Tony Gaskins Calls "Fake Relationship Coaches" Out By Name And It Got Heated

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  • @Priority_Love
    @Priority_Love7 ай бұрын

    Tony basically says - you can’t lead nobody where you never been !

  • @Chosenaire

    @Chosenaire

    7 ай бұрын

    Periodt! Can’t be a dentist with all your teeth missing.

  • @Micahsophia

    @Micahsophia

    7 ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @Bri-nc8yp

    @Bri-nc8yp

    7 ай бұрын

    Ace is his competitor. If this was Wall Street/Finance They both are going after the same market. Black single women! They both want to corner the same market. When you own the market you set the price and can shape the market how you want it to look. It’s a business strategy nothing more coming from Tony Gaskins.

  • @dahliaherrod4301

    @dahliaherrod4301

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Bri-nc8yp As consumers, which option would you rather invest your resources in? Based on your desires, is Tony or Ace a better fit for you?

  • @Tashamacktv

    @Tashamacktv

    7 ай бұрын

    @@dahliaherrod4301 Tony, because his advice can help bring forth tangible and intangible fruit in the lives of many youth adult and people period!!

  • @InnerBeautyTVbyNicoleMichelle
    @InnerBeautyTVbyNicoleMichelle7 ай бұрын

    🌺Tony Gaskins is the only male relationship guru I endorse. He has been consistent, lives what he preaches, is a man of God and is actually married. He’s scandal free. The rest of these clowns are hustling. Period. Great video ❤️

  • @dontme4132

    @dontme4132

    7 ай бұрын

    I think RC Blakes is at the same level as Tony (if not better)

  • @faithwalk.

    @faithwalk.

    7 ай бұрын

    I love listening to Tony and RC Blakes in regards to relationships because they both stand on the word of God, share authenticly about their personal lives and past experiences.

  • @faithwalk.

    @faithwalk.

    7 ай бұрын

    ​​@@dontme4132RC been in the game longer. He is definetly seasoned with wisdom. Tony has been flourishing in the word of God and its very apparent. Love them both.

  • @kimc5390

    @kimc5390

    7 ай бұрын

    I would highly endorse Shumake as well!!

  • @sjtalksandlife

    @sjtalksandlife

    7 ай бұрын

    I like Tony Gaskins and RC Blake's as well.

  • @Trailblazers323
    @Trailblazers3237 ай бұрын

    Men need to check other men waaayyy more

  • @hn8032

    @hn8032

    7 ай бұрын

    THISSSS

  • @jneve2340

    @jneve2340

    7 ай бұрын

    Preach! say it again for the people in the back!

  • @ellehajj5137

    @ellehajj5137

    7 ай бұрын

    Agreed! I think that's one of the reasons TG stands out from the rest of these imposters. Everybody with a mike and an audience feel like they have the platform to speak.

  • @dontme4132

    @dontme4132

    4 ай бұрын

    Yep!

  • @dejanae7336

    @dejanae7336

    2 ай бұрын

    I agree. It feels great when other men check other men.

  • @KeyisGodsdaughter
    @KeyisGodsdaughter7 ай бұрын

    Tony is legit to me. One of the few men that calls men out and whether people like it or not, he’s a man and he knows men.

  • @tamyrah9124

    @tamyrah9124

    7 ай бұрын

    I agree he’s been consistent since I first came across him 10 years ago on IG. He was just starting his coaching & he has been an upstanding guy. No scandals, no lies. He’s the truth. 💯

  • @kingjay1524

    @kingjay1524

    7 ай бұрын

    Hmmm just like KS, however he didn’t pander to neither and gave hard shots for both.

  • @filmadcamp1512

    @filmadcamp1512

    7 ай бұрын

    @@kingjay1524 Kevin Samuels ain't in this conversation and he definitely pandered to black men. That's why most haven't matured and will die lonely and alone because he has made them feel superior but hasn't really given them the tools to be superior because he didn't have them himself.

  • @cocoblessings

    @cocoblessings

    7 ай бұрын

    ⁠@@kingjay1524 Nah! Kevin was not a righteous man & he pandered to disgruntled men at the expense of chiding “wayward women” under the guise of helping people all for money & fame. His intentions were malevolent, not benign.

  • @danilaroche1156

    @danilaroche1156

    7 ай бұрын

    Tony is great. Shumake is phenomenal! I don't date. I used to but it got me nowhere. If a man likes me, has feelings and vice versa? We court to marry. No more lollygaging and definitely no premarital sex.

  • @joycenash8271
    @joycenash82717 ай бұрын

    If I don't hear nothing else, the brother said "relationships ain't the most important thing in life, eternal life is." You do not know how much that freed me up even the more being a single. Thank you

  • @jakblk

    @jakblk

    7 ай бұрын

    If being "freed up" means not doing EVERYTHING you can do to find your significant other, then it's just bad advice. Don't let ego or fear get the best of you, the person you marry is the MOST important decision you'll make in your life because it's the building blocks of your family, and you'll spend more years with this person than you spent with your parents and that you'll spend with your own children. Treat finding your future spouse with the reverence it deserves.

  • @JEPiper

    @JEPiper

    7 ай бұрын

    @@jakblkyou completely missed the point, but okay.

  • @jakblk

    @jakblk

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@JEPiperWhat did I miss?

  • @joycenash8271

    @joycenash8271

    7 ай бұрын

    You do not understand my point, but I do. I just did not go into expounding my heart. I hear your comment, but it is not near what I am saying.@@jakblk

  • @uceemeforeal8185

    @uceemeforeal8185

    7 ай бұрын

    Singleness is a gift that allows us to focus on our connection with self and God. He nevere COMANDED us to find partners. He said if we are to be sexual then we need to get married. @@jakblk

  • @cynthiajackson2580
    @cynthiajackson25807 ай бұрын

    A carnal mind cannot comprehend the things of God..... It is foolishness and offensive to them ...

  • @mizrelmizrel

    @mizrelmizrel

    7 ай бұрын

    🎯🙌🏾

  • @zmatthew91

    @zmatthew91

    7 ай бұрын

    Exactly. Bible says don't cast your pearls to swine. Not calling names, but just saying that people who are not in the Word are not going to understand. Your only going to cause yourself a headache.

  • @ChelleyD19

    @ChelleyD19

    7 ай бұрын

    You said a mouthful 💖

  • @karentulloss9741

    @karentulloss9741

    7 ай бұрын

    Amen!!!!

  • @faithwalk.

    @faithwalk.

    7 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @genesismakeup
    @genesismakeup7 ай бұрын

    I'm happy to see the men calling out the men. Good job to the men with real sense.

  • @kendramonroe5666

    @kendramonroe5666

    7 ай бұрын

    Yes finally!!!

  • @cedricbethea358

    @cedricbethea358

    7 ай бұрын

    Now it's time women do the same because the sisterhood is very destructive to society.

  • @cocoblessings

    @cocoblessings

    7 ай бұрын

    It's refreshing to see! Men are quick to tell women to hold one another accountable but rarely do so themselves. I highly respect men who practice what they preach and stand by their principles & morals.

  • @theoracle2760

    @theoracle2760

    7 ай бұрын

    Men have always held men accountable. It's the women who have been running amuck for decades without any accountability. Now that men have started speaking on women's behavior suddenly women are upset and acting like men haven't been "calling out men" even though women have had no issue telling men what they think men should be doing for decades.

  • @jinxsam8395

    @jinxsam8395

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@cocoblessingsYou're clearly high on some good stuff. The military, the buildings, the sewage systems, the garbage collectors and everything that keeps society running. If men didn’t hold each other accountabable, nothing will function. The average man who isn’t a TV personality or celebrity needs a shit tonne of accountability. But women on the other hand have the incentive to live in their own reality because men have already done the heavy lifting of creating and maintaining the infrastructure, You don’t have to have precision or accountability because you'll always be bailed out by government, other woman or a man. A man without accountability will fall and lose everything, society will not have mercy on him.

  • @lm8544
    @lm85447 ай бұрын

    That "I'm 35...we do things a little differently" was so cringy. He said 35 like he is 20....and right, 35 and 39 year olds were in high school at the same time 🤣

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez83617 ай бұрын

    Redpill is about Concubines, NOT wives.

  • @stepfaniehawkins205

    @stepfaniehawkins205

    2 ай бұрын

    And child brides

  • @genovasquez8361

    @genovasquez8361

    2 ай бұрын

    @@stepfaniehawkins205 that's not in America may be certain parts of Africa.

  • @Newfoundspirit2-9

    @Newfoundspirit2-9

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@genovasquez8361Enough with the Nerd shit. You ain't schooling nobody

  • @genovasquez8361

    @genovasquez8361

    2 ай бұрын

    @@Newfoundspirit2-9 you gonna learn today

  • @shaniceshanice8735
    @shaniceshanice87357 ай бұрын

    Ace is triggered because Tony is on point with his message.

  • @Itslewieo

    @Itslewieo

    7 ай бұрын

    Ace is always triggered tho, just watch videos

  • @hellothere8347
    @hellothere83477 ай бұрын

    Ace feeds the Ego. Tony feeds the spirit. Tony is not making his own assumptions it’s coming straight from the Bible….. Ace was playing in Tony face but Tony handled that like a man! I love me some Tony Gaskins

  • @jennifersnelling1265

    @jennifersnelling1265

    7 ай бұрын

    Ace had surface-level advice; Tony gives sensible advice!

  • @Bri-nc8yp

    @Bri-nc8yp

    7 ай бұрын

    Calm down: only God feeds the spirit. In all things give thanks to God not man.

  • @preciousbright6537

    @preciousbright6537

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Bri-nc8ypUh it’s called implied reasoning…😂

  • @catesj15

    @catesj15

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Bri-nc8yphe’s a man and a messenger of God…

  • @hellothere8347

    @hellothere8347

    7 ай бұрын

    duh God is using Tony. @@Bri-nc8yp

  • @user-vn3zf4ct9v
    @user-vn3zf4ct9v7 ай бұрын

    Tony Gaskins the truth. Point, Blank, Period!!!!

  • @nellymam3710

    @nellymam3710

    7 ай бұрын

    1 Corinthians 7.34 (KJV) 34There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.

  • @donnafreeman1571

    @donnafreeman1571

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@nellymam3710I'm so sorry but ?

  • @nellymam3710

    @nellymam3710

    7 ай бұрын

    Sorry didn't know where to put the verse sorry

  • @sweetolives2467

    @sweetolives2467

    7 ай бұрын

    Point blank.

  • @geisha7450

    @geisha7450

    7 ай бұрын

    Per -eeee-odddd as he would say 😂

  • @zoejaiattoh1243
    @zoejaiattoh12437 ай бұрын

    We need more men like Tony, RC and you , and break all these generational curses . I appreciate Tony for calling out his brothers and holding them accountable.

  • @qay7586

    @qay7586

    7 ай бұрын

    RC is such a great man!

  • @soroyale7805

    @soroyale7805

    7 ай бұрын

    Love listening to RC Blakes.

  • @crystalssbsnrn9673

    @crystalssbsnrn9673

    7 ай бұрын

    @@soroyale7805RC BLAKES is the entire RELATIONSHIP / JESUS OG AND I LOVE HE DONT PLAY AND LIE ABOUT THINGS EVEN HIMSELF

  • @soroyale7805

    @soroyale7805

    7 ай бұрын

    @@crystalssbsnrn9673 He sure doesn't play, but he delivers it so well and not harsh. I love the theme song as well.

  • @missaliciaxxxx

    @missaliciaxxxx

    7 ай бұрын

    I love RC Blakes!

  • @Martini829
    @Martini8297 ай бұрын

    I’m doing it God’s way completely. My fiancé and I are waiting til marriage. We’re getting married next year. All I hear ppl say is you don’t know what he’s doing.. you don’t know where he’s at all day everyday. We dated on the intention to be married. I have to keep telling myself mentally, worldly people will never understand doing it like it’s says in the Bible. The narrow road is really hard for most ppl. It’s not easy but it’s the most peace you can ever feel living in this world.

  • @mrs.evelynkerr8799

    @mrs.evelynkerr8799

    7 ай бұрын

    Keep up the good work. God is going to bless your marriage and household at the same time.🎉❤

  • @Martini829

    @Martini829

    7 ай бұрын

    @@mrs.evelynkerr8799 thank you❤️

  • @sunniimae552

    @sunniimae552

    7 ай бұрын

    @@mrs.evelynkerr8799yes He Will because God loves marriage, it is a covenant between man, woman and Himself 💕📖♾️

  • @conniepinkston5951

    @conniepinkston5951

    7 ай бұрын

    ❤❤ that's beautiful I kind of wish me and my fiance actually waited

  • @susiedavidson189

    @susiedavidson189

    7 ай бұрын

    ​​@@Martini829 great work. May God bless your union.

  • @lro001
    @lro0017 ай бұрын

    Honestly Shumake, in today’s society, most of the people dating are doing it for the wrong reasons….and wrong reasons give you wrong results.

  • @OrganicallyYahs

    @OrganicallyYahs

    7 ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @francisikwueme1688

    @francisikwueme1688

    7 ай бұрын

    Pure facts you get out what you put in

  • @MariahxMariahh

    @MariahxMariahh

    7 ай бұрын

    💯💯💯

  • @patricebrown777

    @patricebrown777

    7 ай бұрын

    💯 👍🏽

  • @Its_tiy

    @Its_tiy

    7 ай бұрын

    Amen! Exactly that lol

  • @atonoflove992
    @atonoflove9927 ай бұрын

    We MUST be Born-Again! No relationship will be Healthy until we have an intimate relationship with the Creator!

  • @Always_Meeka
    @Always_Meeka7 ай бұрын

    I love Tony! He’s the most mature and consistent relationship coach. I appreciate people who stick to the word, and walk the walk and talk the talk.

  • @taxcitybagtalk

    @taxcitybagtalk

    7 ай бұрын

    And he's been doing this for YEARSSS before all these new social media sensations 💯💯

  • @cocoblessings

    @cocoblessings

    7 ай бұрын

    Yep!

  • @growinwoman2290
    @growinwoman22907 ай бұрын

    They’re close to the same age but Tony’s wisdom made Ace look like a little boy.

  • @piscespisces6

    @piscespisces6

    7 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @TrishC5280

    @TrishC5280

    7 ай бұрын

    Facts!

  • @your.beautiful.mind.now.
    @your.beautiful.mind.now.7 ай бұрын

    The problem I see is that people are pretending that HEALTHY relationships do not have a specific formula. They don't take money advice on how to maintain being a billionaire from someone that is homeless and financially irresponsible. They respect that there is a formula that works for money, but refusing to do things God's way within the formula that He gave us. Tony is correct.

  • @kellihullaby775

    @kellihullaby775

    7 ай бұрын

    Great analogy.

  • @MultiMimi234

    @MultiMimi234

    7 ай бұрын

    SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK. Baby if it applies to one thing it applies to everything and people refuse to see life that way.

  • @PrintsInTheSoil

    @PrintsInTheSoil

    7 ай бұрын

    THIS!

  • @aselyne5631

    @aselyne5631

    7 ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @ZawadiBirya

    @ZawadiBirya

    7 ай бұрын

    I wish I could like this comment 50 times.

  • @Restyoursoul287
    @Restyoursoul2877 ай бұрын

    Ace is not grounded in anything. Hence, he is rejecting God’s way.

  • @mjohnson8206

    @mjohnson8206

    7 ай бұрын

    Right he was redpill before he became so called for BW. He switched up according Tanya TKO who xposed him about this

  • @tammiedixon6788

    @tammiedixon6788

    7 ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @Bri-nc8yp

    @Bri-nc8yp

    7 ай бұрын

    @@mjohnson8206really?

  • @LiciaTravels

    @LiciaTravels

    7 ай бұрын

    His spirit was so upset with the truth, I could sense his aggravation, I hope he discovers the truth & his actually purpose

  • @mjohnson8206

    @mjohnson8206

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Bri-nc8yp yes look up her channel it was a while back. I used to follow him until I saw the stuff he was saying online that Tanya posted on her channel. Kevin Samuels did the same thing he used to help BM and he wasn’t getting any attention until he started bashing BW. She posted a video of him saying he prefers women their forties because they know what they want and are more established mentality and financially and they still have the looks etc

  • @lkpeace911
    @lkpeace9117 ай бұрын

    If you have Christians and non-Christians, having the same conversation, it’s not gonna be the same. You’re not gonna be on the same page.

  • @soroyale7805

    @soroyale7805

    7 ай бұрын

    That part! Waste of conversation and time at this point.

  • @blacksongbird100

    @blacksongbird100

    7 ай бұрын

    Exactly. The strange thing is that at one point Ace started talking a lot about the Bible. Just don't know what peoples angles are or where they are coming from sometimes.

  • @MrsBrittanyGold
    @MrsBrittanyGold7 ай бұрын

    To be fair, Ace does give women good advice about not dating men who do not treat them right and he empowers women to not entertain low level men. So I don’t think its 100% fair to say a single person can’t offer good dating advice. Before I got married, I gave good advice and now that I’m married, I’ve elevated the advice to marriage to better the black community. I get what Tony’s saying but not all his content is centered around sex or sleeping around but helping women make better choices. Always on point Shumake 🙏🏽 so I definitely get your point for sure.

  • @JEPiper

    @JEPiper

    7 ай бұрын

    Derrick Jackson gave “good advice” too. It’s one thing to give advice, but another to give advice while not even believing it yourself.

  • @curlygirl9023

    @curlygirl9023

    7 ай бұрын

    He’s giving advice because this is who he is….

  • @tammiedixon6788

    @tammiedixon6788

    7 ай бұрын

    He has one foot in and one foot out so that makes him wrong

  • @iam.foreverblessed

    @iam.foreverblessed

    7 ай бұрын

    I get what you’re saying but Tony’s point was that if you listen to someone who gives great advice today on “red flags” in men etc and then tomorrow he’s making it seem like it’s ok to indulge in sex before marriage etc, it’s giving mixed messages and you will eventually end up confused

  • @ShandaP018

    @ShandaP018

    7 ай бұрын

    Ace is saying what every woman wants. He should have someone by now if he has been intentional about marriage as he agreed.

  • @jessicascreenwritingservices
    @jessicascreenwritingservices7 ай бұрын

    Tony Gaskins was doing relationship coaching before it was popular. He’s the real deal. Glad he’s calling out these fakes and phonies.

  • @joycenash8271
    @joycenash82717 ай бұрын

    Be honest, Ace needs to give his life to Christ. He make himself sound like he knows Him, but he denies Him in actions and truth.

  • @Tee-Star

    @Tee-Star

    7 ай бұрын

    U do know Christianity is only one of hundreds of religions, right? You do know to a non Christian, you are pegan, right?

  • @joycenash8271

    @joycenash8271

    7 ай бұрын

    I don't argue or have to defend. And I don't.@@Tee-Star

  • @dannyphantom3090

    @dannyphantom3090

    7 ай бұрын

    Yeah I was picking up on that too I'm nowhere near perfect but its like he knows God but sees his ways as outdated

  • @lifeventures6651

    @lifeventures6651

    7 ай бұрын

    @@dannyphantom3090Bingo.

  • @missmarya747

    @missmarya747

    7 ай бұрын

    Exactly the Bible speaks exactly on that honor me with you lip, but deny me with your heart Matthew 15:8.

  • @redeemed1352
    @redeemed13527 ай бұрын

    Tony Gaskins is a real one.

  • @CheriCiara
    @CheriCiara7 ай бұрын

    Tony the truth I been rocking with him for years the devil tryna attack him because he tryna live right an do right an tell the truth ima forever support Tony he real 💯

  • @janiceparkerson4727
    @janiceparkerson47277 ай бұрын

    Way to go Tony. Keep speaking what God loves. THE TRUTH.

  • @Key-Key444
    @Key-Key4447 ай бұрын

    Tony is the G.o.a.t. for this one. I started watching Tony when Covid hit in 2019 and he literally gave me the gems I needed to finally realize, I was in an almost 11 year, toxic relationship with a literal, ‘grown-boy’. One of (if not THEE most) toxic/abusive situations I have ever been in, but I was being lied to and gaslit to the point I thought “I” was insane. Thank you Tony. God bless❤

  • @RahYisrael99

    @RahYisrael99

    7 ай бұрын

    11 years is a long time. I'm glad you made it out alive.

  • @NoPickmeishasAllowed

    @NoPickmeishasAllowed

    7 ай бұрын

    super proud of u

  • @Key-Key444

    @Key-Key444

    7 ай бұрын

    @@NoPickmeishasAllowed ❤️

  • @gwendolyn79

    @gwendolyn79

    7 ай бұрын

    It’s the worst feeling once the fog clears and you see the relationship for what it was. A lot of times you don’t realize how abusive it was until you’re out. Especially if you’ve experienced that emotional abuse before from like a parent. Tony is definitely a breath of fresh air in such a manipulative and toxic world.

  • @Key-Key444

    @Key-Key444

    7 ай бұрын

    @@gwendolyn79 like for real. & there’s no one around (men) to tell you the truth about men and the women are most likely going through their own form of abuse or worse. Like it takes a KZread video to finally realize. Tony is definitely helping.

  • @HelloThere12341
    @HelloThere123417 ай бұрын

    Damn I actually follow Ace on TikTok and this video open my eyes to how confused his thought process is. He does give good advice on what to look out for as a woman in men but at his core his view on relationship is warped and not rooted in purpose. Whether Christian or not morals doesn’t change its timeless.

  • @hellothere8347

    @hellothere8347

    7 ай бұрын

    Same like it’s actually confusing when you really think about it I had to unsubscribe from him because Tony is right it’s like the blind leading the blind.

  • @Jo-ck2hu

    @Jo-ck2hu

    7 ай бұрын

    He's in it for the platform and money not a real care for changes

  • @zerogravity4008

    @zerogravity4008

    7 ай бұрын

    He’s too emotional which means he’s unstable emotionally and there is no peace. God isn’t the author of any confusion. A torn soul…. You can compare the two souls. One is more at peace than the other. Body language etc.

  • @CurvyKeto

    @CurvyKeto

    7 ай бұрын

    He is about money which is why he tried to do a relationship tour with Derek Jackson and Tony Gaskin turn that tour down because he felt some of the men didnt practice what they preach and all Ace cared about was the money

  • @bfisherful

    @bfisherful

    7 ай бұрын

    YESSSSSS!!!! It's been warped! We women have to use discernment and gear more toward listening to men and women with standards, character and Godliness. Ace is prideful, egotistical, worldy and narcissistic. He is extremely aggressive and lacks substance. He profits off women but I don't believe he really LIKES women. Fake coach and fast talker🚩 He can't hold up to Tony with substance and family values and character.

  • @richelletvforyou8324
    @richelletvforyou83247 ай бұрын

    Married people of the faith constantly say marriage is uniquely attacked by the enemy. On marrying a nonbeliever Jackie Hill Perry says "marriage is hard...I don't want to construct a hard God hasn't called me to."🔥 Single people especially carnal just can't tell you about that.

  • @kilimanjaro5537

    @kilimanjaro5537

    7 ай бұрын

    Amen!! And Ik exactly which video you’re referring to! Know for sure podcast episode with Jackie Hill Perry.

  • @kyleeharper639
    @kyleeharper6397 ай бұрын

    Name a culture outside of western culture that does not respect marriage. Ace sounds ridiculous 😢

  • @chayo4537

    @chayo4537

    7 ай бұрын

    What is western culture?

  • @arleneaugustahair8393

    @arleneaugustahair8393

    7 ай бұрын

    @@chayo4537basically American culture. To be more specific mostly Black American culture.

  • @cocoblessings

    @cocoblessings

    7 ай бұрын

    @@chayo4537 Western culture (Western civilization or lifestyle) is equated to European civilization. It's a term used very broadly to refer to a heritage of social norms, ethical values, traditional customs, belief systems, political systems, & specific artifacts as well as technologies that have some origin or association with Europe.

  • @phylis5264

    @phylis5264

    7 ай бұрын

    Well an example of western culture not valuing marriage is Sweden. I live lived there for years and alot of people here don't think marriage is important, and they're living together as partners, in Swedish called "Sambo" and a lot of times have children together. They do everything together without getting married, only a few of them want to get married

  • @cocoblessings

    @cocoblessings

    7 ай бұрын

    There are no cultures outside of Western culture that I can think of that doesn't revere marriage. Unfortunately, Western culture & thought are encroaching upon non-Western cultures which IMO will inherently dismantle those traditional cultures.

  • @tisha812
    @tisha8127 ай бұрын

    If the point of dating is to meet your “person” and get married I don’t want advice from someone who is only dating. I want advice from someone who has been SUCCESSFUL at it. Show me how you were dating AND THEN got married.

  • @glendanesmith
    @glendanesmith7 ай бұрын

    Tony is just simply speaking the truth! Any one who is carnal minded will disagree and that’s fine just do it #respectfully #blessedtribe🙏

  • @bfisherful

    @bfisherful

    7 ай бұрын

    🎯

  • @Dyicefulbeauty
    @Dyicefulbeauty4 ай бұрын

    People so worried about generational cycle of poverty when they should be worried about generational cycle of sin.

  • @JMarie-th8xe

    @JMarie-th8xe

    15 күн бұрын

    Great point!

  • @HAWXTER12
    @HAWXTER127 ай бұрын

    That guy is taking it way too personally, and getting all sassy and emotional. Way to go Tony, you the man for holding it down.

  • @SpanishBarbieWorld
    @SpanishBarbieWorld7 ай бұрын

    “Live in your truth” IS WHATS MAKING THE WORLD SICK. Times were better when we were United by the same foundation of morals & values

  • @CheriCiara
    @CheriCiara7 ай бұрын

    God working Thru Tony Gaskins , his voice really need to be heard an ppl gone attack him , anything going against him ion feel they believe in god , Tony telling the truth ion care about how he said sum

  • @Amandy36
    @Amandy367 ай бұрын

    "There is money being made, but no progress being made". FACTS! Most of these dating podcast people don't even live the lives they are speaking on. They are just saying whatever is sensational enough to get them the most views.

  • @pentecostalbeauty5071
    @pentecostalbeauty50717 ай бұрын

    The Bible tells us we should strive for wisdom. It covers many aspects of our life especially relationships.

  • @lissa2046
    @lissa20467 ай бұрын

    I cant believe how dumb we are getting as a society

  • @zoozagt5

    @zoozagt5

    7 ай бұрын

    I can believe it. Listen to the music

  • @90ejb

    @90ejb

    6 ай бұрын

    We stop holding each other responsible and we as a society stopped trying. Left our standards with God for worldy foolishness.

  • @monicaDD
    @monicaDD7 ай бұрын

    I watch you and Tony because of your beliefs and you’re clear about your dedication to your wife and family. I still think about one of your videos that you had to hold your newborn the whole time and still got your message across

  • @indea7

    @indea7

    7 ай бұрын

    Yes! They are the only male voices I listen to as well, along with RC Blakes.. a true representation of integrity 🙏🏾

  • @OPDNETWORK

    @OPDNETWORK

    7 ай бұрын

    You motivating me how tony motivated you. Keep up good work

  • @MrsRens-LionessofJudah

    @MrsRens-LionessofJudah

    7 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @MercyMysteryMusic
    @MercyMysteryMusic7 ай бұрын

    Tony is 100% right. Dating coaches that are not married should not exist. The reason why is because dating coaches that are single and dating only want to talk about how to maintain yourself while you were dating. If dating is 100% for marriage then dating coaches who are dating are not coming from a Perspective of the goal being marriage. They may say that but all they can come from is a perspective of maintaining yourself while you’re dating. I’m not saying that they aren’t giving some good advice, but they are not giving advice that will lead to marriage, which is the entire point of dating.

  • @Peaceoverhere

    @Peaceoverhere

    7 ай бұрын

    I disagree, how do you know that these dating coaches don't want to be married? I watch Tony's videos and it seems like he has a problem with men that are married and say they are coping him and he constantly says he was the first relationship coach as if they shouldn't be coaches? It's 2023 and there are a lot of relationship coaches men, women, married and single. I like Tony, but he's not the only coach. It's like he's has in his head he's the be all do all, and everyone else is trash. Whether married or single.

  • @giselo06

    @giselo06

    7 ай бұрын

    14:45 there is a point to be made that not everyone has the same belief systems. I can understand using a platform to discuss your own beliefs but I think it is important to acknowledge that there may be resistance because people for many reasons live/think/worship differently and not all different is bad or of the devil. Also modeling good behavior is great but just you learned through your experiences … some will also learn and come closer to god through their experience

  • @Sunny-tc3ul

    @Sunny-tc3ul

    7 ай бұрын

    So Derrick Jaxn should have been giving advice? He was married… remember. Plus, Ace give advice to women to lo look out for these gaslighting, manipulating, grooming, aggressive men.

  • @Peaceoverhere

    @Peaceoverhere

    7 ай бұрын

    @Sunny-tc3ul This is why I decide who I'm going to listen to. I've been hearing for years that I shouldn't listen to a single person if I'm married and vise versa

  • @melaninmoxiellc963

    @melaninmoxiellc963

    7 ай бұрын

    I respectfully disagree. As a single person, one of the most important things to learn in preparation for marriage is to become a whole and healthy single person. There's tons of married couples who never learned this.

  • @apsalmsbeat
    @apsalmsbeat7 ай бұрын

    I actually find it a breath of fresh air men talking up more on morals, values, family etc and calling out other men about having purpose when it comes to relationships.Correction is not wrong..we need more of this ❤

  • @bfisherful

    @bfisherful

    7 ай бұрын

    Yes

  • @VentureOut___
    @VentureOut___7 ай бұрын

    You can tell the strength of a man's character by his reaction to a different opinion. I used to listen to ACE metaphor.... Money gets to people's head , and it shows. The loosen their morals, they will say whatever brings in the check. When you gotta bend your values for provision, it reflects your lack of trust on our Father. I pray for our world. There is so much push back on the Bible. Why do we have to see the world continually crumble apart on all levels; BEFORE we actually accept Yahweh?

  • @monae2ish
    @monae2ish5 ай бұрын

    “The Bible tells you how to live” absolutely spot on. People don’t realize this.

  • @Lightreign888
    @Lightreign8887 ай бұрын

    This dude is delusional. Yes there are various perspectives but one of the reasons as to why things aren’t working in the dating realm is because there are too many perspectives. We literally have the blueprint (the Bible) to help steer us in the right path and yet many CHOOSE to remain in chaos. Anyone not speaking on GOD and principles is the OPP and should NEVER be trusted. 😑

  • @naomibostonredd7695

    @naomibostonredd7695

    7 ай бұрын

    The Bible is not the only way.

  • @Itslewieo

    @Itslewieo

    7 ай бұрын

    Buddhism, Muslims, and many many other religions all have their own perspective, they all believe in God, which is right ?

  • @tinotenda7300

    @tinotenda7300

    7 ай бұрын

    @@ItslewieoThe God of the Bible because he is the ONLY True God🙏🏾

  • @hippiemama41

    @hippiemama41

    7 ай бұрын

    I'm not sure about that.

  • @Lightreign888

    @Lightreign888

    7 ай бұрын

    @@naomibostonredd7695 the Bible is our guiding 💡 and our God given gift of discernment, moral compass and intuition all plays in hand. Anything outside of that serves as a distraction and will lead you down a dark path of mental chaos.

  • @noirefit5954
    @noirefit59547 ай бұрын

    Shumake, Tony G (Uncle Tony), and RC Blake’s are the only relationship advice I will ever take. That’s all. The end

  • @Bri-nc8yp

    @Bri-nc8yp

    7 ай бұрын

    Tony comes off prideful with an inflated ego. For him to say RC Blake’s is “good” but HE (TG) has been doing this longer is the height of hubris. Plus he boasts in material possession of what his money buys in almost every video. In a lot of his videos he can’t go without mentioning that Cartier bracelet he bought his wife or that expensive vacation he just took. He sounds like one of those in the end times that will say “LORD LORD did we not prophesied in your name and do good works in your name” and God will say “DePART from Me I never knew you” I hope that doesn’t happen (I’m focused on my own salvation) but those are the vibes TG gives. And as far as this video goes it’s nothing more than a business strategy for TG. Ace is rising in popularity. His KZread shorts are very popular. They both target the same demographic of people. Black Women. Black women show their support with their WALLETS. Who can corner the market gets to sit at the top because they get the most traffic to their business. This translates to CASH. Who corners the market gets to also set the price. This has nothing to do with God or pointing people to God for TG . Its a business decision to smear his competitor ACE but TG mask it as wanting to lead BW to the promise land. 😂😂😂 I’m good at seeing BS in people.TG is BS same is Stephen Speaks and I always new Derrick Jackson was BS.

  • @Marebear-bt4rp

    @Marebear-bt4rp

    7 ай бұрын

    Ditto !!!!!

  • @dollhouseq1530

    @dollhouseq1530

    7 ай бұрын

    On the fence about RC...

  • @dii-N-sd

    @dii-N-sd

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@dollhouseq1530If u don't mind me asking, why are u on the fence about RC?

  • @dollhouseq1530

    @dollhouseq1530

    7 ай бұрын

    @@dii-N-sd His courtship with his wife. He strung her along for some years and only when she started to find happiness with another man of means did he decide to lock her down. The unselfish, loving, and Christian thing to do would have been to move on like he had already chosen

  • @jennifersnelling1265
    @jennifersnelling12657 ай бұрын

    Tony hit the nail on the head with the dynamics of "Tonight's Conversation!" The people in the audience, I imagine, usually scratch their heads subconsciously about half the fodder the panelists dish out! Also, I love how Tony is very reserved and calm in his responses while Ace is constantly unsettled, looking for a throw down! Ace is just mad that he got found out! Tony just confused the enemy!

  • @Keeks1983

    @Keeks1983

    7 ай бұрын

    I attended one of the live podcasts when they were in my city and I have pretty much stopped watching clips since. It felt impersonal and like a money grab. Not very mindful of the audience. The voice of reason on the stage was a married woman.

  • @latoniasmith7164
    @latoniasmith71647 ай бұрын

    I’ve been learning a lot about spirit spouses and how they attack relationships especially Christians. We open portals to these demons through sexual immorality like watching porn, fornication, etc. and we need deliverance from these evil spirits.

  • @Pickedpurposely

    @Pickedpurposely

    7 ай бұрын

    This is VERY true ! I am married and because of sexual sins from pre marital lifestyle is affecting our Godly marriage 4 years later! We are now having to be delivered from strong holds ..addictions and habits ! But God is good and using this season to break things off our bloodline 🙏🏾💕

  • @Its_tiy

    @Its_tiy

    7 ай бұрын

    💯💯💯💯

  • @BecomingZakah
    @BecomingZakah7 ай бұрын

    Tony definitely prevailed during this interview. The Holy Spirit is with him and Ace couldn’t handle it at all!

  • @yougotgamesonyourphone6947
    @yougotgamesonyourphone69477 ай бұрын

    “You getting a luh too much bass in your voice” I bet the man Tony is debating with is quick to call women emotional and argumentative.

  • @nik-at-nite

    @nik-at-nite

    7 ай бұрын

    Tbh he doesn’t. Ace isn’t red pill content. He has his solo channel and one with a panel of people that aren’t a monolith. The guy Shumake mentioned that would say that dumb stuff (and would get checked real quick) I haven’t seen him on there in a while.

  • @Bri-nc8yp

    @Bri-nc8yp

    7 ай бұрын

    Nope Ave never says that..he’s pro -women. He tells women to not sleep with men that wouldn’t want anything more than $ex. If you listen to ACE then you automatically gonna go celibate because 95% of men don’t date with intentions of marriage. If you take ACE advice you will realize that man that your sleeping with don’t have your best interest at heart. He doesn’t love you..he’s never gonna take you serious to make you a GF much less a wife so if you were smart you would end the relationship block him and delete his number and be okay with being single AKA celibate. He teaches it’s okay to be single and focused on personal goals.

  • @bre_s9164
    @bre_s91647 ай бұрын

    Shumake you said it best when you said God is not the author of confusion.

  • @lisha_acts
    @lisha_acts7 ай бұрын

    Tony ATE that up and left NO crumbs!!! You shall know a tree by the fruit that it bears!

  • @amminarose
    @amminarose7 ай бұрын

    I acquiesced to going with a friend to a Tonight’s Conversation in September due to being subjected to a gender war for 2+ hours. While I was impressed by the production and the large turnout, I ended up leaving during intermission. It was exactly what I was afraid it’d be, a gender war. There was some good points made, but like mentioned in the video there was no solution based content. Just a room full of people pointing fingers. I don’t believe you have to be married to give dating advice, however, there has to be some type of resolution and less sensationalism.

  • @annkelly6349

    @annkelly6349

    7 ай бұрын

    Glad to read your comment, their tour had a Miami stop and based off seeing clips of their show your experience is exactly how I thought it would be. No thanks

  • @cookiesandpie4837

    @cookiesandpie4837

    7 ай бұрын

    I went to the show in LA a few weeks ago, I wanted to walk out too. Stayed the whole show but won't be going back

  • @Keeks1983

    @Keeks1983

    7 ай бұрын

    Which show did you attend? I felt the same way about the DC show I attended.

  • @natashabrown41

    @natashabrown41

    7 ай бұрын

    I’m from Chicago and i barely got in lol 😂 5 minutes late cost us 40 minutes of the show smh they didn’t have enough seating for the crowd they anticipated smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ we had to sit in regular chairs because it was full to capacity so I was turned off bout time I got in there

  • @TwiFiveGirls101
    @TwiFiveGirls1017 ай бұрын

    Your closing statement was so good; the enemy devil does not want to see successful marriage because it will stop his plan to bring further societal breakdowns. I never heard of these men. But you are an honorable person so I'll check out this Tony guy. Thank you for the recommendation.

  • @nellymam3710

    @nellymam3710

    7 ай бұрын

    Tony Gaskon is good also spiritual man. Married solid man not male

  • @faithwalk.

    @faithwalk.

    7 ай бұрын

    I have been listening to Tony for years and its so beautiful to watch him mature in the word of God and unapologetically speak about the laws of the Bible. He is very funny as well and authentic.

  • @misguidedpearls7456

    @misguidedpearls7456

    7 ай бұрын

  • @oneandonly3139

    @oneandonly3139

    7 ай бұрын

    Don’t forget rc Blake

  • @nellymam3710

    @nellymam3710

    7 ай бұрын

    @@oneandonly3139 indeed you're right! Blessings

  • @MsE711
    @MsE7117 ай бұрын

    I saw this live and I felt like they ambushed him with Ace Metaphor

  • @nik-at-nite

    @nik-at-nite

    7 ай бұрын

    Well technically the hosts did ask TG if it was okay if Ace came on to defend himself and TG said yes. After all, when you call people out by name, you should expect nothing less than for them to answer. Especially if they’re both grown men. So I wouldn’t consider that to be an ambush.

  • @sasalight7409

    @sasalight7409

    7 ай бұрын

    YES THE DISCERNMENT OF THE HOLY GHOST TOLD ME THAT HARDLY INITIATED TYSEAN AND RAYAN SET UP TONY GASKINS PURPOSLY WITH ACE METAPHOR THATS WY TYSEAN AND RYAN WAS ENCOURAGING ACE TO DESRESPECT TONY BUT EVERYTIME TONY WANTED TO SPEAK UP TYSEAN AND RYAN WAS SHUTING TONY UP BUT THEY CLEARLY SET TONY UP BY PLANNING TO INVITE HIM TO THE SHOW AND WHEN I TOLD HARDLY INITIATED THEYVARE HYPOCRITES FOR DOING TONY THAT THEY BLOCKED ME IN THE COMMENT AND DECIDED TO UNSUSCRIBED FROM HARDLY INITIATED THE FACT THAT ACE LYED ON TONY AND HARDLY INITIATED SUPPORT ACE IN HIS WICKENDESS DISGUST ME

  • @filmadcamp1512

    @filmadcamp1512

    7 ай бұрын

    They didn't. You saw him smiling when he heard Ace was in the backroom. He wanted that.

  • @MarieAngel840

    @MarieAngel840

    7 ай бұрын

    Yup and their acting was terrible lol

  • @mssouthernlady222

    @mssouthernlady222

    7 ай бұрын

    Maybe I need to see the whole thing but it appeared Tony was doing a pretty good job. God plus one is a majority.

  • @susiedavidson189
    @susiedavidson1897 ай бұрын

    We live in a lustful world obsessed with sex and other ungodly pleasures. People want validation that what they are doing is okay but NO you're not getting that because it will never be okay, its immoral on every level including on a spiritual level. It puts bloodlines at risk of destruction and suffering. Tony did well. There's so many women and men even children that lose their lives, every year, people commit murder just for that short moment of ungodly pleasure. I'm not Christian, I'm of a different religion. I've been watching Tony since I was 21, I'm 25 now. If it wasn't for God, my elders including Tony and a few others I'd still feel lost regarding relationships. I'd have lost myself in a man that never cared for me, appreciating the little crumbs he gave me when he felt like it, hoping one day he'd see me. By the grace of God I'm still waiting and saving myself for marriage.

  • @marya3823

    @marya3823

    7 ай бұрын

    Jesus is The way.❤️

  • @ladiuneeq9789

    @ladiuneeq9789

    7 ай бұрын

    "Christian" is not religion though.

  • @montricec8795

    @montricec8795

    7 ай бұрын

    Now, this is the whole truth! You are so correct!

  • @beautyfulldrey
    @beautyfulldrey7 ай бұрын

    I would love to see a conversation from you and Tony. I am living proof that Tony is the real thing . He has help me getting closer to God and I was able to get married with his wisdoms ❤❤ #much love

  • @Bri-nc8yp

    @Bri-nc8yp

    7 ай бұрын

    You got married because that’s what God had for you. What God has for you no one can take from you. God wrote your life before time existed. This has nothing to do with TG.

  • @beautyfulldrey

    @beautyfulldrey

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Bri-nc8yp God uses people to bring them to him. If he didn’t have people how would the word have been spread since the beginning of time ? does it really matter on how I got to god but that I know god for myself now and from TONY being a obedient servant, he help me get to my lord and savior. I’m not sure what was purpose of you stating this to me but be blessed . Nothing wrong with being thankful for true disciples ( which the world lacks these day). Much love ❤️.

  • @AAA34FL448
    @AAA34FL4487 ай бұрын

    Shumake, TG and RC Blakes are the only 3 men I take seriously. The sole reason is because they live their life off of biblical principles and they're honest about their past and how they learned from it. Keep speaking truth 👏👏👏

  • @dawnssunrises6050

    @dawnssunrises6050

    7 ай бұрын

    Same here.

  • @iam.c.taylor5729

    @iam.c.taylor5729

    7 ай бұрын

    That part!!!

  • @cececierra5294

    @cececierra5294

    7 ай бұрын

    Seriously....I LOVE RC Blake's then I started listening TONY then I got introduced to Shumake. Like seriously y'all 3 really need to have a monthly round table discussion I would be glued to the screen👀🍿

  • @Arguewityamama
    @Arguewityamama7 ай бұрын

    Tony is literally the only genuine MAINSTREAM “Coach” out there… I have seen it all, had famous coaches slip into my inbox trying to holler years ago, when I was single. Tony is the truth and that’s why a lot of these others in the same sector hate him

  • @oneandonly3139

    @oneandonly3139

    7 ай бұрын

    Bishop RC Blake as well

  • @catcat9582

    @catcat9582

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@oneandonly3139facts

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    3 ай бұрын

    Ouch.

  • @mommabella20
    @mommabella207 ай бұрын

    I have had plenty of single friends in my life that have tried to push advice about marriage on me and mine. Married 17 years and together 20. Let me tell you something. Those friends have had so many men and women come thru our lives. I can't even remember all they names. If I would have took the advice I would be right where they wanted me to be single and alone just like them. Absolutely not!! Marriage isn't for the weak. It takes work, selflessness, and morals.

  • @ineedhoez

    @ineedhoez

    5 ай бұрын

    So you're saying that your husband has cheated on you and you stayed?

  • @mommabella20

    @mommabella20

    5 ай бұрын

    @ineedhoez I don't understand how you got that from what I said. No, he has not. Not every man cheats. Not every person cheats. We both have morals. We both stand on raising our kids right. We pour into eachother. When that is done correctly, there is no room for anything else. We BOTH built this life together. We stand on principles and Love. Not sex, keeping up with everyone around us and lust.

  • @MarkieMcG.
    @MarkieMcG.7 ай бұрын

    *Being married does not automatically make you a good person to speak to about successful marriages.* My ex-husband and I were married for 15 years and at the 15-year mark, he cheated. Never said he was smart... But he would have had 15 years of "successful marriage" under his belt.. Until the day he didn't.

  • @brittneydavis7846

    @brittneydavis7846

    7 ай бұрын

    Did he ever tell you why?

  • @MarkieMcG.

    @MarkieMcG.

    7 ай бұрын

    @@brittneydavis7846 Yes he did. He said it was his first job around women and pressured by peers. He blamed the Devil. A demon jumped on him. He blamed ME. He even blamed God. Never his fault. I call BS. But, Baby when I tell you... _I DON'T REALLY NEED A REASON._ I've been doing this thankless wife/mom thing for over 15 years and he finally GAVE ME A WAY OUT!!!! He gets 4 day weekend visits with the children every other week. 4 days FREEDOM FOR MEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Bi-Weekly!!!! 8 GLORIOUS DAYS OF SILENCE. 🤌🏾 No more taking care of a grown man like he's a child. Rewashing dookie stains out of his undies. See, I didn't get that before.. I'm blessed. Once you get over the initial shock you're good! Never get married!!! You become a single parent and expected to enjoy it.

  • @cdnicole30

    @cdnicole30

    7 ай бұрын

    He was talking about marriage with god involved. Not just being married

  • @MarkieMcG.

    @MarkieMcG.

    7 ай бұрын

    @@cdnicole30 I hate to tell you but these men have figured out how to fake a relationship with God just to impress you..

  • @Bri-nc8yp

    @Bri-nc8yp

    7 ай бұрын

    ⁠@@MarkieMcG.BW love for their ears to be tickled. All a man has to do is say words and they believe it.🙄 They live in their own delusional world then get hurt when they are disappointed each time. The amount of men especially in the black church that say one thing but live the complete opposite even to their own wife having no idea about their true nature is stagerring. I work in healthcare and you got a lot of married women/pregnant married women getting diagnosed and treated for STI. I’m sure this is not what they signed up for the day they took their vows. I’m sure a lot of their husbands professed to be saved and walked with God. Two blocks from me is a black church the First Lady of that church (The pastor wife) died of AIDS back in 2007. She got it from her husband (the pastor) who was sleeping with men on the side. The wife had no idea because her husband presented as a man who walks with God. He said all the right things and did all the right things in public. I say all this to say that BW think all they have to do is find a godly man and their problems are solved … don’t take into account that man is a MAN he’s not Jesus and he’s not God the Father …he’s a man that is capable of hurting you and that’s the chance you take when getting married. Go into your marriage with your eyes open not closed so you can see the red flags if they should ever come so you may act accordingly.

  • @lelo46
    @lelo467 ай бұрын

    I think people have to understand that most of us have never seen good men in the flesh. I know that’s actually hard to wrap your head around, but most of us haven’t interacted with a good man/father, live in the flesh. Most of their Interactions have been with abusive, sexual, angry, lying or absent men. Not by their own fault either, it’s just what they grew up In. So to see men who value women and their families, is such an abnormal thing. Like a fairytale. This is why what you’re doing is important Shumake, this is why what Tony is doing is important.There are real people that listen to you and are GIVEN hope that there are more people like you out here. And it’s not fake,‘it’s not a movie, y’all are not actors. Representation is CRITICAL in these spaces. As just you saying this, changes sooooooo many lives. Tony will reach ALOT of lives with his message. Tony will encourage a man to be a better man. A woman to trust in God for the desires of her heart, for her love,‘for her purpose, her husband. It’s much bigger than what we think it is.

  • @naye5178
    @naye51787 ай бұрын

    I just think people that are not religious should not listen to religious people that give advice because they wont take it the way its meant.

  • @naturallytajy973

    @naturallytajy973

    7 ай бұрын

    I don’t think you should tell non religious people what to do, as long as a human being can comprehend and the right phrases are used correctly it shouldn’t be a big deal. The only time I don’t listen to someone who is religious is when they use god to promote the devils work.

  • @missmarya747

    @missmarya747

    7 ай бұрын

    Cardinal and spiritual are like night and day. Cardinal/flesh will never understand spiritual.

  • @ohyoulame7269
    @ohyoulame72697 ай бұрын

    Keep speaking up Tony🔥

  • @nicoledavis7320
    @nicoledavis73207 ай бұрын

    Thank you for saying that families need two parent homes.

  • @msshawn4048
    @msshawn40487 ай бұрын

    A friend invited me out to Ace Metaphor show and I was not move at all and the same when I see his reels. The show was sold out but I just didn’t get the hype. It’s a money move for him.

  • @ayingi3461

    @ayingi3461

    7 ай бұрын

    It's about the bag for Ace. He was dissing women a few years ago. Black women shouldn't be trusting Ace.

  • @mjohnson8206

    @mjohnson8206

    7 ай бұрын

    @@ayingi3461exactly Tanya TKO exposed him for this he doesn’t even like BW. Just like KS

  • @curlygirl9023

    @curlygirl9023

    7 ай бұрын

    It is. He’s a wife beater…. And play boy….Lots of ppl know this but some how he is able to keep it under wraps

  • @missj5564

    @missj5564

    7 ай бұрын

    I followed Ace Metaphor for a short while and he shouts too much to get his point accross. I also felt thst he was being insincere.

  • @Bri-nc8yp

    @Bri-nc8yp

    7 ай бұрын

    If you don’t think it’s a money move for Tony Gaskins then I have a bridge to sell you. That’s why TG sells his services as a dating coach for a premium price and not free. That’s why he has his dad on his website also offering dating advice for a price. You can’t always get Tony Gaskins but you can get someone in his family for a PRICE. Every video posted on KZread is put up with the hopes of generating a lot of ad revenue which translate to a KZread check. That’s why he attacks others in the same space as him making BW believe he’s the only one that can lead them to the promise land. It’s to get more traffic to his KZread Channel which translate to higher revenue. That’s why he can say of RC Blake’s “He’s good but I’ve been doing this longer than he has.” That was a backhanded compliment to a man of God (RC Blake’s). That’s why he attacks ACE because ACE is generating a lot of views. His KZread Shorts have popular. They both are going after the same demographic BLACK WOMEN. It’s a business move for TG He boasts about buying his wife a Cartier bracelet or a Louis Vitton Bag . He boasts too much on material possessions he has acquired.

  • @thatgirlyanara
    @thatgirlyanara7 ай бұрын

    We wanna do it our own way yet the one who created marriage already told us how to do it the right way then wanna complain 🥴🤷🏽‍♀️ and I say we cause I been there

  • @JustMeKC

    @JustMeKC

    7 ай бұрын

    AMEN AMEN AMEN!!

  • @mpauli12

    @mpauli12

    6 ай бұрын

    Exactly!

  • @missj5564
    @missj55647 ай бұрын

    There is a dating coach that I used to follow, but I noticed more and more that he is pandering and he is always pushing his books for people to buy or saying things that women want to hear. I also noticed that some of these dating coaches are not married and are giving all this advice. I am using discernment as to which dating advice to listen to.

  • @Simba365

    @Simba365

    7 ай бұрын

    Tony Gaskin is the Derrick Jaxn for Christian women although he does say some good stuff but like pastors also do in the church they pander heavily towards women

  • @missj5564

    @missj5564

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@Simba365I was not referring to Tony Gaskins in my comment, but another dating coach. Tony gives great advice.

  • @dahliaherrod4301

    @dahliaherrod4301

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Simba365 I used to think so too but as I listened to more of his content, I found Tony pretty reasonable and balanced. He holds women to account as well, sometimes it's even harsh. It's unfortunate that a lot of men don't listen to him as he does give advice to men as well. If more men like yourself tuned in, he'd make more content geared towards men. It's just the nature of demand and supply.

  • @MissTiffany01

    @MissTiffany01

    7 ай бұрын

    Stephan speaks?

  • @missj5564

    @missj5564

    7 ай бұрын

    ​​@@MissTiffany01No comment.

  • @mahoganiel6702
    @mahoganiel67027 ай бұрын

    Mr. Gaskins is consistent, God fearing and the truth....periodt. 💯

  • @pamsimmons6428
    @pamsimmons64287 ай бұрын

    Tony is a Soldier For Gods Truth and His Wife 👏🏾💯🙏🏾

  • @OrganicallyYahs
    @OrganicallyYahs7 ай бұрын

    Man I’m so glad to see this. I feel like a bunch hit dogs get to hollering when tony speaks and to finally see another real grown up man appreciate what tony does is so necessary 🙌🏽

  • @ThePinkSage
    @ThePinkSage7 ай бұрын

    Tony has always been honest and he stands on what’s right. I like Ace but Tony is the real deal.

  • @Lakeshahahoward6465
    @Lakeshahahoward64657 ай бұрын

    Tony schooled him like a young brother.

  • @reinaquisha9418
    @reinaquisha94187 ай бұрын

    When you get to know God for real, beyond the surface of what is taught, you receive conviction. You know that you know that you know. Doing things God's way is the only way to truly prosper. Tony helped me a lot with learning men and how they think. I'm forever a supporter because of that. I agree with you Shumake, putting yourself out there and being a testament for others opens you up to spiritual attack. I'm keeping you lifted. Keep doing God's work. It's needed and appreciated. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family. Much love💯

  • @LarennPBel
    @LarennPBel7 ай бұрын

    🩷🩷Ppl gonna pick away at anything they don’t like. Tony seems happy and pleased with what his has been able to do for himself and his life ( rightfully so). He also would like our society to have better structure and change better that leads a life pleasing to Gods. He is Stern and like to live the way according to the Bible and doing the work. (As we all should be doing) Most ppl are not doing that. Tony VOICE NEVER CHANGE SPEAKING TO ACE OR ANY OF THE GUYS ON THE PANEL, but ACE voice was elevated speaking to him. Brother this brother that, Ace should not have taken up so much time in this segment. HARDLY initiated came off like it was plotting to have Ace online. ( that was messy) Whom ever to invite Tony on there platform should be aware of how he moves and viewpoint from online. If u don’t like it then don’t watch it and leave it for those who want the message.

  • @SweetTreatsBy_Marie

    @SweetTreatsBy_Marie

    7 ай бұрын

    Agreed

  • @SLR.e14
    @SLR.e147 ай бұрын

    Tony Gaskins message needs to be heard more often in this generation For both Men & Women TG is spot on 💯

  • @L25thadon

    @L25thadon

    6 ай бұрын

    No it not. Tony Gawkins is a impressive simp!

  • @blackgirlmagic1111
    @blackgirlmagic11117 ай бұрын

    Thank God for men like you and Tony who are not only thinking about whats in their pants and their pockets but about the future of our community. Blessings on both of your lives as you bless and guide other men and make a difference!

  • @gwendolynrobinson3725
    @gwendolynrobinson37257 ай бұрын

    I'm team Mr. Tony Gaskins.❤ Way to go Tony!!

  • @Bri-nc8yp

    @Bri-nc8yp

    7 ай бұрын

    I’m Team Jesus I don’t put any stock in any man because men fail and let people down all the time. Men say one thing but do another behind closed doors.

  • @tlashai9902
    @tlashai99027 ай бұрын

    I love Tony Gaskins, that man is my brother in spirit.

  • @BubbasJuice2145
    @BubbasJuice21457 ай бұрын

    We need children teenagers young adults, and adults to understand sex before marriage is not supposed to be if you’re having sex before marriage you have already brought a disturbance to the peace that is supposed to be a union of virginity. Both people are supposed to be clear so they have no expectations. Walking in to this lifelong commitment they’re making to each other. Oh yes, by the way marriages are lifelong commitment, if back then I know what I know today life would be different and I guess a lot of us look at this if we can go back to change one or two things. We must start holding ourselves and our families accountable for their actions that could be before marriage is wrong and people are just sharing things you can’t get rid of good conversation guys.!!!

  • @NadiaAlyse
    @NadiaAlyse7 ай бұрын

    We’re breaking generational curses. Period 🙏🏽

  • @HrglassHealer
    @HrglassHealer7 ай бұрын

    Truth be told having both parents in the household is great but if one or both parents are toxic the child/children are better off with the healthy parent….toxicity affects the child/children!!

  • @mahogany_honey
    @mahogany_honey7 ай бұрын

    There's a relationship podcast bubble that's getting ready to burst as we go into 2024... ijs ....

  • @Bri-nc8yp

    @Bri-nc8yp

    7 ай бұрын

    Yup and they all want a slice of the biggest pie… that’s all this is about for Tony Gaskins. It’s a business strategy because he has a problem with everyone who enters this space. Pastor RC Blake’s and him have the same message “ Marriage is the goal and don’t have $3x outside marriage” yet Tony said “he’s good but I’ve been doing this a lot longer than he has” The real problem is not the messaging TG has a problem with the problem is having more and more people enter this space of giving relationship advice and profiting off his bread and butter. His target audience is black women because black women show support with their WALLETS and Tony doesn’t want to spilt that demographic he wants to corner the market and get the most traffic to his business which translates to higher revenue and a larger KZread check.

  • @jamieanitabryant3699

    @jamieanitabryant3699

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@Bri-nc8yp What I hear you saying, sounds like McDonalds's is mad at Wendy's for building restaurants across the street from them. I am not in Tony Gaskins’s household, so take this with a grain of salt. I do not believe or see that Tony Gaskins is projecting greed for ‘money, money, money'. May I suggest listening to about 25 - 50 of Tony Gaskins’s KZread messages out of hundreds, upon hundreds, and you will find, possibly, a broader perspective. KZread is NOT Tony and Sheri Gaskins only or main income source. He has coached National Basketball teams and professional individuals throughout the years. He has helped others to become coaches, and to serve their sphere of influence. Some people may never have a KZread page. Some have never listened to Tony Gaskins before, and still have benefited from those of us who do listen to Tony Gaskins. I am not a person who judges others. I am a 'fruit inspector'. So those who produce good fruit, I listen to and then test and verify what they are sharing. We all can do this to sift out what is productive for our lives. Honestly, no matter the source, we have to learn to test a spirit against another spirit to learn their origin. Then move with prudence to protect ourselves from wolves.

  • @tcturner522
    @tcturner5227 ай бұрын

    Tony is my mentor-I signed up with his mentorship program! He IS THE TRUTH! He’s authentic and very real! He’s passionate about our culture and US winning. What he’s saying is absolutely correct! We need more men that can actually lead from a place of wisdom and love!

  • @themilkaint4free
    @themilkaint4free7 ай бұрын

    Absolutely, ACCOUNTABILITY is a must from the pulpit to our home and all in-between!

  • @SC-nl2cw
    @SC-nl2cw7 ай бұрын

    If there's progress, we're going to FEEL it. - Tony Gaskins

  • @BubbasJuice2145
    @BubbasJuice21457 ай бұрын

    Hi five Tony Gaskins I’ve been watching you for the last three years four years and you’ve been on point every time I was married to my first husband for 40 years. Our commitment was never to let anyone in between me and him not our children not our family no one. And I am waiting for my next husband because I will not be out here in the streets fornicating with people for pleasure. I’m looking for a life partner who I can share the rest of my life with. Shumake Your channel is on point too. You speak truth and you speak the Bible and that’s how you should learn the Bible by being taught by someone who is actually reading the Bible when they speak to you and layman’s terms.,

  • @robinnewton1061
    @robinnewton10617 ай бұрын

    I watch and listen to you Shumake and Gaskin. You both are the real deal ❤❤❤❤.

  • @Sunny-tc3ul
    @Sunny-tc3ul7 ай бұрын

    I never heard Ace give dating advice he usually tell women specifically what to look for in a relationship. To avoid red flags, what to look for as a red flag. Don’t be gullible for the 1st man that says “I love you.” Love you 1st, heal so you can be be loved and know how to love. I never heard him give advice. Even on his show he doesn’t give advice. He asks a lot of questions. They should invite Tony to their show because real people do be asking real questions. It’s one female on there and a light skin brother be speaking facts.

  • @TomikaKelly

    @TomikaKelly

    7 ай бұрын

    Telling women "what to look out for" IS giving advice...

  • @meansnas
    @meansnas7 ай бұрын

    Appreciate the work you & Tony do! We support you both! 🫶🏾🙌🏾

  • @Joy-eh7le
    @Joy-eh7le7 ай бұрын

    Thank you very much brother. You always bless us positively with good messages and information.

  • @zaidasantiago3125
    @zaidasantiago31257 ай бұрын

    Tony Gaskins is on point! I love him and what he promotes. Keep letting your light shine.

  • @Hermothersdaughter665
    @Hermothersdaughter6657 ай бұрын

    Quite frankly I'm not intrested in American unmarried men constantly beating me over the head with relationship advice.

  • @ladiuneeq9789

    @ladiuneeq9789

    7 ай бұрын

    They can't beat you over the head with relationship advice if you're not listening to them.

  • @amaradominique

    @amaradominique

    6 ай бұрын

    Me either because I am married and wish they would just shut the heck up.

  • @MzSlim38
    @MzSlim387 ай бұрын

    The key word is intentionally! People are in relationships not being intentional about their partner. You need to be intentional with your love, body, heart! Relationships whether married or dating need to be intentional!

  • @quincysthillaire
    @quincysthillaire7 ай бұрын

    TG is doing the lords work they ambushed the brother!!

  • @meekmeek8198

    @meekmeek8198

    7 ай бұрын

    Yes they did

  • @Insightful_Locs
    @Insightful_Locs7 ай бұрын

    I don’t agree 100% with Tony on this one…although dating for marriage is the goal, that doesn’t mean every advice from a single person is invalid. Plus a married person is not even in the dating world, so sometimes their advice may even be outdated ..dating in the 90’s and dating now are two completely different things . But i also see the other side to it and understand how taking advice from a single person who has never been married can look silly when marriage is your goal 😅

  • @jashaehall154

    @jashaehall154

    7 ай бұрын

    Aye you have a good point! But on the flip side these ppl are labeled ‘coaches’ so that’s probably why Tony was stern on his opinion.

  • @Insightful_Locs

    @Insightful_Locs

    7 ай бұрын

    @@jashaehall154 everybody gotta make their money some way, 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @cynthiadickerson5403

    @cynthiadickerson5403

    7 ай бұрын

    Dating is different in any decade if you are not dating while having a relationship with God.

  • @erikagray8504
    @erikagray85047 ай бұрын

    You and Tony are the truth!❤

  • @amourkae6585
    @amourkae65854 ай бұрын

    My heart is so happy with this channel & Tony’s as well! Thank you ❤

  • @britannybrewton
    @britannybrewton7 ай бұрын

    God bless you! I remember watching your videos when you were doing them in a vechile. You're going far! Thank you for being an influence. We need more men like you and Tony. 🙏🏽