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@Kintaku

4 жыл бұрын

Haven't seen Chris in a few of these. Hope he's doing alright. Keep up the good work y'all.

@joerockmore1027

4 жыл бұрын

The Roommates Podcast how can I get in contact with you when it comes to bring Strategic Gentlemen on your podcast?

I'm convinced Todd only owns one shirt. The rest of his closet is womens bras and underwear

@emaritx8178

4 жыл бұрын

Ty for making me laugh I was having rough morning

@DanteLikesRock

4 жыл бұрын

If you look closely youll notice he has around 3 or 4 shirts :D

@KingBowserVlog

4 жыл бұрын

Gold

@naitsirk32

4 жыл бұрын

Great freaking comment! Also big ups for him to get girls even without high fashion clothes

@SandStormXII

4 жыл бұрын

Lol

I originally came here for Todd but this dude's interview skills are amazing! You've earned yourself a subscriber my guy.

@sheafisher3578

4 жыл бұрын

A Talking Afro Agreed.

@Capana00

Жыл бұрын

That's interesting...what would you say are a couple of things that make his interviewing skills amazing for you?

Todd is a beast. He actually explains the psychology and social context behind what’s being said. Too many pick up artists give a plan A plan B plan C approach without actually knowing anything.

"Compare yourself only to your previous self" man thats deep

@adunnou2075

3 жыл бұрын

Seth Kun you need some jordan peterson in your life

@akirathearchibald7958

3 жыл бұрын

@@adunnou2075 dont worry man i already know him 3 years ago

Todd is a true alpha male. Even "Marriage" on his own terms and rules. A true man of abundance

Todd is a living legend at this point.

I like how eloquently he responded to your mundane question about differences between approaching different girls based on race. His response was so much more accurate to the differences....it’s not because she’s black or white it’s because of her experiences how she was raised etc....don’t stereotype because you don’t want to be put in a bubble then why do it to women?

@irenejag6717

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!

Haven't watched yet but already know its gonna be good

@hansverdieu7770

4 жыл бұрын

Your movie is hilarious. Did the virgin meet the girl later

@avoidantbehavior

4 жыл бұрын

Best movie of 2020

@OwnD1

4 жыл бұрын

#VirginSquad

@sincord1

4 жыл бұрын

You knowing bout Todd kind of explains a lot lol

@linsearsworld5280

4 жыл бұрын

Budddddy 😄

Todd is the only one left that is the purest form of “dating”

@naitsirk32

4 жыл бұрын

Millennials Empowerment i agree, however I really liked RSD Max too, but that is dead now so now ToddV is the only one left

@josuastangl7140

4 жыл бұрын

@@naitsirk32 yeah RIP Max, really liked his stuff.

@naitsirk32

4 жыл бұрын

Josua Stangl me too dude, very relatable and no nonsense attitude

@o0SayNoMore0o

4 жыл бұрын

James tusk, Aaron Alexander, Deepak Wayne & AMS are all pretty good

@archiebaws

3 жыл бұрын

Anyone remember Julian from RSD? 😂

ive been coached by Todd . hes the real deal

@emirmaslo4054

4 жыл бұрын

And did you fawk ?

@ErK61

4 жыл бұрын

Thank god his wisdom has been bestowed upon you. Now you know to avoid those models and 10’s! They’re all bad news!!

@Lerossignol94

4 жыл бұрын

Did you get results?

Todd is for sure the one of the greatest of all time in the dating game

@zareeftashfique8168

4 жыл бұрын

fols adetola he is the no1 that Rsd talks about

@orysher

4 жыл бұрын

Hes the goat.

Todd has been putting me on game for years. He's the only "PUA" who doesn't come off as gimmicky or coked out of his mind. His style of game helped me out so much because he shows you can be a bit lower energy and still control social situations.

Todd is one of the few remain pickup guys that actually know what they're talking about

Lmao, ya'll always to quick shit on Pickup and call it manipulation. You learn how to do every single thing in life. Meeting women should be one of them, instead of being creepy about it. At the end, everybody wins. Enough with the stigma. There is good and bad in every sphere in life. This was a very good episode Hafeez. We appreciate the good content.

@alecel1450

4 жыл бұрын

#Truth

@eget4144

4 жыл бұрын

It is like make up. Men prefer women who cares about her body. I think women prefer men who take charge and dont act like their pussy.

@endthefed1448

4 жыл бұрын

People calling PUA manipulation need to explain what makeup is, what the mental games women play are etc.. gynocracy is strong in society today

@andrebaxter4023

3 жыл бұрын

@@eget4144 , facts.

@andrebaxter4023

3 жыл бұрын

@Tee Abdul, exactly.

Love the authenticity and return of interest from this conversation. Great interviewer and Todd is remarkable.

This is what podcasts are all about yall. Please forgoe others personal to your individual values and opinions,and the way you choose to see things. We come together to have open decorem and hear others out that we don't agree with and that's ok, it's got to be how were moving forward with each other. Great shit man..

Yoooooo y’all got Todd??? I’m soo stoked for this!!!🔥🙏🏿😭

@TheRoommatesPodcast

4 жыл бұрын

you enjoyed

@Justfitz1

4 жыл бұрын

The Roommates Podcast I did it was a great episode! You guys keep doing your thing! I’m very happy I found you two!

@ice4659

3 жыл бұрын

@@Justfitz1 ! ! !

todd motivates me so much so laid back and down to earth

Bro, this was an excellent interview. You posed some quality questions to Todd who is a very cerebral guy. Great work!

Todd is the GOAT of the PUA community

Y’all Got Todd? Hell Yeaahh ! Way to step it up 🔥

Todd is so great, his ideas actually work,great stuff, thank you

@TheRoommatesPodcast

4 жыл бұрын

thank you

This was insightful- Todd’s a good speaker

Todd can see 2 seconds into the future

You asking some dam good questions my brotha

Everybody is talking about how much of a master Todd is - but can we take a moment to appreciate how good of an interviewer Hafeez is? Conversations like that are only possible if the partner has the ability to lead an interview in the manner he does! He is prepared for his guests, he has the ability to give engaging, open questions, he elaborates on his thoughts but then gives room for his interviewée to really elaborate themselves! In the end it makes it really compelling to listen to for the audience!

Just found this podcast because of Todd. That was a great episode

@SATULAL

4 жыл бұрын

This was me just 24 hours ago! Great podcast indeed!

This is such alignment I was watching Todd V a year and a half ago before I got into self improvement

This is my second time watching this interview. I enjoyed it even more this second time I watched it. You do an excellent job of pulling out great info from your guests. Would love to see you interview Coach Kyle. He used to be a student of Todd. And, he has his own unique style of game which is based upon some of Todd's concepts.

@SherlockMen

4 жыл бұрын

I've spotted a lot of similarities in Coach Kyle's teaching. No surprise he was Todd's student. Very cool :D

Nice podcast, to the point and encompasses most of todd’s beliefs and ideas.

This isn't the crossover we ask for... but it's the one we needed

Todd V gives the best dating advise.

I feel like both of these guys prepared well for this interview

Such good advice for guys. I have been so discouraged with the character of the guys that I have been in contact with. It is so important for guys to remember that good women do not want a guy who is interested in all the girls. We understand that you are a person too, how else do you meet someone unless you just start somewhere.

great interview, thanks!

Attractiveness and looks is important but I find it interesting how it's always the #1 for these guys then complain about failing relationships. I'm not saying date Rosie O'Donnell but if you cant hold a conversation but she's a dime piece, we'll i guess you deserve what you get.

@ErK61

4 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU. I can’t believe how this guy is “getting away with” generalizing that models and 10s and hot girls are all “bad”. It’s rly ignorant and childish

@quinntolchin3080

3 жыл бұрын

E K trust me, Todd is the least generalizing person out there, dude is hyper nuanced in actuality. Can’t get a good grasp of him in one interview

@ErK61

3 жыл бұрын

I hear u. Maybe he doesn’t generalize in other areas but when it comes to the way he talks about models and hot girls it’s bogus. A talk he gives to a bunch of dudes in another vid- He harps on this story abt spending the night w 2 models and proceeds to harshly criticize everything about them. Painting them out to be total trash to make a point about models in general. And it’s rly unfortunate bc there’s going to be a bunch of dudes who eat this up and missing out on women w certain professions which aren’t always long term. FOR SAKE OF ARGUMENT and not ego (my name isn’t on my profile etc)- A few of my girlfriends that I model with and I are all getting quality educations, date good guys who aren’t male models and just authentic good people - who are sometimes physically “untraditionally attractive”, ones at harvard, one is a lawyer, Myself a therapist and so on. So for people who say don’t watch it then/why do you care... It manifests in our lives. We end up having frustrating interactions with dudes who in some way or another express this negative opinion about us and it becomes our responsibility to disprove it. It’s really doing a disservice to men who are minimizing their dating pool.

@railander

3 жыл бұрын

@@ErK61 so Todd did really hurt your ego uh? No one cares about models. Get over it.

Thats is one hour free info for anyone. Thank you.

Big Todd fan but had never heard of the podcast host. Pleasant surprise, seems super chill

Great Interview!

great interview!!!

( 52:00 ) This is interesting. There was a study made how the subject could only choose one prize from a group of 3. The subjects had a hard time choosing 1 but after a week they were asked if they would like to change their prize and they were less likely to change because they had history w/ it. This also applies to wemdn to an extent.

Todd always dropping gems!

OMG I cant believe someone agreed with me on this I always say that. Romance is Masculine/ man thing way more than it is a feminem thing

Yooooo this is gold !!

The one video of this guy that has stuck with me the most is when he talked about being polite. If i'm ever a douche bag, i'm embarrassed and i know it's always a sign of weakness. being polite and considerate

Awesome conversation! I have never heard of Todd V and now I am going to check him out.

@razzdiamond6447

4 жыл бұрын

I've been following Todd V for years but I've never heard of Stephan Labossiere till this past month. Do you follow him as well?

@BetterLoveMovement

4 жыл бұрын

@@razzdiamond6447 yes, I do. I have a couple of his books as well. We have a similar style of coaching, for sure.

@BetterLoveMovement

4 жыл бұрын

@TripJay21 You might be surprised as I give advice that a lot of women hate! I'm always open to oppositional dating and relationship advice. I welcome the conversation for sure. I will NEVER cosign the "hook-up" culture though! It's mentally damaging to people, men and women. I heard him talk about his "open" relationship with his child's mother and I don't agree with that as it truly benefits HIM more than her! I wonder what would happen if she did decide to date other men (i.e: better men than him!)?

@razzdiamond6447

4 жыл бұрын

@@BetterLoveMovement I'll be sure to check out the both of you. I'm very open to hearing different ideas on dating and social interaction in general.

@BetterLoveMovement

4 жыл бұрын

@@razzdiamond6447 thank you! Please check out my podcast and videos on KZread. This discussion is giving me some content for my next video for sure!

He's good with his words. I agree with much of what he said

I can’t believe they actually got him on the podcast 😂😂. It’s like watching 2 shows at the same time

Bruh im gonna start watching this podcast regularly. My dudes got Todd v.

@SandStormXII

4 жыл бұрын

Lol

Great interview

Good conversation. May have to listen to this again. Todd V has deep understanding of game. Surprised to hear he has a kid now.

@starrjohnson1327

4 жыл бұрын

He probably had one because he wants to be a father. He seems pretty mature. He probably planned it

You got Todd ..... Yeah boy!!!

todd is a LEGEND! most sophisticated dating coach out there

This was a beautiful podcast episode

@TheRoommatesPodcast

4 жыл бұрын

thank you

What Todd said 43:30 is so on point, I have and seen countless of other guys behave that same way - get very excited about some girl who showed the faintest of interest. I also agree with guys getting overly invested because of a lack of options, one thing I've thought about when I find myself "lonely" or craving a relationship is this - "do I actually want a GF or do I just want convenient sex" - to be honest, I can't tell anymore.

Thanks for doing this interview with Todd V. Last recommendation helped me with texting occasionally because you just never know. It would be cool for you to interview Valentino Cohen. He is one of the best in dating and life advices.

Really a great interview

Coming across eligable & attractive women with character on the regular would be so so so nice.

@kourtney8850

4 жыл бұрын

Junior Ducatel Where are you from? I’m in Charlotte, NC and I feel similar to how you feel only in regards to men. I know they’re out here but 👀....lol.... 🤷🏾‍♀️

@ErK61

4 жыл бұрын

Same goes for men 👍🏼

Todd: Hafeez: hahaha yeah yeah hahaha yeah

@veronikastrickler3924

4 жыл бұрын

36:03

What are some good go-to's early in an interaction if you're having trouble thinking of something to say? Not necessarily canned lines, just general things that easily lead to more conversation. For example, I think a good one is "I thought you looked interesting and wanted to say hi, ..." and then follow it up with pretty much anything unique or interesting you can observe about her like her choice of clothing or hairstyle or hair color or her demeanor or the way she carries herself, etc. It's very easy to just kind of improvise something on the spot and I think lines like these that have very intuitive follow ups can be pretty helpful for someone who's maybe just starting out. It might not be the best approach or the coolest or whatever, but it's something you can sort if build off of instead of just having an awkward interaction where you don't know what to say.

Ladies and roommates,we have just hit a next level shit up in here. This guy has been the one who sticks in the trenches,making the calls to people and getting the nos,other homie has his own stuff going. But brother no matter what any of these people criticizing in commentsyself included,but while your actually doing. Proud of ya fam,keep learning,keep working, and keep putting that foot forward cause it inspires me too.

Great job by both of you

"across the board in life, but especially in game, is if you truly accept who you are and are okay with it, it's very very hard to lose a social interaction like to lose I mean like to be low value in a social interaction if you really are okay with who you are." (59:40 - 1:00:05) - Todd Valentine To anyone watching this, the quote above is perhaps the strongest piece of advice Todd has ever given. If you apply it correctly, you can become socially indestructible within my opinion. More often than not people are told, "Be yourself!" This advice is honestly helpful, but without a properly detailed explanation of its meaning, people can lose themselves in applying it. From my experience, I have found being yourself is to align yourself with your beliefs and passions. When learning game, I would copy Todd's lines like, "You look like trouble." There is nothing inherently wrong with this line, but if it is used un-authentically when you do not actually think the girl looks like trouble, here I believe it becomes unauthentic. You would not be spontaneous and neither would you be passionate saying it. If you look at the girl and preferably think she looks sweet, cute, mischievous, --- say that instead. In game, there are strong risks of embarrassing yourself, and maybe even making yourself feel guilty through others disliking you. If you however, don't think or feel what you did was wrong, never lower yourself because of it: There are 8 billion people in the world, all of whom could be potential friends or romantic partners. If these hypothetical group of people do not like you, who are probably assholes in the first place, it wasn't meant to be; go find a crowd which genuinely appreciates you, there is PLENTY of them.

You look worn man! "Thank you I appreciate that" Shit test, passed

@SherlockMen

4 жыл бұрын

Hahahah

16:57 this part is so good.

Jordan Peterson was the psychologist you were trying to think of that said we have more female ancestors.

@arthurandrews113

4 жыл бұрын

And possibly Bret Weinstein

@Dance1617

3 жыл бұрын

He's not even close to be the first person to talk about that.

Epic!!

@TheRoommatesPodcast

4 жыл бұрын

thank you

Amazing I struggle with some of those things 🙄

Loved every second.

Todd is the GOAT.

I really like this man, impressed

Shame that Todd had to be the one to tell you not to stereotype regarding the black girl from NYC Hafeez smh

@MyAkachi

4 жыл бұрын

It's so shameful; many people do this but don't know. As a black woman, sometimes I've been on dates with white guys (okay, this only happened once), and toward the end he was like, "I thought you'd have a lot of sass and 'attitude', but you're really nice - it's a pleasant surprise". And then it hit me! Before meeting me 1-1, he already had assumptions placed on me based on the profile of the stereotypical angry black woman. I was like damnnnn. I'm sure he didn't mean it in a bad way at all, but his statement exposed his preconceived notions regarding people like myself (which he had projected onto me before we had even met for a first date).

@irenejag6717

3 жыл бұрын

True!

@zainvirk97

3 жыл бұрын

@@MyAkachi i just have to ask what brings a girl to a redpill chanel featuring a pua ? i just never understood that

@MyAkachi

3 жыл бұрын

@@zainvirk97 KZread recommendations man. Leading me to interesting places 😂 hahah.

I just started going out. Slow progress for massive compounding returns. Glad I found this talk. Specially Todd, I kinda have a road map on how to keep going.

@pembertonbray4603

4 жыл бұрын

Please don't use this as a roadmap. Ok I am noticing by the comments that a lot of people who watched this are early 20ish. Baby let me tell you I'm 40 and even men want to have a "good" woman in their life when they get old. Don't play games. Work on yourself. Set the proper boundaries and limitations. Live the life you want to live and you will meet the person you want to be with. If you believe you are deserving of a healthy relationship with a good woman you will get that. Don't start this bs because believe me when I say it may be fun at 20 but it is sad at 40 50. And since that is what you have practiced for the last 20-30 years your mindset isn't just going to switch because you want to settle down. You will find "the one" and sabotage it subconsciously because you are so use to treating and thinking of women in such a way. Then you will blame her but it was really you. Yes you get hurt being the good guy but you also get hurt being the bad guy. The strategy he is talking about only works in real life if you have a lot of money or you are dating bottom buck insecure women. Then what type of person are you if you have to pay for female attention or prey on the weak?

@folatooreal8582

4 жыл бұрын

Tyree Bray I’d rather take dating advice from someone that has experience vs someone who has just lived a lot of years

@rubenjr4908

4 жыл бұрын

@@pembertonbray4603 Please leave this poor guy alone. Most men already know about your advice. If it worked we wouldn't be here. You are only hurting men with that or worse, encouraging men not to learn how to attract women. Todd has been approaching ALL types of women from all over the world for 20 years straight. He outranks you in terms of real world advice.

@pembertonbray4603

4 жыл бұрын

@@rubenjr4908 No dear bullshit just attracts alot of flies. You have no idea how much dating I've done. If I've played Todd's little game or if I'm a nun. People gravitate to want validates their behavior even if it's shit. It's easier than attempting the problem is you.

@pembertonbray4603

4 жыл бұрын

@@folatooreal8582 Who says I don't have many years of dating experience. I've probably been dating longer than you've been alive.

Great podcast. I also think that not only do guys get more attached to a girl because they have fewer options, but also guys are attracted to a girl's physical appearance so you don't really need much time to get to know her, whereas for a girl she's more attracted to other characteristics in a guy (eg. money, social status, personality, etc.) so the short interaction you have with a girl isn't gonna to showcase enough of that for her to be attracted to you.

Great video !!! Just could u up the volume a bit please thank you.

Exactly Me vs Me!!

@TheRoommatesPodcast

4 жыл бұрын

lol

How have i never seen this...Todd v is liiiit

Todd is the best

Todd V is so insightful! I love his videos. I’m not surprised to hear he’s in an open relationship. He’s a guy open to real discussions and setting his own boundaries. Great conversation!

@rubenjr4908

4 жыл бұрын

I wish there were more women like you that try to understand first, instead of shaming. I'm not lying when I say that Todd and the other OG puas are saving lives. Both men and women of all sexualities look to them for guidence, myself included. But most women in the comment section just think of themselves.

FINALLY! someone is addressing the proverbial elephant in the room. #doublestandards #egoandpride #lackofaccountability

the one and only todd

Todd is sharp as a razor 🪒

Todd is the real deal

bruh Todd's marriage seems like paradise. Almost too good to be true lol

the Goat time

Good vid bro, good vid!

@TheRoommatesPodcast

4 жыл бұрын

thank you

I have an answer for the last question on this podcast. Texting is for setting dates. Shouldn't really text much outside of that. Also, communication is like a game of tennis. Back and forth. It's best to wait for her to respond before sending another text. Otherwise you'll come off as needy.

@alexforce9

4 жыл бұрын

I see someone had watched the videos of coach corey :D

@andrebaxter4023

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexforce9 , true. 😃

best part, wow Todd you are awesome man. i cant stop laughing. Great video thank u for posting it. go check out the System by Todd you will be glad u did it!!!!! Thank u Todd, and yea you are awesome man!!!!!!

It would be interesting to have James Marshall from "The Natural Lifestyles" on your podcast. He is in the same industry as your guest and he does many amazing things with his crew. Shout out to Todd! Keep up the good work.

_dis week on roomatez_

Great content. Just the sound is too low.

Todd’s gone mainstream

Is he the only host from here on out? I hope the co host is doing okay...😕🙁

@TheRoommatesPodcast

4 жыл бұрын

he's coming back dont worry

I like the Matt Chandler shout out

Eh Todd. Where is Owen and Julian and the gang. We were obsessed with RSD back in the day... really helped if you take it all in.

You need to get Corey Wayne on this podcast to help assist w/ your dating questions

@jorgegarcia-figueroa8702

4 жыл бұрын

Hopefully, he doesn't bring on Donovan Sharpe or Rollo Tomassi. Not Donovan Sharpe (Mr. Red Pillar, himself), please!!!

@zareeftashfique8168

4 жыл бұрын

Jorge Garcia-Figueroa rollomtomassi would still be better than Corey Wayne at the end of the day

For all the people who disagree with him about his marriage views, can you explain what you disagree with so we can have a discussion?

55:13 Thank you! :)

I try to think of it like cold call when a cold call goes wrong i just move on to the next