Trust Me, You Don't Want to Fit In!
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Now is not the time to be striving to be 'normal'
Timothy Ward
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My HR person told me I don’t fit in to the culture of my company because I stay to myself and focus on my work, as opposed to chatting, lunching, and gossiping. I gave notice and feel free!!!
@MsMaxinejoy
Жыл бұрын
Wow, HR person is a LOSER. Glad you've freed yourself!
@cedricliggins7528
Жыл бұрын
Good move. You will not regret it
@jackiemaldonado7777
Жыл бұрын
Eww fuck that place! I relate though. A lot of jobs care about "work culture" and I'm just there to do my job, not be friends with everyone
@user-hliudpn
Жыл бұрын
@@jackiemaldonado7777 Why should an employee have to be fake friends with their coworkers? Like you can force friendships on people.
@jackiemaldonado7777
Жыл бұрын
@@user-hliudpn idk but that's a question for them lol I have this one girl at my job who calls me her "bestie" but someone said she's been calling every new person in my position that for the past 4 years 😂😂
A good quote to remember is "You need to be careful when you follow the masses because sometimes the m is silent!"
@TimothyWard
Жыл бұрын
😂
@markwhittaker6866
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 That is a great quote.
@eternalabundance39
3 ай бұрын
Amazing quote
@victoriasage7
17 күн бұрын
Haha I just got it 😅
@blessed7927
12 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
I love being home alone. No rude cashier's on cell phones, no blocked streets waiting for people to end their conversation, no tailgaters pushing you down the road, people hiding from you in Walmart they think you might need help with something, blocking the gas pump and not getting gas....Stay home 🏠
So much truth! We kill ourselves trying to fit into some world that we don't even like
@freespirit-111
Жыл бұрын
A world that we don’t even like…. That’s it right there. So much truth in that statement.
@thinkaboutit9162
Жыл бұрын
#Truth teller 😂😂
@steelearmstrong9616
8 ай бұрын
Good one
If I were trying to fit in, I’d probably married, both of us working and living paycheck to paycheck to afford all the bills, having 1.89 kids, a house. No thanks. I save a lot of money and travel whenever I want (solo). My free time is my free time. I also don’t have to appear happy on social media to be nice to people I don’t like just to be socially acceptable.
I was homeless and travelled around for some years. I broke down. The past few years I've picked up the pieces and am financially independent. But my day to day life feels miserable. I miss the freedom but don't want to be homeless again. Life is so confusing
I’ve been told many times in my life that I have the personality profile of a serial killer just because I’m quiet and alone most of the time. I find it hilarious. But being alone has made me more aware of myself, and I feel like I can see more clearly how other people really NEED socialization. Like, I noticed people are SO uncomfortable with silence. They always feel the need to make small talk if there’s any silence lingering for too long.
@cedricliggins7528
Жыл бұрын
You are so right. Everybody feels the urge to talk just to be talking. Most people don't really talk abt anything worth talking abt. The older I get the harder it is to have mature, intelligent conversations.
@SchnickChicks
Жыл бұрын
I crave silence and alone time. I always thought there was something wrong with me😂. I love doing things on my own, in solitude.
@markwhittaker6866
Жыл бұрын
@@SchnickChicks I can relate for sure.
@BeingLifted
Жыл бұрын
Long ago, a friend gave me a small wall-hanging that spelled out a big truth: "Friendship is when silence between two people is comfortable." Truth.
@ifkanoloshuwaaallah.2341
Жыл бұрын
Same😂they want your feed back like a baby I don’t have time for that.
So many of us have used alcohol to socialize - makes you wonder ...
My life I am happy I don’t fit in because everyone act the same and think the same boring.
Dont wanna fit in just because people think its cool i do what i like
Thank you for feeding the crows. They remember peoples faces and can talk just like parrots do.
Crows are highly intelligent
Run from the herd If a life is what you want! Because the herd is getting too big. Be Consumed with noise or live free from the herd . Tim is right. God bless
I live in a van at a shed in a town in Australia - fellow outlier...got a family of magpies that has been coming to my shed for three generations with their fledglings. They love peanuts and peanut butter...when they eat their fill the adults give me a gorgeous little song. Love my little birdie mates! (And spiders - they're cool...the van and shed is a city of refuge for 'em.) Wouldn't trade it for anything!
@rasingh3878
Жыл бұрын
where in Australia?
@steelearmstrong9616
8 ай бұрын
I love this. Good for you mate
I was just thinking about this last night! Every job I work I end up being bad at, I don't know where I fit in the world.
@Thankfulnes12
Жыл бұрын
I also feel the same way.
@stephencotton2694
10 ай бұрын
It's not you it's the jobs
I was thinking about this today. Why would I want to fit in? The world that I’m looking at does not look appealing at all. Sometimes, people are friends by default. Like your neighbor, co-worker etc.
@turtleanton6539
4 күн бұрын
Indeed 😮
Tim i hear ya ! Iam 57 imagine that ! The world is going crazy in my eyes. But there is something to be said about not running with the herd. I agree better off not
I was never able to fit in no matter how hard I tried. Always a bit different and thinking, but this is just stupid. I'm 52 now and I have come to realize that it was because I am a free thinker and I'm just fine with that. I live life my way, work for myself, and stay weird and free 😃,
Agreed. This is a lonely time, especially if you question and try to stay true to yourself.
That's they call us misfits 😎
"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society. We have lost it, or we have never had it; and, because we do not know how to judge anything, we have been led here and pushed there, beaten up, driven, politically, religiously and socially. We don't know, but it is difficult to say we don't know." -Jiddu Krishnamurti
Brilliant evaluation of why lm happy being me and not them.
omg!!...Tim! You hilarious about the cashier, you had me laughing hard here.. 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Been standing off to the side for years, tried to fit in but ran back to the side again understand what you are saying, greetings from ireland,
I feed the crows ❤
I fit in alone. Lol I love that
Your messages day-to-day resonate so much with me it's crazy
I love to hike by myself
I live in UK and here everyone in the work place uses British banter which essentially means taking the pi*s out of eachother and laughing off insults even though deep down ur hurt by the insult. Thats pretty much what we do down here and i hate it. I like to keep to myself and when i dont engage in the 'banter' i get called a wierdo. In the workplace u dont hear about the importance of family, investing, working out and health, instead its extremely common to hear about drugs, alcohol and party culture. If i went to someone and tried talking to them about fitness they'd probably look at me like im some alien
CONGRATS ON THE MILLION VIEWS CLUB TIM!!! 🎉
@TimothyWard
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!’
Tanzania, as you probably know by now is a Country in East Africa with the World's Largest, Selous, Game Reserve. Congratulations on One Million Views for a SINGLE VIDEO. Tks. much.
Hope you are well Tim! Watching oldies to keep my mind from worrying in the funk! Miss ya and hope to catch a livestream soon❤
@TimothyWard
Ай бұрын
I’ll be back soon Jennifer! 👍🏾
Oh my goodness the Target lady part so funny!! Every time I follow the crowd I've always regretted it. Not a lot of friends but I get by. Totally with you on the walking and thinking best best thoughts best times. I'm only to the peanut butter part so I think there's a lot left but that is also true the good guy bad guy sales tactic!
Every time I perform "Slowly I Turn" I get the strangest looks. I'm glad somebody remembers the Marx Brothers 😅 Kirstie Alley and those eyes on top of that stunning beauty. Rip.
Inspirational video - great thoughts and insight! Appreciate the video. Beautifully articulated. Thank you. 🫶🏾
Wow Tim! You are such a gem ❤
@TimothyWard
8 ай бұрын
Thank you!
Right on Time Message!
21:00 😂🤣 The instant you said that, I thought of Sally Fields. Then you mentioned her. That poor woman will never live it down.
love the crows brings me joy
Hi Timothy, I am going to watch your video 25 Best Places to Sleep When Living in Your Car! when I get home.
Target too expensive in my area. Will never shop there again!! Kirstie Alley went to school in Wichita Ks. She was a nice lady.
lol u had my dyin when u said “ i think my advice is for people who its good advice for” >
Love your live streams 💙
@TimothyWard
7 ай бұрын
Thank you!
Damn, I never thought of it like that: "The ones that fit in, when the herd goes one way, that have to follow" 🤔🤔
Comform or be cast out ..."Rush"
Oh, millions views 👍🏽congratulations 🎉
Yes hell i do.
Interesting topic 😁💯 and funny story time 🤣 Lol 🔥
You are really funny sometimes! Gram Gram. LOL
Tks. much.
@sharondestefano9115
Жыл бұрын
I've never felt I belonged even tho other people thought I did. I m 72. Always liked taking my own trail. I'm lonely but I like it too lol.
Being a nomad, a felon, transgender/GNC, gay, neurodivergent.....is all a gift to me now. The way I dressed in HS, mad TIK TOK'ers are biting off ideas anyway.
So good...thanks for all the time and effort you put into these videos. Always on point Tim ..!
1:31:20 the keyword is balance
I'm not pigeonholing it all, if you read what I'm saying, I'm making a general Point. After living in America for quite some time, my opinion is Americans are greedy and materialistic, and they have to be "somebody," because if they are a "nobody," then their life is perceived as worthless and valueless, by themselves, and more importantly, by other Americans. And in my opinion, watching Americans grasping for notoriety and being "unique," is in part, destroying the fabric of American society and culture. -Peter Harris
Hello Tim, as always, your content, insights and perspectives are golden. Thank you so much.
Tim you’re crazy 😂leave us old folks alone😂 all jokes but why are they so mean. I hope I never get like🤦🏽♀️
10% social. 90% alone. Thats me! Great insights!