I love how Chance knew that Tab needed to get that off her chest 😂😂

This was a good conversation and I appreciate the seriousness of Tab’s demeanor in this; no smiles or nothing.. play time been over.

I think Chance was looking for the word "justify". People use their story to justify their misbehavior. Once you can be "accountable", you are claiming rightful responsibility for your choices AND acknowledging you cannot choose those behaviors anymore. A good man is one who will do the right thing when no one is looking. Give thanks for such a timely message. 🙏🏾 💖😘

@Deemedpriceless

11 ай бұрын

I was thinking similarly.

@auditionvideoa7236

11 ай бұрын

Thank you Tab and Chance!

@breshay1222

11 ай бұрын

Could've said it better.. 👏

Chance laughing (...and trying to hold in his laughter) because he KNOWS Tab's about to go OFF! 2:45 Chance trying to help ....Tab "uh uh, I got it!" 🤣🤣🤣

This is confirmation for what I literally experienced this week with a close family member, who instead of coming clean for what they did, tried to gaslight me and retold a whole made up story to my face as if I wasn't there at the time. Normally I let stuff like that slide because I know they feel ashamed but don't want to acknowledge it. However, this time I decided to hold myself accountable for MY actions of letting people treat me a certain way. So, I spoke up and even though they never apologized, I now know to stop attaching to messy ppl who bring messiness in my life, regardless the relation.

@MrGrifj1

11 ай бұрын

Regardless!❤

@tressamorgan1128

11 ай бұрын

Amen

@ethelberksteiner3450

11 ай бұрын

Amen!

@breshay1222

11 ай бұрын

Couldn't said it better

@MissLiveLaughLove1

10 ай бұрын

Good for you.

The way Chance looks at Tab is beautiful!! This topic was a great topic.

@alishamartin669

11 ай бұрын

Speak on your cousin

@lisaford6358

11 ай бұрын

☺️Ikr

@souledout3239

11 ай бұрын

I noticed that too …………beautiful ❤

@kynelson73

10 ай бұрын

He and the weight loss journey are the picture of love and support

"Accountability is your road to freedom" Alright now!👏👏

@moonbeanification

11 ай бұрын

Amen!

@leomarilyn4232

10 ай бұрын

Standing in your manhood or womanhood it's about your humanity and personal inner growth = with grace you can face the Truth and deal with the consequences of your words or actions = their is freedom in truth and that is integrity= beauty is within

Bishop Chance Brown and Evangelist Tabitha Brown! Speak the truth!!! God is pleased!

@garnettejones6775

10 ай бұрын

That was funny but real!😂

@melissacooper8387

10 ай бұрын

❤😂

JUST realized I have been excusing myself for a mistake I made while young. Because of this ep, I'm going to address it head-on. Thanks, y'all.

@TheBrownCowgirl

10 ай бұрын

Good for you. It's never too late.

Whew! When Tab is not pleased, I sit quietly and listen! It's not often we see her in a bad space, but mannnn, if she has to go there, SOMEbody better get it together! Smh #letuspray 🙏🏾 #Amen

@Theparentcator

11 ай бұрын

It's getting Wendy ...I mean windy around here.

@lisaford6358

11 ай бұрын

Flashback child

@kalasullivan8832

11 ай бұрын

@@Theparentcator FACTS!!!!

@keishacornwell2774

11 ай бұрын

That nice read, but you get her point!!

22:00 - This is the part, I think, is missed when it comes to accountability! Come on and speak Chance! 🙌🏾 You do not get to dictate someone else's time frame or method of healing, after you fessed up to your actions that hurt them.

@zeedean

11 ай бұрын

Yessss!

@aliciabaker1542

11 ай бұрын

That’s good!❤

@renatapendergrass5930

11 ай бұрын

Amen!!!

It’s about MATURITY, being able to talk about it and say I WAS WRONG, FORGIVE ME!!! ❤❤❤

@jodie8

11 ай бұрын

Agreed.

@valeriedorsey7527

11 ай бұрын

Yes! Well said. I couldn't agree more.

@zeedean

11 ай бұрын

That's it

@tressamorgan1128

11 ай бұрын

In my opinion there’s about 70% of the world that are not mature & doesn’t hold themselves accountable.

@tashmabailey9291

11 ай бұрын

MATURITY is keyyyyyyy

Accountability is HUGE for me. It infuriates me when the person tries to gaslight me into thinking I caused the situation. When y’all are ready I want y’all to expand on accountability and these 20-something children. Pray my strength!

When we don't address accountability... we engage Justification.

I knew this was personal the way Chance was looking and how Tabitha wasn’t playing. We live in a world now, where no one wants to be corrected. We feel it’s an attack, and then we attack others for bringing correction in love. As we age you we should become wiser and accept correction and say I’m sorry. Often times we have blind spots and love ones should be there to help us correct those areas without us taking offense. Let’s all do better! Good topic! 👏🏼

It was the “uhn-uhh, I got it!” for me 😂

@reginarandle584

11 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂 ME TOO!!! I thought I was the only one that caught that!! 🤣🤣🤣 Sis had me ROLLIN!!!

@tressamorgan1128

11 ай бұрын

@@reginarandle584but she was serious!

@reginarandle584

10 ай бұрын

@tressamorgan1128 🤣🤣 I know she was... and apparently so did Chance!! That's why that brother dropped his head and gracefully bowed out like "my bad, please continue." 🤣🤣🤣

CHANCE be holding it down for all the men out here who been married 20+ years !!!! Thank you Chance !!!! I been with my wife Tina for 24 years and the stuff you be saying be on point in your videos, my wife got to hear it from another man's point of view of some of the same shit I been saying, Preciate you bro keep up the good work !!! Love you too Tab but this one goes out to Chance !!!

A lack of accountability produces a broken heart 💔in a relationship. It hurts deeply.

People love to say (usually when they're caught), "I take full responsibility." But they don't actually TAKE responsibility. It can't stop at admitting it and just saying you take responsibility. You have to actually fix what you broke. If you take responsibility, then what are you actually going to do about it? That's accountability.

@Asiyahberiyah

10 ай бұрын

I loveeeee this!

@sunkissdj5608

10 ай бұрын

Yes, yes, and yes!!

@lovemymuzic1

10 ай бұрын

And how your actions speak going forward, too. Are you continuing to do those actions and not correcting it, then you really haven't truly taken accountability. This one is one to be shared with everybody who either are accountable (we see you and appreciate you, so we acknowledge that), or those who just don't take accountability seriously or it's impact on others.

Lol.. the way he looked at that camera when she said stay on topic😂😂 Him love his wife. Accountability is key

T.D. Preached a sermon in our city years ago, long b4 he was at the Potter's House & the summary went like this 'how you Handle the situation will determine HOW LONG YOU STAY IN IT!' The sooner you accept responsibility - the more expedient the 'process of healing can begin!😇🙏🏽 that has guided my ability to be at peace in knowing 'when I'm wrong I'm wrong' -- the power is in the Release! Praying for all situations

@kelleekennedy9084

11 ай бұрын

OH THIS IS LIFE CHANGING THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING

You can NEVER justify wrongdoing. Wrong IS Wrong. When we know better WE CAN AND WILL be able to do better. Not easy but it’s walking in truth and freedom. Love hearing Truths from the two of you. With love❤

@denisecraig5102

11 ай бұрын

I agree wholeheartedly with what was said today but it's contradicting with how we are led to accept the wrongs and make those who want to correct them to be accountable for doing nothing. We have to make ourselves accountable as well as those we elect accountable and stop making what is wrong right and what is right wrong all for a paycheck.

Yesss. When you don't hold yourselves accountable, we keep ourselves in bondage and we can't grow!!!!

My post on Facebook today was, some people will never accept personal responsibility; they prefer to put the blame on someone else’!

Accountability looks like acknowledging your part, apologizing and attoning for it. Or, being willing to suffer the consequences of your decisions or participation. We all make choices. Accountability doesn’t equal excuses.

Ugh I hate that we only get these segments on Friday 🤣but I love watching them always coming through with a good topic and wisdom they never miss❤️I love the Browns lol

Bring that heat, Chance & Tab!! Ouch and Amen🙌🏾🙏🏾 This conversation can heal and transform the lives of individuals and families❤

I promise you my cousin and I talk about this almost every weekend. Preach y'all!!!! 💯💪🏾✊🏾👍🏾

Well put, my husband has had it up to here with me because of my lack of accountability! Just because it feels good to lie over mistakes doesn't mean it's right and I'm not the only one affected by it! He has said everything you all touched on! This was a recent conversation between us, so it's just full circle seeing this episode literally a few days later! Thanks ya'll 💜

Chance said “That’s it!” Tab said “That’s it” Me “Enough said” great talk thank you so much

I got teary-eyed during this 'accountability' episode, because I agree with both of your opinions, but I shill saw and felt the tension. I am going thru something simular and can't even get a mutual civil conversation going so we just don't talk! I commend you both for looking lovingly at each other and speaking respectful on camera, I pray that you can maintain the same off camera. Love you both❤ keep this going we need it🐝🐝

"When you commin off that road, that thang be lookin good". My dude!

Tab was in a mood. Folks not taking accountability is a pet peeve of mine also.

I know we all say it all the time. But we are so GRATEFUL for you two ! Thank you for sharing your life , your knowledge , your gifts & your honesty with us. This is such a blessing to all those who listen . I’m an almost 30 year old man and I’ve found myself eager to learn from y’all every Friday. I know it’s not always easy consistently giving but I can promise y’all that it’s changing lives. Video by video. Life lesson by life lesson. We Love y’all so much . And I pray God continues to bless y’all. ❤️

Accountability is so important I keep myself accountable it about humbling yourself getting out of victim mindset also admitting your flaws or that you mess up

Not only are they not taking accountability, they are gonna put you on a cross for trying to hold them accountable while they look for MORE ways NOT to be held accountable by covering up the fact that they needed to be accountable in the first place. This gets so deep. I can tell it. Alllllll my life problems are because of this topic right here and I found away to ACCOUNT for it literally. I’m sick of paying for it and I don’t care if I die alone because I won’t. I’m not doing it anymore.

I did just that, hold myself accountable, and I was able to forgive my ex without an apology. Me and my daughter do that life lessons.

See, where this conversation gets tricky is in the fact that we oftentimes give ourselves too much credit for where we are in life. Decision and choice right now is one thing, but there was a life that we lived, full of influence and fear and insecurities casted upon us from the people who raised us that really helped us make the choice that we think we're making today.

Hello family,you know I've got to catch you, been down with you since the start, you're family now, I'm claiming y'all....love y'all to life, I've learned so much along the ride, thanks for your presence....❤

Talk about it Chance! A lot of times we're angry but it's misplaced. We, in fact, are angry with ourselves. I love these "talks" with y'all. 💯👍🏾🙏🏾

This This Friday! 🙋🏾‍♀️ I 💯% agree SELF ACCOUNTABILITY is sooo VERY Essential!🙏🏽🥰

Accountability gives self awareness so we can then see things more clearly and grow, change and improve one's self💯.... or DECIDE NOT TO... BC, PPL HAVE FREE WILL. 👑🦁👑

Ms Tab needed to get that off her chest. Love Chance’s awareness and support while she did so. All facts and a word that needed to be heard.

Even when I dismiss people who I feel have crossed nonnegotiable boundaries in my life, I hold myself accountable and deliver the story that offers them the benefit of the doubt as someone who’s going through something themselves rather than blame anyone . I encourage everyone to look for accountability in any situation .

Yes, we can't control everything but we can control our response. With every choice, comes either a reward or a consequence. Tfs

I remember when I used to think that holding yourself accountable was a daunting and scary thing to do. However, continuing to learn more about how God sees us and what he expects of us, I’ve learned that holding myself accountable is truly a blessing. Why? Because when you don’t, you maintain a elementary mindset that many children have; an adult has to teach them how to hold themselves accountable when they do something that’s not nice or do something that hurts someone else. When you learn to hold yourself accountable for doing something wrong or hurting someone else, that is proven wisdom and growth, and it should be some thing to celebrate. Tab said it best. We all have thoughts that aren’t the best sometimes, We all may have done some thing that we’re not proud of. But if we do something and were able to quickly “un-shoulder”, that burden of guilt through accountability, we walk through life, less frazzled and with more peace.

This is happening to me as we speak!! I lost my best friend to an illness 10 years ago and had put a bit of a wall up to protect myself from people who could get closer and hurt me. I love easily and hard... 3 years ago I got into an origami and met some amazing potatoes who I developed a love for, and I decided that i wanted to be better and allow myself the chance to grow and develop new friendships... And now I'm experiencing a hurt i never had because, People don't want to accept accountability for putting their, traumatic experiences on others and denying the effects of it.

Tell the Truth and Shame the Devil...😅

Speak the truth, we must be accountable for ourselves

Right...sometimes people need to hold a mirror to themselves and their behavior. Before harshly judging other people. Nobody is mistake-proof🎯 Tab you are so right👍

This hit home for me! Very personal! It confirmed my exact feelings!

This is absolute fire, and I think everybody needs to hear it. Kudos to Tab & Chance. As always much love and respect to my bro and sis in my head!! 😊

Donna is tied up Ready for this Conversation 😆

Shame is the thing that makes us not hold ourselves accountable (this is for sane ppl). Don't let shame hold you back from being a better person! Like chance said don't beat yourself up, buttttt you can make yourself better!

This world is FULL of people who are not accountable; love to blame others for their issues/actions. Most people really don't see /don't want to see themselves.

"Accountability" was broken down perfectly by both of you! Bravo! 👏👏 So many great life lessons in this conversation! Thank you Tab and Chance for another awesome episode!

I definitely see the progress Tabitha. I need to hold myself accountable for my lack of effort to really loose the weight. 👏🏾👏🏾great conversation much needed.

It's Best to let go of a thought as soon as possible that comes to mind that may cause you to do what's not right.

You better preach, Tab!

Y'all are so natural and chocolate and warm and intelligent and it's easy to get lessons and information from you both. Thank you!

My life is upside down right now because somebody told their story as if they didn't do wrong to me and now I have to ride it out because they passed away and can't be held accountable.

Y’all don’t know how much I admire y’all. Your honesty, your graciousness, your realness is just refreshing to say the very least. You both help me and others in ways you probably can’t even imagine. Thank y’all so much.

I'm teaching my toddler about accountability. I don't want her to grow into an adult who lacks integrity.

Self accountability/self awareness/self correction IS NECESSARY & WILL free you! Relationships are better but you just feel so good when you practice these things. Great message auntie Tab and uncle Chance 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Y’all are on it!! This is a right now, right on time subject. Yess Chance that part!!

This WHOLE topic right here!!! Yall helping some GROWN FOLKS today! Wooooo the episode hits different when it hits home!!! #accountability #dontbemad #doyourpart #thankyall

I don't think this is related to Chance. But someone who she cares about is being called out without calling them out by name

An account is a collection of facts. An accountant is one who balances the collection of facts expressed in numbers regarding one’s finances - assets, liabilities, expenses, and revenue - no opinions involved. To hold oneself accountable is to focus on the facts of the matter at hand, distilling away any excuses, opinions, or preferences. “This is what I did, and it caused an outcome.” That cis self-accountability.

Gurlllllll thank you for addressing this!!! Why are the said person mad at us for their accountability?? Go to counseling!!

This episode was “very good” Honey so much so I had to watch it twice. And share it too! Thank you Tab and Chance for discussing this very issue so many of us are challenged with today. I appreciate your perspective, examples, and wisdom on the matter. Great job. 👍🏾🙏🏾

Amazing segment!! I am also a true believer that if we start with the children we can teach and lead them in a better direction. I teach children and young adults about financial literacy, so they can understand money and how to use it. I’m not an advisor but a true believer it is important to get them started early. So I love that you want to teach life lessons. Thank God for you both 🙏🏾

Whoever Miss Tab was looking 👀 at. I hope you can come through it.

@naomim5746

11 ай бұрын

😂 I felt that stare so much I had to check myself 😂

@savillewilliams

11 ай бұрын

I had to check myself 😊😂

“Accountability” is the theme in this world right now!! Politics; employment reform, justice department and then everyday life struggles of just being human!! Each day we learn to step up and get it right!! It’s up to you to dig deep and DO WHAT IS Required TO OWN UP TO IT!!💪🏾NEW HABITS#2023

3:20 it's the seriousness in Tab's facial expressions for me ! She meant it and you can tell she was very serious! I respect that. 4:27 this is a big piece to recognize the situation and your ACTION in it, the DECISION you made and what the outcome is. Whether you get caught or not!! It's the bigger picture, purpose, and principle. I get 5:47 Chance's perspective but accept the outcomes of your decisions ijs

Chance you broke this message down and brought it home. This helped me, great conversation!!

I of to hold myself accountable for all the things I allow my sisters to do to me. I also need accountability on this weight gain and stop stressing and get depressed. Over the years allow the same people to hurt me over and over again family/friend, because I'm always the strong one, but GOD, Tab and Chance I truly thank you for this today. I truly appreciate you both. Thank you may God continue to keep and bless you and your family always.

Hey 🎊 🎉😊 good morning everyone. I really appreciate Ms TB sharing her life with us all and giving us real advice. Just want to say thank you 🙏🏽

Great set today. The message was powerful. I was just having this conversation last night with an employee so to then see this set this morning it really resignated with me. And Chance saying how he has held himself accountable in front of his team was powerful. To know an adult taught those kids in real time during a loss was powerful to me. Thanks for this one.

This was such a constructive discussion about accountability. Thank you, Chance and Tab 💗

You never need money that bad to do something illegal. Too many resources in the world especially America.

@kitcowool

11 ай бұрын

I haven’t even watched yet, but I saw the clip earlier and through of my family member when she brought up accountability… and that exactly what he did, something illegal and this was my EXACT thought! Too many resources!

@Shaquanda

11 ай бұрын

It’s knowledge one lack not resources. I’m not making excuses for anyone or anything because there’s always a way.

@kitcowool

11 ай бұрын

Glad you agree Tab! (Especially with all of my typos lol). Great episode, continued success and much love always! ❤️🥰

Ugh every thumbnail i just take a deep sigh and say ‘SO BEAUTIFUL’ without thinking. Ooooweee Tab you are just so one pretty lady!!!! Now time to watch lolol ❤️

Yes, I had to learn to do this for my children as well. ❤

SPEAK ON IT SIS

What’s interesting is that EVEN if somebody else is putting THEIR responsibility of accountability on you and you THINK u don’t have a choice, u still have a choice. If your choice is to receive it, then u need to take accountability for receiving it because you did it in the light of you COULD be responsible for that person’s accountability. U made that choice, now do the responsible thing and EXPECT others to hold u accountable for it. Ppl like to play on emotions in that regard. Manipulation. No, consider the cost WHEN U TAKE ON ANYTHING cuz SOMEBODY is gonna hold u accountable for it, ESPECIALLY if you’re COSTING THEM ANYTHING

I tell u what’s helping me with it besides more self awareness, it’s loving correction in wisdom. When you make a habit of loving correction, you’ll start to take more self accountability, asking the right questions and literally looking for corporate accountability. Ask God for wisdom. She will keep you! Correction is a pillar of wisdom, just like discernment is

I think the only issue with the crime example is that prison is not about accountability; it’s about punishment. Prison isn’t designed to produce accountability. It’s designed to punish.

The way they read each other is outstanding. Very good topic and on point.

This was a needed conversation. "Accountability" The energy is what it should be. Grace is still present.

Thank you for this awesome podcast.I really appreciate you all. I wish my grandson was on your basketball team.He is 14 years old today. He needs positive strong male roll models in his life.

This is one me and my husband WILL watch together!

Tab I've never seen you this serious. This was a very good conversation for us all. Thanks for sharing

Same thing happened to me, that happened to your Sister! And just like your Nephew, my Son took accountability for his actions! He got his Associates Degree and also became a Master Barber! He’s an example of accepting what you did and turning it around for his good!❤

No empathy for foolishness and folly

This was JUST what I NEEDED on this Friday after a looooong week when I was JUS' debating if I should cut up and treat myself to some 🍦 cuz "I deserve it"...when what I TRULY DESERVE is to keep my emotions in check, HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE, DISCIPLINE MYSELF, and treat my BODY like the TEMPLE it is by nourishing it with WHOLE FOODS!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 When I say this message is RIGHT 👏🏾 ON 👏🏾 TIME, I MEAN IT!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@Passion84GodAlways

11 ай бұрын

THANK YOU AUNTIE TAB & UNCLE CHANCE!!! 🥰🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾

@karencouncil7837

11 ай бұрын

Amen

@valeriedorsey7527

11 ай бұрын

Yes, I agree. Me too!

Thank you God for this. 🙏🏿🙏🏻🙏🏽

MY MOTHER IS IN THE HOSPITAL RIGHT NOW, SHE WAS VOMITING AND DIZZINESS, THEY ARE RUNNING SOME TESTS ON HER, SHE WILL BE THERE FOR A COUPLE DAYS, AMEN 🙌✝️🙏😷👩🧎‍♀️📖🚑

This topic was definitely on time, but I feel “in my spear-rat” that this was not only for the people in the back, but more specifically for the ones on the “far right”. The ones who had to take a little trip to the ATL yesterday to turn themselves in. DA Fani Willis is displaying a great example of accountability by doing her job and following the letter of the law. The same can not be said for 45. Just my thoughts. With that said…Don’t mess with Tab! Great episode! Awesome show! ♥️

Chance you are leaving a positive imprint on the kids. Thanks for allowing them to see all aspects of you. As all ways thank you for sharing. Luv y’all 🥰🥰🤗🤗❤️❤️

We are social creatures. It is how we were made. We were built to live in interdependent groups--large and small (that's what a "society" is. It is our responsibility as adults to teach children how to be good CITIZENS. Accountability is integral.

Tab, I heard you loud, and clear, on this subject. I echo, every word y’all said.