"Under The Surface" - Empathy Film

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cinematographer - Austin Wideman
editor - Austin Wideman
contact me - austinwideman.com / austinwideman@gmail.com
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writer - Sam Ayers, Ed. D.
director - Sam Ayers, Ed. D.
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music licensed through - themusicbed.com
"Midnight" by Salomon Ligthelm

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  • @cyclonekatie
    @cyclonekatie10 жыл бұрын

    I'm a high school counselor---and I can tell you that the examples in this video are NOT exaggerated. These are all real life situations that we come across EVERY day.

  • @somebody2254

    @somebody2254

    3 жыл бұрын

    country roads take me home

  • @luucas7762

    @luucas7762

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@somebody2254 lol

  • @yaz2600

    @yaz2600

    2 жыл бұрын

    ratio

  • @jakobe2691

    @jakobe2691

    Жыл бұрын

    We don’t give 2 fucks

  • @kaijacook
    @kaijacook9 жыл бұрын

    No words can describe the emotions this video brings to surface...Imagine a world filled with empathetic people!

  • @anantashrestha4166

    @anantashrestha4166

    4 жыл бұрын

    Such world doesn't work

  • @Paulchen7223

    @Paulchen7223

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ich kenne das von mir persönlich. Ich bin Jhrg 1958 und so gross geworden.

  • @jennifersugg2917
    @jennifersugg29175 жыл бұрын

    I am a high school counselor and this is real life, not exaggerated, every day. Responding instead of reacting...shows the grace and love many need.

  • @kyannawalton7965
    @kyannawalton79653 жыл бұрын

    I was one of the students in this video and I commend Dr. Ayers for bringing these things to light. A principal that knew, loved, and cared about everyone in our school. Glad to see so many have received the message so well!

  • @victoria859

    @victoria859

    Жыл бұрын

    Hugs n Love To You Sweetie. Xo. ☮️

  • @kareemjweaver4081

    @kareemjweaver4081

    11 ай бұрын

    Stay encouraged. You can make it.

  • @hcbychris
    @hcbychris9 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Austin for your assistance in helping me to get the correct file to show this at my church. It was a blessing and an awesome tool in getting people to open up and to understand that we face challenges in our lives but we do not have to be victims of them, that we are not alone in our fight. Also, that we should not be so quick to judge others on the outside not knowing and understanding their experiences that may have shaped who they are. It gave us a look of what's going on beneath the surface. There is more than meets the eye. We all have and put up a facade while things are lurking within. This truly blessed many people in my church. Thank you for sharing.

  • @iiTapeYou
    @iiTapeYou8 жыл бұрын

    It's so difficult hearing people talking about their families in school, and how they go hang out with their friends after school. Than I'm here living with just my mom trying to find a part time job to help save money because she has cancer. This is definitely a video I can relate to on a personal level, beautiful job.

  • @mar8014

    @mar8014

    7 жыл бұрын

    good for you.

  • @em-js3bm

    @em-js3bm

    2 жыл бұрын

    you still alive homie?

  • @skylarno5875

    @skylarno5875

    Жыл бұрын

    @@em-js3bm bro 💀

  • @vanzadts
    @vanzadts5 жыл бұрын

    THIS HAS TO BE ONE OF THE BEST VIDEOS I HAVE EVER SEEN. ALL EDUCATORS MUST SEE IT. THANK YOU AUSTIN!!

  • @chms-debihasson6139
    @chms-debihasson61398 жыл бұрын

    Such a very POWERFUL and moving testament to the point, where you REALLY don't know what a person is feeling, nor thinking, and if you TRULY knew their individual situation/circumstance, how would you approach them, and would your demeanor be that of compassion, as it should be? I for one will take this video to heart, and pass the message along….Austin, THANK YOU so much for allowing us to view and comment on this AMAZING awe inspiring film.

  • @sxnsetsoftiez9373
    @sxnsetsoftiez93734 жыл бұрын

    I'm a 10 year old girl, most people won't read this, but some will. My mom suffered depression and anxiety growing up. She'd sit down and tell me stories of what happened like her parents and stuff, each sentence that came out of her mouth made me feel very sad. My mom works her butt everyday to keep me and my brother happy, and if I don't get what I want, I'm still appreciated to have her on this earth because she's doing bad. I love my mom very much, and this message goes for everyone. Please and I mean please, respect your mother, love her, treat her like she's a newborn baby, because one day she's gonna go and your gonna regret mistreating her.. You guys may not think I'm 10, but I try using good grammar when I do speeches like this. Have a wonderful day and thank you for reading. -Angelina 🖤 Edit: My birthday is on Halloween, Oct. 31! 29 more days until my birthday. 🎉

  • @nickbutnoappropriatelastna4257

    @nickbutnoappropriatelastna4257

    3 жыл бұрын

    Please turn 13 .

  • @Metabrotropic
    @Metabrotropic6 жыл бұрын

    Very powerful, I definitely teared up a lot. I've realized that when I see other people in a negative light, it's really my *own* negativity that I'm experiencing has little to do with how they are as a human. It's important to remember everybody is human, and treat them as such. :)

  • @ellaswizzle5736
    @ellaswizzle57366 жыл бұрын

    Yeah we all go through shit. People are just so damn mean

  • @somebody2254

    @somebody2254

    3 жыл бұрын

    no

  • @ellaswizzle5736

    @ellaswizzle5736

    3 жыл бұрын

    Somebody hm?

  • @wendyzaruba4504
    @wendyzaruba45044 жыл бұрын

    This is a great video, I work in a Juvenile Detention Center, and it's so true every one is going through something and if people only knew.

  • @candicemoates6328
    @candicemoates632810 жыл бұрын

    Amazing video!! I've been showing it to all of my students. So powerful and meaningful :-)

  • @jenniferdromgoole7546
    @jenniferdromgoole754610 жыл бұрын

    POWERFUL! Wanted to cry...so moving, touching, gave me goose bumps. Thank you

  • @KELLYKH
    @KELLYKH4 жыл бұрын

    holy crap, the accuracy in this. Absolutely amazing video.

  • @manzstar2799
    @manzstar279910 жыл бұрын

    This was a very thoughtful, beautiful short clip. Thank you for sharing, it made me cry. Powerful - I felt a wave of empathy for everyone in this clip. Thanks :)

  • @calista910
    @calista9104 жыл бұрын

    wow this video speaks to me. Every person is going through something, it takes a community to end the problems at home. Support anyone you emet and be postive as much as possible.

  • @marklee7014
    @marklee701410 жыл бұрын

    Bravo...simply Bravo. Students...Austin...Mr. Ayers. Your courage is something we haven't seen since...2009.

  • @emoryfaith2009
    @emoryfaith200910 жыл бұрын

    This is a great film!! It makes you think about people. Love them as He loves us!! Great job!!

  • @Jeremy-hz7nq
    @Jeremy-hz7nq3 жыл бұрын

    Was shown this by my teacher last week and the more I look at this, the more I realize how these little things we think about like certain mistakes from the past is nothing compared to what all these other people have to deal with on a day to day basis.

  • @sharonbrewer1956
    @sharonbrewer19564 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely the best video I've seen that really explains what these kids face today.

  • @valleygirlknits
    @valleygirlknits2 жыл бұрын

    So well done. Every one has a story, and is going through something of which you have no idea.

  • @dlw2x2
    @dlw2x210 жыл бұрын

    Great film. Thank you.

  • @MommysLilSquishy
    @MommysLilSquishy10 жыл бұрын

    Love the message being sent! Wish this was around for me as a teen....

  • @maddigator0459
    @maddigator04593 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been through a lot in my life myself and I can relate to a lot of these things but that doesn’t change the way a person feels about what they’ve been through in life.

  • @JTheTeach
    @JTheTeach3 жыл бұрын

    This video makes me cry everytime I see it and Oh gosh, as a teacher I can say this is very real.

  • @deborasmith3637
    @deborasmith36373 жыл бұрын

    Very powerful and insightful. Each of us carry some form of stress while trying to get through life. This brief clip helps remind us of that. Some people may not show it and we may not see it in them. Fact is, we all do in some form that will affect our day, the choices we make, how we will communicate to others, how we do our job, how we perform in school . This is why KINDESS MATTERS.

  • @shirleyjordan7390
    @shirleyjordan73903 жыл бұрын

    My GOD🙏🏾it’s real,being a Cafteria cook,I have spoken to a lot of my babies that have been through those situations,it’s my first time seeing this,I CRIED😢😭😭. I don’t have much,but anyway I could help,come to me.love you all.Cafteria mama 😘

  • @kaylar.4655
    @kaylar.46559 жыл бұрын

    As a young teenage empath myself... It's hard for kids like them. And for adults. And for animals. I've experienced many things as an empath... different emotions... feelings... visions.. We are highly sensitive beings... able to connect with so many others... we are open to the world, as helpers and healers, and protectors. It's complicated to explain.. but then again we are truly complicated beings. I wish I could explain myself now, but maybe when I actually understand everything, including myself, better. As for the video, just seeing kids or adults like that through the eyes of an empath... That empath might know something isn't right... or maybe just "know things". I like it, it's kind of emotional to me. Thanks for it. (:

  • @user-jn7fo8tr1b
    @user-jn7fo8tr1b10 ай бұрын

    During life's struggles we never can imagine what our students encounter when they are not in school. Caring is very important as a teacher.

  • @sandieharbert7708
    @sandieharbert770810 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this everyone needs to watch. This is so true

  • @RAPierce
    @RAPierce7 жыл бұрын

    Powerful. I can't wait to share this with my staff at school. Thank you for doing this...

  • @starwars4929
    @starwars49295 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for making this video. It is 100% true and there are so many more severe things these kids are dealing with. If we could all just keep in mind, everyone has something going on that affects their attitudes or abilities to learn. If we could all just treat each other better.

  • @nacixem1984
    @nacixem198410 жыл бұрын

    ...your a great man Dr. Ayers!

  • @Masterm1nd23
    @Masterm1nd239 ай бұрын

    Thanks for the video. I’m a middle school counselor and showed this to our kids as I’m doing a lesson on empathy. Very powerful!

  • @nimak2505
    @nimak25057 жыл бұрын

    We saw this at homeroom and everyone dropped everything and just starred at the tv, motionless.

  • @aliim185

    @aliim185

    6 жыл бұрын

    Nimak250 sameee. Today 😭

  • @coke8045
    @coke8045 Жыл бұрын

    The whole world needs to see this video.

  • @KimberBold
    @KimberBold10 жыл бұрын

    Wow...great video...I cannot wait to share with mt teen groups...Thank-you for making this available!

  • @dallasmuzikboy
    @dallasmuzikboy10 жыл бұрын

    Love this. Great Film. praying this goes viral. hitting SHARE.

  • @comicsans6961

    @comicsans6961

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @kenwardofphoenixrisingsolu7044
    @kenwardofphoenixrisingsolu704410 жыл бұрын

    Great Short, very moving.

  • @delacersylvester-wicker7494
    @delacersylvester-wicker74944 жыл бұрын

    Awesome Video! I'm a school counselor and I plan on sharing this with my students.

  • @lillodhigu3235
    @lillodhigu3235Ай бұрын

    brought me to tears from start to end

  • @aureliovillalunadiaz9981
    @aureliovillalunadiaz99815 ай бұрын

    Wow. Very powerful & eye-opening.

  • @charlenemcclain9891
    @charlenemcclain98919 жыл бұрын

    this is great..wow

  • @ConnieLDavis
    @ConnieLDavis7 жыл бұрын

    This is such a nice adaptation of the Cleveland Clinic video, well done!

  • @Danatheonly1likeme
    @Danatheonly1likeme9 жыл бұрын

    Can't wait to share this.

  • @oheymario
    @oheymario Жыл бұрын

    I love this

  • @ramansidhu6903
    @ramansidhu69033 жыл бұрын

    Great work !

  • @anaharvey4248
    @anaharvey424810 жыл бұрын

    Nice job! It hits hard…I have students in very similar (and worse) situations right now.

  • @sugariscinnamon8284
    @sugariscinnamon82846 жыл бұрын

    I watched this at school and I cried

  • @marylougonzalez4335
    @marylougonzalez43354 жыл бұрын

    Empathy is an attitude of love and compassion, an act of the will. It isn't easy putting others before self, but that's why I am continually, in the WORD so that I can channel that kind of Love. Sure, I don't always do things right but I never stop trying. Thank you Austin Wideman. What inspired you to create this film?

  • @cantalibre4708
    @cantalibre47085 жыл бұрын

    Excellent

  • @davidbradburn6559
    @davidbradburn65593 жыл бұрын

    My student enjoyed your video and we talked about empathy in class today

  • @slumpji
    @slumpji3 жыл бұрын

    oh nice

  • @babyeater350
    @babyeater3505 жыл бұрын

    Wow 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

  • @nolanharty9397
    @nolanharty93973 жыл бұрын

    Yo, SHS people where you at

  • @shxlyio
    @shxlyio7 жыл бұрын

    My Language Arts teacher showed us this video at school and I cried :((

  • @_theonlykekee3316
    @_theonlykekee33167 жыл бұрын

    I watched this at school today almost cried

  • @michaellara5411

    @michaellara5411

    7 жыл бұрын

    Same here, I didn't even say a word when I saw this in my 5th period Language Arts class, because of how shocked I am

  • @lemonpoppy0108

    @lemonpoppy0108

    7 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @faithful_Gift

    @faithful_Gift

    6 жыл бұрын

    Same here... Almost makes me wanna hug someone...

  • @legiblepotato2588
    @legiblepotato25888 жыл бұрын

    wow! This is amazing.

  • @henryalsbrooksjr3923
    @henryalsbrooksjr392310 жыл бұрын

    This was real and deep

  • @yonathanyonathan9700
    @yonathanyonathan97002 жыл бұрын

    Dear Austin Widerman this video is very inspiring. may i use this video for church events? This video is for opening worship. Of course I will include the source thanks for the kindness.. -Yonathan-

  • @estelas.peregrina1619
    @estelas.peregrina16192 жыл бұрын

    I shared this with my high school staff. It was powerful! I am trying to share it with my advisory council but I it reads that it is not available to share. Can anyone help?

  • @niceagam3719
    @niceagam37195 жыл бұрын

    MY CLASS SAW THIS

  • @faithfulwaffles
    @faithfulwaffles9 жыл бұрын

    We watched this for one of our anti bullying meetings today. Unfortunately very few people cared.

  • @faithful_Gift

    @faithful_Gift

    6 жыл бұрын

    It's sad too just the way of the world..but I care, it least someone has too. :(

  • @zeddotexe
    @zeddotexe3 жыл бұрын

    HHS people represent

  • @user-ez4jp5hc7x
    @user-ez4jp5hc7x9 ай бұрын

    Is there a version of this that is more acceptable to show to 2nd -5th grade?

  • @stargeant
    @stargeant8 жыл бұрын

    I saw this at my school for a pride thing and I really think only few people cared, it's such a shame.

  • @C2Fitness
    @C2Fitness7 жыл бұрын

    Amazing Video!

  • @dinabuczkowski4570
    @dinabuczkowski45703 жыл бұрын

    Is this a creative commons video? How would I go about getting permission to use this in a Wikibook page I am creating for a college class?

  • @Pawsitiveworks1
    @Pawsitiveworks16 жыл бұрын

    Our Youth relate to this. Thank You - Canine Assisted Learning with help from artists like you

  • @johngraham8752
    @johngraham8752 Жыл бұрын

    What is the copyright on this video? Can this be shown and live streamed at school board meetings? What permissions are needed?

  • @mar8014
    @mar80147 жыл бұрын

    And we don't talk about these problems. We just talk on the job haha

  • @heatherlee-softsongsforhar4105
    @heatherlee-softsongsforhar41052 жыл бұрын

    This is excellent. But it would help dyslexic folks if you also have audio of peoples voices speaking the words on the screen. 🙏

  • @emilydonat2453
    @emilydonat24536 ай бұрын

    I'm a School Counselor and used this video to introduce an SEL discussion to 8th graders. It is so real and I like that it includes adults. Middle Schoolers are a tough crowd and this is so disarming and engaging that they can begin to access empathy for each other. I like to follow it up with Brandi Carlile's "The Joke" video: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z6Zqo5SHldusaJs.htmlsi=RCwE9PPKfdJD8A3A

  • @urmamascornhole9137
    @urmamascornhole91379 жыл бұрын

    very moving and a little depressing

  • @comicsans6961
    @comicsans69615 жыл бұрын

    I sent this to my sister I said this is sad she said omg it is finnaly somthing true what you say

  • @p1p313
    @p1p3133 жыл бұрын

    Acupuntura 😎🥵🤑

  • @beanie.alt.acc.
    @beanie.alt.acc.3 жыл бұрын

    Who else is here because of "Wellness WEDNESDAY"

  • @chris-marywilliams7927
    @chris-marywilliams792710 жыл бұрын

    Amazing Video! "Do to others as you would have them do to you." -Luke 6:31

  • @413Athlete
    @413Athlete10 жыл бұрын

    Amazing Video! "Do to others as you would have them do to you." -Luke 6:31 

  • @nickirhododendron7569
    @nickirhododendron756910 жыл бұрын

    I feel empathy for the pigs in factory farms.

  • @dorianzacharyday

    @dorianzacharyday

    7 жыл бұрын

    Nicki Rhododendron glad this comment is getting likes.

  • @zttvs

    @zttvs

    7 жыл бұрын

    Dorian Day lol only 5 likes tho

  • @professionalidiot07

    @professionalidiot07

    7 жыл бұрын

    Nicki Rhododendron nice

  • @yesqueen2534
    @yesqueen25347 жыл бұрын

    We watched this in school today and everyone was motionless

  • @afunnysnek4632
    @afunnysnek463211 ай бұрын

    This is sad but why is the camera doing that? 💀💀

  • @luucas7762
    @luucas77623 жыл бұрын

    How does her car get stole off a driveway, you need to start the car to drive

  • @JJOHN737

    @JJOHN737

    11 ай бұрын

    fr

  • @shelbyoaks3199
    @shelbyoaks31993 жыл бұрын

    Hi

  • @tuantran7677
    @tuantran76778 жыл бұрын

    m

  • @AlexAnder-bp2hx
    @AlexAnder-bp2hx7 жыл бұрын

    why is this so damn depressing?

  • @bccnp1
    @bccnp16 жыл бұрын

    Walk a Mile in My Shoes! kzread.info/dash/bejne/i6SCyapwnM3efLQ.html

  • @veronicaaragon1700
    @veronicaaragon17004 жыл бұрын

    V

  • @lisasmith3287
    @lisasmith3287 Жыл бұрын

    hahahahahaha

  • @JJOHN737

    @JJOHN737

    11 ай бұрын

    fr

  • @tariniadoomarenn4369
    @tariniadoomarenn43693 жыл бұрын

    SHIT!!!!

  • @abc75719
    @abc757194 жыл бұрын

    Empathy = Bernie Sanders

  • @11gurkha
    @11gurkha8 жыл бұрын

    psychopaths have insanely high level of empathy. but they use this informations for use the other person for their advantage

  • @ai172

    @ai172

    5 жыл бұрын

    I think what you mean to say is insanely high level of unmanned "emotions". They just don't care and hence no empathy toward others. But yes, I agree with you. They stalk the world like a prey and then attack when they have gathered all information. Sad:(

  • @coalblackchannel351
    @coalblackchannel3518 жыл бұрын

    a white person made this 49 seconds

  • @nonameavailable8496
    @nonameavailable84963 жыл бұрын

    Keep your problems to yourself.

  • @arlynsmith9196
    @arlynsmith91968 жыл бұрын

    This is absolute tripe! The government school in Wichita Ks made my teacher wife sit through this as though she doesn't already know the kids have problems. We all have problems. Whoever made this crap has an overload of estrogen and needs to be held underwater. Good grief - this is total BS. What a pant load!

  • @markbeard2222

    @markbeard2222

    6 жыл бұрын

    And people like you make our world Awesome. I hope you have a wonderful day thinking that everybody in this world is as awesome as you and your wife. Empathy is alive and well in the Smith household, as you're a prime example.

  • @mrkrills8839

    @mrkrills8839

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very nice job at actually being logical and not falling for this bs excuse for a system

  • @stevenhuang6454
    @stevenhuang64542 жыл бұрын

    i think this is fake

  • @letsbefriendsowecanmakeout

    @letsbefriendsowecanmakeout

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wdym

  • @shxlyio
    @shxlyio7 жыл бұрын

    My Language Arts teacher showed us this video at school and I cried :((

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