Transitioning Didn’t Ruin My Future

Hi, I’m Elle. I’m a 20 year old FtMtF detransitioner. In this video I’m talking about what I want my future to look like 6 months from now, a year from now, 5 years from now, and 10 years from now. Hopefully I’ll be able to get my shit together.
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  • @ellepalmer
    @ellepalmer4 жыл бұрын

    follow my twitter if u want to keep up with my hot takes on detransition and failing my american government tests twitter.com/ellepalmer1

  • @kenkenichi7461

    @kenkenichi7461

    4 жыл бұрын

    Even though you are a sick little puppy I find myself attracted to you. Since gender doesn't matter these days you should also try dating a guy and having sex with a guy and see if you like that. Instead of trying to be masculine try to connect with it.

  • @elsands9774

    @elsands9774

    4 жыл бұрын

    elle palmer “hot takes on detransition” smh....

  • @kristim8796

    @kristim8796

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wishing you happiness, love, and light, Elle 🥰 please don't pay attention to the weirdos in some of these comments, your videos are helping so many people ❤️

  • @beckaj8396
    @beckaj83964 жыл бұрын

    I finally put my finger on why I keep enjoying your videos so much. They're pretty simple, like how most of youtube was back like 10 years ago or so. Very old school, talking to the camera and simple editing! It's super refreshing and feels a lot more "real" than some of the overly flashy stuff out there. I hope you keep making videos! This one has a really nice cozy sort of feeling like I'm at a sleepover and listening to a friend share her feelings with me lol

  • @claraquinrulez

    @claraquinrulez

    4 жыл бұрын

    Also Gaming

  • @matthewmutz9337
    @matthewmutz93374 жыл бұрын

    Lets do it again. How many viewers like Elles' SMILE

  • @crowmancaveman2gen-xer280

    @crowmancaveman2gen-xer280

    4 жыл бұрын

    She is attractive to

  • @ThinWhiteAxe
    @ThinWhiteAxe4 жыл бұрын

    My philosophy is: look toward the future, but don't forget to live in the present, and make it count. Don't worry unduly about yesterday, it's past.

  • @Katies_Modern_Life

    @Katies_Modern_Life

    4 жыл бұрын

    Love this.

  • @katarzynagnyp626

    @katarzynagnyp626

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yesterday is important too, it makes you who you are!

  • @ThinWhiteAxe

    @ThinWhiteAxe

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@katarzynagnyp626 of course, but who you are is primarily important because of your today and tomorrow

  • @fredpoesie2429

    @fredpoesie2429

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙋

  • @MelatixASMR
    @MelatixASMR4 жыл бұрын

    I could honestly listen to your voice all day it’s so pleasing

  • @matthewmutz9337

    @matthewmutz9337

    4 жыл бұрын

    Melati I agree, A great speaker, a comforting sound, a narrater perhaps

  • @tieiatalks
    @tieiatalks4 жыл бұрын

    You’re incredibly wise for such a young woman. I think you’re incredibly positive. You’re a light in this corner of KZread that’s so desperately needed! I’m excited to watch your journey and see where you go! ♥️

  • @AnkaAnka_
    @AnkaAnka_4 жыл бұрын

    Period, always look up. Your past doesn’t define you. Your character is determined by the tasks that benefit you and others around you. Godspeed.

  • @Blake1720
    @Blake17204 жыл бұрын

    Good luck girl! ❤️❤️ I was going to college just like you at 20. Now I’m 25 with a husband and a baby. Life can sure lead you in a different direction then you thought it would.

  • @kristim8796
    @kristim87964 жыл бұрын

    I'm so happy you're sharing your story, it's super eye opening to me and I'm sure a ton of other people too ❤️ I relate to you in a lot of interesting ways. Your videos have totally changed my mind from thinking "if a kid thinks they're trans then they are and you should get to transition as soon as you want to". It never occurred to me that you can be a fierce LGBT advocate but still want to prevent children from doing something to their bodies they may seriously wish they hadn't done in the future. I really bet that if people had enough mental health support in their lives from a young age, and also if people supported "not girly" girls and "not boyish" boys as they were without pushing them any certain way, there would be a lot more happy kids out there and less adults who were failed by a system they couldn't control. Just really wanted to tell you how much I appreciate your insight and I really wish you nothing but love and light. ❤️

  • @nancyc9543
    @nancyc95434 жыл бұрын

    I toggled between your first video and this one and your voice has indeed became much lighter..

  • @keithabernethy3969

    @keithabernethy3969

    4 жыл бұрын

    I hope she can practice so that her voice becomes lighter.

  • @ittsumo_kawaii
    @ittsumo_kawaii4 жыл бұрын

    Elle: “Oh my gosh 10 years from now I’m gonna be 30. I’m gonna be so old.” Me currently about to turn 28: 😳🥺😭

  • @m00nk1n

    @m00nk1n

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm 33. Y'all need to chill on the "old" shit.

  • @ittsumo_kawaii

    @ittsumo_kawaii

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lauren Ciora RIGHT?!

  • @carlosheehee46

    @carlosheehee46

    4 жыл бұрын

    same I’m 21 and

  • @carlosheehee46

    @carlosheehee46

    4 жыл бұрын

    don’t wanna turn older than 25 omg

  • @faeriesmak

    @faeriesmak

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lauren Ciora I am 45!

  • @valyriansteelers9607
    @valyriansteelers96074 жыл бұрын

    When I was your age ( lol) I wasn’t very good at planning or setting goals like this - really still not great- I love this about you that you set goals and achieve things! You will do whatever you set your sights on and I can’t wait to watch it all! You are amazing thanks for sharing!

  • @s.ribeiro1836
    @s.ribeiro18364 жыл бұрын

    I would like to know from people who detransitioned, for ftms, did you think of yourself as a man? Did being called by male pronouns made you feel better and right? And did it hurt when you were referred to as a woman? Did you ever think of yourself as a man in the far future? Did you see yourself being a father in the future? I would be glad if someone could answer me those questions. I really can't understand how someone could be wrong about their gender identity, to the point of starting to transition, and then realize that it isn't right for them. I would like to understand. Cause I'm sure I am a man, a trans man, and I feel the need to transition since about 7 years ago, and now I'm finally very close to it, but seing these kind of videos makes me afraid I might be wrong, because there are people that were sure too and then found out they were wrong.

  • @cceres

    @cceres

    4 жыл бұрын

    People are wrong all the time about lots of things, especially when it comes to themselves. But just because they can be about themselves and just because she was about her doesn't mean that you're wrong about you. And if you are.. then you stop, and do something else. It wasn't a waste, because you aren't a waste.

  • @s.ribeiro1836

    @s.ribeiro1836

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@cceres thank you for the words, I really appreciate it. Thinking rationally through this process is very hard, there are so many forces pushing us back, it's easy to fall into a dark area in our imagination...

  • @s.ribeiro1836

    @s.ribeiro1836

    4 жыл бұрын

    @oktopustrainer Thank you for the words, they mean a lot to me. Wish the best of luck to you too, wise human!

  • @sadiek9968
    @sadiek99684 жыл бұрын

    I am a psychology major! It's a great major! I can be kinda of triggering some times so if you choose it as a major make sure you integrate self-care into your routine! Self-care is key!

  • @faeriesmak
    @faeriesmak4 жыл бұрын

    You are so optimistic and have some great plans. Don’t be too hard on yourself, though. Everyone does things that they look back and wonder what the hell they were thinking. I love your videos!

  • @symantharobblee6188
    @symantharobblee61884 жыл бұрын

    Just reading the title I’m so happy you’re making this video especially for those who regret transitioning and need something positive like this

  • @angelacarroccia5123
    @angelacarroccia51234 жыл бұрын

    Stop blaming yourself. Life can be hard, confusing. Your life is ahead of you. ❤️

  • @Ghostykitten
    @Ghostykitten4 жыл бұрын

    I love your positivity Elle! Things will work out, and I love your optimism for the future! You got this.

  • @jenj39
    @jenj394 жыл бұрын

    There is immense value in the way you share your story with such positivity. Wherever you go, whatever you do, no matter the weather, always bring your smile and sunshine.

  • @thomassvensson5092
    @thomassvensson50924 жыл бұрын

    Hey Elle! I'm not sure if you'll read this but you've been so strong and transparent with your journey so far!! I'm loving watching you grow and I really hope you know that you're doing AMAZING!! Keep going lovely xx

  • @mizzwallace1016
    @mizzwallace10164 жыл бұрын

    Each video of your I have watched has been so informative and I have learned something. I'm glad your planning for the future and wish you all the best.

  • @Hmm-pn2xx
    @Hmm-pn2xx4 жыл бұрын

    Your hope is inspiring. I needed a good example of what that looks like.

  • @lxlx7941
    @lxlx79414 жыл бұрын

    Please stay strong love! ♥️✨ I really hope everything goes well I believe in you! Everything will get better I promise, you just have to wait-

  • @allyf8131
    @allyf81314 жыл бұрын

    I did a Psychology degree (UK) and now at age 25 work within Marketing. Psychology opens lots of doors as it can be used in so many contexts. Good luck with it all!

  • @GUMEY10
    @GUMEY104 жыл бұрын

    You’re such an inspiration, I love you ❤️

  • @shallowwaters6690
    @shallowwaters66904 жыл бұрын

    Hi Elle! I really enjoyed this update and it was refreshing hearing you think about the future. As someone going through a transition of sorts myself (non-gender related complete life overhaul after the end of a 20 year relationship and 18 year marriage), your video reminded me of the importance of daydreaming about the future and becoming optimistic about the possibilities. I also found the information about hormones very interesting, as I was previously a female bodybuilder who dabbled with hormones and had some interesting physical changes, many of which are changing in another direction now. I look forward to continuing to follow your journey.

  • @psementalist
    @psementalist4 жыл бұрын

    A big Congratulations on coming such a long way since your journey started

  • @wutryulooknat3
    @wutryulooknat34 жыл бұрын

    Subbed to follow your journey 💓 Loved hearing optimism for your future! You got this, Elle.

  • @leedarnell8977
    @leedarnell89774 жыл бұрын

    You have a lot of great goals and a bright future ahead of you. I especially like how you mentioned learning a language. That's my passion and I think it would be a great asset for a Jounalism major.

  • @emmaprybyla5306
    @emmaprybyla53064 жыл бұрын

    Just started watching ur videos n u have the absolute best and honest down to eartj personalities and i love you for it

  • @tballin92
    @tballin924 жыл бұрын

    When she says 30 is old. Me: Cries in 28

  • @FluteGal89

    @FluteGal89

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hurray, I can finally qualify for AARP!

  • @masonridgewell8063

    @masonridgewell8063

    4 жыл бұрын

    30 is old

  • @punkgrl325

    @punkgrl325

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@masonridgewell8063 It really isn’t.

  • @AAA-iy9jz

    @AAA-iy9jz

    4 жыл бұрын

    You're young asf.

  • @masonridgewell8063

    @masonridgewell8063

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@punkgrl325 naf i definitely is, especially women afte 30 are no longer attractive and less value.

  • @unlessyoucare
    @unlessyoucare4 жыл бұрын

    Love you Elle, keep on making videos, this is so important for so many people! ❤️ Sending you virtual hugs and positivity from Germany 😘

  • @bluefudge08
    @bluefudge084 жыл бұрын

    You are so great! I always look forward to watching your videos :)

  • @bridgiebrat951
    @bridgiebrat9514 жыл бұрын

    ❤ Yes keep your chin up stay positive!!! Cheering you on.

  • @ambersowards6217
    @ambersowards62174 жыл бұрын

    I love your energy

  • @rishikachaudhary512
    @rishikachaudhary5124 жыл бұрын

    It is very nice of you to share your story with us. You are inspiring.

  • @so1963
    @so19634 жыл бұрын

    Hope everything is going well!

  • @domy6827
    @domy68274 жыл бұрын

    Yes! I love maths for the same reason you shared

  • @shenikacartwright1652
    @shenikacartwright16524 жыл бұрын

    Elle u gat this! Future is bright luv

  • @MDcinematic
    @MDcinematic4 жыл бұрын

    I've been following your journey. The m you for your honesty. I know you probably dont think about it like this but: you are brave.

  • @sonospiacente3334
    @sonospiacente33344 жыл бұрын

    omg how do I still found time to watch your 20 minute videos weekly

  • @ThinWhiteAxe

    @ThinWhiteAxe

    4 жыл бұрын

    Priorities Not a bad thing

  • @PatrickCucuta
    @PatrickCucuta4 жыл бұрын

    I really wish I could kick it with you Elle. Your story is very interesting and even through this medium I can feel your energy and vibes! Peace and ❤️

  • @holypicklesmofo
    @holypicklesmofo4 жыл бұрын

    You should document your voice training if it wouldn't bother you! Also I majored in psychology and absolutely adore it- it's a great major or minor with anything else imo. I'm pursuing a psychology research career focused in gender identity development which led me to your channel 💕

  • @joserics
    @joserics4 жыл бұрын

    Elle, you look so happy, hope you keep like that, and if not, is okay.. but always try to come back as happy as you are here!!!

  • @martinkroeker1941
    @martinkroeker19414 жыл бұрын

    Not sure how this ended up in my recommendations, but you have a mesmerizing personality - looks like this is going to be one of the few channels that make yt still worthwile today. Hope you stay with the sciences (whichever catches your interest) as it seems to me you could lecture without losing your audience for a second. And do not worry too much about your voice - you wouldn't have the girlie voice of your 15yo self today even if nothing special had happened.

  • @amyd7301
    @amyd73014 жыл бұрын

    Ur skin is so clear! :O I just had to note that

  • @ShadrachASMR
    @ShadrachASMR4 жыл бұрын

    I wish for all the best Elle. You will do fine.

  • @guy-tn2ud
    @guy-tn2ud3 жыл бұрын

    I think Elle would be a great independent journalist. What a start right here.

  • @RegularOddball
    @RegularOddball4 жыл бұрын

    I looove your videos and your personality is so lovely! I was wondering though, could you please do a video about your thoughts towards actual trans people? I've seen yours and other women's stories used as trans exclusionary radical feminist talking points, and it's really disheartening that it seems like detransitioners' stories are being used against trans people as if we can't both exist :(

  • @11candy11
    @11candy114 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been doing dream interpretation for years, for people as far away as Japan. Visions are not daydreams. Visions are not common (I have them sometimes too). Visions are interpreted similar to dreams. The vision you had is amazing and filled with promise.

  • @matthewmutz9337
    @matthewmutz93374 жыл бұрын

    You'll keep making videos, I DEMAND IT

  • @xDRickiexD
    @xDRickiexD4 жыл бұрын

    Learn German and study abroad in Germany, we would love to have you here ❤️

  • @kendra3986
    @kendra39864 жыл бұрын

    You should take some philosophy classes! It sounds like philosophy of aesthetics or philosophy of mind might interest you. Maybe something to talk to the department about. I am a philosophy graduate student and majored in philosophy in undergrad and loved it, so I have to suggest it. You would do great! You also often learn a bit of Greek through philosophy.

  • @twiligh4trinitya
    @twiligh4trinitya4 жыл бұрын

    You have an amazing outlook

  • @atalayanelson1483
    @atalayanelson14834 жыл бұрын

    Just listening to you talk for a few minutes, I’m already “comfortable” with it ... I guess lol idk how to word this. Because seeing a girls face and hearing a deeper voice is obviously going to throw you off a bit. But i don’t even know you and I’m just thinking ooh that’s just their voice. Not really thinking much of it. Until you brought up wanting to maybe try voice training. ... I hope this makes sense lol 😝

  • @smOVERCOMINGITALL
    @smOVERCOMINGITALL4 жыл бұрын

    Taking harder classes is a great way to figure out if journalism is what you want to do. I did the same thing. I was majoring in history, took a few upper level classes to see if it was something I wanted to do and absolutely hated it. LOL so I figured out what to do next over the summer and I could not have ended up in a better match for me than anthropology. If I didnt explore the harder classes I would have wasted a shit ton of time and money.

  • @eggspectations
    @eggspectations4 жыл бұрын

    Please learn German!!! I took it for four years in high school and two years in college! It’s so much easier than you would think, especially for a native English speaker

  • @BrookeKatherine.

    @BrookeKatherine.

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree. My ex boyfriend was learning in high school and he taught me some words and I ended up not really being able to speak it but I could read it which was strange lol.

  • @fynnaugustus3488

    @fynnaugustus3488

    4 жыл бұрын

    Krass, hab ich noch nie von jemandem gehört, dessen Muttersprache Englisch ist. Ich bin Deutscher und die meisten verzweifeln an den 4 Fällen (Nom., Akk., Dat., Gen) und können die Adjektive nicht richtig angleichen. Dazu kommen 3 Artikel allein im Nominativ. 🤔 habe noch nie von einem Ausländer gehört, dass Deutsch leicht ist 😄 aber freut mich, dass dir meine Muttersprache gefällt. Grüße aus Köln 🇩🇪

  • @BubbleGlitter98
    @BubbleGlitter984 жыл бұрын

    Have you thought about maybe going into publishing or editing books? Could be a fun way to be in the writing world but maybe more stable 😊

  • @greer545
    @greer5454 жыл бұрын

    I mistrust journalists because usually they care more about finding information that supports what they already think and encouraging more people to think as they think through selecting the right pieces of a story rather then simply finding new and interesting information and presenting all points of view available.

  • @ThinWhiteAxe

    @ThinWhiteAxe

    4 жыл бұрын

    The more good, honest journalists we have to combat this trend, the better.

  • @Rose-zg9pu
    @Rose-zg9pu4 жыл бұрын

    If u like greek maybe latin will be a good idea. Its very interesting to read very old literature. I loved the video

  • @valyriansteelers9607
    @valyriansteelers96074 жыл бұрын

    Also chemistry is even better than math imo for all the reasons you mentioned- and includes math !

  • @OKay-lu8jq

    @OKay-lu8jq

    4 жыл бұрын

    meth*

  • @nickiraeeexo1915
    @nickiraeeexo19154 жыл бұрын

    I know this is a heavy video, and I respect that, but I just wanted to say that you’re SO pretty. Naturally. Please keep your chin up

  • @COLINJELY
    @COLINJELY4 жыл бұрын

    Have you been watching videos aimed at MTF for voice training and practising things?

  • @JV-kq8lz
    @JV-kq8lz4 жыл бұрын

    you probably can change ur voice a lot if u wanted :)! i believe. resonance is super important also, aside from pitch

  • @rioa8572
    @rioa85724 жыл бұрын

    I'm ftm and I want to transition but with all these detransition stories I'm really looking into myself and other people a lot before making a choice, any advice?

  • @mattesquieu1068

    @mattesquieu1068

    4 жыл бұрын

    Auslander ; Think about the long run, how do you see yourself in 10 years, 20 years, etc. If you see yourself as a man, then it would be a good idea to transition is that is what you so desire. I would also recommend seeing a therapist that has a lot of experience with trans people. I’m 16 and almost a year on testosterone and it’s the best decision I ever made. Before testosterone I was very depressed and testosterone really helped improve my mental health drastically.

  • @rioa8572

    @rioa8572

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mattesquieu1068 thanks for the reply. I definitely see myself as a dude as far into the future as I can see you know? I'm glad transitioning helped for you, I honestly think it'd help for me but I'm in a shit spot atm lmao

  • @BlueClarinetKitty
    @BlueClarinetKitty4 жыл бұрын

    I recommend german and Germany!! I’m an American who moved to Germany a year and a half ago and I love it so much. I love every german city I’ve been to

  • @fakenamelol527

    @fakenamelol527

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tell me more ! I’ve always wanted to visit Germany my grandparents are from there

  • @junjuncamacho8998
    @junjuncamacho89984 жыл бұрын

    💖💖💖

  • @DRay4eveZ
    @DRay4eveZ4 жыл бұрын

    SPANISH. Also, psychology is a good major. Only thing is you would most likely need to get a masters as well. Journalism is great to do if that is your passion, however, it may be hard to find work. But I would definitely say that if you still are interested but aren’t passionate about it then a minor in journalism would be great. The STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Math) field is a good route because that’s really where the money is. Something I would recommend for you since you’re interested in Psychology is Social Work. Social Work has so many different avenues of work potential. I’m on my last year of college and my major is Criminal Justice but I’m also Minoring in Social Work and I plan to get my masters in Social Work hopefully. But I feel like Criminal Justice and Social Work go really good together, especially for what I plan to do. I’ve always wanted to do something within the system but in a humanistic kind of way. Social Work allows for that because it’s more Social so like community outreach or working at the micro, mezzo and/or macro level (which is something you would learn about) there’s case management, school social work, therapy, and pretty much anything you could imagine. A social worker could work in a hospital (in a Social work way of course) so maybe you would be providing resources for families that come to the hospital or crisis intervention for kids/teens/adults/elders or something like that. There are social workers that work in the CJ system (which is pretty much where I see myself). A lot of people think social workers just work in CPS and take kids away but it’s such a broad field. I’d definitely say that you should look into it if you’re interested in anything that I listed or something similar. I have so much advice for college success based on what I’ve learned so far. If you’re still undecided, it’s good to explore but also narrow down things as you go since you’ll have to declare by the end of your sophomore year. Also, think realistically as well. Unfortunately that’s what it’s come to based on our economy. So make sure that whatever you are contemplating is going to be worth the money you’re paying to be in school. Especially if you have loans, you gotta be able to pay them off. Also, INTERNSHIPS ARE VERY IMPORTANT because even if you get a bachelors and a masters you will struggle to find work if you have zero experience or not enough. A lot of places want at least one to two years of experience when they’re considering people for a job. It’s good to start now since you are in your first year. Volunteer, find internships and/or work, make connections because that will definitely help you. Sorry this is long-winded, I just feel the need to share what I’ve learned because I’ve had to learn through trial and error and there’s a lot I wish I had and hadn’t done. Also, it’s a good time to start building credit if you haven’t already, but BE CAREFUL. You want to keep your credit card balance low so that you can pay the full balance, that’s better for building credit in addition to making sure you always pay on time. If for some reason you can’t pay the full balance, at least make sure you have set aside some money to pay the minimum balance which can vary based on how much of your available credit you’ve used. Alright good luck! 🍀 I hope everything works out!

  • @xepulvedaaldo677
    @xepulvedaaldo6774 жыл бұрын

    Can you trust your self for future decision making on your life?

  • @tanishaharris1641
    @tanishaharris16414 жыл бұрын

    There's also vocal feminization surgery that many trans girls have had. Search for "Yesnik vocal" and you should find info on it.

  • @nikkijones9713
    @nikkijones97134 жыл бұрын

    The language you learn should be largely determined by the country/culture you are most interested in visiting/learning about. As a native English speaker who learned both Spanish and German....German is much much harder. But worth it if you are interested in travelling/working/living in a German speaking country. Good luck!

  • @sidoniejordan-olsen7673
    @sidoniejordan-olsen76734 жыл бұрын

    Gosh, your a kid, to me. I turned 40 this February.

  • @claraquinrulez
    @claraquinrulez4 жыл бұрын

    YESSSS *GAMING*

  • @boopiny1011
    @boopiny10114 жыл бұрын

    Hopefully this isn’t a super uncomfortable question, but what do you usually do to your voice after detransitioning? I’m actually curious about this.

  • @marilyn.g
    @marilyn.g4 жыл бұрын

    take german or french 🙈 my college only offers spanish and french 🙄 i like french, that's what I'm taking right now, but i wish they had more options. And I already speak spanish lol

  • @MeewMeew001
    @MeewMeew0014 жыл бұрын

    Do you take any hormones now to detransition faster? Like birthcontrol?

  • @zechariahmckenzie7557
    @zechariahmckenzie75574 жыл бұрын

    Lol 30 ain’t too bad, I’m about to turn 30 myself in 3 more months. 😋

  • @frankch1959
    @frankch19594 жыл бұрын

    You seem perfectly well adjusted. And you will have a great life. And you are stunningly beautiful. You can easily be a multi-millionaire if you take up modeling

  • @supermilkshake6745
    @supermilkshake67454 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @theotherkangaroo
    @theotherkangaroo4 жыл бұрын

    No matter what you choose to do in the future, your trans/detrans journey will inform how you help others. I can see you helping others think through decisions -- maybe as a school counselor?

  • @matthewmutz9337

    @matthewmutz9337

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kangaroo; I agree with you, Teen Counselor

  • @constant_change72
    @constant_change724 жыл бұрын

    Your so young! Never mind on the single question. :(

  • @giab1188
    @giab11884 жыл бұрын

    I am an adult with three children . I watch your videos because I have BDD. My youngest is 25 and I have some advice, take it or leave it: 1. I majored in journalism and it is a dead end 2. My daughter majored in psychology and got a graduate degree in counseling high school students with an emphasis in LGBT. She had multiple job offers and makes a great salary 3. Change your voice. People outside of the safety of college are very judgemental 3. You would be an excellent counselor and help many people Wishing you the best life!

  • @latrespalacios
    @latrespalacios4 жыл бұрын

    you're probably not going to like all of your classes and that's just fact. you just have to be convinced enough that they're worth taking in the end beacuse of all the things you'll learn.

  • @kypzor
    @kypzor4 жыл бұрын

    Elle that nose ring looks cute

  • @constant_change72
    @constant_change724 жыл бұрын

    I LOVE YOUR VOICE!

  • @whylie74
    @whylie744 жыл бұрын

    30 seems like a long way off now but you'll be there and past in a flash and it seems to get faster the older you get.

  • @kiwianagirl2505
    @kiwianagirl25054 жыл бұрын

    Hugs

  • @crowmancaveman2gen-xer280
    @crowmancaveman2gen-xer2804 жыл бұрын

    I'm studying diesel mechanics at a community college, it pays well pick a trade college is worthless. I have a degree in criminal justice and biomedical both were a fucking pain in the ass with learning disabilities and ADHD. I plan going back for my amp powerplant once I complete my diesel classes and I'll make better money, I originally was applying to physician assistant school. I have friends who are MDs, Nps and PAs tell me it doesnt pay as well cause of regulations and lawsuits

  • @BeetleB
    @BeetleB4 жыл бұрын

    So when she transitioned to male did her voice get deeper? Because it’s still deep.

  • @gabyhagemann3319

    @gabyhagemann3319

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes, her voice is deep because she took testosterone. The voice change usually is permanent.

  • @BeetleB

    @BeetleB

    4 жыл бұрын

    Gaby Hagemann ohh that’s kind of upsetting to hear that it’s irreversible...

  • @gabyhagemann3319

    @gabyhagemann3319

    4 жыл бұрын

    There is the possibillity to get voice training. It's also possible to get a voice feminization surgery.

  • @Japerhood
    @Japerhood4 жыл бұрын

    LOL I'm from Greece, if you are up for the challenge you can learn it, but it's really complex.

  • @abutts02
    @abutts024 жыл бұрын

    Always look to the future, not the past.

  • @LieutenantChocobo
    @LieutenantChocobo4 жыл бұрын

    You have a very magnetic smile

  • @Eyesofmars2040
    @Eyesofmars20404 жыл бұрын

    Have you ever spoke to Walter Hyer? He’s an amazing guy. I think your future looks bright🌞

  • @Katies_Modern_Life
    @Katies_Modern_Life4 жыл бұрын

    Hey girl heyyy

  • @jongood9106
    @jongood91064 жыл бұрын

    Ignore me if this is painful but I wanna ask you, do you see children in your future? Biological? Step children? Fur children? Job with children? Children of friends? What are you open to?

  • @haruyanto8085

    @haruyanto8085

    4 жыл бұрын

    She says no from the last vid, but she could change her mind in the future

  • @sharonannen8859

    @sharonannen8859

    4 жыл бұрын

    jon good * Yes - thIs Trans man got pregnant: (www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/transgender-fertility-study-sheds-light-testosterone-s-impact-n1182636). That news article reports that a Trans man ceased testosterone for four months. His Estrogen level normalised sufficient for him to get pregnant. Okay, YMMV. It is good news for you, Elle, if you decide that you want your own biological child. *

  • @jongood9106

    @jongood9106

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sharonannen8859 thanks for your post but my curiosity arises when I notice elle doesn't mention children not even professionally, as in working with children, or friends with children and finally children of her own. I follow her videos and children are never a topic... reproduction is a topic but children are never a topic. She never mentions children. If I I'm wrong please let me know. Thanks again

  • @sharonannen8859

    @sharonannen8859

    4 жыл бұрын

    jon good * You are correct and I’ve watched each of Elle’s videos to remember that she herself expressed no plans for children. I posted that reference and Comment in reply to your question (and others throughout the course of Elle’s videos) about her having biological children. She also did mention in her discussion questioning the prospects of her female reproductive capability after Testosterone. This is one resource reports this person successfully retained the capacity of bearing a child after having been on Testosterone. *

  • @donaldschumacher3683
    @donaldschumacher36834 жыл бұрын

    Mmmmmmmmm Peanut Butter Cups but Ferrero Rocher are the BOMB

  • @MaleOrderBride
    @MaleOrderBride4 жыл бұрын

    So proud of Elle for speaking her truth and not letting the Trans Activists silence her! Yes...sometimes being Trans is the WRONG decision! It is not "Transphobic". It is the truth. Young kids can not make life-altering decisions about their body!

  • @holypicklesmofo
    @holypicklesmofo4 жыл бұрын

    Hey Elle! If you're interested in psychology there's this great paper called the Future of Gender and Sex in Psychology: five challenges to the gender binary, published by American Psychologist I think with a bunch of different authors from different psychology and neurology disciplines. It really changed the way I think about gender in a scientific way, but would love to know your thoughts if you have time to read it.

  • @SiWaterGoblin

    @SiWaterGoblin

    4 жыл бұрын

    medschool.ucsd.edu/som/psychiatry/about/Diversity/Documents/Hyde%20et%20al%202019%20gender%20nonbinary.pdf - link for ease of access ('cause I looked it up myself)

  • @RemyRAD
    @RemyRAD4 жыл бұрын

    And furthermore. I'd like to add. o you will be a curiosity. An enigma. You will be special. And you still get to be a woman. Because everybody knows you are. But you'll make your money and your career. As a male voiceover artist, narrator. And when you show up at the studio. And they wonder where the voiceover guy is? Walk on into the studio. Sit down behind the microphone. And tell them you're ready. And they're going to love you! With the kind of love you want to receive from both men and women. With a nice big fat paycheck. And then the real mind blower. Is when we hear you telling everyone to go to your local area Ford Dealer. For that hopped up, performance, Mustang GT-500. And every guy is going to want one that hears your masculine voice. And then you could do personal appearances. Representing the company. And when you get up on stage. They will see this gorgeous chunk of woman. Looking all pretty. And then you open your mouth. And wow, everyone. And they will be Transfixed, on you. And so how perfect is that? It's completely apropos. And so, my dear. I'm going to teach you a nice Yiddish Jewish word. And that word is shtick. You will have, shtick. And shtick frequently translates into, star. With very gratifying financial rewards. That will provide for you a life. That you could have only dreamed of. Because it will seem like a dream. A dream you will never want to end. And still be a beautiful woman. I wish we had personally known each other and had become friends. Then maybe one day. We might meet? But chances are not. You're on your way. To a very successful life and career. Turning that negative into your positive. Because you're never going to sound like a girl or a woman, again. And you have to accept that. It will be all right. It will make you very unique. It will give you shtick. People like, Joan Rivers, Judy Gold, Phyllis Diller, Gilda Ratner, they had shtick. Along with, Billy Crystal, George Carlin, Robin Williams and so many others who had shtick. It was there shtick that made them famous. And you most definitely now have shtick. And that allows you to turn your negative into an entertaining and financially rewarding positive. So let me just say this. That's working in the entertainment industry as a voiceover professional. And there is no better job to have in this world. Than being a part of the entertainment industry. At the highest levels. Where all the fun, exciting people and celebrities exist. And then possibly, pouf. Somebody hands you a contract for a part in a movie. And it's all over. Your life will never be the same again. And do you think you can handle fame and fortune? Because anything else you choose. We'll just be a job. That you have to work at. And who the hell wants to work? I never have. I've been in the entertainment industry now for over 50 years. Yes I'm that old. I'm pushing 65. And I got in at 15. When I became a broadcaster. And a few years later. I found myself at hit recording studios in New York City. And then NBC-TV for the next 20 years. And so I count myself both lucky, professional. And I am now the woman of my dreams. But I still sound like Don Lafontaine. But I don't want to do the voiceover work. I want to record hit records. I'm better at that. And so at 65 years of age. I'm heading to Los Angeles. To start, anew. And again. Probably for the next, 10-15-20 years. But only because I'm not done having fun yet. And pursuing my career goals. As I grow and mature and become still yet better at what I do. As I'm always learning. Always changing and adapting and moving forward. That's what we must do in life. Life is not static. It's ever-changing. Sometimes for the good. And sometimes for the very worst. I'm going to the very worst, currently. So I must turn this around for myself. And I will. As when I say I'm going to do something. I do it up better than anyone else. And that's fine I'm so good at what I do. Failure is not an option. And right now I too am faltering. As I recently moved and relocated to, Austin, Texas. But now after five years. This ain't working for me here. Because it's not professional enough. For this award nominated twenty-year major television network veteran. There's too much amateurism here. And they're just not interested in raising themselves higher. Well I am. And I always have been. I'm a professional. And one of the very best, in the entertainment and broadcast industry. And so now. After all these years. Something I never expected. I find myself a world authority. And I made a major impact with television news audio the world over. And I don't have a fucking college degree. I'm a bona fide high school dropout with nothing more than a GED. And a couple of weeks of technical training seminars servicing studio tape recorders and audio consoles. And I have gone far beyond anyone's expectations. As to what someone can do. Without a college degree. And so. I have found myself teaching college professors. Because I cannot teach at the university level. So I can only teach the professors. Now that is just fucking wild. And then the celebrities I have worked with. Not just rock 'n' roll stars. But also movie stars and sports celebrities. And then I've worked with some of my favorite rock 'n' roll artists. I mean how is this possible? I guess I'm good? No I'm not. I'm great. You will be also. If you set your mind to turning your negatives into positives. And accepting the decisions you made to early in life. But it might lead you in the right place. Life is stranger than fiction. And I'm the perfect definition of that. So do your thing girl. And amaze the world with your voice. You're getting a liberal arts degree. Take some acting and public speaking courses. It will serve you well. You are very photogenic. You've got what it takes to make a lot of money. And that will help provide you with a wonderful life and maybe family of your own one day. I have no children of my own. And at 65. I still feel like I'm 25. Because I never had any children to age me. I never had to set a good example. Keep good hours. Eat properly. None of that. I get to be 25 for the rest of my life. Because who wants to grow up and get old? That's no fun. I'm having fun. You will also. Do your thing girl. Make it happen. You've got what it takes. And I know it. I can hear it. I can see it. You can't fool me. And you wanted a degree in liberal arts. This is right up your alley girl. And you're going to be able to make money with that degree. Others won't. They'll get other jobs. And they will be jobs. Not a career. Having a career is fabulous. There's nothing else quite like it.

  • @MegLeAnn94
    @MegLeAnn944 жыл бұрын

    I have a question which I hope doesn’t come across ignorant but what does the voice inside your head sound like. Is it like your current voice or a more feminine sounding voice...