WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

@str4lif50

11 ай бұрын

@TomBilyeu if you want to have a representative of the manosphere and the redpill on your show atleast make sure you invite an expert on that knows what he is talking about. @Rollo Tomassi is the man you want

@alvinsheczlek5243

11 ай бұрын

@@str4lif50 please don’t bring Rollo on. If you like manosphere and redpill fine, but he’s an embarassment. Just as much as destiny is to men. They’re all online personalities reaching for online clout at the expense of exploiting actual men’s improvement with radical trigger content for views

@bigbadferg1649

11 ай бұрын

Have fun on your first trip, Tom! Sending the good vibes your way for this awesome conversation.

@allindner1373

11 ай бұрын

​@@str4lif50p0⁰

@kaimuto123

11 ай бұрын

​@@alvinsheczlek5243How is exposing the extreme sides of Redpill exploiting men's improvement?

I don't agree with Destiny on many things but one thing is; he's always willing to have the discourse with pretty much anyone, so I respect that.

@danielnelson3136

9 ай бұрын

Agreed, he's a well behaved sociopath that can argue well. some radical takes, yet is entertaining.😅

@big-just4567

9 ай бұрын

He won’t talk with Ryan Dawson though

@thestoebz

9 ай бұрын

@@danielnelson3136you don’t know what a sociopath is

@thestoebz

9 ай бұрын

@@big-just4567he just did like a month ago. That guy is insane anyways

@danielnelson3136

9 ай бұрын

@@thestoebz I do, and Destiny fits the bill. He's a sociopath, based on the body language, vernal, discourse and statement analysis I did about him in one of the dramas he was involved in, which is that Destiny was very defensive and distressed, and was partly being deceptive and slandering the other person in that drama, which matches the patterns of a sociopath defending themselves.

11:50 I've thought about this a lot. If you're extremely wealthy and want to teach your kids what failure is, you have very few options. If they fail in school, job, etc. they will always have their parents' safety net so "failing" is never truly failing. But if you enroll them in competitive sports, they're going to have to face failure head on at some point. No one is coming to save you from losing but you.

@annmarieknapp2480

11 ай бұрын

That's true. I was a competitive figure skater and it was good to perform in front of an audience and to face failure. You learn more from your failures. When you do well in competition it just makes the outcome that much sweeter. Gen X didn't receive participation awards. Your participation award was that you got chance to compete. No consolation prize, which would have been worthless and patronizing. I think kids who were given a certificate for showing up was uncool. My generation would have ripped the damn thing up. I credit my 10 years of competing skating with my level of education and drive to keep going no matter how rough things are. No one is coming to save you. You have to save yourself. Earth is harsh.

@prestons9305

10 ай бұрын

Meditation

@Boboliciouus

10 ай бұрын

@@prestons9305 this is the only answer you need tbh

@allisons6910

10 ай бұрын

@@Boboliciouus Really? Meditation is equal to the experience of participating in a team sport? Some of the meditation fanatics actually want to help people, but when I see the 1 word comments and another comment using "all or nothing" in the 1 sentence to describe why x is good, it's obvious it's become just another group's badge of superiority to wave at all the non-mediators that they can find a way to work it into a convo with.

@Boboliciouus

10 ай бұрын

@@allisons6910 not sure how you got this superiority/selfish connotation to my answer but whatever. Meditation is a great way to teach your children failure because they have to overcome their own thoughts - by themselves. In sports, jobs or school you deal with your ego through the activity which can be stimulating but also distracting. In meditation, you face your fears HEAD on and it the most primal way possible. Hope this answer is more satisfying 😁

I’m a European conservative. Why does blue hair trigger and upset American conservatives so much? Reading some of these comments it makes it sound like you are on the verge of tears because of his hair colour 😂

@budgetingstrategies6240

11 ай бұрын

Radical progressives and feminists often have coloured hair.

@mulan2010

11 ай бұрын

Blue hair used to represent creativity and people who are a bit unconventional. Now people who have blue hair are associated with people who are victims and are upset about everything and who have their own personalized pronouns and if you misgender them, it is catastrophic. Basically people who are offended by everything even people who are not trying to offend them. Not all blue haired people are like this of course, just like not all people who have tattoos are gang bangers but it’s the same idea.

@jennybtx

11 ай бұрын

Not sure. I cringe at these comments. Destiny has the hair because of these comments.

@alvinsheczlek5243

11 ай бұрын

It’s not the blue hair, it’s the bisexual open relationship he has while lecturing on masculinity. And using blue hair to attract attention to it

@Alright70

11 ай бұрын

@@alvinsheczlek5243so you listen to him..😅

The movie that really helped motivate me was Remember the Titans. Mostly because it was the only video the sub would play when our teacher was out but the message was incredibly impactful.

@KandaEzana

11 ай бұрын

"We are the Titans (we are the Titans), The mighty mighty Titans (the might mighty Titans)"

Think of something you already do regularly, without fail. Simply attach a new habit to that, so you're allowing the new habit to piggyback off the old. Imagine introducing vitamins to go with your perfect cup of morning tea. Or picture calling a loved one on a regular drive. Notice that you have zeroed in on the behavior, rather than just focusing on the goal. You've met your outcome, to be sure, but you achieved this by simply planting the means in the right place. One habit produced the other, as if by magic.

@Trollensky

11 ай бұрын

this is a great comment.

@oni673

11 ай бұрын

One of the major concepts in atomic habits that I consistently reapply in my life its to good not to.

@ninjuhdelic

10 ай бұрын

I can't wait to try this, ty for sharing

@firechyld

10 ай бұрын

Wow... did you get this advice from a therapist bc it is amazing for someone like me who has a particularly hard time adjusting to change, which compounds the issues of changing habits.

This was a crazy engaging show. I usually have things like this on in the background while doing other things, but I actually sat and watched this start to finish.

This is the first commentary video that really spoke to me thank you

What A great conversation!

The Episodes where you and your guest share the same room are always better

@agatastaniak7459

11 ай бұрын

Yes, this when real chemistry of deeper exchange of thoughts happens. So yeah, keep it up Tom while you still can.

@hoppy2515

11 ай бұрын

@@agatastaniak7459 Great job you nailed it for men!

@turul9392

11 ай бұрын

Yeah but Destiny doesn't leave his house.

@hoppy2515

11 ай бұрын

@@turul9392 committed to his son but not to his wife I get it. What do you think his boy will think later on?

@grayr3d

11 ай бұрын

Episodes when he shouts the fuck up and let's the guest speak are only ones worth watching and barrable.

Fantastic interview. Watched the whole thing and wanted more.

This Tom Guy asked some really good questions, Good job man

Dear Tom. Chapters would help. Thank you.

@the_lyrical_woodsman

9 ай бұрын

😂 Well put friend

@twilyte9557

3 ай бұрын

Straight to the point haha

This obviously is going to be a loaded episode in terms of people picking their sides here. But I can appreciate any man that is willing and has the balls to sit down like this and speak their mind. We don’t have to agree, but the dialogue is always important.

@bobby8630

11 ай бұрын

Would take more balls to actually interview Andrew Tate himself, rather than talking about Tate with Destiny

@laurajames184

11 ай бұрын

That's laughable cuz Andrew was very emotional when talking with Hasan.

@alvinsheczlek5243

11 ай бұрын

@@bobby8630 yea would be way more interesting to get Tates perspective from these questions, than this video game KZreadr what he thinks of masculinity

@gyytgy3330

11 ай бұрын

@@alvinsheczlek5243Tate lost a debate to Hasan of all people, he’s too dumb to be worth listening to

@alexrosario423

11 ай бұрын

​@laurajames184 you can have inflexion in your voice, and still be logically making a point. I promise you there are far more clips of Leftists raising their voices, far shriller, far more incoherently, and far more frequently than anyone who is not a leftist. Notice how I said "anyone who is not a leftist", because there's way more diversity of thought outside of that cult. I'd even put Destiny outside of it, although I think he's too hedonistic. That fact that Hasan has a large audience is proof positive that there is a swath of people incapable of rational thought. The guy makes huge leaps in claims without evidence, he doesn't even know what evidence is or how to find it, he's narcissistic af, and is basically an overgrown manchild whose had a life devoid of the level of challenge required to develop practicality in how he thinks. He, like his audience, just want an easy boogeyman to point fingers at to blame for their discomfort.

I cannot get enough of Destiny in the best way possible. I’ve been watching his debates for about 2 years now and I’ve learned SO MUCH from him. I’m so crystal clear on not just my own values but I’ve been more observant and critical of the world around me. He’s calm, extremely articulate and well spoken, very socially aware and so confident. Everything he says just sticks for me. I’m just so thankful that there are some men who have really listened and done the work and research and then presents solutions and facts. It’s so refreshing and gives me hope. Fantastic video. Excellent dialogue. ❤

@gUwU47

10 ай бұрын

100% agreed dude. I feel like the vast majority of the time, Destiny is the absolute perfect blend of what you want from an informational & educational commentary channel, whether about politics or social issues. I definitely listen to more social issues since I can't really compare US economics to my own nation's, but the social stuff is suuper relevant. And what's great about his discussions, even the meme ones where its him and another yelling at each other, is that it's helped me *how to* think about these issues, not *what to* think about these subjects necessarily. This way you can easily forge your own actual thought patterns instead of becoming part of the shitstorm of Chinese Whispers online.

@Euro.Patriot

10 ай бұрын

​@@gUwU47Simping for him won't get you in bed with his wife, try texting her. That'll work.

@gUwU47

10 ай бұрын

@@Euro.Patriot Admiring someone online because they've helped you refine the way you think about some important topics, or because they share/discuss positive, rational & interesting ideas on their platform, is not simping. Also, his wife has nothing to do with this. kinda weird that you just brought it up for no reason bro.

@drugastronamedalu

9 ай бұрын

@@gUwU47 his wife sleeps with other man under his agreement, but is jelous when he meets with other girls in their open relationship, elaborate please on family views and logical arguments about healthy relationship while knowing it.

@gUwU47

9 ай бұрын

@@drugastronamedalu I don't know if that jealousy thing is true though man, if it was then their relationship would have crumbled years ago. I'm guessing it was made with mutual agreements made with multiple calm discussions, like healthy adults. I am for family values and traditional gender roles in relationships ***IF*** that is both parties' choice going forward. I myself (I'm young atm) would like a traditional household when I'm older where my wife alongside me is building a beautiful home with children, while I bring in primary financial support. I enjoy that idea as a man and I think it will make me feel fulfilled. However different stuff works for different people, Destiny never recommends his type of relationship to others because most people have trouble dealing with just one person, much less multiple. And I don't think that disqualifies him from giving good advice considering he's been in normal relationships his whole life.

I can relate to his band teacher story 100%.

I swear the big chair with the angle of the camera makes Destiny look like a child at the adult table on christmas LMAO

@joshuaadrian480

11 ай бұрын

They both look like this and I like it cause it levels them nicely at the kids table

@LA-xc4tc

10 ай бұрын

I found that kind of adorable for destiny LOL

Fantastic interview. Thank you. First time I've heard about you, but will be following from now on.

Yeah Destiny's prediction engine worked so well he couldn't foresee how being a literal cuck could possibly backfire on his relationship with his obvious beard. 🤣

I used to watch Destiny's Starcraft streams 13 years ago, and to go from that to these large scale dialogs has been a fascinating evolution to witness over the years.

@therearenoshortcuts9868

11 ай бұрын

10 years from now: Destiny runs for office, and becomes a corrupt politician rofl...

@the_famous_reply_guy

11 ай бұрын

To think a failed carpet cleaner becoming an Internet intellectual says more about the Internet than anything else.

@alvinsheczlek5243

11 ай бұрын

@@the_famous_reply_guy totally agree, ppl listening to anybody raging online is what it says

@Enjoy1ng

11 ай бұрын

​@@the_famous_reply_guy By all means, Destiny should be the poster child of redpillers. He is a man that went from carpet cleaner to multimillionaire internet celebrity with a hot as fuck wife that lets him fuck other women, and yet you all mock him for it despite wishing for the EXACT same things. Absolutely hilarious. You cry yourself to sleep every night wishing you were him, don't you?

@henrytep8884

11 ай бұрын

@@the_famous_reply_guy Do you think failiing is a bad thing? Can you name one person in life who has never failed at all ever? Or do you think being a carpet cleaner is mutually exclusive from being able to rationalize and intellectualize one's own position? You haven't said anything of substance, but of course your the product of the internet that you think you are above, you absolutely aren't.

"It's not that I am so smart, It's simply that I sit with questions longer"-Einstein

@Qubicle.

11 ай бұрын

I wonder if Einstein was humblebragging when he said that. obviously the hallmark of intelligent people is they question more and they ponder more than their less intelligent counterparts.

Can so relate to the awesome teacher that you totally don’t ever want to disappoint:) Those teachers are so above and beyond:)

destiny thinks well. tha'ts one of his greatest strenghts as a streamer.

@arresthillary9502

11 ай бұрын

Sounds like a gay man the way he talks fast with that effeminate voice

For me, I think besides the hardworking its the abilitity to communicate his thoughts in a really clear, understandable way in the moment. In my opinion not many people can do it well. There are many people who can talk well and even communicate interesting and complciated ideas but not many can do it in the most easily to understand way. Some people have to get use to the fast talking though but alot of younger people watch videos sped up now anyways so even that isnt much of a deterrent.

@Matortheeternal

10 ай бұрын

I still listen to Destiny at 2x usually, including this podcast. I'm 30. I have a few friends who also listen to things at these speeds, very intelligent people. Some of us are just wired to be information sponges.

@klee7534

10 ай бұрын

Yup, it's called 💫articulation💫 folks.

This episode is epic, I loved the perspectives you both shared!

It’s very true that people who have never had anyone show genuine interest in their life or specific experiences will become flattered, interested, or intrigued when you do.

@AndiAlexander1

9 ай бұрын

No a lot of the time they don’t even have a model for receiving that kind of interest and attention. So it’s like giving a snow shovel to someone who lives in Florida.

This is a phenomenal discussion

i haven't listened to a full podcast from beginning to end in one go in a really long time. loved the conversation

@gregorygan2077

11 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry you're a democrat

@krellin

11 ай бұрын

i simply clicked away after seeing a guy with coloured hair talking about masculinity maybe its a miracle and there was actually something true discussed here but i'm not gonna spend 3 hours to find out.... if you colour your hair i am faily certain there is nothing masculine about you

@m.poppins4843

11 ай бұрын

@@krellin spoken like a true man.

@ChoLaw

11 ай бұрын

@@krellinyou know he did it for charity right? I believe it was for disabled kids who couldn’t have video games or something like that

@MiKey-cj2fo

11 ай бұрын

@@krellinope you keep this energy after you realize he did this for a charity to raise money for medical aid for kids

I love how people in the comments get triggered by his blue hair when he got it as a joke 😂

@arresthillary9502

11 ай бұрын

Never heard of the guy but when he talks with that high pitched, effeminate ggayman voice and his blue hair, he gets no respect from me. And what's wrong with his lower jaw rolling around like that, like it's dislocated

@wabbitseason80085

11 ай бұрын

@@arresthillary9502judging a book by its cover is something your not supposed to do btw.

@Cybertech134

11 ай бұрын

@@wabbitseason80085 Tell that to mushroom foragers

@wabbitseason80085

11 ай бұрын

@@Cybertech134 tf is that supposed to mean? Is it about how some mushrooms are dangerous?

@raz0rcarich99

11 ай бұрын

@@Cybertech134 LMAO comparing knowledge about poisonous mushrooms with being closeminded about people you don't know. That's a new one.

this was extremely wholesome to see on Destiny's end ngl, he rarely opens up this much

This video hasnt aged well at all

such a great interview!! xoxo destiny 🥰

Heavy hitting episode!

I agree, there needs to be a distinction between manipulation with malintent, or dishonesty, and manipulation of our environment with integrity, which is absolutely necessary to live alive.

@Matortheeternal

10 ай бұрын

Manipulation versus influence?

@ohyeahjt

10 ай бұрын

@@Matortheeternalmanipulation is a form of influence, but it’s not inherently negative

@pugsley201

10 ай бұрын

@@Matortheeternalinterpersonal manipulation is negative by definition. You’re trying a l get what you want from another person (in an exploitative way) using devious means

@teeboxmedia

10 ай бұрын

You just described mainstream media and the governments.

@DonnaBrooks

9 ай бұрын

Advertising is the worst form of manipulation & that's done by big business who pay big bucks to marketing companies to create ads that manipulate people into wanting things they don't need, even things that are bad for them, & convincing people to go into consumer debt to get those things right now. Add to that built-in obsolescence, disposables, & new models of electronics coming out all the time in an affluent society where we no longer fix things or use things until they wear out and you have a country full of consumers, not citizens. Corporate America & multi-national corporations are just as manipulative at mainstream media & way more manipulative than governments. Governments have the weight of law enforcement behind them so they have less need to manipulate people. They can just use force. @@teeboxmedia

I've never heard of Tom; this is my first time. I don't watch Destiny often. When I watch/enjoy Destiny it's this interview/ conversation form. I'm really glad this video played. I enjoyed Tom's opinions and the way he lead this conversation/ interview. I'll stick with occasionally checking out a Destiny video when I see him with someone I know and I'll likely be more open to him with creators I don't know after this. I'll also be checking out more on Tom's page

@TommyGunz327

8 ай бұрын

Destiny is clueless. He has been CONSISTENTLY WRONG about Covid. When it comes to Covid he is clueless and he has the NERVE to criticize rogan for spreading disinformation when it is him who has been spreading disinformation since day 1.

Omg Tom you did a podcast with Destiny? I never thought I’d see the day lol CANT wait to hear this one ….

This is my first time watching destiny content first hand and I gotta say I never realized how well thought out and intelligent this man can be. Might be the first celebrity personality I see my self in. Aside from the open relationship stuff, not gonna call him a cuck or anything but ain’t no way in hell I could do it

@RS-fy9hb

10 ай бұрын

I mean, if you were gonna call him a cuck, you'd be factually wrong too 😂. But Destiny himself also says that there's a very small amount of people who can actually make an open relationship work. In most cases, one party's gonna get jealous or is already desperate, and so they often fail, because the people within fail to set and uphold boundaries frequently. Btw, Destiny has cheated within even their open relationship, and there's a whole drama about that "arc" of the story, that as recently as a week or two ago, came to its conclusion with the revelation that Rollo Tomassi had fallen for a huge troll from Lauren Southern and Brittany Venti 😂. But that aside, it really seems that people have no idea what it means to have an open relationship, and that's probably just a sign that it's not meant for them. If you can't picture being in a semi committed relationship, respecting some fair boundaries on both parts, while still seeking out new experiences with other people outside the committed relationship, then you're definitely not suited for the lifestyle. I myself also won't ever open up my own relationship, mostly because of how complicated the interpersonal dynamics become when you regularly introduce new people into an existing dynamic, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't simultaneously be open to bringing in 3rd parties into an established monogamous relationship occasionally to spice things up. The reason people often make fun of his blue hair or call him a cuck, is mostly just because they severely lack the self reflection or processing power to see their own mistakes and flaws in their thinking and logic, and they simply can't find a genuine point to argue about, or dispute. That's not to say Destiny doesn't make mistakes, but generally, the reason why Destiny's fanbase is so active, is because he's genuinely cultivated an audience of people who will correct him, or let him know when he makes mistakes, so it makes sense that other people's audiences aren't able to find very many flaws in his logic, despite disagree with him, because most of his arguments have already been "refined" by his own hyper critical audience. But it's personally been a while since I watched much of his content, some of the drama he posts and does can get quite dry, so I get tired quickly.

@franciscor390

9 ай бұрын

​@@RS-fy9hbDestiny = Kuck

@marcinzok8972

6 ай бұрын

@@RS-fy9hb He is a major of Cuckabvera.

truly one of the best mighty ducks debates of all time

Great interview! Very interesting topics.

This is gonna be fun!

Around 1:20:00 he hits some really good points. Being a kid and being around people is great because everyone expects awkwardness and all youth are awkward but the experiences are great to learn from since the error cost is super low. Also, the apologizing, being genuine etc. also awesome.

@wesleytietz4506

10 ай бұрын

can you define error cost for me? why is awkwardness an error?

@LizsCritters

10 ай бұрын

@@wesleytietz4506 Error cost is how bad something could be in a scenario. Say you're in a rush putting groceries away and realize that a sack is still by the front door; error cost of leaving it until later is going to depend on what might be in it. If you didn't buy perishables and don't have a dog that would eat a loaf of bread while you're out, worst case is probably going to be that you don't have a cold can of soda when you get back later. Worst case might also be that it was a carton of chocolate ice cream that will melt, stain the white carpet, and cost you the deposit on your rental. No one expects children to have great social skills and generally there is very little at stake. One might not get an invitation or a party or get a scolding from a relative. As an adult, messing up a social interaction might keep one from getting a raise, job or roommate.

@RS-fy9hb

10 ай бұрын

​@@wesleytietz4506Well, awkwardness isn't an error. Error cost is essentially synonymous with consequences. The consequences for being socially awkward when you're a kid amongst adults, is near zero. But when you're an adult talking to other adults will cost you whole relationships, and be a huge burden on your mental health and social life.

You should never take the advice of this blue hair BETA. He has never even beaten the factorio secret ending 💀💀💀

Love this,good talk guys 🇺🇸👏

Banger! So many gems.

Destiny will get you to challenge your views and that is what is so great about him.

@JonnyK595

11 ай бұрын

Maybe of a 14 year old but not very convincing, more snakeoil tactics

@kingdodgearcane

11 ай бұрын

​@@JonnyK595 biased. His average audience age is mid 20's.

@alvinsheczlek5243

11 ай бұрын

@@JonnyK595 14 yo unconfident boys who play video games

@JonnyK595

11 ай бұрын

@@kingdodgearcane mid 20's with brains of 14 year olds....what grown men is following someone who is a cuck and watches him? serious question

I never thought i would see these two minds in one room!! Lets gooo. Destiny knows that doing other podcasts is the best model to achieve a larger audience. LeeesssssssGooooo. 🎉 👏 🍾 🎊 🎈

@missaliciaxxxx

11 ай бұрын

Couldn’t agree more. Great to see

@Brainjoy01

10 ай бұрын

so you admit hes just pretending to be a nice person here for clout? i think Tom was expecting the "real" destiny....totally odd body language all around from everyone. tom being really queit and destiny smiling....?

@fothrmuckr

10 ай бұрын

@Brainjoy01 no, I've just noticed he has done a lot of podcasts recently. Creators should collaborate and I was commending that. Destiny's body language is always weird. I didn't like him at first but now I don't mind him

@HaraQuinn

10 ай бұрын

dggL💙

@HaraQuinn

10 ай бұрын

@@Brainjoy01 huh? where did you get all that waffle from? how about Steven is the only guy willing to build bridges and engage for a better outcome as discussed in this very podcast? something he's been doing ever since leaving Twitch's dumb TOS. he's finally able to actually be proactive and talk to people and make connections to try to FIX something.. and it seems to be working. and no, i don't mean turning everyone into some Destiny fan. but at least understand that there is a difference between a radical, embarrassing leftist versus a logical one, still willing to meet people on their terms for possible solutions.

Two of my favourites speakers, hope they do this again.

Bantering and being silly and witty with someone doesn't have to be funny, it just has to be ironic, mild/inoffensive, and has to be regarding something you actually like about the person.

The camera angle reminds me of that meme of the woman screaming at the cat sitting at the table

@LA-xc4tc

10 ай бұрын

Lol

When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.

I knew Destiny had a son for a while now, but he never really seemed like a dad to me until he told that story about him helping his son with math homework

@peanutnetwork

10 ай бұрын

I see destiny as a very fatherly figure but what you say I see as true too. Math homework is what makes it real 😂

@askt2560

10 ай бұрын

He also told his son that if he could change the past he would have aborted him. Great father figure am i right?

@randomyoutubecommenterr

10 ай бұрын

@@askt2560 lol source?

@askt2560

10 ай бұрын

@@randomyoutubecommenterr kzread.infoHcURt48SDsM

@askt2560

10 ай бұрын

@@randomyoutubecommenterr from the horses mouth itself. here you go

I can guarantee you it's easier to be confident with 5 million in the bank than $5 in the bank.😂 For me money is powerful because it give you freedom to do what you want to do when you want to do it.

@crazyguywatchnu

10 ай бұрын

And he is so disingenuous about it.

@TomikaKelly

7 ай бұрын

That's not confidence. 🥴 I've been broke and I've been very well off and was confident in both seasons of my life. I've been 272 lbs and I've been 138 lbs and I've been confident at both sizes. Confidence comes from within. If your confidence is contingent on easily wavering external factors, then you lack confidence.

That’s pretty amazing about the self esteem and being ok with other being lucky. I’ve had the opposite problem. I’ve sabotaged a lot of my opportunities because of low self esteem and my strict catholic upbringing has made me feel guilty about any luck I’ve had so I would sabotage that because I would feel guilty about it. I’m trying not to be like that anymore but it’s extremely difficult. A tremendous amount of work. I’m kind of too old for much to matter anymore but oh well.

@mariel.garcia

4 ай бұрын

I know exactly what you mean

This was sooooooo goood!

I just discovered you in my video suggestions and after 1 minute it sounds to me like you don't get it at all. I'm going to continue listening now.

@sanchez5963

3 ай бұрын

Sounds like a good decision!

In that "DUCKS" movie you guys forgot that the coach also learns something through the kids & that's where the balance comes in... They both opened each others eyes...

@JasonActualization

11 ай бұрын

Gordon Bombay!

@ll2323

11 ай бұрын

Great now I have to watch the mighty duck movies again.

Can we have the Tates on yet? This blue haired woman you had has failed at his marriage idea. The fairys lied to him about sharing his wife.

huh very good convo with good questions

8:00 I remember setting up my stream for the first time when I was like 16. Jesus christ trying to figure out how to make your VAC work (with the lack of resources online at the time) was painful

I'm just here for the roast😂

@TomBilyeu you guys have a lot of chemistry! I can see y’all having mentorship relationship

New to the channel but time stamps would be great!

Podcastiny is everywhere.

Wow, this was a really interesting interview.

Those chairs make them look like toddlers. Lmao

thanks, good stuff

Back in the time before the internet ideas could die but now ideas get preserved and fostered and grow.

High levels of intellect without moral grounding is a dangerous combination. If you are smart enough you can find away to justify anything you choose to do. This is why highly intelligent people are rarely spiritual. Destiny is very intelligent, almost too much so where it's hard to be humble. His intelligence has allowed him to justify a lot of his deviant behavior. My brother is just like him. Sometimes you aren't the smartest guy in the room. Sometimes you need to just shut up and listen.

@mikochild2

10 ай бұрын

Deviant?

@crow2swann5

10 ай бұрын

@@mikochild2 he has an open marriage. They are both bisexuals and routinely have multiple sex partners. That is deviant behavior.

@mikochild2

10 ай бұрын

@crow2swann5 ah got it. So you meant different morals rather than any wrongdoing or harmful behavior.

@crow2swann5

10 ай бұрын

@@mikochild2 it's harmful to the stability of society. Monogamy and sexual exclusivity is paramount to a healthy society. This is just my opinion. But true, they aren't breaking any laws that I know of.

@lespearson3801

10 ай бұрын

​@@crow2swann5It's not that a set of individuals engaging in the activity is harmful to society. It's when a group of individuals advocate that deviance be normalized by a society that it becomes harmful beyond the individual harm. Since the beginning people have engaged in deviant behaviors that were ignored, and overlooked by and large by their societies so long as the deviants kept it behind closed doors, and out of public discourse.

I love LOVE Destiny...and this is coming from someone right of center

@kladies3021

11 ай бұрын

I don't agree with him on everything. But I appreciate his pushing of men being responsible. Something the manosphere always side steps.

@JonnyK595

11 ай бұрын

@@kladies3021 Dumb answer. Really dumb answer actually. If you take the biggest influencers like Tate, Fresh & Fit, Wes Watson.....all they talk about is self improvement. They even blame you if your girl leaves you, therefore I dont know in which reality you live in or what drugs you are taking.

@Qubicle.

11 ай бұрын

@@kladies3021 while I hate today's redpill community, pushing men to be more responsible for their own lives is literally one of their selling point.

@Damesanglante

10 ай бұрын

@@kladies3021 You've never watched anything about the manosphere. Otherwise, you wouldn't say such lies.

@mattm7426

10 ай бұрын

You love a pedophile?

I love the self plug of his version of hustlers university so ironic right after they talk about Andrew tate 😂

"I knew how to befriend and I knew how to have a meaningful emotional exchange with a woman. I did not know how to navigate crossing the line and being the kind of person that she would want to sleep with." Under heavy guard I had been shown the line a few times, but only for the purpose of making sure I know exactly where it is and to reiterate that I'm not allowed anywhere near it.

@brianmeen2158

11 ай бұрын

I don’t know why some men are so puzzled about how to get women to be sexually attracted to you. It’s rather simple - work out and have a nice physique and be traditionally masculine.. that’s it

@OmynysFence

10 ай бұрын

​@@brianmeen2158definitely nothing to do with how you treat people

@AngryReptileKeeper

10 ай бұрын

@@brianmeen2158 This is such an egregious oversimplification that it ends up being complete horse shit. You've presented the most shallow possible criteria one can use.

Really good episode!

For every 'success' story there are billions of people who didn't make it. Life is difficult, corrupt, and isn't fair. If you don't have wealth, health, physical and other advantages, plus some luck, you probably never will. Just the way it is.

@vivek27789

11 ай бұрын

Harsh but true.

@303machine

10 ай бұрын

Life is difficult, but corrupt and unfair is not life but people. And even weak people like this blue dyed soyboy could have success in this day and age.

@CelestialWoodway

9 ай бұрын

Go with the attitude of always taking right actions and don't get to attached on the outcome. Buddhist philosophy.

This shits fire!!! New sub

Quality game leads to a relationship with a being that lacks self-awareness, is prone to misery, only honors the self and is constantly judging everything you do.

Destiny's ability to remain authentic, unbias, and diplomatic is extremely key in society. I hope it remains a consistent characteristic.

@benny399

11 ай бұрын

TRUEEEEEEEE

@jameswhitehead8779

11 ай бұрын

She is being ironic right?

@timmyt1293

11 ай бұрын

Lmao he's literally the opposite of all 3 things!!!

@jameswhitehead8779

11 ай бұрын

@@timmyt1293 it’s prob just Destiny’s boyfriend coming to his defense.

@alvinsheczlek5243

11 ай бұрын

Authentic and unbiased? This guy use to rage online like he was a pastor for pro life. And he just went on broadcast debate saying he would abort his own son if he could of because he switched to pro choice…. There’s zero I trust abt this guy

1:55:34 "They'll give me the answer that closely resembles the group that they're in." So true. It seems like this is what most people do, most of the time.

@AngryReptileKeeper

10 ай бұрын

Unfortunately, that's just human nature.

@sigigle

10 ай бұрын

@@AngryReptileKeeper For most people it is. I try very hard not to do it. It's sheepish, they'd rather be accepted by the group than think for themselves if doing so would mean risking being ostracized from the group.

Wow your desk is high or am imagining it or is it the camera angle?

You need to interview Joe Hendry. He's literally changed my life.

funny I playeded JRPGs from 8 years old and up had a similar outcome where my reading and writing comprehension just carried me for so long. Final Fantasy Tactics is greatest game ever made.

@Ermz

11 ай бұрын

It's an overlooked gem.

@roody_io

11 ай бұрын

@Ermz It really is slept on. It took me weeks to even begin to grasp the systems. But once it clicked, it was like 'oh this is like chess with rich animations, progression, perfect systems depth tied into a story doing GoT-esque storytelling. I've heard that 14s story gets good at some point, but the newer entries never matched up for me. FFT was Squares MO Might try 16 idk yet

@gyytgy3330

11 ай бұрын

Yeah JRPG’s made me really fall in love with reading books 😊

@Cybertech134

11 ай бұрын

@@roody_io XIV is a true love letter to FF fans but with a slow but necessary start. Make it past ARR and its post patches (which is pretty much a tedious hazing ritual) and you'll be in some of the best storytelling in all of FF, and in video games for that matter.

@Bladorage

10 ай бұрын

same thing happened to me with ap courses if I even slightly played anything related to a open ap course at the time. AP writing, reading, history etc courses. I am having flash backs to Koei and samurai warrior or dynasty warriors along various other RTS or sim games with historical archives being a title screen Main menu option below character creation.

This is absolutely insane that a guy I used to watch play Starcraft 2 is so grown up and talking about these topics! 😅😅😅

@JonnyK595

11 ай бұрын

explains a lot of his dumb shit he is talking

@kingdodgearcane

11 ай бұрын

We all have that capability 😊

@seoulmansupra

11 ай бұрын

@@kingdodgearcane starting mine soon!!!

@AIPassiveIncome-byNeo

10 ай бұрын

I have a theory that playing Sc2 (especially while young) at a decent lvl can teach ppl amazing interdisciplinary skills and by extent they are more prepared for the real world than ppl that haven’t played sc2

I feel like this is 50% Destiny being insightful about his life and 50% Tom trying to sell that he's a billionaire and has a good system we can purchase.

Hello Tom. You kind of remind me of my oldest brother. I know you will probably not read this comment, but I admire your search to get the most out of life. I come out of Africa, so I may not be as modern or advanced as most of your followers, but why haven't you ever explored religion and all of that on your podcast or don't you think that it could be another cog that makes up the machine of life? Great shows and love the variety of topics

A common theme of psychedelics you hear from people is that they rarely regret even the bad trips. As someone who has had a fair amount of experience with them, I find this to be true. There is something cathartic about a bad trip that often flips a switch in you that when it is over you have a fresh appreciation for your regular, sober life experience. It's hard to describe. I think everyone should try them at least once in their life, granted they don't have any medical or psychological conditions that would preclude them from doing it safely, or are on any contraindicated medications that would interact negatively with them. ALWAYS do your research, and NEVER do what Destiny did here, and take 5x the recommended starting dose for your first experience. That's just irresponsible.

@atombom8214

9 ай бұрын

I used to think that everyone should try psychedelics too but I know a few people that completely got lost and aren't coming back from even just small dose of mushrooms or Cannabis from the same stuff that everyone else has been using. These plants can trigger psychosis or schizophrenia that some people just can't come back from. My perspective is very different now after seeing the negative aspects that are very possible. Grateful it didn't happen to me!

@kojinmaster

9 ай бұрын

​@atombom8214 what if you go into the other realm and don't want to come back?

for me RP is about recognising dark side of female nature and adept to it

Overwhelmingly, people tend to point to their "work ethic" when discussing the impetus of their success. They never discuss, perhaps they need to be made aware of, the ton of luck (people you come across, the color of your skin, money, someone giving you a break, family connections, etc.) they received along the way. I love that Destiny acknowledges how "luck" played a part.

Damn. I didn't think that Tom's audience would have so many politically illiterate and insecure men without the ability of critical thought or acceptance of the human experience. Let alone that many vocally proud of their lack of life experience/ability to engage with beliefs they don't hold. Majority of the comments are bashing Destiny for expressing his thoughts and opinions when they're just that, thoughts and opinions. Haters gotta do better than this and grow mentally. Great episode!

Would love to see you do a broadcast on "Toxic Femminity" and debate Andrew Tate!!!!!

dggL💙ve Great interview!!

I always find it interesting that people with wealth, tell you not to worry about wealth. I'm convinced they don't remember what it's like to struggle and that's why these kinds of things end up coming out in a conversation. I'm willing to bet if they were broke, this emphasis on "wealth don't help" wouldn't exist. Ain't no one struggling talking about " wealth won't make you happy....BRUH

@jds614

10 ай бұрын

Well I think there is a balance Like if you can't afford food...money is an issue But if you have everything settled more or less with enough to treat yourself basically...extra bread probably doesn't help too much Like idk if the numbers still hold up with inflation....but like I think 5-6 years ago there was a study that expressed this general point Until someone makes 75 k per yeard usd, earning more money helps. Someone making 60 is likely more happy than one making 30. Because at 30 if your tire goes flat or your AC breaks etc etc that money is like an anchor in your life. But when 75 k is hit... roughly...with decent money management...you should be able to live a comfortable life with most things taken care of...an emergency won't feel like death. After that point they said the extra money does not bring in equivalent extra happiness So in theory if I'm making 75 and I want to make 120.....maybe the extra work and effort required will negatively outweigh the benefits of the money.

@--Morpheus--

10 ай бұрын

​​@@jds614yeah for sure! I do think though with consideration for longterm upward mobility (especially with raising a family and maintaining a property) the 120 will make it more smooth

@alvinsheczlek5243

10 ай бұрын

The key is being self equipped. If you know you can make what it takes to live without normal worries to pay bills ($80k average, obviously the more frugal lifestyle the lower). Having the ability and knowing you can pay your bills is when you don’t need to focus on wealth. Although I think destiny is extremely hypocritical as he lectures its materialistic yet he chases riches shamelessly himself

@MachineManiaOG

10 ай бұрын

Lol which neither of them said wealth isn’t something to strive for. You missed the point completely. Wealth is just a tool that in the proper hands can be used to greatly increase your passion and satisfaction in other areas of life. However, wealth is not a cure all for giving you a true purpose and fulfillment. This is why you experience moments of emptiness and disappointment even when you should be in a “good” spot. You should strive to be successful and make a name for yourself. But the idea that if you made a 100 million tomorrow would actually give you what you think it would is stupid. Most people that don’t become rich through a career or job fail at being rich, blow their money on stupid shit, give it away to friends and family, and end up being broke again.

@Quartzteamrealty

9 ай бұрын

Once you get past the point of struggling for food, housing, clothes basic necessities it’s all about the same after that

You can disagree with him, but anyone that tries to sell that destiny isn’t a well thought-out individual is quite delusional

@Future183

11 ай бұрын

I watched dozens of podcasts with him and all the time he gets proofen wrong. If he is that well thought as many claim than how can it happen that he gets proofen wrong almost every time bruh...explain please

@gomikuzu4545

11 ай бұрын

@@Future183 "proofen" lmao maybe if u learned how to spell u would understand

@youmakemelolz

11 ай бұрын

They’ll just say he has blue hair and suck off andrew Tate

@joshuaadrian480

11 ай бұрын

destiny has discussions with people who just want to dunk on him alot in an attempt to bridge the gap. When you see him get shit on by others for his opinions, you're delusional if you think he's being proven wrong, or sorry, "proofen"

@Dramahayes

11 ай бұрын

@@Future183 in what podcasts and in what context is he “proofen” wrong?

It's called Banter...The thing Destiny is talking about...Being playful with things that are fair game that can come off mean... But both parties know it's not to be taken seriously is called Banter...Not everyone can pull it off...But when both ppl have good Banter it's sooooo good...

@EriPages

10 ай бұрын

3+ hour vid....timestamp what you're talking about bud

Really enjoy the potential of this friendship! Kindred spirits 🕊️

Here is the best advise you will ever hear regarding the pursuit of wealth. "If you want to get rich, go broke first."

Good interview overall but hearing him say that people aren't toxic on voice chat when playing online games had me dying 🤣

this guy is saying what ive been thinking all along.

The thing that destiny is missing about manipulation is the goal. If you have a goal that is not shared or known by the other party.

its great to include brilliant women such as destiny in the conversation

@peterfrohwein4961

11 ай бұрын

He is a man. If you think he is a woman, then you are as insane as he is !

@RichardBronosky

11 ай бұрын

Savage

@MrPluckie

11 ай бұрын

Couldn’t have put it more eloquently.

@streakkk135

11 ай бұрын

DGGer spotted

@chelseabangs9657

11 ай бұрын

😂

Life have a way to expose you to opportunities through various different facets. Some turn to pain, some turn to inspiration. Intelligence can be taught. But humility is a core value.

@Qubicle.

11 ай бұрын

humidity is indeed important, and is a state, so you can't teach it, you just be...humid. lmao.

@Johnnyvo30

11 ай бұрын

@@Qubicle. lol Fuckkk auto correct 😂 thanks for pointing it out to me.

That intro was just him talking about his own subs and followers. That's cold man