get a specialized attorney for immigration law and let him handle everything. Going alone to that Visa appointment was the biggest mistake. Once, an attorney steps in front of these immigration officers, they know that they are in trouble if they don't follow the law.

  • @belle42

    @belle42

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes exactly. You must always hire an attorney. Especially with the language barrier. Attorneys know what to file and you will be taken more seriously.

  • @pierrearthur5428

    @pierrearthur5428

    Жыл бұрын

    Totally agree, have had to deal with obnoxious italian administration too ! It’s a lottery. One employee will go the extra mile to help you, another have his 15 minutes of fame by showing you he is owing your future in his hands and going to make it miserable ! When this happens, don’t waste your patience just walk away and escalate. This is when an attorney is mighty helpful as when such an obnoxious person is waking one inch sideway from what he is supposed to do the attorney will frame him and report him right away ! In my case the guy went from that day onwards to the loo each time I entered the Municipio and other people I dealt with where most helpful ! Courage, but don’t hesitate investing in an attorney. Typically it also reduce the amount of useless paper being deemed necessary ! Your case seem extreme, you should report it through an attorney to both your consulate/embassy toge this guy’s dismissed !

  • @candiceherbst6752

    @candiceherbst6752

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed. Spend some money on a professional and get your visas done. I have been through this process several times with my wife, who is South African. I applaud your bravery and resolve. It will get you far. Just back up that resolve with professional help and it's a win!

  • @AlmaTheSojourner

    @AlmaTheSojourner

    Жыл бұрын

    We hired a paralegal to help us get permanent visa status, the language and legal barriers are too great to overcome to reach a successful conclusion in a foreign country.

  • @davidgane5786

    @davidgane5786

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m in Hungary and there’s a guy in the local immigration office everybody dreads having to face him .

  • @Gatto-xt2zi
    @Gatto-xt2zi Жыл бұрын

    As an Italian I'm sorry and literally ashamed by that man's attitude. you guys are amazing and your attitude is admirable. you got this, and you are gonna win!

  • @noemimicheli6803

    @noemimicheli6803

    Жыл бұрын

    As an other Italian I am also very sorry that you guys had to face this part of Italian bureaucracy. Probably your Visas got denied because it is how it works in Italy. From my experience they alway deny Visas at first and then they finally look at papers when you appeal (same here where I live in France). So don't worry. It's only part of a normal but weird bureaucracy that tends to use this as a way to discourage immigrants to come in Italy. In bocca al lupo! I am sure that everything is going to be alright:-)

  • @sgraham005

    @sgraham005

    Жыл бұрын

    @@noemimicheli6803 Sì vero!

  • @mariadewey4369

    @mariadewey4369

    Жыл бұрын

    Having a visa denied is hard. It happens to many people wanting to come to countries, USA included.

  • @janettaylor3182

    @janettaylor3182

    Жыл бұрын

    Too right fight the man's attitude is really bad his mood should not come into you're viza you get these people I life , they need took at you're KZread to see how hard you've worked " Good luck too you " ❤❤❤

  • @ilzitek2419

    @ilzitek2419

    Жыл бұрын

    I love you for saying this.

  • @mtngrl5859
    @mtngrl5859 Жыл бұрын

    The key is to get residency visa first before one buys real estate. Bureaucracy is complicated in many countries and one has to have a really well connected attorney who is with them every step of the way.

  • @mtngrl5859

    @mtngrl5859

    Жыл бұрын

    @@antwonk That's likely true, but I've found that sometimes my comments can help others with their own journey. I've seen too many horror stories where people buy homes, and then find out that they can't get residency status. It's sad, but first step is getting permanent residency. While Italy is a very beautiful country and the charm of Italians is legendary, they are not really pro-immigration unless someone has a great deal of assets.

  • @Kim-J312

    @Kim-J312

    Жыл бұрын

    @antwonk yep , they had some rock fall , damaged their house , so they hike up to rock wall, and start tearing out the rocks 🪨 🤯 Not smart !!!

  • @iamthatiam1950

    @iamthatiam1950

    Жыл бұрын

    @@antwonkWhy are they entitled because they are optimistic? The cost of renting alone validates their decision to purchase and leverage sweat equity towards their future.

  • @kimmancha4314

    @kimmancha4314

    Жыл бұрын

    I would say the key is to get residency before assuming you can live full-time somewhere. Buying a property is separate; it could be for vacationing, investment, etc. You don't need a visa to own property in most European locations ...

  • @mtngrl5859

    @mtngrl5859

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kimmancha4314 While that's correct, most people who purchase property abroad have an intention to live there. If one can only reside there 6 months of the year, then what does one do with a vacant home. How easy is it to rent it and who will manage it when they aren't there. Of course, if one purchases a property in a highly desirable location, then that's less of an issue but many people for price considerations choose more reasonably priced areas, typically harder to rent. Having a vacant home is a problem. Then there are the tax considerations. It's not just the simple if I live out a country for 180 days that I'm not a tax resident. One needs to have reliable tax professionals. If one is from the US, our tax policies are fairly straight forward by comparison to many countries around the world. Of course, if one invest substantial sums, then one's options increase considerably. Italy is working on their own version of a Golden Visa, but one has to invest somewhere around the 1 mil mark, pretty much out of range for many people. Same with Malta, one can get citizenship by investment for around the 1 mil mark. In this couple's case, they should have gotten their permanent residency first. I have personal residencies in several countries, I could see how the political and economic climate was changing, residencies have not only gotten more difficult but far more expensive. The country of Portugal has eliminated their Golden Visa program, one can still qualify under their other visas, but the intention is for people to live longer period of times in that country. On a subjective note, Italy is in the midst of culture wars themselves. While it may appear less divisive than in the US, there is a greater consensus against woke culture than in the US/UK/ and many other EU nations. Italy has stood strong that only biological women can be in beauty contests. A very attractive female leader in Italy, has stood strong for family values in opposition to many EU dictates. Since 1990 Italy's GNP has not increased 1%, so apart from any bail outs by the EU, there has been little economic value for them being an EU member. At some point, there may be a parting of the ways.

  • @LorettaJCooke
    @LorettaJCooke4 ай бұрын

    I have gone back and binge watched all your videos related to your Italian adventure...I embrace your frustration and your visible burnout fully as I have done something similar in Hungary with my family home, renovations, re-unionification visa, etc...being a U.S. citizen in the EU is NOT a slam dunk. DO NOT GIVE UP E-V-E-R!

  • @jroar123
    @jroar123 Жыл бұрын

    I know what you did wrong. When I went for my residency visa, I had my lawyer with me right there at the window. I said nothing and he did all the work. We went through 2 other agents before my lawyer found the right person. Sorry this happened but like I said, use your lawyer on the appeal.

  • @11riehldeal

    @11riehldeal

    Жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @juditszabo8751

    @juditszabo8751

    Жыл бұрын

    Good idea.!

  • @margaretrosin7853

    @margaretrosin7853

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely have someone at least local to witness the process and translate

  • @Leib33

    @Leib33

    Жыл бұрын

    That was also something I thought when I saw you going to the window. I'm amazed your advocate didn't accompany you.

  • @MattAdcock

    @MattAdcock

    Жыл бұрын

    for sure this is the only way. regardless of costs, italian lawyer standing there and you spoke when spoken to and smile the rest of the time

  • @mariarojas5022
    @mariarojas5022 Жыл бұрын

    “Being challenged in life is inevitable, but being defeated is a choice.” Just beautiful. God bless your family.

  • @MrNorman1956

    @MrNorman1956

    Жыл бұрын

    Failure can only occur when you give up the fight. Even then, it is a positive, and one only learns from set-backs.

  • @user-yv6fm1xc6r
    @user-yv6fm1xc6r Жыл бұрын

    You two are so tenacious! We are in our late 60's, Californians and live watching and following your Italian adventure. Kudos! You will persevere!

  • @andreawisner7358
    @andreawisner7358 Жыл бұрын

    I thought that getting a visa was not how much work you did or being prepared but actually qualifying under the law. Do you qualify or not? I have doubts about your attorney/representative.

  • @hollymatalon9832
    @hollymatalon9832 Жыл бұрын

    What you are showing your girls in dealing with adversity with grace and dignity is priceless!!! Let the adventure continue. You all are amazing!!!

  • @GrandmaLM

    @GrandmaLM

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely agree. Blessings on your birthday Heather. Sad you received this news on your birthday.

  • @chuckbus

    @chuckbus

    Жыл бұрын

    Ditto

  • @granifulano

    @granifulano

    Жыл бұрын

    @@GrandmaLM That's how attacks are a low blow that it happened on Heather's birthday. Try to celebrate because your family is living the way many people would want to live if they had the courage.

  • @gestione_dello_stress
    @gestione_dello_stress Жыл бұрын

    Italians are treated just as unfairly in Italy, our bureaucracy is the dumps. I am surprised the professionals that are assisting you were not there with you... Tip: in Italy all gets resolved by knowing someone that knows somebody and helps, just because the process is a freaking mess regardless. I wish you all the best ❤ and love your attitude😊

  • @rimaggio
    @rimaggio Жыл бұрын

    As Americans who have lived in Italy (it took 6 months for our visa) let me suggest two things: (1) stop saying that you will “fight”; being belligerent will get you nowhere. (2) You said you had the best people helping you. Why were my they not with you at the questura (particularly when you don’t speak Italian)? They should fix this or get a new avvocato.

  • @midgoog2
    @midgoog2 Жыл бұрын

    Dealing with Government in any country is a problematic, frustrating, sometimes depressing exercise. I have found it to be like playing a game in which not all the rules or moves are to be forthcoming unless you ask the right person the right question at the right time. Hang in there and keep on pushing for the goal you want. Cheers Eric

  • @robhappe2705
    @robhappe2705 Жыл бұрын

    I am in the same situation. My wife and me have to leave in 6 days from China while we had invested in a business. But we are world travelers and we will move on!

  • @user-gr6rn3un8y

    @user-gr6rn3un8y

    Жыл бұрын

    China is worst!!

  • @ErikaWelindt-cs6uz

    @ErikaWelindt-cs6uz

    Жыл бұрын

    Who in the world would want to live in China?

  • @sarahlogan2075
    @sarahlogan2075 Жыл бұрын

    What a lovely last image in this video: Bradey carrying that beam, a tiny person, a heavy load, a huge world surrounding them. Happy birthday, Heather! I hope the family can go have cake today.

  • @crafty-lady6853

    @crafty-lady6853

    Жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday, Heather. My family wishes you all the best in your appeal. Our prayers are with you.

  • @NataliaEmelianov
    @NataliaEmelianov Жыл бұрын

    I am sorry you have to go through this. 30 years ago we had to go through a similar process coming to America. Our visa was denied and we were on deportation proceedings. It took us 4 years to get our green card and lots of strength. So proud of you guys!! Keep going

  • @DMills-un1tl

    @DMills-un1tl

    Жыл бұрын

    Why would you fight so hard to live in the U.S.? I always want to run from it.

  • @opart

    @opart

    10 ай бұрын

    @@DMills-un1tl It is likely Natalia moved from somewhere potentially worse, and found more opportunities in US.

  • @smwon1
    @smwon1 Жыл бұрын

    Oh wow! I feel so bad for you guys, but you are right, life is not easy. Keep plugging along and don't give up. You can't fail unless you give up.

  • @wendydee3007
    @wendydee3007 Жыл бұрын

    I lived in Spain for years, the paperwork processes are similar. I would NEVER attempt to submit any paperwork without a native speaking person in attendance. With the help of friends/neighbours/paid legal representatives, we got our government paperwork passed, even then it wasn't quick or easy. I wish you both the best of luck in the future, please always have a native speaker with you in person.

  • @lesliecrislipnielsen9928
    @lesliecrislipnielsen9928 Жыл бұрын

    Hang in there, you guys! I've had 10 years and counting of wading through paperwork and fees and clerks as an American immigrant to Denmark--still waiting for permanent residency--still smiling (most of the time). Europe's worth it! We're renovating an old farmhouse where some parts are around 400 years old. Your labors are inspiring! Thank you for sharing them the way you do.

  • @raginald7mars408

    @raginald7mars408

    Жыл бұрын

    as a German I always wanted to go to the USA now I am happy the American Government does not want me there they are right I am B iochemist Ph D Post Doc at Cornell University nobody needs that

  • @mynamename5172

    @mynamename5172

    Жыл бұрын

    Danmark is relentless against legal immigrants. I wish you luck!

  • @mynamename5172

    @mynamename5172

    Жыл бұрын

    @@raginald7mars408 Most of us (outside the mainstream political types) do want you, get a lawyer, don't leave! If you must, marry an American.

  • @raginald7mars408

    @raginald7mars408

    Жыл бұрын

    @mynamename5172 I did my Ph D as a German in France in Biochemistry 1982 and then went to Cornell 1982 to 1985 - this was the most amazing period in my Life - I feel more American than anything else. USA is Self destructing and I do not see any Future in and of the USA - Language is my priority - I speak fluent French and would love to live in France - but the horrible Politics there... Danish and the Nordic People are Fantastic and adorable - I would never ever learn any of those languages. Your courage amazes me - you are wonderful! Thank You to get to know You. Best Wishes and Blessings!

  • @lesliecrislipnielsen9928

    @lesliecrislipnielsen9928

    Жыл бұрын

    @@raginald7mars408 It's a loss for the US that you stay in Germany. I also have advanced degrees and a decent work record as a university professor. Supposedly just what Denmark wants to attract! The law doesn't seem to work well for the intention.

  • @patriciasmall4808
    @patriciasmall4808 Жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Heather!!🎉🎉 I’m so sorry for all the set backs as of late! I will be praying for you all! Raising voyagers for the win!! 🏆 💪 🏡

  • @kriduro1956
    @kriduro1956 Жыл бұрын

    DONT GIVE UP,KEEP FIGTHING BACK,!

  • @jharvey93
    @jharvey93 Жыл бұрын

    My heart dropped immediately when I read the title of your video. I'm so glad you explained all the ins and outs of your next steps and what might happen in that process. I only found your channel a few months ago and I have looked forward to each new video. I will be praying that all goes well and that you find a kind and compassionate emigration worker who will give you a permanent visa. Blessings to you all.

  • @graziellapalagi7577
    @graziellapalagi7577 Жыл бұрын

    Italian myself live in Florida 🇺🇸 I am very sorry for what happened to you. Italian shull be proud that people like you choose Italy to live. I personal APPLAUD and admire you for the love you have for Italy as well the amount work you have done and continue doing to make Italy your little corner of Paradise . Please not let a jerk let you down. 😡😡😡 Make your dreams go trough 😊👍👏.☘🐞❤🌷🥂🍾

  • @nicolethiedemann4685

    @nicolethiedemann4685

    Жыл бұрын

  • @kidgibnick
    @kidgibnick Жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry this happened, it’s such a shame the bureaucracy is so thick, and the system is so broken. Unfortunately we have similar challenges in Germany. It can be so stressful, and it prevents good people from staying long term in the country. But if there’s a will, there’s a way 🙏🏻❤️

  • @cherylhecht6038
    @cherylhecht6038 Жыл бұрын

    When you become a emigree of a country you should have your immigration attorney with you, and good command of the language.

  • @ourgracefulearth
    @ourgracefulearth Жыл бұрын

    I once wrecked on my way moving to a new locale, and thus missed my orientation and the job I had secured there. I was devastated at the lost opportunity until I learned that a freak accident happened at the property in my absence, which would've definitely been the end of me. Sometimes our paths are diverged to keep us from a chain of events that would bring us a much worse outcome. It doesn't make sense at the moment, and may seem brutally unfair, but I still think about this. Say you were approved, went to go celebrate at a restaurant, then got back on the road the one moment someone coming the other way was distracted... Ya never know. In any event, I love your outlook on this, I love your drive, and I LOVE the way you're building this magic as a family. Wishing you all the very best! And HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! ✨

  • @pamelawing5747
    @pamelawing5747 Жыл бұрын

    Italy should welcome you. They desperately need young people, like many other countries the percentage of old people is much greater than the percentage of young people. You aren't dead beats, you aren't looking for freebies, you are working , contributing people. I wish you the best. Will be looking forward to the next post.

  • @Myria83

    @Myria83

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly. I'm Italian, and I welcome people like them with open arms.

  • @fraimaimfr4942
    @fraimaimfr4942 Жыл бұрын

    We are Americans living in Italy having our "Permesso di Soggiorno" (long stay residency). Nothing in Italian bureaucracy is a slam dunk...ever. We're interested in what the reasoning was for the denial. It seems so unclear by your explanation. But also understand it's a private family issue. In bocca al lupo

  • @user-yz7hj1uv8z
    @user-yz7hj1uv8z7 ай бұрын

    I live in Jamaica. The worlds worst place for standing on peoples dreams. Dont give up. God is with you❤.keep smiling😊

  • @keagleeagle821
    @keagleeagle821 Жыл бұрын

    I thought Italy encourage people to come and renovate these old houses. I didn't know the process is that difficult. They should make it easy

  • @arnikakiani8014

    @arnikakiani8014

    Жыл бұрын

    Some municipalities in Italy are offering houses in their historical centres for very little money in order to rejuvenate life in remote towns. Those houses come with lots of strings attached (deadlines for renovations, use of the building after renovations are completed, etc.). The building we have here is not a house in a historical old town but a rural agricultural building. In any case, renovating either type of building does not come with residence rights and if the owner is not an Italian or EEA national, they are either restricted to 90 in 180 days or have to qualify for a residence permit as a family member of an Italian/EEA national, university student, employee of an Italian company or self-employed person. There are quotas for most visa types and nearly all require to apply from the applicant´s country of nationality or legal residence. I could buy a house in the US off of ebay for a couple of thousand dollars. I could go over on a tourist ESTA and start renovating. Could I legally stay? No. I´d definitely not be eligible. I hope this family will find a way.

  • @keagleeagle821

    @keagleeagle821

    Жыл бұрын

    @@arnikakiani8014 Thank you for the explanations

  • @Anomis1983

    @Anomis1983

    Жыл бұрын

    When I saw them what they were doing I was thinking: hmmm…..they ended up in xhit, they are in xhit. In Italy he bureaucracy kills you, they’ll finish building that house in who knows in how many years and they’ll have to throw lots of money to the l’ingegnere l’architetto il Comune etc. If the comune doesn’t like how you build the stairs inside the house they can order you to remove all and build it again and again until they’ll have a nice day and will tell you an ok. And i have to say that people who work in public officers are very dumb, they understand nothing about their job and can make your live terrible. Regarding immigrants they prefer the illegals ones, they don’t have much brave to make them feel upset- they’ll be consider racists. Before moving in an another country you should check…..As a UE citizen I received the Italian residence as a student, I had to show them my bank account I had in my native country. I guess from la questura they have a problema because they don’t have a steady job, I mean un lavoro fisso, a stabile income. Go there and try to explain them that your job is KZread, you earn and provide for your families from there. Maybe la questura from bigger city would understand what it’s about, but in a mountain village…… Once in a while I watch their channel for this reason, I’m curious as us citizens how will they end up, be treated by authorities…..or if one day they say screw all letters go…. If he guy who denied them the visa will see this video they are in beeeppppp. This is Italy babe.

  • @deborahmorgan7584
    @deborahmorgan7584 Жыл бұрын

    Your outlook on this new stumbling block is absolutely mind-blowing. This country should be extending open arms to you and your children. Hard working, industrious and loving people are not easy to find on this planet. I wish you success. Sleep well tonight and keep the Faith.

  • @karinbenedetti172

    @karinbenedetti172

    Жыл бұрын

    You are right but don’t forget that Italy is struggling with 1000’s of illegal immigrants every day so some days people will be short tempered…🙁

  • @mariaelenabuccino2341

    @mariaelenabuccino2341

    Жыл бұрын

    Do you think It' s easy to move from Europe to United States! 😮 It' s the same!

  • @deborahmorgan7584

    @deborahmorgan7584

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for taking the time to comment. I was completely unaware that Italy had such a problem with immigrants. That being the case, it makes sense that visas aren’t easy to come by. I really meant to just encourage this couple on their journey, but in my ignorance of Italy’s plight, I cast an unwarranted opinion on what their reasoning was. Your comment was delicately worded and I appreciate you.

  • @peterwhite9261
    @peterwhite9261 Жыл бұрын

    It is so heartwarming to hear you talk positive about your visa denial. Life throws us major curveballs, but we learn from them if we push on.❤

  • @katiecanuk2951
    @katiecanuk2951 Жыл бұрын

    Conversely took 3.5 years for me a 🇨🇦 with a 🇺🇸 husband to get a permanent residency. $13k in legal fees.

  • @annaf2111
    @annaf2111 Жыл бұрын

    As an Italian, married with a foreigner and relocated abroad in several different countries, I know how hard it can be dealing with Questura people. Fight it back, if you have all the papers supporting your visa, they are bound to revert this decision. Ask to deal with the main officer directly (questore), don’t give up. Good luck! 🤞🏻

  • @SoniaJbrt
    @SoniaJbrt Жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Heather. 🎉Hold on all of you, everything will work out in the end. Keep the Faith. Praying for you all. 🙏

  • @janedunworth4622
    @janedunworth4622 Жыл бұрын

    What a wonderfully positive and empathetic attitude you both have to life. I really hope your appeal has the outcome you wish for. Good luck, guys!

  • @22VB22
    @22VB22 Жыл бұрын

    It makes sense that it was rejected. as an American you cannot just go and live in Europe. Europeans can't do that in America either. then you must either have a job or have 500,000 in your savings account. and in italy everything goes 5 times slower in the government than elsewhere.

  • @catherinebrown9119
    @catherinebrown9119 Жыл бұрын

    You two have the best attitude and are handling it better than I would have. good luck with this process. Keeping good thoughts.

  • @tracydarby3066
    @tracydarby3066 Жыл бұрын

    If Italy wishes to solve their shortage of young people, they need to streamline their immigration process. You two are phenomenal, inspiring and obviously hard working people. Best wishes!

  • @thadtuiol1717

    @thadtuiol1717

    Жыл бұрын

    If Italy wants to stay Italian, it'll do no such thing.

  • @enidnievescruz8780

    @enidnievescruz8780

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thadtuiol1717 Well italy will cease to be italy.... if there is no people. I just dont get it. They have been offering incentives for families to move to their dying villages and this happens to people like them...

  • @stayinyourtruth

    @stayinyourtruth

    Жыл бұрын

    Guys, I'm Italian, born in the '80s. The shortage of young people is downright FAKE, and I'll tell you why. I literally had to leave my home country, just as hundreds of thousands other young people, who graduated from university. I left almost 20 years ago and believe that I tried to move back, but there was no place for me (and by me, I mean us, lots of young, capable and qualified people willing to stay in their culture and contribute to society the best they could). Now, because of the governments' decisions of the last three decades, it was literally made impossible for youth to grow and thrive. Very few made it, but just so you know, people who work at immigration offices are not there to welcome you, they are there to reject as much as possible (in Germany it's the same story, you better believe it). About Italy, if one is happy to earn very little and do jobs one didn't study for, then welcome to stay. Everyone else had to make the hard decision to leave instead. I can tell you that it's not because you are particularly unlucky that you're being denied the Visa. There's a plan to turn the country into a cheap bunch of ruins, so that some "wonderful saviours" with a lot of (corporate) money, will come and buy it off for a few dimes. Take a look at Greece and what happened to its economy. Do a quick research and find out which names were behind the economic failure of that country and you'll see the blueprint for Italy. That's why our generation had to be out of the way, so we couldn't be there to stand up for our country. This is of course just one of the reasons as for why good people with good intentions find hostilities when trying to settle in the country. We need to open our eyes and observe the contemporary global framework we are moving in. Many blessings to the entire family and don't give up! Stay strong!

  • @default322

    @default322

    Жыл бұрын

    @@enidnievescruz8780 there is a lot of people here :), we do not want density like other places

  • @taterrhead

    @taterrhead

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thadtuiol1717 you lot seem to love the migrant 'engineers' && 'scholars' that show up on dingeys ...

  • @maisonlorraine
    @maisonlorraine Жыл бұрын

    You guys have the absolute right attitude. I can only recommend that you give over as much of the paperwork and chasing as possible to an immigration lawyer who is Italian. Only show up to the appointments where your presence is required. And when you are there, smile and radiate patience and positivity despite what you feel on the inside. Greet everyone in Italian and thank everyone for everything, regardless of how small the service. Worked in France. May it work for you Italy! That said, I also had an income in France. Which I know is a chicken and egg dilemma -- since in most places you need the right to work/reside to earn local income.

  • @AZJH8374
    @AZJH837410 ай бұрын

    Happy birthday, Heather! This nurse Judi in Scottsdale AZ and Eucharistic Minister is praying 🙏🏻 for you all!! 🙏🏻 You've going to get though this

  • @Ebikeadventure5981
    @Ebikeadventure5981 Жыл бұрын

    Heather Happy Birthday! Sorry to hear. It sounds like typical bureaucracy in action. Immigranting to a new country is a pain as we went from Italy to Canada. Only to loose my Italian citizenship due to a temporary legal situation. I wish you guys all the best. Deep down I wish you a very successful outcome.❤

  • @kathyfragassi8399
    @kathyfragassi8399 Жыл бұрын

    Sending you Prayers and Hugs for encouragement and to have a quick approval of your Visa. I am so sorry it wasn't approved the first time. God Bless you all 🙏❤ Maybe get people in your new neighborhood to sign a Petition for you all to be allowed to live in Italy 🇮🇹 .

  • @junemartin1475
    @junemartin1475 Жыл бұрын

    I have binged your barn renovations and love watching your progress. It’s incredible how much hard labor you are accomplishing. Good luck to you on the house and visa. These are my favorite videos!!

  • @UncompromisedLife
    @UncompromisedLife Жыл бұрын

    How are you guys able to be there over 90 days without the visa though?

  • @MarcKoetse
    @MarcKoetse Жыл бұрын

    "being challenged in live is inevitable, being defeated is a choice", possibly the best predicate (is it a predicate?) I ever learned. Good luck!

  • @daveandrade8189
    @daveandrade8189 Жыл бұрын

    Heather, you are displaying such strength, grace and beauty with this setback! Bradey is heroic as well. Wishing you and the girls all good things. Liz

  • @sw9495
    @sw9495 Жыл бұрын

    Your hard labor shows in the beautiful restoration of your home . Blessings to all of You 💫 Stay Postive you are a wonderful family.🪻

  • @victoriamorgan5859
    @victoriamorgan5859 Жыл бұрын

    😢I was shocked to hear this. What a terrible situation. You have to appeal this decision for sure , which is going to be challenging & and time-consuming But be assured all the people on here are praying a positive outcome so you can stay permantly in Italy. I love you guys , your house is beginning to look like a home thanks to your blood, sweat & tears . Have a lovely day ❤

  • @GiselleWarton
    @GiselleWarton Жыл бұрын

    As a foreigner living and working in Germany, sending lots of love and strength! Glad to have you on this continent!

  • @Auracrispeta
    @Auracrispeta Жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry to hear that guys! I moved here as a student some years ago and I can tell you is not easy for anybody so I totally get you, the process is so long and full of frustrating moments but there is always light at the end of the tunnel! I hope you will see yours soon, sending a lot of good energy!

  • @lisagauthier3872
    @lisagauthier3872 Жыл бұрын

    You guys are incredible. What amazing parents you are. The messages and life lessons you are teaching your girls are priceless.

  • @heinzgassner1057
    @heinzgassner1057 Жыл бұрын

    You are an amazing family. I have been a global business ‘nomad’ all my life, finding out that our world still functions like 100 years ago. I am an Austrian, have lived and worked in Sweden, Italy, US, Belgium and Malta. I have a sister living in Palestine and a son - after studying in Belgium and finding his loving beautiful Chinese fiancé - now moving and trying to settle in Italy as well. I know what you are talking about. All the best. Don’t give up. This is the only hope for a peaceful future. The world needs families like you.

  • @H4iryP0ppins
    @H4iryP0ppins Жыл бұрын

    Unbelievable. Someone has a bad day and it has such a massive impact on your lives. Persistence will pay off regardless. Happy Birthday 🎉

  • @MaggieG121
    @MaggieG121 Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry y'all are having such a difficult time. Italy should be happy to have two such hard-working, industrious people wanting to live there. Keep up the good work and the great attitude. Hoping all works out for your benefit sooner rather than later! :D

  • @lucianatrambaglio4881

    @lucianatrambaglio4881

    Жыл бұрын

    Italy has got its immigration rules like every other Country in the world. Besides for this family will be particularly difficult to get visa since Brady hasn't got a job and a steady income.

  • @devdroid9606

    @devdroid9606

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lucianatrambaglio4881 yes. I don't understand how they can just assume they have a right to live in a country (not just Italy) without having first met the residency requirement or becoming citizens. Will they have to give up US citizenship? And are they prepared to do so? Most immigrants who don't come through family reunification immigrate because they have a job and are willing to work in the local economy. It seems they consider a visa a requisition to the government, that just has to be completed as a formality.

  • @lucianatrambaglio4881

    @lucianatrambaglio4881

    Жыл бұрын

    @@devdroid9606 Hi, no they don't need to give up their USA citizenship. Many immigrants here have double citizenship. To get Italian citizenship you need first to apply for it, pass certain exams: knowledge of the Italian language and aquantaince of Italian cultural history. This only after TEN years of residency in the Country for which you need the Visa permit this family is trying to get.

  • @mmandrac1
    @mmandrac1 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry to hear that your visa was denied. Hang in there. You both have great attitudes and will overcome this setback. You are destined to be there. Italy is lucky to have you!

  • @unpredictable913
    @unpredictable913 Жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry guys, I hope they watch this video and reconsider your case. Your attitude is admirable and setting a good example for your daughters about challenges. Keep pushing for your Visa. God bless your beautiful family. Greetings from Utah, USA.

  • @melindataljaard2753
    @melindataljaard2753 Жыл бұрын

    🎉🎉Happy Birthday🎉🎉!!! Praying that your visas will be good next time. ❤❤

  • @MarianneInmarsilia
    @MarianneInmarsilia Жыл бұрын

    Hoping things turn around and go your way. How frustrating that one ill tempered civil servant can have such an impact. I will keep my fingers crossed for you !

  • @bonnierobinson8684

    @bonnierobinson8684

    Жыл бұрын

    I thought Italy wanted Americans to come!

  • @lucianatrambaglio4881

    @lucianatrambaglio4881

    Жыл бұрын

    @@bonnierobinson8684 What for ?

  • @sayusadinsa554
    @sayusadinsa5544 ай бұрын

    I am from Sri Lanka definitely you can get that visa your good person God bless you and your wife and two little angels I am proud of you

  • @AbrahamVivas
    @AbrahamVivas Жыл бұрын

    Before I came to the US my first visa was denied because the consul had a bad day too and without looking at my paperwork he said that "I didn't have enough connection to my home country to leave it and be expected to return." Praying for you guys as you face this obstacle.

  • @janicebates817
    @janicebates817 Жыл бұрын

    You guys have me crying in this video. I'll be saying prayers for your family. Hope you get the visa business done. Love your attitudes and faith. God says he won't give you more than what you can handle, and when one door closes, he'll open another one for you. So be strong, determined, and have faith. God is sooo good.!!

  • @claravonessen5673
    @claravonessen5673 Жыл бұрын

    Just bravo, what an attitude!!!! So proud of you as a family. Hold on! It's so worth it! The closing of this chapter is so inspiring!!!!!!

  • @ingebjrgulstein7342

    @ingebjrgulstein7342

    Жыл бұрын

  • @l.glucid9077
    @l.glucid9077 Жыл бұрын

    Wishing you steadfastness & joy on your journey 🙂 keep your heads up, better days are coming!

  • @lizcoleman5229
    @lizcoleman5229 Жыл бұрын

    Wow! I'm so sorry that your visa was denied! But in the end everything will work out. I'm glad you're not giving up. Nothing in life comes easy; you just have to not lose faith!

  • @mags1958uk
    @mags1958uk Жыл бұрын

    It is such a pleasure to watch your videos. No matter what gets thrown at you, you always get through it with positivity and grace. You deserve all you strive to achieve. Happy birthday Heather.

  • @gigi-jeff
    @gigi-jeff Жыл бұрын

    Mi dispiace 😢 we’ve been through this… it’s very challenging but it’s possible to overcome! The story you told with the wrong person at the window unfortunately is a familiar one… I wish your attorney was with you as it may have made a difference… but we’re glad of your positive attitude it can overcome anything if you have the energy for it! ❤

  • @user-vq1gz4bv2l
    @user-vq1gz4bv2l Жыл бұрын

    How frustrating, but you guys have such an upbeat attitude towards it all by not letting this setback defeat you. Hopefully there will be better news soon.

  • @jenniferherman8807
    @jenniferherman8807 Жыл бұрын

    My ❤ is with you & your struggles! It seems everything everywhere is such a challenge these days! You guys are so hardworking & of so much benefit to your new region! I hope you find the right people & relief you need soon!

  • @tiffcat1100
    @tiffcat1100 Жыл бұрын

    Awwww, I feel gutted for you but have huge admiration for your courage & determination & feel it’s a lesson for we viewers. What backbone & wisdom you have! Happy belated birthday Heather! ❤🎉❤

  • @carmenmorello3315
    @carmenmorello3315 Жыл бұрын

    It’s amazing how someone that is having a bad day especially in that agents position can rune someone’s hopes and dreams.Your family has been working hard to restore a part of italy . Hang in there keep fighting for your love of Italy .We are all wishing that this situation can be taken care of soon. 🇨🇦

  • @tanschi8449

    @tanschi8449

    Жыл бұрын

    Every foreigner has to go through a visa process before thinking they deserve to live in a certain country, it's not the agents whim, it's the law. Blaming the agent instead of accepting that sometimes things don't go your way is a bad way to view things. They are not "restoring" part of italy, they bought a ruin and and are trying to make it a livable home. They have to wait and do things properly, just like everybody else. There are countries where you are not even considered if you don't speak at least an intermediate level of the native language.

  • @RicardoM24
    @RicardoM24 Жыл бұрын

    I move from Mexico to Canada and after 3 years I’m still in the process of getting my Permanent Residence and I completely identify with your feeling and it really helps all the actitud about this hole situation because is just mentally and emotionally exhausting best wishes

  • @robyoung9968
    @robyoung9968 Жыл бұрын

    Reading the comments we all respect this homesteading , this bump in the road as you call it, shows your determination, you show a lot of strength and positive attitude . I just recently began watching and am amazed at all the hard work involved. I love that your girls are experiencing this journey and learning hard work will make it all worth it. This is a new beginning for you all and I hope you may continue building what you have begun. We all love a happy ending and we hope you will be blessed. You’re such great folks and I feel the love…

  • @lyndamorgan5221
    @lyndamorgan5221 Жыл бұрын

    Our daughter, son in law and 4 grandchildren moved to Australia 9 years ago it took 2yrs + prior to that to sort everything out. Take a day/ problem at a time it WILL be ok 🙏🥰

  • @albertamontano-difabio4597
    @albertamontano-difabio4597 Жыл бұрын

    The comments made at the end about facing adversity were beautifully spoken and inspirational. I will pass your words to my children, my grandchildren and colleagues. They are words to live by. You are right - you will pursue and this will be another chapter in the book of your life. Thank you.

  • @AnnieWarbux

    @AnnieWarbux

    Жыл бұрын

    Americans' Positive Attitude!! It's Golden!👍

  • @hiddenhighland
    @hiddenhighland Жыл бұрын

    Indeed- keep pushing forward. I know very well what you are experiencing- we made a similar journey forming a life in France. A place that is known for the red tape nightmare ;). Whether it was at the beginning (now years and years ago with getting a work visa, which included being denied- then going to the library to photocopy the law and return with that in hand, and force to be accepted) or later on, the very complicated process of citizenship. Yes, many frustrating moments, but beautiful ones too- and now they are woven together to remind us of our complicated path that was worth every moment of effort. We also have 2 children, doing renovation...and indeed we are further along on our path and believe me- it is a beautiful life, more rich for persevering our dreams. We continue to push forward new dreams, and new projects of our life here, that again have obstacles- what an adventure!! :)

  • @emilianovak8536
    @emilianovak85363 ай бұрын

    DO NOT GIVE UP......

  • @snamitas
    @snamitas Жыл бұрын

    More power to you both. Loved your attitude to deal with the situation. Don’t worry, you will get for sure what you have dreamed. Keep going! Hugs to you both!!!

  • @serafinazoda4507
    @serafinazoda4507 Жыл бұрын

    I am an Italian living in New York, it was not easy for me to get the green card here either, I could not leave US FOR A YEAR

  • @katiecanuk2951

    @katiecanuk2951

    Жыл бұрын

    Same for me a 🇨🇦 in USA 3.5 years wait and could not leave the USA for a year whilst visa was in transition

  • @heyitsTonya
    @heyitsTonya Жыл бұрын

    I’m rooting for you guys! Keep going!!!

  • @user-zw8ou4yb1y
    @user-zw8ou4yb1y Жыл бұрын

    So sorry for your setbacks, you guys are great! Love your videos

  • @favoree
    @favoree Жыл бұрын

    I suggest you take an "avvocato" , it may help if you act through a local. But if you applied for a self-employed visa- it is almost impossible to get it, as there is a quota and you need to get work permission as well.

  • @thomasschumacher5362

    @thomasschumacher5362

    Жыл бұрын

    The problem he had was due to using an avocado

  • @sandrineroesch8706

    @sandrineroesch8706

    Жыл бұрын

    Not at all... You can’t just buy a goat barn and believe that just because it has solar panels and a source behind the house,it will Automatically turn into a house with the Status „residential home „... They make unwise and romanticized decisions,that’s the main problem. Can you put a po box on a warehouse in Germany and just live there and even get a visa, as a foreigner?! Find the lawyer who can fix this for you ....

  • @lyriclanguages3780

    @lyriclanguages3780

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thomasschumacher5362 🤣

  • @grahamedwards9492
    @grahamedwards9492 Жыл бұрын

    My wife and I know what you are going through. I am a Brit who moved to the USA for my wife's aging family. Stay strong you are an amazing family.

  • @Matt-to1bi

    @Matt-to1bi

    Жыл бұрын

    You should have just walked across like everyone else.

  • @luamolina
    @luamolina Жыл бұрын

    It’s a great learning experience for your kids. Be calm and go for it!

  • @lgrillo
    @lgrillo Жыл бұрын

    I wish you a positive outcome with your appeal, and want to say how much I've enjoyed watching your videos. Not only is the renovation utterly amazing to watch, the filming, editing, writing and narration of your journey is wonderful. I hope you take the advice of some other commenters and get an immigration attorney to assist you.

  • @angelamicallef2904
    @angelamicallef2904 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry to hear this! They must give a reason for the denial?

  • @armandob.castenelli3525
    @armandob.castenelli3525 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing attitude you two have despite the obstacles. Very happy and proud of you for showing the world how an American is supposed to behave abroad , and not act with arrogance that just because we are from the United States, we are supposed to be entitled to the whole world. Good things comes to those who patiently wait with an outstanding positive attitude. Keep us posted. Love to you all.🙏

  • @DreambigGabriela
    @DreambigGabriela Жыл бұрын

    Deep breath; you have so much working in your favor: youth, strength, determination. Above all you have a dream which no little Italian bureaucrat can touch. We are rooting for you guys, living moments of satisfaction and those of disappointment, with you. As fellow Americans, we admire your hard working, tenacious young family. You make us proud.

  • @maralenaphillips7818
    @maralenaphillips7818 Жыл бұрын

    Praying for you during the hard time if waiting for the appeal. Your resolve is inspiring! Much love to your family!❤

  • @alichakaroun9235
    @alichakaroun9235 Жыл бұрын

    It's sad to hear that, but unfortunately this is also Italy.....if you where in sardinia I probably was able to help you.....never give up, take a vacation with your kid and then keep fighting.

  • @carmenmarialinne2650
    @carmenmarialinne2650 Жыл бұрын

    I would have gotten permanent residency or Visa way before I would purchase any property!!!

  • @davidlogan4329
    @davidlogan4329 Жыл бұрын

    Sending you all much love and support. Continue to be strong together. I wish you so much success in everything you do. Best, David

  • @laz1go286
    @laz1go286 Жыл бұрын

    You gonna get there guys 100%👌 I've been through the same in Australia. Denied-appealed,denied-appealed, denied-court case. Had one of the best lawyers in the country, won the case. 10 years of fighting and finally win at the end. This is how things go if you're a real fighter and believe in yourself. I'm sure you're the same guy's! You will win!!

  • @alidacartagena4875
    @alidacartagena4875 Жыл бұрын

    Send our prayers so you can get the visa. Love your channel and how brave you guys are.❤️

  • @thereseramey7743
    @thereseramey7743 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry that you got the short stick today! Praying that everything works for the good of your family!

  • @charlotteseden9303
    @charlotteseden9303 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry that this has happened. I love your positivity. Keep on fighting and we hope and pray for a miracle.

  • @abinam2255
    @abinam2255 Жыл бұрын

    Kudos to your perseverance and resolve. Stay with it.

  • @TheEmyCap
    @TheEmyCap Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for your great love for my country. Wish you all that as soon as possible you can call Italy "my country" too. Keep going, keep realising your dreams. Un abbraccio a voi tutti 😘

  • @GrandmaLM
    @GrandmaLM Жыл бұрын

    A beautiful message you gifted us Heather. Thank you.

  • @theweatherisaokay4964
    @theweatherisaokay4964 Жыл бұрын

    We all had our bumps in our lives, tiny and huge bumps, but most of the time we went passed through it. Stay strong and wishing your family the best.

  • @andreabiglia8746
    @andreabiglia8746 Жыл бұрын

    Oh no!!!! Doesn't that man watch KZread? Send me the link so he can see it's all the effort they made!!! Maybe he will get excited and give them a visa.... we will continue to accompany them week by week, cheer up!! (from Argentina)