It’s better to be lonely alone than lonely with the wrong person

@meatavoreNana

12 күн бұрын

That's so true.

@Earthtime3978

12 күн бұрын

That’s all you can hang onto as a lonely person. Then again, people miss the arguing when a spouse passes. At least it was something that made them feel alive.

@susanm7925

12 күн бұрын

So TRUE.

@blackuncletoms3563

12 күн бұрын

Pathetic saying

@-MakeItGood-

12 күн бұрын

@@blackuncletoms3563yeah I hate it too, much repeated but doesn’t really mean anything

Im 29 and lonely as hell. I dont think its an age issue, its a society issue. God bless

@robinhowells159

12 күн бұрын

My daughter is 28, lives on her own & is also extremely lonely. While my husband & I enjoy her weekly visits & daily texts, we worry about her. Her sister & BIL invite her to things & events to get her out of the apartment. I feel terrible for young people. We had far more ways to socialize & meet new people. It is a social issue. Bless your honesty ❤

@Siameezkattwo

11 күн бұрын

Pray :) God loves you so much. It can be lonely tho, it is the society we are living in to many people sooo self absorbed.

@New-bw4kz

11 күн бұрын

@@robinhowells159modern feminism is to blame..

@gerrymcintosh4477

11 күн бұрын

I hope your not too lonely. Hang in there James. 🇨🇦💝🇺🇸🙏👍

@stever2583

11 күн бұрын

Make a leap of faith... Say hello to a stranger, buy a parent and child an Ice cream... Take that first step - you are beautiful show the rest of US that YOU are a wonderful person.

I'm a 65 year old Navy veteran, last divorce was 16 years ago. Life is what you make it, I'm a recovering heroin and cocaine addict, military PTS and other problems regarding mental health. While being in recovery I learned so much and how to be happy again. I went back to work in September last year and best thing I could have done. I have pretty bad back issues but I do what I can. Peace and blessings and don't give up!

@ghoster2

10 күн бұрын

I love the military and sailors are the best! There can't be enough monuments erected to honor you guys. You paid a dear price in health issues besides in other ways. I'm very glad that you've learned how to be happy again. You deserved that and much more. And let me return "peace and blessings" upon you.

Old age is not for sissies, male or female - it's the hardest thing you will ever do! I'm in my 70s now and I understand the health issues and the lack of socialization, but you must remain engaged and keep learning to the end. You are at the time in your life now where all your time is "free" and disposable time. Funnel your mental faculties into some thing you were always interested in. It could be philosophy or nuclear physics or astronomy, it really doesn't matter just pick something and if you find you don't like it, pick something else. Old age could be a good time to learn how to play a musical instrument - you've got plenty of time to practice and it costs nothing. Never stop learning, all the information in the world, on ANY and ALL subjects, is available at your fingertips on the internet. You're already there, USE IT!

@catfish24

10 күн бұрын

Very good advice. It will help a lot of people I am sure. Thanks for posting.

@user-oo8ei4lj6s

10 күн бұрын

So true. It's a choice to start with and you need to be courageous as you on your own.

@kimwarner1681

10 күн бұрын

My dad said it’s not for the weak. My freshman year in college, I met a lady in her 60’s/ 70’s, she took classes to stay sharp & she wanted to learn because in her day, if you weren’t married by 16, the townies talked about your family. She also said we were all her granddaughters & we kept her laughing & going. Nettie was her name & I never forgot some of the wisdom she used to try to teach us.

@scruffy4647

9 күн бұрын

Very good advice. You make your own way.

Rescue a dog. Changed my life. The love and happiness I can't express in words.

@doggiedaydiaries

12 күн бұрын

100% this. Giving a dog a loving home makes such a positive difference to life.

@morganmckibbon4241

12 күн бұрын

Or a cat as well. They’re not as aloof as their reputation would have you believe.

@victoriagumpertz2534

12 күн бұрын

So very true! Little guardian angels. It really makes life better💕

@juliamr8416

12 күн бұрын

The love of a rescued animal is unmatched.

@teresahild

11 күн бұрын

Be careful about bringing in a dog if you have very limited income. Vets are extremely expensive now. I do agree a companion animal can change your life, just be sure there is room in a limited budget.

Maybe a senior dog would help? You know many lonely dogs at the local pound that need a loving home. A pet's love is a blessing for all that open their heart.

@JamesLivesWyoming

14 күн бұрын

I'd love to have a dog, but I can't have pets where I live. Thanks for caring.

@ShinobiShaman

14 күн бұрын

​@@JamesLivesWyoming You have to be rich or you're fucked. Living in Wyoming ante helping much either.

@MRWONDERFUL-kk4db

14 күн бұрын

​@@JamesLivesWyomingI WAS GOING TO SAY DON'T YOU GET NO DAMN PETS THAT'S LIKE HAVING A CHILD AND THEY COST MONEY AND YOU GOT TO CLEAN UP THERE STINK EWWWWW JUST BE BYE YOURSELF MAN THAT'S THE BEST WAY YOU NOT MISSING NOTHING TRY TREATING YOURSELF LIKE A MOVIE START GET IN THE BATHTUB AND SOAK BUY SOME NEW CLOTHES YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO NOWHERE JUST SIT AROUND THE HOUSE DRESS UP DON'T WORRY ABOUT BEING CRAZY WE ALL CRAZY AS HELL.

@naelyneurkopfen9741

14 күн бұрын

​@@MRWONDERFUL-kk4dbTurn off the caps-lock, weirdo.

@XOXYESOXO

14 күн бұрын

In this economy the rescues are having a hard time getting pets adopting due to the expense from goods to vet bills- this country needs to take care of their people not this monsterous inflation the damned federal reserve

Im 51 and i feed the birds n squirrels and that fills me up with so much joy. I enjoy being alone. People are too toxic anymore.

@fml5910

10 күн бұрын

You're right, most humans are overrated.

@TrumpAmerica2024

10 күн бұрын

Your a depressed person thinking that way

@ziurim

10 күн бұрын

Everyone's like a big baby lol. Most humans nowadays are very stubborn like an ox or donkey 😁 no idea why before people used to be wiser but it's time for people to wise up and live life. We are community based mammals. Best is to find a way to live with others. Who wants to live alone that's worse than even having a little argument once in a while. C'mon people become a little stronger mentally jeez just buckle up. Let's go!

@briankane460

10 күн бұрын

You look good and people are toxic

Hey James. My wife passed last year, a 33 year marriage. I’m the last of my family too. Mid 60’s seriously is rough. If it moves it hurts. Thank goodness for KZread, it helps the loneliness. You’re not alone, we share a parallel story.

@dfox3526

10 күн бұрын

I wish you the best, John. I can't imagine how difficult it is to lose a soul mate after that long. I am sorry. I hope better days are on the way for you.

Im alone at 63 no family left ...divorced 2x.....I have my 2 horses they are my best friends.....God bless you.

@Siameezkattwo

11 күн бұрын

I love horses I am sure they are a comfort.... sorry your alone but God is there for you. Will keep you in my prayers!

@dojocho1894

11 күн бұрын

@@Siameezkattwo God bless, TY for taking the time

@Siameezkattwo

11 күн бұрын

Anyone that loves horses is a friend of mine! You hang in there God knows your needs✝️👍

@waynec8894

11 күн бұрын

You need to go out more do over things stop watching t v get out and stop moaning so much find some think to do women are a pain if you went 15 years with out having sex with this women why you need a women in the first place

@unitedstatesdale

11 күн бұрын

The lord is also your friend ❤

“A bad marriage is far worse than the most lonesome moments of singleness.” -Dr. James Dobson from Focus on the family.

@blondeboywilson9221

11 күн бұрын

Amen to that ....but "it's cheaper to keep her".

@nadegenazaire4356

10 күн бұрын

Thank you for deleting my long and beautiful post on that !

@IceAgeCelt-ft5zs

10 күн бұрын

The post isn't about romance. He is saying he is isolated, no family, no friends. No money to change things.

@bobdees6428

10 күн бұрын

So true, my buddy has a friend who is 83 years old and shows up everyday at his side jobs . I asked him if this old guy is on the payroll, he said no but he won’t stay at home because of his wife. He owns a multimillion dollar home but his wife is a horrible person. Constantly complaining , nagging him about money and everything in the house is brand new. She spends her day shopping and eating out with her friends. Horrible marriage….

@Grace-qr9cf

10 күн бұрын

Hi James I can relate to what you are going through I also am alone have been for a long time don't have a car and I am on Social Security and it's a lonely life I do have children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren but I hardly ever see them life is an easy

One thing that I believe would make a huge difference on your health and energy levels is your diet cut out as many carbs and sugar as possible and limit or remove over processed foods and you will probably see a huge difference in a couple weeks Hope you see some relief and happiness in your future

@MACWILLIAM

10 күн бұрын

Great advice

@lucywhitmore9

3 күн бұрын

That's true, esp when we're older.

I'm 75. I live alone. I don't feel old. I've been married 4 times; 2 have passed and 2 are still kicking. I'm good friends with my last ex, but she lives in the US and I retired to southern France. My kids still live in the states. Four years ago I weighed 254 pounds, had arthritis in my shoulders, wrists, knees, and hands. My blood pressure was 170/150. I was prediabetic. I had severe acid reflux, sleep apnea, and ringing in my ears. The doc at the VA told me to change my lifestyle or I'd be dead by 74, so I changed my eating habits, started walking, and joined a couple of different social clubs: golf, hiking, and wine tasting. Today I weigh 165, I have ZERO health problems. My blood pressure 120/62, I'm no longer prediabetic, and I take no medications of any kind. I go out with other expats 4 days a week for coffee, lunch, dinner, to go hiking or play golf. My advice... get out of your head and your house and into the world, it does wonders. Life is what you make it.

@user-ph3ws7qj5t

10 күн бұрын

GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD..THATS GOOD ADVICE FOR MYSELF AS WELL !!

@ghoster2

10 күн бұрын

WTF! You retired to southern France! I hate you! No, really, I do so envy you! But if you've been married 4 times, you should at least, at the very least, feel old, what's with that! And great job on getting your shit together! You may not be a boy, but nevertheless I think that you should be a Poster Boy for the rest of us. What is this "twofarg0ne" bullshit? Love ya man!

@teller1290

10 күн бұрын

Good for you, sir. I'm 62 and am on the same path as you were at 70...and I don't need a Dr to tell me those things. You mentioned health problems clearing up. Did you mean your ear ringing cleared up, too? I ask because I acquired tinnitus in 03/16 and it's been more than bearable but you never know when it'll get worse. I lost about 10-15% of my high frequency hearing but it really shows up a bit in watching TV. So, did you have tinnitus? And, if so, did you lose it when you lost weight?

@fml5910

10 күн бұрын

blood pressure 76/62? I doubt that.

@EmeraldView

10 күн бұрын

@@fml5910 Right! That's VERY low, and a 62 diastolic is at the threshold of being abnormally low, how would he not be getting dizzy every time he stood up.

Days turn to nights Nights turn to days In this lonely existence Time slowly fades He looks out the window Watching the world go by Yearning for someone to hold Someone to wipe his eyes Just an old man All left alone Sitting in his rocking chair No one to call his own There's a lot of people like us

@Earthtime3978

12 күн бұрын

I’m not really old at 60 but the poem is my life. Bailed out of a hellish job at 57. Living on SSDI and quite poor. So alone. Wish I had a bunch of money. I’d fly away from here and lay on a private beach and maybe meet someone .

@stratacat-jp8xg

12 күн бұрын

@@Earthtime3978 If you like music and you want to write your own song for free check out suno and udio Im lonely but I'm a musician' so we are use to it I always have my love in my hand a guitar

@dalepointer9414

11 күн бұрын

Poem. I do the same. Good hobby. At the moment my knee is seriously acting up...been through cancer, now arthritis, 70 and still smiling and kicking. LIFE UP! HAVE FUN!

@IceAgeCelt-ft5zs

10 күн бұрын

@@Earthtime3978 Try crowd funding, you and James, one last ride, hell for leather, maybe hit up some totty, I'd chip in!

@Earthtime3978

10 күн бұрын

@@IceAgeCelt-ft5zs maybe if I knew who James was . Haha

The worst part of being alone is not having another person to focus your thoughts on. Loneliness and depression are when our thoughts are on ourselves; it’s not about selfishness, it’s about focus. Doing things for others, having an exterior focus, that’s the natural state that adds to our lives. Take care of yourself in little ways, focus on yourself with the care and attention you’d give someone else. Thanks for sharing, thanks for putting yourself out there. Be safe.

@johncampbell9120

10 күн бұрын

Don't be afraid to turn on the tv. Maybe try out social media. Plenty of folks on there to talk to.

Hi James. Welcome to the club! 🙂 Widow here, almost 76, been alone for 7 years. No pets, i don't want the responsibility. I do love animals, had them in my life for almost 70 years. Anyhoo, you are definitely NOT alone. As you can see, so many are in the same boat. I have learned to take it day by day, and am so grateful for each one. Hang in there. Thanks for being a voice, for all of us loners 🙂

Dammit man, I wish you lived closer, we’d hang out. I’m 68 and your vid absolutely nails my feelings at this point in my life. Seldom on KZread do you find this level of emotional honesty and vulnerability, especially from a man of our era.

Nothing prepares you for old age. There is so much loss and loneliness, as well as health problems. You can have a family and feel lonely. Thanks for being “real” and expressing things we all feel in this age group. You are ministering to others. Hope you feel better.

@jimsmith1549

12 күн бұрын

Amen!

@mikemurray1047

12 күн бұрын

I got to tell ya James that getting old is a real bummer. Here I’m 75, Vietnam vet, been married, no children, divorced and have been single for 31 years. Now I have a bad back, have to sit down a lot, have to use a CPAP machine, and have no one to watch out for me if an when I become sick or invalid. But I had one hell of a colorfully adventurous journey thru life and I’m OK. The beat goes on and I just simply refuse to keep in step.

@msherry5

12 күн бұрын

It is a surprise, isn't it? Seems like another body part goes out every day. And there are so many losses. I just keep reminding myself to enjoy & appreciate what I still have while I still have it. ❤️❤️

@ahnraemenkhera7451

12 күн бұрын

@mikemurray. ❤️♥️🌷 Thanks for all you do! Stay outta step!

@cindygreenberg1368

12 күн бұрын

You are so right in my senior years I found my self all alone but I am happy

You’re creating an online community of people who feel the same as you. You can share thoughts and help each other which could be helpful to all. Well done!

As a 67 year old woman living alone on a small farm, let me assure you many of us are in the same boat. Right now I am trying to find homes for my horses as I no longer can take care of them. The chores I use to do easily now exhaust me and it is hard to see how things aren't going to get worse. As they growing old is a b---. Hang in there.

I'm a nurse and coming up on retirement. I will tell you, it is so important to move, just sitting for long periods of time is so bad for your body. I just had shoulder surgery and noticed how long it took to heal, getting old is not for sissies! If you can't do anything else, do toe touches every hour or two, walk in place 10 minutes, meditate on what you want, God is good. God loves you and wants you to ask Him for whatever you need and if it meets with His plan, you can count on it. Keep looking up :)

So many older people are in the same place as you and feeling just as alone. I am a widow with two children but they both live in distant states and rarely see them. One is good to keep in touch but the other not so much. I live in the country and my beloved dog is my best friend. We walk together daily but my health is like most older people, it's not just one thing but like multi system failures! I am very alone but take great comfort in my Christian faith. I am not afraid to die, but what lies between now and death is the frightening part. Keep posting your videos and hopefully you will find comfort in the people who comment and share with you. You are not alone. We are all in this together.

@paparuss9466

14 күн бұрын

What a sweet comment with a beautiful uplifting message. Your life sounds like my own, and yes it is comforting to know there are many people living with similar challenges.. and yes, we Are all in this together 🙏🏼 God bless and keep you James, and you also dear Pam 💜

@tombkk1322

14 күн бұрын

What a nice comment, Pam. I’m also alone and think a dog may answer all my problems.

@lucybraun8969

13 күн бұрын

@@tombkk1322 For decades, I wouldn't get a pet, because I was so overwhelmed when my cat of 14 years died. I've been living at my house for 5 years now, and for over 4 years of that time, I thought that the kitty that came to visit belonged to one of my neighbors. (I keep to myself a lot.) And then, about 2 a.m. one very cold December morning, I spotted her trying to sleep in my planter box on my back deck. I didn't have the heart to leave her out there. Boy, was letting her in filled with challenges. She wanted to go everywhere she pleased in my house. I was a bit freaked out by that, not wanting her to go potty in my house, or break something. To try and dissuade her from going places I didn't want her, I moved toward her. Big mistake. She lashed out at me, snagged me with her claws, and growled and hissed at me. I could see I had my work cut out for me. This kind of stuff went on for over a month with her, but gradually, she learned the places in my house she wasn't to go, and I learned the times to not even think about reaching out to pet her - to this day, I never pet her when she's half asleep if I don't give her warning I'm reaching out to pet her. And she always goes potty outside. Now, we're pals, and most always, she purrs her heart out when I pet her. She needed me, and I needed her. She lowers my stress levels, and we've developed a manner of communicating that really touches my heart - which I don't let much of anybody do. Her name now is Boo, and my next door neighbor who feeds all the neighborhood cats told me she was abandoned by her previous owner. That told me a lot about her. Abandonment can be the most devastating thing for a pet, and for people. Just when I felt like I was about at the end of my rope, she came along. And now, I can't imagine my life without her.

@jim-se5xc

12 күн бұрын

Get a dog. Lots of fun.

@dagmaranja888

12 күн бұрын

​@@tamsintarshish3905so sorry for your loss!

At the end of the day, we enter this world alone, and exit the same way. Being alone is not the same as being lonely. Having the freedom to do as one pleases when one wants is something to be grateful for. Many Senior Citizens live on fixed incomes. Living frugally can get tedious at times, but being a Prepper enables me to live well. One can always look for free events to enjoy. Today, I went on a sailing ship open to the public. Even if one has children, that doesn't mean they are always around or wanting to spend time together. Even without a car, there are free bus passes for older people. I invested in an electric bike, which is a lot of fun, good exercise and inexpensive to run. The Senior Center has group rides, if one is interested in meeting others. I often meet others when Thrifting. I have a little dog, who attracts a lot of attention. I also remind myself that not everyone who has a partner is in a happy relationship, so I make the most of my situation. I hope you will too.

@kathykittelson3923

13 күн бұрын

This is the first time I've seen you or a video that you've done I've been in healthcare I was wondering maybe you could use an in-home health services person. As a senior you may be eligible for in home health care and they can help you go for a walk. Are you interested in maybe going to a senior center and also asked asked for for a ride. I don't know if you have Uber out there or Lyft but Uber if you're low income can give you free ride sometimes. Also another possible possibility would be to join a church and that would be a way to socialize and possibly get a ride to church I wish you the best of luck

@dragonfly9209

13 күн бұрын

There is a lot of truth and wisdom in what you say. Many blessings to you and your little dog ♥

@sjordan7085

13 күн бұрын

@@kathykittelson3923 It seems many are quick to suggest that others go to church. Two of my neighbours, frequently pressure me to do the same. For multiple reasons, that is not my cup of tea! True, going to church may be an opportunity to meet others, but not necessarily people one shares much in common with. The same can be said for Senior Centers. Some provide congregate meals, as well as a variety of classes, a gym and some health care checks, entertainment and a place to socialize. All sounds good, right? Well maybe, however after a while, discovering that one is expected to share the same political orientation as everyone else can become tiring. Mine used to offer Days Out and organized bus transportation through a local company, they were enjoyable, but expensive. There are many free concerts, and events offered in most communities. If one doesn't have a car, most cities have buses and reduced, or free bus passes for those who qualify. Para transit requires planning ahead to schedule. My local museum has a Free Day, once a month, and many groups meet in their building. There are Arm Chair Travel programs, Birding, Photography, and other groups, some are free, others by donation, and some charge $5.00 for each event. Volunteering is often suggested, however, that can sometimes prove expensive for someone living on a limited income, as well as involving travel to and fro'. Volunteering at a theater offers free tickets to a variety of performances and the opportunity to meet others who enjoy similar entertainment. One can actually become over stimulated by participating in all that is on offer. Sometimes, it feels good to slow down, and spend time gardening, or working on home projects. It seems that balance is key to living a healthy and fulfilled life, we are all individuals with own needs and ways of doing things. Finding one's niche takes time. Sometimes something as simple as going to talks at an independent bookstore hits the spot. Walks in the park or feeding the ducks is a pleasant way to pass the time.

@mt_gox

13 күн бұрын

@@sjordan7085 what about self-gratification?

@sjordan7085

12 күн бұрын

@@mt_gox Life is short, so doing what we enjoy is time well spent whatever that may be. I totally respect the choices of of others but that is not always reciprocated, if others desire to change one's thoughts on religion, politics etc..

I'm 64 years old and have been alone most of my life ,I'm now a Christian hermit who lives in the middle of nowhere❤John 3,16 ❤

@andyx6248

10 күн бұрын

No Body CARES!

@Bob-gn8ph

10 күн бұрын

@@andyx6248 thank you for your positive caring influence.. I feel sorry for you when you fall at the Creator's feet crying

@erikakathleen509

10 күн бұрын

Fabulous! Isn't it great! JESUS/FATHER GOD/HOLY SPIRIT

@l8bloomer

9 күн бұрын

God Bless!

Yep get a 🐕 doggy. Pets make you happy and they are sweet ❤️ I'm 71 and I have a couple of kitties 😻 they are my little family. And I go to church.

Hey James - I don't know why your video appeared in my feed, but I am glad it did. I am watching you from a small coastal town east of England. Although I can't visit you in person, I will stop by to watch your videos when I can. It isn't out of pity either. I like people - real people. Warm regards, Craig.

@JamesLivesWyoming

14 күн бұрын

Thanks Craig!

@LilyGazou

14 күн бұрын

That’s sweet, Craig. 🌺

@fedenovo1

14 күн бұрын

It showed in my feed aswell. That’s the algorithm at work, you are probably thinking about things James is going thru. Me too. Good radiance to us all.❤

@gapper3

13 күн бұрын

Good luck. Your video moved me.

@dragonfly9209

13 күн бұрын

You sound like a really nice person, Craig. I love how we can talk to people all around the world. Best wishes from Texas 😊

Dude I'm 67 retired former Marine in Florida get a dog. I haven't had a relationship in 30 yrs & I've never been happier. A lot of dealing w/ it is prayer the rest is tuffness. Don't let em see you sweat.

@beaulieuc8910

12 күн бұрын

a dog is expensive

@YT313YT

12 күн бұрын

That is great advice. Cats and dogs are superior beings. They are the most loving and wonderful friends.

@Pedroism

12 күн бұрын

​@@YT313YT🐈

@johncronin7875

12 күн бұрын

Good advice mate - John ex Australian Army Infantry

@countryman5329

12 күн бұрын

Nice comment & sage advice, mucker. A pet will love you unconditionally (as long as you feed 'em)! Keep going as you say, stay frosty & definitely "don't let em see you sweat."

During the pandemic, I started writing a book of my family. And illustrating it. I make a study of nature around my home, I follow cancer patients on KZread and lend encouraging comments. Whenever you enrich yourself, you enrich the universe. I am disabled, living on a small pension, all I own is in my single room, but I feel rich. I spend time in my imagination and my memories. I hear you. You matter.

There are SO many worse things than being alone. I enjoy my quite peaceful solitude after an abusive husband.

@user-rz8bu6vl8x

10 күн бұрын

Me too! I'm happier now than I was being married for 15 years 😊

@paulaw3399

10 күн бұрын

Same. I divorced him after 25 years of marriage. I did Daye a guy, and he tried to molest my teenage daughter, so I dumped him faster than you could say dump. Now, I don't care to be in a relationship, and I am fine with that. I don't really feel lonely at all. But I like to talk with people.

@FOX007-um1wr

9 күн бұрын

You sound like me. Looks like something I would write.

I am a 63 yo woman, in The Villages Florida - sending you ❤ and hugs to feel better. Do whatever it takes to feel better. Do the opposite of what you are doing now to feel better. YOU ARE ESSENTIAL - you matter so don’t let your light dim without a fight. When I start feeling blue- I take a shower and get dressed!! I make a list of all that I am grateful for, then i get outside in nature, feel the sun on my skin and walk. Then I go help a person or a dog. I clean my home and organize it. Please do not stop trying out different ways to bring joy in your life- do not stop. Feeling are valid but not real and are not permanent.

@stephentoto6564

14 күн бұрын

Your exactly right!

@LifeHappens-xu8pg

13 күн бұрын

Do the opposite of what you’re doing now… lol. Probably great advice, but that just made me laugh, so thank you :)

@richardmorris7063

13 күн бұрын

All true, I'm down in Tampa & 67. I'm pretty happy by myself & my dogs of course. The only time I really notice being alone is going out to eat or going on vacation. That's more fun w/ two no doupt.

@ll-qq9qr

13 күн бұрын

How do you like living in the Villages in Florida?

@nancybryant4325

12 күн бұрын

Yes. During the pandemic I started going out to the park to walk every morning and it really helping my mental outlook.

Nah don’t sell yourself short. You will be surprised how many people just love hearing about other’s lives. Keep getting up every day James, keep making videos, and remember you’ve got a lot of fans who want you to keep talking with us. Your goal this month is to sit down and think bout some situations from your life, and just make a list. Don’t decide whether anyone else would find them interesting. Just make the list. And from there, every week or every few days pick something from the list, sit right down at the camera, and tell the story. Good, bad, happy, sad - whatever it is, it’s the richness of your life and it’s interesting, and odds are there’s plenty of us out here who will relate. So there - there’s your purpose and your to-list. Get on with it James, we’d like to hear more. And also, get a check up with your doc scheduled, just to make sure things are in order.

@nwicconsultants6640

10 күн бұрын

Really great advice! Having that purpose in life makes a major difference. Some days will be more difficult than others depending on how the old body wants to react.....but having that challenge that you've suggested tends to make some of those bad days just a little be easier. I'm into the get a pet category but believe the combination of both is a great idea. Thanks for your input...have a great weekend!

Thanks for being so real in this video! I know the feeling.. I don’t think many of us are prepared for how lonely life can get. Mine got abruptly lonely after my son died and then a divorce after 29 years. There are small communities of people like us online.. hopefully we can keep each other company ❤

I'm in my early 30s and very much alone to the point of a weird sort of imposed isolation. My early life definely didn't do much to prepare me for much socializing, if any. Channels like yours, real people with real problems, willing to spread their life experiences in such a candid format really, _really_ help me to cope with everything and I'm sure I'm not alone in that. Keep posting my dude and I truly hope your health improves. I was born into an older family and, looking at them, 60s never seemed very old at all to me. Stay awesome, dude! ❤🙌🏾

Yes, there are lots of us that are devoid of any humans. All I have is my pets. I live on a little over nine hundred $ a month. I live way out in woods and try to only go out to get supplies once a month. Most often it is two but it costs me at least five $ to get to town in my 20+ year old car that could break down at any time. I am at peace. My own decisions got me here. Getting involved with the wrong person who takes advantage of you, then leaves you in poverty is unfortunately very common. My one big firm suggestion is to accept things as they are and not think about "what if". Take life a moment at a time. Enjoy and be grateful for anything you have. I'm still sharp, have my pets and nature. I love showers with good smelling soap. My favorite saying is 'it is what it is'.

@oldgeezer8038

11 күн бұрын

My Hospice nurse hates when I say " it is what it is" but, it true !!

@lucywhitmore9

Күн бұрын

Great post

I’m 72 with 4 grown children that have no interest in me anymore.

@JamesLivesWyoming

14 күн бұрын

Sorry to hear that

@laetitialogan2017

14 күн бұрын

Im hearing this from an awful lot of people...more common than people realise....

@scottjackson163

14 күн бұрын

People perpetuate the shopworn idea that children will support you in your old age. What is much more likely to happen is just the opposite. They depend on you (without acknowledging that you are doing anything), well into their adulthood, then resent you for not extending the economic outpatient support indefinitely. Then, when you need help, they disappear.

@naelyneurkopfen9741

14 күн бұрын

​@@scottjackson163Only in the West and it's by design.

@francesco5581

14 күн бұрын

@@naelyneurkopfen9741 Well in Europe family bonds are still pretty strong.

James, I feel ya man. I'm 70 and a hospice home patient. Two years ago I was active. Now today I sit in an electric recliner all day and primarily watch KZread. I don't have the energy to do anything. Haven't left my home in 8 months. Old age comes like a thief in the night. At times it's all I can do to just get up and let the dog out. I have VERY little energy. The wife cuts the yard, does the grocery runs. I do nothing, because I can't. I exist but that's about it. Not sure if I'll be here from one day to the next. Plenty of medicines but nothing helps. My appetite is gone. Over a 24 hour period I eat about what a toddler would eat. I've lost 50 pounds and was slim to start with. Deputy Sheriff most of my working years. I have enough money but, what does it matter. I don't spend but on nothing but essentials because there's nothing I want. I'm just waiting for the inevitable. I hope you find peace bud but know this, your not alone. There's many of us out here.

@cyndimoring9389

9 күн бұрын

Your story is so sad. Do you have cancer?

Why are we all so lonely?... look at all the people together relating to this subject. yet, loneliness prevails regardless of the kind thoughts. Life is harder than ever. god Bless Dude... clearly, you are not alone in your feelings...

At 51, two close family members died suddenly and I started hurting everywhere. So much pain “in my bones”. For a month, I cut out carbs and did some intermittent fasting (Jason Fung videos on You Tube) and I took supplements (magnesium, Vitamin B, vitamin D+K, I’ve just started iron). I felt GREAT. All the pain went away! So for the last week, I totally fell off the wagon. I ate pastries, pizza, burgers, the works. Pains back with a vengeance. I was almost bed bound. There are simple things you can try but they take enormous will power. However, if you’re looking for video ideas, track the changes your making and your progress. A lot of people get inspiration from others in the same position. Good luck, my heart goes out to you!!❤️ Also, if you have a balcony, plant some containers of food. It’ll lift your spirits and give you something to focus good energy on.

@tycovai

12 күн бұрын

Yup. If your ever curious if its working or not, just mess up for a week.

@lucybraun8969

12 күн бұрын

Yes, I grow lots of house plants. Not only do they help clean the air inside my home, but they provide a special warmth to my home decor. Watching them grow gives me a feeling of accomplishment. A couple of them I received at the time of my mom's funeral. I think she would like it that I've kept them going for 2 years now. Tomorrow is the two-year anniversary of Mom's death. I like to think that she lives on in them.

@jim-se5xc

12 күн бұрын

Get a dog and get rid of the tv. Start reading. Write a book. A memoir. TV is death. You look good.

@sharonritchie6365

12 күн бұрын

@@lucybraun8969 my mom was Ukrainian. I’m growing a plot of garlic in her honour. She would have loved it😅❤️. She’ll be gone a year in August.

@mercysmith

12 күн бұрын

Love that Dr. Jason Fung and his fasting ideas!!

Glass of wine, a home cooked dinner and a good book. Reading is wonderful therapy. Do you have any hobbies or interest in anything in particular?…art, woodwork puzzles? Don’t dwell on feeling alone, I know many people with large family’s around and they’re going crazy for peace and quiet. Family don’t stay interested in you as you age, they have their own lives, so appreciate your home, warmth peace and freedoms. I wish you well. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

Hi James. Thanks for posting. I am older too / alone and I found that sitting too much can lead to worse things happening. I read some of the comments and they are very useful.........hobbies, dog / cat etc. Sharing things like quiz games with on line players can be fun....pen pals etc...book reading (sharing too) I live in northern Ireland - returned back here on retirement so it has changed with peace processes under way but lots of corruption and serious gangsters in EVERY situation. Pity you cannot get around much. comments show wise suggestions to try. Sitting down yoga etc......positive activities. Need to try all these myself. 74 now and trying to make plans for the next 10 years - or so........ Keep the chin up Pat

You were describing your life in the beginning of the video and I thought oh man that’s me , I’m 64 and living in a 1 room apartment and am living life exactly like you , it’s nice to know I’m not the only 1 going through this ,I appreciate your honesty and I’ll keep watching you ❤️

I am in the same boat! It hurts to even sleep anymore. At 63, my body is shot after 20 years in the Marine Corps. I’m on my retirement pay and social security that’s it. I try is work on different projects to occupy my mind and body, but some days it is hard to get motivated even to clean up anymore. I hope you find your way out of this! Myself included brother!😊

@JamesLivesWyoming

14 күн бұрын

I was 81st Tactical Fighter Squadron, F4G A/C Wild Weasels. Thank you!

@MeadowDay

13 күн бұрын

Be proud veterans…many prayers are sent to you all daily.

@Earthtime3978

12 күн бұрын

Hear you bro. 30+ years working, now on SSDI and a micro pension. From hell to hell.

@georgewacaser4559

12 күн бұрын

MeadowDay, I could not have said it better. Heartfelt thanks to all our veterans.

@frederickmuhlbauer9477

12 күн бұрын

I know how you feel Mine is shot from 50 years in heavy construction Sucks to not be able to sleep well

People used to visit each other especially on Sundays. People are too busy with their phone to even notice when someone walks into a room. Praying someone in your community will help you, but even then, you have to ask for help.

Hi James watching from Ireland Ive just come across your channel Yes old age comes quicker than we realise Your 25 one day and 65 another day or so it seems They say these are the golden years but it’s not the same for every one We all have different needs and wants health, Finance family,work and every thing that goes with life Getting older is also loosing ties with a lot of people passing or moving away arguments and so on The best approach is to have faith ,hope and a good sense of humour Getting up every day think positive be as active as possible (I have never seen so many exercises and keep fit activities for people in chairs and beds or limited movement its great ) eat healthy and laugh even if its at your self I find some times going for a walk or sitting in your garden or apartment balcony and people watch or appreciate nature in all its form A sunny day A rainy day Birds chirping the beautiful colour of flowers etc Life is really what we make it Im not the most positive person but i try A smile can also make a great differ it can make a differ to your day a kind word to some one even saying hello to a stranger The little things matter I hope you keep on making your videos it takes a lot of effort time and commitment and can make a huge difference or help to someone else’s day even though you might not know it Stay safe keep smiling 😊 God is always by your side ☘️🇮🇪🇮🇪🇮🇪

I know the feeling I've been married 40 years no bedtime action, wife is totally opposite thinking of me, on medicine for anti-anxiety and depression, the only thing that keeps me going are my little dogs if I didn't have them I'd be in the ground by now. I'm 59 years old on disability because of an accident, was working 60 hours a week all kinds of money and now I'm cutting everything to the Bone just to make it to the end of the month

@Whatareyoudoingwithyourlife

11 күн бұрын

carnviore diet will heal you & get you off of those meds!! seriously!

@aimeekubik8803

11 күн бұрын

😮😮😮😮😮😮 piverty

@aimeekubik8803

11 күн бұрын

Poverty sucks no matter the age. People change. Everyone died. It is hard being alone. Find another person who is alone, try and pool your resources. In other words, live love and good luck to you.

@Whatareyoudoingwithyourlife

11 күн бұрын

Carnivore diet will heal you! check it out.

@jessicaarverne1181

11 күн бұрын

We female, we usually do not care about our spouse sex drive needs. That is a pity.

JAMES YOU HAVE 14K PEOPLE WATCHING YOU!!! Once we begin to feel sorry for ourselves we’re done! We are here keeping you company!❤️❤️❤️

@JamesLivesWyoming

13 күн бұрын

It's a scary situation.

@sandraleete4682

13 күн бұрын

@@JamesLivesWyoming I know, it is scary, but I get the feeling you are strong and all your KZread friends are here and we are cheering you on. How about getting a sketchbook and sharing some beautiful Wyoming scenes with us…

Hi James, no idea why this popped up but I listened anyway here in Mesa AZ. I have a business and do work for all kinds of people, many older than myself. I often find myself being a thereapy session for older people while at their house working. So, your ruminations about being older are often in my thoughts as I get up there and hurt more but continue the push to do things. Wish you the best and hope to listen more...subbed.

You have to be active. If you don't use it you lose it especially as you get older. Join a church, get active. You sound depressed. The more you sit around the more you weaken and lose the ability to do the basics. Then you will end up in a nursing home which is something you do not want. We all get old. You have to accept that and adapt. Keep moving.

Hello James. So sorry you're having difficulties. Just a couple of suggestions which may or may not help. First you really need to get a full medical checkup. The dizziness can be numerous things but heart issues (clogged arteries) and or blood pressure issues are right up there. You need to see a doctor ASAP. I'm sure either medicare or medicaid will pay for it. The hip and foot may need some physical therapy but may not be that serious but you need to find out. Second, don't know if you own your home or not or how close you are to a town but consider moving where you have easy access to necessary businesses and services (medical, grocery, social events, etc). Third, since you're lonely think about a hobby that might interest you or consider attending a local church or club meeting, either of which can help. You may not be that far away from a much improved quality of life so hang in there buddy. Good bless.

@CroisMoi

11 күн бұрын

Yes. High blood pressure is the silent killer. I bought a blood pressure cuff and find that I get ringing in my ears when my blood pressure goes up. It seems high carbs makes my blood pressure go up. I am still figuring out what caused this spike, but at a certain age your body cannot regulate itself as well. We have to make changes in diet and exercise.

@TricksyBix

10 күн бұрын

@@CroisMoi 100% high carbs makes my blood pressure go up, so I cut them out of my diet.

@kerrynight3271

10 күн бұрын

Good advice there, but Wyoming, like several red states, didn't expand Medicaid.

I'm so sorry you're by yourself, my friend. God is always near you, so you're never really alone.

Yet this is your highest viewed video. It’s not about your material possessions it’s about how people relate to you. Keep it up!

James! What you are doing here is just short of a miracle. You popped up on my feed this morning, and I watched this video, and I can relate in so many ways, just like thousands of others here can. Although I am not lonely in the evenings, during the day while my wife is at work, it gets to me. I have ended up with some health issues, and like you have said, walking 5 miles a year ago was nothing.... now, the kitchen and back leaves me gasping. "Forced Retirement" on a budget. I'm only 60, but damn, I wish I could go out and do something during the days. Buddy, this channel of yours is helping so many of us- Thank You. Liked and Subbed as you have the gts to say what the rest of us are just thinking. God Bless you, Brother.

After many terrible relationships and people seeing me as a resource to them I've become fond of being alone with Lenny, my cat I'm 60 and thank God I can still ride my bike to help depression and enjoy the fresh air

@johnelder-hh3ix

14 күн бұрын

same-- 52 and i dont want to be around anyone

@regeniawilliams2965

14 күн бұрын

I've been alone for 17 years, just me an my furbabies.I get down an out sometimes an understand what ur going thru but at the end of the day I realize that I don't have to answer to anyone or keep them up.

@johnelder-hh3ix

13 күн бұрын

@@regeniawilliams2965 I MEAN-- sure we all would love a great relationship-- but that doesnt happen for everyone-- i count my blessings-- job-- home-- no debt-- food in my stomach-- daily gym-- peace-- and my doggies- -- it aint all that bad when you boil it down--

@karenreinhold41

12 күн бұрын

I think sometimes it takes some people longer to learn to really care about other people. We just have to be the light.

@cbass2755

12 күн бұрын

Same! Only I’m 71 and walk and ride my bike.

I too lost my spouse, retired and all this during covid in 2020 where I had to suffer isolation. I thought about ending my life, but I kept going. Went to the park every day, kept telling myself the advantage of being alone and do as I please. Slowly I got out of the big black whole. Grief is hard , thankfully I’m still healthy, but I realize that can change quickly. I feel for you! I wish you the very very best.

@homemade6950

12 күн бұрын

I'm glad you're here to help others realize grief doesn't have to be the end of the road but the beginning of a different road. One that still holds all the gifts and hopes of life.

I subscribed. I can relate. Im 61 and live alone with my dogs. There are a lot of us in the comment section who share the same circumstances. We just keep going and live life the best we can. I appreciate you starting this video and Thank you for sharing. Your channel can be that connection to the world.

My friend, I actively seek out channels like yours because I love just listening to normal regular people tell me stories. So please don’t feel pressure to get fancy with your videos! Who cares what young people want? We’re not young. So we do things the way we do them. I like your channel and I have subscribed.

@JamesLivesWyoming

14 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for your support! I also like to watch everyday people doing everyday things. You know, real life. Thanks for subscribing & commenting!

@tombkk1322

14 күн бұрын

@@JamesLivesWyomingYour video was very good. I’m sure many people found it helpful.

@JamesLivesWyoming

14 күн бұрын

@@tombkk1322 Thank you.

@richardmorris7063

13 күн бұрын

It seems like yesterday my sister & I were laughing about don't trust anyone over 30, now I wouldn't trust anyone under 30!

@Earthtime3978

12 күн бұрын

@@richardmorris7063very true. Plus just make sure you have bags of money when you stop working.

I have no family and very few friends - I spend so much time on my own too. Its crazy how many people are alone on this planet. Billions of people yet so many alone. Dont give in or give up. Force yourself out to meet people. Ive just joined a church and i try to stay of youtube....try and read at least 2 pages of a book each day, im reading the bible atm....you have over 200 people on here reaching out to you. I will pray for you brother.

Hey, I was born in Wyoming. I am 67 and I can relate but I am not lonely. If anything, I enjoy being alone. I embrace it. I also bought an e-bike almost 2 years ago and that really changed things up for me. I can't walk very far at all, but I can ride my e-bike for miles and miles. It gets me out of the house and I meet plenty of people when I am on my e-bike. Maybe you could get one. Keep it right in your apartment. Looks like you have room to park it in there. When I get out on my bike it just puts me in a great mood. Just enjoying what I see and hear. Maybe it would help you too. Glad you took the time to make this video. Take care my friend.

I enjoyed your video James, and give you enormous credit for starting a channel. I have always wanted to see Wyoming and Montana. I am 68, alone, and very lonely. I never was -- I was a library volunteer, had many friends and we did stuff like eating out together, going antiquing, to the movies and doing crafts. I lost my parents and also my older brother, shockingly. He was my best friend. He was only 67. I was never married, never had children, and do have two nephews but they have made it clear that even though we were close asthis growing up, they now have wives and kids and have made it clear their priority is their family, not me. I had a 10-year-relationship that ended in my darling soulmate's death from cancer. I have a broken heart. Three years ago I had a massive stroke and had many months of rehab. I am lucky to be doing as well as I am. My knees are wrecked, my back is agonizing, and I have a heart valve issue. I live alone in senior housing with subsidized rent and still have trouble as I get only very little Social Security. So I'm like you. Wish you lived closer to Connecticut; we could visit.

@EXTREMEGRANDMASTER

10 күн бұрын

I wish I could be closer to your city so that I could visit you and change your mood. I am a 43-year-old man, also single, and I would love to be friends with those older than me because they have life experiences from which I can benefit.

You are not alone. All these comments are from people who get it. They care. Keep doing the videos. I’m sure you help a lot of people.

@RingJando

12 күн бұрын

You can't _sincerely_ care about someone you never even met - we turn to each other because we're afraid to be alone, afraid of pain - we lean on others

@cazp64

12 күн бұрын

@@RingJando with respect. I disagree. You can care about people you have never met. It’s a cold heart that cannot.

@CroisMoi

11 күн бұрын

@@RingJando I care about people I never met. How can you not? We are all the same inside. We all have the same needs and fears.

✨You are not alone. We are all here with you. ✨

I’m 47 and have been on disability for over 10 years and have dealt with chronic illness since I was 18. I’m on the very very long wait list for housing and live with my dad to make ends meet. I have no friends, but being isolated in a rural community doesn’t help matters there. Still attempt to look on the bright side, but there are definitely days. Glad your channel popped up on my feed, I’ll continue to tag along. ☺️

Man, am I glad I found your video. You connected with how my life has kinda gone in so many ways. Being alone isn't the end though. It is lonely, but forget about filling someone else's void. Fill your life with books and volunteer work and maybe even learn an instrument because why not. People need you for you being there, not for just where you are. You seem like a cool person to share coffee and doughnuts with. There's too many artificial personalities out there. It's refreshing to hear real talk.

Your not alone here mate 20.000 people have stopped past here in the last 3 days to see you. Your a good man your lifes about to change for the better you just dont know it right now. 🙏🏻❤🇦🇺

@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529

11 күн бұрын

YES AND AMEN!!!! I too believe his life is about to change, LET'S PRAY FOR HIM!

@catfish24

10 күн бұрын

That's very good advice. Thanks for posting

I am 67 & I don't feel old yet, no major health problems but I relate to what you said. My husband is older than me still in decent shape. I too have nobody that cares but him so I see myself alone one day & I've never been alone. I hate to say it but I find a lot of people aggravating these days. You seem like a kind gentle soul. Is there any community center near you? We have one in my area in Texas. They have transportation & folks get together weekly play cards, eat a meal spend sometime with others & it's free. Do go get yourself checked out though it could be a blood pressure issue if you are light headed. Take good care & remember we are never really alone because GOD loves us & is watching over us, I am certain of that.❤

@billbean3343

12 күн бұрын

Learn to play an instrument. It’s cathartic.

@hadenandjaedenhj5988

12 күн бұрын

Yeah seems you turn around and time has passed…..you’re old, you’re alone, youNo I don’t want to

I'm 50 and I live alone since 2 years. I will probably never be in a relationship again. My body starts deteriorating and aches are a daily thing. But some days there is no aches and I bless them days. I have a cat. A wery loving cat who I can cry and laugh with. It makes me feel not so alone. God bless you🙏🧡

@EXTREMEGRANDMASTER

10 күн бұрын

50 years old, you're still young, man

If you change how you think of loneliness you might find some peace of mind, but first, I would go get a check-up with your PCP to see about the dizziness and hip pain you’re experiencing. I’m 46 and find that stretching really helps me with mobility and reducing pain in my joints. You probably miss going for walks…take care brother! Thank you for sharing and keep pulling.

All the best James. I'm 75 and we all feel out of it sometimes. Try to find joy in those little things in nature. Even sitting in the back yard for a few minutes daily.

@francesco5581

14 күн бұрын

yes, a walk ... a cat... cooking ... learning something new .... are all great companions. Pets especially .

@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529

11 күн бұрын

Yes, even just get a flower plant or two to water and look after!! It's surprising how much JOY there is in caring for something, even just a plant! I love mine.

@rodneygalbraith4793

11 күн бұрын

Yes, all nature declares His glory.

It is extremely hard to make friends during these times. Never seen it so hard; people abandon you love & put devoted energy into - I feel you, it's breaking my heart too - it's hard to know where to start - plus the USA throws people under the bus after they get age - it's a me society - parents gone is freaky horrible - so so hard to build friends anymore - I feel I will die of a broken heart 💔

@gail2500

12 күн бұрын

Hello James. I am going through pretty much what you're feeling. I am 68 this year and feeling my age. I have been on my own for years now and am used to it, but the last year or so has been particularly hard. I can't believe that I'm nearly 70. It's scary, especially when there's no-one to talk to. I sit on my own (with my 2 cats), night after night. Have no desire to go anywhere, doing a weekly shopping is hard, but the cats and I have to eat, but I don't have an appetite like I used to. I have no car, so rely on taxis to get down the street. One good thing for me is that I don't worry about money anymore (am on a pension) and I have stable housing. I love my little house, so at least I feel safe even though there are a lot of ratbags in my suburb. I do worry about someone breaking in though. Message me James if you want to. We could be penpals. I tell myself that there are a lot of other people in the same boat, but the loneliness is always there and I suppose it's just going to get worse from here. Also James, get your blood pressure checked. Being dizzy can be a sign of low blood pressure. Wishing you all the best from 🇦🇺😊😊

@Martin-ei9ek

12 күн бұрын

@@gail2500hi I’m Martin from England. Always up for a chat. Your not alone 😊

@gail2500

12 күн бұрын

@@Martin-ei9ek Hi there. Thanks so much for your message. Whereabouts are you living? My father was born in Edmonton London and all my grandparents were English. Would love to chat with you sometimes. I miss the old days when you actually wrote a letter to someone and posted it. I had a lot of penfriends when I was a teen. Ah well, there's always the internet. I watch a lot of utube, but I'm careful with what I watch. Otherwise, it's too depressing.🥴Best regards Gail 😊🇦🇺 Always up for a chat.

@Martin-ei9ek

12 күн бұрын

@@gail2500 hi Gail. I come from Wolverhampton in the midlands of England. I live with my partner Elaine so I’m not lonely. Got grandchildren too. I have relatives in mount gambier which I visited when I was 20 many moons ago. Regards.

You got my attention.... i'm from the uk and have been on my own since 2005, In 2011 had a rta and shattered my femur, my health went downhill from there ( i was about 46 at the time) Now approaching 60 and still on my own, I just live day to day doin what i want and bro you have to make yourself do the same. No matter how much it hurts just go out and enjoy the day and feel good about yourself cos no one else will, and being poor does not mean the end of everything, The best things in life are free and the more stuff you have just keeps you locked down, find the love for yourself as you are a good soul and this lesson is your time to grow , This is what i have found out for myself. just remember you are loved and this moment is your class room. stay cool bro.

It ain't over yet, brother! You're not alone - a TON of people feel like you. Get out there - volunteer ANYPLACE. It'll change your life. (Your body will feel better, too).

This was an interesting video, and I appreciate your honesty. As a senior citizen (71) who still has to work and sometimes feels very sorry for herself, it helps me to remember that we all have our struggles. I also dislike doctors, but am trying to mend my ways. Sometimes they're necessary.

@JamesLivesWyoming

16 күн бұрын

Hi, Thank you for your kind words and expressing yourself to me. Thank you for Subscribing & Commenting. Yes I know about Doctors, I've been there before, that's why I don't like them anymore, LOL. Just a joke. Seriously, Thanks again, James.

@tombkk1322

14 күн бұрын

Very nice comment.

@JamesLivesWyoming

14 күн бұрын

@@tombkk1322 Thank you. People have been so nice, going out of their way to leave me nice comments, I just want them to know I appreciate it.

@tombkk1322

14 күн бұрын

@@JamesLivesWyoming I think everyone felt your sincerity. I surely did

@lindakelehan2934

12 күн бұрын

James, we feel your pain. I'll be 70 this year and I live alone. I have osteoporosis and asthma, so I worry about falling and breaking a hip. And it is hard not having friends. I try to find gratitude in even the smallest things. Even taking a hot shower, reading a good book, having a glass of wine etc. Try not to despair, we are all struggling as we get older. Especially with worrying about future health issues. I think there is an epidemic of loneliness in this country, especially for older folks. You seem like a really good guy and I just want you to know, that your videos are providing a valuable service.❤

I’m 68 and am holding on to my job as long as I can and will collect social security at 70 when it tops out and will continue to work beyond that because I fear just what you’re going through.

@Earthtime3978

12 күн бұрын

Not everyone can do that. Some people are working jobs that are hell on earth.

I totally understand where you're coming from. Sure i am married & have 2 kids. Yet outside the house i have no friends or family. I agree with the other comments on here that humanity is feeling more & more cut off due to a societal collapse. People only see each other as a means to an end now. We have lost our ability to communicate. Most of us feel alone or a lack of belonging if you like. The older i get , the colder my heart becomes towards people in general. Appreciate your open, vulnerable communication

Hi James! 👋 I have no idea how KZread recommended your video, but your voice is being heard around the world. I'm glad the algorithm suggested I watch to hear your concerns. I read through many of the comments, and I am amazed at all the love and kindness of support showering down upon you by so many wonderful people. You have almost 100K views and 2K+ comments. Thank you for opening up to share with the world. I, too, am single and lonely at 54. I have a pet that brings happiness into my life, and I stay socially active in my community to get out of the lonely house. I hope you will continue sharing your videos with us. I will send you prayers and best wishes. I have great confidence that your lonely life is about to change for you. I wish you the very best, and I am looking forward to seeing a future update on your life. Thought I would add my two cents to spread love and happiness to you. ❤

Having a small doggie makes a big difference when you have someone or something to care about it helps you care about yourself.wish I lived close by I would come visit.

@beaulieuc8910

12 күн бұрын

a dog is expensive

@mhaas281

12 күн бұрын

@@beaulieuc8910 no they are not

@YT313YT

12 күн бұрын

I agree. The love from a cat or dog is one of authenticity and purity.

@kewkabe

12 күн бұрын

Don't get a puppy though, get a mature dog from a rescue. Puppies can be WAY too much for people especially who have other things going on or have never raised puppies before.

@YT313YT

12 күн бұрын

@@kewkabe That’s a great point. There are so many amazing middle age or older dogs and cats who would be so grateful for a home and l.

I'm getting old myself. It is what it is. I go along with what Rumi advised: "If all you can do is crawl, then start crawling." I've become a pretty good crawler.

@jnagarya519

11 күн бұрын

My plan to achieve immortality: After arriving at an older age, decide to go the other way. Then when 2 again, learn how to better say no, and decide to get older. Keep doing that, back and forth, and, barring accidents, I'll live forever. It's said that as one ages one gets shorter. I don't know if that's true, but a recent health check up found that I'm an inch shorter that I was for all my adult life -- I'm an inch shorter, so my plan is working.

Hang in there James. I totally understand and relate to your situation. Lost my wife 8 years ago, it’s been a struggle since. 70 years old, alone, in poor health, bu blessed to see another day. Blessings to all.

Gratitude for sharing with Us so openly and honestly. I'm lonely too... I find that writing helps, very therapeutic; to document one's past. 📝🖊📖

You gained a subscriber, hope that makes you feel better.

I'm 68.....alone with cancer.....recent surgery and divorced for 20 years. Nothing worse then realizing your friends have passed, your family and children have moved on and your life is on the slow downhill ride. I learned to be content with myself. A lesson that is hard. On the up side? I am a body donor......young doctors can learn from me......that's my legacy. I refuse to act my age......and give in. Keep fighting the good fight

From North Norway...I'm an 62 year old ex fisherman with health issues.Keep doing what you do, God bless.

I was going to write a lot but decided not to . God bless you we are all in this together .

Hullo James to you from Rainham England ! Your Only Lonely ! Trust in Jesus he will be your constant friend ! I wanted to move to Wyoming but prices were way too high for me sir ! You keep your chin up ! cheers ! I have an apartment in Texas U.S.A. now...Back, and forth am I...

@MeadowDay

13 күн бұрын

You sure are on the move! From Rainham to Texas via Wyoming wow. Best of luck from another Brit in Texas from England 👍

@Siameezkattwo

11 күн бұрын

Amen to that, the Bible is comforting and there are some great rabbit holes to help on you tube! Several online communities for understanding the Bible

This is the best medicine for you man, getting it all out. Even you are talking to strangers on the internet , you are purging the negativity from your body. Stay strong brother. God Bless you.

Thank you for having the courage to say what many are feeling, including me. The creeping in of aches and pains that limit activity is especially frustrating for me because I have always been active.

Also, you could have anemia or low iron level making your blood not transport oxygen that you need. Sitting home won't give you any answers. Get out and get some tests!

@lucybraun8969

14 күн бұрын

I've overcome many maladies by online research. MDs aren't interested in curing patients, but in kickbacks from pharmaceutical companies.

@rozee2133

14 күн бұрын

@@lucybraun8969so true!!! Doctors are owned by Big Pharma. They are useless; they put seniors on a TON of medication that’s unnecessary. For instance. A year ago I started having issues with my gut. Nausea bloating gas etc everyday. Been through a gamut of tests plus big doses of prilosec. Prilosec made it worse. So I research everything. Found a random comment somewhere that said if you have motility issues do NOT take probiotics. I quit my probiotics 2 weeks ago and my stomach has gone back to normal. !!!! Nausea everyday is gone. Which is huge. Research is paramount for seniors !

@thelonesquid7886

12 күн бұрын

Iron overload is more common in older men. Specially those who used to drink

I've been single all my life. 66th birthday coming up at the end of this month. Being alone has never bothered me until slowly but surely that feeling started about three or four years ago. I left the east coast for the mid-west 11 years ago now. Renting a small house. But, I'm alone.

@JamesLivesWyoming

14 күн бұрын

Yeah, especially if you're all alone without any family, those thoughts will sneak up on you. Thanks for commenting.

@bluecube7247

12 күн бұрын

Dang, I did the same thing... relocated from New England to FLORIDA... after a life of solitude it is the first time I felt lonely... been here ten sad isolated years... but finally finding my happy again... PEOPLE PUT THERE ARE GETTING CRAZY... I feel safer at home, alone. 😂 be well guys... it is tough at times

@kolbpilot

11 күн бұрын

@@bluecube7247 : The low budget, low wage town I'm in is fairly safe. I'm going to pick up the guitar again & see where that takes me ? I've one part time job & may have a second for the summer ? It helps to stay busy of some sort ?

Hello James. I am 33 and have dealt with feelings of loneliness as an athiest for the first 26 years of my life. Prayer. That "still small voice" we have inside is Him. The Creator of the universe. The Father. I will send you prayers brother. I subbed too. Keep us updated. Let me know if you ever wanna talk about anything. I just found my knowing of God these past couple months. Would love to hear your story and share any wisdom that could help either of us on our paths. God bless brother 🙏🏻✝️👑 Ephesians 6 10-12.

Hi James. Found your channel today and I'm glad I did. I hope you are doing well. I live in Virginia and I have Cerebral Palsy. I get around okay around my house and use a wheelchair when I go out. It's just easier to get around that way. Due to my CP, I'm always having pain somewhere! I am married, it's basically just me, my husband and a dog. We are a one income family, so these times are tough. (You can't get disability if you are married in VA) I'm thankful to be able to make food stretch. Thank you for making these videos. Nice to meet you. Sending love and hope to you!!

I had an abrupt hault to my health and life at age 38... now 53 I'm just figuring out how to retire from the world alone... I SLOWED DOWN, THE WORLD DID NOT... And I am finally okay with enjoying my day, however I can manage it. I owe no one anything ... I owe myself everything... give yourself credit for everything you do in your day to days. You are a champion conquering your day your way!!! HURRRRAAAAAYYYY !!! seriously, you got this. And here you are, checking in on social media, great idea! HULLO from SW Florida!

As I've gotten older, became disabled, lost all of my friends and family, and my health has gotten bad as well, I find that being alone and lonely to be among the worst things I have to deal with. I have no one to talk to and the solitude is drowning me.

@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529

11 күн бұрын

JESUS CHRIST IS THE BEST COMPANY OF ALL!!!! :)

@michaeljohnson2922

10 күн бұрын

@@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529except he doesn’t talk back. It’s imaginary.

@crocadoodle7101

10 күн бұрын

❤️

@usualsuspect5173

10 күн бұрын

Jesus was a bum,he died for his crime, grow up​@@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529

@clementramon8589

10 күн бұрын

I respect what your saying. Hope your health improves. God bless you. May your days get better.

I'm not at retirement age yet but I'm old and lonely too. My kids are grown, far away and doing their own thing. I'm stuck here with no friends or family. I work my ass off and no one to come home to. It's increasingly difficult to carry on with this work pace when the ol body is falling apart. Having no one to share life with makes it even harder to bare. However, I just have to remind myself of how awful it was to be in a bad relationship. I actually look forward to going home after work. It's so nice to be able to just be my self without ridicule. I'm glad I found your channel. Hang in there, I hope things get better for you.

26 here watching this from my recommended videos. Stay strong and know that there are many people out there who care about you, even if they only know you through KZread. Thank you for taking the time to share your experiences and open up.

I'm 65... I'm really feeling older in the past year. One day at a time... I'm retired, my husband works. Focusing on the blessings in my life is what is helping me recently.

@Earthtime3978

12 күн бұрын

If you’re married you have more than half the problem solved. Problem is you dont realize it when you’re in it. If I could turn back the clock .

I came to realize I've been alone so long it's too late to try to start a relationship with anyone. Wife died long ago . I went to the dog pound and got me a great little friend. Best thing I did. Health going down too and on crumbs for money though I worked all my life and paid taxes. Worked so hard I'm in constant pain now. I just found out I got cancer too, I'm only 58. I have a daughter who never talks to me though I gave her everything I had. It's tuff and sad life most of the time but I figure God still has me around for some reason. I eat healthy food I cook myself and go to gym. I ride a motor scooter around. I try to make friends but I only really meet people who take my kindness for weakness. I actually like being alone with no one to control the last of my life.

Thanks for pouring out your soul. I'm a 71 yo widower and there are times I would appreciate a little social interaction. I tend to all my needs and watch my health since I'm T2D. Btw-your lighting is just fine for me. Stay safe

Thank you for taking the time to lay things out and tell us what you’re going through. A million jokes come to mind at first so don’t take it personally if people clown on you. However, when you think about it, we’re all human and just going along for the ride, just like you.

Enjoyed your video. We are all alone. Some of us just don’t know it. Most people aren’t worth knowing.

@TimmyBobinson

14 күн бұрын

I am coming to that conclusion. Most people in this world are selfish and not worth my exhaled breath.

@rickturnr

14 күн бұрын

Being alone is better than being in a crappy relationship

@daveb8679

14 күн бұрын

@@rickturnr agreed. No company is better than bad company.

@Brad68303

14 күн бұрын

@@rickturnr 100%

@richardmorris7063

13 күн бұрын

If you've got one or two really close friends you could trust you're lucky. I have two good friends & two great dogs,I guess I'm really lucky!

I suggest you get your heart checked out. Your symptoms could be due to a heart condition. Don't lose hope; be a comeback story. Your channel has a lot of potential.

@JamesLivesWyoming

14 күн бұрын

Thank you!

@jackiew.8331

12 күн бұрын

I agree as someone with two dads and 3 heart attacks between them...what he described is concerning.

@JBass33

12 күн бұрын

New subscriber here. I agree that you should see a doctor. Your symptoms suggest congestive heart failure.

Wow. Such a great fellow, and probably one of the most authentic and sincere people on KZread. Thanks for sharing your story.