TOP 3 Causes Of Self Sabotage & Weed Addiction Relapse!

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If you are struggling with self sabotage and weed addiction this AddictionMindset video is for you. In this brief video Dr. Frank the founder of Addiction Mindset recovery coaching explains three causes how self sabotage and how to stop self sabotage once and for all. There are many causes of self sabotage and much of it is rooted in marijuana addiction. If you are ready to break the cycle of addiction, quit smoking, and stop self sabotaging Addiction Mindset videos are for you! Stoping self sabotage has little to do with getting through the weed withdrawal symptoms or the weed detox process. Addiction recovery and the mindset necessary to avoid relapse. If you are ready for real self improvement and self development let this Addiction Recovery motivate you to make the change once and for all!
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  • @AddictionMindset
    @AddictionMindset6 ай бұрын

    Free Guide To Quit Smoking: stan.store/AddictionMindset Book a 1:1 Call with Dr. Frank: stan.store/AddictionMindset Purchase KickIt Gum: kickitrevolution.com

  • @JIMKATSANIDIS
    @JIMKATSANIDIS6 ай бұрын

    You might feel hopeless and frustrated after a relapse. You might feel like you let your loved ones down. You might struggle to get back on track, because you feel that relapsing means that recovery and sobriety are not meant for you. But if you relapse, go easy on yourself. Shame and self-blame won't be helpful after a relapse. Just remember that addiction is a disease and you are still vulnerable to relapsing. Stay strong everyone!👋❤💪

  • @AMJS_WISDOM

    @AMJS_WISDOM

    6 ай бұрын

    Facts 🫡

  • @JIMKATSANIDIS

    @JIMKATSANIDIS

    6 ай бұрын

    @@AMJS_WISDOM Absolutely Max! Thanks for commenting! 👋

  • @WheelieOutlaw

    @WheelieOutlaw

    6 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this. I am struggling so hard to quit smoking, it feels as if I can’t do anything without it and my mood changes drastically when I’m not high. I have relapsed countless times and it truly feels awful but I’m not going to just give up.

  • @AMJS_WISDOM

    @AMJS_WISDOM

    6 ай бұрын

    @@WheelieOutlaw you can do it just keep getting back up brother

  • @JIMKATSANIDIS

    @JIMKATSANIDIS

    6 ай бұрын

    @@WheelieOutlaw You aren't a failure just because you relapsed Reed! Relapsing is part of the sobriety process. All the ups and downs are part of the journey. As long as relapsing doesn't become a habit, and you learn something along the way it will be fine. Don't loose hope and keep going!👋❤

  • @kriyaad
    @kriyaad3 ай бұрын

    After 16 years blazing everyday it's finally time for me to stop. This got me through the last 3 days. Thank you so much

  • @djmckaytv
    @djmckaytv6 ай бұрын

    13 days sober from weed. Got so sick from smoking everyday. Starting to feel clear again, thank you sir.

  • @coltontrupp962

    @coltontrupp962

    4 ай бұрын

    Just curious are you quitting or is it indefinite?

  • @marioboyd557

    @marioboyd557

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@coltontrupp962 for me it's a reset.

  • @473mishke

    @473mishke

    21 күн бұрын

    Day 9 for me. My spirit is depleted but I'm pushing through.

  • @the_mattescat8497
    @the_mattescat84976 ай бұрын

    I hardest part for me when I relapse on weed is 1. Having to do that day 1-3 over again.. it’s really really hard . And 2. After I make it about to day 10 is when I tend to relapse am taking that little break brings my tolerance down enough that when I do smoke again for the first time it’s an amazing feeling like I’m smoking for the first time.. it quickly fades an doesn’t last an I’m off to the races again.. I just can’t get over the boredom.. even when I do get up an do something productive, I’m not enjoying it… I’m not enjoying anything really

  • @predslayz1211

    @predslayz1211

    6 ай бұрын

    I’m the same way but that not enjoying anything part means it’s working. Your brain needs atleast 2-3 months for you to have ur actual feelings back. I started to feel good again after two weeks. For some people it’s just different.

  • @photomotor

    @photomotor

    6 ай бұрын

    I have the same feeling. I am at two weeks now and I am nervouse about the unknown. The thing that keeps me going right now is just wanting more out of life. I have been through the same things so many times I know what will happen

  • @ghostlyfe1923

    @ghostlyfe1923

    2 ай бұрын

    Watch motivational videos you have to stay productive I know shit sucks with thought the high but that’s your mind telling you that because it wants what it is use to back and you can’t blame your brain for this especially if it’s been years of the habit

  • @Weld702

    @Weld702

    Ай бұрын

    @@predslayz1211damn I picked a perfect time to quit. I’m having my first kid in 5 months. So excited to be a dad, but honestly pretty stressed about getting sober, I literally quit 2 hours ago after my disposable died out.

  • @evankurtz8002

    @evankurtz8002

    22 күн бұрын

    @@Weld702how’s it going?

  • @djmckaytv
    @djmckaytv6 ай бұрын

    When I want to smoke I go run instead. Thank you!

  • @flouserschird
    @flouserschird6 ай бұрын

    I had quit for almost a year but the desire for it never left. I found myself just more bored, and not being able to sleep. I have a healthy lifestyle and I’m a business owner that’s making 6 figures. I just like weed so much. It’s easy to stop doing it, but it always seem to linger when it’s 3am and I can’t sleep. I’ve struggled with insomnia, my whole life. Weed was the only thing that helped me but I was addicted to it. I smoke sometimes now, but I’m not a daily user anymore. I wish I could quit completely, but I just like it too much and my life isn’t really suffering any consequences from it. I feel like I’m in such an unusual predicament most people don’t get it. I hate substances I don’t wanna be dependent on anything. Thank for your encouragement, Dr. Frank. I just need to find something in my life that fulfills me more than the weed does. I don’t understand why it’s so appealing to me.

  • @WheelieOutlaw

    @WheelieOutlaw

    6 ай бұрын

    I don’t 100% understand what your going through but at a point I definitely feel what your going through. Its not easy for me to quit at all due to the fact I like it just so much like you do. I always find myself bored as well or not able to sleep, etc. I hate the feeling of being dependent on something but just like you do I like it so so much. Just wanted to make this comment to relate that I don’t know what to do either. It’s a very weird predicament.

  • @groundjitsu

    @groundjitsu

    6 ай бұрын

    I completely understand what both of you are saying. I stopped for 18 months once, I thought my life would be so much cooler without weed but I just ended up feeling the same but without weed. I loved the plant, I loved the different strains and their smells. I could stop smoking but couldn't stop liking the plant. I smoked again and went in as if I never stopped. Weird.

  • @WheelieOutlaw

    @WheelieOutlaw

    6 ай бұрын

    @@groundjitsu very very relatable

  • @groundjitsu

    @groundjitsu

    6 ай бұрын

    @@WheelieOutlaw but, that being said, today is my first day not smoking.. Again. I need to get clear and sober again, I'm feeling the negatives. Weed was the main character in my every day life, but I just can't let that happen. I want to be proud of me again, I want to look back and say, "yo, i come this far without touching it." as of right now I'm not proud

  • @basspro11231

    @basspro11231

    6 ай бұрын

    Man I hope dr frank can chime in on this

  • @MotorcityMadman1984
    @MotorcityMadman19846 ай бұрын

    Just hit 3 weeks clean! Slept like a rock last night.

  • @splash-qi5kn

    @splash-qi5kn

    6 ай бұрын

    I'm at just about 3 weeks I'd say and the nightmares are unreal and nonstop all through the night 😂 all other symptoms of withdrawal are gone though so that's good news !! 🎉

  • @MotorcityMadman1984

    @MotorcityMadman1984

    6 ай бұрын

    @@splash-qi5kn The lucid dreaming is crazy. Every night I’ve dreamt the craziest stuff imaginable. Congratulations on your 3 weeks. Dr Frank says we should stop counting days

  • @splash-qi5kn

    @splash-qi5kn

    6 ай бұрын

    @@MotorcityMadman1984 Correct and he is right! I have stopped counting It just hasn't been long enough for me to exactly lose track 😂 I'm excited for the night that I don't have these crazy nightmares non stop and looking forward to it!! I pray the same for you my friend and best of luck on your journey

  • @MotorcityMadman1984

    @MotorcityMadman1984

    6 ай бұрын

    @@splash-qi5kn I had a dream that spanned YEARS lol I’m right there with you. What’s happened is our brains have been so deprived of REM cycle of sleep that it’s just going crazy right now. This too shall pass!!

  • @splash-qi5kn

    @splash-qi5kn

    6 ай бұрын

    @@MotorcityMadman1984 I believe it. Only thing is mine aren't dreams they are horrific nightmares linked directly to the worst things that have happened to me in my life and they happen as soon as I drift into even the slightest sleep. Must mean I smoked A LOT. All other aspects of my life have tremendously improved so I can take it. I pray it doesn't go on to this extent for years ...

  • @JIMKATSANIDIS
    @JIMKATSANIDIS6 ай бұрын

    Incredibly insightful video! Self-sabotaging behaviors for me is low self-esteem, insecurity, fatigue, lack of motivation, procrastination, stressed out, overwhelmed, feeling hopeless and depressed. Self-sabotaging behaviors can be hard to recognize, but the consequences are real. Thanks for the uplifting video Dr. Frank!🙌❤

  • @Stumpwater27
    @Stumpwater272 ай бұрын

    This guy has helped so much been about 6 days and this is worse than I expected but I would smoke as soon as my eyes open for 14years. gotta get my shit together and weed gets in the way. Every time my will is weak I watch one of these videos and it gives me strength. Just time to grow up and stop giving in to every whim

  • @karenrestivo1231

    @karenrestivo1231

    2 ай бұрын

    Start marijuana anonymous! Saved me!

  • @blastattack4628
    @blastattack46286 ай бұрын

    I'm on my 7 month free of weed right now, craving returned to me, but I understand that mechanish fully. Also free from porn and alcohol. I lost 3 months on SSRI of my weed recovering process, but it was a good lession for me also. Thank you so much Frank for your videos, I'm backing to them in hard time to remember things. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, hugs from cold Russia.

  • @jordantony1796
    @jordantony17966 ай бұрын

    I give you allot of respect frank for doing this every year not giving up like other KZreadrs. Very proud of you and the work you do thank you again for doing this your helping me and other people that want help. I know you don’t have to do this. you making video show that you really care for the people

  • @djmckaytv
    @djmckaytv5 ай бұрын

    The amount of value you deliver on this channel is extraordinary. You deserve all the success in the world. Thank you Dr. Frank

  • @ghostlyfe1923
    @ghostlyfe19232 ай бұрын

    It took me 3 videos but bro was meant for this imma black dude from the hood with a greater perspective on life and I was always educationally inclined thru my life but because of my environment I fell victim a lot I spent 13 years smoking weed and popping pills 💊 ecstasy and percocets and I never stopped on my own had to go to jail or bootcamp just to force me to stop got to the point wear I admire the jail system for the benefits of not having family a cell home or way to make money a buy weed shit made me feel sad I couldn’t do it on my own I’m 13 hrs strong and I won’t let that small time discourage me this is just the beginning and I say all that to say even with Us having completely different life upbringing and environment his teachings are working for me and I love this bro ❤ appreciate you all the way from EAST CHICAGO , IN USA 🇺🇸

  • @JQUOIS

    @JQUOIS

    2 ай бұрын

    Some real shit! Good luck brudda you’re helping motivate me as well

  • @Tryingtobethechange
    @Tryingtobethechange4 ай бұрын

    Appreciate you & everything you have done for us all! Thank you Dr Frank! 👊🏽

  • @chadchadingston374
    @chadchadingston3744 ай бұрын

    Did anyone else not enjoy smoking weed but still continued to do it? Maybe 1 out of 10 times I would actually enjoy it, the rest of the time I was anxious and uncomfortable. Like wtf was I actually doing

  • @AOTrainer
    @AOTrainer5 ай бұрын

    You are saving lives, Frank! Thank you

  • @raymeow16
    @raymeow166 ай бұрын

    Great video coach! You uttered absolute gold

  • @corneliushorgan6048
    @corneliushorgan60486 ай бұрын

    Thanks for putting it into words

  • @godofares4457
    @godofares44575 ай бұрын

    This is by far one of your best videos Dr. Frank. For people who have quit and then relapse. I have been smoking THC for 3 years off and on. And unfortunately I relapsed last summer and just recently I have quit all THC products for the 2nd time. I am 17 days THC free. All I gotta say is thank you Dr. Frank for all the knowledge. It’s true, you can make more videos, take all the medications, but it is truly up to one’s self to stop there addiction and work on having a better and happier life without all the toxins. Thank you Dr. Frank.

  • @Marc-wm7xq
    @Marc-wm7xq6 ай бұрын

    great one! simple plain explained!

  • @4mebach
    @4mebach5 ай бұрын

    This is so encouraging and eye opening!

  • @aaronforde7908
    @aaronforde79086 ай бұрын

    See your advise is extremely useful because you can relate and you have been through a similar situation. I always thought that beating myself up what strategic in getting me to drop my vices, ive only come to realise self love is important in taking that first step towards a better life you deserve. Thanks Dr. Frank for your advice, your doing gods work🙏🙏🙏

  • @AddictionMindset

    @AddictionMindset

    6 ай бұрын

    Yes exactly! Why beat yourself when all your body is doing is what it knows best? Makes no sense 💪 you got it

  • @onerider808
    @onerider8082 ай бұрын

    Sometimes, I get a pretty strong urge to smoke a joint on the porch at sunset. I have weed, but I don’t smoke it because well…I went this far and just don’t wanna blow my streak now.

  • @rayneljred
    @rayneljred6 ай бұрын

    Awesome advice, thanks for sharing.

  • @concrete981
    @concrete9814 ай бұрын

    I have seen the light! Thanks to you Dr frank.

  • @tommy-sp9vt
    @tommy-sp9vt5 ай бұрын

    13:30 crazy you just described every day so perfectly im so glad I found your channel and finally got the motivation and drive to improve myself

  • @AddictionMindset

    @AddictionMindset

    5 ай бұрын

    Glad to have you here!!

  • @chakugerro
    @chakugerro4 ай бұрын

    I started smoking because my partner was not loyal. I feel so empty and weed is the only way I've been coping. I really want to quit. Unproductivity is my biggest issue with weed

  • @muccia7328
    @muccia73286 ай бұрын

    Such huge points ❤especially point #2

  • @soulo_world
    @soulo_world6 ай бұрын

    Really appreciate you brother

  • @lex6794
    @lex67946 ай бұрын

    Guys, I'm on my 4th day. Today was hard because I'm going into my 1st weekend and its Friday, Im off of work. I wanted to go buy weed so bad. I couldn't even go to work the 1st day and I slept until almost noon I went to bed at 1030pm. My mom woke me up. My energy levels have been horrible the next 2 days I came home from work and fell asleep. I did have better energy today. I don't have any energy for the gym. I did go 2 days early in the week but they were low energy workouts, but I'm happy I went. I'm happy I didn't Relapse but it's so hard. I'm weathering the storm, and I know one day I will feel better! Wish me Luck and Good luck everybody out there.

  • @onerider808

    @onerider808

    2 ай бұрын

    You got this. By now, you’ve beat it…

  • @chadchadingston374
    @chadchadingston3746 ай бұрын

    I smoked as an excuse to get out of working hard. I’d say well if I’m high there is no way I can handle working. ‘Work’ as we know it in most cases sucks. You don’t need to smoke to avoid it, just avoid it sober. Work smarter not harder, fuck being a slave to work or a drug.

  • @AddictionMindset

    @AddictionMindset

    6 ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @andrewmann4067

    @andrewmann4067

    5 ай бұрын

    Lazy

  • @ThatGuy-bh9qh

    @ThatGuy-bh9qh

    3 ай бұрын

    You should be working ​@@andrewmann4067

  • @nunolopes8926
    @nunolopes89264 күн бұрын

    I was almost 48 hours strong and i smoked like the smallest mfucking joint , hi felt like shiiiiiii... at the same time it was great! I woke up today feeling like shit , huge headache and shame but it got me to the point of understanding how it made me fell

  • @predslayz1211
    @predslayz12116 ай бұрын

    This is where I’m stuck right now in the relapse cycle I’ve quit before for like 3 months but during the summer I hanged out with some friends and they had a join and got right back on it. I wish I just stayed clean

  • @predslayz1211

    @predslayz1211

    6 ай бұрын

    It’s harder for skinny people to quit weed because when you do you can’t eat and when u can’t eat you lose even more weight and it just takes all your confidence away. I feel like I’m in the worst situation possible but I’m on day 2 now no weed again, this time I’ve prayed tho and hopefully god can give me the strength to see it through.

  • @luswish
    @luswish5 ай бұрын

    I always say this is my last joint. And then i smoke more…pathetic😢

  • @bensuperville3700

    @bensuperville3700

    3 ай бұрын

    Dont be so hard on yourself just be serious when you say you want too quit

  • @FoxyAussie2
    @FoxyAussie26 ай бұрын

    3 weeks + 1, or 22 days, or 528 Hours (One month is right around the corner 🙏🏻)

  • @tommy-sp9vt

    @tommy-sp9vt

    5 ай бұрын

  • @Meditationmusic-wf9xi
    @Meditationmusic-wf9xi6 ай бұрын

    I found you in the perfect day.

  • @mikelarry19489
    @mikelarry194896 ай бұрын

    I guess my question is I’m 20 years in addiction with pot- joints with tobacco I am going to try delayed satisfaction but sabotage is what I’ve learned I used to do Love you dr

  • @reganjacklin
    @reganjacklin6 ай бұрын

    Hey Doc, I'd love a video on healthy ways to manage boredom. In this case, I'm talking non-productive things. I can only exercise, read, write, etc so much in a day before my brain is fried but this leaves a good few hours in the day that I'm struggling to fill.

  • @BARF_FACE_9000

    @BARF_FACE_9000

    6 ай бұрын

    Hey regan, this is an older video but may cover some of what you are asking about: kzread.info/dash/bejne/jH6awayTmLGuorQ.htmlsi=_bshImahOl0yZPy9 good luck with quitting!

  • @sonnetspring

    @sonnetspring

    5 ай бұрын

    Cooking, going for walks, watching a movie or documentary, taking a bath or sitting in a hot tub, laying in a hammock

  • @brad8665

    @brad8665

    3 ай бұрын

    You don’t have a job???

  • @skydweller2049
    @skydweller20492 ай бұрын

    does anyone else hate how accurate he is lol. its like bro! and you just start laughing

  • @nikkihorvath3515
    @nikkihorvath35156 ай бұрын

    Real helper 😊

  • @Adam-ey4iv
    @Adam-ey4iv4 ай бұрын

    On day 8 weed free! Getting cravings every day but fighting through it

  • @AddictionMindset

    @AddictionMindset

    4 ай бұрын

    Happy to have you here 8 days in!

  • @eduardgi7780
    @eduardgi77806 ай бұрын

    Any information on quitting multiple vices at once? it becomes so much harder when you try to quit Nicotine and Weed at the same time

  • @AfroEuc

    @AfroEuc

    6 ай бұрын

    Ive managed to pull of Alcohol and Nic. Its the weed pen 🖊️ that stills the challenge because my brain says if you let go of all 3 Then what... I need a Then what. and i cant find that yet 😢

  • @sir_cbd_ph
    @sir_cbd_ph6 ай бұрын

    Been smoking sinse 11 im 17 now 2 days sobar. This shit is living vivd hell

  • @americanpatriot6484
    @americanpatriot64846 ай бұрын

    I've been trying for six months to quit smoking cigarettes. Last week, I did the one thing, by accident, that had convinced me to quit for good. I dropped my cigarette on the floor. Not wanting to waste a cigarette, and also not wanting to put a germy cigarette in my mouth, I cut a two inch by two inch piece from a paper towel and used that to protect my mouth as I took hits. I took a different hit on each part of the paper towel. When I was done, I was absolutely shocked at the deep brown spots that were all over. The cigarette filter, while obviously not white afterward, looked much more yellow than any form of brown. I suggest if you smoke cigarettes that you try this if you really want to see the truth of what you are inhaling.

  • @freshskittles92

    @freshskittles92

    6 ай бұрын

    i went from ciggies to vaping and finally was able to stop vaping by using zyn pouches for a few weeks to wean myself off the nicotine but holy fuck quitting weed has been so hard lmao

  • @WheelieOutlaw

    @WheelieOutlaw

    6 ай бұрын

    @@freshskittles92in the same boat as you man, never smoked ciggs but vaped and smoked. I quit vapping but man weed is definitely the hardest for me to quit.

  • @JAXFIT
    @JAXFIT6 ай бұрын

    What age did you let go of Mary Jane doc?

  • @justinb3846
    @justinb38465 ай бұрын

    Today I visited my mothers grave and promised her to stop smoking weed! Think this is the best way to stop. Ill give an update in a couple off weeks

  • @fmone7878

    @fmone7878

    5 ай бұрын

    You got this man

  • @justinb3846

    @justinb3846

    4 ай бұрын

    @Thomas.Patrick.Pearl. for me now nine days and also got cravings. What helps for me is not only stay home and got things to do. So I have less time to think about smoking

  • @user-gc9nw9fp3g

    @user-gc9nw9fp3g

    3 ай бұрын

    Best of luck to you bro, if you are still strong then well done, if you have relapsed like me after 1 month, then we'll done for trying, never give up bro

  • @fmone7878

    @fmone7878

    3 ай бұрын

    @user-gc9nw9fp3g I quit it after being on and off for a long time it made me really bipolar and sickly when I wasn't smoking going to gym and church helped so much

  • @LisaW509
    @LisaW50913 күн бұрын

    It’s humiliating for me to admit this, but using w33d for years to help with nausea caused by a chronic illness led to me being dependent on it. It also eventually led to me getting Cannabinoid Hyperemesis Syndrome from overuse. Has that stopped me? Not exactly. I’ll tell myself that I’m only going to do it once and then get rid of it. That doesn’t happen, either. Why am I admitting to this on here? I don’t know. Maybe somebody else out there who doesn’t believe that you can get hooked on something stupid like w33d will recognize what I’m talking about and cut back or stop completely before it’s too late. 🙃

  • @donnapecoraro6859
    @donnapecoraro68593 ай бұрын

    I have multiple sclerosis and when I don't smoke weed, it acts up.

  • @brad8665

    @brad8665

    3 ай бұрын

    Maybe try CBD with no THC? Non psychoactive so you in theory don’t get high. Never tried it

  • @donnapecoraro6859

    @donnapecoraro6859

    3 ай бұрын

    @@brad8665 The THC relaxes my spine and all my back muscles. I have m.s. I've tried other products and they don't work. But, thanks

  • @donnapecoraro6859

    @donnapecoraro6859

    3 ай бұрын

    Also the CBD is great for inflammation

  • @karenrestivo1231
    @karenrestivo12312 ай бұрын

    Marijuana anonymous saved my life!

  • @loontil
    @loontilАй бұрын

    OK youth pastor not everyone smashes or abuses pot or has a negative, deleterious relationship to it just like a couple of drinks can be a social lubricant and foster feisty, funny banter not everyone's a swivel-eyed, Keith Moon-esque entire bottle of vodka-smasher

  • @redboar
    @redboarАй бұрын

    I'm going to start attending Marijuana anonymous. Your information is very helpful, thanks so much!

  • @freddiemartinez1933
    @freddiemartinez19333 ай бұрын

    Weed has altered my mind so bad il never get back..im terribly psychotic and im not being able to hold a job anymore..im in big trouble and not one person gets intouch with me..

  • @concrete981
    @concrete9814 ай бұрын

    I have seen the light! Thanks to you Dr frank.

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