She lost me when she demanded they reach out to real Dr. whose picture was used by the scammers: "I want his input, I want his side of the story". Lady, he has no input nor side of the story. He is blissfully unaware of your personal drama or that you even exist. She thinks just because she fell in love with his picture, the real person owes her some perspective and closure. Lol. Seriously.

@eurobeatking

Жыл бұрын

The exception would be that one video where the Catfished people got a hold of the real Instagram model and had her talk to the guy who was scammed via video-chat (The one who wore the Hustler t-shirt and was spread eagle during the chat) 😅 But yeah in terms of finding the real person and listening to their story: to quote Black Panther "we don't do that here" 😇

@veero8130

Жыл бұрын

Yeah lol I also didn't get why she even brought that up. 😂 like what story? He most likely doesn't give a hoot.

@koreagirl2977

Жыл бұрын

She did not demand anything. You're crazy

@liliacastellanos921

Жыл бұрын

Haha 😄 right ✅️

@sanpossible317

Жыл бұрын

​@@koreagirl2977 but she did...

“I don’t look my age” Honey, yes you do. And that’s ok lol

@smachael07

Жыл бұрын

She looks like a nice-looking 45 year old. I wonder how old she thinks she looks.

@cb664

Жыл бұрын

I'd guess her at mid 30s. She's immature for her age too. Ask her parents for their blessing, and she's 45? seriously???

@jodeeps2287

Жыл бұрын

IMO, she looks older than her age.

@AA4PJM

Жыл бұрын

@@jodeeps2287 Wow thats very bitchy of you to say that. Talk about kick someone when they are down!!

@jodeeps2287

Жыл бұрын

@@AA4PJM Wow, it wasn't meant to “kick anyone when they are down”...it was just my first impression, my comment was kind in comparison to some of the others.

She lost me at “I don’t look my age”….GIRL! Other people are supposed to offer that up, not you. And yes, you do look your age but that’s perfectly fine.

@susanlett9632

7 ай бұрын

She's out there! A melodramatic drama queen who fishes for compliments but I give credit where credit is due. Lady was smart enough to not give away free money

@rhondabarksdale2762

6 ай бұрын

She looks older than 45...

@taliabraver

5 ай бұрын

How does any women work at Home depot and not meet men?

@mimiveggie8653

5 ай бұрын

I thought the same... like, that is extremely conceited lol... not to mention it doesn't mean much, it is pretty subjective.

@kathybrem880

3 ай бұрын

Most of these people are delusional considering their appearance

"I can't videochat for security reasons. Here is a picture of my passport"

Planning a wedding with a man you haven't met or spoken to, is always a good idea...said no one stable..

@TabithaElkins

Жыл бұрын

Believe it or not, my mom and dad were pen-pals in the 1950's. They had never met, and my dad mailed an engagement ring, then took a ship to Germany and married her. They had never met or spoken (maybe on the phone). Weird. But the marriage (which was not easy) lasted more than 20 years, and here I am. Of course, "catfishing" did not exist back then!!!

@missmiss9539

Жыл бұрын

It happens

@FreeRadicals305

Жыл бұрын

@@TabithaElkins That''s a nice story but inexcusable today. Too easy to communicate, now..

@madelainestrubel8198

Жыл бұрын

😆

@JM-ot8ux

Жыл бұрын

@@TabithaElkins It existed back then, just on a smaller scale and conducted through newspaper ads.

The delusion starts at not thinking she looks her age and perpetuates throughout her life apparently.

@caramelkisses8396

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭

@andychow5509

Жыл бұрын

It's a common thing with most of these victims. They describe how the scammer said she was beautiful, and she knew she was, and so on. They all show a high degree of self-confidence that's disconnected from reality. And the number of them who say "I'm very sharp, I can't be fooled" minutes before they explain they had to send steam gift cards so he could eat on the oil rig, and so on. It's fascinating.

@lisazimmerman3123

Жыл бұрын

@@andychow5509 it really is! And sad. 😕

@melindak.21

Жыл бұрын

More like FRIGHTENING!

@KennethD000

Жыл бұрын

She does look her age.

She needs therapy. She is too intense. She doesnt love she is obsessed in a stalker way. I think she is crazier than the scammer.

@itiswhatitis3721

Ай бұрын

😂love this comment

@CatMom63

23 күн бұрын

Agreed. She's absolutely dramatic. It's possible that she's bipolar, as being intense and very animated are traits of that diagnosis.

This lady might've been heartbroken but at least she didn't lose tens of thousands.

The biggest surprise was she had all those contacts on Linked In and then she turned out to be a cashier at Home Depot.

@user-jc8py7dw7r

Жыл бұрын

But she looks young for her age, LOL.

@northgeorgiamom8956

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!!

@InsShogunGage

Жыл бұрын

Lmfao 🤣😆 aw damn, I just realized the irony of that. That's hilarious

@HelloNewMoon

Жыл бұрын

Thats when I felt like she was damn near lookin to get scammed

@Lynn-zx3th

Жыл бұрын

Yes 😂

She does look her age. Her emotional age is a different story.

@bratzboyz

Жыл бұрын

Exactly...well said. She's physically 61, and emotionally 13.

@richardmarez126

Жыл бұрын

@@bratzboyz lol spot on

@MJ1958-Forever

11 ай бұрын

She actually looks older than her age

@sarahblack4864

9 ай бұрын

She looks older than 45. I would have guessed she was between 50-55.

@marym2632

5 ай бұрын

She does not look her age..... She looks older than her actual age

"I missed being with him"! Ummm.... She was never with him. Ever.

@mightymouse1005

19 күн бұрын

I think people miss the IDEA of him and the amount of time he required. Unless its someone im related to or very close to in person, i answer my phone for NOONE....if its family or friends, i know its very important

@SupportSoldiers113

Күн бұрын

Truly I don't understand how can people fall in love without seen that person?

@SupportSoldiers113

Күн бұрын

​@@mightymouse1005 Every woman l spoken don't want to talk over the phone, prefer texting instead of finding out if I'm real or not. Soon l ask to talk they say NO....but later l find out how they have been cheated or lied too....lm done with dating sites and people I'll stay alone.😊 another 24 years

"I've never felt joy like this before" that's sad af 💀

@christinecatt8039

4 ай бұрын

" Never felt joy like this before". That sick, deluded comment says so much about her disturbing mentality.. Sad..😢

@Wft-bu5zc

2 ай бұрын

Seriously has she never been in a relationship ever???

@angiedaniel7996

19 күн бұрын

It’s always about the man makes her happy. These women will never understand that your happiness comes from within yourself

the way she paused expecting a compliment when she said her age 🤣

@aeonaspera

Жыл бұрын

And then after Breanne told her she looked great she went "yeah 😌"

@marymccaffrey48

Жыл бұрын

I noticed that too

@marymccaffrey48

Жыл бұрын

So sorry for this poor deluded lady, wishing her happiness in the future

@jadedelarge8929

Жыл бұрын

Lol, I noticed that. I was taught that if I don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything. That's why I'm not🙄, but...

@tinywalnut6337

Жыл бұрын

45? Yeah, looks about right.

How can you plan a wedding with a man you've never met, who never actually proposed to you?!

@marknewton6984

3 ай бұрын

Duh! Scary😂

@CatMom63

23 күн бұрын

I was wondering the same thing.

Why does she think the real man owes her "his side of the story"? Does she not understand that he is a victim as well?

The way she just came out of nowhere with that "i dont look my age" proclamation really caught me off guard because of how narcissistic it was. Even the little self-satisfied "yeah" after the other woman said she looked great was so annoying. I can't stand people like this who require the validation of others just to function.

@susanlett9632

Жыл бұрын

I couldn't deal with this melodramatic egotistical drama queen for 5 minutes. Feel bad for the scammer. Poor guy

@JenesisX

8 ай бұрын

She IS right. She doesn't look her age. She looks older.

@Alexander_jade

8 ай бұрын

I would pushback to say narcissists don’t need the validation of others. I think this woman would think highly of herself no matter what anyone said to her

@seraxx1973

14 күн бұрын

Breanne: “You look great.” Her: “Yeah 😏”

Her “I don’t look my age, teehee!” reveals exactly why she fell for this. Not only does she look 45, I thought she was 48-50 before she said. She sees something removed from reality when she looks in the mirror.

@jogermaine8600

Жыл бұрын

Also, it’s a personal ick for me that a 45-year-old woman insists someone she wants to marry needs her (70-year-old?) parents’ blessing as though she’s an 18-year-old bride leaving their home. 🤢

@NewLifeFromTheWayofTruth

Жыл бұрын

😂 I was saying the same thing her heart wasn't broken because she didn't have a heart to begin with

@teresaevans4840

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@formerreplygirl3360

Жыл бұрын

Right my mother is 55 and they look about the same she could improve so much if her hair wasn't glued to her head

@ResidentGroupie

Жыл бұрын

I thought she was 60

Why in the hell does this victim want the doctor's side of the story? The doctor doesn't know she exists, literally. And he doesn't owe her anything.

@darcylett486

Жыл бұрын

She is obsessed with the picture

@calliew311

Жыл бұрын

@@darcylett486 ya, that must be it, because nothing else makes any sense.

@darcylett486

Жыл бұрын

@@calliew311 this has to be some new mental illness. Glad I'm too poor to give away free money

@rumham7466

Жыл бұрын

Loopy

@kathybrem880

3 ай бұрын

Kinda scary what one of these ‘victims’ might do-you ever know!

“I don’t look my age” you’re right you look much older 😭

@marknewton6984

3 ай бұрын

Ego. Sad.😢

@callalilly6915

Ай бұрын

Exactly...I thought she was going to say 57 58😮

@susiem44

Ай бұрын

She looks 48 to me.

The scammer got off lightly with this one. She’s nuts!

When Breanne politely said “you look great” and Laurie just said “yeah” and smirked 🙄

@susanlett9632

Жыл бұрын

😆. I give Briann props for not laughing or being speechless

@amirahclark4989

11 ай бұрын

@@ericrivera8410this comment has me dying 🤣

@VladmirPoopN

10 ай бұрын

I bet she finished that sentence with "FOR 45., IT COULD BE WORSE" in her head, lol

@tiahnarodriguez3809

8 ай бұрын

@@susanlett9632 Fr, I would have busted up laughing. I cannot with these delusional people 😂

@tamiz8895

8 ай бұрын

Breanne was very nice about it. The I probably would’ve just paused and moved on with the conversation. Lori said that almost defiantly, like “I look younger, you know it too” lol the denial is strong with this one

Sometimes it’s so difficult to feel sorry for these “victims “. I wouldn’t be surprised if she starts stalking the real Dr. Maercks 😱

@MagesseT1

Жыл бұрын

In this episode of "How I Got My Job," we go to a Miami Plastic Surgeon's office and talk to Lori

@lidialee8801

Жыл бұрын

I would hope the real man blocks if she does try to contact him

@GrimMeNaCe

Жыл бұрын

In what world is she not a "victim"? She's an innocent person who was scammed, she definitely is a "victim", regardless of what opinions you may have of the situation. Anyone can be scammed, no matter if they're young, old or smart. The scammer took advantage of her loneliness to steal money from her, what was done to her was wrong, regardless if you want to feel sorry for her or not which I think she's definitely not losing any sleep over. Also what make's you think she's going to stalk the Dr.? Because she asked to hear a comment from him? Something that Social Cat Fish has done before on their own, which is getting comments from people who have had their photos stolen.

@tmcurly

Жыл бұрын

@DJ if you send money to a person you have never met at 45 years of age that would make you a bit of a weirdo..,

@tmcurly

Жыл бұрын

People are saying she is not a victim because she chose to be delusional. That’s why they are saying she is not a victim. Date like a normal person. Meet in person e.t,.c Not look for rings and wedding dresses for a stranger 😭

I’m 45 and she looks at least 10 years old than me. Can’t get over her continually saying that. She was delusional before she met the scammer.

@IloveCamels335

8 ай бұрын

I just commented the same thing

@rhondabarksdale2762

6 ай бұрын

I agree, totally agree!

@Lucky138able

5 ай бұрын

Well she's a "Christian" so yeah, obviously she's delusional

@kladiam5621

4 ай бұрын

yeah my mom is 47 and looks much younger than her.

@faszikilawang8445

4 ай бұрын

As a Christian, she was born into severe delusion.

That lady is actually unhinged.

Unfortunately, she is the perfect victim: lonely, emotionally vulnerable, a dramatic personality with high self esteem and previous history of failed unfulfilling relationships. Like many others, she embellished the story into the future which gave her that feeling of pleasure, safety, etc. Hope she finds some happiness.

@linalolita1068

Жыл бұрын

I'm was like her and I still unfortunately my trust issues are on the top people are so evil

@tranquility9325

Жыл бұрын

You mean low self esteem.

@alanfalleur6550

Жыл бұрын

@@tranquility9325 Yeah, I see vanity and that's not the same as high self-esteem.

@elianamckee

Жыл бұрын

This poor lady needs therapy. Seriously.

@criticRN

Жыл бұрын

Wonder why there was no one from her church community she could connect.

You don't need a man to define who you are. Being single isn't the worst thing in the world.

@chanel113

Жыл бұрын

It can be the best thing in the world

@jeanprice2514

Жыл бұрын

@@chanel113 agreed

@claudettes9697

Жыл бұрын

Hear! Hear!

@ivanatincher8879

Жыл бұрын

It's ok for a MAN to be single as the alternative is being nagged by some woman but a single WOMAN... eww... she's clearly got problems and needs a man to give her a good seeing to!!!

@truth_hunter

Жыл бұрын

@@ivanatincher8879 I did great single. Living alone isn’t difficult. I think all women should live alone single for awhile. There are so many women that depend on their man to get things done so when they become widows they don’t know how to do anything. That’s not good.

" I don't look my age....(pause) I just turned 45"...and there's the narcissist showing. Hun, you look great. You look exactly your age.

@jacobmartinez5461

7 ай бұрын

Looks 15 years older

@inthelandofmorethansmall7582

7 ай бұрын

My 61 year old Mother looks better than me and I'm 40. This woman not only looks older than my Mom, but older than most 45 yr olds I know. 😢 I wonder who is telling her that she doesn't?

@kathybrem880

3 ай бұрын

She is a plain Jane and DOES look her age

He can send you messages, pictures and videos but can’t call or videochat… Planning wedding with someone whom you never met is next level delusional.

@lorrieoiler1878

9 ай бұрын

I just can't fathom how anyone would do that, and I have seen a few women in these videos do this. I'm honestly curious as to why these people won't try to meet someone local or at least someone relatively close enough that they could realistically meet. When I have done online dating I would stick to a 50 mile radius. That's just me, though; I understand others don't mind traveling further.

I’m sorry but when she said “I don’t look my age, I’m 45” 😳😳😳 who told you you don’t look your age lady? LOL

@ghettoprincess_80

Жыл бұрын

I was really confused by that because she absolutely looks like a woman in her late 40's or early 50's. I think the super heavy foundation and powder she's wearing are settling into the lines in her face making her look older.

@Laudanum-gq3bl

Жыл бұрын

It can be hard to see aging on your own face because it happens so slowly. I think I look younger than I am… until I am around an actual 35-year-old. 🤣 I’m over 50. I look pretty ok for over 50. But I definitely don’t look 35 or 40.

@suetracey3333

Жыл бұрын

I was genuinely surprised when she said she was 45, I honestly thought she was older. She’s an attractive lady who looks her age

@mariusvanc

Жыл бұрын

It's definitely a common theme in these scams; the victims, aside from a variety of issues they're afflicted with, also suffer from some serious delusions about their own looks and attractiveness.

@connieporras194

Жыл бұрын

Lol dreaming

Lori was in love with the idea of being in love. You can’t be in love and want to marry a person you’ve never met!

@jdstep97

2 жыл бұрын

Butterfly Girl, You're right. She was in love with the idea of being in love. I think that's why a lot of women stay in relationships with guys they know in person, guys they have seen and touched. The guy is a jerk, but they create in their minds a scenario of themselves with that person. They dwell on that scenario and not what's actually going down.

@MayorOfMoetown

2 жыл бұрын

Thats not true. I was with my man 5 years before I could meet him( different countries) We were in love the whole time and married when we met.

@snowbird9660

2 жыл бұрын

It wasn’t even a relationship.

@EuleneWages4644

2 жыл бұрын

@@MayorOfMoetown congrats I'm so happy you had a happy ending yes there are good people out there and ofc evil did you guys get to meet face to face within that 5 yrs or not meet once In 5 yrs just curious. 🤗

@Bebedollie

2 жыл бұрын

Very true

A man does not “complete” you... You complete yourself!

@Spiralredd

5 ай бұрын

That's not entirely true for everyone. Some people literally can't feel complete unless they have a partner to love and that's okay

@americarocks1776

5 ай бұрын

Not true. We were made by God to be relational beings and for Men and women to be in a marriage with each other.

@americarocks1776

4 ай бұрын

@@helenscott1541 I just do happen to! The holy Bible is how God speaks to us today and prayer is good at speak to him.

@Kayla-eh5fb

3 ай бұрын

That’s not okay. Unless your a child you should not need anyone to “complete you”. That’s how these people get catfished in the first place

@Mrhankypanky69

2 ай бұрын

This❤

"His side of the story"? Where is this woman's mind.

Whether it’s an online scam or even if you’re physically dating someone for a few weeks/months, once they start asking for money, it’s a BIG Red Flag.

@Gurra88

Жыл бұрын

Anyone asking for money is a red flag. They always say a real man never asks a woman for money but they always fail to mention it goes both ways. Anyone asking you for money whether it's a man or a woman is a red flag

@AimiMondial

Жыл бұрын

@@Gurra88 not always I ask my mom for money sometimes just to buy heels but pay back afterwards 💀💀

@andreflavell3453

Жыл бұрын

For sure

@billmiller3425

Жыл бұрын

When a loser "man" asks for money from a woman, she needs to run like O.J. from the Bundy house!

@Sunshinespeck

Жыл бұрын

Yup! If a man is asking for money… run run run

Romance Scammer Checklist: 1. He or she is out of your league 2. He or she started asking for money $$$ 3. He or she wants gift cards instead of real / actual gifts 4. He or she sends his or her Identification Cards (or other legal documents as proof of legitimacy without being asked) 5. He or she always has a back story with drama and need urgent financial assistance 6. He or she asks money for food 7. He or she asks if you’ve eaten 8. He or she calls you King/Queen, Dear, Hunny, and very poetic (not to mention confesses love early on) 9. He or she won't video chat often (mostly due to a bad internet connection) and will usually refuse to answer phone calls 10. He or she will delay your meet-up for months or worse, years Let me know if I missed other signs. Hope this helps!

@janepappas8990

Жыл бұрын

I had to add ‘babe’- it’s bad enough the scammer uses it but I cringe when I see the other person so quickly and frequently call them ‘babe ‘ in their texts- even 70 year old people!

@Woodman-Spare-that-tree

Жыл бұрын

11. His job is something glamorous that keeps him out of the country, like an oil-rig worker, or government spy, or Diplomat, or Navy Seal, or soldier, or international pilot, or heart surgeon (or brain surgeon), or he manages a diamond mine in Africa.

@serendipity6988

Жыл бұрын

He will call or text daily. He is restricted in what he can do for security reasons.

@MannyIsBallin

Жыл бұрын

They're somehow texting you from a third-world country prison

@tigertalks1567

Жыл бұрын

You forgot the most important one he calls you a queen! That's the dead giveaway

The problem is here is that scammers are getting smarter, victims are getting dumber and dumber

@JudasMaccabeus1

8 ай бұрын

Not really. The scammer said he was on a peace keeping mission in Yemen and proceeded to send her a video of him and his dogs playing around next to a lake. The scammers give these people plenty of opportunities to realize it’s all bullshit but their so deep in fantasy and delusion they lose basic sensibilities.

"My heart plummeted to the pits of the earth" .. histrionic personality disorder.

@aydinl5757

9 ай бұрын

She’s desperate for any man. This is the end result

@susanlett9632

9 ай бұрын

Her heart got ripped out she said. She was over dramatic

@KB-sg7tv

29 күн бұрын

@@susanlett9632She said both

@KB-sg7tv

29 күн бұрын

Good observation

Finally! Someone who DIDN'T give any $$$ !!!! Omg, people. DON'T ever ever send money!

@CatfishedOnline

2 жыл бұрын

NEVER. SEND. MONEY.

@captainricco2777

2 жыл бұрын

@@CatfishedOnline These people are professionals. They can hypnotize a victim with repetitive phrases like honey I love you so much, my grandma is sick and I don't have any money to help her please send me a $100.00 Vanilla card, or, baby I love you but it costs me money for airtime to send you these pictures of me. This is no picnic and when someone is lonely and can't figure out that there is nothing but scamming going on on websites, it's easy to fall victim to the script.

@Luna.3.3.3

2 жыл бұрын

@@JaimeMesChiens I don't recall her saying she sent anything at all. From watching a lot of these stories, all scammers have time if they think they're in for a pay day. I'm sure they're contacting several to-be victims at once. I'm sure she wasn't the target of this scammer

@harleyhawkeye01

2 жыл бұрын

@@JaimeMesChiens if he cheater vs Gay I won't do that . He thought good his mind permit suggest if that okay with anyone : Gay vs Bisexual from sending people money or Amazon cards. They don't move on for love or plans thats lair favor come to people 💰💰

@koreagirl2977

2 жыл бұрын

@@JaimeMesChiens yeah you really need to watch the video and listen and pay attention, rather than putting your own small thinking into it.

When she said she wanted them to reach out to Dr. Merrick wanting his side of the story, you know she fell in love with his image. That she is still hopeful to be connected with the real person behind that image. He doesn’t owe anyone an explanation of being the image. He has his own life, and he’s not obligated to tell any of his side of the story

@darcylett486

Жыл бұрын

I know right! He has no side of the story. He doesn't know you or the scammers He's out there living his best life and doesn't want or need someone obsessing over him

@mariapyrc6862

Жыл бұрын

Yes she definately needed proof that the real doctor wasn't scamming her or that he would fall in love with her as easily as she did with him....

@dessy844

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you.. That's the strange thing about some women on this channel, when the real men came out and told them they had nothing to do with the whole ordeal, one lady was actually go gaga & told the man how much she knew exactly the pores on his face lol.. Like? O god, you loved his image, his foto... He never chat with you. He didn't even know you,Ma'am.

@maryannanderson2213

Жыл бұрын

I don't remember the name and I can't even remember if it was on this show or on Dr. Phil, but I remember one story where they actually (foolishly) allowed the person whose photo had been stolen to appear on the show and the woman who had been scammed started asking him, 'Well, are YOU married?" I cringed for him. He does not need some desperate woman chasing after him hoping to latch on the REAL person behind the scam. You said it exactly right. He had NOTHING to do with this and he is not obligated to tell "his side of the story". There is no "his side of the story." He was just unlucky enough to have some person who lacks conscience, steal his photo.

@ceIIardoor

Жыл бұрын

Hands down this lady stalks him

As soon as they say "my queen", it's game over.

Sometimes I feel bad for these victims, and sometimes they really creep me out and am so sorry that she’s so lonely but good lord she scares me , when she said she was losing her hair and lost all this weight and got so upset of him faking being Christian. She doesn’t deserve to be scammed but she give stalker vibes

@Ashley-ee3hw

8 ай бұрын

Agreed, she’s very intense

@judy18818

6 ай бұрын

She’s definitely the main character of a Lifetime Stalker Movie.

@kathybrem880

3 ай бұрын

She does!

@marknewton6984

3 ай бұрын

She is scary.😮

After having watched a couple of these vids now, im pretty confident to say that the most of these scamming "victims" are complette narcissists!

@jsparrowau

11 ай бұрын

For real. The victims are usally unattractive people, yet don't seem at all surprised that someone half their age and with model good looks falls head over heels in love with them within 2 weeks of meeting online. They just proceed as if this is normal. Completely delusional.

@mynameiseve.1

11 ай бұрын

@@jsparrowau completely🤦‍♂️. But do u notice...96% of the time it's the same kind of person. Narcissistic, self delusional and completely ignorant.

@BlasianBobbi215

10 ай бұрын

This part. I commented this same thing on another one of their videos. Some of these victims are unbelievably shallow people.

@anomoly6414

10 ай бұрын

Yes!

@natsdaley9615

10 ай бұрын

Right 😊

I am too inquisitive for these scammers. I am serious. Just yesterday a guy sent me a message on FB, how he likes me, I was like dude I do not know you. And I played along. He told me that his wife died, he has a three yr old daughter and he is in the military. I told him same here, I am coming on your base to see you tomorrow and spend about five days with you and your daughter. He has not spoken to me since. Ahahahah

@StellaNankya

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sure he was Nigerian 🤣🤣🤣

@sandella11

2 жыл бұрын

Is it coincidence...all of them have wives who passed away? Why do they make up so many stories? I’ve never been scammed. I’ll be 74 soon...but look pretty good...but not looking for anyone. My pets are enough. Single parent, raised my2 girls alone...and helped raise my 5 grandkids, after work...weekends...holidays...etc...I think I’m kinda grateful. Never remarried. I prefer to hang with my non human friends....most adult humans seem to be a bit bat shit crazy. I don’t get any of this. I have very little money left...helped out my family and sooo many shelter dogs/cats. It’s obvious...all these lying catfishers...are looking for money. I don’t go an any dating sites...and glad I don’t. Why don’t the women tell these guys straight up front...that they’re broke. Got no money. Stress the fact....maybe these idiot scammers will leave them alone once they find out the women are barely eking by. It’s just a thought....I bet the scammer wouldn’t waste any more time bothering a poor lady who tells him that she’s struggling financially. 🤷🏼‍♀️🤨

@hellekimery9537

2 жыл бұрын

I’m the same way! Have had three in two days!, they stick out like a sore thumb to me! Lots of compliments, having feelings that can’t possibly be real,I find them nauseating and I just CANT! If you don’t let them in in the first place, and block everyone you don’t know, if approached, they won’t get into your life or finances. A broken heart sucks, but a broken heart and an empty bank account is far worse! Alway listen to those “ back of your head” warnings, they are real, these idiots are scum!

@sygunparchment1707

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed. Hahaha

@myzacky96

2 жыл бұрын

Good one!

I can not stress this enough, guys, run away from this one! She's a basket case.

Funny how the scammed women never fall for truck drivers, cashiers, taxi drivers and so on. It's always the doctor, the engineer working in some project abroad.

She needs intense counseling. This can’t be real

@pancakesyo

2 жыл бұрын

She is very delusional about everything. Even her "I don't look my age" (while preening) Yeah. Yeah she does look her age.

@eaglewinnings8003

2 жыл бұрын

@@pancakesyo why did she even mention that lol? Breanne asked her “how was the topic of marriage brought up and her answer was, “I don’t look my age” and she paused and waited for a compliment from Breanne. It’s like her parents tell her she doesn’t look her age so she goes around and tells everyone.

@rotarydial000

2 жыл бұрын

@@eaglewinnings8003 totally. I think the real deal here is this woman is so self righteous and pious that she thinks God would never let harm come to her because she’s special. People who are mega-mega Christians think really highly of themselves and that bad stuff only happens to “bad” people.

@eaglewinnings8003

2 жыл бұрын

@@rotarydial000 absolutely right. Very sheltered

@TheKickass85

2 жыл бұрын

@@rotarydial000 yeah she thinks sky daddy going to protect her I'm telling you these religious Fanatics are just crazy so in love with Sky Daddy

This lady lives for the drama. When you listen to her language, it's always hyperbole when she's describing her feelings.

@krystal8952

2 жыл бұрын

True

@Campfire30

Жыл бұрын

Yup.

@4legs4paws55

Жыл бұрын

Yeah and it’s not cute at all … she is 45yo not 16

@mariusvanc

Жыл бұрын

Lost 7 pounds in 3 days 🤣🤣🤣no, no you didn't lady

@4legs4paws55

Жыл бұрын

@@mariusvanc also first she lost weights for her wedding and because she was feeling great - than she lost weight and was complaining about it 🤣😂🤣

These people always tell these stories trying to sound as logical as possible, and it always fails, miserably.

She’s right when she says she doesn’t look 45. She looks OLDER

How many times in this 21st century does this same story need to happen before women realize that if a man can't take you out on a date and be right there in front of you, or can't face-time you - he's not real?

@pm2886

2 жыл бұрын

They know. These people are simply trying to buy attention. It's very trashy.

@juliatreharne6664

2 жыл бұрын

So true….

@creativeopinions8250

2 жыл бұрын

@Gypsy yes, totally.

@barbarapalmer8224

2 жыл бұрын

@@pm2886 I don't understand how women in their late 60's and older really believe "drop down dead gorgeous "men would be interested in them.scammers always steal the profile of handsome soldiers etc.These older women can be attractive though.

@tinkerbelle7650

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

First off she DOES look her age (45)... though she looks good she doesn't look like she is in her 20's nor early 30's... this is the same delusion that allowed her to get scammed. She has on rose colored glasses about certain things in her life 🤭 kudos for not sending any money 👏

@OkelloDunkleyDSLRWorkshops

2 жыл бұрын

When she said that I like like ummm... that's not for you to say. She looks all of it!

@eaglewinnings8003

2 жыл бұрын

“She looks good” compared to the other grannies on Social Catfish maybe. In general she’s average at best

@ThePinkPunk86

2 жыл бұрын

I was looking for this comment... like... girl, come on 🤣🤣

@eaglewinnings8003

2 жыл бұрын

@@JaimeMesChiens exactly what I was thinking. I think the only reason she approached Social Catfish was because even though she KNEW he wasn’t real, she was hoping somehow he would be real and remember the incentive Social Catfish gives these “victims” is that if the person is who they really say they are then Social Catfish will help them “do whatever it takes to meet including overcoming financial obstacles”. So she probably asked SC to help with transportation, accommodation and maybe even a rental car if he was real.

@gosiabbw8536

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. She said that “I don’t look my age”….. pause…. “I’m 45” and she was looking for validation.

I can not stop watching this one !!! has anyone noticed that she becomes a little sore when Brianne comes into the picture ? her eyes change shape , like an angry cat , and then she literally start the conversation with "I don't look my age"

@garciajero

Жыл бұрын

Also , she thought she could be the face (Receptionist or Greeter) of a plastic surgery , just another nugget i didn't want to go to waste.

@DarlasusieLett

8 ай бұрын

I caught that too.

When she said she didnt look her age shes 45 I was about be like oh yeah she does look older. Then I realized she was trying to say she felt she looked younger😂😂😂

@jacobmartinez5461

7 ай бұрын

Yep lol. According to her she looks 25 lol

I can't believe she said she wants them to reach out to the Dr. in Miami for his side of the story...lol. What side would he have Lori? He doesn't know anything about this or you. I personally think Lori is hanging on and hoping that the guy she was talking to was actually the real Dr. Mareak, that's why she wants the show to contact him, that, or she's fallen so hard for the photo that she wants to find any reason to get in touch with the guy....lol. He had nothing to do with it Lori, sorry to bust your bubble.

@parthsavyasachi9348

2 жыл бұрын

i was thinking the same

@Gwenx11nb

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah she is still holding on.....geez I have zero sympathy for weak minded people!!

@eaglewinnings8003

2 жыл бұрын

You know millionaire doctors from South Beach have a thing for 50 year old women who work at Home Depot

@eaglewinnings8003

2 жыл бұрын

@@Gwenx11nb the thing that drives me nuts is that they have zero self awareness. This woman’s appearance is like a 4.5-5 out of 10. She works at Home Depot in Canada. Every relationship is give and take. Why would a good looking surgeon from South Beach want to date her? The fact that she says “I don’t really look my age” when she looks exactly her age or maybe even a little older goes to show how delusional she is. These people get themselves in these situations because they want to date out of their league and are incredibly shallow. When you behave like that you deserve what’s coming

@emmel4fun

2 жыл бұрын

@@eaglewinnings8003 Forty-five year old women who don't look their age.

Loneliness is not the problem. Thinking a stranger on the internet is a real person offering real love is the problem.

@monikavarro2020

Жыл бұрын

Agree.

@nodevoutt

7 ай бұрын

Loneliness makes u foolish so scammers prey easier

@daCubanaqt

7 ай бұрын

It’s called limerence. I’m surprised the Catfish team never brings it up.

@marknewton6984

3 ай бұрын

She seems creepy.

"Devout Christians" who place themselves on the moral high ground do not realise how susceptible they are to being ripped off not by people who do not share their faith, but by those who actually say they do. Sad.

Brags about 2K on-line friends, yet doesn't have 1 REAL friend. 🙄🤡

I'm sorry Lori has gone through an emotional upheaval, but when she got asked for money, she was smart enough to search online and realized she'd been played by a scammer. He might have stolen her heart but at least he didn't steal her money. So brave to share her experience and help others recognize the signs if they're going through something similar.

@johniii8147

2 жыл бұрын

Yes at least she had the sense to do that.

@sandyest2821

2 жыл бұрын

Hello I'm talking to someone. I have gave him money. We haven't decided chatted. He

@sandyest2821

2 жыл бұрын

How can you find out whom someone really is

@sandyest2821

2 жыл бұрын

Also my email shows not valid sometimes.

@thelifestyledigs

2 жыл бұрын

@@sandyest2821 Never give money to anyone you haven't met in person. Really if a man can't scrounge up a thousand bucks on his own without hitting up an unknown woman online - he's not the financially responsible man you want to have in your life. He's a scammer!

DO NOT ever contact the people in the stolen photos. They're tired of hearing about it. Trust me, they already know, and their spouses are tired of it too.

@chanel113

2 жыл бұрын

As someone who has a scammer using my photos, I like to know.

@tommy8234

2 жыл бұрын

@@chanel113 Right, but after being contacted a few times every week for several years, it gets annoying.

@chanel113

2 жыл бұрын

@@tommy8234 yeah that would and tbh I wouldn’t want people who fall in love with the scammer pestering me

@that.ll_do_pig

Жыл бұрын

@@chanel113 I would probably make a statement prominent in my bio acknowledging that my pics are being used to scam * in hopes that would thwart some of the messages

@chanel113

Жыл бұрын

@@that.ll_do_pig I deleted my Twitter unfortunately. I tried reporting the scammer profiles and Twitter wouldn’t do anything as my stage name (used on my real Twitter profile) wasn’t the same as my ID (I never share my real name so just go by the stage name. I wish I knew how to hack to see who this was.

The people being scammed are wasting time. Instead of thinking about yourself every second of the day, go out and help real people. Read at a nursing home, befriend the elderly in your area and check on them. Stop being so self centered.

It’s real hard to feel sorry for her . And I find her been very rude .

@Ms.Delphine1204

10 ай бұрын

You can tell she’s a real entitled piece of work

Sixteen years since her broken engagement. That is time enough to learn to be complete. The person she really needs to 'marry' is herself.

@zoe9632

2 жыл бұрын

Or at least start dating yourself again... getting to know & hopefully like yourself.

@tracyshaffer4510

2 жыл бұрын

I agree, all these woman have many insecurities that need to be fixed.

@eaglewinnings8003

2 жыл бұрын

This woman doesn’t seem to be socially adept. She seems incredibly sheltered. She even admitted that it was easy for her to fall in love with anyone who showed a “modicum of care”. Just from watching this video and looking at her facial expressions when she talks it’s obvious that she’s incredibly socially awkward. I agree though. 14 years since her last relationship. I think it’s time to consider the possibility that there might not be a Prince Charming at the end of the road.

@iamcleaver6854

Жыл бұрын

She is a woman - not a man. Finding a partner is their evolutionary priority

@4legs4paws55

Жыл бұрын

@@iamcleaver6854 yeah and I am sure you still live in a cave and hunt your food with bare hands … love men who lecture on evolution and cave men mentality while on the internet using their smartphones

This woman highlighted something I didn't realize until listening to how she explained HER emotional state of mind, of how a fantasy is what she was creating, not an actual relationship. And because of that, ultimately, these romance stories are spun by the women themselves - not the scammer! The scamming thief just knits together what she's spun, and markets the product for profit. All of these stories are of the victim's creation, all are things she fantasizes or desires, the scammer simply puts himself (as a photo) in front of her, and it's off to the races! And in the grand scheme of things, he really doesn't have to do much of anything at all, she's the one guiding him directly to the point he needs to be, in order for him to steal. Pretty slick.

@caramelkisses8396

Жыл бұрын

That's a great observation and perspective!

@ceIIardoor

Жыл бұрын

Yes!

@tamielizabethallaway2413

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! That's why I've always said they're not actually vulnerable in the truest sense of the word. They're not scared of relationships or intimidated by men like REAL vulnerable women are. They're actually quite entitled and feel they deserve this fantasy relationship. Very egotistical. If some gorgeous man (like the stolen profile pictures always tend be) started pursuing me online...my first thought would be... "Why me though? " 🤔 Because there are far better looking women than me out there. I'm not ugly, but I'm not a 10 either! To look like this woman, and not doubt for a second that this successful, rich, doctor chose HER above thousands of other women on dating sites, takes some ego! We can all whip up a fantasy relationship in our minds, but then we'd say, "no point even thinking about that because life isn't like that!"

@bratzboyz

Жыл бұрын

I completely agree with your comment, it's like when you go buy a 'new' car, you know you're going to get scammed right-out-of-your-butt by a salesman, but you still do it...because you just HAVE TO HAVE THAT SHINY NEW CAR...right! It's not the salesman's fault, you put yourself right on that 'hot' seat.😅🤣😂

@tamielizabethallaway2413

Жыл бұрын

@@bratzboyz yeah except in her case, she didn't get to sit on anything hot or shiny....but still paid for the ride! 😂🤣😅

All these women saying they don't look their age. She does. She looks 45 to 50.

Why did she demand to see the Dr. and want his input?? I hope she wasn’t thinking they were going to find this doctor and he would fall madly in love with her. Lady really?? She truly believes in that motto she has on her wall 🙄

If a supposedly-Caucasian male that you've never met texts you "hello my queen," be suspicious. Let me be clear: there is nothing wrong whatsoever with a man calling a woman his queen, and I am not racist. But I have never in my life heard a white man call a woman his queen. It's just a cultural thing that's more prevalent in men of color. The point is that the scammer showed his hand without meaning to, by saying something that the man he was pretending to be probably wouldn't have said.

@sensimania

2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right! White guys don't usually tend to use that term. You might have the odd few who do use it (due to cultural differences), but it isnt common for those who were born and raised in the US or UK.

@kimmcpadden5371

2 жыл бұрын

Hello my queen pure Nigeria talk ,my friend going out with one and my queen this my queen that..... when the woman 90 years of age ,two teeth in her mouth and the 40 year old man saying your so beautiful my love.....if they say my love or MC queen run

@randommusings4957

2 жыл бұрын

Lol! 😆

@Gurra88

2 жыл бұрын

Over using the word "dear" too. Not to mention the weird grammar and not being able to do video calls. Being in the military. Working overseas. Red flags!!! ❌❌❌

@wardiya3arbiya

2 жыл бұрын

Very true. It is also cringe to call someone King, and to be caller Queen. We beheaded those here in Europe, well most of them

I give her credit for doing her homework before sending the money! Great Job Lori, and sorry for the emotional roller-coaster he put You through. One day at a time. 💝

@jdstep97

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, the emotional roller coaster can be just as bad as losing money.

@koreagirl2977

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sure she appreciates the kind words.

@koreagirl2977

2 жыл бұрын

@@littlebit5146 you know what a romance scam actually is? There's no suing anybody. Because they're using fake profiles and stolen pictures.

@Rose-uf2ys

2 жыл бұрын

I am really proud that you did follow your heart and research your fear. There are a lot of heartlessness user out there. Stay strong

@mariantreber8055

2 жыл бұрын

DON'T follow your heart. Use your head! Your heart is only going to get you in trouble. You MUST use your head.

I think therapy would help most of these victims, but with her I feel it would really help a lot. She was having her hair fall out because she was 'away' from a dude she had never met. She stopped eating because a dude she had never met turned out to be lying to her. She thinks the dude whose pictures were stolen has closure for her. And overall she comes across as incredibly anxious.

@susanlett9632

Жыл бұрын

Melodramatic too. Maybe she should write harlequin romance novels. I'm being serious

She can't see how a Christian can be a scammer? You're telling me, you can't picture ONE Christian, scamming someone for money???

These women are so delusional “ I don’t look my age “ I’m sorry hun, yes, yes you do! 🤦🏼‍♀️

@christa7773

2 жыл бұрын

Seriously! And when the interviewer (awkwardly) replies "uh...you look great," she just chuckles to herself says, "yeah." SO CRINGE.

@11Christys11

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed! That made me cringe as well

@bunnyboo6295

2 жыл бұрын

I remember chatting with a cashier that looked to be in her 50s told me she must look really young because people mistake her as a teen LOL maybe the bubbly upbeat Personity

@ra_8072

2 жыл бұрын

😆omg

@mandyedwards6729

2 жыл бұрын

.Those scammers play on the vulnerabilities and insecurities of woman of a certain age.. I remember my mum over 40 years ago feeling anxious about getting old and I wasnt very sympathetic as a teenager Im afraid. I didnt understand but I do now. Im fortunate in that after losing my mobility after a spinal injury the colour of my hair or whiteness of my teeth mattered far less than the hearts of the people around me. We live in a society where looks suoercede every other personal quality. After my own struggles I met a range of responses to disability to those who avoided me or held low expectations of me to souls able to unconditionally accept my limitations which I found far more beautiful than appearances.They are a rare breed indeed but when you come across one its changes everything. Their refusal to condemn or judge others by their looks or imperfections spreads far more joy and contentment than surface beauty.ever could. We come in all shapes and sizes and skin colours but share one critical component ....our ability to love. When more souls choose to love with compassion there will be far less need for older or less than perfect souls like me to feel they can only be accepted when they look good. .

I was a tiny bit worried that the lady that was scammed might go on to stalk the real doctor - it was the way she asked about him.

@hellooutthere8956

2 жыл бұрын

LMAO. I felt tht too. I think they did too. Her whole expression chgs when they said they don't do tht. They respect the person's privacy. She didn't seem happy Abt tht.

@bummyhoboman

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah she referred to contacting him with a level of entitlement that indicated she's either delusional or hasn't grasped how he actually fits into (and doesn't fit into) this equation

@eaglewinnings8003

2 жыл бұрын

Even if she did what do you think the likelihood is that the guy in the pictures, Dr Maereck, is actually talking to her?

@Aprilforevergreen

2 жыл бұрын

@@eaglewinnings8003 there is a fake Dr and a real Dr. It's a case of identity theft. The team found the real life doctor and spoke to him in hope of convincing the lady that she has been talking to a scammer, not the real Dr. Unfortunately, it seems the lady is somewhat delusional and there's a sense she may stalk the real Dr, despite the fact that he is not the person she has been communicating with. It's as though she can't accept reality.

@eaglewinnings8003

2 жыл бұрын

@@Aprilforevergreen yes, I know. I watched the episode. The lady is a weirdo but my point is that even if she approaches and talks to the real doctor it’s not like he’s actually going to talk back.

“I don’t look my age.” Dramatic pause “I just turned 45” I thought she was going to say she was 58 or something 😅

@ambibambi7154

10 ай бұрын

Seriously! Like I think I dont look my age. I am 33. But I dont think I look much younger. Maybe like 30? But I wouldn't say that online for everyone to see. How awkward

@amyomeara2515

10 ай бұрын

I wasn’t sure if she meant she looks older or what. What a weird thing to say.

When she said she didn’t look her age, that comment didn't lend any logic to the answer to the question she was asked. Seemed like fishing for a compliment...

So basically she would tell him she had a bad day, and he would send her some live love laugh inspirational crap and that's love?

@franniepan

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, they always say that their connection was so deep but when you look at the messages they're sending each other, you'll see how shallow it is. You could probably get the same responses from an AI messenger.

@bakielh229

5 ай бұрын

@@franniepan I swear these women are the female version of incel guys who get a plastic doll "girlfriend", they wouldn't appreciate or coexist with a real human man that doesn't exist only as a virtual delusion to satisfy their narcissism. It's not an issue of loneliness despite it being presented that way.

@christinecatt8039

4 ай бұрын

In her delusional mind..yes. it is love.. Sad. Isn't it.🤔

Who wants to bet that she reached out to Dr. Merrick with in 24 hours after talking to catfish? I bet he’s got a “side of the story” now.🙂

@caramelkisses8396

Жыл бұрын

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😭😭😭😭

@Peaceshiet812

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

@ceIIardoor

Жыл бұрын

💯 She's a nutter

@mexxicokitty

Жыл бұрын

He probably just ignored it..probably wasn't the first time

@bratzboyz

Жыл бұрын

Heck...I hope he gets a restraining order against her, just in case.

One word for these people - Therapy. Lots of intense therapy.

@christinecatt8039

4 ай бұрын

Face it...some women enjoy the mindless illusion of living in a fantasy world. It's sometimes a lot easier to live with, than the reality that they are officially old, and what used to be referred to as being an 'old maid' . Life can be cruel..yet most of us accept old age gracefully... Other (narssisists) fight it to the bitter end.🤔

Thanks to finding a small KZreadr with curly hair and glasses doing commentary for this show, I've now binge watched 28 episodes over the last few days and still going!😅

No proposal from a guy you’ve never met, but you call him your “fiancé?” How does THAT work??!!!

@marknewton6984

3 ай бұрын

Never met? Fiance? Scary.

I have seen here more than once the "victims" wish to hear from the real person their side of the story, like they owe them any explanation. Please wake up!!!

@clwhite1127

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe they think if they can just meet him that he will really like them and their dreams will come true.

@eaglewinnings8003

2 жыл бұрын

that’s exactly what she’s thinking. That somehow in her dream world the real guy will feel the same way she does. Maybe she knows telekinesis. What a nutty woman.

@pinrod1

Жыл бұрын

I had a similar thought. She really wanted to get in contact with the man who had his picture stolen. I'm glad these requests are not fulfilled.

@esmereldapinchon1422

Жыл бұрын

This man owes her nothing. His photos got stolen. She should understand that he has nothing at all to do with this.

@bratzboyz

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, no body owes them anything...THEY.GOT.SCAMMED, end of the story.

How you gonna get engaged to someone you've never even met in person? People are WILD.

What makes these people vulnerable to scams is cognitive dissonance

@Moonhart44

11 ай бұрын

They seem to be narcissistic. Like they really see themselves in the same level as these people physically

@deborahstrand

9 ай бұрын

I believe you mean confirmation bias. This is not cognitive dissonance

@marknewton6984

3 ай бұрын

Yes. Dementia...

I always find the "victims" unreasonable when they want to contact the real person that the scammers used the identity. Like he doesn't know you, he has his own life and the other person's a victim too.

So this poor woman thought the real doctor in Miami would want to go on this show and explain “his side of the story” ?

@lucyw.7597

2 жыл бұрын

Its very arrogant! He has no 'side' to his story, he has no story, her tone of voice when she said that is almost accusatory, as if she thinks he owes her something...or she will invent some non existent relationship with him instead..she's different to a lot of the other victims ive seen on here, and other places...she is completely delusional from the beginning, talking of going to miami, to a new job etc...complete fantasy..i imagine this is whats hindered her meeting anyone real..i can see her turning into a clinging fantasist the minute anyone shows any interest in her.

@sarac.9678

2 жыл бұрын

She is one of the most delusional I've ever seen on KZread. I understand loneliness can mess up someone's head, but people need to be down to earth. If they can't be physically with someone that is not a relationship, let alone an engagement. 🤦‍♀️

@clwhite1127

2 жыл бұрын

Probably has entire collections of romance novels…

@Nelly1013

2 жыл бұрын

It's pure entitlement mentality and a lack of humility

@darcylett486

Жыл бұрын

He has no side. She's delusional

"I dont look my age." Nope. You look OLDER 😬😂🤣

That sign behind her is funny. Become what you believe.

I can't stop watching these videos even though they are literally all the same. The only thing that changes are the faces and the amounts of money!😱

@Poohtle

Жыл бұрын

Me too. Some are more outlandish than others. Oh dear, the oil rig has blown up and we need your money to fix it, thanks but now pirates are attacking us, please send more money. Lol

@jeanettewaverly2590

Жыл бұрын

I’m hooked too. I guess it’s better than wasting my time texting gorgeous oil rig workers with frozen bank accounts.

@ladydontekno

Жыл бұрын

At least this time the amount of money sent was zero.

@bratzboyz

Жыл бұрын

@@jeanettewaverly2590 Absolutely...definitely better than paying a 'leave-fee' for some 'military' doctor or soldier!

@claudiajeanpierre3098

11 ай бұрын

Facts

Someone need to stop telling her she don't look 45.

@nineteenfortyeight6762

2 жыл бұрын

Scammers tell her.

@terryjeffery6418

2 жыл бұрын

@@nineteenfortyeight6762 and she beileve it lol..

@charlenekelley7268

2 жыл бұрын

I agree

@duchess_of_petty9323

2 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing. LOL. “I don’t look my age”. No sweetie, you look older

@KT_571

2 жыл бұрын

No kidding! She's delusional!😂 She's obviously seeing something else in the mirror that the rest of the viewers don't see!

Lori, you were so smart to Google the information regarding whether or not you were responsible for paying for your fiancee's leave from the military. I don't understand how people can fall for that! When you are in the military, travel is covered. So is insurance, food, and most everything else! Good for you! However, I am so sorry that this scammer broke your heart. I pray that you meet someone loving and wonderful that is deserving of you. God bless you.

I believe this woman is the single most 'bossy' woman yet. The absolutely and nearly 'violent' power-demands she makes are actually worrisome. I can easily believe she has already been in criminal levels of Stalking and as other's have pointed out already - she will start stalking the real life Dr. Maersk demanding (nearly with violent authority) demanding he does something about this.

@HippieJoe

11 ай бұрын

she's honestly such a creep. I'm not surprised at all that she's still single. I'd feel so uncomfortable with a person like that. sometimes I feel like the scammers actually deserve money for having to put up with such weird people.

In her mind she actually believed this man that she never met was going to propose to her in front of her parents omg....that sign in the back of her explains it all

When they don't want to video chat, RUN

@johniii8147

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, that's common sense. You see the same thing even just for a local hook up. They are hiding something if not willing or claiming they can not. It's online dating 101

@Traceishere

2 жыл бұрын

NOT NECESSARILY i HATE DOING VIDEO CHATS WITH ANYONE even family, there are all the other red flags

@mickeymousey1239

2 жыл бұрын

@@Traceishere yes necessarily it's the truth, if they dont want to videochat they are scammers, this is red flag no. 1

@mickeymousey1239

2 жыл бұрын

online dating requires getting to know someone, if they are too shy to do that then i would go the other way they are too shy to be sociable with other people too

@johniii8147

2 жыл бұрын

@@mickeymousey1239 That or they are just amusing themselves or trying to scam you. It's usually not a "shy" issue if they are serious

When he said " Hello my queen" that was a clue right there! 🤔

I mean, I am 2 years older than her, and I think she looks 45. She's in the deluded thoughts he fed her. She could be 85 and he would tell her she looks 40. She is very dramatic and catastrophic. This is an image of a man you thought was being honest with you, you are not going to die from not marrying a scammer who you never met. I mean I get the loss, but at some point, you have to pick up the pieces and step into reality. She's lost more time than anything else. She is sad over the man she wishes he was, but the time she's lost in this crazy fantasy world along with this time she's spending justifying all of her behavior in this as a willing participant, is all time she will never get back. That's when you really have to be your self coach and tell yourself you have to step into reality and unplug from this tech drama. Wanting this innocent guy's side of the story is another delusion. He doesn't owe you a thing, you put yourself in this mess, it's not up to anyone to clean up your mistakes but you. Period. It's pretty audacious to allege he owes anyone anything. He owes himself privacy protection if he so chooses.

It's not a relationship if you haven't met the person . It's delusion.

@Ast151

2 жыл бұрын

we all grew up on the Sinderella's story, unfortunately some of us never matured

@Mel-jy4kc

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ast151 Cinderella met Prince Charming BEFORE falling in love with him.

@inidavies9469

Жыл бұрын

@@JaimeMesChiens your points are very valid. However, the permission for marriage regardless of age is a culture thing with Christianity and some family centric cultures

@marknewton6984

3 ай бұрын

Online hahaha😂

"I could work as a greeter in his plastic surgery practice." This isn't Wal-Mart.

@SuV33358

Жыл бұрын

Lmao

@Amanita23

Жыл бұрын

".... I don't look My age". Oh You look Great.

@tranquility9325

Жыл бұрын

Yall have to stop making me laugh my puppy is trying to sleep lol

@eugeniaruggiero5451

3 сағат бұрын

😂😂😂😂

It's very possible for a doctor to fall for a Home Depot cashier, but she would be like 19 and look like a supermodel.

@susanlett9632

Жыл бұрын

I'm a home health nurse and in a serious relationship with a retired optometrist. I'm definitely NOT a supermodel. I'm 53 and he's 71. An age difference. But we truly love one another but we met in person and got to know one another first

"I don't look my age."😅😅 Oh honey but you most certainly do.

She said “I don’t look my age, I just turned 45.” You do look your age you delusional woman, yes you do.

@3TravelBloggers

9 ай бұрын

I actually thought early 50s...

@IloveCamels335

8 ай бұрын

@@3TravelBloggers Yep. We are the same age and I thought she is at least 10 years older than me. Probably I am delusional as well when it comes to looking my age haha

@marknewton6984

3 ай бұрын

Hahahaha!!

I've noticed that all of these victims have such a positive open-minded personality full of hope; it's these traits that scammers are looking to exploit. A scammer would never waste their time with a cynical, sarcastic, pessimistic, jaded woman like myself.

@BeKindToEveryKind295

2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha me too!! Ignorance IS bliss

@grinicha5078

2 жыл бұрын

yes but ,most of the victims who fall for this shit are in reality unstable and dellusional,this lady doesnt need even to get online to search for love,she can meet someone closed to her area,because she looks nice,and for sure a doctor,scientist,army officer,oil platform worker they dont search for love online.everybody should know that.

@joeygrey9878

2 жыл бұрын

Heather you sound great to me. I am of the same personality!

@nineteenfortyeight6762

2 жыл бұрын

No, they are narcissists. They can't get enough flattery from people who know them and aren't trying to get their money. So they go along with the scams.

@lenitaa7938

2 жыл бұрын

@@grinicha5078 People working on ships, etc do go online, looking for love, etc! They get lonely also.. But asking for money is another territory, reserved for scammers..

“I don't look my age” she’s right, I thought she was 50 and she’s only 45, she looks older

Is sad to see how some people just don't have self love, and associate happiness with someone else