“If somebody wants you, they will come get you!” 💯

@ogechukwuokpala9607

6 ай бұрын

Word!

@cayennesinivassinel6977

5 ай бұрын

And does everyone want to be married? I don't want to be....

@LadeijahsCreations

5 ай бұрын

AMEN! 🙌

@deniseneal1751

4 ай бұрын

My Father's FAVORITE QUOTE!!😎👍

@tiarabrown2990

Ай бұрын

I doooo

This the first woman on a public platform who has mentioned femininity that I didn’t role my eyes at. I felt her!

@atlantasfaithsmom

Жыл бұрын

I rolled my eyes. Lol. I do like her hair.

@idanceintherain5657

Жыл бұрын

April is the truth. I know her personally. She is great at what she does and her receipts show that her teachings work. Love her! So glad her talk resonated with you. She is amazing.

@Regina.Clarke

Жыл бұрын

She is a genius! I have only seen 2 women approach this in a logical way that we can take away and apply without some crazy manipulative tactic.

@michellecoleman1508

Жыл бұрын

I must've been under a rock, never heard of April. I truly enjoyed this session. Her energy/personality is infectious; reminds me of myself. I love it! She was spot on with everything she stated. Keep love alive my dear sisters!

@EmmaneTheCreated

Жыл бұрын

I saw the title and rolled my eyes lol but hey thanks to this comment I might give a listen xD

THE POWER OF WOMEN! ! ! It is amazing that there is still little talk about the book Womens magic truths on borlest, that book improved my self-confidence and taught me how to be a stronger woman, a warm recommendation :)

Divorced women have wisdom through trauma and can teach you a lot about life and avoiding red flags.

@Didshefeedyou

7 ай бұрын

This is precisely why I share my story! Having a failed marriage is a huge lesson in life.

@mstwelvedeadlycyns

6 ай бұрын

Very true. So can Widows.

@chinneynz7861

4 ай бұрын

@@Didshefeedyou If only young women would listen.

@ImmersedInGod

3 ай бұрын

💯

@frankieavila9119

4 күн бұрын

@@Didshefeedyou yes! After a divorce it’s hard to lock in because marriage is sacred. I’m relating I’ve lost myself in my work and raising my kids I’m not connected to the femininity side it’s dormant.

I got married 5 months ago. No sex in 20 yrs. Nevered lowered my standards. I listened to Wifey podcast for 2 yrs that helped me 100%. I waited on God. I Developed intowho I knew God said I was.

@fearthelord3327

Жыл бұрын

I pray you have a successful marriage.

@queenep

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations Queen!!!! Mrs!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼

@KiyokoHairston

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for that testimony. I’ve been abstinent for 16 years and I need to hear some good news 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤ lawd don’t let it be much longer 😂😂😂

@shareenladd1048

Жыл бұрын

This is the comment! Yes yes yes! Congrats 🥰

@patbone8046

Жыл бұрын

​@@KiyokoHairstonSo am I, after my divorce I decided that am going to abstain from sex until I meet the man that is of God, love the Lord & working towards making himself & the world better. I pray that you meet the man you have asked God for! Blessings & God favor always!!

What makes me valuable: 1. I’m kind 2. Honest 3. Loyal 4. Nurturing 5. Humorous 6. Thoughtful 7. Creative and ambitious

@rekanova3757

Жыл бұрын

Quality traits sis ❤

@ceethwyd

Жыл бұрын

You're valuable because God made you with value!

@ftb7055

Жыл бұрын

Awesome

@Zebraz0317

Жыл бұрын

​@nicole9261 and 8) because God made me to have value, therefore I am valuable.

@girlbrittneygirl

Жыл бұрын

That is what women are by nature! So you have value period! The should not be why a man should marry. You are not the one going after the man. The man is coming to you. It’s their nature! You have value regardless of who you are individually. Men only see your vagina is value or you being a wife(slave) a valuable. Men are deficient in nature! They have no value! So the question should be what value does a man have for him to be in your presence?

“There’s nothing sexier than a man’s presence that heals.” 🔥🔥 Woooo chile

Come on, April! A "man is much more than his wallet," and a busy man that gives you his time, that's the man you should be paying attention to." Time is extremely valuable, and when it's given without hesitation that's priceless.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@atlantasfaithsmom

Жыл бұрын

Agreed with that point!

@cdickersonwhitfield

Жыл бұрын

Facts! I don't play with my time either. If I give it, you know I'm feeling you.

@tmed362

Жыл бұрын

😂😂 1:02:38 He is just Befuddled😂 the question was ... "difference between ready to be a business partner and ready to be a wife."

@CELESTIALBEAUTY

Жыл бұрын

❤777

@syckindahead

Жыл бұрын

🎯

I was apart of April’s 1 “Teach Me How to Date” academy and I am going on 2 years of wedded bliss because I listened!!!!

@Realness4sho

Жыл бұрын

Beautiful 💜

@LaKae444

Жыл бұрын

Whheettt? Let me sign up 😂

@jr9941

Жыл бұрын

Congrats! ❤

@atlantasfaithsmom

Жыл бұрын

And you're related to her, right?? 🤣

@NavigatingSinglehood

Жыл бұрын

congratulations

April Mason is the truth. I started with her 28 days of self love. That got me all the way together. Then I joined her dating academy and it was 🔥 I got married 6 months ago all because I listened ❤

@NurseTrice

Жыл бұрын

Where can I find that book?

@ManifestWithRose

Жыл бұрын

Does she still have the 28 days of self love?

@Melamoney05

Жыл бұрын

May send us the link I’m highly interested

@jessicascott.83

Жыл бұрын

This is a fantastic testimony! I asked my husband questions before we got married and I really listened to his answers and now we’re 2 years married this coming July 9th! Listening is so valuable.

@atlantasfaithsmom

Жыл бұрын

How do you and others not know that you would have gotten married anyway? 😒

Great Nugget of Wisdom from April on how to deal with situation! 1. Assess the Situation 2. Accept the Reality 3. Decide how you will move forward

@qbackus

10 ай бұрын

Best part!

@Lovelifebeautiful1143

7 ай бұрын

That’s what I’ve always done… at an early age i would get in trouble for it by my father, only because I was self aware even as a kid and he couldn’t manipulate me and I fought back from his abuse. Men didn’t like it either when they would try to play me.

@theechynadahl_nujourney3482

6 ай бұрын

Absolutely! You define the outcome you want for you. What others continue to do is their issue.

@brownsugah93

5 ай бұрын

LISTENNNNN!!! I have listened to this podcasts a few times.

Laterras & April are PRIME example of WHY platonic relationships are important! They flow, they listen, they laugh, they disagree and learn from one in another in love. This is a friendship worth keeping even after they both get married to their respective spouses.

@justjenny581

Жыл бұрын

You can have all that too with your partner, as a base of your relationship.

@YesItsFoxxyy

Жыл бұрын

Who is laterras?

@tariqmom

Жыл бұрын

@@YesItsFoxxyy the host

@eighlaffenwright1036

Жыл бұрын

Platonic male/female relationships go left ALL THE TIME. Men accept platonic relationships with women who they desire, in hopes of one day getting lucky. Laterras is highly attracted to April's feminine energy. I thought he made that abundantly clear. You see his excited reaction when she puts it on. He thinks she's out of his league, but he also has questions about her that give him pause. Plus, she already made clear that she's looking for men in a certain $ bracket. Another thing that gives him pause. He'd have a relationship with her but after peeling back the layers and discovering who she is, he would not marry her either.

@IvyElizabeth918

11 ай бұрын

@@eighlaffenwright1036great points

Exactly! You don't know you're healed until that healing is tested. If you're alone, you feel healed because you don't have to deal with the triggers. You won't know you're healed until that trigger doesn't trigger you anymore. You can only figure this out by being in a relationship.

@jenicebrown1564

Жыл бұрын

Period

@kjordan911

Жыл бұрын

ABSOLUTELY 💯

@tamrenee4394

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!

@Rose-fe9jc

Жыл бұрын

So true and powerful. Relationships are the venues that reveal and gauge our emotional health and healing.

@natashashere

Жыл бұрын

Bingo!!!!

Ladies. Be you. Be who you are. You are enough, just as you are. Have firm boundaries. If someone makes you feel bad, kick em out. If someone makes you feel good, let them in. That's all you need to do.

@lcjones4682

Жыл бұрын

Yes. It’s really simple.

Thank you so much for saying women will naturally submit to a real masculine energy! Hallelujah!❤

@denisebrown3217

Жыл бұрын

This is so true. I try to tell men this all the time. You don’t have to be Controlling to have CONTROL. If the women is in her right mind no drama she will naturally submit because it’s in us to do it but only for the right man. Submissiveness means you fell safe to let down your guard. A woman no longer feels the need to be defensive. She trust her man.

@gwendolynlewis5655

Жыл бұрын

Some will...

@daughteroftheking01

Жыл бұрын

@@gwendolynlewis5655great point because I think some people will zoom in so closely into what April said that they miss the point and begin pointing fingers at men- “see, you’re just not masculine enough for me to be feminine” When she also said being feminine doesn’t require a man. It’s not FOR him so we should be feminine regardless to how masculine he is.

@justinkredible79

3 ай бұрын

I'm writing this comment before watching the video, but passed off these responses. The "I'll submit when I find a masculine man" part. A woman should be feminine from the start. A man can't say ill be a masculine man when I find a feminine woman. That shxt ain't something you can turn on and off. No one can turn it on and off. It's either in you or it aint, for both parties.

What makes me valuable? 1. I’m kind on purpose 2.I’m passionate 3. I’m constructive 4.I’m diligent 5. I’m weird 6. I’m silly 7.I’m compassionate 8.I’m tender 9. I’m gracious 10.I’m strong

When April mason said sexual abuse I felt that. Especially when you are a curvy black young lady at a very young age. They don’t see you as a little girl they see you as a sex symbol. Even my own pastor sexually abuse harass me. I was fully develop by the age of 12. It didn’t matter how much clothes my mom put on me I would still get harrassed. Accused of sleeping around when I was a virgin because of my looks

@asiamwithraenetteleepodcast

Жыл бұрын

So sad that men are this sexually perverted that all they see woman and girls are sex symbols

@sunflowersoul821

Жыл бұрын

Yep, I know what you mean.💯💯💯

@bdraytod5748

Жыл бұрын

I experienced something similar. I was never seen as a little girl. I was told I wasn't a virgin when I was.

@faithtvonline

Жыл бұрын

So sorry you had to experience that. ❤️ I pray you are well and full of joy now. And if you're not, that God cultivates that in you.

@juwanbyers3401

Жыл бұрын

Hope you able to heal. That's crazy to hear.

As a young person in her early 20's I appreciated the genuine conversation, but most importantly I love the fact that she represented what timeless femininity looks like.

".. do we leave a love legacy?" This is such a profound question... I agree that we need to leave a HEALTHY example of love in relationships for generations to come.

@Dr.Thandi

Жыл бұрын

This got me

@jameenaelsauko6073

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@tanyacarlyle1422

Жыл бұрын

I loved this too!

This is exhausting. I absolutely love this exchange. It’s exhausting because the women who were not raised to be wives are so misunderstood. I feel like I have to erase everything I’ve accomplished through my pain to be accepted. And before anyone asks…. Yes, I’m in therapy. Thank you for doing Gods work, sir.

@msedna8664

Жыл бұрын

Elaborate on “women who were not raised to be wives”. That got me wondering what you mean cause it’s sorta ambiguous

@TheAshlwat

Жыл бұрын

@@msedna8664 Nice to meet you! My mother was very young when she had me. She taught me how to work. She never had healthy relationships until recent. I’m not a barbarian. I treat others as I want to be treated. My mother just didn’t teach because she didn’t know.

@deebrown3832

Жыл бұрын

​@@TheAshlwatRight! Being a woman and a wife is not synonymous. You have to be taught!!!!!

@LasBlackUnicrn

Жыл бұрын

This this this!!

@nicolesmith4312

Жыл бұрын

Sis!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i cant lie, ive been married a year now and implementing her advice that i heard in my single season definitely helped me being a wife today! She definitely drops gems

@aprilmasontv

Жыл бұрын

YAAAAS!!

This platform is saving marriages AND individual lives!!! My husband and I are eternaly GRATEFUL for your obedience Thank you Man of God you're an amazing vessel. #27yearsNholding

@DearFutureWifey

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much

@reneegardner8109

Жыл бұрын

9T❤😊

@Realness4sho

Жыл бұрын

💯✅🥰

@mwaseandrew6748

9 ай бұрын

You should watch Don and Phaedra Johnson interview ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

She’s so WISE! So GIFTED! So CALLED So ANOINTED for such a time as this! 🙏🏽 I could listen to Miss A+ all day & all night long!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

I'm watching the party when you told April she was pimping based on her responses to men. She said why does her kindness mean she wants you romantically, that's the thing for me. Many men take kindness the wrong way and if you don't accept their advances they call you stuck up. I've also been told I'm flirtatious, but I'm just being kind.

With respect! As mental health therapist, I encourage by people to voice what they need instead of playing games of guessing and manipulation.

@imanii4u

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Sahara Omar.

@cdickersonwhitfield

Жыл бұрын

Straight up!!! 💯

@rakeshamurray5603

Жыл бұрын

👏

@tid8583

Жыл бұрын

❤

@SweetestNya

Жыл бұрын

Facts!! Omg! Human beings are not mind readers. 🙄

Ms. April's hair stylist is the bomb! Everybody can't wear short hair. 😊❤

At the 19 minute segment, I know EXACTLY what she means about not wanting to be seen. As a survivor of sexual abuse, it makes you not want to seen, you like grow into yourself. Because being seen, may mean being victimized again and you don't feel safe. I was told I have a beautiful singing voice but because of my trauma, it takes a will to get me to stand up in front of people and sing. And still at 47, I do not like public speaking and this is a huge reason why.

@alishadennis7769

11 ай бұрын

May GOD BLESS 🙏 HEAL 💖 🌞 AND RESTORE YOU TO EVEN BETTER THAN NEW 🆕 & STRONG WITH WISDOM IN LIFES JOURNEY. GET GOD'S BEST FOR YOUR LIFE HEART, MIND SPIRIT BODY PURPOSE LIFE 🧬 & VISION WITH PLANS TO TRUST GOD'S GUIDANCE & GO FORWARD. YOU CAN HELP & BLESS & TOUCH SOME PEOPLE IN A WAY THATS ESPECIALLY EFFECTIVE IN THE WAY YOU & YIUR ONE OF A KIND SELF CAN DO WITH THE LORD'S HOLY SPIRIT & 💘🙏 & HIS HEALING LOVE FLOWING THRU YOU !!! YOU ARE NEEDED, WANTED & THE POWER OF GOD 💪🙏🌹😅 👑 NEEDS TI FLOW THRU YOU !!! I PRAY THE BOLDNESS & HOLY FIRE 🔥 OF GOD 🙏😅 RISES UP IN YOU TO BE HEALED & Walk OUT YOUR LIFES PURPOSE JOURNEY WITHOUT THE HOLD BACK OR ANY FEAR & NO MORE DISRUPTION FROM YOUR VICTORY 🙌 GOALS & FULFILLMENT AND PURPOSE . GETTING RIGHT THERAPY & PREPARING & PRACTICE & TRAINING WILL HELP WITH PRAYERS OF FAITH LOVE, IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME 🙏 😅💪 🕊️ 📖 💕 I PRAY ,AMEN 🌹 🙏 !!! SPEAK THE WORD OF GOD & POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS TO YOUR SELF DAILY AS WELL - GET ENERGIZED FOR YOUR BLESSINGS NOW 🌹 💝!!!! BIG HUGS 🤗🤗 TO YOU , AMEN 🙏!!!!!!

@Moment_of_Zen

10 ай бұрын

It's sad that this is this common! At age 40, I still won't dress up or get my hair done unless there's an event, and will wear tennis shoes or keep my tomboyish appearance at the forefront for the same exact reason. I've long ago knew I don't like to be "seen" but I don't know what to do to change this thinking. I'm struggling now because they want me to participate more in meetings etc. I rather have one on one's or send emails.

@christianams8734

7 ай бұрын

This, all of this. I too am 47 and relate completely to what you have written. ❤ scared to be seen because of who will see you and what they will do 😢

@faithwisdom788

4 ай бұрын

​@@Moment_of_Zenask for prayers from Christians!

@LionessTee

2 ай бұрын

🫂 you’re healed

Masculine energy is just as important as feminine energy. It's about balance not about burying one side. So embrace both. Both energies play critical roles in our lives.

@shamarclay1575

5 ай бұрын

Yup I agree, I’m doing this very thing

“Why isn’t she married?” is a valid question because it’s less about validating her advice (which I believe is good) but it actually speaks to how scarce the dating scene is for black women. You can be a great woman and do all the things, and be willing and ready for marriage yet still not be chosen by these men. And I see THIS EVERYDAY!

@winniejean-pierre9605

Жыл бұрын

I second that!

@l.t.3857

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! Not to mention all the spiritual warfare some women have to go through before they are even ready for marriage, fighting all kinds of generational curses in their bloodlines that they did not know about for years. This is not a one-size-fits-all thing. It’s very different for everyone. By the way, I think this ongoing debate about femininity is so bogus. There is very little that some people can do to change the essence of who they are… femininity means different things to different people. For instance, some cultures would not consider this woman, April, to be feminine. There are also some men who prefer less feminine women. Be who you are, within reason, and you will attract the right people into your life, at the right time. This “faking it till you make it” approach to getting married will only get you so far. You may get married, but will you be able to maintain that fake persona to stay married?

@MT-hk9cp

Жыл бұрын

Have you ever considered that she maybe she didn't want to be married during this time? I view her regularly, and recently, she said she is opening herself to being in a relationship

@cgray5025

Жыл бұрын

@@l.t.3857 Right. I know women whom most would consider masculine and happily married. Be who you are.

@pietabeasley6549

Жыл бұрын

She isn’t married bc she wasn’t ready to remarry. She poured most of her time into her businesses and creating a legacy for the Mason name. She hasn’t experienced any type of lack when it comes to men and dating. She has displayed and been open about her dating life especially to those in her dating academy. She recently announced she’s now ready to remarry. Her daughter is taking the reigns in the business to give her the time she desires for herself and what she feels the man she’ll marry deserves.

Hurt people hurt people! Feminity is when you are Vulnerable, Honest and Genuine. 🌸

@bellapashan1641

5 ай бұрын

Vulnerable? Why vulnerable? You mean submissive and meek?

She again confirms my understanding, the enemy tries very hard to traumatize you so much when you are young because he knows if you are damaged in those specific area you can never rise to your divine calling.

My mom told me I use to say at the age of 4 years old, “I bring you love.” With open arms whenever someone was upset. I thought that was so cute. ❤ Actually I still do that, I don’t like seeing people in pain.

@DearFutureWifey

Жыл бұрын

I love that

@thebravebird

Жыл бұрын

you're a gift!!!

@itsshayla

Жыл бұрын

That’s beautiful ❤

@Keystounlock6560

Жыл бұрын

Gorgeous🎉

As someone who has been following Ms. April Mason for three years, I’m a witness to the power of femininity she teaches. It’s not manipulative; it’s taking ownership of WHO we were designed to BE before we were stripped of our nature. I love being the Queen & the Princess. 😊 Wisdom comes from various sources. Those of us with an ear to hear & the heart to listen are benefiting from her knowledge. #ATF

@kristalrivers714

Жыл бұрын

Beautifully articulated

@Dr.Thandi

Жыл бұрын

Did you take her class?

@kayfleming5180

Жыл бұрын

@@Dr.Thandi I attended two of April’s trainings and I’m a member of The All Things Feminine Social Club. I haven’t attended any classes.

@lovelyone2121

Жыл бұрын

Is she currently married?

@kayfleming5180

Жыл бұрын

@@lovelyone2121She is not currently married (as far as we know), but she has been married. Paul was not a married man, yet he was purposed to write the Biblical blueprint for marriage. GOD uses his people as needed, regardless of status and title. 😉

Yes, to Laterras' question at the 17-minute mark, repeated sexual abuse/violation/rape is 100% spiritual. It can even be attached to a bloodline and be passed on from parents to children when it's not dealt with. Get a deliverance minister or teacher to sit on that couch. I knew EXACTLY what she meant when she said "she didn't want to be seen." Currently working through that myself, now.

@thokozanimkhize7617

Жыл бұрын

Me too and it also goes back to being sexually abused/groomed/assaulted

@jamiemariejo3582

Жыл бұрын

I was looking for this comment.. sexual abuse and generational curses (bloodline) are no joke. I’m so proud of her being able to triumph over her abuse…Amen 🙌🏾🙏🏾

@NYCAppl3

Жыл бұрын

🙌🏾

@LadyAyoola

Жыл бұрын

This is the comment I was looking for before I said the same thing. It is definitely spiritual and people who were victims are “marked” which could lead to similar spirits on others drawing to said person to repeat the same pattern of abuse. Deliverance is key 🙏🏾

@NYCAppl3

Жыл бұрын

@@LadyAyoola straight facts 💯

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

@peterwilliams6361

Жыл бұрын

@EmilioYepez7 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

@peterwilliams6361

Жыл бұрын

@EmilioYepez7 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

@Dr.Elaine1

Жыл бұрын

I just heard someone say, sometimes when we do all we can, it’s not always the things the other person wants us to do. So, I ask, what does she want you to do to get her back?

@Lilas_lilas

6 ай бұрын

Scam artists thread

@agathaunoma6980

4 ай бұрын

Did you marry her? Five years is a long time to date a lady.

It hit home when April said she was hiding behind her brand 😢. I didn’t even know I needed this ❤

As I tuned in I found myself Saying" She exemplifies such Poise and Grace with a Unique Settleness of Boldness and Confidence with Self Assuredness. She really displayed the Balance of a Feminity through her choice of words as well as her eagerness to ensure her audience understands the message as she gave thought and reflection of her journey of self discovery and Love. Lady April you have my Respect. Thank you I enjoyed.✍️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💃

Being in this finding your feminine journey is a journey it's not a 6 weeks process. Been on the journey for the last 4 years and I'm married but I'm finding out there is levels to this and it starts with God centered love.

This episode, re-affirmed that I'm on the right track. Basking in my femininity. ❤😊

@CoachKhara

Жыл бұрын

Yes honey… basking in mine for the 1st time and it feels lovely..

@ahsamone7691

Жыл бұрын

Me Too

" I am the temperature".... 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Love that! She dropped some very informative information here for me to use out in these dating streets!

April Mason is the Goat! Love her and her content. She’s amazing! I started my femininity journey 2 years ago because of her. After years In the Military I had become hard. She helped me reveal my true self again ❤

What makes me valuable? I am Resourceful, Peaceful, Legacy builder, Nurturing, Honest, Respectful and Loving. I am a woman who knows how to be a woman

@Leeohlin89

11 ай бұрын

🙏🏼❤️

As a single woman, this episode is for me. Thank you Laterras. God bless you and I can't wait to see you get married to your future wifey🎉🎉🎉

Ms. April Mason changed my life ❤️Been following her teaching for years!!!

@aprilmasontv

Жыл бұрын

I appreciate your years of support!

@MT-hk9cp

Жыл бұрын

​@April Mason I broke my finger clicking on this video because you are the truth!

When a child experience trauma without the means to resolve it, they end up magnetizing similar experiences . For some children, they don’t talk about it but it remains active in their vibration. Some children manage to talk about it but if the talking about it does not help them to process, it becomes an identity. That too will magnetize similar experiences . Normalizing conversations that give permission to truth will help children especially to separate experiences from who they are. ❤️. Kudos to you for showing up for YOURSELF

@aliciasandy2042

Жыл бұрын

Thank you. I always wondered about that.

I know who I am! Kind! Empathetic! Grounded! Understanding! Evolving! Full of love ❤! I love my feminine energyyyyy ❤! I have been listening to feminine videos from other people first hearing this from a black woman ❤! Happy to hear this! I think it’s good to be strong and vulnerable ❤! This is why I appreciate how Esther spoke to her husband ❤!

2:06:51 I’m so glad that April shared this piece; This is one of the main reasons why I believe that so many people are single because they don’t know who they are beyond the physical, body, sex tricks, degrees, what society says they are and etc….No internal depth at all.

@SexologYnclusive

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

It’s not manipulation, it’s marketing. Marketing is communicating value. Some marketing reps use manipulation, others simply use wisdom. Admirable marketers know how to appeal to their audience to not only get what they want, but to also serve a need, genuinely. Everybody wins.❤

@MT-hk9cp

Жыл бұрын

Just like religion...

@roka2031

Жыл бұрын

@@MT-hk9cp I think it is manipulation. But, it's ok

I just love her answer about the gynecologist. That was fire 🔥 ❤

@drcarolyncummings2977

Жыл бұрын

False analogy...

@XxMercuriiXx

Жыл бұрын

@@drcarolyncummings2977expand more ….

Awesome topic of Femininity! Please get Michelle McKinney Hammond in for a part 2, as she has written MULTIPLE books on the subject.

I want to appreciate this podcast for all the information and learning I have gotten. Before even listening to this episode, I just want to say the lessons are bitter sweet. Yes, I did stop dating because l want marriage, a husband not a boyfriend. Seven months later, l am building my inner self, my career and l have never been so focused in life. The bitter part is how open my eyes have become. I see a player a mile away. I see a man's true intention before he speaks and it's scary. It's a journey. I have faith in the process. I have faith in God and may He bless this podcast.

@Lovelifebeautiful1143

7 ай бұрын

I hear you sis. Grateful for discernment… it’s a blessing… most women I knew didn’t have it. It’s kept me out of certain situations. The right one will come. ✝️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

April's experience with the older gymrat gentleman was so hilarious 😂 Love her ❤ great conversation.

GIRL!!!!! You are speaking my language… I would NEVER agree to a 50/50 split. Or any other split… I wholeheartedly agree with giving men the privilege to be real men… Provide and protect… 💯💯💯

This interview was awesome. April was so on point with the wisdom she shared. It is easy for us as women to lose sight of our feminine essence, when life “hardens” us, but we must get back to who God created us to be. Well done!

And Laterrus, please do not shy away from her offer. She may be that bridge you need to find your purpose partner! 💛💛💛

I appreciate this episode so much. Having been raised by a (wonderful) single dad, there are certain feminine lessons that I simply did not learn as a child. April hit the nail on the head about the importance of women being able to identify who we are, outside of our accomplishments. Degrees and businesses are great, but a home and a life are built from a woman's heart, mind and character. Wonderful episode! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

This is just overwhelming confirmation that I’ve healed and me resting in my femininity and how I operate as a wife is absolutely right…I was just with the wrong person. At my core I’m a wife and a large part of my purpose. Thank you LW for your podcast and I just thank God He has used you to help so many and myself! 😭 My dad instilled feminine values in me at a very young age. I had 19 years of instruction from a man POV and I’m grateful for that time.

@heavensmith4415

Жыл бұрын

Sis!! All of this!! My husband tells me I’m not, but when I rest in my feminine energy, he can’t get ANYTHING done! So I know I’m doing the right thing for possibly the wrong man

Her red and black says it all. Energy is powerful. We are spiritual beings. Great show Thanks

I’ll be 68 in a few weeks so hopefully it’s not too late to tap into my feminine energy. I seek knowledge daily so that I do better than I did the day before. I’m helpful generous resourceful loving forgiving loyal always allowing Jesus to grow me into his image.

I love April Mason! She putting women on!!! If the woman is open to listen and hear! #Femininity

If you really think about it God has prepared each of us for marriage. Before we enter into marriage, we have relationships with our parents, siblings, friends, etc. These relationships should be honored and respected. If you can’t sacrifice your time in these relationships and be obedient to your parents first, then marriage will be difficult. You can’t enter into a marriage with a selfish heart.

@cocoblessings

Жыл бұрын

Very true!

@psyks6665

Жыл бұрын

So so true, it's about the relationship you currently have. How does one maintain them.

@lelabrooks04

Жыл бұрын

That only speak to healthy relationships in one up bringing. Some men and women were exposed to lethal, trauma based relationships.

@LavidaLovesCoils

Жыл бұрын

So good! This is something I talk to my friends and clients about. My son, family, and clients are important and I will at least get a B+ evaluation (I’m certain that I’m being modest). I'm not sure if men value the fruit of those relationships outside of themselves.

@Mindsetolympics

Жыл бұрын

Somebody agrees with me!!! Yay family and friend connections always prepare you!

Oh my God! Such a great interview👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 So many 💎! I have no problem telling my age because I don’t look my age! Walking in my femininity and vulnerability is better for my soul. My daughters are learning from me how to be women. I was raised in Russia and by my single dad (my mum died when I was 13yo). I didn’t have the opportunity to know how real women are operating. God bless y’all for this🙏🏾 Sending love from Alkebulan🙌🏾

This woman is amazing, true feminine strength especially having experienced so much childhood trauma

This interview is so insightful! One would "think" as a women, we should already know these things. However, FOR ME...I was taken aback and somewhat embarrassed by the fact I didn't...BUT I do now and will dig deeper in understanding more about MY "true" femininity. Go Ms. April...this is the real TEA❤ Love this!!!

@ExpensiveFemininity

Жыл бұрын

Omgoodness same here!

This woman is so natural, i just flow with whatever she says, she is authentic , she know herself and her satandards, what is for her and what is not, so charming and alluring and she dosnot even know! I just bought her IDENTITY SWITCH book from Amazon. Thanks for interviewing her 💝💝

Oh wow this was what I needed. My femininity has been has been misplaced with the wrong men. That feeling when you get around a true Alpha male is so epic. I want to tap into my femininity more. I don't want to be so strong to protect myself. Awesome podcast!!

I love her explanation of her take of the 80/20 rule... well said... the beauty of knowing who you are and what you want & need

Even scripturally alot of what we study and know about marriage was given by revelation to an UNMARRIED man,Paul😉

@aprilmasontv

Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!!!! They don't hear you!!! 💯💯💯💯

@iSurrendHer

Жыл бұрын

Bars‼️

@landi777

Жыл бұрын

True, but lets not minimize the fact that Paul was an Apostle and prophet who had a personal encounter with Jesus on the road to Damascus, performed miracles, wrote 2/3 of the NT under divine inspiration and received divine revelation from God. Paul was by no means a "regular" umarried man!

@shayla3020

Жыл бұрын

FACTS! THE POINT WAS TO EMPHASIZE THAT NO ONE SHOULD SHADE OR CRITICIZE APRIL FOR BEING SINGLE AND GIVING RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE ADVICE😊

@Happey67

Жыл бұрын

We truly don't know if Paul was married then divorced or widowed. The Bible does not speak much of Paul before the conversion.

Ive listened to April for years, ive used so many things she says and realized being feminine has to be INTENTIONAL then it becomes second nature❤

I'm grateful to have an understanding of love. My parents displayed it openly in the most pure way.

This touched on so many things, like what a true high value man is, how a girl or woman acts when she's been abused, how to deal with triggers, trauma bonding, being in ur femininity and how to talk to ur man..... there are so many gems in this.. whew chile keep it going!!!!!!!!

This is by far one of the best episodes posted…. Miss April is really authentic in digging out the ingredients that make a woman tick. May she prosper beyond her widest dream and have a God ordained king to share her wealth of knowledge & understanding with. Blessings.

Femininity is the first 🔑 for a woman to learn & trust herself. It's the way to a man's ❤ !! April is the truth & has a great logic in relationships, not just for women but for men also that value their relationships.

I was waiting for April to answer the question about who she is. ☹️ Some ppl need examples of that type of answer. But it was refreshing to hear her say that femininity isn’t what we’re being sold and it isn’t about getting a man. I love that.

April is someone I find relateable. I've showed witty banter and friendliness and it's taken incorrectly. My co-workers thought I was flirting just because I said someone smelled good. 🤦‍♀️ That's not even a pick line, it was a compliment. If I'd said it to a woman they wouldn't say I'm flirting.

This was very enlightening! Independent, self-sufficient until I was 50. Wanted to be able to "take the pants off" and have a husband who leads. Married now and realizing the transition was not as easy as I thought it would be. But I now I see that I haven't allowed myself to walk in my femininity with my husband, because I've had to be my own protector for so long. Will definitely start focusing on that because he deserves it, and so do I.

@ExistentialGardening

Жыл бұрын

Same! Going on this journey while married is difficult

@shesvirtuous

Жыл бұрын

​@@ExistentialGardeningsame here

@IamMandyPoo

5 ай бұрын

I felt this!

I'm so glad April touched on sexual assault, you don't realize how many have been down this road and how it'll affect you later in life, it is so sad I'm 51 years old and never been married I feel like this has impacted my life in such a way that I didn't even realize it, Lord just help me heal and get through this, and allow someone special to love me and I am able to reciprocate that love back 💞🙏🏽

@SexologYnclusive

Жыл бұрын

🙏🏽❤️

@thebravebird

Жыл бұрын

you will heal, God heals the broken hearted and binds their wounds. I'm excited for what God will do for you and all of us who trust Him with healing from something so awful.

@sandrapollard2541

Жыл бұрын

@@thebravebird thank you,I believe and receive it❤️

@michelemcmillan904

Жыл бұрын

I stand and agree with you for your healing. It’s also funny that April mentioned that she leans backwards when people get to close to her personal space that I realize I do the same thing and I’m glad she helped me figure it out ❤

@sandrapollard2541

Жыл бұрын

@@michelemcmillan904 wow!! Right exactly , thank you Queen, you just never know how it's affecting you.. I'm so glad you're on your healing journey as well🙏🏼🙌🫶

My ability to nurture, empower, support the ones I love. My ability to stand out or fade in the background at will. My integrity and the fact that I do not weponize my feminity and I know my worth. I know how to stand in it without overpowering. Everyone will not be complimentary and that is ok.

first time hearing of this woman and I am infatuated. The knowledge and gems she is dropping reassures me in the way I choose to carry myself, especially after heartbreak. Looking forward to just being a great woman(whatever that entails for me) and love.

I love Ms April Mason, she is always dropping gems and diamonds💎. She helped me so much become feminine and continue to walk in my femininity. She is the truth to help woman heal from their past traumas that cause them to not exudes their feminine energy. Thank you Laterras for this amazing podcast. Your podcasts are truly a blessing to me.

“I don’t want to be seen.” That statement there convicted me so much!

Im glad you stopped and showed compassion towards her regarding her childhood molestation. She was going to just push pass it. That was beyond needed and Im glad she received the kindness from you. God is Great abd he is a God of Restoration!!

That part about men who claim that woman aren't submissive enough, is because a MAN does not provide that security!!! I am SOOOOO tired of hearing black men trash black women for not being submissive, they need to hear this! April Mason is an intuitive woman to say, "I feel that energy"- hunny!

I’ve been following April Mason for many many years now. So Happy to finally see her on this platform sharing all things feminine. She is the best at it!

Love me some Ms. April Mason! Her work has changed my entire life.

This episode was sooo good to me!!! Very informative. I took NOTES like cazy. I will be revisiting this episode this weekend as a refresher!!! BRING HER BACK!!

Thank you Ms. April! If you want something different, you have to become something different! I have been living in masculine energy soooo long it seemed impossible for me to ever walk in femininity. On my healing journey I've realized it's my time. I love this Podcast!.

Great conversation! I've just begun to feel like I'm living in my feminine at 36. It took therapy and listening in while taking notes from folks like ya'll. Got remarried in April. We have a partnership, and love that wasn't possible for me before. I see so much more the value men and women bring in their true form.

Please listen, take notes,save and share this episode! Ms. April Mason dropped so many nuggets. Answered and revealed so much for me👐🏽👏🏽👍🏽🙏🏽

Great interview/conversation! Thank you Laterras for these amazing conversations with amazing insightful people. I have been divorced for many years; most divorced people I talk to say “I’ll never get married again”. I’ve never said that, because I respect & love marriage so much I’m looking forward to meeting & locking eyes with my future husband, the man I will share life with. Because of your podcast I’m intentional about being the best person I can be now so when we’re married we will be the best we can be together. Don’t listen to the people who say you’re not intentional about a relationship because of your platform!! I can hear in your voice & see in your eyes…you’re ready for marriage & to draw a red line through “future” wife! Honestly your podcast is for singles & couples❤ I pray you & your wife find each other 🙏🏿🙏🏿

This was great! Lots of good gems sprinkled in. You are correct. People always get mad with me when I say I’m a woman, I’m a mother, don’t tell me happy father’s day.

This was a wonderful video. I did want to add this in reference to trauma bonds. Trauma bonding doesn't mean forming a bond with someone based on your shared trauma/experiences but thats what pop culture has turned the definition into. Trauma bonding is a psychological response to abuse. It occurs when the abused person forms a connection or relationship with the person who abuses them.

I had not heard of Ms. Mason until now and I absolutely love her! Thank you for the advice Ms. Mason. I will definitely check out your classes. Thank you Dear Future Wifey for bringing her onto your platform. 💓

Love this! She has some good insights that took me until now (50) to learn. There’s a lot we’re taught that works against us as women.

It’s so refreshing to see a woman speak this way to an audience. I totally agree with 99.99% of what she is saying!! My marriage goals are all up and through here

Laterras, April is on point!! In our foundational and formative years (0-6), when a person experiences trauma, especially sexual trauma, you lose your autonomy and you are groomed to believe that you don't have the rights to disagree with the people who they are entrusted to. This is how children who experience sexual violations at such young ages become a recidivist of the abuse. Essentially, in the spiritual Realm it is like you're wearing a neon sign on your forehead saying, " I won't put up a fight. " or " I don't know I'm worthy of better." Or "I don't have the right to say NO!" Through this abuse and other forms of abuse, children are taught that the maladaptive Behavior is normal and acceptable, especially when it's coming from trusted family or friends of the family. I'm so very proud of April! I have yet to meet a woman who like myself experience and endured that many years at sexual abuse and sexual assault. It was 13 years for me, but like April, I dedicated my adult life to therapy, braking the generational curses, and relearning who I am as a woman; my self worth, that I deserve better, and I have the right to say "NO". People do not get passes in my life to abuse or mistreat me regardless of associations or relations! Kudos April, to being a curse-breaker in your lineage ‼️💖🙌🏽💖 Thank you, brother for always be an amazing vessel for Abba to use for healing and deliverance 🙏🏽💖🙏🏽

Thank you Laterras for having April unpack the sexual abuse. It would be so easy to move past such a sensitive subject

Your shows are long but very entertaining. I never get tired of watching. May God lead you to the wifey of your dream.

I so agree! I can't stand being mad. I pray my future husband feels the same way. It's crazy how much Ms. April and I align in our thinking. I must've been paying attention in our lessons.

This is my first time ever hearing her, and she is something else 😅. I like her thinking process; just purchased her book.

@heavensmith4415

Жыл бұрын

I got the audiobook and I listened to it ALL today!

@sonnykundi

Жыл бұрын

​@@heavensmith4415 what stood out for you in the book?

@marvabailey3710

Жыл бұрын

This is my first time hearing her! I plan to order her book. I believe the Lord has been speaking this word “femininity” to me, so this was very insightful 💐

@natalierussell3606

Жыл бұрын

@@heavensmith4415 hey what’s the name of her book :)

@heavensmith4415

Жыл бұрын

@@sonnykundi mostly the mindset. That part really resonates with me! It was a very easy listen and actually pretty common things that we as women overlook!