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The first thing I noticed before Angela said anything was that she took down the video she had of Rosie meeting the other child. She did this before the other family took his videos down. It really showed me how much respect she had for this child and the situation. I’ve been loosely following Angela’s family for a while but after I saw that I subscribed and followed her on Instagram. I love finding people with actual morals!
@melisa8256
4 жыл бұрын
I didn’t even know there was a video of him with Rosie. I’m glad it’s gone too. Weird I’ve been watching This Gathered Nests old videos and the only thing I’ve been surprised by... is how much Angela used to look like her sister. I don’t think she does so much now. Which is weird because I don’t think Angies had plastic surgery she just got braces. It’s a mystery for me 🤷🏻♀️
@kita3256
4 жыл бұрын
What other child? I’m new to this channel... not sure what’s happening..
@_commonthread
4 жыл бұрын
I had wondered about that video! I didn’t realize she took it down, but that’s really good!
@hannaht4612
4 жыл бұрын
@@kita3256 A different family blog channel had adopted a child from China. There was a video of Rosie ( also adopted from china) meeting this other family. This year the other family chose to abandon their adopted child. This caused outrage across the internet for many reasons. What this comment is referring to is that Angela took down the video of this other child and Rosie once the scandal was brought to light.
@quinnhouse4379
4 жыл бұрын
I remember this video and I’m glad Angela is showing the world how a mother is supposed to be. She’s handled this perfectly removing it. I’ve been waiting for Angela to discuss this because if anyone knows what to say about it and teach us about adoption it is her.
Every time I come across a video where “family channels” are criticized is always about the main stream channels where u can tell they do all these extreme and controversial stuff only to get views. I always mention your channel (This Gathered Nest) in these videos’ comments because I believe you’re truly the definition of a family channel. You know your boundaries, you’re SO respectful of your kids privacy, your videos are helpful and informative and you truly inspire people to be better and to be understanding. ❤️ Thank you for being true to yourself, your belief and morals!!!
@RachelDee
4 жыл бұрын
Yes! Well said!
@courtneymiller4006
4 жыл бұрын
Gato Martinez do you watch itsjudyslife? They’re another really great family to watch. This gathered nest and itsjudyslife are my favorite 💕
@kidscats3952
4 жыл бұрын
Add a "d" to the word criticize as you are saying it has already hsppened so past tense. "Criticize" would be it is happening at the moment "criticized" would be it has already happened. 😊
@AdventuresWithNickle
4 жыл бұрын
Yes, very well said!!!
Hey Angie! Can't believe I actually am first on commenting! I want you to know that you are being mentioned on SO many KZread channels as being held up as a genuine authentic family who encourage adoption and you tell it like it is. You are being compared to Myka Stauffer on many comments and the difference between the two of you. Night and Day.....Great job Angie. Keep doing what you're doing! Loved your book!!!
I hate leaving comments only about appearances because it hardly matters....but your hair looks great!!!
@jajaazmi9186
4 жыл бұрын
Thinking the same! Angela works on herself to looking really great!! Not that she is not pretty, she is really hardworking!
@AmberlyPerez
4 жыл бұрын
It really does! She’s stunning
I really appreciate the way you and CR treat your kids online. You are very respectful of your kids and their privacy.
I really appreciate the way you addressed the adoption scandal… I was also, as a subscriber, battling with the idea of leaving a comment to ask you to talk about it because I didn’t necessarily know if I wanted to bring any attention to the situation or whether wasn’t fair for me to do that
“Our Clicks Are Our Currency!” 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 THIS! Angela!
@marisamartinez6573
4 жыл бұрын
Aww two KZreadrs that I love! Love you both!
As a fellow family vlogger, I so appreciate this Angela.
I love love love your response to the "scandal"! What a responsible way of addressing the matter. Thanks so much for proving that there are always ways to gracefully and respectfully addressing even the most complex issues. Much love from Bavaria 🌼
She answered my question about hot dogs and cereal!! 😂
@silviagurgel5701
4 жыл бұрын
Love this two
Love from Brazil, Angela! I've been watching your videos since Rosie came home! At first it was a way for me to exercise my listening in English but then I fell in love with your kiddos and the way you guys raise them!
"Our clicks are our currency"...omg, I know this but to hear it stated in this fashion was on point Angie👏👏
Thank you for being honest, without jumping into the mud of the latest KZread "scandal". I agree with your viewpoint of simply unsubscribing and moving on, because yes, it is like taking away the currency used here on KZread. Without viewership, these channels will either garner the attention of the KZread powers that be, or their channels will wither and die.
Yes i would love to see how the decluttering has worked out. And also i love watching you and your family ❤
'well done good & faithful servant' Angie, u answered the 'scandal' question in such an honouring way. May God bless you all xxxxxxxxxxx
So glad you talked about families on Utube. I feel you have always been respectful to your family and would hate to see it end. My kids are grown and so are my grandkids and I absolutely love "spending time with yours". It's fun to see how a big family operates. You've done a great job with your kids. It's fun to see the different personalities of the kids coming thru. Thanks so much for sharing that with us! I would really hate to lose that. God bless all of you.
Definitely want the decluttering update! Love that series!
I love your perspective on KZread. Really enjoying watching this. And Dr. Phil said we teach people how to treat us. One of my favorite quotes!
I am so glad you brought up to stop watching content you don’t want to support because so many people watch videos AFTER learning the bad things a channel may do, just out of curiosity, and that HELPS THEM!
I started watching your videos back when Rosie was the newest addition 😁 I am so happy that I found your channel and kept watching your videos for motivation. As of March was able to get a foster baby in my care as already single mother. ❤🧡💜 It is so worth it.
@barbibutton9619
4 жыл бұрын
Awww; as a single mom I always wanted to do that but fear held me back. Now I'm too old
I say that to people all the time! In 10 years time when these exploited children realised their parents lived off of them for years and because they weren't "technically" working, aren't entitled to any royalties 😐
@ProgressOverPerfction
4 жыл бұрын
When they started turning off comments and parents got in a tizzy (or at least another channel we followed) I really hoped they would start regulating this for kids and treating them like child actors with funds set aside for their futures.
Our clicks is our currency... You always have PERFECT words... Every time.. you are truly amazing 😊
I found you via another you tuber that is innthe spotlight. I hate that your channels get lumped into the same category. I love your family, i love that you dont show you kids having bad days. You acknowledge they happen, but you dont do that to your kids.
@afeenzainab2263
4 жыл бұрын
That’s how i ended up here as well
can you do a podcast episode about the family channels thing, i’d love to hear more!!💖
I love your channels. Would you ever do a video on the kids perspective of homeschooling and being part of a large family? The way kids see things often is the most innocent and more "wise" then a room full of Phd's.
I SO admire your transparency and grace. Thank you for being who Our Father made you too be.
Yes, please do an update on decluttering! I am/was on the same journey earlier this year, and while some things worked out well, some really did not. I need inspiration :)
The noise on this bus is astronomical 🗣🗣🗣 You’re so right about family channels!! I really love how y’all do it, especially with the older kids. It’s about respect ✊🏻
Thank you for the resources in your blog post, Angie. Especially as a Believer, I enjoy Karyn Purvis/TBRI/Empowered to Connect SO MUCH. You've done well cultivating a beautiful culture of people in this corner of the internet. For years, I've watched you honor the layers involved in adoption and homeschooling and other topics. Your testimony is strong and God bless the hard work you've done through Him and for Him.
@scwendy6302
4 жыл бұрын
Karyn was such a kind and sincere person. It warms my heart reading about her work continuing to help people❤️
I'm currently 26 weeks pregnant and wondering how or if I want to share my little one online but you make it seem very possible in a very respectful way. You showed that you don't have to choose one or the other. Though at this moment, I still don't know if I should/want, I think you such a great example of doing it right. Thank you for sharing 😊
Feels like she’s addressed her view on Mykas situation without naming her. I’m so happy to watch someone that wouldn’t use kids for money like that. Because yes money does change people.
Would defo love a Family what we eat in a day and an update on the decluttering
Hi, yes please do a de-clutter update! I so enjoy your channel. I don't know where you get all that energy for what you do. God Bless!!
I honestly appreciate your input! We have a family channel and I’m learning the Do’s and donts. It’s so important to keep the kids protected and retain their dignity! I’d love it if more experienced youtubers offered some type of paid class with info!
Love that you mentioned 'The Body Keeps The Score'. Amazing book.
Soo excited for this! Havent even listened yet.
@emilydowan919
4 жыл бұрын
I loved part 1. I’m enjoying this so much x
I hear you on trying to do the splits! I’ve decided I want a bunch of gymnastics skills back. I’m 24 and quit gymnastics when I was about 10, but I’m working on it! I’m just not as flexible as I was when I was 8!
A homeschool q&a is something I would definitely be interested in :)
Well done Angie, you as always pitched it just right. Respectful but to the point without pointing fingers. Have a great week. X
Although I’m new to your channel, I’ve never heard of you until now. I admire you and your husband adopting children of color from different countries and one domestic baby of color, the cutest I’ve ever seen. I’m glad you’ve found faith in the Lord and you not letting internet trolls get you down. I am a single woman with no kids and after subscribing to your channel and watching some of your videos, I can say that I’m convinced that you know how to get the job done. I don’t think I can do as well as you can, even if I were a single parent of one. Please invite me to your channel and extended family, and keep up the good work. Take care.
I just feel like (and let's face it, recent happenings prove this) that people are very easily fooled by (fake) nice people and apparently hundreds of thousands or even millions of people don't pick up on enormous red flags going on for *years* on these channels. Then when something clearly outrageous happens yes, there is a response but I feel like too many people either just do not want to see clear or they are too nice to assume anyone could have bad intentions. Just please read the signs! When you see something sketchy comment respectfully but firmly and unfollow. This is not much but we should all do it.
@lilMissAdoria
4 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure commenting helps, besides the fact that they will probably get deleted, don't comments come into play for the videos success? I though the more views, likes and comments a video got, the more it was pushed out to others. So if you comment aren't you helping to support them even if it's negative? (No criticism just my musings, what do you think?)
@annakoszegi5176
4 жыл бұрын
@@lilMissAdoria you are right, I basically meant that if you are already watching that content and then you notice something sketchy/not ok, the best you can do is to comment and unsubscribe (whether or not it gets deleted later is another story, sometimes they don't delete them or simply can't delete them all if masses comment, so worths a try) But of course if you already know that a certain channel is problematic, don't watch it just to comment, because that's just extra engagement for them.
I have so much respect for you! I think your navigation of these complex issues is so well thought out, balanced and rational. I just find myself agreeing with everything you say haha and that does not happen often. ❤️
Your channel has been so good for us as a fostering family. You are a brilliant family channel and do it really well. So many lives have been changed by your channel xxxfrom England
I would love to see a decluttering update and another ‘edit’ video like the one where you review all the good things in your life. It’s like having lunch with a friend 💕
The only two family channels I’ve been watching for years and LOVE are This Gathered Nest and Knorpp and South.
@Arkiegirl26
4 жыл бұрын
Brad and Rach along with Phil and Alex are 2 other really good ones!!!
@maykuok944
4 жыл бұрын
Larimar Henriquez my favourite is OUR TRIBE OF MANY
You could put a video on what type of laundry detergent you use and i will watch it. Love your family
Your blog post made me think of a conversation I recently had with my Aunt. She and my uncle never had children and I never asked why or never would ask. So i am not sure how it came to be that she was telling me the reason why. She had asked herself how willing and ready she was to raise a child with any type of special needs. Cause if she had one, it was ALL in. She realised that she didn't have it in her, and chose a different path in life.
I totally agree - I think there is a definite place for positive family vlogging that highlights the different aspects of life that ultimately can bring us all together! xo
We need the family channel, what else is there to watch. They are very educational. I’m so tired of all the sadness. Please leave these channel alone. Thanks Angela, I love all the channels, much ❤️
Thanks so much for being tactful and well spoken! I love how you are so willing to educate without and agenda. I would love for a video of the your top books that you’ve read that have influenced you to be a better person/mom/wife/teacher. Thanks for all you do!!
Well said, Angela about KZread family creators. I love your family. Also, no one would fault you if you were to answer the "I don't see you exercise, what do you do? " question with let me introduce you to my eight (8, like 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8) children!
I used you as an example of a family channel I like in a comment about those other questionable channels. I think you’re spot on in your analysis of that. You’re very classy and don’t come off as a narcissist or like you’re using your children in a way they will resent in the future.
I’m 82 years old and follow about 10 vloggers. I love watching the kids. I haven’t seen any channels I would say are offensive or would be harmful to their children. I read your book and also listened to it on Audible. I loved it and would recommend it to anyone.
Great responses! I appreciate your thoughtfulness in your answers. Love you ang!
Thank you, Angela!!! Great video!! Can't wait to watch a video about the update of the decluttering process!!
I love the connection you have with your kids and how you celebrate them
I really love your channel.very loving parents.I teared up watching as they took u out of dilverly with the twins, you had so much love for them coming from your face.God has blessed yall.❤️
Shout out from NC🤗 What a beautiful soul, thanks for sharing a positive channel, love seeing the kiddos.🥰
Your Chanel's and podcast are something I can get behind. Your stories are so encouraging. Thank you for creating wholesome content. I will continue watching it!
Ice cream cones are one of the things I cannot comprehend sharing. After thinking about it...cereal is now on the list
Thank you so much Angela for this video especially the first part of it. I'm a small family KZreadr and barely started when friends said so many scary and discouraging things about put my family out there because of all these bad family KZread channels. I almost lost the courage to continue with my channel but your words have inspired me to keep on and make it right. I pray that God will help me to make good contents that will be a blessing and inspiration to many that watch us. Thank you so much for this video
You deserved our click currency. Always great advice. Thanks
Thanks for addressing adoption dissolution. I just read your blog post. Thank you for your non judgmental and thought provoking response. Also watching the Hope Baker discussion now. 💕
I love your channels! Brad and Rach is another excellent example of great family channel content.
Hahaha! "I never hear about your workouts, what do you do?!" Your words: "I don't!" Hahahahahaha! The best answer ever! 😂😍🤗 I love you! Mental health all the way!!! 🙋♀️
Hi from Slovenia. You are such a good and smart person. Love watching you. 🤗👌🏻
I'm on board for a decluttering update! Thanks for your time and wise words, as always.
Girl, preach! (On family channels... there are some FANTASTIC ONES, and some that go way over the limit!)
Absolutely right. Unfortunately there is and always be an audience that seeks and loves drama, but I would really like those viewers to find content and channels outside the family vlog realm. And that’s only going to happen if we set an example and don’t support channels who don’t deserve it.
You are so glowy! So happy to have this video, lovely! x
These are all lovely thoughts, loved listening to this Q&A!
The workout response I about choked I was laughing so hard I feel ya girl 😂😂
So good! I love what you say about family channels and couldn’t agree more. It’s a bummer for those who just want to share real life and can’t get seen because they’re buried under the challenges, click bait, and phony stuff😆 quality content can be hard to find, which makes me so thankful for channels like yours! It’s the same for all social media though. In fact I was just chatting with a friend and I said social media is just weird, some people could literally post their kid picking their nose and get thousands of likes meanwhile something heartfelt or something someone worked hard on isn’t seen. Social media/KZread is a beast. Lots of pros and cons. I feel like we just have to keep at the forefront of our thoughts our why - why are we there? For the most part I sincerely believe it’s not really about deserving what you do or don’t get (follows, likes, popularity, etc) - it’s just the way the world works. Some stories are headliners, but everyone has a story that is worthy and deserving of being heard.😊
I would love a what I eat in a day or what your whole family eats in a day. I think it would be very interesting to see what a big family eats in a day especially with such an age range ☺️
Decluttering update would be great to see. It was very motivating and interesting. cheers :)
Love your ethics!!! When you shared about seeing Bryan Stevenson, I knew you had heart of gold!!!
🤣I never hear anything about your workouts what do you do? I don't 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 Love it!
Family channels I love: Obvs This Gathered Nest, Phil & Alex, Ellen Fisher, Crazy Pieces. I also love Jenna Marbles, although she’s not a family channel her videos are fun, wholesome, creative, and 98% of the time are cuss word free.
@countdowntovan8663
4 жыл бұрын
Jesssfam is another great one! I have watched her for yeeears
@vickierunyan576
4 жыл бұрын
Have you checked out crazy middles? It’s a great show too!! And the mom is crazy pieces moms sister!
@PerpetuallySleepy
4 жыл бұрын
Jenna... :'(
@vihaze6725
4 жыл бұрын
Cringed when you said Phil and Alex (look into them, they remind me of the Stauffers) but the others are good, and Angie is the best.
I love your family vlogger channel it’s real life with a huge family , you are a great mother all your kids are beautiful .. I enjoy watching the family bloggers and it’s good to give your kids privacy like you do . stay safe and healthy ,
Yes to the Intermittent Fasting video please! Been on it for a year and I would love to see other opinions and choices of food. And can you please do a 24h scheduled meal plan for you? Or even a week of what you eat?
I could listen to u talk all day... 😍 love your views & morals Angela! And OF COURSE~LOVED your book~absolutely recommend!!! Blessings to u and your beautiful family!!! 😘 XO
Yay!! I've been waiting for pt.2 !!
Hi Angela I’m a 60 year old South African living in the UK. I’m fascinated with the American culture and stumbled upon your channel when looking at multiple births. I think that you are an intelligent mature interesting woman. I loved that you and your husband have such big hearts along with your big family. I too home schooled (both children now grown, married with families) I was hooked on your decluttering (did you every do your husbands cupboards? Did I miss it?) For me it’s wonderful looking into your home how you interact with husband and children (as I’m new I’ve missed a lot but catching up) Can I ask if you’ll be doing any more posts about your home and family dynamic? Continue to be blessed I pray for all the families I watch trusting Father God to protect prosper and bless you all Kathleen xxx
❤️❤️ love your honesty as always
@dawnforlife
4 жыл бұрын
Agree! 🧡
It’s so so good to hear you comment on the issues with family channels rn. I’ve watched your channel for so long and it’s never ever entered my head that anyone would possibly want to exploit their children BECAUSE of the brilliance of your channel and the way you respect your kids. So I’ve been shocked by things that have emerged from other channels recently. I’ve been interested to hear your outlook on this and whether it’s affected your feelings about vlogging recently. Both your answer and your blog post were super classy, eloquent, beautiful and I love you ❤️🌈 thank you so much for sharing this with us, you obviously owe it to no one and I know it must be a sensitive topic for you. I hope you see our curiosity as nothing but respect for your knowledge and opinion and a testament to the wisdom we see in you. You are a queen. 🙏
So so so much respect for your family! 💛
I trained myself to the splits when I was 16.. I'm now 24 and I can still do it :)
I loved what you said about family channels.... I decided to unsubscribe from several a while back as it occurred to me that I honestly wasn't learning anything from them.... I don't know if that's silly... but I don't want to spend me time watching something purely for entertainment. I want God to guide me towards channels because He knows I'll learn something great from that person/family. I can only strive to be that way with my channel also. xx PS. Just bought the audiobook... starting later tonight. Super keen !!
So articulate and well spoken 💖🇦🇺
I would love to see a follow up video on how your decluttering has held up.
Thank you for chatting to us - it felt like having a coffee together, my friend :-)
Thank you for speaking out on this issue
Part 3 please! I LOVE your QAnd A’s!!!
Learning how to be more flexible (physically, hey and mentally is good too) is a great thing to do to strengthen your body REGARDLESS of age.
Oh yes, and please an update on the declutter Series!!
I so agree with the cereal! I also inhale my cereal so it doesn’t get soggy or warm 🤢 and the thought of sharing it with my toddler is especially stomach turning. Great insight on family channels on KZread. 😀
I would love an update on the decluttering process. Those videos are why I discovered your channels.
Would definitely love to see an update on the decluttering jourmey! Appreciate you girl.
I was saving the exact same thing to people, how its the teeny tiny number of toxic family channels who make the rest of us look bad. x
Yes to what your family eats in a day/week, and how your IF works into that. I have an almost adult daughter interested in IF. "Our clicks are our currency" oh my word, YES! I am trying to teach this to my teens. They keep trying to tell me they don't have a voice, but they do, they do!