A cold hearted person who gets what they want thru manipulation. This woman who I had worked with occasionally claimed her husband was abusive so I let her and her daughter stay in our spare room. She slept with my husband and got pregnant. She told lies about me. She would completely go off about little things screaming uncontrollably. I left, they deserved each other.

@petekdemircioglu

2 жыл бұрын

👍🏻

@Not-the-usual-BS

Жыл бұрын

😮😮l

@Not-the-usual-BS

Жыл бұрын

Definitely 💯 evil and cold blooded I know this definition by heart.. I researched female sociopaths I have a lot of information about them in addition to my life experiences being abused by them 😢😢

@gallardo360

Жыл бұрын

they always want to be the life of the party, attention whores

@flameb8814

Жыл бұрын

Omg 😮

I would add the following: 1) She won't target you unless you have something that provokes jealousy &/or envy in her.... 2) She will be sickeningly sweet... actually overly sweet, trying to charm you... ***THAT IS A HUGE RED FLAG!!!!!*** 3) You'll know you're a target when she starts mirroring you... 4) Once you're on her "radar screen," she will continually repeat the same tactics, recruiting others to jump into "abuse by proxy"... getting them to do her dirty work for her.... AND NOTHING IS OFF LIMITS.... they will DELIBERATELY break laws, violate boundaries, sabotage you any way they can, to discredit & destroy you... 5) SHE IS THE CLASSIC DEFINITION OF A BACKSTABBER... & SHE WILL NOT STOP UNTIL SHE GETS WHAT SHE WANTS... 6) Her objective is to strip you of what she's jealous/envious of, & destroy YOU for ever having it in the first place!!! I KNOW ALL OF THIS FIRST HAND... your only choice is to cut them out, off, GRAY ROCK!!!... **DO NOT SHOW ANY EMOTION... NOTHING!!! DO NOT COMMUNICATE ON ANY LEVEL.** Start a paper trail of police reports... & MAKE SURE YOU GET COPIES... & Find a GOOD LAWYER... because you're probably gonna need one NO JOKE!!!🖤

@catherinerhea6336

7 ай бұрын

@@blushbb. NO ONE said "everyone is like that" expect YOU try to instigate confusion. I'm NOT confused, but you seem to be!!!

@FieldsOfUppland

8 күн бұрын

I have noticed this aswell. They will gossip about people. "How dare he ask me that, do you know what he said?" "She wont stop calling me, its so annoying" "Hes a pervert" "He cheated on me" "Why does she dress like that? How stupid". Passive agressive as heck. But to you she will be sweet and kind, atleast to your face, but she is probably slandering you to others just like she does to everyone else. I was told i was smart, and looked younger than my age etc etc. I knew it was all bullshit because its simply not true, so it didnt work on me. Im not that smart and not that good looking. With other women she will display queen bee behavior, but with guys she will be the damsel in distress. She will act dumb, and in need of saving. They also have no boundaries, they will do sexually provocative things in stores for example with stuff on the shelf. They will dress provocativly. She might be 40 but will still dress seductivly even as a mother. I was growing a little worried about this person because it was clear she was no ordinary female. She seemed potentially dangerous. At best unstable.

Two ways their nasty side comes out 1) you.are.relaxed and letting your guard down 2) you are stressed and could use some empathy

@atheistbewildered2987

Жыл бұрын

The invalidation kicks in when you are stressed. When you are at your low point, they step in to make it worse

@joshuamacer777

Жыл бұрын

Oh man. This is so true. This is it! They're always evaluating you! Always watching you and your mood and you don't even know it then they create a problem out of thin air (because you're at peace) and you find yourself defending against something that doesn't even exist because they made it all up then call you the liar. And they're not doing any of this calmly. They're cussing, screaming, getting in your intimate space and trying to provoke you. And all you did was voice your opinion about something during what was just a normal conversation and you're attacked out of the blue. One minute everything is fine and just like that they snap and go off the wall and into a tangent full of false accusations, lies, name calling, insults, just straight up gaslighting and all you're doing is sutting there not saying a word while thus happens. Then, they're pointing their finger at you telling you that you're angry and acting like a psycho! Your opinions, feelings, well-being, and dreams do matter to these people, just disagree with one and see what happens. They'll see videos of themselves acting like this and convince themselves by telling you that the video has been edited and that nothing that we are seeing is actually happening! Yes, they're this crazy.

@VBM1

7 ай бұрын

Litterally facts. I lost my job, called her balling my eyes out. She got upset that I was tlaking about my job and started angrily telling me to "get off the road". Was such a horrible night

Superficially charming while being a monster in disguise. That FULLY describes my Narc ex-friend who I walked away from in March. She uses people for her own gain and doesn't bat a fake eyelash about it. She doesn't openly attack anyone. She's VERY covert! She told me once when she realized her mask slipped with me: "Everyone thinks I'm so wonderful, but I'm really just a cheater. They don't know that about me." Of course, she was playing for sympathy and I bought it. But, she IS a cheater.

@nessauk2786

5 жыл бұрын

What was or has been her reaction to you walking away from her? I ask as I'm due to do this myself..fake eyelashes you have to laugh ! The friend of mine has no real photos of herself they are all photo shots and don't even look like her...I find it hilarious that she thinks thats what others see her like totally deluded ! They do tend to expect friends to be on there side also,and you can't have a opinion on there bad behaviour or your a bad friend,it sucks ! Good luck with new friendships.

@Axess-sv8nq

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, lol! The fake eyelashes and all. She also cakes on TONS of makeup. Age is rapidly approaching her and she's doing all she can to avoid it like the plague because her looks are her money-maker. When I first walked, I did it dramatically and told her: "Get lost and STAY lost!" Then, the hoovering a month later when she caught me at a weak moment after a loss of one of my pets happened. When I walked finally, I did it gradually. She didn't seem to outwardly care. She stopped talking to me and I stopped talking to her. Then, a couple months ago, I heard she and her current lover were smearing me for a few minutes on her broadcast stream - calling me an 'Incel' and a loser while pointing out something nice I bought for her. She just has no shame. It's all about her all day-every day. Someone brought it to my attention that she did that and all I could do was laugh when I watched it happen on a recording. At first, for a few seconds, I was angry and disgusted that she would do that while pointing out something nice I did for her. But, quickly, I realized how pathetic she and her enablers are. So, when you walk, you might get smeared by her to her enablers. But, who cares? Know WHO you are and know the TRUTH. That's all you need. I don't care what my ex-friend and her idiot enablers think of me. It has nothing to do with me as a person. I know I have value. I know I'm a good person. I have a conscience. And those things set me FAR apart from people like her.

@daviddemars

5 жыл бұрын

The nonstop manipulation is insidious.

@Axess-sv8nq

5 жыл бұрын

It certainly is, David! My narc ex-friend never stops. She's always on the hustle for more supply and to enrich herself. It's endless.

@ginadean5696

5 жыл бұрын

The sociopathic traits of women you describe reminds me of what Amber Heard has done to Johnny Depp. I am a victim of a man NPD/Sociopath with similar traits and never believed her in my gut. Her story had week facts and too many witnesses including the police who counteracted her claims and datelines.

My mother , 10 years foster Care , physical abuse , rageholic, no accountability, no guilt . Makes you feel like you made it all up . At 40 years of age I’ve cut all ties with my mother .

@Me-fy8ue

3 жыл бұрын

Remain no contact

@TheKnightsOfCamelot

2 жыл бұрын

Where is your father? Did you cut ties to him too? Did she give you a spank once in a while or did she beat you with her fists everyday? The bar is lowered everyday on what is abuse. If someone don't love you and you cut ties no big deal. My best friend my son got all of a sudden married to a manipulative sociopath whom encouraged him to ditch his own mother because she is a nag. I have been puking many times everyday for 6 months because of this and I feel I just wasted my life working for a stable family and estate. Hopefully he will see and wake up soon.

@tulinbeyduz920

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheKnightsOfCamelot my father had schizophrenia and passed away . My mother was physically violent and abusive . She broke my sisters arm . She was a different person when she would split and rage ..

@carpathianken

2 жыл бұрын

You & I have so many similarities going on that it's almost freakishly coincidental. My mother shook my sister so hard when she was crying as a baby that she's been on a pension since her teens. Ever since I started earning a wage my mother has hounded me financially & made me pay off her mortgage, which I did. To return the favour, she sub let the house out without my permission when I explicitly told her that the only one condition that I would pay her house off , was that if any of my siblings (her children) got into trouble & needed somewhere to stay live, then they could safely do so there. Then after six months I asked her friend to leave & my mother made me out to be the bad guy. My therapist told me to sever all ties with my mother because of her chronic tendency to abuse me, which she'll more than happily have continued to do if I didn't. My dad suffered from leukaemia for 8 years before dying in 2010.He was schizophrenic too.

@tulinbeyduz920

2 жыл бұрын

@@carpathianken i’m so sorry . sounds very painful too :(..

A woman in my community manages to smear people without actually saying anything bad about them! She talks about how sorry she feels for that person and that are just triggered and she wants to help them but at the same time, manages to imply that the person is dangerous and unpredictable. When I point out the damage her words have done to peoples reputation the flying monkeys tell me that shes never said a bad word about that person. Yet here we all are, doubting that persons sanity because of what she said. Its extremely covert and difficult to deal with, especially as shes love bombing everyone with some skillful superficial charm. Shes only been part of our community for 6 months and already fallen out with three people and accused two men of abusing her, but people are still open to her being a part of the community because she is so sweet, cleans a lot and 'doesn't have any money'- even though she just turned up with a pair of brand new trainers and a new hair cut. This is how communities get turned into cults! What do I do??

@user-yw8qf8cc3t

2 ай бұрын

Call them reta,rds

My ex wife (briefly since I found her out quickly-20 month marriage) uses Facebook to present herself the way she wants people to believe she really is. She claims to have so many friends but nobody in real life knows the real her other than the men she tried to destroy.

@HazelJuanitaMillanHoffman

2 жыл бұрын

I know a Sociopath that uses Facebook to attack. She has her enablers that she holds court over. Her "Coven of Witches" as she calls them. She always talks about her high moral standards 🙄 and everyone falls short. How she's the victim. The Woman is seriously delusional. Yet she's also intelligent and interesting to study from a distance. I always wondered how so many people were fooled by Hitler. I watch her and often think if reincarnation were real. She'd be Hitler in a female form. She can take 1% of truth and twist it into so many tangled lies that always comes out how much she's suffered. Do they believe the lies they weave? Are they unable to tell the simple unvarnished truth?The tales she spins get bigger and not one of her sycophants ever questions her stories. They are just her obsequious servants. She has her allusive obsession that quote: "she had to accept by the age of 24 was never going to be her man." Unquote: Yet she holds every man she's with to the pedestal that she's placed her obsession on. She gives backhanded compliments about him. While proclaiming their unrequited love for each other. She's making sure to insult and tear him down so no one else will understand or love or be loved by him as she is. You'd think with his death she would have moved on. But nope she's continued to live her life through him and now spouts the narrative of his "Spirit" talks to her and her sycophants.

@YesPlease1

7 ай бұрын

My female ex sociopath too, with Instagram posts. She cares about and curates her image A LOT. It serves as both a way to lure in new targets, and a defense if she ever gets called out. People will go to her profile and believe she's a caring and kind person.

Yeah i seen the mask slip and ive seen the Narc smirk or the flash of rage..

I dated a female sociopath! She sabotaged me, pathological liar, cheated on me with married men and all the while she came across as a sweet single mom who was a good friend etc....I caught her lying a million times and she would deny it all etc...she never cared who she hurt as long as she got her way. I lost my job, money and freedom as well bcuz I figured her bull shit out.

@Not-the-usual-BS

Жыл бұрын

😮😢I also had to learn the hard way that I was in love with a narcissistic sociopath… she was stabbing me in the back with another fake ex friend of mine they were plotting and scheming and setting me up taking my money , lying, evil pieces of trash 🗑️

@Not-the-usual-BS

Жыл бұрын

I had an excellent paying job I lost, my condo I lived in, and I was put in prison from the outrageous lies made up about me because I found out she was cheating and I cut her off financially.. well the monster came out after that!! Even cops are fooled by these demons, because I had to fight like hell to get out of that mess!

@Stcoadrdfo

11 ай бұрын

@@Not-the-usual-BS the other "fake ex-friend" was gaslighted by her unless you had 2 sociopaths at the same time which is very unlikely. The prison term is very unfortunate and I feel for you. You ended up there because at the time of the court proceedings, you didn't know she was a sociopath. Had you known that the court would've assigned a forensic psychiatrist or personality profiler and she would be cooked. Please keep her first and last name on the web so whoever comes into her orbit and google her name will be saved. But, again if you are not a person who went through hell with a sociopath or you are not a psychiatrist you may never know who you are dealing with even after you lost everything.

@Not-the-usual-BS

11 ай бұрын

@@Stcoadrdfo absolutely! I know that my ex fake friend was manipulated by this sociopath and was turned into a minion… it’s a nightmare I still go through.. pure evil !

@Not-the-usual-BS

11 ай бұрын

@@Stcoadrdfo thank you for your excellent insight! I definitely will keep her name online to warn others and maybe help someone not go through what I did….

That is probably the most accurate list of traits about this I've ever heard.

@daisyrocky1070

Жыл бұрын

I agree. This list is 100.

@blushbb.

9 ай бұрын

No. It’s a spectrum not everyone has these traits

@steeveo431

9 ай бұрын

@@blushbb. no offense, but you might be missing the point

@blushbb.

9 ай бұрын

@@steeveo431 no I’m not because I’m actually diagnosed this just makes it seem like we’re cunning, not all of us have these traits

This is eye-opening and 100% completely explained my mother perfectly...when she was still mostly "functioning" in society. What scares me is that now everyone - and i mean absolutely everyone - is figuring her out and she's starting to really unravel...how can you tell if they may be on the verge of violence?

@kmflowtimelordmal5446

2 жыл бұрын

Easy, read her body language, it will be hard but you’ll see it

You just described my sister!!!! 😱 I know if she could get away with it she would off me with no remorse!!!

@rebeccabriggs2982

5 жыл бұрын

My sister to. At least 2 of them. I've divorced my toxic family tree.

@catbrat610

4 жыл бұрын

Danielle my sister too

@alilbitliz

4 жыл бұрын

info info Yes my sister too.

@Ibetala

4 жыл бұрын

MINE TOO (face palm)

@joysmith1241

4 жыл бұрын

Same

It's funny how this breakup has been the worst yet absolute most needed thing in my life. It hurt, man, boy did it hurt, I even had to take a 2 week vacation from work lol. Anyhow, I learned so much about NPD and personality disorders, for a very long time I believed that my ex gf was simply a Narcissist but with all the amount of time educating myself and my personal experience with her I came to the idea that perhaps my ex wasn't just a Narc but also a Sociopath. She meets all the signs, lacks empathy, manipulation, dishonesty, no remorse, etc etc. I'm still recovering from it but I have progressed so much in my life in such little time, sometimes we need things like this to help us become a better version of ourselves.

@nathanmeta6769

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@niconavarro687

Жыл бұрын

Same here stay up

@e.paradigm7415

Жыл бұрын

@@niconavarro687 Oh absolutely, brother! I came a looong way since that breakup, lol. Turns out my ex most likely had BPD with perhaps traits of ASPD. Anyway, that’s all in the past, moving forward is the best route, focusing on oneself is what’s needed. Best of luck to you!

@joesamko7786

4 ай бұрын

Yes, I too felt my mother is a narcissist until I learned about sociopaths. I struggle with deciding if she is malignant, but now I understand that she is not malignant, but a sociopath. She loves to provoke me and has all the traits that you mentioned. I have her number now and I am dealing with it. Understanding who you are dealing with makes your life much easier. You stop being confused. I work in a large store and I can see cluster b traits in several of my coworkers. I think the sales profession attracts them. I see through their lies.

Yup this is my sis. When I was myself in therapy and most because of her, so I talked a lot with my psychologist about her and her messages and behavior she said to me “she has anti social disorder narcissism/sociopath” from what she saw and witnessed the only thing she said “I cannot diagnose unless she is a patient but one advice - never talk with her alone again”

This is my mother. My whole life my mom would attack me for no reason and say horrible things to be to put me down and then when I’m at my lowest she’d come back in and try to pick me up like the hero. She would push me and my siblings until she found something to break us and then once found she’s keep using that tactic against us. Always screaming and yelling and causing problems it’s like walking on eggshells 24/7 or trying to walk in a field of land mines and you don’t when your gonna trigger one and it blows. I moved out at 17 bc I couldn’t deal with it anymore. My little sister is now 17 and is also moving out with me bc she can’t handle anymore either. My little brother is only 14 and he always expresses to me how much she affects him. Our family revolves around her and tries to make her happy with everything we do bc if she’s not happy no is and she’ll make sure of it.

Spot on! And you are famous to all your followers David!! TY 💓

@daviddemars

5 жыл бұрын

No, thank you Amy!!

Do you have a video where you speak more about the female sociopaths delusions that they firmly believe to be the truth? How they pain a picture of their target based on a sub-personality character?

@fooddrugadministrator4079

4 жыл бұрын

If I’m on a date with a female sociopath, I hope she has ADHD so I can diagnosed her with ADHD and make her take medication

i knew a women before, she wanted something serious i did too i was like let's take this slowly and get to know each other then decide what works the best of us she liked the idea i was like great this women is beautiful charming well spoken and serious i guess that's my lucky day she love bombed me then ignored me then when i told her that this is hurting me she laughed and told me "be careful you might fall in love with me" then i told her I've seen good traits in you maybe you are having a bad time i gave her space she stood the same then i told her this is not working for me i am serious about this and you seem to be having fun at my expanse so do you have the capacity to change or this will be the theme of us ? she told me you are being dramatic and i hate drama and we will never be together and i did not want to be with you from the very start i wasn't shocked i was like cool that is exactly what i wanted to hear i didn't want you to frame me as the bad guy here and you just admitted that you were just manipulating me and that's my closure, bay i'm 100% sure she is a psychopath i met a lot of narcissists believe me they are very nice people compared to her she must be a psycho

@Telarius

3 ай бұрын

Prob sociopath not psychopath. A psychopath would be more or less indifferent to the relationship. They wouldn't find enjoyment out of the manipulation. A sociopath would though when called out as a copeing mechanism. "Oh u caught me being manipulative ima say I was messing with u all along" kinda excuses. Prob a sociopath.

The thing about dating someone with an anti social personality disorder is that you’re constantly off balance. You’re already off balance when you’re bombarded with that initial phase of affection you just don’t have enough knowledge or understanding of their condition to realise it. Why would you?! By the time the manipulation, lies and subtle sabotage begins you’re so off kilt you fail to see the obvious signs that something is very off with this person. Interestingly enough your family and close friends will see it immediately. The lack of depth and superficial charm, the fact they have no close friendships, the fact that they are child like in their persona, overly secretive, obsessed with the attention of the opposite sex, promiscuous, irresponsible with their finances and to some extent their children, their infatuation with thrills, lack of accountability , shallow ego, little or no care for boundaries or social norms. When you step outside of the game it’s clear it was all nothing more than a facade. Unfortunately you’re so caught up in the distorted reality they’ve created that you can’t see anything beyond the unachievable desire to make them meet you half way. These people are truely dangerous because they take your kindness and empathy and through careful, deliberate and calculated mind games use those traits to reflect back on to you your own insecurities and that can literally destroy your mental health. The key point is that not everyone you meet is what they seem and not everyone you meet has your best interests at heart. These relationships are painful but they are valuable because they teach you a great deal about yourself and about the values and beliefs that you hold dear. These are the things that nobody should ever compromise or take from you.

My ex... She cheated on me multiple times and I stayed with her for our kids and because I loved her only to have her use me, spend ALL my money then take the car, my kids and move in with someone else while I was at work training for a new job I ended up losing due to a mental breakdown all while manipulating her family into thinking it was all me and I was a "monster" when all I did was work and take care of the kids. I stayed loyal to her all 10 years only for her to tear me down on the way out to make herself look better. She tried to get me to kill myself and I almost did until I thought of my kids. The mask finally came off one day and she told me she was "evil" the most fucked up part is I still love her to this day and have no clue why. She took a part of my heart and crushed my soul and I still love her. SMH Am I stupid or what? Oh to make matters worse she just had another baby that could be mine. She swears the baby's not mine but she looks just like me and our other kids. 😢

@Fazo77400

Ай бұрын

your not stupid your ex is a horrible human being

thank you David, I kind of took a break from the narcissist stuff for a while, I've been studying it now and healing for 3 years which I'm doing pretty well now, but had a small interaction with her recently. I think she's a combination of a narcissist and a sociopath and who knows what. That sounds just like her she's such an extreme professional, its so difficult to spot but if you know what she is it's not as hard. If someone doesn't know what she is, it's very difficult to spot, she's so refined and a pro at this. An email she sent me the other day she was gaslighting and lieing and projecting, I was able to see all of it this time.

David thank you. Another thing that they do is talk about everyone behind their back to each other causing them all to dislike each other. If you imagine a tic tack toe board there is a line of division that creates boxes. Each person is kept in their own box, and the troublemaker who is causing drama between everyone Hope's to God that your paths never cross. Otherwise you will be able to compare notes, and to know that this person lied about all of you to each other. For example someone says, I know you think so and so is your friend but she told me she cant stand you. Then they go to the other person and say the same thing about the previous person. They do this to everyone, next thing you know, no one trusts or is speaking to anyone else. All of this courtesy of the sociopath or otherwise disordered person. While the drama starter sits back, drinks tea, and laughs to themselves bec of the hell they caused. Marriages, friendships and family connections are destroyed by this nasty behavior.

@neena9202

3 жыл бұрын

Spot on. I wish more people knew this. I lost alot of friends bc of my sister doing this, and wish they would have came to me and asked

@cannonballlight4939

3 жыл бұрын

@@neena9202 I’m sorry you were put through that. Just a question is that not what a narc does? Ik all sociopaths are narcissistic but I thought telling lies about one another to ppl separately was smth only narcs would do

The week you made this video she was just about to put me through the mill again, for Christmas ... Shocking timing for a warning this size.. shame I couldn't get solace from watching it .. I guess it would have just panicked me to know my ending... As she went through the whole check list in your script. I remember then watching it in January and had too much tears in my eyes to be able to click a like on it.. watching it now again shaking my head

Ive been studying this shit Man and I found something SOOOOOO sooo interesting. In RUssia childreen born before 1991 in ussr hospitals were subject to state trama. Childreen were taken from mothers at birth and isolated. only returned to mother for feeding and then isolated... . They did this because the ussr saw mother and child as seperate entities..This trama bonding went on for 3 to 8 weeks sometimes longer.. It was done to prevent mother from infecting child. I believe this is the reason my experience with russian women has been so deeply empty.. And now I know. You cant love anybody who cant love because they wont love you they will objectify and use you and wont feel ANYTHING because that part of their brain that is responsible for empathy DID not develop the way it needed.. the result sociapathy...So fucking sad to want to love someone to want to feel a real resiprosity but to only be given a false imitation of a kind gesture in return a caculated gift a quantified responce a dancing with a preditor puts you on the menu:(

@user-yw8qf8cc3t

2 ай бұрын

The psychopaths running the USSR wanted sociopaths. Their religion is psychopathy - it's in the Talmud

Um im absolutely terrified right now I’ve just today started piecing together everything, it’s always been something at the back of my mind with her but I’m convinced now. My best friend is a sociopath and she knows every detail about me good and bad.

@hammydammy123

4 жыл бұрын

That doesn’t mean you should be scared of her...

@annaunger3760

4 жыл бұрын

Sunkissed Showers LPS I’m not afraid of her I’m afraid of what might happen, I know what she’s capable of. She’s told me. And it’s honestly disturbing what she’s done to people in the past.

@tezdaqueen9765

4 жыл бұрын

u cant stay friends with them... because u will never trust them

@TheMarkmcr

4 жыл бұрын

@@annaunger3760 how old is she? It's highly unlikely, but if she is not 26 yet, there is a small chance that therapy can help her.

@Anonymous-di7cb

4 жыл бұрын

Tez Da Queen / Sociopaths aren’t necessarily bad friends. They’re more ‘observant’, so they likely know what a person looks for in a friend and they can thus become this friend. (For their own benefit of course, but they wouldn’t harm the person they befriended because they need them. Not in a sentimental way. A useful way. Which again, isn’t necessarily a bad thing. You might NEVER find out why you could be useful to them, but in your mind you’ve earned a good friend).

Wtf. I can't believe I have been minipulated by a sociopath woman for years. This opened my eyes now, today as I lay sore and sorry after self harming myself because of her. I lay in bed after being in the hospital last night because of her twisting my feeling around.i thank you for this video because you opened up my eyes. God how could I be so stupid all this time.

@user-xk9rt6ur2i

Жыл бұрын

you were not stupid, you are normal. it's just sociopaths are very sly. i know because i used to be friends with one. she gaslighted me a lot and humiliated me in very sly ways i didn't even get that. she enjoyed fooling me

@HopeFaithandLove1111

3 ай бұрын

You're not stupid...your a good trusting person who feel in love with a narcissist. There are many who have, we need to learn from it and hopefully learn to respect ourselves and our boundaries more so we never tolerate another narcissistic relationship again.

Dear Lord, Please protect ALL MEN that are suffering from domestic violence AMEN🙏🏽

@wogbornagain

4 жыл бұрын

@Aldo Caprione 🤗😁👑

@mygirldarby

3 жыл бұрын

Umm.

@afeb2010

3 жыл бұрын

@@mygirldarby Umm what?

@xourlovingbeautifulsoulx8165

2 жыл бұрын

@@mygirldarby if what you are trying to say with that "umm" is that males can't suffer domestic violence or that they are not so much, yes they can, and it's mostly not known about many cases because they decide to not say anything because they know how society works, many think those women are incapable of doing so with those men, but sure there are many who are the victimizers and there's so many who will tell them "oh your wife beats you?, c'mon man up" or even worse, they are afraid people won't believe them. That's why they don't speak most of the time

Thanks this is very informative. Explains so much about my last year.

I let my best friend move in with me about four months ago even though I was just recently divorced, basically she didnt even ask, she just said I AM MOVING IN....it didnt take long to realize she wasn't an empath, I gave her notice to move out a month ago, two weeks ago and then last week....she left everything behind six days ago including all her unpaid bills, im boxing everything up and as im doing it I find things she's stolen, slandering my name, and she's had money the entire time as she watched me cry not being able to pay my bills....I learned alot, we had know each other for 30 years, no more....she is defiantly a sociopath! owe well, I dont need her financial support and all her lies are out...done done done! you never know someone until you live with them!

Excellent video thank you David

@daviddemars

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Hi all, I have so much real stories like these... Just so you all know, I took my power back! It's roughly 2yrs no contact but there's the ongoing slander etc to others in their family. I have come a long way and alone too. My only help was folks like you all sharing your stories, channels like this etc.

@daviddemars

5 жыл бұрын

That's great, thank you so much for telling us that. Keep being healthy!

@natashalewis9435

5 жыл бұрын

@@daviddemars a special thank you to you too David...I deeply appreciate your work and listening to you. You are great!

I knew Hillary, yes that Hillary, and you are flat out describing her! As a nurse this was so common that it made work life pure drama and misery. We used to jokingly say we would be getting off shifts with knives in our backs. With my history of abuse since childhood, this was really hard to survive and I didn't always cope well. My early childhood coping skill that developed was to dissociate, thus I have had dissociative identity disorder, panic and anxiety attacks (GAD, PTSD). Thanks for the video.

They have to teach themselves to blink more often too. The death stare. Predictor 🐍🐍🐍

@macnchessplz

Жыл бұрын

I was looking for someone to comment on that! So much of that stare I see visually (photos) etc seem to be exaggerated. Instead of someone staring at you, from afar, with no emotional expression (even anger), no inquisitive look in the eye. It’s a blank stare with a blank face and not a blink noticed.I’ve seen that…. These predator in the jungle ready to pounce stare , no.

My sister is a sociopath and has gotten away with her evil behavior for 58 yrs . Until just a few week's ago it has finally come to the attention of our entire family , those that she has deceived all her life a true habitual liar and alway's caused chaos and drama for all of her siblings for no reason and gotten away with everything . And now she has been disowned and she has brought it all on herself . I stopped associating with her year's ago unless I had to be around her because she can't be trusted all 4 of her sibling hate her and almost alway have now my Father has seen it . My brother and I hope we never have to see or deal with her ever again as long as we live . The other two sibling's have died so sadly they never where able to see Karma finally catch up with her. She has caused all of us a lot of unnecessary pain . Glad it's over.

Its interesting that women are like this and they might even be married and their husband's know exactly how they behave and do nothing about it, they'll even stay married, all the while knowing their sociopathic wife is tormenting people that haven't done anything to her.

@over-comer

Жыл бұрын

Says something about the husband. He may not know she's a sociopath but surely he knows that what she's doing is not ok. Which makes him near just as guilty in my opinion.

@user-xk9rt6ur2i

Жыл бұрын

I think sociopathic women look for vulnerable men, fake empathy and win their trust. These women make them believe that they are their only true friends and that other people just don't appreciate them enough. And the husband doesn't want to lose the support from her even if he knows how badly she treats others. It's codependancy

@naknampucha5236

7 ай бұрын

​@@over-comerwhat kind of logic is that? Usually husband doesn't know what her wife doing or behavior,. they're very chamelionic at their core and it will probably take months or even years before they know it.

@over-comer

7 ай бұрын

@@naknampucha5236 I hope you're right, because if you are it redeems someone I know from the guilt of all the harm his wife is doing.

amazing video, i love you my man

My oldest sociopath sister poisoned Mom's food with arsenic after coercing her to change her will. I wish I could afford to have her locked up!!

@salamilid4125

4 жыл бұрын

That's more psychopathic

@fooddrugadministrator4079

4 жыл бұрын

Sociopath should be diagnosed with ADHD so they should be given medication

@alfafalk

10 ай бұрын

​@@fooddrugadministrator4079 That would not get them any better.

good video. seems we get caught up in labeling and after awhile it just creates confusion and searching for more clues rather than take action, the only label, definitiin, or diagnosis you need to be concerned with is is this person "dangerous"?

@daviddemars

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, thank you. That is totally correct, we do not accept the behavior.

This is spot on.

Useful and specific.

I have had sociopathic tenancies, a few years ago I came to the conclusion that I was a sociopath. Other than the big dramatic promises or whatever, everyone of those things fit who I used to be. I've been working with myself since then and have gotten better, but there is still a sociopath at the back of my mind, sometimes it's less noticable and sometimes I have to make a point NOT to act like that

@irreplaceablek3613

4 жыл бұрын

Epic Ninja You can’t diagnose yourself. If you believe you have sociopathic tendencies, you should speak to a professional. From then on, you can have professional treatment.

@milavargas1031

4 жыл бұрын

I would suggest that if you truly are this way but don’t want to be, because you will burn every bridge as you hurt those around you, ask yourself if your actions will benefit only you or all involved, naturally the correct answer is all involved. Maybe you can learn that right may not always benefit you but it’s ok not to be above the rest all the time. Sincerely, Good luck to you.

@sourcandilicious

4 жыл бұрын

​@@irreplaceablek3613 The username gives away the fact that this person is an edgy teen/young adult wanting to be scary and special *eyeroll*. Also it's very rare for and near impossible for a real sociopath to even care enough to consider that they are one. That's why there is a theory going on that there are more sociopaths than what have been reported- they don't get diagnosed bc they don't care to seek therapy.

@ashberry2852

3 жыл бұрын

Can you share how you did?

@epicninja952

3 жыл бұрын

@@ashberry2852 I tried a couple of things. But at the moment I think the biggest thing is I look at life like a giant show, and every single person is a main character, they are all significant and just as special as I am. Another thing I did was leave a toxic environment, but the same mind in a different environment creates the same environment. The first thing I had to do was accept how I was treating people was not something I was ok with

My mother...if my local abuse center and the courts hadn’t intervened she would have killed me by acute amoxicillin poisoning in which I’m deathly allergic to...if you run into a woman sociopath either run or get an IFP/protective order

Hi David, That could be my 19 year old daughter. I met my daughters boyfriend for the first time recently and got on well with him and she got angry and said some horrible things. I'm 47 and the idea that I'm interested in him or vice versa is utterly ridiculous. She's the only one who stands up to her narcissistic father and plays him rather well. She comes across quite cold at times and her eyes tell a different story to what she's saying. She's lied to me as well. This could also be my mother who I used to idolise but has let me down and lied. My father died 2 years after I left home. His attitude changed towards me when I started dating. He became distant, angry and finally like he'd given up. Do sociopaths feel love?

@daviddemars

5 жыл бұрын

Hello Ruth, what a history you have had. I am so sorry. I hope you have good people in your life now. Your question about love, I will let you come to your own conclusion after you please watch the video I published Friday titled Does the Narcissist Love You? I think this will help you with that. Thank you Ruth and please take really good care of yourself.

@truth8497

5 жыл бұрын

@@daviddemars Thank you David ❤️

I remember one time I was talking with my ex sociopath about forgiveness and she said “no.. people get what they deserve! Sometimes I wish the purge (the movie) was a real thing!” Then a year later we were searching for movies to watch and I asked has she seen the sequel to the purge and she said “no, I didn’t even watch all of the first one. I walked out of the movie theater because it was so satanic” Me: ???🤔???

@mojohnson5134

4 жыл бұрын

ShawnChrystafur she so damn fake she can’t keep up with her lies

@stephaniamalagon726

4 жыл бұрын

I used to be like that as well. Currently I am trying to follow the Bible closely because after research, other holy books are self contradictory in important parts and I believe in God. I don't "feel" but I do know God exists (I asked for proof of existence before I did something that might get me hated by even God). I am not perfect, it's a struggle against self constantly. I've learned to not have anger, hate, or even want revenge but it creeps in at times. Particularly the idea that most people have no value to them and that only a few are valuable to me (because they further my plans). I don't know if she is going through something similar tho

@Mo.1988

2 жыл бұрын

Lmaooooo they’re insane

If you've lived through it, experienced it and walked away and thrive. You are an expert

@tarottimewithandie

3 жыл бұрын

🤌

I'm a female sociopath (no im not afraid of saying it) and I can actually relate. A big thanks to the people who made me like this👏🏻.

@stelz9402

5 жыл бұрын

Drowned Kid are you? I’m interested in talking to you about it

@drownedkid8068

5 жыл бұрын

@@stelz9402 yes I am, i had a 2 years therapy and here i am. (This is my 3th year)

@Anonymous-di7cb

4 жыл бұрын

Sunflower Shine / In most cases, a sociopath isn’t always “made”. In early childhood they don’t show any signs of anything, but as they grow they begin to feel different for no real reason.

@paulaoppedisano6460

Жыл бұрын

Parents?

@dragonchr15

10 ай бұрын

I see what you did there...

Sounds like my narcissistic sister.

Thank you for sharing. My boss is a sociopath and no one knows it, but me because she targeted me from day one. She makes herself out to be this great person, but she is a Dr Jekyll and Mrs Hyde. I have been surrounded by abusive women all my life. My mom emotionally abused me from the time I was born till I left home at 16. My stepmom is emotionally abusive and uses God to control me, her and my dad do this so I do not talk to either of them they are narcissist. I have no friends at all. I attract abusive people. I am a woman and I do not feel safe around any woman that I have met. Men have hurt and rejected me romantically. Women have hurt me as so called friends and family and on jobs. Its too long to go into, but all these traits you shared are in the women I have met all my life and who have tried to control me including now at my totally toxic job. Some of the women at my job are very controlling and toxic. A particular bully lady has spread lies about me and made people not like me. I am so miserable. I have never experienced this so called sisterhood of women. I just do not want to be around anyone ever because everyone I meet is mean to me or insensitive. I just stay to myself. I am so glad you pointed out that women abuse other women. Many people think that these sociopath females only target men, but they also target women who they think they can abuse and control. These sociopaths are so dangerous. I believe a female sociopath is far more dangerous than a male one at least they have been to me. These types of women have stalked me and tried to force me to be around them and get information out of me to spread as slander and gossip. These women will exclude you and give you the silent treatment and make you out to be a horrible woman if you do not go along with their agenda. If you stand up to them they make themselves the victim and make you out to be the crazy one that unjustly attacked them. They are good at getting other women fired for no reason. They use their fake charms and fake caring to lure people into thinking they are so wonderful and loving when they are cold as ice. They have fake social skills that make people like them and will use that to make someone who is shy like me look like a selfish weird person. Its so hard to put into words what a female sociopath is like. A good example of a sociopath to me is the witch in the movie The Lion, witch and the wardrobe. Its like that movie Mean Girls with Lindsay Lohan. Its exactly like that at work. Its like that if you have these women any where in your life they will suck the life out of you to the point you want to commit suicide. Its just that horrible. They are like parasites you can never get rid of them. I have had sociopath husband and narcissistic men and abusive men in my life, but it was much easier to get away from them then it is to get away from a female sociopath or female abusive person. These women will latch on to other women they are abusing and will make your life a living hell. I have had to hide from some of these women literally. I cannot get away from my evil boss and the coworkers who are like this because I cannot find another job, but it really does not matter as every job I have been on has toxic people. Its so miserable. Thanks again for exposing this issue between women its a issue that is totally overlooked and its one that needs to be dealt with and we women who are being abused by other women need support too. thanks

Spot on David, thank you.

@daviddemars

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Monica!

@monicaAdkins1207

5 жыл бұрын

@@daviddemars Hi David!

WOW, this man described a close family member just now....... I always knew it but could never put the precise term or words to describe it... QUESTION:Do you just avoid or abandon a family member who is a Sociopath?

@tookielocaPink

4 жыл бұрын

Crackles McFarly me too... my mother

@weatherphobia

4 жыл бұрын

@@tookielocaPink So when did you KNOW IT? I didn't 'know something was wrong until about 25 years!! My family member goes from crying like a gang rape victim to angry fits of rage and switches to the anger mode within at most 20 seconds and then back to crying then back to extreme psycho ranting anger. It seems to be a skill this person I know has fine tuned over 35 years, like a robot/human.

My mother....my god thank you for this. Sub linked and shared

Kinda starting to think I’m a sociopath?!

@apdsouza

4 жыл бұрын

No you're 12

@courtesy3993

4 жыл бұрын

Don't make conclusions. You're probably not even 18 yet, so don't insert yourself into this limited group of people with a real struggle. It's not something you want to be just to be different. Being different than everyone and being separated from everyone are two very different things. Believe me.

You just described a woman in my family, very well

I pretty much think the signs are the same regardless of sex?

@tranquility9325

5 жыл бұрын

I think so too, except at times women can be even more devious. They tend to control men sexually bec they know that is most mens' weakness. They also like to "oopsie" get pregnant by accident, on purpose to trap the man. The oldest trick in the book, but it still works.

Okay...I must be an undiagnosed sociopath, everyone watch out! I am a woman who gets along more with men because women are too much drama, especially in a work environment. Men are more easy going and chill ...men can get mad at other men and in five minutes they're having a beer. Women drag out the dramas and get too emotional. I also dont support women's groups because I noticed that a lot of those women who join women's movement groups are the same ones who are ripping other women apart and not supportive. While I don't hate women, I know many cool strong women I enjoy being around--I am neutral but prefer friendships with men.

@petekdemircioglu

2 жыл бұрын

Im sociopath too than because Thats exactly what I do too

What if you're outing a sociopath that kept bullying you? Am I as sociopathic as the person I outed?

@bobtaylor170

5 жыл бұрын

No more than you are if you must kill someone who is trying to kill you.

@anonmous4468

4 жыл бұрын

Anne Leighton nope that’s self defence . You have to do what you have to do.

@milk9613

4 жыл бұрын

Bob Taylor You wouldn’t question your own ethics or morals. You do what you have to do to survive

I think their pleasure in inflicting pain should clarify that this includes physical pain. My sister has tried to kill two of us that I know of, who knows how many more. She was also a teacher for 42 years...for the power, control and the stress she could inflict on students and their parents. She marvelled in how much control she had over people's lives, YET still look like a selfless and sacrificing pillar of the community. She is the most saccharine person I've met. I've also said she utterly hates women. Thanks for actually nailing this.

@helenjoanna49

Ай бұрын

My sister too. She's doing her best to destroy whT little health I've got left. Now I'm fighting back not alone but with the police, doctors etc. Your experience is disgusting too. I feel for everyone on here saying similar things

Jodi Arias, anyone??? Spot on, David.

@darkangel-cb2rk

4 жыл бұрын

i would say she's a psychopath

@raylaughlan5324

3 жыл бұрын

@@darkangel-cb2rk i would disagree. Psychopaths wouldn’t necessarily get so attached to a guy like she did.

@darkangel-cb2rk

3 жыл бұрын

@@raylaughlan5324 obviously she wasn't attached she murder him then did hazard stands and sang songs

@macnchessplz

Жыл бұрын

I think Jodi was diagnosed Borderline (and obviously high on that spectrum).

Bless your heart and thank you so much for your informative and accurate videos.

The friend that I had , I met her February 2015 and I finally figured out that she is a passive aggressive covert sadistic sociopath narcissist and she was telling me things about her but in a way that it didn't make sense at the time until I started to studying narcissist personality disorder for three years now and I know exactly what they are and the things they do to others. Over the three years everything was coming together and after she told me straight out that she was a passive aggressive and introvert. So when she told me this things about her, then I went and learned about what she was telling me and after she got done telling me these last two things about her that's when everything came together just perfect and now I know for sure I was right about her being a narcissist but she is alot more than just a narcissist she is even worse than I thought she was because she was a friend of mine that I cared about and loved her that I didn't want to believe she was everything that she is and maybe some other things on top of these wonderful stuff that they are doing to anyone that they meet and get to be a closer to them and that's when I knew she was out to kill me slowly and I was often thinking that she actually hates me and it turned out that I was right about everything that I could relate the things she was doing and I found out exactly what kind of narcissist she is and then I found out the truth about how she felt about me and it was all the hateful towards me and treated me like shit did hate me and I had a hard time believing that she was really like this but she was I just wanted to deny everything that she turned out to be but she knew that I was studying narcissist personality disorder and she still was acting like she was my friend until she would start a fight out of no where and I was always asking her what just happened because I am confused on what was happening between us and it was happening all the time like on a daily basis at the end of our friendship. She is also my old sponsor who I met online Facebook and this woman started asking me questions about her group that she was a admit to and I was just a new to her group and now after everything is done and over. Everything is making sense now and it also is proving to me that I had a sponsor who was a covert narcissist and after I she lied to me on may 7th 2017. And the reason why I know that she was lying to me is because I had a secret Facebook profile that I forgot that I had. But it just showed up out of no where. She was telling me that she wanted me off of Facebook and then that profile showed up at the right time and I saw in her group that she was my friends sponsor online and she was calling her a good friend of hers. Couple months before that happened she got my friend to believe all her lies she was telling my friend Jenny and now she was her new sponsor online Facebook and she was calling her a good friend of hers. After I called her out on her lying to me about Jenny didi unblock her the day that I asked if she had unblock her yet and she told me no and started to get mad at me for saying her name. When I told my sponsor that I know that you lied to me about Jenny because I saw your post in your group and you were calling her your good friend and she was her new sponsor and I no longer want any more help from her and she was trying to kiss my ass at first and when she finally realized that I was serious about I can no longer trust her to be my sponsor and then tell her stuff about myself and I was not going to put myself in a situation that she was telling everyone about what I have told her about myself, she then turned into a raging narcissist but at that time I never knew she was a narcissist and I never started studying narcissist until after she did a similar campaign against me and that was something that I have never been though our friendship with weird and never was making any sense to me until I was thinking about what was actually happening because this is not normal things that people do to ease other. Then one day narcissist personality disorder got into my brain and that's when I was finding out that she was a narcissist but I never wanted to believe something like that about her and I kept watching more and more videos on narcissist and everything that I had watched I could relate it back to her because she was doing the things that those videos were describing everything that she was doing to me I was now listening to it on my phone and I couldn't believe what I was hearing and I was giving her every excuse that I could come up with because I was thinking she was definitely showing me some weird behavior and I thought she was getting abused by her ex husband and everything else that o could come up with and I never reacted to nothing she was doing and now I know it is called gaslighting. She already had my friend against me because of the lies she was telling her and I know about a few things because she put it in her smear campaign and that was completely off the radar as something was wrong with her because she is putting on Facebook that everything she was doing to me she said that I was doing those things to her and that just blew my mind..After 6 months of learning about narcissist and all the things they do and how they think and everything else about those people that I never knew existed in this world because they are completely insane thinking and all the stuff that they do like have to get narcissist supply from others and having no empathy they are good at gaslighting and all the manipulation tactics that they use and so much more than that they are so unbelievable and people actually believe them when they start lying about you to your friends and family and she has already got my friend turned against me and after the last two years having Jenny back in my life again because I had a warn her that her sponsor is a narcissist and gave her some videos to watch but she refused to watch them and I was told by one who the videos that don't try to tell their new supply because they will never believe you and she did exactly what the videos said that would happen and it did. Now to come to something that is very depressing for me to believe is that Jenny is a passive aggressive covert sadistic sociopath narcissist and I didn't want to believe that she was one of those people that are so cruel to others and they love to hear you cry like Jenny was doing to me and after she would hear me cry then she would call me and act like nothing happened and then she was given me the silent treatment and all the things that a narcissist will do to everyone they meet because they are sadistic sociopath narcissist who loves to hurt you for their own enjoyment. That is just sick things that they are doing to others and they are actually demon possessed by Jezebel the demon or she might be a spirit but I think she is a demon and that's why they can be so cruel and keep hurting people that are actually care about them and love them but that is something that a narcissist will never know what love feels like or how to show love to others and it all goes back to their childhood trauma they were going though and their parents neglected them of being loved and show them empathy and that's the only chance they will ever get empathy is when they are growing up and that is actually why they are narcissists to begin with their own parents robbed them of ever having love or to love someone and that is so not right to be doing to your own child and they should be put in prison for a lifetime because they took there's away from them and they should have there right to be free taking away from them for doing everything from sexual, physical, emotional abuse to their children and I don't think that they should be getting away with anything like this is just horrible. So now I know how to spot a narcissist right away and then I also am finding out that these kind of horrible people are everywhere. And that is the truth where I am living at. After knowing everything about these people. I then had another friend that I met though a mutual friend of ours, and she was doing the things that I have been listening to for 3 years now and this friend is a narcissist too and I don't know if she has other things to go along with her narcissist. I don't have time for anymore of my time because they don't deserve to have me as their friend when they are actually doing hate me. I do still watch videos on narcissist but most of the time is I am just refreshing my memory so I never forget about what they do and everything else you need to know if you are involved with a narcissist then save your life and never give them another smile but absolutely nothing they are getting from this day forward. There are so many things that I could tell you about them but you were trying to call me. so to end this kind of people then we need help let them get away with putting people though the narcissist abuse. So that is my experience with a narcissist.

I believe this is my sister- how does this happen? Emotional trauma as a child ?

This described my mother to a ti. It makes so much sense. She pitted my sister against me since she was pregnant with me. She never wanted me, and wasn't shy about telling me. She made insinuations that my father and I had an inappropriate relationship, and hated anytime he did anything nice for me, or anytime we laughed or talked, yet she didn't hate when he would do nice things for my sister. When he was overzealous in the corporal punishments, she did nothing. When he slammed my head into a wall repeatedly for ditching school, she did nothing. When he choked me for whatever reason, I can't even remember why, she did nothing. (my dad asked for forgiveness and apologized for his abuse, he owned up to it and I was able to forgive him and have a relationship with him, which she didn't like at all). When I stood up for myself and was venting about my sister, her obvious favourite, she got mad and said "that's my daughter you're talking about, please stop trying to hurt me by talking bad about her", yet, when it came to me. She did NOTHING, or if she did, she let me know about it so I'd be grateful. And yet many years later, she accused me of not having the "mother bear" instinct for my own kids, even though I had just come from defending my oldest against some little asshole who were bullying her, and I love my kids to the point of distraction, would happily kill anyone who hurt them and made it my mission to be the kind of mother I wished I had had. I made this vow when I was 8, and I've kept it. I'm 45 now and I will never stop doing everything that I can for my children. Even at 8, I knew that it was wrong how biased she was and I knew that she didn't love me, but she loved my sister. I could never figure out why I was excluded from that love. My dad told me that it was because she got pregnant with me and didnt want me, but my dad wanted another child and she had to quit working (it was 1974) and said she didn't want to have to stop working. She can hold a grudge but come on. I know there's more to it, but my father refuses to tell me because he's protective of her. Fine. In my first marriage, I was married to a sociopath, she let me know that she could seduce him if she wanted to, (what mother says that?!?) and later when I left him for abusing me, she abused me for letting him abuse me. I guess I was supposed to be her punching bag and how dare I let someone else do what she felt was her right. I could go on and on. My second marriage. I've married a really good and honorable man who truly lives me, I can honestly say that he is my soulmate, he and I complement each other so perfectly. He's so good to me and my children and the children we've had together. And yet, my mother can't stand him. She claims it's because he took us away, yet I call bullshit on that. He took her scapegoat away and he actually loves me, that's unforgiveable. What mother doesn't want her daughter to be loved and cherished??! If she were a normal mother, she'd be happy. We moved away and I haven't seen her in person in ten years. She told me she couldn't travel because she has loose blood clots, yet she traveled all over with my dad and went to see my sister and let me know all about it. I've had the chance to go and visit, but I always stop myself. I never wanted to admit the truth of it all, and as a result, I made myself sick and have been very close to a nervous breakdown many times. The last few years, I have finally made myself face the truth and have forced myself to start healing finally and stop blaming myself for how she is. I've done so much soul-searching in the last two years, after decades of never feeling quite right and never knowing why. It makes sense now. I broke the cycle and my children know how much I love them and that nothing will ever make me not love them, protect them, defend them, support them and accept them for the amazing and wonderful gifts they are. It's taken quite a while to accept my husband's love but I'm getting there. Whoever reads this, thank you for listening...

So I did attack by text another girl but that’s because she went behind my back and kissed my boyfriend... that doesn’t make me one right?

Behavior of Sociopathic Women: 6 Traits of the Dark Triad. ''SMEAR CAMPAIGN'' notwithstanding.

Starts at 2:40

Wow this sound like a borderline I met they may have been both sociopath and BPD.

@daviddemars

5 жыл бұрын

Borderline has been called the little sister of sociopathy, I know females who have been diagnosed with both.

@princeszaly4339

4 жыл бұрын

DeMars Coaching how can you say that?? Bpd is a completally opposite of sociopathy! You are uneducated man!

@mojohnson5134

4 жыл бұрын

Emily Gasparova girl, shut up!! 🙄

@catlab8588

4 жыл бұрын

@@mojohnson5134 she's right. I know 2 people with BPD who have kids, show they care, empathy, compassionate, kind and just the best to be around. One of them is my best friend.

@gypsywoman9140

4 жыл бұрын

@@catlab8588 Thank you! I have BPD but am definitely not a narcissist or a sociopath. I don't like drama, hurting others, attention, or spending other peoples money/receiving gifts/etc. I know I'm not perfect or the most mentally stable, but after Covid is anybodies mental health at its best? We've all got some areas that could use improving. A narcissist couldn't admit that, and a sociopath would only say it if they felt there was something to gain from it.

Based from researching my "best friend"s attitude (we are currently friendship over...to her that is), it seems that every point you have said is actually right, because she did EVERYTHING that a female sociopath would do...I'm planning to talk to her, since she is slandering me in our school, which is why in our grade, some of our friends had ganged up on me all bc of her. I was hoping how can you deal or talk to them about it without making them say "Hey! You don't know me, why are you saying such 'false' accusations" then turning the tables again? Because this girl, I've dealt with her arse for *5 YEARS* and I don't know why she done it to me again...help me

My 12 year old daughter is a pathological liar, she is very unforgiving. She doesnt like following rules and always tries to be mischievous. She is very disconnected with other people and only seems to care about herself. She also has homicidal thoughts and rarely ever has remorse. Could she have antisocial personality disorder?

@mygirldarby

3 жыл бұрын

Children can't be diagnosed with a personality disorder. For a 12 year old to be behaving that wway, something is going wrong in the home. Please let her live with relatives. If you're openly posting that your child is a liar and a sociopath, she doesn't need to be in that home. It is toxic and most likely related to your behavior more than hers. She will be fine in a loving home with people who nurture and protect her.

I’ve read a lot about NPD and BPD. This description fits more so than either of the other disorders. Because of a o long situation that will NOT let up and it becomes more sociopathic as the years go by…. It’s consistent and unrelenting. It’s also high functioning but …every description in this video, at least, FITS!

NAILED IT!!!!

Wowwwwwww so accurate 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 oh my. Do another video how to overcome this

Absolutely true! First hand experience of this type of abuse fairly recently by my 'mil' real example: she plays with my kids Infront of me while smiling... While saying to them at the same time, 'go ask your dad 'her son, who's in another room, for permission to go for a walk with granny. Absolute disrespect to my face while enjoying it... And encouraging my kids to do the same (exploiting their innocence and the moment /timing). this is just 1 occasion...

@ronesss33

5 жыл бұрын

lola dickson wow that truly sucks. Radical honesty and strength is what is needed here. “I am more than happy for you to take my kids for a walk” or “Sorry but my kids cannot go for a walk right now, maybe later”. Take your power back and let her know that she cannot treat you with so much disrespect. Just hit them honesty every time. They hate it and she will eventually learn that she can’t get away with it anymore. 💪💪

@katherinejohnson8737

5 жыл бұрын

Wow, I just have to say here that while reading this comment, one person immediately comes to mind - what you wrote sounds exactly like Scarlett Kennedy.

I was accused of cheating a year in the relationship when I was doing a 40hr warehouse job. Bad move staying , now I have lost all friends and family because of being naive. So now all I can do is endure guilt that isn't mine aswell as downgrading myself. This is my only outlet.

I've met those women before, nothing but trouble. Love the fortune cookies with their special messages at the end of your videos.

I have two sisters, one older, one younger. And you just described them both in this whole video. They have single handily destroyed my life. With my friends, family, and somehow turned me into someone very hated and despised. How can you escape this? I am trying to get my life back. The only support I have is my mom and my husband. Everyone else thinks I am someone I am not... Idk how I didn’t see what was happening years ago. And the funny thing is, neither of my sisters like or trust each other....

@neena9202

3 жыл бұрын

Wow I could have written this myself. I'm about 1 year no contact and I have zero mutual friends with her anymore. I cut anyone off that was friends with her, because I knew she would just sabatoge it anyways. Im building better friendships now, and I think the key to this is to let people get to know you without the sociopaths influence at all. Then maybe 1 year or more later, if they ever hear a false rumor about you, they are more likely to know that it's not true because they know you well. And Some people just like drama, so the people that believe it arent good friends anyways. its hard but it does gets better, stay strong

She is a gaslighting sociopathic narssasist. She is an abusive manipulative and compulsive liar. She feeds off of your reactions and if you don't react she will provoke you. If she cannot provoke you she will attempt to publicly humiliate you, faulsly accuse you and slander your name. If possible she will attempt to absolutely destroy you by either putting you in jail or emotionally tramatizing you. Find a way out. For your safety and sociological well being, get away at all cost.

This is very good. My mother now has a label I can give her ...... instead of being confused. mysogynistic is nothing id never thought of. she hated me, her own daughter, without reason. and she was not a part of the female social bonds either. I believe sociopaths are born. I'm not one and my grandmothers were not, so how else could she be?. what a shame, but a relief.

I think I'm dating one. I looked this up on purpose. I've watched other videos too. I'm 36 and wasn't a great student while in high school, but I had this natural knack for psychology and got an A+ without trying very hard. Not to get into horoscopes, but I'm a Cancer and have very strong intuition. I just happen to love her a lot and let her get away with her behavior. When I do decide to confront issues, she does not like it one bit. Shes very defensive when called out on her tricks. Anyway. So that's my experience. Its exhausting but shes got good qualities too.

My husband brothers wife is everything you describe, i had to block her here on youtube. How to overcome one?

@neena9202

Жыл бұрын

What ended up happening?

@ginasuarez1925

Жыл бұрын

@@neena9202 I just stopped talking to them overall. I came closer to the people she put me against. I am so happy now

@neena9202

Жыл бұрын

@@ginasuarez1925 that's great thanks for the update

@user-yw8qf8cc3t

2 ай бұрын

Tell her she is a raving rabid psychopath

aren't you in saving private ryan....?

@user-yw8qf8cc3t

2 ай бұрын

Blackhawk Down

me : *watches video knowing full well that i am a female sociopath*

This is my daughter Iv had cancer a few times she comes around when she wants something then when Iv done what she wants acting like she wants to get what she wants then she will say to my face Iv got what I want out of you now Foff then go along my friends list on social media an start messaging ppl telling them terrible lies and because it’s my daughter actually saying it they started to believe it my cancer came back an she started telling ppl I was lying an it hurt my feelings really bad as I’m a good mum but she just hates me it’s like am the enemy, she tells ppl she nose an I don’t no that I abandoned her because I was on heroine Iv never been on drugs like that ever in my life so when the od person gets to meet me they are shocked to see I don’t look the way she preserve me, she don’t like me having friends she don’t like me being around nobody children she gets jealous and then starts with the lies again on the attack mode, the lies are so bad an when my dog turned up dead from her care I thought there is something mentally wrong with her Iv tried and tried she has a child used him like a weapon if you don’t do this you not seeing ur grandson Iv had this from 13 she is 23 now an Iv had no choice but to disown my only child because of this now I’m watching some videos I’m now thinking I carnt let her back in to my life an that’s a really hard thing for me to do because I’m a loving mother and my only daughter won’t allow me to love her ♥️

Several people have called me a psychopath or psychopathic throughout my life. I can be ice cold and hard on some people and I hurt people deeply with my rage. My rage always lasts for months and I have been violent on one occasion. I was psychologically abused by my father and that destroyed my self-esteem growing up. I have changed somewhat since reaching adulthood, I’ve become more sociable and nicer, but I can still be so callous that I alienate people. I’ve been told that I’m scary when I get angry and I will give people a piercing stare, sort of stab people with my eyes if my ego is hurt, and it causes a lot of damage. I frighten theliving wits out of people and I know that’s not normal. The last time someone called me psychopathic was just two years ago. It was a man that I humiliated badly. My sister pointed out to me that my behaviour was psychopathic a year or so before that and she wanted to distance herself from me. She’s been in a relationship with a psychopath, so I trust her judgement. I do not however manipulate, lie and cheat. Lying is difficult for me and I am not charming. I’m a quiet introvert mostly. I have stolen a few things from shops and don’t really mind it, but it’s not something I do a whole lot. I’m 33 yrs old and have a pretty consistent pattern of unempathic and crude behaviour. Oftentimes I’m veryindifferent towards the emotions of people I have hurt. Is it possible I have ASPD?

@marksmith3892

4 жыл бұрын

Cecilie N most likely cptsd

@jamiedallas6968

Жыл бұрын

Look into antisocial personality disorder

Thank you

I've been through pretty much exactly the same, I've just got away but am still not free. The most horrific chapter of my life that if do manage to get free, I'll never forget. Prayers and thoughts with anyone going through this nightmare..l

I think you've just described Kamala Harris.

@susiesa8295

2 жыл бұрын

lol!

There are no sociopaths only narsassits and psychopaths. It's the degree of danger that differs.

OK I am so confused now lol. I have been trying to figure out why I treated my wife one way and my girlfriend another way. LOL, Ok NO I didn't have a wife AND a girlfriend!! I was married to a woman for 31 years, we got married very young, me 17 her 16, and the marriage was not good. After I left and divorced her I began a relationship with a woman that for the first time in my life I actually felt IN love and that I was loved. But the girlfriend and I after about 7 years just broke up. I am pretty sure my ex wife and mother to my kids is a vulnerable Narcissist, but my now ex girlfriend I have been trying to nail her down and she is a bit confusing, I think she is somewhere between a Sociopath and Psychopath. Every female person I know on Facebook "wants" me, according to her. Every female friend of mine of Facebook is either just looking for attention or is fake goody two shoes. But her own sisters can be doing the same exact things and it's OK, "you don't know her like I do" is her usual response when I compare one of her sisters who are also a facebook friend to just a regular facebook friend. Whenever I catch her in a lie or a mistruth, she says either that I just didn't hear her correctly or that I am trying to play games with her. She is very friendly with others but at the same time she is so quick to point out how anyone who is not her friend is doing something wrong. Her friends and family are FAR superior to mine. In the beginning of our relationship she would say how smart, how intuitive, how open minded, how good and how masculine of a man I was. But now 7 years later it's usually more like - " you aren't as smart as you think you are" or "you are not very intuitive at all" , " a real man wouldn't let a broken back stop him" - that's an actual quote and yes i literally broke my back 3 years ago at work. Why are people so hard to figure out lol

My ex best friend is a sociopath. She plays up this sweet charming southern bell thing really good, but im starting to realize it is fake. She really has more masculine traits then feminine. Shes a serial cheater, shes been engaged for years to this sweet guy and she has had many affairs on him. She doesn't love him at all, she hasn't left yet because he is taking care of her and her family financially. I noticed she has been using old information i told her from my previous relationship with a narc which ended years ago. Every time i would meet a potential love interest, she would bring up how "vulnerable" i am, like i am clueless and don't know anything about dating. It was EXCESSIVE! I told her to STOP doing that i am a grown women and know whats best for me. she tried to sound really sweet and act like she didn't mean any harm but trust me she did. She even went out of her way to buy a house when i told her i moved to a nicer apartment just to one up me. Oh well she didn't really buy it her fiance did, and shes a realtor she made the contract where she would get a certain percentage of money from the house! Said she deserves it. She is very scandalous and conniving. Unfortunate i have had many encounters with female and male sociopaths and i'm now in my early thirty's, i don't think i can ever trust anyone again. I even look at my sisters sideways because of all the trauma i have endured with these crazy people. One thing i have learned is that when talking about narcs to a undercover narc is that they will say "your not a psychologist" or something along those lines. It never fails!

My sexfriend is an introvert so I struggle to identify her personality. she's been trying to seduce me but I'm not sure whether she likes me or wants to hurt me which makes her even more attractive lol. Sometimes she stares at me with this poker face, I feel like she's a sociopath.

@honourhume5906

3 жыл бұрын

Be careful.

@user-kp6ud7ht4z

11 ай бұрын

Still alive? No ***** is worth it.

And sociopathy is a survival mechanism, at the expense of others. a lot of what you chatting about sound like you got your heart broken by some chick and now decided to research why.

@aflyingdudeother9410

4 жыл бұрын

Preach 👏🏻👏🏻

I dated and was friends with a woman who turned out to be sociopath. I no longer have nothing to do with her, and the pain she has inflicted on me still lingers. Sometimes, I wonder if my mother has sociopathic traits too.

So my old bestfriend she wouldn’t attack women publically at all. She built her image up to be a feminist or what she likes to call “a girls girl” making her a well loved individual amongst the women in our community but behind closed doors would gossip about a lot of women, yet somehow her innocent demeanor never hinted that she actually hated women. I remember one time her telling me that so many girls are vanilla and me and her were “different” or “special” which she probably told all her girlfriends In our friendship it seemed once we got super comfortable around each other she cared more about her relationships with people she barely knows rather than people like me who truly saw her for who she was. And she would make little strikes at my insecurities while also pathologically boasting about how much she’s admired by others (especially boys I had crushes on lol) She turned a lot of people against me, including my own mom. And she did it in such a well executed way that I truly never suspected her malicious intentions. Also found out a lot of the compliments she would love bomb me with, she was using the same material on other friends lol Super charming personality, literally impossible not to like her on the surface. Scary to think so many of these chameleons exist lol

Wow that hits it right on the nail. I didn't really understand what antisocial meant before but it makes sense now. This also helps me understand how I always have my guard up around women because of how I have been deeply hurt by a few in the past. It makes it hard for me to have normal healthy connections, usually I feel pretty awkward. Though the abusers usually walk all over me anyways & uses me standing up for myself as a way to prove they were right about me. It's scary to think about how I've been trained to seclud myself to protect myself but it also puts me in a position to be abused more easily. It doesn't help that I'm a introvert either. I have separate social circles so I've been able to keep them at bay for the most part but It's really awful to be the target of one of these people.

Wow kinda never what to date again, been reading a book called mutiny on the bounty ! Wish i could go back in time to 1788 and go to Tahiti

I'm slightly offended by this. I have been diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder and I am a female. I think I am a good person who lives by good morals. I don't care if I hurt someone but I don't set out to harm people and I don't smear people unless I feel that I was wronged by them

@aflyingdudeother9410

4 жыл бұрын

I’m the same as you, a female with aspd. I believe that this video is talking about predatory socio/psychopaths aka those on the higher end of the aspd spectrum. The comment section is disheartening, I have to say, purely because of the narrow mindedness. It’s a disorder, we still have the power to make our own life choices.

@over-comer

Жыл бұрын

Fair. I got on the wrong side of one recently. What she's doing is very very wrong, but I'm sure she feels justified because of my past narcissistic behavior which I am now aware was narcissistic. Sociopath is definitely a narcissists worst nightmare.

3:47 this makes so much sense when the MO is control

"Women don't feel guilt, only shame." -Andrew Anglin

‘Love yourself first’??? Isn’t that what narcissists do?? That said. I audibly gasped at the first one. My sister to a T!!

I def. Know one of these. It's my ex's ex. And ty for this video cause they both keep calling me a psychopath. And narcissist. I didn't think I was those things. No I don't do any of this. Love projections. God fixing to change my number . I'm 50 miles away and they both never stop. He texts, my ex. But she ags it on. Always in middle of our relationship. Didn't find out they used to date til well into relationship but at first he swore they never even fooled around. How did I ever get mixed up with this toxic toxic group. And they are ridiculous. Always calling police on ppl. Called on me without reason twice. They crazy not me.