Trevor Noah ON: For People Who FEEL LOST In Life, WATCH THIS To Find Yourself | Jay Shetty

Today, I am talking to Trevor Noah. Trevor is the most successful comedian in Africa and is the host of the Emmy and Peabody Award-winning “The Daily Show” on Comedy Central. Under Trevor, “The Daily Show with Trevor Noah” has broken free from the restraints of a 30-minute linear show, producing engaging social content, award-winning digital series, podcasts and more for its global audience. He has written, produced, and starred in 11 comedy specials, including his most recent, “Trevor Noah: Son of Patricia,” which launched in November 2018 on Netflix. He is the author of the #1 New York Times bestseller “Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood” and its young readers adaptation “It’s Trevor Noah: Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood,” which also debuted as a New York Times bestseller.
Trevor opens the conversation by sharing what it was like growing up, how he sees the rest of the world, and why it felt like it was okay growing up the way he did. We then exchange thoughts and perspectives on topics such as finding the true meaning of having a ‘home’, the type of friends we often surround ourselves with and why, finding independence in a completely new and foreign place, and being mindful of yourself and in one with your inner thoughts.
What We Discuss:
00:00:00 Intro
00:02:18 Same story, same book but different meaning
00:05:33 Comparing your hardships to others experiences
00:09:27 “It was not bad because it happened to everyone.”
00:13:27 Are you forced to be grateful for everything?
00:19:13 The true definition of the word home
00:21:39 What is your purpose?
00:25:19 Who are your friends?
00:35:43 Becoming unrelatable to people
00:44:43 How does a monk fire someone?
00:46:48 What is your idea of safety?
00:52:30 When’s the best time to walk away?
00:56:37 Having conversations with yourself
01:03:37 When you leave home
01:09:25 The burden our parents unconsciously give us
01:17:54 The Many Sides to Us
01:24:03 Trevor on Final Five

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  • @iheartcandra
    @iheartcandra Жыл бұрын

    I like to say “I’m not grateful for my suffering but I found meaning in it. And that meaning is what I’m grateful for “

  • @charitymasango2649

    @charitymasango2649

    Жыл бұрын

    Baaaaaaaarrrrrssssssss 🔥

  • @KennlitoeWanjiru

    @KennlitoeWanjiru

    Жыл бұрын

    This got to me too. It makes more sense.

  • @crazyanimeloveable

    @crazyanimeloveable

    Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful! ❣️

  • @lonewolf7704

    @lonewolf7704

    Жыл бұрын

    Damn, that is so well put.

  • @mourineachieng76

    @mourineachieng76

    Жыл бұрын

    Well put

  • @Meowx96
    @Meowx96 Жыл бұрын

    "The only thing scarier than accepting who we are is accepting that we don't know who we will be when we let go of the things that have made us who we are today."

  • @eye-ris8898

    @eye-ris8898

    Жыл бұрын

    Powerful

  • @calinapopa6690

    @calinapopa6690

    Жыл бұрын

    This right here

  • @shawnlivers2757

    @shawnlivers2757

    Жыл бұрын

    Profound statement, thank you.

  • @suzettewillams7487

    @suzettewillams7487

    Жыл бұрын

    This right here is powerful

  • @lmansur1000

    @lmansur1000

    Жыл бұрын

    They talk about dying before dying - that is a total letting go and living life in liberation right here. We cannot control it, we just have to gently let go until the "Berlin" wall crumbles and then, I suspect, it will be a new experience of being.

  • @j.r.bergstrom6230
    @j.r.bergstrom623010 ай бұрын

    I'm nearly 70 years old. I just discovered these podcasts. It's work like this that gives me hope for the future. There are so many wonderful younger people, like you, doing amazing work. Thank you.

  • @BeatheSommer

    @BeatheSommer

    5 ай бұрын

    I am 35 years old and I feel the same way!

  • @didid7880

    @didid7880

    4 ай бұрын

    I never realized that Trevor was such a cerebral person. This was a great interview!

  • @DonovanAlexander-lj3gu

    @DonovanAlexander-lj3gu

    3 ай бұрын

    You too

  • @182sanroque

    @182sanroque

    2 ай бұрын

    I know Trevor is smart but boy this conversation gave me a new meaning of life and what's is all about (well almost) thank you both Jay and Trevor.

  • @therealsWa
    @therealsWa8 ай бұрын

    Trevor Noah is a true Son of Africa. The depth of mindfulness. The spirituality. The empathy. The kindness. The humor. I miss my brothers and sisters of Africa.

  • @fomorekontent83
    @fomorekontent83 Жыл бұрын

    Trevor Noah is such a phenomenal human being. Not only is he a comedian but also a teacher and inspiration

  • @Amish07

    @Amish07

    Жыл бұрын

    only that he became too woke

  • @brendakmorales

    @brendakmorales

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Amish07 Seriously?! You know his background, right? His parents were not even allowed to live together in South Africa. He titled his memoir Born a Crime because of that. If anyone has the right to be "woke", it's Trevor Noah.

  • @Jojos329

    @Jojos329

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Amish07 you are too misinformed

  • @jkovert

    @jkovert

    Жыл бұрын

    @@brendakmorales He's repugnant.

  • @elsaelsa2213

    @elsaelsa2213

    Жыл бұрын

    Yesss and he is cute too

  • @Rin-jo2se
    @Rin-jo2se Жыл бұрын

    I am yet to come across a person in my life where I could have a deep heart to heart conversation like this..people like them are so rare.

  • @stacielivinthedream8510

    @stacielivinthedream8510

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow, you should look for groups maybe on meet-up app. They're are lots of groups that you could join. There are hiking, spiritual, etc. Also there are addiction groups of all kinds to join. We need others who we feel comfortable with to share with.

  • @sassycat6487

    @sassycat6487

    Жыл бұрын

    I work in retail so I meet a lot of people and I've had a lot of deep conversations with people like this! If you are a people person and want to connect with others working in customer service can be very rewarding.

  • @minah19845

    @minah19845

    Жыл бұрын

    @@stacielivinthedream8510 me too, am looking for deep people

  • @thesingerintheshower

    @thesingerintheshower

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly. This is the reason that I love Trevor Noah. It's also the reason that I love my best friend 💕. She is one of two people, next to my sister, with whom I can have conversations like this one.

  • @madeline467

    @madeline467

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤ wow! I love Trevor Noah even more now! Not only is he gorgeous and funny he’s also extremely wise! Very inspirational.

  • @dwijenshah8193
    @dwijenshah81937 ай бұрын

    I loved what jay said about, “ The only place higher than heaven/spiritual world is the one where you living your purpose.”

  • @ngalahansel6066

    @ngalahansel6066

    3 ай бұрын

    I would rather say it's a place closer to,but not higher than heaven😊

  • @ilsagita5257

    @ilsagita5257

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@ngalahansel6066there is no heaven life to the fullest here

  • @holly_kalonji
    @holly_kalonji Жыл бұрын

    This is, by far, one of the BEST "brain-picking", thought-provoking & eye-opening interviews I've ever watched! Trevor's way of thinking is utterly mind-blowing & completely OUT OF THIS WORLD!👏🏾❤️

  • @Anarcho-Communist895

    @Anarcho-Communist895

    Күн бұрын

    I love that Trevor can just be himself and doesn't stay in his show host character. Lots of (insecure) celebrities feel like they have to entertain viewers every minute.

  • @nnooan
    @nnooan Жыл бұрын

    This is the magic that happens when two insightful, enlightened people converse! That there was a free counselling session for us listeners🙏🏼

  • @chilufyangandwe8007

    @chilufyangandwe8007

    Жыл бұрын

    I was looking for such a comment It is super profound

  • @genevrajean1658

    @genevrajean1658

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, exactly my thoughts! So beautiful

  • @ratnapandjaitan6214

    @ratnapandjaitan6214

    Жыл бұрын

    Can’t agree more.

  • @carlasamuels479

    @carlasamuels479

    Жыл бұрын

    👌🥰

  • @FloraMBrown

    @FloraMBrown

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely! Powerful!

  • @siyolisemakaka6013
    @siyolisemakaka6013 Жыл бұрын

    This is not an ordinary interview, it's a conversation between two intelligent men that are open to learn from each other.. This is Phenomenal ❣️.... Mad respect for you guys💟

  • @tessydakwan6994

    @tessydakwan6994

    Жыл бұрын

    Awesome

  • @esperanzamedia2710

    @esperanzamedia2710

    Жыл бұрын

    So tremendous talks

  • @shalondawilliamslynard

    @shalondawilliamslynard

    Жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love this!

  • @betielsoltani1179

    @betielsoltani1179

    Жыл бұрын

    The deepest and most enriching conversation I have heard in a long time. Thank you gentlemen!

  • @rixslade6032

    @rixslade6032

    Жыл бұрын

    this racist is intelligent obama has brain washed you

  • @jimpayne9545
    @jimpayne95458 ай бұрын

    21:12 -- "My definition of home has always been where I feel I am living my purpose." 🤔💯

  • @lucasnkgabane7679
    @lucasnkgabane767911 ай бұрын

    Trevor is one smart guy, we need to hear him talk some more. The world needs this kind of content from him

  • @calmbeauty2392

    @calmbeauty2392

    3 ай бұрын

    Hopefully in the future...there shall be more. God bless his future family...❤🎉

  • @clarelouise42

    @clarelouise42

    3 ай бұрын

    I agree.

  • @HarveySpecter2020

    @HarveySpecter2020

    Ай бұрын

    @@clarelouise42 love you

  • @cedricjones7470

    @cedricjones7470

    Ай бұрын

    Say that!!🎉

  • @PriyaTilkar
    @PriyaTilkar Жыл бұрын

    I love how clearly he is able to think and explain his thoughts ❤️ Sometimes I really can't find words to explain what I am thinking.

  • @em0_tion

    @em0_tion

    Жыл бұрын

    He's a true master of that skill. 🙏

  • @DynaMic31

    @DynaMic31

    Жыл бұрын

    @@em0_tion Exactly....man, same thoughts wllh

  • @rixslade6032

    @rixslade6032

    Жыл бұрын

    its easy i think he is full of shit

  • @tamarabuxton2516

    @tamarabuxton2516

    Жыл бұрын

    Relatable 🤟🧡🇨🇦

  • @Nyumba_girl.

    @Nyumba_girl.

    Жыл бұрын

    This is so powerful 💯

  • @halaali1721
    @halaali1721 Жыл бұрын

    This was definitely 2 way interview for two whom I really admire 👌it felt two friends meeting each other

  • @evstyle

    @evstyle

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree. I thought the same thing. They are a great duo together.

  • @sparliah

    @sparliah

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree, it was a wonderful conversation and very inspiring. Thank you for sharing this conversation with us Jay

  • @handlum

    @handlum

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly right? I feel like they must become friends if they're not already.

  • @keriannmeyers1171
    @keriannmeyers1171 Жыл бұрын

    I have 4 sons. I'll consider myself a successful mother if they turn out with Trevor Noah's character traits. I want them to have his empathy, compassion, understanding, wisdom, and ability to see humor in life.

  • @stinareed270

    @stinareed270

    11 ай бұрын

    We need more nurturing mothers for our sons. That's a great intention for your boys.

  • @MV-xu8xv

    @MV-xu8xv

    9 ай бұрын

    wonderful words.

  • @SowingSeedsWithChristy

    @SowingSeedsWithChristy

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes, it's our greatest wish as mothers, along with being able to create something valuable out of adversity. May your wish come true for all your sons. ❤❤❤❤

  • @theresa467

    @theresa467

    9 ай бұрын

    Smile! I understand! However, what Trevor has accomplished, came with a price. I grew up in the south, but in a different era than my mom and dad and I still will not want to go thru the challenges of growing up to accomplish his success. We as people sometimes want what someone else has, but if we knew their trials and sacrifices made to get it, we’ll say, “Oh no, forget it. I don’t want it!” If U are a believer in Christ Jesus, pray and ask God to give all 4 of your sons those characteristics traits; and to give to U as well, if U don’t have them; but a couple of those requests are taught and learned behaviors. If U haven’t purchased his book, “Born a Crime” please do. Best wishes to U and your sons! ⭕️

  • @SowingSeedsWithChristy

    @SowingSeedsWithChristy

    9 ай бұрын

    @@theresa467 Wise. We have to be careful what we ask for. We just might get it and in ways we didn't want. I know something of that. The hand of God is mighty. I will add that we do have to remember as parents to allow our children their own challenges and hurdles to overcome, whatever they may be. We mustn't think loving them means giving them everything we didn't get or sparing them hardships of various kinds. Just be there as a guide or to help them recover, hopefully, better for the lesson. And for those reading along, I'm not talking about standing back and letting extreme things happen to our children, lest anyone go there. We are, of course, to protect our children as best as we can and when necessary, but only when appropriate to the age and developmental ability of each child. Then the question comes, "How do we do this?" Perhaps like you, I learned the discernment needed for this kind of parenting by studying and practicing biblical principles.🙌🏽 I made no important decisions that impacted my son's life without prayer and consulting the Holy Spirit. Thank you for your inspiring comment. 🙏💞 Best!

  • @taariqkhanoflegend4622
    @taariqkhanoflegend4622 Жыл бұрын

    I still remember when Trevor was a small time presenter on some South African kids program. His climb has been something out of the heavens.

  • @dbossamarachi

    @dbossamarachi

    Ай бұрын

    Absolutely

  • @Kamulah
    @Kamulah Жыл бұрын

    There's just something about listening to Trevor. I could do it all day. And the way they bounce energies and ideas off of each other is so refreshing. I love this!

  • @LauraMorland

    @LauraMorland

    8 ай бұрын

    I totally agree. I could do it all day, too. (Unfortunately I have a life that interferes... ;-)

  • @LucyDiamond31
    @LucyDiamond31 Жыл бұрын

    I like "Your friends in life are your horcruxes. We break ourselves into parts. Whenever we meet people, we give them a part of ourselves."

  • @susanbyron6499

    @susanbyron6499

    Жыл бұрын

    Had to look up the HP word "horcruxes" and was quite surprised what it all includes...

  • @methu6

    @methu6

    Жыл бұрын

    Felt this

  • @bilqiswilliams

    @bilqiswilliams

    Жыл бұрын

    My favorite part of the conversation, it literally summarizes this whole conversation and reiterates that he is truly mercurial

  • @jnioursunshine836

    @jnioursunshine836

    Жыл бұрын

    My favorite 💝

  • @benmavinn1666

    @benmavinn1666

    9 ай бұрын

    What I realised is that as we evolve through time, we tend not to resonate with some parts we left in the hands of our friends. They know as differently as we know ourselves now.

  • @jasminekyoko7179
    @jasminekyoko7179 Жыл бұрын

    That comfort in chaos phenomenon Trevor talks about hit deeply for me...

  • @cesarcortes3891
    @cesarcortes38919 ай бұрын

    I didn't know this guy Trevor Noah, I should say He's a great person, good speaker and wise.

  • @spiracrosslifecare
    @spiracrosslifecare Жыл бұрын

    I have watched many interviews but this one is on a different level all together...... Trevor and Jay are pure gems, how vulnerable you guys are on this episode is just phenomenal and will definitely help millions of people!!!!

  • @roumelio

    @roumelio

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel like this is something every other person who is watching the Joe Rogan podcast, and Jordan Peterson should actually watch instead. They're talking about vulnerability and healing in a healthy way, rather than a destructive way.

  • @silviahoffmann158

    @silviahoffmann158

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @ajdarc880

    @ajdarc880

    Жыл бұрын

    @Enrich Media Kenya, hata mimi loved loved them

  • @tomasandersongallagher5753
    @tomasandersongallagher5753 Жыл бұрын

    This aging Vietnam Vet feels grateful that somehow I found this discussion with Trevor & Jay. It made me look deeper into myself, the good, bad and ugly and how I can become a better human being. A very challenging time over the last several years that has tested all of us. Feel more than ever that kindness, love, truly listening to others can break down the walls between completely diverse people on this small planet of ours.

  • @denasharpe2393

    @denasharpe2393

    Жыл бұрын

    Maybe our generation had to grow old in order to grow up!!

  • @sharonxia6694

    @sharonxia6694

    Жыл бұрын

    Well said

  • @jakobbauz

    @jakobbauz

    Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful comment, thanks man.

  • @deborahjandle1207

    @deborahjandle1207

    Жыл бұрын

    Beautifully stated

  • @jenjen2744

    @jenjen2744

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your service- you're an inspiration!

  • @stinger_chronicles
    @stinger_chronicles6 ай бұрын

    When your two mentors seat at the same table, Its Amazing.

  • @mutintamwiya4881
    @mutintamwiya488110 ай бұрын

    What I appreciate the most about the fruit of this conversation is how at the end of it, you’re fueled with a deep desire to look into yourself and not to necessarily lean onto one’s view or outline of life and that’s super dope… we aren’t being influenced to see life a certain way, we’re being influenced to sit with ourselves and reconcile our experiences and journeys and challenged to grow ❤️

  • @pamelaconstantine170

    @pamelaconstantine170

    5 ай бұрын

    So well said! You summed up exactly how I am feeling.

  • @LumkaJwara

    @LumkaJwara

    4 ай бұрын

    Love this ❤

  • @leilagoncalves2185

    @leilagoncalves2185

    2 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤ amazing ! I just found Jay ! This combination is amazing ! Out of this world !

  • @teresiasyowai5156
    @teresiasyowai5156 Жыл бұрын

    The mutual respect and admiration from both Jay and Trevor is amazing

  • @ingebrauer2674

    @ingebrauer2674

    Жыл бұрын

    What a feast for the mind, as well as the eyes

  • @kcp44

    @kcp44

    8 ай бұрын

    I agree

  • @claptongirl536
    @claptongirl536 Жыл бұрын

    Trevor is self-aware, insightful, mindful, and empathic. To move and grow in life, it's essential that you let go of some things, but it is scary; especially when it is something familiar. Learning how to ask thoughtful questions can result in conversations that go beneath the surface that can promote enlightenment (for the person asking and the person answering the question). Great interview!

  • @tracysimon7972

    @tracysimon7972

    Жыл бұрын

    Very well put

  • @MrCrumbie
    @MrCrumbie Жыл бұрын

    I did not want this conversation to end. Thank you for this.

  • @jeannaheflin2846
    @jeannaheflin2846 Жыл бұрын

    It was truly eye opening to hear what "safe" meant to Trevor and to realize that safety and what it means to be safe is so different for each person. I am a teacher, so this was very necessary for me to hear and understand as it will allow me to further reach and teach my students understanding that their primary need (to be safe) means something different to each and every one of them. Thank you for being fertilizer in my life Trevor!

  • @jennieshepherd5845

    @jennieshepherd5845

    6 ай бұрын

    I would love to hear what you have to say about integrating that into your classroom. If one child finds safety and therefore an ability to learn in chaos while their classmate finds it in solace, can you ever teach a successful lesson or are you doomed to create 2 of everything for the sake of necessary accomodation?

  • @aaroncmumba8568
    @aaroncmumba8568 Жыл бұрын

    Man! I love trevor's mind. The guy is a genius. I love how articulate he is. This is one of the best interviews I've ever seen.

  • @sukuloluhlen
    @sukuloluhlen Жыл бұрын

    Two lessons I’ve learnt from this episode: 1) I need to reevaluate my safety net and determine whether certain parts of myself that I’m holding onto are actually holding me back. 2) In order to learn and understand others, it is necessary to let go of self. One word for this episode - wow.

  • @conradmiller5735

    @conradmiller5735

    Жыл бұрын

    Totally agree. Unrelated - I love your name.

  • @rixslade6032

    @rixslade6032

    Жыл бұрын

    you got all that from this racist

  • @divonteschiller8788
    @divonteschiller8788 Жыл бұрын

    I've been investing heavily during the pandemic and I've been making quite a bit of money. Passive income is great since once you've built your nest egg, the money will continue to come in passively. I am focusing on a hybrid of dividend and growth since I think that both routes are really intelligent. All credits to Zach Micah Demers my advisor

  • @carolsitsons443

    @carolsitsons443

    Жыл бұрын

    Consistency is the key to a successful investing journey as modest investments for longer periods of time will usually outperform larger investments over shorter periods. I’ll keep working with Mr Zach his ways are very defined and yields results

  • @andreasvankur3735

    @andreasvankur3735

    Жыл бұрын

    Who is Zach Micah Demers?

  • @Jorgmiller

    @Jorgmiller

    Жыл бұрын

    He is a financial analyst and the advisor who has helped me learn how to consistently secure wins from investing regardless the nature of the market

  • @thenightcorereaper

    @thenightcorereaper

    Жыл бұрын

    these fucking bots

  • @teddy.bisson.411

    @teddy.bisson.411

    Жыл бұрын

    Zach Micah Demers is a highly knowledgeable investment advisor and financial planner who helps me navigate the complexities of investing. His insights and recommendations have been instrumental in growing my portfolio from 40K to 120K

  • @sifisomabuza
    @sifisomabuza11 ай бұрын

    This is one the Best if not thee best talk show or podcast I've ever Watched, so chilled and profound conversation... Salute Jay Shetty + Trevor Noah 🔥👌💯

  • @hebelu959
    @hebelu959 Жыл бұрын

    Trevor has such thoughtful perspectives, love that guy.

  • @maymunahsydow6276
    @maymunahsydow6276 Жыл бұрын

    He is from South Africa and we are so so proud of him! What a journey! In so many ways we are blessed!

  • @vasmoodley7634

    @vasmoodley7634

    6 ай бұрын

    Two brilliant men.lv them to bits🙏🙏🙏

  • @aaronlegard1870
    @aaronlegard18702 ай бұрын

    When comedians are serious their deep thinkers

  • @TheRunpoker
    @TheRunpoker3 ай бұрын

    When i first Trevor’s standup I immediately knew that her is one of the wisest and brightest people alive. Now I understand that he is as insightful as he is brilliant❤

  • @VivashaGovinden
    @VivashaGovinden Жыл бұрын

    Ive only seen Trevor doing comedy but today I resonate at another level. Especially as a someone who suffered from child trauma. Loved the fact that we do not need to be grateful for what happened but for the resilience. Thank you Trevor.

  • @magalidacostaalves1948

    @magalidacostaalves1948

    10 ай бұрын

    That’s it!

  • @yoonahkang7384

    @yoonahkang7384

    9 ай бұрын

    Often comedians understand humanity in a way we dont.

  • @naturallyfit4443
    @naturallyfit4443 Жыл бұрын

    What a blessing it is to be witnessing this conversation!!

  • @masseradumas
    @masseradumas11 ай бұрын

    It’s amazing, I can listen to Trevor Noah and Jay Shetty speak for hours. It’s the eloquence of their dialogues, the clarity of their answers that allows even for someone with different experience to find logic in their thoughts process. I found a bit of myself that can relate, through this podcast.

  • @clarelouise42

    @clarelouise42

    3 ай бұрын

    Do you know if more conversations between these two? If so please share, I would love to hear them.

  • @damionbiddy673
    @damionbiddy67311 ай бұрын

    Forgot for a second going into this video that Trevor is also an interviewer, and was reminded about halfway through 😂 I could listen to these two talk for hours

  • @juliemidgley5287
    @juliemidgley5287 Жыл бұрын

    This is by far, one of the greatest prodcasts that you have done Jay. Trevor, just WOW. An inspiration beyond words. I am absolutely blown away, by the depth of this conversation. Love each and every minute, shared between you both. FERTALISER....what a beautiful purpose.

  • @ROCK_Music_Fan_BG
    @ROCK_Music_Fan_BG Жыл бұрын

    These two are the real deal. Congrats on this amazing interview 💛

  • @vanhoudtshoorn

    @vanhoudtshoorn

    Жыл бұрын

    Agree 100%

  • @evamariealvarezdeltoro4962
    @evamariealvarezdeltoro496210 ай бұрын

    When Jay expressed his purpose in life, I felt it. I receive from his interviews exactly what he described on this interview and I never had an idea that it was his purpose. All of those perspectives help me amplify my view of things and even shape them for better. Jay is phenomenal and this interview is great because both of them have such beautiful and optimistic views of life that I love to soak it all in.❤️❤️

  • @mutintamwiya4881

    @mutintamwiya4881

    10 ай бұрын

    Yes and he’s super intentional about it, it’s inspiring

  • @maryboros-te8wn
    @maryboros-te8wn Жыл бұрын

    This conversation has helped me to remember who I am at my core. It also re-inspired me, to forgive myself. Thank you both.

  • @brendadossantos701
    @brendadossantos701 Жыл бұрын

    I didn't know I could love this guy any more than I already did. What an amazing human.

  • @Creashone

    @Creashone

    Жыл бұрын

    and the hair. 100%

  • @FloraMBrown

    @FloraMBrown

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree wholeheartedly.

  • @rresonge1178

    @rresonge1178

    Жыл бұрын

    He is a gift especially if u can listen n understand him

  • @RimaZaybak1

    @RimaZaybak1

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel the same

  • @adrianas3951

    @adrianas3951

    Жыл бұрын

    Felt the same way

  • @Khoigeek
    @Khoigeek Жыл бұрын

    "Friendship is a choice"- we forget that so often. Thank you for sharing Gents. Reflecting right now on so many things. 😍

  • @maryvieira2322
    @maryvieira23228 ай бұрын

    Trevor made me cry. He is a beautiful human. His answer of wanting to be fertilizer - mind expanding!

  • @ShirleyFleming-vi2fb

    @ShirleyFleming-vi2fb

    15 күн бұрын

    Shirley from Alberta…me, too! Felt so moved by his response…fertilizer! I try and do this, too! I guess that is why we both teared up.💜💕👩🏼

  • @benlake5903
    @benlake590310 ай бұрын

    The audio book of Born a Crime is amazing because Trevor reads it so it’s like he is talking to you telling his story

  • @AviMarie21

    @AviMarie21

    10 ай бұрын

    Yes I listen to it twice

  • @maameaba4701

    @maameaba4701

    8 ай бұрын

    Now, I'm looking forward to listening to it!

  • @rame6652
    @rame6652 Жыл бұрын

    I start typing something but then nothing seems to justify how grateful I feel for Trevor and genuine people like him, so I end up with this 💜Thanks for existing! Beautiful conversation, thanks Jay, was really waiting for Trevor to be on your show. There are fans, and there are admirers but for me, Trevor feels like home/familiar. 💜

  • @maryluvsmusic9298

    @maryluvsmusic9298

    Жыл бұрын

    Well said!! Such a beautiful sentiment for such an inspiring conversation 🙏🏾.

  • @Nordia16

    @Nordia16

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! He does feel like home.

  • @lynoresmith7118

    @lynoresmith7118

    Жыл бұрын

    Mom was a single parent , 5 kids ,now being 67 yrs ,growing up on welfare ,playing street games ,no exams tree ,due each child given a gift ,an a cake on each birthday,an not realized we were undepriveliged ,been grateful for everything. Mom always had music playing even when we had chores.loving home ,spirituality was always on the agender .starting with Sunday school. Pleased to say were all doing ok ,Mom an dad have passed on .I personally I have great memories. xxxx

  • @rame6652

    @rame6652

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lynoresmith7118 Thank you for sharing your story 🤗💜

  • @lwandomweetwa2908

    @lwandomweetwa2908

    Жыл бұрын

    Trevor Noah the day walker seems ages ago now ☺️ Very deep and timely conversation here.Keep on

  • @lynewandia8453
    @lynewandia8453 Жыл бұрын

    That was great.. I learned that. I don't always have to glorify or be grateful of the pain but acknowledge the resilience that I got from it. 2. Never assume 3. Like a seatbelt it's the most important thing when it comes to your safety on the road or air but when it becomes dysfunctional you can get stuck.(apply it in your life) This conversation was so profound. I love ❤️ Trevor Noah. Learnt alot for sure

  • @amberts180
    @amberts180 Жыл бұрын

    Their conversation had so many levels. We miss seeing you everyday, Trevor. Jay is more intellectual than I thought. It was an opportunity to see Trevor and Jay differently.

  • @amberts180

    @amberts180

    Жыл бұрын

    Jay, I have so much more respect for you. It’s good to see how people move in discomfort and get a better idea of who they really are and what they’re really about. I’m glad you posted this interview. 10/10 you shined.

  • @claudiabrown6382
    @claudiabrown638210 ай бұрын

    Trying to find myself at 56 but you help me on this Sunday afternoon in year 2023 ..thanks for the great conversation ❤...in Jamaica cooking my Sunday dinner 😅❤

  • @yuvashreeharidoss7496
    @yuvashreeharidoss7496 Жыл бұрын

    I love that this is one of Jay's only two way conversation with a guest. This interview feels like a true collaboration

  • @nicolewade160

    @nicolewade160

    Жыл бұрын

    Yessss!!!!

  • @karenknowles1537
    @karenknowles1537 Жыл бұрын

    I was a psychotherapist for 30 years and I can fully relate to being seen in only one dimension. A few times in those years a client wanted to be friends after their therapy ended. They could not handle or relate to 360° of me and likewise I could not connect with the whole of them. Where people may want/expect Trevor to be funny all the time, my clients thought I would be wise about everything all the time. Perception of people sets the path for the connection or lack of connection. The conversation between the two of you was enlightening and special. Thank you.

  • @halcyonmanchew2079

    @halcyonmanchew2079

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow , the Level of this intellectual discussion, the ease with which it is delivered and the language and clarity of their minds are beautiful and amazing

  • @dreamingrightnow1174

    @dreamingrightnow1174

    Жыл бұрын

    Aside from all that, it would be super narcissistic of you to become "friends" with a client, but it happens.

  • @karenknowles1537

    @karenknowles1537

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dreamingrightnow1174 I disagree. I never suggested a friendship and carefully evaluated the client when they asked to be friends and an appropriate amount of time had elapsed after therapy ended.I have ex clients that became my long term friends.

  • @wonderfullymade5191

    @wonderfullymade5191

    Жыл бұрын

    @@karenknowles1537 How would you handle what Trevor was talking about? Being on stage then nothing - he resorted to chocolate.. do you know what it’s called. I have the same situation.. doing great work in the community-daily-coming home to nothing - overeating. How do we overcome it?

  • @karenknowles1537

    @karenknowles1537

    Жыл бұрын

    @@wonderfullymade5191 We tend to fill an emotional void with something. For some people it is drugs, sex, food, work and countless other things. Recognizing the void is the first step, talking about it out loud with others is the next step. The third step is to try something other than our chosen fix. It will most likely feel strange and unsatisfying in the beginning. But stay with and try several things until something clicks a bit. It takes about two weeks to form a new habit. Be patient with your self, the emotional void you feel is painful. 🌷

  • @Emma-7777
    @Emma-7777 Жыл бұрын

    Trevor is phenomenal I love the way he process the world & his reflectiveness, wow.

  • @deniseyang9723
    @deniseyang97232 ай бұрын

    What’s so special about this is you can tell they’re not trying to impress each other, they’re just sharing thoughts. This kind of interaction is so soothing yet so rare now

  • @curiousgirl.4134
    @curiousgirl.4134 Жыл бұрын

    I love that both Trevor and Jay were interviewing each other. The back and forth should be a lesson on how to seek understanding of others. 🤗

  • @lorna197
    @lorna197 Жыл бұрын

    What a fantastic interview. I see Trevor as such a gracious, kind, open-hearted man. Jay, I see you as being just as kind and open-hearted. Beautiful to watch two open-hearted men share their souls. What has stuck with me from the podcast is much; however, Trevor shares how he views being grateful, and not being grateful for the traumatic event, but grateful for what was learned and how he grew from the experience. Wow, that is big. The term grateful and gratitude get used out of context often. I so enjoyed this special interview. Thank you.

  • @maryluvsmusic9298

    @maryluvsmusic9298

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree 💯!! This interview was so powerful that it brought tears to my eyes from such profound, honest, & thought provoking statements & ideas.

  • @carlasamuels479

    @carlasamuels479

    Жыл бұрын

    👌

  • @SinfulAeon
    @SinfulAeon Жыл бұрын

    Just wanted to chime in to their conversation about having to be not needing to be grateful for what happened. I think that its not about being grateful for the hard times. It's more about being grateful for the opportunity that it presents. Not saying that sexual abuse and violence are good things because they aren't. Life throws shit at us constantly and most of the times, the shit it throws at us is completely at random. Everyone subjectively goes through their own versions of pain and hardship. But it is important to remember that we aren't defined by the problems and traumas we have experienced in our lives. That is not us, that is not who we are, they are experiences and they are what life has decided to randomly throw at us. Instead I think we are defined by our ability to rise above these circumstances. The harder the circumstance, the greater the opportunity, because to be able to overcome those extremely difficult situations, requires an extreme amount of resilience and faith in ones self to be able to push through and heal from the trauma. So in that sense, it's more about feeling gratitude for the opportunity that each and every circumstance, difficulty or challenge presents to us because we all know that at the end of tunnel there is such a huge amount of potential for us to grow and eventually initiate ourselves into greatness.

  • @paula4086
    @paula4086 Жыл бұрын

    I have platonically loved Trevor for years and I'm so happy I will be able to see him perform in June. This is such an amazing interview, thank you Jay! Namaste

  • @marciahamilton2513
    @marciahamilton2513 Жыл бұрын

    It was an eye opener when Trevor said” how lonely comedians get after the show has ended”. We hold comedians and other artists in such high regards, that we sometimes don’t think about them as being lonely, ( call me naive if you must). It is so important to have close friends, that understands who you are, and you can totally be yourself with. This was a wonderful interview thank you for sharing ❤❤❤❤.

  • @cal2780

    @cal2780

    Жыл бұрын

    Stephen Fry spoke to this in an interview. The overwhelming emptiness after experiencing overwhelming adoration from an audience, going back alone, to an empty hotel room.

  • @kelliyarbrough1111

    @kelliyarbrough1111

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cal2780 yeah I've heard a few comedians talk about it. I've always been a really really really big fan of stand up comedy, like to the point that I would rather watch a stand up that I've seen a hundred times than watch anything else 😂😂😂 so of course I love to watch their interviews. Roy Wood Jr actually talked about being lonely after a live show in 2020 when a lot of the celebrities were doing the "ask me anything" highlight on IG? Roy Wood Jr decided he was going to ask the questions and post people's answers on his highlights and one of them was about being lonely after a show. I remember thinking about Robin Williams when I read Roy's highlight...

  • @mimiboucher1182

    @mimiboucher1182

    Жыл бұрын

    I never thought about that after the show let down. I just assumed they partied with a bunch of random people. I know alot of comedians have inner pain or a hard life they use humor to cope

  • @thiagolive3
    @thiagolive3 Жыл бұрын

    “I try my best to eliminate GOOD or BAD”, that was powerful

  • @moniquemichelle7295
    @moniquemichelle7295 Жыл бұрын

    The safer belt keeping you safe but tapping you when it’s no longer needed is a perfect explanation of trauma. Just beautiful. Great conversation.

  • @fondationdr.hedenbertine182
    @fondationdr.hedenbertine182 Жыл бұрын

    "Definition of home" is adapting to your environment and keeping a piece of your culture to share with people that you are spiritually connected with!

  • @walterminja5817
    @walterminja5817 Жыл бұрын

    I'm grateful for this conversation for many reasons, partly because I have heard Trevor say " my child"... As an African I can't wait to see Trevor Noah Jr 😍🤠

  • @mapaseka3941

    @mapaseka3941

    Жыл бұрын

    Lmao me too😂, when I heard that I was like oh he changed his mind now 😅

  • @walterminja5817

    @walterminja5817

    Жыл бұрын

    Sure!

  • @msbeecee1

    @msbeecee1

    Жыл бұрын

    It surprised me to hear that too !

  • @donnaperry6015
    @donnaperry6015 Жыл бұрын

    I would love to hear Trevor talk more about how he manages his ADHD. I'm a therapist who made assumptions about people with that diagnosis. Not good ones. Trevor has changed my perspective. He could help so many to feel better about themselves. I would never have guessed he has that diagnosis.

  • @nissan_skyline

    @nissan_skyline

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too! Because I have ADHD and its been incredibly challenging. Wish I hadn't been misdiagnosed for years and years whenever I attempted to seek help.

  • @celestialnubian

    @celestialnubian

    Жыл бұрын

    One's success in managing ADHD is greatly influenced by one's emotional maturity and mental development.

  • @bonniejmattson
    @bonniejmattson Жыл бұрын

    Trevor Noah is so talented and in so many ways. I love his contributions in this time. He’s positive, so funny, completely lovable and needed in our day! ❤

  • @4Everpoz
    @4Everpoz Жыл бұрын

    Trevor has the ability to make others think beyond their perspectives without casting judgment. I love the way he takes complex subjects and simplify them. He has a beautiful mind!! I appreciate his storytelling.

  • @tarahrousseau-sakho5154
    @tarahrousseau-sakho5154 Жыл бұрын

    I loved that Trevor said he hopes to be fertilizer to enrich the soil. I must say both Trevor and Jay have provoked many thoughts by asking the questions they have and sharing their perspectives on topics. I am grateful for this. I personally took away alot of understanding from this interview about why I myself interact in the world the way I do and how I want to proceed.

  • @maggyhanrahan

    @maggyhanrahan

    Жыл бұрын

    It's so enrishiñg listening to people. Who have something real to talk about.🙏

  • @maggyhanrahan

    @maggyhanrahan

    Жыл бұрын

    Took it from this interview Jay and Trevor sound people.

  • @jr33zy57
    @jr33zy57 Жыл бұрын

    Trevor Noah is so articulate man. Bro is so aware of himself and seems like such a rational person. I loved this video so much

  • @SowingSeedsWithChristy
    @SowingSeedsWithChristy9 ай бұрын

    Jay, your speaking about people's basic safety needs being met before they can truly receive love is so illuminating. I wish you would teach about the vedic levels you were talking about. As you briefly discussed them they made so much sense. It helped me to see why a certain rlthshp could not work. It wasn't personal. We were just at different levels of receptivity and trust in ourselves and others. And Trevor talking about how one person's safety can be amidst chaos and how the calm can feel like chaos was also enlightening. I have felt that way due to the learned drive to kick it into high gear and respond in a crisis bc that's what I knew from my youth. Later I chose to cultivate how to be comfortable with calm as more of a norm and to seek that out in order to become more comfortable with that, over chaos. It's still a practice. I'm only midway through the video, but I am truly interested in hearing the rest of this discussion between two men who can see themselves as both the one acting/living and the one who is observing the one who is doing the acting/living.

  • @juleetarver268
    @juleetarver26811 ай бұрын

    Trevor, you are an amazing Human. Thank you for your thoughtfulness!

  • @StefinMiami
    @StefinMiami Жыл бұрын

    What struck me was how Jay defined HOME. "Home is where I'm living my purpose" When he said that I got chills as I feel the same way but was never able to put it to words. Also being grateful for my resilience from the suffering or trauma deeply resonated with me. Thank you

  • @Fiawordweaver
    @Fiawordweaver Жыл бұрын

    How validating. Two individuals I have great respect for. I’m not grateful for being molested by father during adolescence and then pretend to the entire family that he was a good man, or abused by my narcissistic mother all my life. I am thankful that the gift of finding my voice in poetry has helped me shed most of the pain. “Claiming your Choices Claiming choices Hidden trauma silenced voices. I attack the me still the broken adult child you see. I wouldn’t trash a dear friend as I attack my faults built on shifting sands. Moods change As the winds Updrafts downdrafts Tornados Hurricanes Crying tears In shadowed twilight, I must find the calm of the eye To forgive my trampled cripple discerning light. Come to me child Come to me now Rise from your hidden trauma To my safe arms I’ll wrap securely around I’m your adult, Child I claim your power of attorney To protect you from yourself On your healing journey To play your beat me up song over Over Over again Is not your song It belongs to your dead parents long gone. Your song is “Dawn of the Age of Aquarius” Dropping envy of others through the lens of vicarious. Where forgiveness blooms around your splendor Never will fear make you surrender. The Dawn is your friend The Evening, calming respite Now lay your head on my shoulders Safely I’ll guide you inner child Through every day and every night. “ Kimi Minor The home feeling for me is Maui and Oahu, not because they are beautiful islands. It’s home because of the loving accepting locals that embraced me for the 13 years I lived there. First time the turning to drugs and alcohol as an entertainer, makes sense to me. Such an amazing discussion. Thank you from my heart.

  • @crazyanimeloveable

    @crazyanimeloveable

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing truly beautiful ❣️

  • @brandybonner9561

    @brandybonner9561

    Жыл бұрын

    This is so beautiful! I’ve come to read it more than once. Make sure you share this with the world ❤

  • @pennydavis9494

    @pennydavis9494

    Жыл бұрын

    I love the verse. So intense. Glad you made it through I'm sorry for your pain. So many of us have been there. We are all in this together.

  • @Fiawordweaver

    @Fiawordweaver

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pennydavis9494 thank you❤️hugs back to you and your journey as we hold hands from wherever we are.

  • @Fiawordweaver

    @Fiawordweaver

    Жыл бұрын

    @@brandybonner9561 how kind. Thank you❤️

  • @Iam_only_human
    @Iam_only_human7 ай бұрын

    As an African, I always relate to his stories, and feel attached. We have the same mindset and view of the world. I've always appreciated this man.

  • @praptishukla6012
    @praptishukla601210 ай бұрын

    Trevor Noah is my celebrity crush and I love listening to him talk about life❤ thank you Jay Shetty for this amazing conversation

  • @karlluck8278
    @karlluck8278 Жыл бұрын

    In my opinion the best and most interesting interview of the podcast ever!

  • @MimiMosia19
    @MimiMosia19 Жыл бұрын

    I have never felt more relatable to Trevor then I do now. This was such a good conversation between you two, opened a lot more avenues that I need to reflect on in my own life.

  • @ed70erjml
    @ed70erjml Жыл бұрын

    For me until now the best interview. Love from Portugal

  • @ConsultancybyTS
    @ConsultancybyTS3 ай бұрын

    I used to be a fan to Trevor Noah as a comedian, but now I am amazed also by the other side of his personality as a person, this interview is on a very different level, thank you for sharing

  • @rosh3478
    @rosh3478 Жыл бұрын

    The humility is striking, from both Jay and Trevor. That makes this a profound conversation. Thanks for sharing with us.

  • @kabzimpossible1566
    @kabzimpossible1566 Жыл бұрын

    There's no way you can't feel moved or uplifted after that. Amazing conversation 🙏🏾

  • @ann3700
    @ann37002 ай бұрын

    Being comfortable in chaos totally relatable to my core...thanks Trevor for bringing this to discussion

  • @kerrybaral9241
    @kerrybaral9241 Жыл бұрын

    ‘ I don’t need to live my life according to others standard- well said Trevor. Even so called Guru or philosophers found their truth; we need to find our truths and meaning

  • @michellecd4722
    @michellecd4722 Жыл бұрын

    Most people can't receive love; so refreshing that Jay understands this. It can be challenging & even lonely being a deep thinker & I believe whenever we deep thinkers all scattered about the globe find another kindred spirit, even if they're on YT, TV, an author of a book, or whatever we'll feel that unspoken connection over the distance & airwaves even if it is in one direction, you know you're not alone. We truly are in a unified field.

  • @subanagarajan4067
    @subanagarajan4067 Жыл бұрын

    Always been a fan of Trevor and now I am simply so happy to see and understand these views of trevor. Honestly one of the best podcasts totally loved it!

  • @sophieakoth5771
    @sophieakoth577111 ай бұрын

    It was lovely especially the last part about bank balance.

  • @sarahlieberman2421
    @sarahlieberman2421 Жыл бұрын

    Humility is honoring our soul

  • @sarahlieberman2421

    @sarahlieberman2421

    9 ай бұрын

    @@TrevorNaohofficial blessings and robust laughter!

  • @responsablehlongwane1031
    @responsablehlongwane1031 Жыл бұрын

    This interview is so healing . Why am I in tears. Thank you

  • @alettakgare9154

    @alettakgare9154

    Жыл бұрын

    Very healing hey

  • @SamanthaStew
    @SamanthaStew Жыл бұрын

    One of the best episodes yet, so grateful for this podcast. If you haven't read Trevor's book "Born a Crime" highly recommend it, especially the audio version. It's like he's sitting there telling you his life's story over coffee.

  • @karenlara3788

    @karenlara3788

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for commenting this, I’ll definitely get it!

  • @Gamelover11

    @Gamelover11

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s on my list, I absolutely adore Trevor Noah. Will miss his nightly show.

  • @MomoHien

    @MomoHien

    Жыл бұрын

    So the audio version is Trevor's voice?

  • @SamanthaStew

    @SamanthaStew

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MomoHien Yes, Trevor narrates

  • @samyafawz3695
    @samyafawz369511 ай бұрын

    I felt JOYFUL listening to these deep thoughts .. thank you 🙏🏼

  • @katg1875
    @katg1875 Жыл бұрын

    I got chills when Jay was talking about the child with no arms and how he wanted to help. Then the buffet not having better menu. You two connected very sweetly

  • @juanitabeason1644
    @juanitabeason1644 Жыл бұрын

    This was the most insightful and meaningful conversation I’ve heard all year. So glad I stumbled upon it!

  • @sunsetglitter3886

    @sunsetglitter3886

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel exactly the same way,,,,,

  • @matselisomosebi1269
    @matselisomosebi1269 Жыл бұрын

    Trevor never fails to amaze. He is so gifted.

  • @AChorister
    @AChorister2 ай бұрын

    I totally understand Trevor's ability to handle chaos better than calm.

  • @olyachernyak
    @olyachernyak8 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much! I'm from Ukraine. The interviews you've been doing are such a beautiful therapy. This one is healing as well. 🙏

  • @hitishasharma6014
    @hitishasharma6014 Жыл бұрын

    Trevor is one of the smartest of our times: his piece on men and intimacy was so beautiful! Love everything he shares. This is also an incredible masterclass in vulnerability. True vulnerability doesn't mean sharing ALL life info, facts and timelines yet being artfully open enough to connect through the deepest experience we have lived. Trust is sharing of facts, little details and timelines- give that info away when you've built trust but vulnerability can be practiced with anyone and its quite a foundation for best relationships!

  • @maryjane2965
    @maryjane2965 Жыл бұрын

    Omg I didn't know you were going to have Trevor on.Trevor is always a blessing.No matter what he Talks about, I could listen to him ALL DAY!

  • @loislarabamachunga5434
    @loislarabamachunga54349 ай бұрын

    You cannot buy the messages, opinions, experiences, intellectuality of the both of them in a book, movie or imagination. So genuine! Thank you gentlemen ❤🎉

  • @AHayatGul
    @AHayatGul9 ай бұрын

    This whole podcast with Trevor and Jay was so wholesome, the part where these guys discussed taking up the role of the "Peacemaker" and how your seatbelt can also become your trapping made me tear up at how much it was resonating with me. I also liked how they discussed the mind and that we really need to understand these concepts surrounding our minds more. But some moments like how thoughtful Trevor's answers were at the end had me feeling giddy at the same time. And the explanation of how society is designed for the 'normal' was also very eye-opening. This was phenomenal to watch.

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