This is about transitions between lives, there is also transitioning out of the whole thing altogether. What Buddhists call The Wheel of Life where we go round and round life after life in and out of dimensions. If we want to be done and have worked out all our desires we could get off the wheel of life and unite with Reality, or God, for good. Then we would only come back, if we wanted to in order to guide and help others. It is the case that once Individuality is given it is never taken away so uniting with Reality or God would not mean a permanent loss of Individuality.. We need not have that fear of losing our individuality, for good as it does not happen.

My dreams often give me a hint that I am dreaming, but I never pick up on it until later. This hint involves trying to make a phone call. Either the phone number keeps changing or the keypad keeps changing. Any numbers in my dream are fluid and changing. For some reason, this does not alert me that I am dreaming. It is so funny that we can accept bizarre situations in dreams without becoming lucid in the dream.

@hankastudio479

3 ай бұрын

I have the same problem 🤔with vanishing numbers on the phone etc.😅

Thanks for covering this topic again. Coming to my attention just at the right time.

Love the section on being able to continue with music.

Thank you, I was looking for that confirmation about the afterlife. The worst part for me is the beginning of life in a new avatar with all the process of shaping personality. So difficult and sometimes so boring 😐 I wish I could do it fast and accelerate the process by remembering not to fear😊. When I try to talk about your Big TOE with others in dream reality they are ofen not interested, concerned by their problems or simply not believing me. So I stopped talking or rather thinking to the others. But your TOE change life of my family in this reality. The difference is incomparable. Thank you Tom for 12 years of inner peace and changing my life. Have a good day 🍀♥️

@Sainbury

2 ай бұрын

Fear is not a quality of age but rather a symptom of a low quality consciousness. Childhood can be very enjoyable.

@hankastudio479

2 ай бұрын

Well, shaping a new human is a responsible role. When you feel safe as a child you can evolve more quickly. For me that part of life was though because fear was everywhere. But it was necessary?! When I said no to fear in my family I was very young and brave. My family has change. Now I look deeply in fear's eyes when my animals are sick or dying. So deeply I couldn't breathe or move. I must find tools to help myself to calm down and be better guardian (also for myself). Yes, higher quality of consciousness could change everything but we are talking via very slow net connection when fear is overwhelming. Yet 😎

@Sainbury

2 ай бұрын

@@hankastudio479 : Learn to live gracefully with uncertainty. Death is only death of the character. The consciousness lives on to reincarnate again.

Thank you ❤

Great help Tom

Thanks

Dear Tom, thank you for sharing this ❤

If i understand what is being said...u have free will but only in terms of choosing your next avatar. If you decide not to come back then it becomes a waiting game....allowing you time to get bored to hell and forcing you to decide to do what you dont want to do...free will hey😅. Also love how you have a life review to assist you in identifying areas of focus just so that it can be errased from memory for the next game.

@willchristie2650

3 ай бұрын

The erasure is temporary. A rule set for a physical incarnation is to forget the larger picture so you can focus totally here.

@Sainbury

3 ай бұрын

It's not really like that. The piece of consciousness that is playing the character you identify as 'you' is just a part of who you really are. Your larger self will make the decisions of the next incarnation not the character you are playing now. That larger self is interested in consciousness evolution. If you don't want to incarnate in this PMR, there are dozens of different PMRs to chose from. Or maybe you want to access the Unactualized Past Database and play the possibilities of your character in this life that didn't happen. There are so many choices and possibilities. If you don't want to incarnate at all, then you remain as probable energy. Some kind of virtual reality is the only way to interact.

@PixelatedExistence

3 ай бұрын

@@willchristie2650 prove it!

@mtn7224

3 ай бұрын

@@Sainburyso, what is the point of it all? What is the end game?

@Sainbury

3 ай бұрын

@@mtn7224 The point is consciousness evolution. Any system evolves or de-evolves. It can't stay the same. And you are part of the Larger Consciousness System. This virtual reality Tom calls PMR is a consciousness training reality rich in challenges for you to make decisions. PMRs are specifically set up as fast track ways to evolve the quality of your consciousness. It is the personal interactions and the pressures of life that give you that opportunity.

I wonder how Tom would react to "An Alien Interview", where it is proposed that we are on a prison planet. The short format videos work for me, I have a short attention span.

@mrgreen1198

3 ай бұрын

Prison planet? The title makes it sound very fear based and would feed the fearing egos we love so much.. I feel like it's a learning planet. A dimension that never gets any more conscious, we just graduate out of it. All the perceived bad things that are here are designed to teach us. To help us evolve. Catastrophe is opportunity to love and learn so it HAS to be here for us to use it. A perfect design for the karma that needs to be worked out. Karma being life actions. Everything we do. Bad or good. I love Toms books. Everything is in an order. The video are all over the place and cause people to have loads of question that they wouldn't need to if they read the book(s).. You can read his book in short attention span bites just like the videos. What do you need? Ten pages before you zone out? Do that. The book (trilogy) is so much better than videos. It's a lot of information but it is so fascinating I cant put it down. We are talking about literally describing the thing we are experiencing with a man who has found a way to examine it in depth. It took me a year to read the trilogy the first time. I have read it three times. During the fourth read I realized I didn't need to anymore. Have fun....interesting stuff.

2 questions: If you’re meeting relatives does that mean they did not come back? Does it always result in you losing your memory? I guess I’m wondering if there’s any way to just go own without playing this game.

@TeeJay84x

3 ай бұрын

In the book or some other videos he explained that those relatives are projections of them from the consciousness database, which behave in the way to make you feel relaxed and safe. The "real relatives" are already on their own new journey.

@chrismullin8304

2 ай бұрын

“The Seth Material” discusses how you experience those “relatives” after death, and your life review opportunities. Bashar / Daryl Anka also speaks of your Oversoul existing in that space while it guides you here on Earth, and other places.

@Sainbury

2 ай бұрын

You are playing a character - you are not a physical person. You are getting a data stream. When you die this data stream is discontinued and you get a special data stream for those who have just died. When you realize that you are no longer playing a character in the earth PMR then you re-orient back to your IUOC, (oversoul.) This virtual reality is a consciousness training reality. There are others if you want to chose another reality. But almost everyone comes back to this one because it is familiar. If you don't want to participate in any PMR then you remain as potential. This character you are playing now is not who you are in the larger reality. And any decisions about future incarnations will be made by your IUOC, (oversoul.) Your IUOC has a much larger understanding than you do.

As Socrates said, "the unexamined life is not worth living". I think I've done my review. Many times. But, looking at the way things are, I think I'll wait 1,000 years or so. If things aren't too good, I can always join Star Fleet 😄.

Thanks, Tom. Extremely interesting! 🙏🏾

I'm 79, having spent a lifetime in "consciousness studies" one could say, to the point that I am aware of pure consciousness itself, the dreamer of the dream, with the contents of consciousness, (the data stream) being the experience that I am having, not what I AM. I am curious as to coming back in as an infant will I, or maybe how soon may I, have this DIRECT experience again of being the dreamer having a new dream (data stream)? Thanks so much for your guidance.

@PixelatedExistence

3 ай бұрын

First off NOBODY fully even understands consciousness, so am sure you have learnt nothing, or explain where it comes from. As for your direct experience of remembering who are were in any supposed re-birth of your consciousness You wont! Ask yourself a very simple question, what do you remember from any previous existence? Nothing!..So what makes you feel you will be born again and have some new experience of being the dreamer having a new dream? You wont! What proof do you or Tom Campbell have of you or any of us even 'coming back' again? None yet you are asking if you will remember who you are now, in some future life! Please stop deluding yourself.

@Sainbury

3 ай бұрын

It depends upon your birth circumstances and how you are when you are old enough to think for yourself and make your own decisions. If you are born into a very strict religious family, it may take you longer. Or, you may never reach that point in that particular life. Consciousness evolution is not a straight line. You may have discarded a lot of ego, fears, and beliefs in one life and not be able to sustain it in the next life. Or, you may be able to take your QoC, (Quality of Consciousness,) from the last life and build on it in the next experience packet. It is all up to you.

@Sainbury

3 ай бұрын

@@PixelatedExistence : In my mid to late 20s I was fascinated with reincarnation. I did many sessions of hypnosis at home with cassette programs and later CDs. So, yes I did discover many past lives - many of which were not pleasant. And finally at the end of my explorations I went as far as to relive my death in those lives - not pleasant AT ALL!!! There was only one life where I died in bed as an old lady surrounded by my children.

@chrismullin8304

2 ай бұрын

There is a short process you can perform in the moments before death, which will help you carry this body’s memories into your next incarnation. This process is described in one of the emerald tablets of Thoth. This could give you a head start in your next journey.

@chrismullin8304

2 ай бұрын

@@Sainbury”experience packet”. Well said, it is a great analogy!

Im 36 and ive been bored the past 10 years... in this reality. who can tell me what I need to do. Not making a joke. Im quite serious... and confused. is that what they call the Bardo, in Buddhism... what Tom's talking about....

@Sainbury

3 ай бұрын

I'm not sure you are serious. I don't know how you can be bored with so many experiences at your fingertips. Explore the things you are interested in.

I just don't understand how relationships that have deeply touched our lives, as in having children for example, are supposed to be so easily forgotten. This is madness to me. Cherish and love deeply while here but then, hey once you or the other person has passed, no worries it really meams nothing anything Just move on to another soap opera. I'm sorry. This is crazy making for me and possibly a kind of hell.

I quite often know I am dreaming when I am dreaming. It gives me a degree of control. I learned to fly, like Superman. Great fun. My dreams are never boring.

@ObserverOfJohn

3 ай бұрын

Next time you become lucid say to yourself "end the dream" and your subjective dreamscape will end and you will enter the objective astral plane. This is my fav technique to enter the astral.

Great discussion on the subject of transitioning into the afterlife and its likeness or not to the dream state we are familiar with in this reality. Curious if the life review emphasizes our maximum positive impact on others (growth aligning with love) or solely focuses on areas for improvement. If everyone took the time to have a life review now I imagine it would radically change the game. Any thoughts, please share?

@Sainbury

3 ай бұрын

A life review may do both. But as belief and ego are not part of the equation, a lot of praise for good deeds is not necessary. Mostly it is a review of pre-life goals and what actually happened. And then some thought as to what goals will be in the next life packet.

Do you remember your loved ones from previous life ?

Who is the "they" who reassures us? How does one join the management team? Is it self organized or chaotic?

@Sainbury

2 ай бұрын

Do you have a time stamp for this? I'm not sure what you are referring to.

@matthewfuller9760

2 ай бұрын

@@Sainbury Around @2:25 "you are told".. etc. By who? Random people in the celestial management?

@Sainbury

2 ай бұрын

@@matthewfuller9760 : The 'they' that Tom is referring to is the consciousness assigned to the data streams for those who have just died. It is just another function of the Larger Consciousness System.

@matthewfuller9760

2 ай бұрын

@@Sainbury i see. people sign up and get assigned. ok.

But I want to see my father again and be with him. I can’t imagine never being with his soul again, never seeing him, hearing his voice. If it’s a quick transition then what are all these stories since the beginning of time where people say they saw their loved ones again after they died. How can they if they move on to the next lifetime they’ve gone ! How do ghosts of dead relatives appear years later if they’ve long gone into the next lifetime ? I’m struggling to accept this please someone help me.

@therealhotchocolatecompany3962

3 ай бұрын

As far as i can understand, the theory is that the larger consciousness system is creating the ghosts. The ghosts aren't self conscious in the way we are. They are like computer programs which act as the person did on earth based on the choices they made while alive. The real soul that died has already reincarnated. If your Dad liked tea and not coffee, then his ghost will too. The real individual might change his mind and have a coffee.

@Sainbury

2 ай бұрын

It is possible to reincarnate with loved ones again IF you evolve well together. This is more in the realm of possible rather than probable. Remember you have had thousands of fathers. The Larger Consciousness System will often play the character of the loved one to comfort someone grieving so that person can move on. The consciousness that played the character of the loved one has moved on and is playing another character.

@peachpotter

Ай бұрын

@@Sainburythank you so much for taking the time to reply. I fully understand what you mean. I knew this in my heart, I just have trouble accepting that all I knew of this wonderful man has now moved on. He’s gone ! Where has he gone ? Will I ever meet his soul again ? He didn’t want to come back to this planet, he found it far too cruel a place. He always said he didn’t belong here. (As much as he appreciated such beauty in nature it was the people who spoiled it

@Sainbury

Ай бұрын

@@peachpotter : The consciousness that played the character of your father has moved on to portion off another part of itself to play another avatar in PMR. The record of the life of your father is in the Actualized Past Database. Now, he could be a girl in China, or a boy in France. There is no way to know. But since it sounds like he was a good person, he undoubtedly increased the Quality of his Consciousness in that life. And now there is a way for that core consciousness, (oversoul,) to keep going on the goal by playing a new avatar in this PMR. To have past loved ones just hang around and watch us is pointless. And his point of view most likely changed a lot when he re-united with his IOUC. Pretty much all of us can't wait to incarnate again. This is a virtual, consciousness training reality. And the experiences are so rich here that it is almost addictive. There really is no where else to experience music, birds, nature, family and friends, books, movies, and all manner of other things. And innate in all of us is a wish to improve the quality of our consciousness.

Curious, when were in the realm inbetween this physical - are we able to remember all of our past lives? To the point of the birth of our soul? If thats even a thing and were not all eternal

@Sainbury

2 ай бұрын

All our past lives are stored in the Actual Past Database. Between lives you can access any data base if it is for learning purposes.

I’m not sure how you are aware of the process, I’ve probably missed some videos. Is there any way you could explain your knowledge to those that don’t know?

@crinnatyrrell7719

3 ай бұрын

@@Xirrious as said I haven’t come across anything…. I look forward to seeing a dozen of them

@Sainbury

3 ай бұрын

At one time Tom helped in the transition process.

@crinnatyrrell7719

3 ай бұрын

Sounds fascinating, hopefully I will find it on KZread, thank you…I have heard of people helping with the transition but not the details or knowledge that Tom had

@Sainbury

3 ай бұрын

@@crinnatyrrell7719 : Tom - Life between lives and NPMR locations • Combine the experiences of a bunch of pre-schoolers: 1) responding to a fire drill and 2) experiencing Disneyland into a single experiential event. Now imagine the adults/employees whose responsibility it is to matriculate the children through the process. That will give you the setting for the vast majority. • Now imagine the same thing for a group of 12 year olds - that will give you the setting for the top 1 percent. • Now imagine the same thing for a group of 16 year olds - that will give you the setting for the top .01 percent. • Now imagine the same thing for a group of unsophisticated not particularly knowledgeable 25 year olds - that will give you the setting for the top .001 percent. Reality outside of the PMRs is, for the most part, subjective. We tend, out of habit, to make an objective place out of it. Forcing NPMR experience into the perceptual form factor of PMR, is the origin of most of the NPMR and afterlife descriptions you have read - they are not correct but do enable the experiencer to communicate his experience with other PMR residents who need the information put into a PMR spatial and objective context in order to comprehend it. What have I observed? I have observed all four groups described above and have worked as part of the in-processing staff and as a special transition problems counselor for the first two - those need lots of staff. Like anywhere else, if you hang around and have useful abilities, someone will put you to work - (Everyone who can contribute is encouraged to contribute in a way that is helpful to both the individual and the system) also it is the best way to learn the way things work (from the inside). From the MBT Forum - www.my-big-toe.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=13&t=2668&p=3371&hilit=ignorant+child+while+your+over+soul+is+a+brilliant#p3371

@Hiimelfo2

3 ай бұрын

​@@crinnatyrrell7719 Oh also the quickest way to all of this is the most obvious. Go there yourself. Just meditate and let go of this human sense data and go there. Don't forget, the universe is non local (zeilenger et al. Nobel prize in physics 2022)

I am an awakened soul and suffered 23 years of the spiritual awakening process. I have experienced OBE's, direct encounter with the Divine, other realms, etc. This is wrong. The other side is not dream like. It is more real, more sensual, and more solid than this reality. Colors are more intense. Sounds are more beautiful, it is a perfect summer day every day. Consciousness is expanded and very clear and lucid. Dreams are messages from your Soul or Self to your ego. The content of dreams comes from the unconscious. The afterlife cannot be compared to a dream. It's just not like that.

@Sainbury

3 ай бұрын

For the majority of people it is.

But how and when does the reincarnation cycle end? This doesn't go on forever, does it? I am really tired of toilet training and puberty.

@Sainbury

3 ай бұрын

When you are evolved enough then you become a teacher, helper, and a positive force for this PMR. Without the pressures of incarnating you de-evolve.

@willchristie2650

3 ай бұрын

@@Sainbury This is like saying you stay in kindergarten forever, endlessly repeating. That seems like hell to me. I would hope there is a high school, college and post graduate curriculum beyond earth.

@Sainbury

3 ай бұрын

@@willchristie2650 : Post graduate is helping others. After you become a low entropy consciousness then it isn't so much about you, but what you can do for others. Sitting on a cloud with your PhD doesn't do you any good and will only contribute to your de-evolution.

@alanwinquist5002

3 ай бұрын

😂

@KundaliniKing42

2 ай бұрын

2040 see ARCHAIX

Is the Christian religion saying the same thing only in a different language? The Bible does talk about death and Resurrection

@TLDCHWTTOS

3 ай бұрын

You have to consider that the Bible was written two thousand years before our grammatical norms, by a very different type of people’s, living very different lives in a very different world.

What about intense long term ongoing trauma? How can you completely get rid of it? In this life or the here after?

@willchristie2650

3 ай бұрын

Maybe this requires a lot of therapy and guidance in the after life.

@Sainbury

3 ай бұрын

Trauma, like every other experience in PMR, can be an opportunity for consciousness evolution. The best way to deal with trauma is to deal with it here and not let it lower the quality of your consciousness.

Frida Kahlo, all that wonderful art she created, when she died I think she said, “ Let me return no more, forever”. Are there gardens to tend? No? Then take me back.

Lets say you know you will be dead in 2 mins. Lets say you are falling from airplane and falling to earth. So you say, ok i am going to be dead, next is after life...can you transfer this thought to after lifd exoeria ce? Or you must be disoriented?

@Sainbury

3 ай бұрын

If you understand how the system works, then after the data stream to your character ends you re-integrate back to your IUOC, (oversoul.)

@RomanRoman-xi3dv

3 ай бұрын

@@Sainbury ok. My question is can you maintain thoughts justbafter death?

@Sainbury

3 ай бұрын

@@RomanRoman-xi3dv : You will remain some hazy thoughts about your past life for a short time. That is part of the transition process. And then all thoughts of your past life will drift away. The transition phase is somewhat tailored for different types of individuals. People with a lot of fear and rooted beliefs systems will be transitioned differently from people with fewer fears and beliefs. But the data stream that allowed you to play a character is discontinued after the character dies.

@Erik-V

3 ай бұрын

I'd recommend listening to NDE's. They'll give you an idea of the process. It seems to be a seamless experience

Jesus Christ is lord

It all sounds horrendous.

@Sainbury

3 ай бұрын

Not at all. You are part of an evolving consciousness digital information system.